self sabotaging yourself in your 30s *silent vlog*

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ต.ค. 2024

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  • @xopi2521
    @xopi2521 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was a loner all my adult life. It’s still hard to find people who are interesting and who I really connect with but now that I’m older I experience loneliness. It’s sad and I’m trying to change but I live in a shallow, superficial place. Hope the changes I’m making will enrich my life. I will always need time to myself but I’d like to have more friends in my life.

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@xopi2521 🙌 yes that is what I struggle with also, surface level people when I am such a person with depth. Thank you for sharing and taking the time to write on this video, I appreciate it 🖤

  • @monagirlnyc5781
    @monagirlnyc5781 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So LOVE the way your mind works Twin!!! And the new chest of drawers and Winston's new faux fur throw are FABULOUS!! We deserve Nice Things!!! ❤🙏🏼

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@monagirlnyc5781 you are so kind as always 🖤 I love that I am attracting like minded people here it makes everything feel so aligned 🙌

  • @elizabethwheatman8526
    @elizabethwheatman8526 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the room update. Thanks for another relaxing video 💕

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elizabethwheatman8526 thank you! I didn’t know if you all would mind me talking for a bit in the vlog 🖤

    • @elizabethwheatman8526
      @elizabethwheatman8526 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@the_loner_diaries Not at all! :)

  • @AfricancoolChic
    @AfricancoolChic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lovely vlog 🖤🩶🖤 love the changes you've made. The throw looks so soft, also looks like it would make me sneeze loads 🤧.

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AfricancoolChic hahaha 🤣 let’s just say it gets all over my black clothes, it’s like having a third dog haha

    • @AfricancoolChic
      @AfricancoolChic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂​@@the_loner_diaries

  • @mahafeitosa
    @mahafeitosa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This one hits a spot for me. In my experience I learnt that self sabotage has so much to do with fear, and fear really is a mind killer. A few years of regular meditation have been an essential part of my journey in conquering some fears and insecurities. Thank you for the share

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mahafeitosa and I am proud you’re aware of what you were doing and took action to take control of your mind, that demonstrates huge growth that you should be proud of also 🖤

    • @mahafeitosa
      @mahafeitosa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@the_loner_diaries 🧡

  • @musicplay664
    @musicplay664 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another inspiring vlog .. and love the faux fur throw ❤

  • @Adrian-AosFotos-Irish
    @Adrian-AosFotos-Irish 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you have a hobbies .....great for the mind ...happiness ? Nice one 👍.

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Adrian-AosFotos-Irish I love to write 📚

  • @SpecialMarco
    @SpecialMarco หลายเดือนก่อน

    Luckily, I never experienced self-sabotage.
    As usual, your routine has a relaxing effect on me.
    The way your puppy looks at you in the final is SOOOOO SWEET. You have to search for a partner that looks at you alike 😃
    Thanks for sharing this piece of your life.
    I send you a big hug, positive thoughts and a sea of affection.

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SpecialMarco hahaha that’s why they say date a man that looks at you like food is coming to the table at a restaurant 😂🙌

    • @SpecialMarco
      @SpecialMarco หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@the_loner_diaries OMG! What do you do awake? Isn't heat of night in your city now? Are you a masked vigilante like Batgirl and are you having a break from your night criminal hunt?

  • @jessecastilla4559
    @jessecastilla4559 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My first time watching your TH-cam channel 🥰

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am so thankful you're here 🖤

  • @joannachmielinska8184
    @joannachmielinska8184 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great room update !!:) another great video ❤️❤️❤️!!!

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joannachmielinska8184 🥺🥺🥺 love this community 🙌🖤

    • @joannachmielinska8184
      @joannachmielinska8184 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And we love You😊😊😊You are part of our lives now❤

  • @heyheyitsvey
    @heyheyitsvey 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @rachgeorgia9993
    @rachgeorgia9993 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your tattoos are amazingly beautiful!!!

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rachgeorgia9993 thank you so much, they are little pieces of my journey and soul so I appreciate this 🖤

  • @erichbobbitt9012
    @erichbobbitt9012 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just my personal opinion, but as a person of faith I’m a Christian and I don’t read the secret or read cards btw I’m not sure what those cards were exactly. I do study my Bible which is a must daily. I must put God first or else everything else falls apart. Anyways great video as always! God bless

    • @the_loner_diaries
      @the_loner_diaries  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@erichbobbitt9012 religion and spirituality are different paths that lead us to believe in something bigger than ourselves and encourage us to do better and be better which I love 🖤

    • @AfricancoolChic
      @AfricancoolChic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's interesting... I'm a non-denominational Christian and I've been reading cards for 20 years. I enjoyed reading 'The secret', but found the documentary and online community culty, just like a lot of religious denominations. My relationship with God is a very personal one. You should read about King James (king James bible), you'll be surprised to find out the shocking things he did and the type of person he was.