Autistic son refusing school again

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  • @lash5936
    @lash5936 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I used to work in a school like where Andy is and you are spot on...it's all about £££... which is so wrong when its playing with people's lives!!you both doing a great job mate 👍
    When you are back at work next week do you still intend to vlog?.

    • @kevinchapmanvlog
      @kevinchapmanvlog  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Luke Ashford yep, I'll still be vlogging every day

  • @clairerobertson4442
    @clairerobertson4442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My daughter will not go to school, doctors, dentist, hates hospitals, has anxiety, fears everything, struggling with the school attendance, they even offered her to start at 10am- 12 with a pkt lunch, still doesn't interest her. Stuck, ihave FND and her refusals and anxiety stress me.

    • @asmrebecca
      @asmrebecca ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've gone through that with my son. Hope your situation has improved ❤❤❤

    • @PaigeRobins-ky4qc
      @PaigeRobins-ky4qc ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@asmrebeccame too wish you luck.🌠🙏🫂🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @clairerobertson4442
    @clairerobertson4442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Head teacher told me "I think your 2 different people one at school and one at home, because your not like that here". It wasn't helpful. My daughter just wants chocolate, hardly eats, it's all v hard work.

  • @jeromefm8651
    @jeromefm8651 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You know, Kev...
    I allmost start to wonder why Andy doesn't like the school? What happened what made him not like this school?
    You and Anna do the best you can to get him to school. You did the best to inform all involved regarding Andy refusing to go to school.
    I think it is better to look for another school for Andy before July or August, mainly because this refusing to go to school never happened before. If going to a school gives that many issues, I think it doesn't matter what the school wants or acknowledge or admitting them not being able to add up to his needs.
    Goodluck, good espisode!

  • @jamesmurray2063
    @jamesmurray2063 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hope all the best for you mate :) great dad 🖒

  • @chris-ew6dz
    @chris-ew6dz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your son is the best 👏👏👏

  • @rhyspeter4682
    @rhyspeter4682 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love watching the vlog first thing! Glad I'm up for it! Traveling to London got some strange looks on the bus lol

  • @Quedron
    @Quedron 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There are lots of benefits to being limited, you could of set it up yourself my friend, takes a few minutes :-)

  • @videobirdshow
    @videobirdshow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OH MY GOODNESS, lots of kids refuse to go to school

  • @marjanf56
    @marjanf56 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    good daddy you ahve to set limits!!

  • @YusufKhan-xl4ko
    @YusufKhan-xl4ko 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry about both my comments being late as I'm new to your channel I subscribed and also has he left that school to the school he wants

    • @kevinchapmanvlog
      @kevinchapmanvlog  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +the yuzter no, he’s still at the same school

    • @YusufKhan-xl4ko
      @YusufKhan-xl4ko 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lollujo Vlogs oh ok hopefully you'll get the school you need

  • @g.g.baxter4868
    @g.g.baxter4868 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thought id head over to the lazy students guide so I could meet this david chapman lol, turns out he lies, thought his videos were always less than five mins? 1st vid 9mins lmao, only joking. On Andy like I said id slowly be introducing a routine to him where u can slot school into in September, but more importantly Anna can do it without you, without leaving the house and with the possibility of reduced kick offs, maybe he doesn't go school but misses fraser, then when hes used to missing fraser maybe he misses bargain hunt and so on till he runs out of no school watch scenarios

  • @victoriat8481
    @victoriat8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Less fun at home never worked for my son. How is he going these days?

  • @storytimetl
    @storytimetl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Doesn't a limited company need £50k capital? Or has my A level Business knowledge deserted me?

    • @kevinchapmanvlog
      @kevinchapmanvlog  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Tom Williams I'm afraid it looks like it has

    • @storytimetl
      @storytimetl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No wonder I got a C

  • @andrewwakefield4431
    @andrewwakefield4431 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    why is the school hanging on to Andy? he must be killing their attendance data. I hope social services can help you properly.

    • @kevinchapmanvlog
      @kevinchapmanvlog  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Andrew Wakefield money presumably. As soon as he's off their books they're £8k a year down. It's probably a TAs entire wage, so unless they've got someone lined up to come straight in, they'll have to make someone redundant if he leaves, or at the least make some serious cuts mid year, which is really hard to do

  • @cherylstevens6898
    @cherylstevens6898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kev i have a mild learning difficulty and mental health

  • @YusufKhan-xl4ko
    @YusufKhan-xl4ko 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is lollujo your surename?

  • @NadineMarshall-f3g
    @NadineMarshall-f3g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    to go up in bed

  • @madscientistKMS
    @madscientistKMS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't be all whiny about it get into special ed classes

  • @fearmyclipz8286
    @fearmyclipz8286 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't want to offend you but u are spoiling him with ps4 and other technology. I have an autistic cousin and he is disciplined. I suggest you change how you parent him.

    • @kevinchapmanvlog
      @kevinchapmanvlog  7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +FearMyClipz each to their own I guess. We'd rather he was happy than disciplined.

    • @leannadavies7440
      @leannadavies7440 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hated school I love going to the shops ❤ Tesco's is my fav shopping with my parents is the best if he likes the school let him go❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ bless him nobody wants to go to a school where they are miserable bless him I'm different to hes braver than me i don't go to residential ❤ I think it's the school him doesn't like ble ss 😊

    • @leannadavies7440
      @leannadavies7440 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No of my business but can only not put him on vitamins Im on loads but my favourite is oily fish anyway and veg I love mackerel and eat to packets a week