GODLY FRIENDSHIP | 7 Tips For Building Better CHRISTIAN FRIENDSHIPS

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  • @kacinicole
    @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Which of these tips did you find most helpful? ✨

    • @brietoujours1343
      @brietoujours1343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kaci, I really appreciate this video! So glad God blessed you with amazing friends. The tip I found most helpful was how to address conflict because it's something I need to learn and work on. I also like the idea of instigating fun...and so glad you emphasized prayer and asking deep questions.
      A video on how to make friends would be nice. I am learning how to have a friendship with a guy, and learning to navigate the differences between this and my female friendships is a little challenging but God is helping me.

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so glad you found the video helpful Brie! I will definitely get a "how to make friends video" on my list of ideas for YT 😊also I totally agree that the guy vs. girl friendship thing can definitely be a tricky one to navigate, especially if there have ever been feelings on either end!

    • @HolyandConnected
      @HolyandConnected 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes very! Thank you!

    • @robyne8730
      @robyne8730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really appreciated this video. This week, I’ve really started praying for friends...godly friends. By listening to your video, I realized I don’t really “pour into” people that I have a chance to be friends with. I don’t invest that time. I believe it’s because I had a really deep hurt in a friendship as a teenager and I’ve never really tried/allowed good friends since then. That was years ago! Thank you for this video. Please pray for me. I need friends. Thank you. 💞🙏

    • @ChurchinnameofJESUSCHRIST
      @ChurchinnameofJESUSCHRIST 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kacinicole hey would you be willing to study woth me and be friends and chat.im married so I'm not trying to come on to anyone just have no friends near me so searching here on TH-cam. God bless.would be great

  • @justapseudonym7
    @justapseudonym7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    It’s difficult being a good friend and I barely have any experience but I’m praying to God for help

  • @scarlettgarcia6408
    @scarlettgarcia6408 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really appreciate the gossip thing I didn’t know how badly I need to fix that in myself. There’s this friendship in my life that ended a while ago and both of us want to restart it but we want to make sure we’re doing things the right way this time. I’m nervous because I don’t know where to start but I know God wants unity so hopefully He will bless us with the ability to be open and honest with each other.

  • @user-ro4yq4zl1e
    @user-ro4yq4zl1e หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m just praying for Godly friends to come along, I stopped being friends with almost everyone, I feel bad but I’m continuing to close all those friendships that don’t lead me closer to Christ. It doesn’t make it better that I still have to see these people everyday at school.

  • @AprilDokubo
    @AprilDokubo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Communication is very important in any relationship, thank you for this. 💛

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wholeheartedly agree 🙌🏼

  • @melaniem828
    @melaniem828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I feel like it’s a lot of pressure to be a good friend. This is an area of my life that I’m so new to, but God has recently blessed me with a lot of godly women in my life, and I want to know how to be a good friend. I’ve always been so boy crazy I never focused on friendships growing up and I want to change. But again, all of these tips do overwhelm me a bit I guess because I get a lot of social anxiety. Thanks for sharing, I will pray about this.

  • @OceanicPearlz1
    @OceanicPearlz1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Losing many bad friends and ungodly friends for good. There were red flags 🚩 that I didn’t notice and were hindering my walk in faith. Literally all my friendships except 1. It’s exhausting keeping people who don’t care about who you really are. Especially when no one else listens to you actively despite you do that for them.

  • @casseygarcia5724
    @casseygarcia5724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Being intentional and praying for them. I also noticed God change as well as protect my heart towards the friends I continuously pray for. Watching this video was in my To Do part of my devotion as I read Jonathan and David's covenantal friendship. Thank God for your life Kaci😘

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love that so much! It's so true that praying for people can totally change our hearts toward them. Thank you so much for your life-giving words 💛

  • @nurse_Petite
    @nurse_Petite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    These were really nice tips. I did a similar video like this on my channel. I’m really hoping that God will flood my life with people who will lead me and not distract me. Godly friendships always and I’m willing to guide those who have not yet made the godly decision. I will never turn anyone away who appears to be struggling

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen, I love this prayer and your heart!

    • @nurse_Petite
      @nurse_Petite 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kaci Nicole Thank you.

  • @couplezxofsonicxp3011
    @couplezxofsonicxp3011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I thank you for this video because it has taught me that even though I've been hurt in my friendships and that I hurt some of my friends too, I can still make new friends. I believe that I can be good friends to non-believers and especially to my future christian friends. May God bless you abundantly. 😊💞

  • @Maeface
    @Maeface ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it's a really good point that iron sharpens iron ❤ love that.

  • @bravaiana
    @bravaiana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this video! I love finding other Christian TH-camrs! I am definitely the friend that is honest and encouraging, and I think those are the most important traits to have!

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Those are great qualities! I'm sure your friends appreciate it so much!

  • @NasEllis
    @NasEllis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love most what you said about gossip, soooooo true ‼ thanks for that reminder that gossip is poison.

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, a reminder I need to give myself often - it's never worth it!

  • @divine2297
    @divine2297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A Christian friendship is so beautiful🥰✝️💜. God bless you

  • @patdevitt2187
    @patdevitt2187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Kaci. How did you become so wise in the Lord at such a young age?!? I was so blessed by all of your thoughts and feel the Lord truly helped me through your video on healthy friendships. Being an insecure person over along period of time, I need to hear from people who have overcome. You have been a virtual friend to me! Thank you and God bless you

  • @naomigutierrez2464
    @naomigutierrez2464 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love what you said . The words were weighty and full of wisdom The message was delivered a bit fast. Loved the message!

  • @nakiasimone
    @nakiasimone 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am grateful for this video. Praying for your friends is so important you listed it twice! lol I prayed for you and that you have success in this youtube business and continue to share your heart and lessons with people. like me who want access to lessons like this because we want healthy godly relationships and want to start with being a good friend. You're the bomb, stay bright!

  • @preciousbonsu7336
    @preciousbonsu7336 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kaci, these words of wisdom have helped me so much. Ive forgotten how to relate to my friends and have been feeling so lonely in relationships but i do have amazing people around me. Its time I get more intentional and reach out . God bless you richly!!! Ill be forwarding this video to my whats app groups.

  • @manojkumarmajhi1194
    @manojkumarmajhi1194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praise the Lord Jesus Christ, Amen

  • @sparklegirl5508
    @sparklegirl5508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're blessed, I've been wandering around tired of numerous broken friendships since years lol

  • @sholae8860
    @sholae8860 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video so helpful thank you! I think the one about going directly to a friend about conflict and being hopeful to resolve it is the most helpful for me. We often don't want to do this but it is so necessary in avoiding bitterness and growing in the love of Christ.

  • @vassooramanjooloo6011
    @vassooramanjooloo6011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video Kaci...👍
    Love It ...
    I would say 'to encourage each other '....
    Encouragement is so important in The Body Of CHRIST...
    It's about uplifting one another...
    We,as branches,we are intertwined to support each other in every area ..
    GOD doesn't merely recommend it...
    HE explicitly commands it ( 1 Thessalonians 4:18, 5:11; Hebrews 3:13 )
    🙏🏽🔥

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wholeheartedly agree! Encouragement is so vital!

  • @maryseguehi8569
    @maryseguehi8569 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your tips on friendship. God bless you and fill you more of Him!😘😘

  • @abbygigi8345
    @abbygigi8345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Please pray that I make friends in my new youth group. :( I have a REALLY hard time making friends

  • @FreyaEmmanuel
    @FreyaEmmanuel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved what you said about honest conversations. i am trying to do that 😊

  • @adolfconradigharas439
    @adolfconradigharas439 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    these are great advices Sister thank you so much. May GOD Bless you more💛

  • @rebeccajanvier7595
    @rebeccajanvier7595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish you so many blessings and I wish we could be friends. I really enjoy your content and how you present your warmth to the world 🥰

  • @marisaijpelaar3584
    @marisaijpelaar3584 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved to see your happy videos. I always see you as this calm gathered personality. I am such a loner nowadays.. I feel kind of social anxious.. also because I just started reading the Bible and I just know that my current group is very new to that, they are more in new age spirituality. At the same time im scared that its just harder for me to relate to them or something, in certain areas perhaps sex and boys

  • @SamuelLee-gw6wr
    @SamuelLee-gw6wr 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I actually used this trick in my employment as well.
    If I know some graduates who were fellow brothers in my university working in companies I would like to apply to...
    (How do you get known of this job?) Employee Referral, will leave the name of that person!

  • @Bleu-en2bf
    @Bleu-en2bf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, this is so helpful. I like 'asking questions', something I need to work on.🐝🏵️🐝🏵️

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad it was helpful! Questions are 🙌🏼

  • @virgiliojrescobar28
    @virgiliojrescobar28 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank women of god for your advices

  • @TheMaskedThearpist
    @TheMaskedThearpist 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I liked the highlighting the good qualities. I'll try really hard to use this. And how we can pray for them and praying together. I'm not sure about the phone cause that's not a thing i do with people. Oh and what is God doing in their life

  • @malinaarp2551
    @malinaarp2551 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this! So important. Did you also make a video on how to find and create new friendships?

  • @nataliaresendez2471
    @nataliaresendez2471 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey kaci!! I just wanna say u inspire me a lot and honestly your videos are the highlight of my days and getting me through quarantine. hope you never stop!

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Natalia - WOW, what an incredibly encouraging comment! That means so much to hear...I'm SO happy you enjoy the videos 😊

  • @Whitewolf76241
    @Whitewolf76241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jesus is God

  • @OceanicPearlz1
    @OceanicPearlz1 ปีที่แล้ว

    I noticed most had red flags 🚩 and even someone who I once considered close was all red flags from the start I just didn’t see it and was holding on to something that never really existed.

  • @angelpawar9637
    @angelpawar9637 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being intentional nd praying for friends Great tips. Loved your video ♥️ God bless you

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Angel - I'm so happy to hear you enjoyed it 😊

  • @kirstygracee
    @kirstygracee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this!! thanks so much Kaci - so much wisdom 💛

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Kirsty! 💛 I'm so glad you liked it. 😊

  • @nicholewalker8592
    @nicholewalker8592 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found all of these most helpful. Thank you for sharing these tips!!

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay I'm so happy to hear that Nichole! 💛

  • @StoneDontKnowMe
    @StoneDontKnowMe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so beautiful 🧡

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Kate 💛

  • @KarenGonzalez-pt6fx
    @KarenGonzalez-pt6fx ปีที่แล้ว

    Man you talk fast!!! But I can use this in my teen girls ministry. Thank you for the great video!

  • @mhretw3416
    @mhretw3416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw thank you so much! It is something I've thought about! I don't have any immediate plans but it would be cool to maybe do one day 😊

  • @ruthtangbau2075
    @ruthtangbau2075 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Kaci. Your videos have been a blessing for me. May God use you more for His purpose. 🤍

  • @808kej
    @808kej 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much

  • @VasanthVictorPaulI
    @VasanthVictorPaulI 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you dear sister

  • @Taniesha__
    @Taniesha__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you talk more about the revelations & the last days that we are living in?

  • @misskteentalks6190
    @misskteentalks6190 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you great content keep up the good work 👍🏾

  • @Vanessa-eg6or
    @Vanessa-eg6or 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this helpful video, Kaci! I was just wondering, do you think it's okay to vent to someone else about an issue you're having with a friend if you don't use their name or if they don't know each other - in hopes of getting a fresh perspective or advice on how to deal with the situation? Or would you still consider that gossiping?

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's such a great question Vanessa and honestly something I wrestle with. I know when I want to do that I have to be very honest with myself about my motivations because I can easily tend to deceive myself about what they truly are. But I do believe it is possible to have pure intentions of genuinely wanting to seek perspective or advice, and in those situations I think it's important to go to a complete third party, maybe even someone older than you and not a peer. Meaning, if you have an issue with friend A, I would say don't go talk to friend B who is also friends with friend A, maybe try to find a friend C who doesn't even know friend A. And again just being honest with yourself about motivations. I hope that helps! 😊

    • @Vanessa-eg6or
      @Vanessa-eg6or 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kacinicole Thanks so much for your input, Kaci! That definitely helps - especially the idea of talking to someone older. I've never even considered that before! Thank you again! Keep doing what you're doing

  • @ashleynicole2963
    @ashleynicole2963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hopefully when I move to Florida,I will be able to meet Christian friends

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's so exciting you're moving! I'd say getting plugged into a church there would definitely be a great place to start 😊

    • @ashleynicole2963
      @ashleynicole2963 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kacinicole I'm so excited!

    • @Yesica1993
      @Yesica1993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lord, I pray you help Ashley find a strong, bible teaching church where she can develop godly Christian friendships!

    • @ashleynicole2963
      @ashleynicole2963 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yesica1993 thank you for the prayer!

  • @Dannycdrummer
    @Dannycdrummer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Christian friendship is found in Jesus.......You must connect with others in an authentic and real way.......be with someone who genuinely cares for you and will tell you the truth, in love. I liked when you said where two or three gather in my name .......Dan ヅ❤

  • @Majo-Space256
    @Majo-Space256 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Made it a goal this May 2024 to make 2 new friends who love Jesus ..if you are interested to make a new friend....

  • @mehsodpaw4063
    @mehsodpaw4063 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    💜

  • @hope-joy-peace
    @hope-joy-peace 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, you should be friends with Bible Study Time. Would luv to see you two do a collab.

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think I've heard of that channel, but I will definitely check it out 🤗

  • @neerajaneeraja7555
    @neerajaneeraja7555 ปีที่แล้ว

    Prise the Lord 🙏 my name is neeraja Debora Holy Fire Star🔥🌟

  • @lonelystupidwar
    @lonelystupidwar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why does God send somebody to great suffering for not being able to make any friends or even just a few good friends please?

  • @eduardiaz2937
    @eduardiaz2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I look for Christian friends

  • @haileykeller8357
    @haileykeller8357 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Kaci! Random question: how do you pronounce your name?

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hailey Keller it’s pronounced the same way as the spelling “Casey” 😊

    • @haileykeller8357
      @haileykeller8357 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kaci Nicole got it!😜😜

  • @suegracen4582
    @suegracen4582 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am sue from mauritius and would like to have some Christians friends

  • @مريِم-ص6ع7ق
    @مريِم-ص6ع7ق 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    😊😊🤩 yoy

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching 😊

    • @مريِم-ص6ع7ق
      @مريِم-ص6ع7ق 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kacinicole I hope you have a million subscribers 😊😊☺

  • @lonelystupidwar
    @lonelystupidwar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cutting my embodiment is wrong because the Holy Bible says so.