You're being raised in a home that's going to make you hyper vigilant. You'll notice what everyone else is thinking or feeling. You're going to be super sensitive to changes in people's moods or facial expressions, and you'll startle easily. - Where I am getting this from? - Well your father has a bad temper and he erupts out of nowhere. Sometimes when you're just playing or relaxing in your room, he just starts screaming at you. We (mother and father) fight a lot and don't really ask about how it's impacting you. Or we don't talk to you about the fights at all or why they happen. So your nervous system is developing on high alert and your amygdala, the part of your brain that senses threats and danger is overactive. Difficulty of relaxing or just playing. And when you're older you'll have the same difficulty in social situations. Often labeled as social anxiety disorder, this can actually be a symptom of C-PTSD. You'll feel awkward and worried you're saying or doing something wrong. Basically your internal threat system is off because you're being raised in an unsafe environment. Dr. Nicole LePera, TWITTER
It’s okay to take breaks as a person, it's important to remember that you're still learning and growing. Don't be too hard on yourself if you make mistakes, and don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it. Try to find things outside of Yt that you're passionate about and pursue them. And finally, surround yourself with people who lift you up and support you. I love your asmr btw!🎉 - Signed by _.Spring._
Characteristics of Adult Children of Alcoholics - struggles with maintaining interpersonal relationships - struggles with codependency - impulsive or dangerous behaviors - anxiety and hypervigilance - fear of abandonment - conflict avoidance/fear of conflict - constantly seeking approval - struggles with authority figures - poor communication - struggles with emotional regulation - poor self-esteem and self-image, or constantly feeling "different"
⚠️video idea alert⚠️ Ok so for content, I have a mix of ADHD and ADD and I was wondering if you could make a video about Kiri and Bakugo or just one of them helping us when we get overstimulated? Me personally I get overstimulated in loud and bright spaces. I cope by always haveing my headphones close to me at all times. But ya! Just an idea tho. Fell free to use it.
Even with label ADHD, so many of us believe we should be able to just tough it out if we use enough willpower. This is one of the big myths of our society: “is that anybody can convince their brain to do anything of they just try hard enough”. "ADHD, Self-Esteem, and Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria"
Hi can you make a kiribaku one where we have a quirk like hawks like the wings and we are patrolling with them(we’re flying and they are on the ground) and someone shoots our wings and we start to fall? Can you also make it where we are unable to fly for a couple weeks after and we are really sad but they cheer us up?
Other people provide countervailing information. Disagree with you, criticize you, mock you, put you down. Reality refuses to collude with fantasy. Reality does not comply, reality does not collaborate. YT Richard Grannon & Prof. Sam Vaknin about Fantasy
Hi! I’m a big fan of yours and have you ever considered to a child listener? I think it would be adorable! If you do do this I would really be happy because I’ve been through a lot lately… If you read this, Thank you! 😊
What we call 'normal' is a product of repression, denial, splitting, projection, introjection and other forms of destructive action on experience. R. D. Laing
People can develop specific fears as a result of learning. LITTLE ALBERT EXPERIMENT Fear is combination of bodily sensation, coupled with images and with certain thoughts. Sensation itself is just sensation. When you couple it with image in flashback of PTSD or with thoughts This will never end, make it into fear. YT Peter Levine Watson believed that all fears and behaviors are learned. Watson wanted to prove that your fear and behavior is learned. Everything that humans do is learned. Little Albert Experiment Watson observed that young children have an innate fear of loud noises. Following the principles of conditioning he wanted to prove that he could induce a child to fear something that he wouldn't normally fear. Little Albert Experiment Fortunately, most human behavior is learned observationally through modeling from others. ALBERT BANDURA By imitating the behaviour of others, children are highly likely to receive positive reinforcement for the type of behaviour that is considered most appropriate. ALBERT BANDURA DK THE PSYCHOLOGY BOOK "The more I love mankind in general, the less I love men. I'm incapable of enduring two days in the same room with any other person. The moment anybody comes close to me, his personality begins to overpower my self esteem and intrude upon my freedom." The Brothers Karamazov, Dostoevsky
Average child with ADHD hears 20,000 additional critical or corrective messages before their 12th birthday. That can have significant impact on self-image and self-worth. They have feeling they're profoundly defective, incompetent. YT William Dodson
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My mother yells at me whenever I have a panic attack and I never know why
You're being raised in a home that's going to make you hyper vigilant. You'll notice what everyone else is thinking or feeling. You're going to be super sensitive to changes in people's moods or facial expressions, and you'll startle easily. - Where I am getting this from? - Well your father has a bad temper and he erupts out of nowhere. Sometimes when you're just playing or relaxing in your room, he just starts screaming at you. We (mother and father) fight a lot and don't really ask about how it's impacting you. Or we don't talk to you about the fights at all or why they happen. So your nervous system is developing on high alert and your amygdala, the part of your brain that senses threats and danger is overactive. Difficulty of relaxing or just playing. And when you're older you'll have the same difficulty in social situations. Often labeled as social anxiety disorder, this can actually be a symptom of C-PTSD. You'll feel awkward and worried you're saying or doing something wrong. Basically your internal threat system is off because you're being raised in an unsafe environment.
Dr. Nicole LePera, TWITTER
-yells at me-
Anime me: EEK IM SORRY
irl Mr: welp -slurp-I wanted noodles
“Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, surrounded by a$$holes.”
**yells for making too much noise**
Me: Well I’m sorry I can’t exactly control my sleep talking 😭
See other people as phenomena, they simply exist. Work with what they give you, instead of resisting and trying to change them.
ROBERT GREENE
It’s okay to take breaks as a person, it's important to remember that you're still learning and growing. Don't be too hard on yourself if you make mistakes, and don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it. Try to find things outside of Yt that you're passionate about and pursue them. And finally, surround yourself with people who lift you up and support you. I love your asmr btw!🎉
- Signed by
_.Spring._
Characteristics of Adult Children of Alcoholics
- struggles with maintaining interpersonal relationships
- struggles with codependency
- impulsive or dangerous behaviors
- anxiety and hypervigilance
- fear of abandonment
- conflict avoidance/fear of conflict
- constantly seeking approval
- struggles with authority figures
- poor communication
- struggles with emotional regulation
- poor self-esteem and self-image, or constantly feeling "different"
I feelt that
⚠️video idea alert⚠️
Ok so for content, I have a mix of ADHD and ADD and I was wondering if you could make a video about Kiri and Bakugo or just one of them helping us when we get overstimulated? Me personally I get overstimulated in loud and bright spaces. I cope by always haveing my headphones close to me at all times. But ya! Just an idea tho. Fell free to use it.
Even with label ADHD, so many of us believe we should be able to just tough it out if we use enough willpower. This is one of the big myths of our society: “is that anybody can convince their brain to do anything of they just try hard enough”.
"ADHD, Self-Esteem, and Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria"
I feel the same way
Hi can you make a kiribaku one where we have a quirk like hawks like the wings and we are patrolling with them(we’re flying and they are on the ground) and someone shoots our wings and we start to fall? Can you also make it where we are unable to fly for a couple weeks after and we are really sad but they cheer us up?
YES I LOVE THIS IDEA
I second this notion 🙇
@@sparklepugtea haha thank you!
What the hell is kiribaku?
@@ranc1977 it’s a ship name for kirishima and bakugou
@@Jellybean893 Interesting.
I literally love this channel your story’s are so inspiring .in fact it has inspired me to make my own on my channel thanks for the inspiration😁😄🎉👏
What's your channel name
@@God_saves_all crazy_crafters has the same profile 😄
@@amberwilliams6500 that's so cool
@@God_saves_all thanks 😊
Other people provide countervailing information. Disagree with you, criticize you, mock you, put you down. Reality refuses to collude with fantasy. Reality does not comply, reality does not collaborate.
YT Richard Grannon & Prof. Sam Vaknin about Fantasy
Hi! I’m a big fan of yours and have you ever considered to a child listener? I think it would be adorable! If you do do this I would really be happy because I’ve been through a lot lately… If you read this, Thank you! 😊
This is a good idea hope they do it but also I hope things get easier soon!
Yesss, sorry that you’re going through a lot
Thank you!
What we call 'normal' is a product of repression, denial, splitting, projection, introjection and other forms of destructive action on experience.
R. D. Laing
@@ranc1977 What do you mean?
People can develop specific fears as a result of learning.
LITTLE ALBERT EXPERIMENT
Fear is combination of bodily sensation, coupled with images and with certain thoughts. Sensation itself is just sensation. When you couple it with image in flashback of PTSD or with thoughts This will never end, make it into fear.
YT Peter Levine
Watson believed that all fears and behaviors are learned.
Watson wanted to prove that your fear and behavior is learned. Everything that humans do is learned.
Little Albert Experiment
Watson observed that young children have an innate fear of loud noises. Following the principles of conditioning he wanted to prove that he could induce a child to fear something that he wouldn't normally fear.
Little Albert Experiment
Fortunately, most human behavior is learned observationally through modeling from others.
ALBERT BANDURA
By imitating the behaviour of others, children are highly likely to receive positive reinforcement for the type of behaviour that is considered most appropriate.
ALBERT BANDURA
DK THE PSYCHOLOGY BOOK
"The more I love mankind in general, the less I love men. I'm incapable of enduring two days in the same room with any other person. The moment anybody comes close to me, his personality begins to overpower my self esteem and intrude upon my freedom."
The Brothers Karamazov, Dostoevsky
Average child with ADHD hears 20,000 additional critical or corrective messages before their 12th birthday. That can have significant impact on self-image and self-worth. They have feeling they're profoundly defective, incompetent.
YT William Dodson