Lying in the Philippines is very common and it is easier to do it online...LDR are very difficult and lies can easily be told..glad you guys discuss this topic..my first true lie was when I went to cebu for the first time and I was to meet my online Filipina gf. I was so excited to meet her...she showed up with her male cousin to have breakfast at the hotel I was staying at...we sat to eat and had small talk. .she was exactly what she looked like on video call and a little shy ...I was happy cuz I thought we were gonna be bf and gf...well she got up to go to the CR and her cousin turned out to be her husband..he told me he would rent her to me cuz I was a nice guy...well it never happened...and I learned real quick about human behavior in the Philippines
If you are chatting online, keep a notebook of things she says about her. You will quickly see if stories change, as over time she will lose track if she is lying.
no reason why someone has to lie unless they are hiding something.....that's just wrong. You should always be honest and aboveboard with the person you love and are committed to spending the rest of your life with.
One of the things I noticed is lying about understanding what I said. I solved that first of all by having a trusting relationship where she knows I'm not judging her. She knows I'm always on her side But secondly I explained that she is more intelligent if she can admit that she doesn't understand something and asks for an explanation. Every time she does that I tell her how smart she is and how proud I am that she is smart enough to ask for help. And as a result she has improved her understanding of English and English slang and has learned so much that she would have missed if she continued to pretend she understood. In addition, Our conversations have gotten better and more meaningful as a result.
So very true. I tried that concept with my ex Filipina wife...she wouldn't buy it, but then it wasn't in her agenda. If and when I have another Filipina wife, I will again use that concept. Kindness, love, respect, understanding and explanation goes a long ways for building a good relationship ...
Good video, I watched just to analyze my own relationship. Actually we have both been honest from the very first conversation. And what I saw on line was less comfortable than she was in person. I have spent time with her in person because I've been there, and for both of us is what you see is what you get, and if I ask something she's ashamed of, she will just be silent and will not lie
Thank you for this video. Obviously, this lying situation may apply to people in general. I have made a solemn vow, especially in recent years, that I will refrain from lying. If there is a situation where the truth cannot be handled, I will avoid being around people or such situations. I would rather remain absent or silent. Most especially, I will NEVER lie to a Filipina.
You guys are too cute 😁 I love your channel it is simple and to the point and I like that. Congratulations on your continued success both of you! My Filipina and I will be living in Luzon but if we ever get down to San Carlos city maybe we look you up. Calvin from Sunsbine Shoulders lives there also and I owe him a visit as well for also giving me the confidence to make a very big life change and move to the Philippines hopefully for good. Already I am loving your country and I have not yet been. Good job guys 👍 Mahal ko ang Pilipinas 🇵🇭 😊
The Holy Spirit lives within our hearts, and then convicts us when we break God's commandments. This conviction shows up in our conscience, and trying to fight one's conscience shows up in so many ways. When you see someone openly lying -- something you know is a lie -- and you them doing this without any problem, you are likely witnessing someone who has seared their conscience.
Many of those points are hard to be trustworthy to get to know if one is lying or not when you are in first stage of dating. Simply because you don’t know each other that well. Even more so when you’re in LDR. I found my best method is simply to pay attention to the story, they wouldn’t need to think about it and it easily matches. If I suspect one to lie, I make sure not to press it and leave it resting. I may have a question or some a few days later with an different approach it seemingly doesn’t even relate to the lie at first sight. But at the end the puzzle peace’s fit together. I have been in one LDR before and experienced her to be a chronic liar. Till the point I didn’t even had any issues to erase all memories, pictures, videos as if she never entered into my life. I told her that our relationship was a lie as well.
Thanks..i dont lie i just find it tiring better to be truthful and i expect my partner to be honest with me lying is a deal breaker for me and I'll send her packing!
Congratulations. Hugs for Halli. It has taken me a long time, but then I was a naive slow learner. Age and experience have helped. Still bad with women. .good video.
Hey guys, thanks for a great video, but at the end, you made a comment that I thought was very interesting. You said that there are “more ways” of telling, when a woman is lying. Like other bloggers do, I hope that you will create a “PART 2”, to this blog, if you haven’t already, regarding how to know when my Filipina is lying to me. Thanks for a great video, and keep up the great work, 😎👍🏼😉.
This is a tough one because first you have to determine what is lying . Withholding information from your partner is a form of lying as an example . Little white lies ect . For me i will choose a woman who wears her heart on her sleeve and virtually transparent with me over a knockout beauty Queen . Every hopeful longterm relationship needs a strong foundation basis of trust .
This is very challenging when you meet a Filipina online and she says she is single and no children etc. but until you meet her and spend time together you just no don’t know.
wow, 16k to 40k in 1 yeah! great stuff, and happy for the pair of you! nice YT suggested this year old one i never watched, so you are being promoted by the algorithm. appreciate you content, always valuable, and seeing the point of view, from a man & woman, is a great format. Mahalo plenty!🙂🌺
The only thing that makes me nervous is that I've been talking to her for years and have met her once. Conversations always seem honest. However, Her social media posts are no longer visible and no friends are visible. My one thought is she is keeping my from some extended family members. I was never able to see friends but I can no longer see any posts at all. Not one. This is FB and Instagram. Instagram I can see old posts. But for both I can see just reels posts ..like temporary posts at the top of the screen.
I had a Filipina coworker that I became close friends with. I'm honest but also gullible because I take people at their word. She would ask me things, I told her the truth and she responded frequently, "You're not lying on me, are you?" How ironic I found out she was liying to me quite a bit! The tell was the contradictions in the things she told me over time. And one time she just came right out and admitted she lied about something. I never let on that I knew she was lying. It really didn't matter much and I didn't want it to interfere with our friendship. But after I figured it out, I couldn't trust anything she told me.
I've noticed several things that seem to be common; often the liar provides too much detail about where they were or whatever, whereas usually, if telling the truth they're too lazy to provide the fine details!!! Secondly, something that was mentioned, the liar will often become aggressive when defending their lie, hoping I guess to "force" you to back down rather than have a full blown argument.
First, congrats on the 16K subs, I foresee 20K within the next few months maybe sooner. You two are awesome, the Fizzle and Shanizzle, climbing upwardslike a rocket! 👍 Today's vlog, you hit the nail on the head, with the points on lying. It got to a point with my filipina wife, I knew she was lying the instant she started speaking. She got caught in so many, just like she got caught in her scam. I'm just happy the marriage is over, it was very toxic. And I will say it again, I know not all Filipina's are the same 👍 I can deal with the little white lies, or the unhurtful one's but not the one's that destroy the relationship, if their really is one! Question for Roger, how long is your hair? And Imsi, what are your thoughts and a Filipina's consensus on men with long hair? This long haired guy needs to know 😊👍
I may be late but, man I'm gonna be in trouble I'm naturally sarcastic. I know I have to watch that with a Filipino mostly because of the language barrier but sometimes it just comes out. Saving face seems to be a very high priority over there. I was raised to own it, at a very young age I realized I was not good at lying. So even if it seems very small I just let it out. Sadly even over here I'm seen as blunt, I have toned it down some but it still happens. Old adage is "Don't ask a question you don't want an answer to"
Knowing the person helps to understand how she (in this case, a she) talks about something where there is no reason to lie. Then you can usually see how the conviction of the Spirit shows up in ways like a shaky voice and|or a lack of confident speech.
Take this to the streets, part 2! and ask others what they think, how to tell if their partner is lying 😁 or when they are lying themselves... see if anyone tells on themself.
If a Filipina’s lips are moving, she’s lying 🤥. It’s an old adage that proves to be true most of the time. I’m married to one and have employed hundreds of Filipina’s over the years. I’ve heard absolutely everything a million times in different ways. Same story different face 😂
True. Weird saving face. Can't give you a straight answer. If they don't know the answer to you're question they make up something. They have a weak and unstable ego.
That is a bit rough and a generealization. I am married for 16 years to a Filipina and live in Phili, also employ a few and it is easy to speak straight and get a straight answer without lies.
When she is 25 and you are 65 and she says 'I love You" (She means I love your wallet). When she says my family has an emergency and needs 100,000 peso's (she means they need a new motorcycle) When she says I'm meeting my male cousin for dinner, (she means she's having a date with her Filipino BF). When she says her youngest sister (she means her daughter) wants to come live with you guys. When she says sorry "I lost my wedding Diamond Ring" (she means I sold it and gave the money to my family). When she's chatting on Facebook with friends (she means a new foreigner who's younger and wealthier then you is interested in her). It's not really a lie if you know the truth! LOL
I've spent a lot of time learning about body language and microexpressions to help with personal and work relationships. As far as online dating, the first thing I do is print out her complete profile and then use it to match what she's saying. Some easy tell she may be lying. 1. She's beautiful and has only one pic on her FC profile-I've never met a pretty girl that doesn't literally have hundreds of pics of herself, so if only one or if all pics are professionally done I typically won't even message her. 2. She says she has no children and either does not want them or is not sure, I also assume this person is lying. 3. So far 100% of the time, when the girl photo "bombs" you without asking and then sends revealing pics, get ready for the latest trauma in her life that she needs money for. 4. Her profile is partially filled out and the age range she's interested in is very wide like 18-70, which is an easy tell. 5. She works part-time (doesn't list the job), but she lives by herself another likely lie. Unless working in a bar or on the streets, you generally cannot afford to live alone, so likely a lie or a lifestyle that you should run the other way. 6. Without any prior communication her first email gives her Skype and WA number, which IMO a very nice/traditional Filipina woman would never do. 7. She refuses to video chat. I had one girl recently say, "I want a pic of you from head to toe." Hmmmm...okay, so I respond, "Let's do a video chat, so I can see you head to toe and front to back." Oddly, she became very busy all of a sudden and didn't have time for a 5 min call. Yet, then she changed the subject and talked for another 10 minutes...DELETE.
One lie leads to another,we don't like to believe our partner is lying,so we tend to give them the benefit of the doubt,we continue believing she's not lying and live in a fantasy world,so anything she says to defend herself becomes amplified and we go back to the fantasy world so we don't get hurt knowing we are fooling ourselves,we become weak and subservient,and make excuses for her behavior. We just can't let go
I have a question anyone I have a fiance in the Philippines why like if I get up early my time I live in the United States why is it hard for me to get a hold of her around evening her time like she says she talks to her family all the time and her daughter like if we are video chatting she getting at least 1 call tell me to hold on my sister or brother is calling me we hang up then she will call me back but when I go to bed it's around 2 or 3 in the afternoon there but when I get up early I try to call her phone or messenger I can't get ahold of her am I waisting my time she just like vanishes then right before she goes to bed she says good night babe love you and I being played and she hangs out with these gay guys she's on the last part of her visa coming here I just want to know if she is coming here for love or for other reasons I have tried researching this but I never get a real answer it's just weird she like disappears then if this one gay guy says we're going to the market she just rushes me says we're going to the market and she has to go my parents are really concerned they just don't want me to get hurt I send her 400 USD per month please give me some advice thank you
I use to go through that with the vanishing stop sending money and slow down the visa process then see how she acts. It she changes her behavior there’s your answer. Because coming here to the states is a great opportunity. LDR relationship is hard I’m in one now so I know. My suggestion pull back some.
Hi Roger & Ismi CONGRATULATIONS🎉🎊Since I was married for 20+ years to the 👿and I found out that she also lied to me for years🤬and I'm now 64 but when I was 40 I needed a judge to tell me "Yes you need a divorce". I'm a good guy but Thankfully my 3 kids wanted to stay with me
It really gives me this wierd feeling like something isn't right I have called her out on it she gets a little irritated but then she says we were eating or at the market or something she calls this guy baks or something like that it's just hard I'm here she is there I just don't want her coming here then all the sudden 2 weeks like she gets a job and makes up some reason she is going to move out we have had a relationship for 4 years advice please
How to know if a pinay is lying ? Her lips are moving . You have a boyfriend ? No ( she has a pinoy and a foreigner) etc . So many examples . Pinoy married to older foreingers and then have 100 percent pinoy baby 😂. It's so obvious . But whatever .
In time even white lies come out in conversation as contradictions arrise. I can understand that some of the issues that she has would be relationship killers and make her undateable . If a relationship is built on lies then it probably won't last but if you know ahead of time then perhaps she could be a stepping stone to a great relationship. Just smile and be nice because we wouldn't be where we are today without the people in our past . This sounds cruall but she lied to you so you have the power to make your own decisions.
@@RogerIsmiVlogs if there is one I have learned about the past is that you can't change it and trust is based on truth . You can't control other people's actions only your own so I guess the choice is mine to trust a person who has already lied to me .
Ismi, you in your opening said everyone lies! Not true. Perhaps in your circle of friends and experiences, that is true, but not with me and my closest friends. Yes, many do lie, some of them uncontrollably, or so it seems, but I don't! Since I don't lie, I don't have to remember that which I once said and then have to cover up that lie. Liers always get caught in/with their lies, sooner or later (hopefully). With my closest friends, we simply don't do that to each other...or anybody! And further, you admit to lying to Roger and to others. Why are you lying in the first place? This simply doesn't make any sense to me. Surely you know that lying only adds to more problems down the road. And, then when you get caught, and evidently everybody around you know when you are lying, your not fooling anybody, let alone yourself. None of it makes any sensed.
The truth will ALWAYS make itself known, so better to just get it out. Lying destroys trust in a relationship, and without trust you have nothing. Little white lies are still lies, that why it's not called a little white truth. Lying to not offend is just stupid, I find it more offensive to be lied to, if you aren't comfortable enough to tell me the truth then you're not comfortable enough to be in a relationship. Lying is a sin, you would think a religious people wouldn't do it.
I don’t lie and shoot from the hip and don’t hold back and confront liars and it’s not a good practice and I don’t recommend it for anyone. I’m me and you all be you if you will.
Lying in the Philippines is very common and it is easier to do it online...LDR are very difficult and lies can easily be told..glad you guys discuss this topic..my first true lie was when I went to cebu for the first time and I was to meet my online Filipina gf. I was so excited to meet her...she showed up with her male cousin to have breakfast at the hotel I was staying at...we sat to eat and had small talk. .she was exactly what she looked like on video call and a little shy ...I was happy cuz I thought we were gonna be bf and gf...well she got up to go to the CR and her cousin turned out to be her husband..he told me he would rent her to me cuz I was a nice guy...well it never happened...and I learned real quick about human behavior in the Philippines
Oh my, he would rent her
If you are chatting online, keep a notebook of things she says about her. You will quickly see if stories change, as over time she will lose track if she is lying.
If you don't lie, you don't have to remember what you said! 💯
Amen brother!
A liar must have a good memory or they tell on themselves with their contradictions
When her lips are moving
My grandfather used to say I'd rather hire a thief over a liar. You can keep an eye on a thief.
she's a filipina. that's how you tell
Most men lie to avoid breaking hearts or kicking somebody's ass...Women lie to avoid getting their hearts broken and getting their asses kicked.
no reason why someone has to lie unless they are hiding something.....that's just wrong. You should always be honest and aboveboard with the person you love and are committed to spending the rest of your life with.
One of the things I noticed is lying about understanding what I said. I solved that first of all by having a trusting relationship where she knows I'm not judging her. She knows I'm always on her side But secondly I explained that she is more intelligent if she can admit that she doesn't understand something and asks for an explanation. Every time she does that I tell her how smart she is and how proud I am that she is smart enough to ask for help. And as a result she has improved her understanding of English and English slang and has learned so much that she would have missed if she continued to pretend she understood. In addition, Our conversations have gotten better and more meaningful as a result.
So very true. I tried that concept with my ex Filipina wife...she wouldn't buy it, but then it wasn't in her agenda. If and when I have another Filipina wife, I will again use that concept.
Kindness, love, respect, understanding and explanation goes a long ways for building a good relationship ...
True brother admitting that you don't know something is the best way to learn.
Good video, I watched just to analyze my own relationship. Actually we have both been honest from the very first conversation. And what I saw on line was less comfortable than she was in person. I have spent time with her in person because I've been there, and for both of us is what you see is what you get, and if I ask something she's ashamed of, she will just be silent and will not lie
Good to hear Brother.
Oh yes ... and congratulations on 16.1K subscribers!!! 🎊
Thank you so much brother
Great video guys and congratulations on 16K!!!
Congratulations 🎉. I am enjoying my time in your Beautiful Country. Everyone is so nice here. I wish people in America were this nice
Thank you so much
Yes and try changing the subject.
Thank you for this video. Obviously, this lying situation may apply to people in general. I have made a solemn vow, especially in recent years, that I will refrain from lying. If there is a situation where the truth cannot be handled, I will avoid being around people or such situations. I would rather remain absent or silent. Most especially, I will NEVER lie to a Filipina.
Your welcome brother
You guys are too cute 😁
I love your channel it is simple and to the point and I like that.
Congratulations on your continued success both of you! My Filipina and I will be living in Luzon but if we ever get down to San Carlos city maybe we look you up.
Calvin from Sunsbine Shoulders lives there also and I owe him a visit as well for also giving me the confidence to make a very big life change and move to the Philippines hopefully for good.
Already I am loving your country and I have not yet been.
Good job guys 👍
Mahal ko ang Pilipinas 🇵🇭 😊
The Holy Spirit lives within our hearts, and then convicts us when we break God's commandments. This conviction shows up in our conscience, and trying to fight one's conscience shows up in so many ways. When you see someone openly lying -- something you know is a lie -- and you them doing this without any problem, you are likely witnessing someone who has seared their conscience.
I've never lied to my Filipina always been open and honest, I'll give one strike but if there is a second strike I'm going to call it a strikeout.
It's easier just not to lie. If my Filipina lied to me, I'd just get a new Filipina.
Many of those points are hard to be trustworthy to get to know if one is lying or not when you are in first stage of dating. Simply because you don’t know each other that well. Even more so when you’re in LDR.
I found my best method is simply to pay attention to the story, they wouldn’t need to think about it and it easily matches. If I suspect one to lie, I make sure not to press it and leave it resting. I may have a question or some a few days later with an different approach it seemingly doesn’t even relate to the lie at first sight. But at the end the puzzle peace’s fit together.
I have been in one LDR before and experienced her to be a chronic liar. Till the point I didn’t even had any issues to erase all memories, pictures, videos as if she never entered into my life. I told her that our relationship was a lie as well.
Sorry to hear that my friend in the future you can find the right one
Congratulations 🍾 on reaching 16,000 subscriber. I tell everyone about your TH-cam channel. Please continue to stay blessed 😇 for your family
Thanks brother
Always alot of excuses and busy when u try to contact her but in actual fact she's with her bf or hubby or male companion .. 😭
Correct 💯 lots of excuses
Thanks..i dont lie i just find it tiring better to be truthful and i expect my partner to be honest with me lying is a deal breaker for me and I'll send her packing!
Congratulations. Hugs for Halli. It has taken me a long time, but then I was a naive slow learner. Age and experience have helped. Still bad with women. .good video.
Thank you so much
People who lie have "tells" like when playing cards,their body language tells on them
100% right
Thank you so much
Hey guys, thanks for a great video, but at the end, you made a comment that I thought was very interesting. You said that there are “more ways” of telling, when a woman is lying. Like other bloggers do, I hope that you will create a “PART 2”, to this blog, if you haven’t already, regarding how to know when my Filipina is lying to me. Thanks for a great video, and keep up the great work, 😎👍🏼😉.
This is a tough one because first you have to determine what is lying . Withholding information from your partner is a form of lying as an example . Little white lies ect .
For me i will choose a woman who wears her heart on her sleeve and virtually transparent with me over a knockout beauty Queen . Every hopeful longterm relationship needs a strong foundation basis of trust .
Thanks for watching and your support
Thank you , enjoyed the vlog ! 🌺
Thank you
This is very challenging when you meet a Filipina online and she says she is single and no children etc. but until you meet her and spend time together you just no don’t know.
True brother some are really good at hiding there true identity
Especially if you get into the cookie jar and know someone else has been there.
My girl I believe was sent to me by God , hopefully we can meet you guys one day
wow, 16k to 40k in 1 yeah! great stuff, and happy for the pair of you! nice YT suggested this year old one i never watched, so you are being promoted by the algorithm. appreciate you content, always valuable, and seeing the point of view, from a man & woman, is a great format. Mahalo plenty!🙂🌺
I cringe every time When someone says , “ To be honest “ in conversation . True story
Thank you for sharing your thoughts brother. For me I walk away if I notice she's not telling the truth
The only thing that makes me nervous is that I've been talking to her for years and have met her once. Conversations always seem honest. However, Her social media posts are no longer visible and no friends are visible. My one thought is she is keeping my from some extended family members. I was never able to see friends but I can no longer see any posts at all. Not one. This is FB and Instagram. Instagram I can see old posts. But for both I can see just reels posts ..like temporary posts at the top of the screen.
I had a Filipina coworker that I became close friends with. I'm honest but also gullible because I take people at their word. She would ask me things, I told her the truth and she responded frequently, "You're not lying on me, are you?" How ironic I found out she was liying to me quite a bit! The tell was the contradictions in the things she told me over time. And one time she just came right out and admitted she lied about something. I never let on that I knew she was lying. It really didn't matter much and I didn't want it to interfere with our friendship. But after I figured it out, I couldn't trust anything she told me.
Thanks guys, you are great and improving with every vlog !
You deserve 16K and many more to come.
Thank you so much brother
That true cause I use to talk to a lady from Cebu and she used to tell me that her mom sick to get money from me and she said she never married
You have to be careful that type of filipina
Yes indeed
My opinion to this subject about lying lying solves nothing.
Yes accountability
Thank You again for another great topic when I get to Cebu I'll look you guys up, you'll either meet my Fiance/Wife or I'll have a really sad story
Let's pray that you will get to meet your future wife brother
I've noticed several things that seem to be common; often the liar provides too much detail about where they were or whatever, whereas usually, if telling the truth they're too lazy to provide the fine details!!! Secondly, something that was mentioned, the liar will often become aggressive when defending their lie, hoping I guess to "force" you to back down rather than have a full blown argument.
All people lie, but Filipina’s lie to save face sometimes if you don’t asked them direct questions. Telling the truth is easier to remember
Yes you have the point
Hey am in Philippines Cebu I want to meet you guys. Sometimes
Sure, If we can visit Cebu this coming 1st week of april
In filipino culture. It's common to be a liar. And the government sanctions them to be a thief.
It's written into phillippine law.
First, congrats on the 16K subs, I foresee 20K within the next few months maybe sooner. You two are awesome, the Fizzle and Shanizzle, climbing upwardslike a rocket! 👍
Today's vlog, you hit the nail on the head, with the points on lying. It got to a point with my filipina wife, I knew she was lying the instant she started speaking. She got caught in so many, just like she got caught in her scam. I'm just happy the marriage is over, it was very toxic. And I will say it again, I know not all Filipina's are the same 👍
I can deal with the little white lies, or the unhurtful one's but not the one's that destroy the relationship, if their really is one!
Question for Roger, how long is your hair? And Imsi, what are your thoughts and a Filipina's consensus on men with long hair? This long haired guy needs to know 😊👍
Thank you so much Mr. Smiley. Keep safe
I may be late but, man I'm gonna be in trouble I'm naturally sarcastic. I know I have to watch that with a Filipino mostly because of the language barrier but sometimes it just comes out. Saving face seems to be a very high priority over there. I was raised to own it, at a very young age I realized I was not good at lying. So even if it seems very small I just let it out. Sadly even over here I'm seen as blunt, I have toned it down some but it still happens. Old adage is "Don't ask a question you don't want an answer to"
So true.
Me too I'm not good at lying brother 🤣😂🤣🤣
Knowing the person helps to understand how she (in this case, a she) talks about something where there is no reason to lie. Then you can usually see how the conviction of the Spirit shows up in ways like a shaky voice and|or a lack of confident speech.
MAYBE ITS BEST THAT WE ALL JUST TELL THE TRUTH UNLESS ITS TO PREVENT HURTING SOMEONE ELSES FEELINGS
first :) hope u guys are doing well
You too!
She needs help with her medicine that she needs Monthly.
Check out the you tube channel “ The behavior of panel” how to read people. Fast blinking eyes when talking are a sign of lying.
Take this to the streets, part 2! and ask others what they think, how to tell if their partner is lying 😁 or when they are lying themselves... see if anyone tells on themself.
Good recommendation brother we will do that this afternoon. I hope it will not rain
Some people can lie through their teeth🤣
If a Filipina’s lips are moving, she’s lying 🤥. It’s an old adage that proves to be true most of the time. I’m married to one and have employed hundreds of Filipina’s over the years. I’ve heard absolutely everything a million times in different ways. Same story different face 😂
Lips moving, and fingers typing!
True. Weird saving face. Can't give you a straight answer.
If they don't know the answer to you're question they make up something. They have a weak and unstable ego.
Agreed. They are very pretty and seeet, but I don't know how dudes tolerate the insecurity and ignorance.
That is a bit rough and a generealization. I am married for 16 years to a Filipina and live in Phili, also employ a few and it is easy to speak straight and get a straight answer without lies.
@@andresdeks whatever, you got what you got . Your opinion doesn’t matter to me.
When she is 25 and you are 65 and she says 'I love You" (She means I love your wallet). When she says my family has an emergency and needs 100,000 peso's (she means they need a new motorcycle) When she says I'm meeting my male cousin for dinner, (she means she's having a date with her Filipino BF). When she says her youngest sister (she means her daughter) wants to come live with you guys. When she says sorry "I lost my wedding Diamond Ring" (she means I sold it and gave the money to my family). When she's chatting on Facebook with friends (she means a new foreigner who's younger and wealthier then you is interested in her). It's not really a lie if you know the truth! LOL
I've spent a lot of time learning about body language and microexpressions to help with personal and work relationships. As far as online dating, the first thing I do is print out her complete profile and then use it to match what she's saying. Some easy tell she may be lying. 1. She's beautiful and has only one pic on her FC profile-I've never met a pretty girl that doesn't literally have hundreds of pics of herself, so if only one or if all pics are professionally done I typically won't even message her.
2. She says she has no children and either does not want them or is not sure, I also assume this person is lying.
3. So far 100% of the time, when the girl photo "bombs" you without asking and then sends revealing pics, get ready for the latest trauma in her life that she needs money for.
4. Her profile is partially filled out and the age range she's interested in is very wide like 18-70, which is an easy tell.
5. She works part-time (doesn't list the job), but she lives by herself another likely lie. Unless working in a bar or on the streets, you generally cannot afford to live alone, so likely a lie or a lifestyle that you should run the other way.
6. Without any prior communication her first email gives her Skype and WA number, which IMO a very nice/traditional Filipina woman would never do.
7. She refuses to video chat. I had one girl recently say, "I want a pic of you from head to toe." Hmmmm...okay, so I respond, "Let's do a video chat, so I can see you head to toe and front to back." Oddly, she became very busy all of a sudden and didn't have time for a 5 min call. Yet, then she changed the subject and talked for another 10 minutes...DELETE.
One lie leads to another,we don't like to believe our partner is lying,so we tend to give them the benefit of the doubt,we continue believing she's not lying and live in a fantasy world,so anything she says to defend herself becomes amplified and we go back to the fantasy world so we don't get hurt knowing we are fooling ourselves,we become weak and subservient,and make excuses for her behavior. We just can't let go
Person with social anxiety who never lies will have all of those pointed out in video. So its a little bit complicated.
Ismi, roger is soo good at lieing.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LoL, not really 😆
I have a question anyone I have a fiance in the Philippines why like if I get up early my time I live in the United States why is it hard for me to get a hold of her around evening her time like she says she talks to her family all the time and her daughter like if we are video chatting she getting at least 1 call tell me to hold on my sister or brother is calling me we hang up then she will call me back but when I go to bed it's around 2 or 3 in the afternoon there but when I get up early I try to call her phone or messenger I can't get ahold of her am I waisting my time she just like vanishes then right before she goes to bed she says good night babe love you and I being played and she hangs out with these gay guys she's on the last part of her visa coming here I just want to know if she is coming here for love or for other reasons I have tried researching this but I never get a real answer it's just weird she like disappears then if this one gay guy says we're going to the market she just rushes me says we're going to the market and she has to go my parents are really concerned they just don't want me to get hurt I send her 400 USD per month please give me some advice thank you
I use to go through that with the vanishing stop sending money and slow down the visa process then see how she acts. It she changes her behavior there’s your answer. Because coming here to the states is a great opportunity. LDR relationship is hard I’m in one now so I know. My suggestion pull back some.
Hi Roger & Ismi CONGRATULATIONS🎉🎊Since I was married for 20+ years to the 👿and I found out that she also lied to me for years🤬and I'm now 64 but when I was 40 I needed a judge to tell me "Yes you need a divorce". I'm a good guy but Thankfully my 3 kids wanted to stay with me
Ahhhh so not to be trusted about anything. Ok no problem. Lies is their second nature so being honest with them is a waste.
It really gives me this wierd feeling like something isn't right I have called her out on it she gets a little irritated but then she says we were eating or at the market or something she calls this guy baks or something like that it's just hard I'm here she is there I just don't want her coming here then all the sudden 2 weeks like she gets a job and makes up some reason she is going to move out we have had a relationship for 4 years advice please
I was hoping to hear if someone is lying online, I’m not ready to invest in a plane ticket yet. Maybe lying online can be another topic for you.
You have clearly identified the ways to know youe spouse is a cheater
How to know when a Filipino is lying? They're breathing
Hi , what city do you live
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It sound like she will continue lying. If that happened to me I would be gone in ten seconds.
Say bye bye
I find that Pinay's are the worst at lying! LOL. Not good at it at all.
When her lips are moving😂😂😂
Ismi at 2:43 we're you picking your nose at all?
NO ! She just touched the nose on the outside.
How to know if a pinay is lying ? Her lips are moving .
You have a boyfriend ?
No ( she has a pinoy and a foreigner) etc . So many examples . Pinoy married to older foreingers and then have 100 percent pinoy baby 😂. It's so obvious . But whatever .
Her lips are moving!
Why is lying so normalized though? I’m an incredibly honest person so I just don’t understand it
In time even white lies come out in conversation as contradictions arrise. I can understand that some of the issues that she has would be relationship killers and make her undateable . If a relationship is built on lies then it probably won't last but if you know ahead of time then perhaps she could be a stepping stone to a great relationship. Just smile and be nice because we wouldn't be where we are today without the people in our past . This sounds cruall but she lied to you so you have the power to make your own decisions.
Maybe you can try to stop her lying
@@RogerIsmiVlogs if there is one I have learned about the past is that you can't change it and trust is based on truth . You can't control other people's actions only your own so I guess the choice is mine to trust a person who has already lied to me .
Ismi, you in your opening said everyone lies! Not true. Perhaps in your circle of friends and experiences, that is true, but not with me and my closest friends. Yes, many do lie, some of them uncontrollably, or so it seems, but I don't! Since I don't lie, I don't have to remember that which I once said and then have to cover up that lie. Liers always get caught in/with their lies, sooner or later (hopefully). With my closest friends, we simply don't do that to each other...or anybody! And further, you admit to lying to Roger and to others. Why are you lying in the first place? This simply doesn't make any sense to me. Surely you know that lying only adds to more problems down the road. And, then when you get caught, and evidently everybody around you know when you are lying, your not fooling anybody, let alone yourself. None of it makes any sensed.
Is her mouth moving? Then yea.
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The truth will ALWAYS make itself known, so better to just get it out. Lying destroys trust in a relationship, and without trust you have nothing. Little white lies are still lies, that why it's not called a little white truth. Lying to not offend is just stupid, I find it more offensive to be lied to, if you aren't comfortable enough to tell me the truth then you're not comfortable enough to be in a relationship. Lying is a sin, you would think a religious people wouldn't do it.
Lol heard that it interested In not wanting Phil man wants to try white man .. then lead to asking for money.
I don’t lie and shoot from the hip and don’t hold back and confront liars and it’s not a good practice and I don’t recommend it for anyone. I’m me and you all be you if you will.
Roger, If you keep pulling your hair back u will have a hairy spot on your back, just teasing bro
If you lie just once a month to your partner its ok. If its 2 times a month its critical and 3 times a month you must end it.
They are pathological liars. Always assume she is lying or holding back some truth