Will people leave you when you're ill?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 เม.ย. 2021
- Will people leave you or abandon you if you are going through a time of adversity?
This adversity could be in form of an illness you may have or it could be any major changes you are going through.
Hope it helps
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I went through something similar to yourself - I had a huge ulcerative colitis flare up, became dangerously underweight and had emergency surgery to remove my colon. Sadly this was in September during lockdown so I was very isolated. I was looking forward to seeing my boyfriend when I got out of hospital, and a few days later he left. It was the most challenging time and I feel I’m still emotionally recovering. Some relationships ended, some were strengthened and new ones formed. I think your perspective is so healthy - some people are not ready to go through something this challenging, but the ones that can will come to the front and will show up for you. If people can’t cope and have to leave, it isn’t their fault, that’s just where they’re at. It’s a really hard lesson to learn but ultimately it’s better for both parties. Still getting my head around it all. Thanks so much for the videos and for articulating this all so well.
What a great video. I have been through cancer.... some people left me ... some stayed with me ... I have now changed so much ... even I find it hard to believe ... but I feel now FREEDOM. Thank you for your precious thoughts.
People with depth and people who love you stay.
I can’t get my head around this. If any of my family were ill, I would be by their side looking after them. Sorry to hear about what happened to you.
So true my friend.
I believe, in most cases it's just the parents who actually stay by your side.
Only a few can stand by you when you're in a trying time
I have a very small number of friends who have been there for me through tough times. I have had some friends leave when I faced adversity and I agree that they didn’t have the coping skills but I realized I don’t want fair weather friends. Now the friends who were not there for me are still acquaintances but we don’t hang out anymore. I don’t have room in my life for people who only show up for dinner at a restaurant but won’t offer any emotional support during trying times.
Being strong brother
When people love you truly, so they wont leave you
This happened to me too. I don't wish the type of pain i felt on any of them.
never!
Angel...
I believe it depends on the people you have next to you. Life is full of suprises. There is nowhere written that life will always be full of roses. You get tested more in the worst senarios in life rather than the better ones. We do not give up on people we love no matter what. We stay to support and give love and affection to them. Leaving is weakness and emptyness. So they are better off...
Please watch Elisabeth Elliot on her topic which is called suffering is not for nothing.
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So how if you are boyfriend his ill then he say it over I can’t be with you anymore because am ill i can’t do anything for you and you agree to be with him even he ill still he don’t want to be with you what can you do you still love him and he don’t want to you because he sick Leukemia disease ? You find him no respond when he respond he say please try to forgive and forget me i can’t be with because Am sick I can’t give you good life all in all he said still you I told him don’t worry about me agree to be with you for any situation still he can’t :(