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Interesting way of meeting but I guess if it was from God then who can doubt that! I’m single so yeh I have my reserves on how I’ll meet someone whenever God sends him along , I definitely prefer meeting in person rather then online.
@Anne-lise Van Der Put hey girl! Yes, you can be anywhere and join ☺️. And idk what the time difference is, but we will post each meeting in our private Facebook group after the meetings.
It’s “tinder success” stories like these that had me get on tinder..but the guys on there nearly had me scared to ever meet them in person. I had to get off for my own mental health and so that I would not hate men. Other than that, love you guys! Your videos have been super helpful to me!
I love that you guys brought up physical boundaries and how that ended up playing out in the path of your relationship! It's refreshing to hear people state exactly what boundaries they expect from their relationships. Thank you guys!
I met the man I love now while dating a different guy. It was a horribly complicated situation and I felt so bad for having feelings for this new man. Against all good advice, I ended my 3 year relationship and almost immediately started dating this new man, but somehow it was the best decision of my life, and we've been happily together for nearly 6 years now. You're right, there is no one good way to date.
@@OO-qt7ec Not wasted, we had a pretty mutual breakup, and were growing apart. No regrets, just good experiences, and we're still friends. Way to assume he was still head over heels for me.
@@Maya-ez9wk so Tell me how would you react when this whole thing repeats itself but this time you are married woman.. Definitely this is going to happen because heart wants what it wants.. I'm feeling bad for your husband because he's with you because it's his turn right now and after his turn there will be someone else's turn. #cheatingwife
@DHARIN PATEL Well by that logic everyone should stay with the first person they date forever because according to you, if a relationship ends once then it'll inevitably end forever with consecutive people. I never cheated on anyone, and sorted out everything with my last relationship before starting the new one. The heart does want what it wants, and my heart now knows what healthy love looks like. It took time, and I did have guilty feelings for a short time, but realistically nothing unfaithful ever happened, and I was never married to the first man. I was looking for a good husband for me, not trying to marry the first guy who ever interested me regardless of how downhill things were going over time.
This video had me CRACKING UP. Your videos of you two sharing your lives and your faith with me is SUCH a blessing in this crazy world. God bless you both! ❤️
You Guys Should Make Another Video Talking About The Rest Of The Story. I Enjoyed It So Much That I Had Not Realized That It Was The End Of The Video. ☺️
@@PaulandMorgan Hi! I loved your story how you both were so honest and were just being yourself... but what about.... the time Holy Spirit audibly told you that "this is your husband"?
To have received God's favor in regards to finding a spouse at a young age........... well I am very glad you two did. 🙏Praying: Lord please for give me for letting myself ruin the blessings you may have tried to give me over the years. And for being a piece of clay that is exceedingly difficult to work with. But You are The Potter of all creation. You alone have the strength to soften this clay to make me a better servant for Your Kingdom and a better man for my future wife... before all the all the years of my youth are gone. Amen
So true that there is no cookie cutter way to do a relationship! My hubby and I met, dated, and married within a year! People thought we were crazy but we discerned and trusted in God and it all worked out for us! Thanks for sharing yalls story!!!
Not judging at all, honestly this is so encouraging! Often Christian advice videos make me feel like I need to be in this perfect position and do everything in the perfect order. Really reassuring to see how God's grace can bring such a strong godly marriage even in spite of all our human insecurities, awkwardness, and fumbling
I was shook about Paul's boundaries, but I have so much respect for it. Intimacy shows itself in more than just a s*xual relationship and it was wise for him to know himself and guard his heart.
I hear you on the "guys that say they're a Christian and don't live like it" deal. I was married to a man That claimed to be one but then blindsided me and because of it, were divorced. A true man of God that really and truly loves the Lord and not just in words but in how he lives his life, is such a rarity. You are truly blessed. Being a divorced mom, I am extremely picky if I ever date again. I've got baggage, but I love the Lord and I hope one day I'll marry again. But that man is going to have to be a rare gem of a man and pretty special to be in my life. And boy I'm not rushing into anything ever again. The men I've encountered all seem to "love you" after barely even knowing what kind of person you are. It's very off putting for sure
Paul, I’d like to get your mom’s advice on how she taught her son about the importance of holding back physical affection until you’re sure on marriage lol I homeschool my 3 boys 😃
@@domx7zero157 I would agree with you but sometimes it works, you know to have a such short time to date. I think Paul was led by the Holy Spirit and knew it was time. Maybe I’m wrong but that’s what I think 🤔.
As a 19 y.o. guy I want Paul to know how much I look up to men like him for going the extra mile to glorify God in dating. It's really awesome, and when i start dating I'm doing the same in terms of the physical boundaries. I don't want to share those special experiences like holding hands or a first kiss until it's with the woman I know I will marry as well. ✝️😁
What a blessing to hear of a young man that has convictions and standards he’s willing to stand up for! As a single young person I know how hard it is to try to stay pure in this impure generation. God bless!
Thanks for posting this video. When I hear couples' sincere testimonies and what God did in their lives, it really helps me put things into perspective and see what God is capable of orchestrating. It is sometimes difficult to remember these things when we are facing trials, but reminders like these are so helpful and uplifting. God bless yall!
WOAH!!! What an incredible story of how God works through where we are to give us what we need. ALSO, if anyone has any questions about the Trainer Joe's 21 Day Transformation let me know. I've done the program and it was the biggest blessing of my life.
What surprised me is I didn’t realize morgan had reservations in the beginning, based on the old videos 👀 but I love hearing the deep juicy details. ❤️
Calling a girl “loose” is bad in general but to think that just because she wanted to cuddle... y’all need to think twice about calling yourselves “loving” Christians when you are literally calling names and passing judgements on people just because they wanted to cuddle. And Morgan too, you dont need to disqualify yourself by saying you were in a bad place, it’s ok to want cuddles and that definitely is not a sign of you being in a bad place. The purity culture has been so internalized in both of them it’s scary
If she says she was in a bad place, then she probably.. was in a bad place. You don’t get to tell somebody whether or not they were in a bad place within their own life. Obviously there were probably OTHER issues going on with her at that period of time that attributed to why she said that. She probably just thinks her comment was cringy, and remembered she had made that comment at a not so great period in her life, so she felt a need to say that.
@@cassiesheppard9955 my point is that it seemed from the video, bc the cuddling is the only thing both of them mentioned, that the very act of asking for cuddles in a tinder bio was what made her “in a bad place” I don’t doubt that other things were going on but that’s not what they said... they brought up the bio and said she was in a bad place so that’s all i have to go off of. My point is that wanting cuddles doesn’t mean you are in a bad place and even if morgan was for other reasons it’s bad to get on the internet and start telling people “yea i wanted cuddles i was in such a bad place” i want women, and people in general, to know that it is ok to want cuddles or any other form of physical affection and that doesn’t reflect any which way on where you are in life. Wanting physical affection/touch is a completely normal thing and definitely does not mean that you are in a bad place, it just means you’re a normal human being
Before I met my fiancé , I was in a toxic relationship for 6months and I was struggling at about month 3-4 about what to do ! I was praying for god to change him and trying my best to get him to change. And one day while I was at church , I was worshiping and praying and I felt god say you can change him . And as the next few months went by , god was revealing to me that I needed to break things off but I tried to fight it . I thought that , this was what I wanted and that he was my person . And on Mother’s Day morning, as I went to church I was mentally struggling and I knew that I wasn’t doing what god wanted me to do . So when I got to church, burnt out , I started praying and I prayed the prayer “ god I want to do your will for my life even if it’s not what I particularly like and right then I felt him say break off your relationship. And over the last several months, I have grown so much and found the person that god made for me to marry ! Someone that is kind and cherishes me and absolutely loves Jesus
I really enjoyed listening to you guys❤️ I love Morgan being so Open and genuine about everything she though, and I'm more Paul type, never kissed or had a relationship before, but waiting on the Lord's perfect timing🤍
I take messy, over-sharing and straight-forward Paul and Morgan over pretending, perfect-looking, only-sharing-the-good-parts Christian youtubers ANY DAY!
This is really a touching story. So many things could have gone wrong, and either of you could have given up, but God meant you for one another. You ended up accepting and appreciating each other as is. Also, it's clear that Paul is very comfortable with his masculinity, especially given his fun and sometimes kid-like fashion sense. :0)
Morgan!! Your story in particular (sorry Paul, you’re cool too) is so inspiring to me!! It’s incredibly similar to mine, right down to getting back on track at age 20, and it’s so inspiring and provides so much hope to me to know that I can relate in that way to someone who I admire as a woman of God! Praise God for the way that He’s working through your testimony! ❤️ keep serving him, sister!
I met my sweet husband on Tinder! Totally wish I met him at church like my sisters met their husbands 😆 but it worked out!! Haha but my story is practically the same!!
He is so patient.. He is exactly what God knew you needed and the fact that you two were so honest in the beginning I am happy for you both..but wait what about when you heard God tell you this is the man for you and he's your husband?
I love that! Me and my husband were engaged after 3 months of meeting and married 3 months after that. We’re 2 years in with a beautiful baby boy. The Lord truly works in mysterious but beautiful ways❤
I think it is important when we are in friendships with the opposite gender to guard our hearts. I was recently friends with someone who indicated that he liked me and I was really praying about it, but suddenly he just got into a relationship with another girl. He really hurt me. I pray and ask that all brothers in Christ would be careful with how they treat their sisters--caring for their hearts and not leading them into false hope (if they aren't interested in a relationship). I know sisters in Christ should do the same but men are the pursuers in this area.
How you guys met and the fact that you were almost complete opposites, somehow gives me a bit of hope that God maybe has someone out there for me. I'm almost 30 and very similar to Paul, but since I'm a shy introvert I don't think I'll be opening any dating accounts, so there goes that... lol
Hey I’m a shy introvert too man ...I’m 33 years old ...I’ve had relationships but they never worked out ..so I’m 33 years old , never married and no kids ...but I know God has someone great for me ..it’s all about his timing . So far I have no luck finding a real Christian girl who loves Jesus
Y’all are so cute, Paul my man I can totally relate to you so much, I’m one of those guys that talks about Jesus ALL the time, quoting scripture and speaking life into others My heart is so full of compassion for people, to love people where they’re at is my heart. Also being abstinent myself, on the journey to seeking a spouse is tricky but I know Jesus has me in the palms of his hands and works ALL things together for those who love him! Loved this video so so much! Be blessed y’all!
I can’t imagine living such a judge-y lifestyle. Saying that your first thought about your wife was that she’s LOOSE? For wanting to cuddle? Paul was on Tinder too, he’s no saint 🙄
It’s just standards. Everyone has them… and they’re all wildly different. You know what you want and if you want it for life, you can’t be too careful to not settle. 😊
To he honest, I dont trust the internet, and I dont trust online dating. But I get why it could he good for others. My friend's parents met through online dating, and she wouldnt exist if online dating didnt exist. But I personally would never do it because I dont like the internet. I don't want just anyone possibly getting my information. But that's just me🤷♀️
Hi, you where actually my 4th grade substitute for my teacher ms.Kennedy at Warner elementary. i remember we had a drawling contest and you would hand out starburst a lot. At the end of the day we were waiting for our bus and you we’re watching a video on your phone and someone asked what you where watching and you said your TH-cam and I remember I went home and searched you up on TH-cam and was just so surprised. I really hope you remember. haha I’m now in 7th grade. please please respond
I’ve been rockin with y’all since 2017! & still waiting on that SURPRISE! Pregnancy update - AND YES, I am still being patient lol We miss Micheal too, how is he? It’s been a minute... In other news! Guys, I’m engaged to be married! YAAY! 💍 2021 guys I DID IT! listen y’all, Issa husband He did it, I said YES! 🤫 I bagged myself an absolute zaddy! I’m talmbout a KING 👑 🥊 God showed out! He really did y’all 🥰😍 #wonthedoit #imawifenow #issahusand #isaidwhatisaid Love y’all ❤️ Morgan, we still waiting on that bump! Please & Thank you 🤔🤣
This is kinda insensitive. Different couples struggle with different fertility issues. Adding pressure doesn’t help and you never know what they could be going through
I fell in love with my girl at church, she accepted my date request and we are talking, also imma ask for her number when I see her this Wednesday at church night. Can’t wait to see her again, she is amazing and sweet and she is on fire for Jesus and I am too❤️
You are both cute brothers, I wish I could meet a brother that is serious and innocent like Paul and whom I can marry ! I don't know if dating websites could be good to me like in my life before I used it for the bad reasons...But God makes all things new, right? Thanks for sharing, it's glorifying God. Blessings to you bros, in Christ :) Vanessa from France 🇫🇷
Could y’all do an episode on the effects of influencers advertising restrictive diets that often spiral into eating disorders? And how those disorders often result in suicide and death for those that suffer due to the push of diet culture through people with a large following?
Morgan, you used to be so free and loving and then this manipulative man got to you saying you were wrong and ungodly. How sad, how abusive. I would wish the best for you but you give such terrible advice for people. Hope you guys see the damage you guys do to others...
Could y’all do a video on faithfulness in Christian dating and marriage/ having a pure mindset? This video was fantastic. I was surprised that y’all only dated for four months (good surprised-I think that’s really cool!)
Awwwww I loved hearing those!!!! What a beautifully unique love story written by God. Love your purity and joy. It actually wasn't all too unusual for me to hear because David (My now fiance) and I waited three(ish?) months to hold hands and then like a year and a half to two years to kiss on the cheek and we are waiting on our first kiss until our wedding day in two and a half months. And I've said before that my story is like Morgan's because I went a bit too far before marriage as well (God intervened when I almost went the furthest, praise and Glory to Him!) And I am David's first girlfriend so he like Paul hadn't held hands until we were together and whatnot. The only strange thing to me was tinder ;) but you guys are totally right, God can use anything! Blessings, you two
Why so much attention on Morgan was a mess? Paul was also a mess. They act like she should be grateful she’s met him. But he’s not all that great either.
@@katehb6038 She should keep in mind they're both humans, everybody makes mistakes. It does a real number on your self esteem when you see your husband as your savior. She has already internalized that idea and he does nothing to counter that.
That is a beautiful love story!! Thank you guys for sharing. TBH Paul, I'm the same way. I don't want to do things like hold a girl's hand unless I know I want to be serious with her.
Dating apps are going to be my last resort. I want someone who comes my way and is already participating in whatever thing I am involved in. Over time, if she is the one for me, God will draw us together. I'm not saying it's evil, as it worked out for you guys, but it is my last resort as there are thousands of women that will meet the criteria, but only one is the one for me.
Therefore stay awake for you do not know when the Master of the House will come, in the evening, or at midnight or when the rooster crows, or in the morning let's become suddenly and find you asleep.And I say to you I say to all: Stay awake". - Mark 13:35-37
Oh my... I have no words to express how grateful I am to the Lord for your life! I love you all soo much guys, and I'll always pray for you and your family! God bless you! And thank you for share YOUR *INCREDIBLE* LOVE STORY!
very inspiring and insightful so thanks for sharing. been searching for my lifetime partner online and no success so far but I believe all good things comes to those who patiently wait. 🙏🏻
I just fast up until lunch and have one serving of Huel in the middle of the day. That combined with the fasting I had already been doing and now that is most of what I eat. I have lost 30 pounds in 2 months.
hey, Paul and Morgan. Love watching your videos and like your slogan/motto says, "have hope and be free" you guys have given me hope in terms of finding Godly relationships in todays day and age....... Love Ogaufi from Botswana
Hey!!! I’ve never heard your story until now!! O_O That’s so cool!! I don’t know why I feel like I knew you guys thought of each other like that! When you guys first met!! Haha!
I really enjoyed hearing your story about how you met and fell in love. It really took me by surprise that you and Morgan were super honest on your first date. I thought that was really cute. I think that you and Morgan are a cute couple and I think that I've found someone similar to Paul. :) His name is Tyler Baker. I think I am in love with Tyler lol. I've been praying for a while about him and praying that God would bring me a man like Tyler or give me a chance to go on a date with him. He came to my mind when I began watching y'all's love story. He works at a coffee shop right now and I work at tropical smoothie cafe and teach swim lessons. He used to be a teacher and plans on joining the army in a year....i'm not sure why. I'm praying that God would give me an opportunity to go on a date with him, especially since he's about to join the army. Now that I think of it, who asked out who first? Did you ask Paul out first, Morgan? Or did Paul ask out you first, Morgan?? Also, I've visited the coffee shop that he works at a lot. I've visited the coffee shop 3 times in the past 2-3 weeks. I'm starting to lose hope. Maybe he's not interested in me?? Maybe he's dating someone else?? There could be a million possibilities. It hurts to know someone that you could see yourself marrying is not interested in you. Except, the problem is people think he's too old for me....:D He's 11 years older than me, except he looks like he could be my age. I'm 19 and he's 28 years old. Maybe I need to stop asking God to be with him and just trust the process. I'm trusting God that He will carry me through this situation, as hard as it seems like. He is a good Christian man full of morals and good character. He's very tall, has blue eyes like the sea and he's the most handsome man I've ever seen. I forgot to mention he also is around 6 feet and 4 inches tall and I'm 5 feet and 5 inches tall. I feel like my heart matches his heart. I feel like he has the key to my heart :D
So the real question is.... you guys gonna homeschool your kids when you have them? :) THAT would be a video conversation I'd be super curious to watch.
Thanks so much for sharing! I love hearing love stories, and it’s even better when it’s the love story of two of the most godly people I know of! ❤️ Thank you for always being so honest and vulnerable and letting God use you
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Interesting way of meeting but I guess if it was from God then who can doubt that! I’m single so yeh I have my reserves on how I’ll meet someone whenever God sends him along , I definitely prefer meeting in person rather then online.
@Anne-lise Van Der Put hey girl! Yes, you can be anywhere and join ☺️. And idk what the time difference is, but we will post each meeting in our private Facebook group after the meetings.
I know it's pretty randomly asking but do anyone know a good place to watch new tv shows online?
It’s “tinder success” stories like these that had me get on tinder..but the guys on there nearly had me scared to ever meet them in person. I had to get off for my own mental health and so that I would not hate men.
Other than that, love you guys! Your videos have been super helpful to me!
I love that you guys brought up physical boundaries and how that ended up playing out in the path of your relationship! It's refreshing to hear people state exactly what boundaries they expect from their relationships. Thank you guys!
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Paul: Meh she seems loose
Also Paul: *swipes right*
Swipe right means what?
@@kollmann-fan4325 swipe right means yes and swipe left is no. Most dating apps have you swipe on potential matches.
I met the man I love now while dating a different guy. It was a horribly complicated situation and I felt so bad for having feelings for this new man. Against all good advice, I ended my 3 year relationship and almost immediately started dating this new man, but somehow it was the best decision of my life, and we've been happily together for nearly 6 years now. You're right, there is no one good way to date.
So you wasted 3 years of the other guys life being selfish? Wow such a nice story to share. I feel awful for that other guy you probably deeply hurt.
@@OO-qt7ec Not wasted, we had a pretty mutual breakup, and were growing apart. No regrets, just good experiences, and we're still friends. Way to assume he was still head over heels for me.
@@Maya-ez9wk so Tell me how would you react when this whole thing repeats itself but this time you are married woman.. Definitely this is going to happen because heart wants what it wants.. I'm feeling bad for your husband because he's with you because it's his turn right now and after his turn there will be someone else's turn. #cheatingwife
@DHARIN PATEL Well by that logic everyone should stay with the first person they date forever because according to you, if a relationship ends once then it'll inevitably end forever with consecutive people. I never cheated on anyone, and sorted out everything with my last relationship before starting the new one. The heart does want what it wants, and my heart now knows what healthy love looks like. It took time, and I did have guilty feelings for a short time, but realistically nothing unfaithful ever happened, and I was never married to the first man. I was looking for a good husband for me, not trying to marry the first guy who ever interested me regardless of how downhill things were going over time.
@@Maya-ez9wk so what if the guy you're with now chooses another woman over you?
This video had me CRACKING UP. Your videos of you two sharing your lives and your faith with me is SUCH a blessing in this crazy world. God bless you both! ❤️
You Guys Should Make Another Video Talking About The Rest Of The Story. I Enjoyed It So Much That I Had Not Realized That It Was The End Of The Video. ☺️
Haha aww glad to hear it! ❤️
Yes
@@PaulandMorgan yes definitely finish the story
Yes please I wanna hear everything!
@@PaulandMorgan Hi! I loved your story how you both were so honest and were just being yourself... but what about.... the time Holy Spirit audibly told you that "this is your husband"?
To have received God's favor in regards to finding a spouse at a young age........... well I am very glad you two did.
🙏Praying: Lord please for give me for letting myself ruin the blessings you may have tried to give me over the years. And for being a piece of clay that is exceedingly difficult to work with. But You are The Potter of all creation. You alone have the strength to soften this clay to make me a better servant for Your Kingdom and a better man for my future wife... before all the all the years of my youth are gone. Amen
So true that there is no cookie cutter way to do a relationship! My hubby and I met, dated, and married within a year! People thought we were crazy but we discerned and trusted in God and it all worked out for us! Thanks for sharing yalls story!!!
So cool!🙌
Not judging at all, honestly this is so encouraging! Often Christian advice videos make me feel like I need to be in this perfect position and do everything in the perfect order. Really reassuring to see how God's grace can bring such a strong godly marriage even in spite of all our human insecurities, awkwardness, and fumbling
I was shook about Paul's boundaries, but I have so much respect for it. Intimacy shows itself in more than just a s*xual relationship and it was wise for him to know himself and guard his heart.
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I hear you on the "guys that say they're a Christian and don't live like it" deal. I was married to a man That claimed to be one but then blindsided me and because of it, were divorced. A true man of God that really and truly loves the Lord and not just in words but in how he lives his life, is such a rarity. You are truly blessed. Being a divorced mom, I am extremely picky if I ever date again. I've got baggage, but I love the Lord and I hope one day I'll marry again. But that man is going to have to be a rare gem of a man and pretty special to be in my life. And boy I'm not rushing into anything ever again. The men I've encountered all seem to "love you" after barely even knowing what kind of person you are. It's very off putting for sure
Paul, I’d like to get your mom’s advice on how she taught her son about the importance of holding back physical affection until you’re sure on marriage lol I homeschool my 3 boys 😃
Absolutely mind boggling that you guys went from being single to being married within 8 months time haha
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@@domx7zero157 that's pretty rude
@@domx7zero157 I would agree with you but sometimes it works, you know to have a such short time to date. I think Paul was led by the Holy Spirit and knew it was time. Maybe I’m wrong but that’s what I think 🤔.
As a 19 y.o. guy I want Paul to know how much I look up to men like him for going the extra mile to glorify God in dating. It's really awesome, and when i start dating I'm doing the same in terms of the physical boundaries. I don't want to share those special experiences like holding hands or a first kiss until it's with the woman I know I will marry as well. ✝️😁
Good stuff😊👊
@Guard Man on Duty Thank you for sharing that! I appreciate hearing others in my generation want the same thing.
What a blessing to hear of a young man that has convictions and standards he’s willing to stand up for! As a single young person I know how hard it is to try to stay pure in this impure generation. God bless!
Love to hear that Morgan found acceptance and love from a godly man although she wasn’t mentally in a good place. Gives me lots of hope💕
Thanks for posting this video. When I hear couples' sincere testimonies and what God did in their lives, it really helps me put things into perspective and see what God is capable of orchestrating. It is sometimes difficult to remember these things when we are facing trials, but reminders like these are so helpful and uplifting. God bless yall!
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WOAH!!! What an incredible story of how God works through where we are to give us what we need. ALSO, if anyone has any questions about the Trainer Joe's 21 Day Transformation let me know. I've done the program and it was the biggest blessing of my life.
Hey Lucy!❤️ Woot woot! Thanks for the comment Sis🙏
U2's relationship gives me hope God bless your marriage I love you too so much
Thank you❤️❤️
What surprised me is I didn’t realize morgan had reservations in the beginning, based on the old videos 👀 but I love hearing the deep juicy details. ❤️
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Calling a girl “loose” is bad in general but to think that just because she wanted to cuddle... y’all need to think twice about calling yourselves “loving” Christians when you are literally calling names and passing judgements on people just because they wanted to cuddle. And Morgan too, you dont need to disqualify yourself by saying you were in a bad place, it’s ok to want cuddles and that definitely is not a sign of you being in a bad place. The purity culture has been so internalized in both of them it’s scary
If she says she was in a bad place, then she probably.. was in a bad place. You don’t get to tell somebody whether or not they were in a bad place within their own life. Obviously there were probably OTHER issues going on with her at that period of time that attributed to why she said that. She probably just thinks her comment was cringy, and remembered she had made that comment at a not so great period in her life, so she felt a need to say that.
@@cassiesheppard9955 my point is that it seemed from the video, bc the cuddling is the only thing both of them mentioned, that the very act of asking for cuddles in a tinder bio was what made her “in a bad place” I don’t doubt that other things were going on but that’s not what they said... they brought up the bio and said she was in a bad place so that’s all i have to go off of. My point is that wanting cuddles doesn’t mean you are in a bad place and even if morgan was for other reasons it’s bad to get on the internet and start telling people “yea i wanted cuddles i was in such a bad place” i want women, and people in general, to know that it is ok to want cuddles or any other form of physical affection and that doesn’t reflect any which way on where you are in life. Wanting physical affection/touch is a completely normal thing and definitely does not mean that you are in a bad place, it just means you’re a normal human being
Before I met my fiancé , I was in a toxic relationship for 6months and I was struggling at about month 3-4 about what to do ! I was praying for god to change him and trying my best to get him to change. And one day while I was at church , I was worshiping and praying and I felt god say you can change him . And as the next few months went by , god was revealing to me that I needed to break things off but I tried to fight it . I thought that , this was what I wanted and that he was my person . And on Mother’s Day morning, as I went to church I was mentally struggling and I knew that I wasn’t doing what god wanted me to do . So when I got to church, burnt out , I started praying and I prayed the prayer “ god I want to do your will for my life even if it’s not what I particularly like and right then I felt him say break off your relationship. And over the last several months, I have grown so much and found the person that god made for me to marry ! Someone that is kind and cherishes me and absolutely loves Jesus
I really enjoyed listening to you guys❤️ I love Morgan being so Open and genuine about everything she though, and I'm more Paul type, never kissed or had a relationship before, but waiting on the Lord's perfect timing🤍
I take messy, over-sharing and straight-forward Paul and Morgan over pretending, perfect-looking, only-sharing-the-good-parts Christian youtubers ANY DAY!
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I think it's so nice that you were completely honest from the very first date 😁 I really liked your story, thank you for sharing! God bless you both!
Thank you🙏❤️
I already knew the love story, but I loved to hear a more in-depth version of it. :)
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my husband and I met on tinder ❤️ God answered our prayers & has been here from the start. Thankful for our unique story.
This is really a touching story. So many things could have gone wrong, and either of you could have given up, but God meant you for one another. You ended up accepting and appreciating each other as is. Also, it's clear that Paul is very comfortable with his masculinity, especially given his fun and sometimes kid-like fashion sense. :0)
Thank you🙏 Haha I like to mix it up with my clothes :)
@@PaulandMorgan Me too, although these days it usually involves black and jewel tones. :0)
Morgan!! Your story in particular (sorry Paul, you’re cool too) is so inspiring to me!! It’s incredibly similar to mine, right down to getting back on track at age 20, and it’s so inspiring and provides so much hope to me to know that I can relate in that way to someone who I admire as a woman of God! Praise God for the way that He’s working through your testimony! ❤️ keep serving him, sister!
Thanks for sharing, Ruby❤️
I am excited to do this 21 day Transformation! 💪🏼🔥
Woot woot! We’re pumped too!🔥🔥
I met my sweet husband on Tinder! Totally wish I met him at church like my sisters met their husbands 😆 but it worked out!! Haha but my story is practically the same!!
Haha so cool!😊
Morgan! Where is your shirt from?? Its so simple and lovely! Funnily enough, ive actually been looking for something like that.
^^questions that need answers!
He is so patient.. He is exactly what God knew you needed and the fact that you two were so honest in the beginning I am happy for you both..but wait what about when you heard God tell you this is the man for you and he's your husband?
I love that!
Me and my husband were engaged after 3 months of meeting and married 3 months after that. We’re 2 years in with a beautiful baby boy. The Lord truly works in mysterious but beautiful ways❤
Wow! You are defiantly the prize as well Paul!! And what a true man of God!!
It is so obvious The Lord is on this!! And blessing you both!!❤️
I think it is important when we are in friendships with the opposite gender to guard our hearts. I was recently friends with someone who indicated that he liked me and I was really praying about it, but suddenly he just got into a relationship with another girl. He really hurt me. I pray and ask that all brothers in Christ would be careful with how they treat their sisters--caring for their hearts and not leading them into false hope (if they aren't interested in a relationship). I know sisters in Christ should do the same but men are the pursuers in this area.
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Dang kinda surprised you guys met on Tinder, especially with what it's known for.
But really cool to listen too!
How you guys met and the fact that you were almost complete opposites, somehow gives me a bit of hope that God maybe has someone out there for me. I'm almost 30 and very similar to Paul, but since I'm a shy introvert I don't think I'll be opening any dating accounts, so there goes that... lol
Hey I’m a shy introvert too man ...I’m 33 years old ...I’ve had relationships but they never worked out ..so I’m 33 years old , never married and no kids ...but I know God has someone great for me ..it’s all about his timing . So far I have no luck finding a real Christian girl who loves Jesus
Lemme tell ya.. there's women are the exact same
Y’all are so cute, Paul my man I can totally relate to you so much, I’m one of those guys that talks about Jesus ALL the time, quoting scripture and speaking life into others
My heart is so full of compassion for people, to love people where they’re at is my heart. Also being abstinent myself, on the journey to seeking a spouse is tricky but I know Jesus has me in the palms of his hands and works ALL things together for those who love him!
Loved this video so so much! Be blessed y’all!
Amen bro, really appreciate the comment👊
Morgan, how do you feel about Paul forcing you to give ur music career bc he didn't approve of it?
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Oh no.This account is fake.
Paul and Morgan pointing at themselves all proud and excited I love watching you guys💙
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Can relate to feeling broken.
But Christ looks out for each of us. 🙏
Beautiful story ♥️
I can’t imagine living such a judge-y lifestyle. Saying that your first thought about your wife was that she’s LOOSE? For wanting to cuddle? Paul was on Tinder too, he’s no saint 🙄
literally such hypocrites
Hu? Just in case you didnt know, thoughts come to peoples mind anf thats just the way it is. 🤦🏻♀️
Jenn, however, is a saint. 🤡
It’s just standards. Everyone has them… and they’re all wildly different. You know what you want and if you want it for life, you can’t be too careful to not settle. 😊
Yes- how dare he be honest with his wife. Nothing spells disaster like honesty in a relationship.
Great video - I especially loved the 3+ minute ad at the beginning that you didn’t mark in any way or make clear was an add. Nicely done.
To he honest, I dont trust the internet, and I dont trust online dating. But I get why it could he good for others. My friend's parents met through online dating, and she wouldnt exist if online dating didnt exist. But I personally would never do it because I dont like the internet. I don't want just anyone possibly getting my information. But that's just me🤷♀️
I've watched all your old videos and really enjoy your relationship advice! I'm 16 years old and I'd love to see more videos like this!
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You can fall in love, go find your love as I did, God be with you and God bless you🙏
Haha “wild stallion”, really loved the video & hearing more about your story!
Also, what camera do you use to film?
Dude Girl Defined made a video that is literally the antithesis to this one about “Mr Struggle.”
Wait what ?I don’t understand what you said
@@browncookies8048 they said mr struggle is the guy u should avoid. The guy who is “going through things”
@@angelaovershares Why should we avoid him. Is he false teaching ?
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@@browncookies8048 they just said that you don’t want to deal with someone going through struggles in life. It’s selfish imo
Wow!! That really hit me. I am really hoping to meet one day a guy who also REALLY loves Jesus.
Hi, you where actually my 4th grade substitute for my teacher ms.Kennedy at Warner elementary. i remember we had a drawling contest and you would hand out starburst a lot. At the end of the day we were waiting for our bus and you we’re watching a video on your phone and someone asked what you where watching and you said your TH-cam and I remember I went home and searched you up on TH-cam and was just so surprised. I really hope you remember. haha I’m now in 7th grade. please please respond
It's so funny that you *BOTH* were on Tinder and you *both* were probably thinking _why_ is this person on Tinder?!🤣👏
Haha
I’ve been rockin with y’all since 2017!
& still waiting on that SURPRISE! Pregnancy update - AND YES, I am still being patient lol
We miss Micheal too, how is he?
It’s been a minute...
In other news!
Guys, I’m engaged to be married!
YAAY! 💍
2021 guys I DID IT!
listen y’all, Issa husband
He did it, I said YES! 🤫
I bagged myself an absolute zaddy!
I’m talmbout a KING 👑 🥊
God showed out! He really did y’all 🥰😍
#wonthedoit
#imawifenow
#issahusand
#isaidwhatisaid
Love y’all ❤️
Morgan, we still waiting on that bump!
Please & Thank you 🤔🤣
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This is kinda insensitive. Different couples struggle with different fertility issues. Adding pressure doesn’t help and you never know what they could be going through
I fell in love with my girl at church, she accepted my date request and we are talking, also imma ask for her number when I see her this Wednesday at church night. Can’t wait to see her again, she is amazing and sweet and she is on fire for Jesus and I am too❤️
You are both cute brothers, I wish I could meet a brother that is serious and innocent like Paul and whom I can marry ! I don't know if dating websites could be good to me like in my life before I used it for the bad reasons...But God makes all things new, right? Thanks for sharing, it's glorifying God. Blessings to you bros, in Christ :) Vanessa from France 🇫🇷
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My husband and I met on tinder too!! Love the Lord, we are Married with 2 kids and a business. 🤩
Could y’all do an episode on the effects of influencers advertising restrictive diets that often spiral into eating disorders? And how those disorders often result in suicide and death for those that suffer due to the push of diet culture through people with a large following?
Morgan, you used to be so free and loving and then this manipulative man got to you saying you were wrong and ungodly. How sad, how abusive. I would wish the best for you but you give such terrible advice for people. Hope you guys see the damage you guys do to others...
Scrolled the comments if I see someone who points this out. Dude manipulated her.
Yes so wonderful. Paul was a true godly man. U guys did well not dating too long. That’s the way it should be
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Absolutely love love love your story guys. Love the fact that you guys are so real and raw in everything that you post ❤️
Thank you😊❤️
Could y’all do a video on faithfulness in Christian dating and marriage/ having a pure mindset? This video was fantastic. I was surprised that y’all only dated for four months (good surprised-I think that’s really cool!)
If you search their more popular videos, they have many videos on that topic
Nobody:
Morgan: “In the bessst waaayy 😏😙😙”
I think Pauli you just liked the wild Morgan more than anything else!😂👍
I love yalls videos! Boundaries are important and knowing that Jesus is all around and in the relationship is extremely important.
Yess🙌
Awwwww I loved hearing those!!!! What a beautifully unique love story written by God. Love your purity and joy. It actually wasn't all too unusual for me to hear because David (My now fiance) and I waited three(ish?) months to hold hands and then like a year and a half to two years to kiss on the cheek and we are waiting on our first kiss until our wedding day in two and a half months. And I've said before that my story is like Morgan's because I went a bit too far before marriage as well (God intervened when I almost went the furthest, praise and Glory to Him!) And I am David's first girlfriend so he like Paul hadn't held hands until we were together and whatnot. The only strange thing to me was tinder ;) but you guys are totally right, God can use anything! Blessings, you two
Thanks for sharing! Congrats on almost being married🙌
Why so much attention on Morgan was a mess? Paul was also a mess. They act like she should be grateful she’s met him. But he’s not all that great either.
purity culture brainwashing
@@katehb6038 She should keep in mind they're both humans, everybody makes mistakes. It does a real number on your self esteem when you see your husband as your savior. She has already internalized that idea and he does nothing to counter that.
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This is very telling :( He should have corrected her every time she made that thought known)
He literally said “I was a mess too”
Loved "we'll see about that."😂😂🤣🤣
😂😂 I never get tired of hearing your stories! I’m laughing and loving it the whole time!
Haha aww yay❤️
That is a beautiful love story!! Thank you guys for sharing. TBH Paul, I'm the same way. I don't want to do things like hold a girl's hand unless I know I want to be serious with her.
Love your story! Very entertaining, and even taught me a few things to apply in my own life. Thanks for sharing ❤️
Aww good!❤️
Dating apps are going to be my last resort. I want someone who comes my way and is already participating in whatever thing I am involved in. Over time, if she is the one for me, God will draw us together. I'm not saying it's evil, as it worked out for you guys, but it is my last resort as there are thousands of women that will meet the criteria, but only one is the one for me.
Keep the story going! - really liked this ❤
Aww❤️❤️
Loved this video!! Also Morgan where did you get your shirt? It's so cute
The dogs smooshed face after Paul whistles is the best part of this video. Lol
These videos are always fun! I'm also in love with a girl named Morgan as well but she's playing really hard to get....wish me luck✨💖
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Sounds like she's communicating clearly. If you have to convince someone to date you, maybe it's not time.
miss these videos!! love you guys :)
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Therefore stay awake for you do not know when the Master of the House will come, in the evening, or at midnight or when the rooster crows, or in the morning let's become suddenly and find you asleep.And I say to you I say to all: Stay awake". - Mark 13:35-37
We need a part two 🙌🏽🙌🏽💕
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Oh my... I have no words to express how grateful I am to the Lord for your life! I love you all soo much guys, and I'll always pray for you and your family! God bless you! And thank you for share YOUR *INCREDIBLE* LOVE STORY!
this video is the cutest🥺/funniest😂 love y'all!!!
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Loved this! ♥️ part 2, part 2!
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very inspiring and insightful so thanks for sharing. been searching for my lifetime partner online and no success so far but I believe all good things comes to those who patiently wait. 🙏🏻
You met on Tinder and then dated and then married? Not very unusual
Paul really is such a gem. Every "Christian" guy I come across is obsessed with sex and is addicted to porn :(
Beautiful story. This inspired me. :)
Aww good❤️
I absolutely loved hearing your story!
Aww❤️❤️
I just fast up until lunch and have one serving of Huel in the middle of the day. That combined with the fasting I had already been doing and now that is most of what I eat. I have lost 30 pounds in 2 months.
Hey I love jesus too, so there's that 😂😂 great pickup line
Baha yes😊
hey, Paul and Morgan. Love watching your videos and like your slogan/motto says, "have hope and be free" you guys have given me hope in terms of finding Godly relationships in todays day and age.......
Love Ogaufi from Botswana
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Hi! Welcome back to life love and dating!
Haha🙌🙌
The love story was great! Heard it before but, it's great to hear it again 😊
Haha thank you😊❤️
You had a service dog?!?! That surprised me the most, honestly!
Hey!!! I’ve never heard your story until now!! O_O That’s so cool!! I don’t know why I feel like I knew you guys thought of each other like that! When you guys first met!! Haha!
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You guys are so real,lovely story I enjoyed it 😊.
Thank you😊😊
Please share more stories about your journey from the moment you met to you two getting married, blessings from Colombia
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YEAY its good story
yuhuuu!!
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I really enjoyed hearing your story about how you met and fell in love. It really took me by surprise that you and Morgan were super honest on your first date. I thought that was really cute. I think that you and Morgan are a cute couple and I think that I've found someone similar to Paul. :) His name is Tyler Baker. I think I am in love with Tyler lol. I've been praying for a while about him and praying that God would bring me a man like Tyler or give me a chance to go on a date with him. He came to my mind when I began watching y'all's love story. He works at a coffee shop right now and I work at tropical smoothie cafe and teach swim lessons. He used to be a teacher and plans on joining the army in a year....i'm not sure why. I'm praying that God would give me an opportunity to go on a date with him, especially since he's about to join the army. Now that I think of it, who asked out who first? Did you ask Paul out first, Morgan? Or did Paul ask out you first, Morgan?? Also, I've visited the coffee shop that he works at a lot. I've visited the coffee shop 3 times in the past 2-3 weeks. I'm starting to lose hope. Maybe he's not interested in me?? Maybe he's dating someone else?? There could be a million possibilities. It hurts to know someone that you could see yourself marrying is not interested in you. Except, the problem is people think he's too old for me....:D He's 11 years older than me, except he looks like he could be my age. I'm 19 and he's 28 years old. Maybe I need to stop asking God to be with him and just trust the process. I'm trusting God that He will carry me through this situation, as hard as it seems like. He is a good Christian man full of morals and good character. He's very tall, has blue eyes like the sea and he's the most handsome man I've ever seen. I forgot to mention he also is around 6 feet and 4 inches tall and I'm 5 feet and 5 inches tall. I feel like my heart matches his heart. I feel like he has the key to my heart :D
Hey, I tried to click on the link, to the 21 days program, but it says "Access Denied - GoDaddy Website Firewall"... am I the only one?
Hey, I just clicked and it worked for me! Maybe try again :)
So the real question is.... you guys gonna homeschool your kids when you have them? :) THAT would be a video conversation I'd be super curious to watch.
Thanks so much for sharing! I love hearing love stories, and it’s even better when it’s the love story of two of the most godly people I know of! ❤️
Thank you for always being so honest and vulnerable and letting God use you
Aww thank you❤️
Paul's beard makes him look dadishhh🤭
hello hello
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