Truth is most single moms are single by their own fault or choice. Not all but most. Probably 80%. They view men as sqerm donors for an easy child support check plus government benefits. They know exactly what they are doing.
@@LeeEverett1the blame is always on you because you the one who open your legs you also try to flex by saying you're more mature than men that you're smarter than men so you the choice is on you
Sometimes relations can't be saved, and one are better off parting. Single moms and single fathers can match and do alright, they are in the same situation
@@CarefulObserver1 Not saying that but women are the ones who can get pregnant they should be extremely selective on who goes raw. They have 100% control over that
Being in that situation will demean you and tear you apart most of the time. You can pretend you love that other guys kid as much as you want but it won't ever be to the level you'd love your own. I did it, she left me for baby daddy. Don't ever do it yourself
@@anthonymichaels257yep just like an friend I know which I am going on no contact but keeping it cordial because she got two kids from someone else ass a woman I decide not to talk to her at all
@@derekazyan9942 I believe your 100 percent correct, once they get us in that loop it's a big game to them and I just can't understand how they can treat others so bad. Demons for sure!
I made this mistake 5 years ago. I got with my girlfriend got introduced to her kids accepted the kids they accepted me. I married her we were together for 6 years i come to find out she is full blow toxic narcissist has a severe alcohol addiction paired with gambling addiction. I divorced her for these toxic reasons. Now she text me she told me to delete her and the kids phone numbers and not contact them again. I found out she went back with her Ex after 6 years with me. Dont do it Guys its a Lose Lose Situation learn from my Mistakes
My older brother, who has zero kids to this day did this in the past and he got burnt pretty bad.... He was nothing but good to her and the kids, she had 2 kids, and it did not work out at all, he got attached to the kids and she ended up cheating and broke his heart. I didn't like her very much from the start because I knew she was no good and she was just a user.
For a long time now I've said that single moms fit in best with single dads. What you notice with todays single mothers however is they seem to entirely avoid men with children in favor of preying on men without kids, enormous red flag.
Facts. Don't worry about the haters. Keep providing the facts. The haters will hate because you're correct. They'll hate because they can't except facts.
Dated a few of them they can be hott buttt drama never met the kids but the baby daddy drama such a turn off yuck I walked away free thank the lord never ever again yikes was I stupid yessss for doing that I will call myself out
Not just no but, HELL NO! 🚩 🚩 🚩 Do not do it Men. Especially when they were admittedly sober & in their right mind when they caught the case of trying to kill their Husband. In addition have been in Prison for years thinkin’ up new ways to destroy Men. DO NOT DO IT. Unless you want to experience a $hit Show with an EXTREME Narcissist on a whole new level!
one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
I highly advice to stay clear of single moms for serious relationships. But if you do go that route, first make sure the father is in no way shape or form part of the picture. Second make it clear from the start that if you are to take her serious that you are the leader of that family. You will take on the role of the father and any form of discipline she will not go against (as long as it’s not abuse, of course). If she cannot agree to those terms, she is just fun time or move on.
Even in my case, with talking about expectations and whatnot, it got blasted to bits, out the window. Things change once you go serious and into marriage with that. But you are too obsessed to look past it all by then. Then you're stuck as her slave. She is silently comparing you to the next man, or the last, but you are never her best because she can't ever find that, it doesn't exist, but she doesn't know that.
Even if the father is not around you have to ask why I’m in that situation broke up with her got married had a daughter my x is pregnant too but can’t let me be a father to my son and I’ve been there since day one so think about that
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
The most hilarious (and scarily common) thing is when they say.. "My standards are way HIGHER now that I'm a single Mom.". Like good luck with that. You might get a simp of somekind if you're lucky lady. Most men with self respect won't be about that. They had almost zero standards for Chad and his kid, but now she needs a millionaire LOL. Don't be the simp retirment plan.
hundred percent that’s what she’s got one that she monkey branch to after a 10 year relationship she should talk about him randomly sometimes and said that she’d never be with somebody like that he was full of himself sleeps with anybody get his heartbroken all the time too soft and that’s who she moved onto after they gave me arrested and getting a restraining order and taking my kidthen for me to bump into him and he messages me telling me how much he loves her it may seem fast but things have happened. He loves her and loves my little boy and he will look after them and protect them but I will always be daddy like mate what the hell?
If baby daddy dies, I'll consider it. No other way. Problem is, most women are very dull and painful to talk to (some men too). I came across one I actually liked being around often, with depth. But there's nothing I can do but move on, I deserve a better situation. I feel myself again already.
Every thing in society is to please woman and men should be her good worker while she does the easy work manipulation at its finest can’t blame them tho,how would they survive without us
Been there done it. Got out. New from day 1. Pumped and dumped. She had her good qualities though. You never know until you try. I tell you this it was good 6 month Christmas. Even the neighbors seen
I fell in love with a single mother. Hard! But I had CRPs voice in my head all the time "Never date single mothers!" I distanced my self and told her I dont want relationship. Two weeks later she was with another guy. So I guess I dodged the bullet, It was painful. Still think about her sometimes.
The thing is, a woman who has demonstrated she can be a mother is attractive. As far as I’m concerned only a tiny fraction of young women have what it takes. It’s hard to say. Most women with kids are too complicated but not always and with young women it’s all yet to be seen.
For me it wasn't the kid, the mother was not only insane but a thief and a liar and had stamping screaming fits when confronted and would abuse and sideline her own kid in favour of her own wants. I've done it once (she had a convincing mask that slipped as they all do and she was good looking), I will never do it again.
i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.
YES ...i would...i love kids. I want a woman who has 5 kids with 5 different guys. She is treasure, has a lot of experience, knows to cook well , doesn't want more kids , gets a lot of money from the government and fathers of those kids ...plus if she has 5 cats....man , that's perfect, my life would never be boring. 😅😅😅
Yeah it woulddnever be boring!! You never know if you gonna get attacked by the single mom GF, her Kids, the ex BF, the crazy Dog, or one of her drunk friends!! Sounds amazing.
i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.
Yeah, use them and further add to the problems that exist with casual sex and 'relationships' these days. Further add to her deteriorating ability to bond with another partner, further deteriorate your own ability. Pretty sickening mentality if you ask me.
@@KAY-PartiesMadeFun I agree it's messed up but common... Girls do that ALL the time with guys. That happened to me so many times... where the girl will be like "No I really like you so much bla bla." After a month or 2 she bounces on to the next guy.
My own mother and sister warned me that a woman will always have feelings deep down for her baby daddy. I didn’t listen and had to find out the hard way. Women who willingly have a child with a man will always have some kind of love for that man.
RuN RUN ! The kid calls you dad? Doesent matter, takes 5 mins after she leaves to tell the kid the new daddys name. You will be left with nothing. You will waste youre time , you will not be missed by the kid. You will do best to find a non single mom as soon as possible. Unless your a single dad.
Terryjoel knows the modern woman, but let's be honest: his standards are as absurd as theirs are. At almost 30, he is looking for a woman with these criteria: 1. Blonde bombshell 2. Stellar internals 3. Virtually no sexual history 4. Blonde smokeshow 5. No kids 6. Younger than him 7. Great family 8. Did I mention HOT blonde? Now guys, do ANY of you think this exists in 2025?
U make a good point he doesn’t realize this but at the same time it should be how they r just like guys should be better also . Ppl overall just care less
@@samwaldinger3914 Yeah, but in some kind of ideal world that definately doesn't exist now. It's hypocrisy. I agree with you though that he probably doesn't even see it.
@@samwaldinger3914 btw . . . he doesn't actually satisfy some of this himself. Sexual purity? No. Stellar internals? Questionable. Great family? Not from what he says on the channel. I'm not hating, truly. I am just being as he says, a realist.
I admit it. I developed feelings for a single mom. She literally hits all the boxes. Everything from looks to personality but she's a single mom. My logical mind and my heart are sometimes at war over each other. Early in life I had Asperger's tendencies so my logical mind is extremely strong and most of the time my very new heart that I have discovered later normally gets an override. Thank God. It's a technique that takes practice and will hurt sometimes. You've been warned.
I was in that situation, I was crazy about her but didnt show it. I was on sort of a rational autopilot. I cannot commit to single mother and I dont want to be a stepdad. At the same time Im experiencing strongest attraction and chemistry I ever felt. Im having best sex of my life and realizing something special is going on. I decided to ignore it and I told her I dont want a relationship.SHe left. I was cool for a few weeks but then it started to hurt. When I saw her with another guy, I couldn`t sleep that night... I must add that Im 43. Maybe Im unrealistic or I did the right thing. I don´t know.
Sometimes thats the actual mental level of some dudes and gal's....i would suggest not trying to father children you didn't make unless you plan on taking responsibility for there failure's....and lack of LOVE!!!!...!!!!!....IVE TRIED IT WITH 3 GIRLS....THEY ARE SINGLE WITH CHILDREN FOR A REASON......DONT BE ONE OF THOSE reasons.....get IT....!!!!!
Im a single mom with 2 children. The father is completely out of the picture besides co parenting with him. He asked me for a divorce and I granted his request. God will bless me in due time because I was faithful. All single moms pray to Jehovah, God for support and guidance. I couldn’t do this walk without God. God sees everything that is hidden we will all be judged. My ex husband actually pulled me away from God he transferred all his demons to me. As a result I became greatly upset. You cannot put a price on a woman who fears God. Thank you my God for not forsaking you daughter ❤
Sounds super sketchy. So you married a demon possessed "narcissist" ? and he's still in the picture parenting!?!? Maybe one day you will be ready but you gotta really look in the mirror. Women tend to blame the men for everything instead of realize it's mostly their own fault. Good luck to you though. I would wait till the kid is 18.
Joel only with a woman who sincerely fears God that overrides everything regardless if she has children or not. We cannot judge because until life hits us we say oh wow God please forgive me for my sins. I conserve myself it’s been 2 years already. I never thought I could actually do it but I AM because I pray to God every single day. And I am confident God will answer my prayers because he says all my efforts and sacrifices for actually denying myself. Well I became beautifully unbroken and now I am UNBROKEN. God is healing my heart ❤
The same logic includes newly divorced women. Don't think the first man that she married didn't leave an imprint in her. She will carry him with her in all of her future relationships.
More risk than reward ultimately. Was in a relationship with one last year, and I actually didn’t mind it. She definitely didn’t heal from her baby dad trauma. Didn’t work out though cause she was really disrespectful and crossed too many boundaries. Finally had enough and walked away. Best decision I made 2024.
I'm currently seeing a single mother of two kids. Been seeing her 9 months.. In that time she has been good towards me, however last week she gave me the "My Kids Will Always Come First" speech.. It's in that moment I realised this is not worth it in the long run for me. She has also been acting distance, and playing games with texting.. I'm a childless 45 Year old, in good shape and own house and good job.. I don't think I will be appreciated in the long run.. So I am planning to walk away soon
@@ms.camillewarrenempress31 yeh that's the plan. I have already walked away. She was acting distant, and I felt my efforts and time are not being valued.. therefore I walked away
@Vision-dd8flshe not worth it just keep your distances love her from afar cordial base !!! Especially if she has not married her baby daddy sadly enough
there was no healing done she monkey branched after 10 years with my 3 1/2 year-old boy and destroyed my life and left for somebody that I know that she said she would never be with Who Is pretty much a shrimp because you talk to pain before they fall in love everybody he has sex with everybodyand always gets his heartbroken so yeah brilliant messages me telling me how much he loves her after a short space of time and will protect my child sicko
This dude is a bit of a self righteous git saying one man has more value than the next man just because he has more money,.. money is fake the only thing that really matters in life is god nothing else will fulfill you 🙏
I was with a single mom with 2 kids for 6 years and yeah poof….I had to move out🤦🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️ now I have a fun girlfriend and never complains and puts a smile on my face….did I mention that she takes 93 octane 😝 my 94 Miata I call “Mia” that’s my new girl😉👍🏻
Maybe it’s good if they like that kinda drama sometimes these first dads have so many problems in life. Even if you help them something else their choices…I’ve seen friends in scary relationships I’m not even involved and they fight me or something
Serious question. Would you pursue a woman that had multiple partners in the past at one point but didnt get pregnant and shes single and more reserved now?
@@stunbot0 it depends on how many partners. The more partners she’s been with, the less she is able to love her current partner. Because she will be constantly comparing him to others.
Yeah, because of all these types of opinions makes me remember why I stay celibate. I don't think anyone is good enough for my son. My baby daddy took off and ditched us after 8yrs of marriage prob wont see his ass again. I will never need or bring another man into the picture. Thank you, guys, for validating why I made the right choice. I travel, make my own money, and I never have to bow to this type of remarkable stupidity again. 🙏 AMEN thanks for the relief.
The truth is, no other man is going to care about your son, let alone ‘be good enough for him’. So it’s likely for the best, the conclusion and way of life you have come to.
Can you have a topic about Single Dad? Like those men who left their kids, what can you say about them? Should a woman be with those irresponsible fathers? What are the pros and cons with Single Dad?
but but...all men are great and the best of marriage material and fathers, by nature. While all women are no good these days. That's what we learn from this channel. It's TH-cam, it must be true...) Yes, single fathers, pros and cons, that is a good idea, wonder if he will go for such a video?)
Dating women with kids is to much bs in that
I wil not take that
Don’t do it men
Truth is most single moms are single by their own fault or choice. Not all but most. Probably 80%. They view men as sqerm donors for an easy child support check plus government benefits. They know exactly what they are doing.
Women need to know that it's super bad to be a single mom. Someone needs to tell them this. A situation to be avoided at all costs
They always blame us for being single moms 😂
@@LeeEverett1the blame is always on you because you the one who open your legs you also try to flex by saying you're more mature than men that you're smarter than men so you the choice is on you
@@LeeEverett1No blame on you, ever. Right?
Sometimes relations can't be saved, and one are better off parting. Single moms and single fathers can match and do alright, they are in the same situation
@@CarefulObserver1 Not saying that but women are the ones who can get pregnant they should be extremely selective on who goes raw. They have 100% control over that
Being in that situation will demean you and tear you apart most of the time. You can pretend you love that other guys kid as much as you want but it won't ever be to the level you'd love your own. I did it, she left me for baby daddy. Don't ever do it yourself
Not some of the time all the time, even if you dont realize it.
You will always yearn to have your own child and you will only be viewed as a substitute father who is replaceable
@@retrogamer82 totally!
Sad but true
Under no circumstances should any man of integrity raise another man’s kids it’s just plain wrong
Single mums are not looking for love are looking for help
They're looking for resources
@@anthonymichaels257yep just like an friend I know which I am going on no contact but keeping it cordial because she got two kids from someone else ass a woman I decide not to talk to her at all
Don't play another man's save file. lol
😂😂😂
Exactly. I could never.
Dated a narcissistic single mom for 7 years. First 2-3 years were good. After that it was like she was replaced by a demon.
She was a covert narc and couldn’t hide it no more that’s all
Brother I did the same thing!!! 7 years with her and then all of a sudden she changed so fast and it was hell!!!
@ yeah it’s crazy how much they change on you. I think when they realize they have you hooked they start playing crazy mind games and cheat
@@derekazyan9942 I believe your 100 percent correct, once they get us in that loop it's a big game to them and I just can't understand how they can treat others so bad. Demons for sure!
Her kids will always come before you so just keep that in mind
Well said. 💯
-Her kid(s)
-Herself
-Her feelings
-Her friends and family
-Then you
In that order
@@LeeEverett1 yes I've noticed often times your friends and family don't seem to matter to them and they try to isolate you from them
Sometimes its the other way around, they put their man over their own blood kids smh
@@LeeEverett1forgot the family dog. Right between her friends and family and you
I chased a single mom, I was infatuated by her but she painfully rejected me.
There’s enough content out there about the pitfalls of single moms come on now
You got lucky single moms will always make you second.... find someone who looks up to you and make you number one
I made this mistake 5 years ago. I got with my girlfriend got introduced to her kids accepted the kids they accepted me. I married her we were together for 6 years i come to find out she is full blow toxic narcissist has a severe alcohol addiction paired with gambling addiction. I divorced her for these toxic reasons. Now she text me she told me to delete her and the kids phone numbers and not contact them again. I found out she went back with her Ex after 6 years with me. Dont do it Guys its a Lose Lose Situation learn from my Mistakes
Lose lose is the best analogy
You weren’t the man she chose you were her lifeline out.
I dated a single mom . I was about 4th or 5th on the list after the dog. Never again.
Even with mutual kids, you will not be on top, the kids will be. If you are lucky you can be no. 2
You should always be number 1 on the listed if you are not please leaves
My older brother, who has zero kids to this day did this in the past and he got burnt pretty bad....
He was nothing but good to her and the kids, she had 2 kids, and it did not work out at all, he got attached to the kids and she ended up cheating and broke his heart.
I didn't like her very much from the start because I knew she was no good and she was just a user.
Story of my life
It never ever works unless the guy dating her also has kids may maybe than
For a long time now I've said that single moms fit in best with single dads. What you notice with todays single mothers however is they seem to entirely avoid men with children in favor of preying on men without kids, enormous red flag.
They want the resources that’s why
Facts.
Don't worry about the haters.
Keep providing the facts.
The haters will hate because you're correct. They'll hate because they can't except facts.
Hell nah I would never fall in love with a single mom
Dated a few of them they can be hott buttt drama never met the kids but the baby daddy drama such a turn off yuck I walked away free thank the lord never ever again yikes was I stupid yessss for doing that I will call myself out
Tomorrow's video:
"I got a convicted murder pregnant"
Not just no but, HELL NO! 🚩 🚩 🚩 Do not do it Men. Especially when they were admittedly sober & in their right mind when they caught the case of trying to kill their Husband. In addition have been in Prison for years thinkin’ up new ways to destroy Men. DO NOT DO IT. Unless you want to experience a $hit Show with an EXTREME Narcissist on a whole new level!
These single mothers are tainting the dating pool. 4/5 women are single mothers. They had their fun now they want to settle down smh..
Boycott don’t even look at them
one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
well at least single moms will never be alone, they'll always have a bottle of wine by their side.
And a cat
I highly advice to stay clear of single moms for serious relationships. But if you do go that route, first make sure the father is in no way shape or form part of the picture. Second make it clear from the start that if you are to take her serious that you are the leader of that family. You will take on the role of the father and any form of discipline she will not go against (as long as it’s not abuse, of course). If she cannot agree to those terms, she is just fun time or move on.
Yes! Wish more men thought this way
This should save you a lot of time to still not go around single Moms leave them to the vibrators
Even in my case, with talking about expectations and whatnot, it got blasted to bits, out the window. Things change once you go serious and into marriage with that. But you are too obsessed to look past it all by then. Then you're stuck as her slave. She is silently comparing you to the next man, or the last, but you are never her best because she can't ever find that, it doesn't exist, but she doesn't know that.
If any man comes into the picture trying to lead my kid he won’t be long sticking around.
Even if the father is not around you have to ask why I’m in that situation broke up with her got married had a daughter my x is pregnant too but can’t let me be a father to my son and I’ve been there since day one so think about that
All men are valuable
Men are the prize!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
its like flogging a dead horse mate
I'm in the same situation we just have to move on
Cluster B single mother with tattoos yes boys it was awful 😭
Male loneliness is a big issue especially when your a long time on your own standards drop.
The most hilarious (and scarily common) thing is when they say.. "My standards are way HIGHER now that I'm a single Mom.". Like good luck with that. You might get a simp of somekind if you're lucky lady. Most men with self respect won't be about that. They had almost zero standards for Chad and his kid, but now she needs a millionaire LOL. Don't be the simp retirment plan.
hundred percent that’s what she’s got one that she monkey branch to after a 10 year relationship she should talk about him randomly sometimes and said that she’d never be with somebody like that he was full of himself sleeps with anybody get his heartbroken all the time too soft and that’s who she moved onto after they gave me arrested and getting a restraining order and taking my kidthen for me to bump into him and he messages me telling me how much he loves her it may seem fast but things have happened. He loves her and loves my little boy and he will look after them and protect them but I will always be daddy like mate what the hell?
Are they all baby mamas? They are for the streets.
Most of them are
Single Mother's Only Supposed Too Be With Single Father's Because They Both Have An Offspring With Some Body Ele's & Because It's Fair
If baby daddy dies, I'll consider it. No other way. Problem is, most women are very dull and painful to talk to (some men too). I came across one I actually liked being around often, with depth. But there's nothing I can do but move on, I deserve a better situation. I feel myself again already.
i know single moms that have higher standards once they become single moms blasphemous
63 and seen a lot..be careful like he says..its a fact
The 1st and best advice about single moms: Don't deal with them anyway.
Every thing in society is to please woman and men should be her good worker while she does the easy work manipulation at its finest can’t blame them tho,how would they survive without us
Been there done it. Got out. New from day 1. Pumped and dumped. She had her good qualities though. You never know until you try.
I tell you this it was good 6 month Christmas. Even the neighbors seen
Lol
@ @ seriously Christmas trees shaking an $h*t
Windows fogging up
So sad to witness the betas who get on their own two knees and bow down to a single mother with another man's saved file
I don’t know what I hate more, the single moms or the simps
It’s definitely sad I see some man do this then later down the road they ultimately get upset with the decision they made
I fell in love with a single mother. Hard! But I had CRPs voice in my head all the time "Never date single mothers!" I distanced my self and told her I dont want relationship. Two weeks later she was with another guy. So I guess I dodged the bullet,
It was painful. Still think about her sometimes.
Double standard
i was going to ask a single mom out but when she mentioned she had a son it turned me off!
You're take on it is very true,i should have never chased her only rejection and heart ache, that's what loneliness does to lonely men unfortunately.
caveat : cluster b women can never attach even if they had kids LOL
The thing is, a woman who has demonstrated she can be a mother is attractive. As far as I’m concerned only a tiny fraction of young women have what it takes. It’s hard to say. Most women with kids are too complicated but not always and with young women it’s all yet to be seen.
expect to share her, be put last and receive no credit
Here we go in the loud ass PC fans wind tunnel. WHERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRWHERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR THE ENTIRE VIDEO.
Bruh 😆
THATS what that is!
For me it wasn't the kid, the mother was not only insane but a thief and a liar and had stamping screaming fits when confronted and would abuse and sideline her own kid in favour of her own wants.
I've done it once (she had a convincing mask that slipped as they all do and she was good looking), I will never do it again.
Dont do it guys ⚠️
Their kids are a pain in the arse! And when they act up most times the mother takes thier side 😮
I don't take seconds... Not for a minute
Don’t ever be second if they cannot make you number
i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.
YES ...i would...i love kids. I want a woman who has 5 kids with 5 different guys. She is treasure, has a lot of experience, knows to cook well , doesn't want more kids , gets a lot of money from the government and fathers of those kids ...plus if she has 5 cats....man , that's perfect, my life would never be boring. 😅😅😅
Yeah it woulddnever be boring!! You never know if you gonna get attacked by the single mom GF, her Kids, the ex BF, the crazy Dog, or one of her drunk friends!! Sounds amazing.
camera quality on point, you've perfected it this time
Been there, done that. Never again.
304 or single mother by choice
i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.
These waymon will always love the child’s father, regardless of anything. They are for recreational use only, be wise
If you don’t want a single mum that’s your choice however don’t “use” them.
Yeah, use them and further add to the problems that exist with casual sex and 'relationships' these days. Further add to her deteriorating ability to bond with another partner, further deteriorate your own ability.
Pretty sickening mentality if you ask me.
@@KAY-PartiesMadeFun I agree it's messed up but common... Girls do that ALL the time with guys. That happened to me so many times... where the girl will be like "No I really like you so much bla bla." After a month or 2 she bounces on to the next guy.
No true! Promise you that!!!
My own mother and sister warned me that a woman will always have feelings deep down for her baby daddy. I didn’t listen and had to find out the hard way. Women who willingly have a child with a man will always have some kind of love for that man.
Even single girl can be full of Red flags😏, let leave alone single moms👎
Never again
RuN RUN ! The kid calls you dad? Doesent matter, takes 5 mins after she leaves to tell the kid the new daddys name. You will be left with nothing. You will waste youre time , you will not be missed by the kid. You will do best to find a non single mom as soon as possible. Unless your a single dad.
Single moms we are in a bad situation 24/7 😂 some of us before kids
Here is a thought why don't single mothers made up with single fathers and the I can go off into the sunset and live happily ever after
Terryjoel knows the modern woman, but let's be honest: his standards are as absurd as theirs are. At almost 30, he is looking for a woman with these criteria: 1. Blonde bombshell 2. Stellar internals 3. Virtually no sexual history 4. Blonde smokeshow 5. No kids 6. Younger than him 7. Great family 8. Did I mention HOT blonde? Now guys, do ANY of you think this exists in 2025?
U make a good point he doesn’t realize this but at the same time it should be how they r just like guys should be better also . Ppl overall just care less
Hah I’m not no blonde. Yeah it’s not realistic. Like I said only with a woman/ man who sincerely fears God. That is the only way!
@@samwaldinger3914 Yeah, but in some kind of ideal world that definately doesn't exist now. It's hypocrisy. I agree with you though that he probably doesn't even see it.
@@samwaldinger3914 btw . . . he doesn't actually satisfy some of this himself. Sexual purity? No. Stellar internals? Questionable. Great family? Not from what he says on the channel. I'm not hating, truly. I am just being as he says, a realist.
I don't know man. He's pretty doing good for himself so why settle for less?
I admit it. I developed feelings for a single mom. She literally hits all the boxes. Everything from looks to personality but she's a single mom. My logical mind and my heart are sometimes at war over each other. Early in life I had Asperger's tendencies so my logical mind is extremely strong and most of the time my very new heart that I have discovered later normally gets an override. Thank God. It's a technique that takes practice and will hurt sometimes. You've been warned.
I was in that situation, I was crazy about her but didnt show it. I was on sort of a rational autopilot. I cannot commit to single mother and I dont want to be a stepdad. At the same time Im experiencing strongest attraction and chemistry I ever felt. Im having best sex of my life and realizing something special is going on. I decided to ignore it and I told her I dont want a relationship.SHe left. I was cool for a few weeks but then it started to hurt. When I saw her with another guy, I couldn`t sleep that night...
I must add that Im 43. Maybe Im unrealistic or I did the right thing. I don´t know.
You Are Gold my Dear !
Why does the image quality of the video look so much worse than it did before?
Run gentlemen run!!
The camera is great now
Sometimes thats the actual mental level of some dudes and gal's....i would suggest not trying to father children you didn't make unless you plan on taking responsibility for there failure's....and lack of LOVE!!!!...!!!!!....IVE TRIED IT WITH 3 GIRLS....THEY ARE SINGLE WITH CHILDREN FOR A REASON......DONT BE ONE OF THOSE reasons.....get IT....!!!!!
Im a single mom with 2 children. The father is completely out of the picture besides co parenting with him. He asked me for a divorce and I granted his request. God will bless me in due time because I was faithful. All single moms pray to Jehovah, God for support and guidance. I couldn’t do this walk without God. God sees everything that is hidden we will all be judged. My ex husband actually pulled me away from God he transferred all his demons to me. As a result I became greatly upset. You cannot put a price on a woman who fears God. Thank you my God for not forsaking you daughter ❤
Sounds super sketchy. So you married a demon possessed "narcissist" ? and he's still in the picture parenting!?!? Maybe one day you will be ready but you gotta really look in the mirror. Women tend to blame the men for everything instead of realize it's mostly their own fault. Good luck to you though. I would wait till the kid is 18.
Joel only with a woman who sincerely fears God that overrides everything regardless if she has children or not. We cannot judge because until life hits us we say oh wow God please forgive me for my sins. I conserve myself it’s been 2 years already. I never thought I could actually do it but I AM because I pray to God every single day. And I am confident God will answer my prayers because he says all my efforts and sacrifices for actually denying myself.
Well I became beautifully unbroken and now I am UNBROKEN. God is healing my heart ❤
Broken
I think if that man/woman fears God you will be in good shape. I don’t think of my ex husband I am happy without him!
The same logic includes newly divorced women. Don't think the first man that she married didn't leave an imprint in her. She will carry him with her in all of her future relationships.
More risk than reward ultimately. Was in a relationship with one last year, and I actually didn’t mind it. She definitely didn’t heal from her baby dad trauma. Didn’t work out though cause she was really disrespectful and crossed too many boundaries. Finally had enough and walked away. Best decision I made 2024.
I'm currently seeing a single mother of two kids. Been seeing her 9 months.. In that time she has been good towards me, however last week she gave me the "My Kids Will Always Come First" speech.. It's in that moment I realised this is not worth it in the long run for me. She has also been acting distance, and playing games with texting.. I'm a childless 45 Year old, in good shape and own house and good job.. I don't think I will be appreciated in the long run.. So I am planning to walk away soon
Any red flag from trauma
@Vision-dd8flyou should be dating a person whom don’t have no children detach yourself until god find you what you need
@@ms.camillewarrenempress31 yeh that's the plan. I have already walked away. She was acting distant, and I felt my efforts and time are not being valued.. therefore I walked away
@Vision-dd8flshe not worth it just keep your distances love her from afar cordial base !!! Especially if she has not married her baby daddy sadly enough
Only do It if the original father cheated or dead. According to the Bible anyway.
Ohhh Joe, say it ain't sooo....
Well the woman has to heal before entering a new relationship. And I am healing :)
there was no healing done she monkey branched after 10 years with my 3 1/2 year-old boy and destroyed my life and left for somebody that I know that she said she would never be with Who Is pretty much a shrimp because you talk to pain before they fall in love everybody he has sex with everybodyand always gets his heartbroken so yeah brilliant messages me telling me how much he loves her after a short space of time and will protect my child sicko
Right shitty crazy things happen. Some people do things I wouldn’t do
This dude is a bit of a self righteous git saying one man has more value than the next man just because he has more money,.. money is fake the only thing that really matters in life is god nothing else will fulfill you 🙏
Nah no He's not stick to the message
@Misunderstood-c8b yes he is
@@Relentless.assault so why you here
Read : The Manipulated Man
Book by Esther Vilar
Imprinted by another man is a very strong way to put it
That’s exactly how it is.
Guys run lol don’t walk runnnn from single mothers 😂 yikes
I was with a single mom
with 2 kids for 6 years and yeah poof….I had to move out🤦🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️ now I have a fun girlfriend and never complains and puts a smile on my face….did I mention that she takes 93 octane 😝 my 94 Miata I call “Mia” that’s my new girl😉👍🏻
Maybe it’s good if they like that kinda drama sometimes these first dads have so many problems in life. Even if you help them something else their choices…I’ve seen friends in scary relationships I’m not even involved and they fight me or something
40 star 💫 Collective message 💥✔️🔥⚡️💯💯
doesnt god save all
Falling in love with a single mom 😂 ewwwww 🤮
I had good experiences of step dads and moms some really bad ones too…idk what happened there
The most Abusive thing a Man can Do to Himself is to SIMP for another man's family.....
Not simping. Without the step dad I had , I would have had no life guidance. People like you are problem with society now
@funkysawmanwright5077 read the comments, don't be a SIMP
Serious question. Would you pursue a woman that had multiple partners in the past at one point but didnt get pregnant and shes single and more reserved now?
She was dating and sleeping with multiple dudes at one time? Nah she's for the streets.
th-cam.com/video/ZdwST4RKlqQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=5vFHQHPWI7x-yIG9 😂
@k1ndr3dspirits guess I'm dying alone 😂
@@stunbot0 it depends on how many partners. The more partners she’s been with, the less she is able to love her current partner. Because she will be constantly comparing him to others.
@kyles3488 of course..I mean like, maybe 3, 4-5 max. By the age of 30.
you look orange in this
On target yet again.
Yeah, because of all these types of opinions makes me remember why I stay celibate. I don't think anyone is good enough for my son. My baby daddy took off and ditched us after 8yrs of marriage prob wont see his ass again. I will never need or bring another man into the picture. Thank you, guys, for validating why I made the right choice. I travel, make my own money, and I never have to bow to this type of remarkable stupidity again. 🙏 AMEN thanks for the relief.
The truth is, no other man is going to care about your son, let alone ‘be good enough for him’.
So it’s likely for the best, the conclusion and way of life you have come to.
@ashmac4732 Thank you for getting it. All I can do now is try to raise him the best I can. Especially in a world like this.
@@ashley316316 good riddance don't let the door hit you on the way out 🤣
this makes me think of babygirl lol
Would be a lot easier if people stayed with the same person Jesus people are dieing and getting murdered in affairs
You don't do it. PERIOD. POINT BLANK.
Thug Life
Dont
Depends. People are different.
❤🎉!
L coming soon
He “gave” a kid, lol! It’s not at all surprising that someone like you would look at it that way, lol!
Color looking even BETTER! Transition period, but looking good brother.
Im not interested unless shes had atleast 2 kids
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Can you have a topic about Single Dad? Like those men who left their kids, what can you say about them? Should a woman be with those irresponsible fathers? What are the pros and cons with Single Dad?
but but...all men are great and the best of marriage material and fathers, by nature. While all women are no good these days. That's what we learn from this channel. It's TH-cam, it must be true...) Yes, single fathers, pros and cons, that is a good idea, wonder if he will go for such a video?)