Where’s the misconception that gay guys are attracted to every guy they meet? Like, it’s so annoying when straight guy friends think that way when they know someone is gay.
Wanted to share a story from my secondary school: In sec 2, my class had a sex-ed class all about crushes and relationships. It was going quite well until my teacher said that if we are experiencing same sex attracttion, it is a normal PHASE we experience as emotional teenagers that WILL PASS. It made an impact on me, because I was already developing a huge crush on my female friend. It however, ended up with me going through turmoil for the next 3 years, crying to myself at night, wondering when I will stop likeing girls. I mean I like boys, I HAVE to be straight right? I have more guy crushes than girls. This HAVE to be a phase RIGHT?? It is only in poly where I met some loud and proud gays and lesbians as well as better support for the lgbtq+ community that I started to feel comfortable being bi. Overall, I feel that Singaporeans are very slowly improving in their acceptance of the community. But if the education about lgbtq+ is anything like what I've seen in class, then we still have a long way to go.
in sec 1 i had a really homophobic teacher. actually idk if its considered homophobic or what its just like she doesnt take lgbtq+ ppl seriously. this cher taught us CCE right, n theres sex ed n all. and the CCE slides r made by MOE so its the same slides for almost every school. the CCE slides showed like phases of a relationship. like acquantances, friends, crush, boyfriend/girlfriend, and husband/wife. bc i was from a girls school right, she said "yall ignore the girlfriend and wife lah haha". then me and a few other classmates say "why canbot have girlfriend and wife. can what." then she went full on laughing (and some of our other classmates too) like "HAHAH yall think u funny ah" then we were like serious, i glared at the girl beside me who was laughing, n many ppl shouted "NO, CAN HAVE GIRLFRIEND AND WIFE" then the classmates who laughed went quiet. the teacher, however, went like "tsk haiyah yall dont understand" and went on. like wth ya i dont understand that teacher 💀💀💀
I fully agree abt love simon the movie was so sweet and just an innocent coming of age teen movie and had 0 sexual references and has the same rating as 50 shades of grey
Jasmine Yin Looks or personality? Ps: why u no answer? Cos if looks then means I still chance out there. if personality then idk le...im not outgoing n bubbly like that anymore,the world have successfully killed me.
Jean ❤️ Omg Watch her grow up from channel 8 since Young . Knew There’s sth unique in her , always happy to see her on tv last time .Shes a very talented n charismatic person . Let’s Support the freedom to love too ❤️
Really really important video right here. There's so many other LGBT videos that shares the same message, but hearing it from your own fellow Singaporeans about the struggles you have gone through makes this so much more relatable. Being raised a Muslim has not made my coming out easy at all and I can't fathom even telling my parents any of it. This can be a sad, lonely process and having videos like this helps a lot. While sexuality is not something we have a choice about, accepting and embracing this part of who we are is. Love to all my fellow LGBTQ+ friends out here ❤️
SHere's a story : my friends/ seniors took the rainbow/pride flags to school so that we could take pictures with it as it was racial harmony Day. Somebody then complained to the teacher abt it ( as we posted it online) and we got in trouble because of it! Some our parents were called/ told to come down to the school and were talked to by the principal/teachers....ik it's not related to the video but.... Yea I kinda wanna share it
i totally feel that there was no need for such a negative reaction on the school's part but one question. why on racial harmony day tho?? a lil unnecessary and unrelated to the occasion
Sexuality is a major part of a person's identity imo. And having to repress that part of you sucks. But I think SG is far more accepting of LGBT than us in Malaysia, since muslims are a minority there. This is such an important discussion to have, to address the issues and misconceptions of the LGBT community. Too bad we don't have a proper platform for that, one that advocates a healthy discussion without hate or ignorance. But oh well the bi girl is right, not in the nearest future. Guess I'll stay in this comfy closet for a while, as a Malay bisexual.
This is really good to hear more Singaporeans speaking about the LGBTQ+ community. When you haven't come out of the closet, it feels very isolating if you have no one else to talk about because you're scared to speak at all. Thanks so much for this!
i have a classmate who says that. and its rly annoying like whenever i try to educate my friend who knows nothing about the lgbtq+ community, this classmate will be like heyo do u like pans? that means ure pansexual 💀💀💀
I’m singaporean and asexual. I only found out about the LGBTQ+ community 2 years ago when my friend came out as genderfluid. And that was how I found out I am a part of this community as well. Glad to see Singaporeans acknowledging and discussing this topic.
It's really nice watching Singaporeans talk about LGBTQ stuff/ include LGBTQ content, because nowadays the most common communities are from America, and it is very comforting to know that there's a Singaporean community, in your own country, to support and accept you.
After i told people im aro ace , they usually tell me 'I'll say that to your future partner' or 'you say that now' or 'later you become the fastest to get into relationship' and i get really angry because everyone just thinks it'll stay this way for a while until i meet someone and settle down like thats not how it works dude . All of them think its a phase (not just my family it's my friends too) honestly really hard to come out and have someone actually be supportive of me
Misconceptions are so common and it sometimes hurt when friends judge or give careless remarks about the rainbow community. Thanks for making this video. Hopefully people get to be more loving towards one and another 💓🌈 P/s: Omg Jean acted in 萤火虫的梦 when she was younger!!! Love that drama!!!! Glad that she’s doing music now ok time to find her TH-cam channel ☺️
You definitely can’t answer to a certain percentage how much you like guys or girls. I thought I could only like girls but I’m still attracted to guys. Only the heart knows.
Thank you for doing this. Please do more on these topics. As a singaporean older gay man, i find it’s hard to be who i am and most of the time I can’t be myself and have to hide. Well i’m glad that i’m not alone facing it. I’m 32 this year and when i turn 35 i shall get the HDB singles flat.
M Hairi Idk what r u getting at but personally i won't bother her bout it since she wasnt being a dick like other religious ppl. Tho i wish more n more ppl will move away/reject religion.
RonLarhz religion doesnt exist. We are all born human, not a muslim,christian, buddhist etc. But if u do something or act in a way that is forbidden from your religion, pls dont associate urself with that religion.
omgggg I have the biggest crush on Mars and totally knew that there’s something about her. now that I know that she’s bisexual/pansexual, omg my heart cannot take it, I actually stand a chance :))))) (am a bisexual girl btw)
I feel that the basics of love is about a human loving another human, be it female or male. And love itself is such a beautiful thing (trusting, caring, sacrificing, protecting) that as a 'straight' I believe that its fundamentally wrong to judge or look down on them. I do believe that many singaporeans do not just 'dont care' about the LGBT community but also accepted them as common human beings.
I’ve never felt the freedom to be Bisexual . I am part of a very conservative religious community . Singaporean by birth but now living in the States and still don’t feel very accepted but I have begun to accept myself as bisexual . Not because there is something wrong with me . Not that it’s evil as I grew up believing but because I am myself ! Still trying to work out how to live this way even though I’m part of a faith that says it’s a sin... so it’s been rly tough for sure
Subscribed :) Glad that more people are talking about this in Singapore. Came out to my close friends as bisexual, and they didn't mind at all. My family views lgbt as an "eww" thing so I'm waiting it out to see if I'll ever have the need to tell them.
Yea lor that girl that think the piece of paper isnt important. At least the other one knows the complication of not legally recognised as family/next-of-kin.
It’ll be good if the video includes subtitle. Some parts are really hard to catch and I got to keep repeating it to find out what he/she is speaking..... please do something to it..... 😕
Contrary to what some have expressed, it MATTERS MUCH whether the law is repealed or not because it criminalizes what a certain sector of society does in the privacy of their own bedroom! You cannot say it’s fine whether the law stays or not or that it’s fine that you don’t make a stand, because the reality is that people are impacted. Whether this group of people continues to suffer or not is in YOUR hands. You CAN’T be neutral.
yall can do like gender spectrum things. like difference in gender identity, biological sex and sexuality, then explain to people that gender, like many things in life, is not a black or white thing. its not only man and woman. also that pronouns dont equal gender, and they/them pronouns make sense. i feel like alot of people are still confused about this like why one person but refer to them as "them"
does wearing an oversize sweatshirts for men like your shorts is not visible is accepted in singapore? or is it prohibited? a tourist from PH that would like to visit the country thanks!!!!
Stumbled upon this... and I have to say that I’m proud at the same time in awed at how much open the younger generation has been now as compared as 10-20years ago... if you could do a part 2 of this topic, you must discuss about legalising same sex marriage... the reason why I hope this to be discussed is because of a personal experience I had when I was hospitalised, my partner of 10years was unable to visit me because the rule was families/next of kin only...
my ex bf was from singapore( from uk) but he was too scared to come out to family even after 8yrs then he dumped me miss him every second and wish we could have been together forever(which i thought was gonna happen)
Hello i’m from Indonesia coming out in Indonesia is so hard, my parent is religious person, They will be angry and maybe kick me out from their home, i’m gay but this feelings is so strong. since i was child, attracted to male, i think LGBT is normal, is not a disease, give me some message. what should i do？
Gay community is a little bit straight forward and judging just like general population (toward LGBT). If you're feminine than you're out. For example, nobody want a chinese guy just because they look feminine which made them less attractive among gay community. Similar to the concept of AMWM relationship. The things is not only non-LGBT need to change but the people of LGBT also.
maybe yall can like invite parents of lgbtq+ youth, and mayb the lgbtq+ person as well. as a young human who is part of the lgbtq+ community, i feel that it is more difficult for us to communicate with the older generations and adults, making it super hard for us to come out. i have some friends, who are aged about 13-17, who came out to their parents, grandparents, siblings and friends, and they got put down. peple say things like its just a PHASE. or AIYA U SO YOUNG HOW U KNOW. or DO U EVEN KNOW WHAT GAY MEANS. and it hurts alot like as a young human, u know that your elders might not listen to u, or that u will get scolded if u come out. but u gather all your damn courage and say it, in hopes that people can accept u for who u are, only to get put down and scolded. it leaves us dejected and scarred, and some people might develop anxiety.
This is to mars.. There’s no such thing as bisexual/pansexual You can still be bisexual when your preference is more to women You can still be bisexual when your preference is more to men You can still be bisexual when you’re more attracted to that opposite gender However, when you say pansexual.. it means you’re still going to be attracted regardless of how they identify themselves, and you’re not settling for this particular gender or what the person identity themselves. Bisexuality is they prefer 2 genders but they prefer more to maybe men or women Pansexuality is they do not prefer 2 genders but they let people more in than just 2.
secretong malupet actually I think that she’s pansexual but uses the bisexual label as well because some people don’t know about pansexuality. Also in my opinion pansexual people are bi but bi people are not necessarily pan
Kelvin Yes she is. So is her brother. Her bro was still calefare for mediacorspe few years ago. Not sure bout now as i hardly watch mediacorspe anymore. I hate how the lgbtq artistes still work for such bigoted company with the hypocritical mda over censorships n whatsnot. Rape and adultery and even somewhat incest is glorified in their dramas but anything that suggest lgbt or good/neutral portayal is censored.
@@RonLarhz haha, mediacorpse, i like that! really befitting of the way all their original dramas and shows are going to shit and less people watch over the years. the plot is always so dull or unresolved, and sometimes they say some stereotypical shit abt other races/sexualities. theres so much more that the media in singapore could do better in handling and producing but they don't even try lmao.
Thank God my church doesn't say anything abt lgbt at least that's better than them being homophobic cuz if they do I'll throw my shoe at the pastor talking and be like " I'll throw the other if u don't shut up and apologise"😡
Irrelevant. Lgbt people want equal rights. Whether I was a car or bike or helicopter. I still have to pay for my own parking. I’m not gonna demand for it. When everyone else is paying for it. LGBT people want what everyone should be entitled to have. The freedom to love.
Were they even okay with being labelled? Referring to the first question, Cus there are people who don’t see in labels and can find it to be offensive if they were asked for their sexual orientation?
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Where’s the misconception that gay guys are attracted to every guy they meet? Like, it’s so annoying when straight guy friends think that way when they know someone is gay.
Whitedarkish and most of them straight dudes are ugly af lol zero fashion sense
My favorite response is “why makes you think that I’d be attracted to you?” 😏😂😂😂 I love how offended they get 😂😂😂
Yeah same with girls reacting to lesbians. The moment you tell them "well you're not my type" they suddenly get upset.
My friends says I thought gay people are funny I am like wutttttt
PRECISELY. like dude even girls won’t like you, what makes you think gay guys will like you.
singapore needs to be ready for conversations like this.
I realize it is quite off topic but do anybody know of a good website to stream new movies online ?
@Amir Mark Lately I have been using Flixzone. Just google for it :)
@Lorenzo Israel Yea, been watching on flixzone for since april myself =)
@Lorenzo Israel thanks, I signed up and it seems like they got a lot of movies there :D I appreciate it!
@Amir Mark Glad I could help =)
Wanted to share a story from my secondary school:
In sec 2, my class had a sex-ed class all about crushes and relationships. It was going quite well until my teacher said that if we are experiencing same sex attracttion, it is a normal PHASE we experience as emotional teenagers that WILL PASS.
It made an impact on me, because I was already developing a huge crush on my female friend. It however, ended up with me going through turmoil for the next 3 years, crying to myself at night, wondering when I will stop likeing girls. I mean I like boys, I HAVE to be straight right? I have more guy crushes than girls. This HAVE to be a phase RIGHT??
It is only in poly where I met some loud and proud gays and lesbians as well as better support for the lgbtq+ community that I started to feel comfortable being bi.
Overall, I feel that Singaporeans are very slowly improving in their acceptance of the community. But if the education about lgbtq+ is anything like what I've seen in class, then we still have a long way to go.
in sec 1 i had a really homophobic teacher. actually idk if its considered homophobic or what its just like she doesnt take lgbtq+ ppl seriously. this cher taught us CCE right, n theres sex ed n all. and the CCE slides r made by MOE so its the same slides for almost every school. the CCE slides showed like phases of a relationship. like acquantances, friends, crush, boyfriend/girlfriend, and husband/wife. bc i was from a girls school right, she said "yall ignore the girlfriend and wife lah haha". then me and a few other classmates say "why canbot have girlfriend and wife. can what." then she went full on laughing (and some of our other classmates too) like "HAHAH yall think u funny ah" then we were like serious, i glared at the girl beside me who was laughing, n many ppl shouted "NO, CAN HAVE GIRLFRIEND AND WIFE" then the classmates who laughed went quiet. the teacher, however, went like "tsk haiyah yall dont understand" and went on. like wth ya i dont understand that teacher 💀💀💀
I fully agree abt love simon the movie was so sweet and just an innocent coming of age teen movie and had 0 sexual references and has the same rating as 50 shades of grey
Singapore sometimes makes no sense😂
It wasn't aired in Malaysia either, and I was upset that the movie was given a R rating in Singapore
@@yolodude594 MONKEYPOX makes alot of sense.
Jean is so attractive.
Jasmine Yin
Looks or personality?
Ps: why u no answer? Cos if looks then means I still chance out there. if personality then idk le...im not outgoing n bubbly like that anymore,the world have successfully killed me.
RonLarhz both (personal opinion)
her voice is candy to the ears.
I agree 😍
call me weird but the way Jean talks is so calming I love it
Jean ❤️ Omg
Watch her grow up from channel 8 since Young . Knew There’s sth unique in her , always happy to see her on tv last time .Shes a very talented n charismatic person .
Let’s Support the freedom to love too ❤️
Really really important video right here. There's so many other LGBT videos that shares the same message, but hearing it from your own fellow Singaporeans about the struggles you have gone through makes this so much more relatable. Being raised a Muslim has not made my coming out easy at all and I can't fathom even telling my parents any of it. This can be a sad, lonely process and having videos like this helps a lot. While sexuality is not something we have a choice about, accepting and embracing this part of who we are is. Love to all my fellow LGBTQ+ friends out here ❤️
SHere's a story : my friends/ seniors took the rainbow/pride flags to school so that we could take pictures with it as it was racial harmony Day. Somebody then complained to the teacher abt it ( as we posted it online) and we got in trouble because of it! Some our parents were called/ told to come down to the school and were talked to by the principal/teachers....ik it's not related to the video but.... Yea I kinda wanna share it
So***
Wait so the principle/teachers had problems with it too? What was their justification for calling your parents?
i totally feel that there was no need for such a negative reaction on the school's part but one question. why on racial harmony day tho?? a lil unnecessary and unrelated to the occasion
@@thepriceofsalt9003 yea quite unrelated in RHD
Coming out as a Malay bi is so hard and scarry but at the same time this generation is slowly oveing up so love freely evryone ❤️
Yuki cross Gurl, I understand you. To make it worse, I'm also a Malaysian. Yeaaaayyy.
shaeensilver I'm a Singaporean Malay 😂
damn this is me
people gonna say like "HARAM!" zzzzz
stay strong!
Sexuality is a major part of a person's identity imo. And having to repress that part of you sucks. But I think SG is far more accepting of LGBT than us in Malaysia, since muslims are a minority there.
This is such an important discussion to have, to address the issues and misconceptions of the LGBT community. Too bad we don't have a proper platform for that, one that advocates a healthy discussion without hate or ignorance. But oh well the bi girl is right, not in the nearest future. Guess I'll stay in this comfy closet for a while, as a Malay bisexual.
Okay, I'm empathize with you cause I myself also LGBT but like since when are Malays are minority here in Malaysia?? You never went outside, isit?
Jan Viator there as in SG
Yup...me too...a gay that stay in closet.
This is really good to hear more Singaporeans speaking about the LGBTQ+ community. When you haven't come out of the closet, it feels very isolating if you have no one else to talk about because you're scared to speak at all. Thanks so much for this!
Omg thank you for talking about this. Very few sg channels talk less about these issues. I'm so grateful. Sharing this.
one misconception people make about gay guys is that they think we all like to crossdress wtf
Me:I'm Pan
Someone:haha so you like Pans?
Me: *breathes* _bOI-_
i have a classmate who says that. and its rly annoying like whenever i try to educate my friend who knows nothing about the lgbtq+ community, this classmate will be like heyo do u like pans? that means ure pansexual 💀💀💀
So much love to them for being so brave and coming out in our squarelike society
Aww come on, everyone is human after all. ❤️ Time for Singaporeans to accept that this ain’t such a big a deal
Love this!! More lgbt things please :p
I’m singaporean and asexual. I only found out about the LGBTQ+ community 2 years ago when my friend came out as genderfluid. And that was how I found out I am a part of this community as well. Glad to see Singaporeans acknowledging and discussing this topic.
ok but like the girl on the far right looks alot like lisa from blackpink
hvnafi that's what I thought too!
That was what i was thinking!!
Same
Ikr! I was going to write it down tho 😂
I'M JEAN-SEXUAL!!!!!!!!!!! HOW CAN A PERSON GLOW LIKE THAT!?
You guys are definitely not alone! We are LGBT too! Hang in there y'all ❤️
It's really nice watching Singaporeans talk about LGBTQ stuff/ include LGBTQ content, because nowadays the most common communities are from America, and it is very comforting to know that there's a Singaporean community, in your own country, to support and accept you.
After i told people im aro ace , they usually tell me 'I'll say that to your future partner' or 'you say that now' or 'later you become the fastest to get into relationship' and i get really angry because everyone just thinks it'll stay this way for a while until i meet someone and settle down like thats not how it works dude . All of them think its a phase (not just my family it's my friends too) honestly really hard to come out and have someone actually be supportive of me
Misconceptions are so common and it sometimes hurt when friends judge or give careless remarks about the rainbow community. Thanks for making this video. Hopefully people get to be more loving towards one and another 💓🌈
P/s: Omg Jean acted in 萤火虫的梦 when she was younger!!! Love that drama!!!! Glad that she’s doing music now ok time to find her TH-cam channel ☺️
You definitely can’t answer to a certain percentage how much you like guys or girls. I thought I could only like girls but I’m still attracted to guys. Only the heart knows.
OMG Jean reminds me of Ben Kheng 😍
Thank you for doing this. Please do more on these topics. As a singaporean older gay man, i find it’s hard to be who i am and most of the time I can’t be myself and have to hide. Well i’m glad that i’m not alone facing it. I’m 32 this year and when i turn 35 i shall get the HDB singles flat.
I came out to my parents as bi and they are in denial lol ._.
It's great that Zula has covered the topic of being LGBT in Singapore. Awesome! More LGBT topics to explore!
Yeasss!❤I'm a Muslim too. But I believe that love is love! Wave that rainbow honey!🌈
JinHime you doesnt look like muslim
I am. Not all Muslims look like a Muslim. So a Catholic person has to look White?
If u know muslim and what it stands for, u wouldnt call urself muslim
M Hairi
Idk what r u getting at but personally i won't bother her bout it since she wasnt being a dick like other religious ppl.
Tho i wish more n more ppl will move away/reject religion.
RonLarhz religion doesnt exist. We are all born human, not a muslim,christian, buddhist etc. But if u do something or act in a way that is forbidden from your religion, pls dont associate urself with that religion.
omg I still remember seeing jean on tv during my childhood days
omgggg I have the biggest crush on Mars and totally knew that there’s something about her. now that I know that she’s bisexual/pansexual, omg my heart cannot take it, I actually stand a chance :))))) (am a bisexual girl btw)
yoweygirl go for it, reach out, all the best
I just did and can I say, she is the sweetest ahhh so in love .-.
Was Jean a mediacorp actress when she was a kid? I rmb seeing her star in kid shows Hahahah
Give it 10 years we won’t even care hahaha
Child:mum I’m gay
Mother: orh ok 👍🏻
If it really turns out that way... One can only hope.
I'm so proud of this vid!!!💗
I feel that the basics of love is about a human loving another human, be it female or male. And love itself is such a beautiful thing (trusting, caring, sacrificing, protecting) that as a 'straight' I believe that its fundamentally wrong to judge or look down on them. I do believe that many singaporeans do not just 'dont care' about the LGBT community but also accepted them as common human beings.
I’ve never felt the freedom to be Bisexual . I am part of a very conservative religious community . Singaporean by birth but now living in the States and still don’t feel very accepted but I have begun to accept myself as bisexual . Not because there is something wrong with me . Not that it’s evil as I grew up believing but because I am myself ! Still trying to work out how to live this way even though I’m part of a faith that says it’s a sin... so it’s been rly tough for sure
I think I remember seeing Jean being with a guy on a channel 8 drama when I was young. I wonder how she felt about that
Subscribed :) Glad that more people are talking about this in Singapore. Came out to my close friends as bisexual, and they didn't mind at all. My family views lgbt as an "eww" thing so I'm waiting it out to see if I'll ever have the need to tell them.
This is real talk right here! There should be more inclusion in society.
THIS. WE NEED MORE THINGS LIKE THIS IN OUR LIVES. Tbh it's time people accept that you cant stick to the rules when you love someone #lgbtqsupport
AHAHA I WAS NOT EXPECTING TO SEE YOU HERE BUT HI JX
don't let the public's opinion of you affect your freedom to love! keep doing what you do best mars ;)
Yea lor that girl that think the piece of paper isnt important. At least the other one knows the complication of not legally recognised as family/next-of-kin.
It’ll be good if the video includes subtitle. Some parts are really hard to catch and I got to keep repeating it to find out what he/she is speaking..... please do something to it..... 😕
What about Transgender ?
LGBTQ+ Don't Forget About T.
9:52
interracial marriage in Singapore please!!
Saw Sean @ pinkdot and I said hi to him HAHAHA so proud of all of u! :D
What happens if we declare gay in national service when MO ask about it?
Contrary to what some have expressed, it MATTERS MUCH whether the law is repealed or not because it criminalizes what a certain sector of society does in the privacy of their own bedroom! You cannot say it’s fine whether the law stays or not or that it’s fine that you don’t make a stand, because the reality is that people are impacted. Whether this group of people continues to suffer or not is in YOUR hands. You CAN’T be neutral.
Hit close to home
finally this video was long overdue
yall can do like gender spectrum things. like difference in gender identity, biological sex and sexuality, then explain to people that gender, like many things in life, is not a black or white thing. its not only man and woman. also that pronouns dont equal gender, and they/them pronouns make sense. i feel like alot of people are still confused about this like why one person but refer to them as "them"
First change the laws.. Then we talk. Otherwise it's just talk talk talk. It's ridiculous foreigners can't attend Pink dot as supporter.
I never knew he was gay! :0
does wearing an oversize sweatshirts for men like your shorts is not visible is accepted in singapore? or is it prohibited? a tourist from PH that would like to visit the country thanks!!!!
Great video! 👍 love you guys!
Stumbled upon this... and I have to say that I’m proud at the same time in awed at how much open the younger generation has been now as compared as 10-20years ago... if you could do a part 2 of this topic, you must discuss about legalising same sex marriage... the reason why I hope this to be discussed is because of a personal experience I had when I was hospitalised, my partner of 10years was unable to visit me because the rule was families/next of kin only...
my ex bf was from singapore( from uk) but he was too scared to come out to family even after 8yrs then he dumped me miss him every second and wish we could have been together forever(which i thought was gonna happen)
Thanks for the video, it's nice to hear the views of the LGBT in Singapore, as a Singaporean. Support to everyone out there. 💪🏻
Love you all in this video but, can't hide it, I can't stop admiring the beauty of the guy lah xx
I've been trying to find the song plug-in but I cant seem to find it anywhere help
It's called 'Night' by Jean Seizure.
Hello i’m from Indonesia coming out in Indonesia is so hard, my parent is religious person, They will be angry and maybe kick me out from their home, i’m gay but this feelings is so strong. since i was child, attracted to male, i think LGBT is normal, is not a disease, give me some message. what should i do？
All the best!
Get a degree or a job. Get your own place.
Is Jean an actor from yes mdm! Or am I just seeing things???
I'm 26 this year and the only one that knows is a fwb in uni.
what's with the blatant and liberally applied jump cuts... really sucks any emotion or feeling out of the conversation.
When she said there's two types of gays, I thought she meant the confident gays and the panicked gays
im the panicked gay
Gay community is a little bit straight forward and judging just like general population (toward LGBT). If you're feminine than you're out. For example, nobody want a chinese guy just because they look feminine which made them less attractive among gay community. Similar to the concept of AMWM relationship. The things is not only non-LGBT need to change but the people of LGBT also.
What is the tittle of the song? I like it so much! You guys are awesome! Just ignore the nasty comments.
Thank you for this video
What does Q stands for?
I'm a little confused about the bisexual/pansexual thing isn't it two different sexualities?
ig she's just figuring it out ?
YAY I LOVE THIS VIDEO!
maybe yall can like invite parents of lgbtq+ youth, and mayb the lgbtq+ person as well. as a young human who is part of the lgbtq+ community, i feel that it is more difficult for us to communicate with the older generations and adults, making it super hard for us to come out.
i have some friends, who are aged about 13-17, who came out to their parents, grandparents, siblings and friends, and they got put down. peple say things like its just a PHASE. or AIYA U SO YOUNG HOW U KNOW. or DO U EVEN KNOW WHAT GAY MEANS. and it hurts alot like as a young human, u know that your elders might not listen to u, or that u will get scolded if u come out. but u gather all your damn courage and say it, in hopes that people can accept u for who u are, only to get put down and scolded. it leaves us dejected and scarred, and some people might develop anxiety.
FINALLY a video about lgbt+ with Singaporean people!
This is to mars..
There’s no such thing as bisexual/pansexual
You can still be bisexual when your preference is more to women
You can still be bisexual when your preference is more to men
You can still be bisexual when you’re more attracted to that opposite gender
However, when you say pansexual.. it means you’re still going to be attracted regardless of how they identify themselves, and you’re not settling for this particular gender or what the person identity themselves.
Bisexuality is they prefer 2 genders but they prefer more to maybe men or women
Pansexuality is they do not prefer 2 genders but they let people more in than just 2.
secretong malupet actually I think that she’s pansexual but uses the bisexual label as well because some people don’t know about pansexuality. Also in my opinion pansexual people are bi but bi people are not necessarily pan
@@user-vn9ce1wq2f yeah but they're just labels and labels can be changed. so, i respect your opinion.
@@user-vn9ce1wq2f All bisexuals. Trans males are males. Trans females are females.
I love this!!
Haiya!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The story of my life
Jean is a former child actor in caldecott??
🌈LOVE IS NOT A CHOICE🏳️🌈
Gay marriage should be legalised in Singapore I swear my Friend is lesb and I want the best for her
soooooooooooo eloquent
Next video: Transgenders in Singapore. :)
8:06
Where is 6:16 from?
Wah the guy cute eh
The girl in the far right looks like Lisa from blackpink !!!😱
conclusion: NA35, 'no adults above 35' movies, cater to people who are more liberal. :P
my hypothesis is gays are the nicest friends bcuz my best friend is gay and he's dam nice HAHA
i v confused is the host straight ?? in the other video she said she straight leh wth
OHHHH does jean used to act when she's was kid? She look so familiar.
Kelvin
Yes she is. So is her brother. Her bro was still calefare for mediacorspe few years ago. Not sure bout now as i hardly watch mediacorspe anymore.
I hate how the lgbtq artistes still work for such bigoted company with the hypocritical mda over censorships n whatsnot. Rape and adultery and even somewhat incest is glorified in their dramas but anything that suggest lgbt or good/neutral portayal is censored.
@@RonLarhz haha, mediacorpse, i like that! really befitting of the way all their original dramas and shows are going to shit and less people watch over the years. the plot is always so dull or unresolved, and sometimes they say some stereotypical shit abt other races/sexualities. theres so much more that the media in singapore could do better in handling and producing but they don't even try lmao.
@@thepriceofsalt9003
Same plot and exaggerated acting. Cmi.
Only and 古装剧 from the 90s can watch only.
Im trans and i dated at my current age now LOL *My crush accepted me UWU XD*
Who pays for alimony in a same sex marriage after divorce?
What does "la" mean?? Sorry I just don't know🥺
I'm DEPRESSED It doesn’t necessarily mean anything, it’s just an expression, ya know when people in English say ‘like’ all the time?
Wait, what does BTO mean?
Built to Order, housing flats.
Thank God my church doesn't say anything abt lgbt at least that's better than them being homophobic cuz if they do I'll throw my shoe at the pastor talking and be like " I'll throw the other if u don't shut up and apologise"😡
it’s pinkdot10 day!!
#LOVEISLOVE #LOVEISFORALL
I identify as an Apache Helicopter. I wonder when can I get my own Helipad in Singapore.
Irrelevant.
Lgbt people want equal rights.
Whether I was a car or bike or helicopter. I still have to pay for my own parking.
I’m not gonna demand for it. When everyone else is paying for it.
LGBT people want what everyone should be entitled to have. The freedom to love.
this "joke" is so old. grow up, my dude
yihsin triggered much?
Jerald Evans
They can't. Else there would be no clowns for entertainment.
I am response and I am offended by your words!
Where's the T?
Were they even okay with being labelled? Referring to the first question, Cus there are people who don’t see in labels and can find it to be offensive if they were asked for their sexual orientation?
Holy shit Leah looks like lisa