Guys carrying a spreadsheet in excel . "Please sign here and here I need a picture of you holding you ID" You know how fast that would dry up a woman?.
I agree as a boy kid parent myself. I so wish the parents of gilrl kids would also teach their kids that it's not okay to falsely Nd try to frame men of rape
Men must start recording women to get proof of that consent because how do you prove expicit consent in court after someone cries foul? But Penson must also teach men that they too are victims of sexual assault - because drunk or not, no women must make a man feel inadequate if he refuses to sleep with her. My brother is a hot yellow man and it's always me fighting girls off. He feels compelled to sleep with them because he will be seen as less of a man 😔 and that makes me sad that men are refused the privilege to have agency over their bodies.
A healthy self-concept first is required. Instilling a sense of agency in children early on also helps. Maybe he needs a coach to help him be aware of his own shortcomings. At the end of the day, ukuba nomqolo will help him to stand firm instead of being swayed by women or other people. People pleasing vibes. It's depleting honestly.
I respect this guy so much for making these videos. He isn’t saying anything wrong but just 5 seconds taken out of context of this video could lead to a whole nother situation😭s/o
The courts have always wanted an explicit yes, so im not surprised that its law now. Guys just pay lol, thats your safest bet or maybe draft consent forms.
I had the same thought a weeks ago when the Diddy and Chris Brown issue ae out. We need to change our attitude towards sex. Women need to get comfortable with the topic. Young men need to make sure the girl says yes before engaging in the act.
The problem is that men do not report it even if it has happened to them. There are a few factors as to why men do not report it. You are seen as weak, or SAPS officials will laugh in your face telling you to be grateful you got some, lack of evidence and pride. I hope this changes now that men are becoming expressive. I also agree with Penson that they do not trend even if it has happened.
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY!!! 1. Make food; 2. Sleep with him; 3. Don't ask questions; 4. Leave him alone. HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY: 1. Be Friends 2. Companion 3. Lover 4. Beautiful 5. Charming 6. Good in the kitchen 7. Atlético 8. Electrician 9. Plumber 10. Mechanic 11. Carpenter 12. Decorator 13. Stylist 15. Poet 16. Psychologist 17. Bug zapper 18. Psychiatrist 19. Good-natured 20. A good listener 21. Organizer 22. A good father 23. Smelly 24. Empathetic 25. Cult 26. Sensitive 27. Attentive 28. Seductive 29. Smart 30. Funny 31. Creative 32. Hot 33. Strong 34. Understanding 35. Tolerant 36. Prudent 37. Ambitious 38. Capable 39. Brave 40. Determined 41. True 42. Insurance 43. Check everything 44. Punching bag 45. Lonely without friends DON'T FORGET TO: 46. Praise often 47. Give gifts 48. Be honest 49. Opening the car door 50. Not to stress her 51. Don't look at other women. 52. Lift the toilet lid. 53. Being a computer teacher. 54. Don't snore. 55. Do not dry your feet with a towel. AND ALSO: 56. Never forget: * her birthday * dating anniversary * the anniversary of the first kiss * the anniversary of the first time they met *her mother's birthday * Valentine's Day and being faithful THEY HATE... 1. Who responds 2. Who remains silent 3. You lie to them 4. Be sincere 5. Worries 6. Who doesn't care 7. Be jealous 8. Don't be jealous BONUS: And never forget, even if you are right, you are always wrong.
😂😂Aii I'll be Honest with everyone on this public platform I just want a v12 ferrari and a v12 lambo so i can disturb the peace and I'm genuinely happy everything else is side missions
I agree with the advice we are now forced to also secretly record for our protection especially people you don't trust or the first time meeting them record them!
Women know they’ve never given consent explicitly in the dating game it’s always implied. There’s nuances when it comes to sexual activities amongst men and women when it comes to dating. It’s hardly ever black and white Issue is, regardless of whether she said yes, she can still withdraw it. Should we know carry forms? What happens then? Can we argue that she signed it under duress? It seems safer to just buy sex. Prostitution should just be legalised at this point This law is unrealistic and strictly enforced to hush the feminists
Im not surprised that its gone this far, I feel like men should be afraid and should've been before. Our sisters deal with constant harassment and assault from men regularly, we rarely hear about other men holding each other accountable when it comes to abuse. If this law helps with our safety and lessens the chances of being a victim or helps with victims finding justice, let it happen. the only way the rape culture can end is for extreme laws like these to be put into place so that people can really think twice, because the way abusive behaviors have permeated our cultures for years unchecked and the results of that created a type of degeneracy that has never existed and will cause further damage if it continues to go unchecked. The law as a concept is a bit flawed but it is a step forward into trying to alleviate a huge issue affecting this country, and I do see people being falsely implicated but the problems we may experience with it will never equate to the pain that the victims face dealing with assault.
Looking sharp king 👑 Always great seeing another video of yours . I believe in a relationship every argument should end in a creampie, the conflict isn't resolved otherwise 😂.
Thanks Pens on for your sober but hilarious reflections. Maybe need social worker and lawyer to expand on this critical matter. We are raising boys and as parents can only do so much to help children navigate life journeys.
@@bossmatic_catic4638 angithi we can't seem to not beat each other, rape each other, we cheat at equal rates then there's Enigma.😂😂😂 we're going through a lot man yazi..
😂😂😂😂😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥I saw wat you did u drinking in such a cool way, before u ask bout the head situation 😂😂😭🔥🔥🔥😂Kay let me grow up this situation is serious. The problem we are having lately in this generation, especially females they are putting r ( word) ND regret sex.( In the same box) . So during the moment it was yes everything ND they were even leading most things . Then after 2 days, where she feels like she was not respected maybe feels cheap they start using the R word. So it really makes it difficult now to undersrand. Just that also the world is programmed just to think amajita are always wrong .
Case-based education is the way to go because human beings are complex. Love how Skeem Saam is tackling the teenage sexual subject. Girl can sleep with one boy and not claim he raped her but be caught up in manipulative situation with her boyfriend and upon reflection realise that she was raped. Oftentimes girls are not even prepared for intimate situations so they will default into the decision making that's developed by the environment that they are exposed to. Get empowered and engage family, friends and expert commentary on these sticky scenarios.
But also law or no law, its only daai dengs if the girl sees it like that. Also gents are not wired like that theres no gent he will cry , because bamvuse nge head . But i think also cops are tired of dealing with this cases thats y kunje . Bathi it Goes back to that thing if as a parent your 2 kids, are having unnecessary fights kwi TV.( No Sihle i want to watch . Thembi but i also want to watch something else too .( As the parent ( Law nd Government )you take the remote nd watch 403. Because its the only channel thats neutral. That kills the whole argument. And thats what the government is doing now
Romance is dead.
Indeed🤦
As a boy mom I'm learning that we have to teach our boys from a young age about consent ...Thanks for this.
Lol in the heat of the moment have you ever asked or explicitly said yes to sex?
Guys carrying a spreadsheet in excel .
"Please sign here and here
I need a picture of you holding you ID"
You know how fast that would dry up a woman?.
I agree as a boy kid parent myself. I so wish the parents of gilrl kids would also teach their kids that it's not okay to falsely Nd try to frame men of rape
OH PLEASE DO, YOU DONT WANT HIM TO LEARN ABOUT THAT FROM OTHER MEN/FRIENDS, TELL HIM ABOUT YOUR EXPERIENCES WITH IT AND BE 100% HONEST.
Wake up to the gorilla part hahaha killed me 😂🤣
Men must start recording women to get proof of that consent because how do you prove expicit consent in court after someone cries foul? But Penson must also teach men that they too are victims of sexual assault - because drunk or not, no women must make a man feel inadequate if he refuses to sleep with her. My brother is a hot yellow man and it's always me fighting girls off. He feels compelled to sleep with them because he will be seen as less of a man 😔 and that makes me sad that men are refused the privilege to have agency over their bodies.
The hipocracy
A healthy self-concept first is required. Instilling a sense of agency in children early on also helps. Maybe he needs a coach to help him be aware of his own shortcomings. At the end of the day, ukuba nomqolo will help him to stand firm instead of being swayed by women or other people. People pleasing vibes. It's depleting honestly.
Well said n it's sad that men are not heard
Manje bheka wena uyi Grooitman elimjojo.... salute 🤝🏾👊🏾
I respect this guy so much for making these videos. He isn’t saying anything wrong but just 5 seconds taken out of context of this video could lead to a whole nother situation😭s/o
Cape independent is a serious matter at this point 😢
The courts have always wanted an explicit yes, so im not surprised that its law now. Guys just pay lol, thats your safest bet or maybe draft consent forms.
We were always pay indirectly anyways via dates , vacations alcohol,divorce , child support now they making sure 😂😂😂😂😂
I had the same thought a weeks ago when the Diddy and Chris Brown issue ae out. We need to change our attitude towards sex. Women need to get comfortable with the topic. Young men need to make sure the girl says yes before engaging in the act.
Never heard of a case where a woman is jailed bcs she rated a guy.
Sad hey. Though it does happen. But they never trend.
The problem is that men do not report it even if it has happened to them. There are a few factors as to why men do not report it. You are seen as weak, or SAPS officials will laugh in your face telling you to be grateful you got some, lack of evidence and pride. I hope this changes now that men are becoming expressive. I also agree with Penson that they do not trend even if it has happened.
So real, ku ningier. You are dope, bro.👊
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY!!!
1. Make food;
2. Sleep with him;
3. Don't ask questions;
4. Leave him alone.
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY:
1. Be Friends
2. Companion
3. Lover
4. Beautiful
5. Charming
6. Good in the kitchen
7. Atlético
8. Electrician
9. Plumber
10. Mechanic
11. Carpenter
12. Decorator
13. Stylist
15. Poet
16. Psychologist
17. Bug zapper
18. Psychiatrist
19. Good-natured
20. A good listener
21. Organizer
22. A good father
23. Smelly
24. Empathetic
25. Cult
26. Sensitive
27. Attentive
28. Seductive
29. Smart
30. Funny
31. Creative
32. Hot
33. Strong
34. Understanding
35. Tolerant
36. Prudent
37. Ambitious
38. Capable
39. Brave
40. Determined
41. True
42. Insurance
43. Check everything
44. Punching bag
45. Lonely without friends
DON'T FORGET TO:
46. Praise often
47. Give gifts
48. Be honest
49. Opening the car door
50. Not to stress her
51. Don't look at other women.
52. Lift the toilet lid.
53. Being a computer teacher.
54. Don't snore.
55. Do not dry your feet with a towel.
AND ALSO:
56. Never forget:
* her birthday
* dating anniversary
* the anniversary of the first kiss
* the anniversary of the first time they met
*her mother's birthday
* Valentine's Day and being faithful
THEY HATE...
1. Who responds
2. Who remains silent
3. You lie to them
4. Be sincere
5. Worries
6. Who doesn't care
7. Be jealous
8. Don't be jealous
BONUS:
And never forget, even if you are right, you are always wrong.
😂😂Aii I'll be Honest with everyone on this public platform
I just want a v12 ferrari and a v12 lambo so i can disturb the peace and I'm genuinely happy everything else is side missions
😂😂😂🤭🙈
As a women, you made my day, even thou you forgot a few more pointers !!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This was SO unnecessary 😂😂😂😂
I have regrets opening this comment. I didn't even read the rest.
I agree with the advice we are now forced to also secretly record for our protection especially people you don't trust or the first time meeting them record them!
The law is complex and imperfect. Oral testimony is also powerful. Clarity and education will go a long way. Take care people!
Women know they’ve never given consent explicitly in the dating game it’s always implied. There’s nuances when it comes to sexual activities amongst men and women when it comes to dating. It’s hardly ever black and white
Issue is, regardless of whether she said yes, she can still withdraw it. Should we know carry forms? What happens then? Can we argue that she signed it under duress?
It seems safer to just buy sex. Prostitution should just be legalised at this point
This law is unrealistic and strictly enforced to hush the feminists
Im not surprised that its gone this far, I feel like men should be afraid and should've been before. Our sisters deal with constant harassment and assault from men regularly, we rarely hear about other men holding each other accountable when it comes to abuse. If this law helps with our safety and lessens the chances of being a victim or helps with victims finding justice, let it happen.
the only way the rape culture can end is for extreme laws like these to be put into place so that people can really think twice, because the way abusive behaviors have permeated our cultures for years unchecked and the results of that created a type of degeneracy that has never existed and will cause further damage if it continues to go unchecked. The law as a concept is a bit flawed but it is a step forward into trying to alleviate a huge issue affecting this country, and I do see people being falsely implicated but the problems we may experience with it will never equate to the pain that the victims face dealing with assault.
Looking sharp king 👑
Always great seeing another video of yours .
I believe in a relationship every argument should end in a creampie, the conflict isn't resolved otherwise 😂.
One thing about you
You always take the logical route🤝🏿
visually perplexed 😭
Thanks Pens on for your sober but hilarious reflections. Maybe need social worker and lawyer to expand on this critical matter. We are raising boys and as parents can only do so much to help children navigate life journeys.
As a mom of abafana m worried.....
Teach them to record everything, and if a woman says no, they must run away from that girl and never look back
Eiix I am too
The gorilla part is so relatable grootman 😂😂
Nomfundo and Palesa finally not catching strays 👀😂
How the heck are we suppose to PROVE that someone gave you explicit consent. They'll just deny it mos
The lwayers please come in because there are provable and dismissed forms. Ask, listen and clarify. Human beings are complex!
@@sibongisenisakhele3114 andikuva bhuti, are you saying there should be forms that we sign before every sexual encounter?
I beg to differ, I think the aim of the act is meant to protect both men and woman.
Remember get written and audio consent
No ways this is an interesting caption,let me listen to you as you unpack 🫢🫢
Let's all just leave each other alone. Just focus on you.
Your mind works against you
@@bossmatic_catic4638 😂😂😂 why
PLEASE !!!
@@bossmatic_catic4638 angithi we can't seem to not beat each other, rape each other, we cheat at equal rates then there's Enigma.😂😂😂 we're going through a lot man yazi..
What's with the nail polish ???
😂😂😂😂😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥I saw wat you did u drinking in such a cool way, before u ask bout the head situation 😂😂😭🔥🔥🔥😂Kay let me grow up this situation is serious. The problem we are having lately in this generation, especially females they are putting r ( word) ND regret sex.( In the same box) . So during the moment it was yes everything ND they were even leading most things . Then after 2 days, where she feels like she was not respected maybe feels cheap they start using the R word. So it really makes it difficult now to undersrand. Just that also the world is programmed just to think amajita are always wrong .
Case-based education is the way to go because human beings are complex. Love how Skeem Saam is tackling the teenage sexual subject. Girl can sleep with one boy and not claim he raped her but be caught up in manipulative situation with her boyfriend and upon reflection realise that she was raped. Oftentimes girls are not even prepared for intimate situations so they will default into the decision making that's developed by the environment that they are exposed to. Get empowered and engage family, friends and expert commentary on these sticky scenarios.
Atleast you make sense and you are for man .. unlike that loud mouth
Which loud mouth.?😢
😂😂Owamie
"Ngingenaph lapho" lol ey casulile letheken.....
Y wud promote rape ngempela lol.
But also law or no law, its only daai dengs if the girl sees it like that. Also gents are not wired like that theres no gent he will cry , because bamvuse nge head . But i think also cops are tired of dealing with this cases thats y kunje . Bathi it Goes back to that thing if as a parent your 2 kids, are having unnecessary fights kwi TV.( No Sihle i want to watch . Thembi but i also want to watch something else too .( As the parent ( Law nd Government )you take the remote nd watch 403. Because its the only channel thats neutral. That kills the whole argument. And thats what the government is doing now
Diddy Do It?