When my Dr told me I was terminal, I wold him he was too, so what. He's 75, I was 38. Said I have 12 weeks. I told him nope, I have stuff to do. That was July 2015, im still here. I'm still raising my daughter and making the most of every moment.
My hero is my husband. He died of pancreatic cancer seven weeks ago today. He received the toughest chemo with no complaint. When it quit working, he tried another. And another. Sicker and sicker, thinner and thinner, never complained. Worried about other people up until the day he died. The most unselfish man I’ve ever known. Even wanted to forego pain meds as much as possible so he could be more alert and active. He gave me and our kids so much love, even more during those 11 months. I will love and miss him forever.
I lost my husband a few months ago and it’s so hard for me to cope. He was the best most caring man I ever met. He was perfect and I miss him to infinity and beyond
I'm 65, I love getting older! I enjoy the process, regardless of pain and limitations, I enjoy aging. Each day I see my expiration date coming closer and closer, so I enjoy the day.
It's also a privilege, and something to be proud of, because for so many elderly folks, they are that strong to endure what life and growing old takes, for them to get that far. We've all heard the saying, "Growing old, isn't for wimps!"
I'm 76 years old and and have faced the perspective of death. The thought of leaving my loved ones behind was the greatest concern at the time. As I get older and my body weakens and it becomes easier to except the fact that I will die. I wake up each day and thank the Lord for blessing me with the gift of that day. I look at the world almost like a child and reveling the freedoms of enjoying so many things in this world. I'm happy with the things I have and worry less about the things I don't have. My wife and I enjoy so many things together. I worry about the trends out there and wish I could get people to hate less and to use their minds more. Stress seems to guide society today. Its hard to believe how ungrateful people can be. If I die tomorrow I will die with the knowledge that I enjoyed my time here during my lifetime and look forward to meeting the Lord in my next life. Ray
Dear Mort Pes, sorry to hear about that. I just lost my dad 3 weeks ago to cancer, we are unprepared for that and still in shock. I wish the medical professions had given us more honest advices, we would love to have him home instead of leaving him in the hospital, while hoping for miracles. Though he did passed peacefully with all loved one around him, but nothing can make up for the lost time. Please prepared yourself and your loved one, say goodbye to each others before it's too late. If we strived to live a beautiful life, we should also strive to make a perfect ending for it. Keep you in prayers. May you be in minimal pain and may the grace of God be with you.
Heard that. I read the autobiography of BB King, and he lost his mom at 12 years old. He wrote the book much later in his life and had this great quote about the reason why he sings the blues is because he misses his mom, even at an advanced age. The point is that it's okay to miss your mom, and some people never 'get over it'. It's not a failing of character or a reason for shame. Carry on, as best as you can. Isn't that what your mom would want?
I miss my mom too and I regret that I have not recorded her voice. I have pictures of her but I cannot remember her voice any more. So I have to wait until I start the last journey myself until we are reunited again. So whoever reads my little comment: Please make sure you have audio tapes of your loved ones.
I am a Christian, but several years ago I suddenly became very fearful thinking about death. I did not mention it to my husband or family or friends. A few months later I went to a ladies retreat at my church and the guest speaker prayed for several people who desired prayer. I went forward. I did not say what I wanted prayer for, but the lady started praying out loud and she said “Honey, the Lord wants you to know, the minute you stop breathing and close your eyes, you’ll be with Him”. I started to cry. But from that moment on, that fear of death left me, and it has never returned.
I've also had that morbid fear of death too, but: "to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord"!!! The only ones who need to fear are the lost whom we MUST always pray for & witness to!! God is GOOD all the time, amen! 😇😍🤗
@@titov7823 The Lord takes away the fear of death if you accepted Christ as your saviour you will be with Him and have eternal live..have faith and trust Him with all your heart!!! Thanks for sharing
My dad passed away last August from brain cancer. I couldn’t understand how for the whole time after he was diagnosed to his final moments he was so positive and graceful. His last words were “can you cut me few slices of cheese?”
"All the mortals will taste death, but only a few will taste life" , this one quote kept me going. For anyone fearing death, come one, you have one life as you, lets taste it. Go and hug someone you love right now.
Really? Are you saved? Have you felt his presence? He is here! He's in us! He is here! I am his church! He blessed me 9 days ago! I seen miracles every day for 9 days! That's his glory! He made the blind see! Now I see! I am his temple, he the cornerstone! We his church! And he is here! He is here for us! I am to gather his church! I never read the bible until my king told me to buy 2 bibles less than 2 weeks ago! Now, the bible reads me! I see its meaning! Perpetual sin of the fathers! That is how satan is passed generation to generation! Jesus is the cornerstone! I am his body and his temple! It is me! Repent! That he blessed ye in my likeness so that you can get your households in order! Our Lord is at the door! Amen! He is at the door and I am letting him in!
It’s not only one life. There is a life after death, if you do not acknowledge the Creator as your Saviour, you will spend your other life after death in an unpleasant place.
I'm 29 years old, 18 weeks pregnant and my mother has less than a week to live after being diagnosed with stage 5 cervical cancer. I can't visit her because the hospital's strict covid policy so please call your mom and tell her you love her.
I wish you so much strength but I am also so angry to hear how unhumane our governments treat it's citizens. It is totally heartbreaking that you are not allowed to visit your mom. No words. I am so sorry. And wish all the good for you and your coming baby.
I lost my mom last year when i was 29. Heart failure, I am an only child. It was the hardest thing I have ever gone through but I thank God I was able to take care of her on hospice in my home in her last days. God Bless you and you mom ❤
I’m 21 almost 22 and For the past few days I’ve been getting a lot of anxiety about death. Right now as I write this I’m still overthinking and having anxiety. I wish I could come to the conclusion that everything will be okay and that death and time flying isn’t the problem. I wanna be okay with it but I’m scared. And sometimes I feel alone but I always try find a way to tell myself I’m not alone. Like reading these comments. I love life and I just wanna be better so that when I die. I have no regrets and I’m happy. I just think that time is flying by and death is getting closer. But we are human and I believe we deserve better. In every way
I hope you're feeling better now and yes this is life and we have a specific time to live but at least as you said live it to the fullest without harming others or yourself🤍
I have lost a LOT of family, starting with my parents' drownings when I was14 y/o, and MANY more due to various illnesses and conditions. But, before my late husband, (2019), I had never lived with and cared for anyone on a daily basis with terminal cancer. All throughout his illness, I was astounded at how he never complained and accepted his fate. He lived his life wide open, took chances and seemed fearless to me. He taught me a lot about how to live and he made it easier for me when my time comes. He was in Hospice the last few days of his life and he faced his death with a deep faith, strength and courage. I know my Father's Promises, so that lessens my fear.The last thing I said to him was, 'You have fought a long, hard battle, but you don't have to fight anymore. Don't worry about me. You know that I'm a strong woman and we WILL see each other again. I love you!' A few hours later he gave up the fight. I miss every single thing about him, every single day.
Nothing to worry they awere hopy spirits and so are you this is a show please enjoy it to the fullest we all are going to the same place one day... Just be ecstatic and joyful... Love everyone around you... Just love that is what God really is... Take care much strength to you mam 🌹🙏🙂
At the age of 5...The first funeral I attended was my little 3yo brothers, the same year, i went to my Great grandmother's funeral, she was in her 90s...at the age of 5, I knew that age doesn't have anything to do with death. We all die, enjoy every moment you have because we don't choose how many moment's we receive.
When I read your comment, I thought I was reading my own. My little brother Jeremy died of a rare leukemia at 3 years old (actually 1 week before her turned 3) I was 5. My great grandma died the same year my brother was ill and she lived in arkansas. They had her funeral in her little shack, I remember it vividly. Then my little brother died and that funeral was horrific. We have alot in common in the way death was taught to us. My brothers death has been with me every day, I am 42 now and I have guilt over not sharing toys with him once. I was his big sister and it has always haunted me. Very traumatic losing a little brother, I know your pain, a silent pain.
Most of us have no choice as to our ability to enjoy life. For me, I always wanted to enjoy life to the fullest. However, just the opposite has played out. My life has been the Most UNHAPPY, MISERABLE, TORTURE one could possibly imagine. If you have Bad Mental Health, in my case Major Depressive Disorder we can only experience the WORST life has to offer
@@cityslickerchickens5835, I have a message for you from your brother (ok, I am making this up, but I am sure he would agree with me). He says that he wants you to live your life to the fullest - his was cut short, but you enjoy it for both of you. He says he is in a good place, so you don't have to worry about him. He had a good laugh and was also a bit sad about the toys story. He laughed because it is what kids do... fight with your brothers and sisters, not share your toys with them, even split on them to your parents. It is just a normal part of growing up, discovering who you are and exerting your newly discovered authority. He says he would have undoubtedly done the same to you at some stage because it is just a part of being human. But he says there are no hard feelings involved. Actually, he says that he had completely forgotten about the incident until you mentioned it recently. He was a bit sad because he hadn't wanted you to feel guilty about it at all, especially carrying that guilt for 42 years. He REALLY wants you to allow yourself to be human, forgive yourself because he has about 40 years ago already, and live life to the fullest. He says, Big Sister, see you one day in the future. He sends you a huge hug and a kiss on your forehead. Peace be with you trillzzz of skillzzz.
My near-death experiences completely changed my perspective on life and death. I have a shirt that says do not fear dying, fear the unlived life. Thank you for the uplifting video.
Loved this! Everyone is convinced of a different faith according to their upbringing. Every death is as unique and individual as each birth. I also experienced a NDE in a 12 car pileup. I was hit & propelled four times then pronounced dead by three people I was not under any anesthesia or drugs. The one thing I felt was this joy, relief, warmth and love. I was still me just "super me" One thing I have faith in is soul/spirit energy. Those energies we loved who transitioned before us- Still love us. In the USA we need to teach more about death, dying and how to cope!
if you were born and you were the one and only person in the world to face death while everyone else stayed alive, then you'd have something to fear. it happens to everyone. don't be afraid💙💙💙
We spend so much time thinking about death that we forget what it means to be alive. Lets all start to live life and appreciate those around us that remind us what it means to be alive. Peace
And wonderful how we keep reproducing despite not knowing wtf all of this means, the point of it all, or our place in the universe, we are just ants desperately seeking pleasure lmao
@@knottreel first humans would have to kill off all other life, and even then theres a possibility of a billion other planets inhabited just like ours, so it may also be futile to stop the cycle even then. We screwed bruh lol
Yeah Like you didn't see Any of the else Videos Here , Like Your BS Prophecies of Curse church LMAO 🤣 yT is a Productive and Joy passing Things and about everything almost...
I am a nurse and I am so incredibly impressed with the compassion and love for his fellow humans this man exudes, something rare in most doctors. Thank you Dr. Saeed!
Unfortunately good doctors are an endangered epecies. They usually don't treat people as patients but rather as customers, profitable goods. Sadly my beloved mother passed away five months ago and each physician I took her to, treated us (myself included) like as if we were lepers or something like that. I expect doctors' cold attitudes and indifference to people's suffering can change. Mom 's gone and now I'm so lonely, and sad hoping to see her again anytime soon (if possible). I miss her so much. God bless you.
@@tonygreen152 I think good patients are an endangered species. They show up obese, smoking/drinking and want treatments by way of pills. You think doctors don't "care" about patients? How about the patient caring about their own body first!
@@paulpena9548 I still believe what I said based on my own experience with my beloved mother. If you knew what I lived through I'm sure you wouldn't think the same. If you don't have any money and get sick, only God can help you. Medicine is all about business, no empathy towards your neighbors.
@@tonygreen152 It sounds like your mother belonged to a capitated health care plan, where the doctors are under the thumb of administration to keep costs down. You don't go through all that training to become a doctor because you want to make millions, there's easier ways to make money.
Thank you, sir, for the video. I am 80 and my mother is 98. I don't think my end is close by. It is a great comfort to have your mother alive at this age. You think your turn comes only after hers. I miss my grand parents and my father who passed away. My brother is 78 and he is also my comfort.
Praying for you man it is not easy i was in that exact position just wanting to be around longer.. yet i am still not sure if anyday i will leave this planet
My doctor told me that I had 6 months to live. I thanked him and told him I was sorry, that I wouldn’t be able to pay his bill in that time. He gave me another 6 months - paraphrased from Rodney Dangerfield, MD
If you fear death, you're fearing life. I learned this at a young age fortunately. Was terrified of death, but one day I realized I was simply just afraid of everything. My mental anguish forced me to take life head on. The only other choice was suicide, but I was too scared to do it. Once I lived with more bravery, more courage and more of an open mind, I began to see the beauty in life. All the bad stuff was still there too, but I also started seeing all the good things I was too blind to see before. I realized that it was a balance. Life was never all good or all bad, it was always a bit of both. Once I accepted that and tried to live in harmony with it, I felt a sense of peace inside me that was the most beautiful thing I had ever witnessed. I no longer feel death. Nor do I loose sleep over what happens after. I do know however, that if I live an unfulfilling life and keep wasting time into things I do not believe in because I'm too afraid to take a risk and change, then I will start fearing death. And then I will loose sleep over what happens afterwards. And if I do that too much, one day, it will be too late. Don't fear life. Live it. Find what you believe in. Whether it is to make others happy, or challenge yourself, and go for it. Don't waste time on pleasures like money and power. These are just drugs for the spirit. Go after what you believe in. What you REALLY BELIEVE in. If you can't explain why you want or love something, then there's your hint.
Hello Bangtan, you have expanded your conscience and know that we are all connected. We are one with the universe! Many people go through life without realizing this!
My wife was so brave. I watched her suffer tremendously and yet she was more concerned about the people she would be leaving behind. I can only admire her and hope that when my time comes, I will be as strong and as giving to my family as she was.
AMEN I feel the same about my mom she was the strongest most caring person I know she suffered so much throughout her life but yet she was always there for people anyone who needed anything at all. I am so proud of my mom and hope that I can be as courageous as she was. I miss her so much everyday but I know she now has peace and love nd no pain and I thank God for that!
death doesn’t scare me. it’s losing my mom, my dad, my sister, my dog, my grandparents, my friends, my children, my loved ones, & all of the experiences life will bring me. i hope that when i die everyone knows how much i loved them
Death probably hits me the hardest when it's late at night. I'm going to wash my hands from the bathroom, and suddenly, I just think. I go to the mirror and stare at it, and a feeling of dread overcomes me as I think, "what if tonight's the night where I go to sleep and never wake up". This happens probably atleast once a week, and I haven't found any videos that have really helped me face my fear. I talked about it with my parents nearly a year ago, and again less than a month ago, which really helps. But still, I usually let the fear build up inside of me until one night I finally come to my senses and seek help from someone, but this video has been one of the only ones that has actually helped. Thank you.
Like you I loved this guy's talk. It was great and I am so glad it helped you. But the video led to the comments... and your comment and here we are. Do you have a very poor prognosis? I am a bit confused about what you said re your parents. Am I right in thinking that the two helpful communications with them about your illness were 11 or so months apart? If you're really going through it, don't worry about replying to this message.
You need Jesus. He gives eternal life. In humility, cry out to God and ask him to fill you with His Holy Spirit, He will. For God has not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7
This is known as rumination/intrusive thoughts, It’s just your mind playing with you as I would make a bet you have GAD or panic disorder I’ve had this for decades but you know.. you keep waking up even the nights or days you feel this is different and you won’t. Get some CBT and practice mindfulness Living your life scared is not living
we’re scared because we’re scared to lose something. I’m not scared to lose my life, but to lose the ability to think. To lose my mind and enter into oblivion.
@@Ron-bz2xl yea same.ive been really coming to the knowledge of mortality and seeking answers but it really is the great unknown. Every day I wake up now im so grateful. But I'm wondering how I will be when It comes for me will I know its coming? Will I die suddenly? I don't know...
@@Marmazard you know how scientists will point out certain adaptive strategies that nature takes on in its battle for survival? For example there's this butterfly that is not toxic to predators who would eat it. But, it's adapted wing pattern looks almost identical to another species of butterfly that _is_ toxic. Apparently, it adapted those traits to secure its survival. Then, there are certain animals (rabbits, foxes, Etc) that change their coat colors with the seasons, making them better able to blend in & survive. And the list goes on & on. There's probably millions of similar examples. But, my point is, it's interesting that on even the minutest cellular level... there are signs of intelligence. And the more you look, the more it becomes apparent that there is proof of design in all these expressions of life. Where there is proof of design, there is proof of a designer. I'll admits to being scared of what my experience of death will be, but I believe existence will continue. Check out some of Derek Prince's TH-cam videos. Some of them are just 5 min long. - BTW, I mean no offense. These are just my opinions & suggestions. I believe there's room at the table for everybody to respectfully share what they think & believe.
As someone with severe clinical depression, as well as a whole bunch of other chronic illness's, I've thought about death for most of my life. At times suicidal. But I always had what I thought to be a "wholesome" fear of death, that prevented me from ever acting upon my suicidal thoughts. In July 2019, I came home, and found my father had passed away in his sleep (which was great solace, as it was totally unexpected, so atleast knowing he went in peace, with no suffering, or illness, was the only thing to hold on to). Then in January 2020, my service dog became sick, and within 3 weeks, I had to let him go. This was 6 months apart, and I was absolutely devastated. Then, in Nov 2020, my retired service dog passed as well. I am living with unimaginable grief right now, for perhaps the 3 most important "people" in my life, have been taken from me, all within 16 months. That being said, my fear of death, is almost none existent now. I am not religious, but I do believe in an afterlife, and the one thing that comforts me, is that when it's my time to leave this earth, and this life, that I will be reunited with my father, and my service dogs. I can only pray that when it's my time to die, that I am lucky enough to die as my father did, in his sleep, without pain, and without illness.
I would like to recommend new or near death experience videos on TH-cam. It can bring great comfort to you. I watched hundreds. There is a type of death that is beautiful.
@@nancyrussell6598 it's more than just believing, it's about wholeheartedly repenting and trusting Jesus. And trust is expressed through obedience. Dear Sister Nancy, precious are your words and your dedication to the Lord and to people. You shall be blessed.
When my sister was dying, she made a comment I have never forgotten. She said it wasn't that she hated dying, but she hated feeling like she was dying.
Every time I watch something like this I think about how lucky I am to be 42 and not have yet faced any real health issues. How many people are not as fortunate that have been robbed of their childhood, adolescence or adulthood. I suddenly feel guilty having ever felt cheated about anything.
I nearly bled to death in hospital one night in my wife's (then girlfriend) arms. The experience has left me with PTSD. That was five years ago. The thought of dying doesn't so much make me afraid, but sad. I don't want to leave my family broken by my passing. I don't want to leave my wife alone, and I don't want to leave her alone with our four month old son. This talk brought tears to my eyes.
The greatest tragedy in life is not dying; it is what dies within us while we are alive. Don’t let happiness, joy, love, and being present with your loved ones die within while you are alive. Your loved once will always remember how you LIVED not how you died.
I'm 13 and for some reason I'm worried about death but most of all I'm worried of losing my loved ones. My grandma is getting old and my grandpa is in heaven but I get worried everyday and start crying for no reason because I'm scared I might not say I love them before they die.
You are young and all young people fear losing the ones they love . My father taught me to tell your brothers sisters you lve them and when you have children tell them everyday I love you , Never tire of telling then . never fail to tell them then they know they are loved . I am old now and still tell my children I love them . I knew my father loved me so very much and I loved him If you don,t tell them how do they know sometimes gestures are just not enough . So very time you see your grand mother put your arms around her and say Grandma I love you so much . Im telling you because I want you to know .. Hearing this she will say the same to you but in her heart she will know such love and joy just because you told her . If you miss the time when she comes to die you will never ever feel bad ,because ,you can say to yourself . every time I saw grandma I told her I loved her I knew it made her happy and I promise you it will make you happy too . and it applies to all of those you love . Never ever be afraid to tell the the people you love that you love them it becomes a habit and you know that they know you love them .
I feel you man,but what can we do?,im scared too,actually i just had a bad anxiety about death for about 3 days,but im just gonna live my life so i wont regret it,even if i lost everything atleast i have fun while it last and pray to whoever god that created me everynight,im gonna spend time with my family while i can
Yea im almost 15 and I've feared death for like 2 years and it's so annoying, it makes me cry sometimes for hours and my mother gets annoyed of it, I feel like I have the death anxiety because I don't have much good in life, I have no friends, my grandmother passed, a lot of my family hates me, my sister's and mother and I we don't have a lot of money :( makes it worse if one day I were to die and it was nothing
When my mother was dying of cancer she kept repeating "I want to die but I don't know how" She kept repeating this over and over. I will never forget that.
Really? Are you saved? Have you felt his presence? He is here! He's in us! He is here! I am his church! He blessed me 9 days ago! I seen miracles every day for 9 days! That's his glory! He made the blind see! Now I see! I am his temple, he the cornerstone! We his church! And he is here! He is here for us! I am to gather his church! I never read the bible until my king told me to buy 2 bibles less than 2 weeks ago! Now, the bible reads me! I see its meaning! Perpetual sin of the fathers! That is how satan is passed generation to generation! Jesus is the cornerstone! I am his body and his temple! It is me! Repent! That he blessed ye in my likeness so that you can get your households in order! Our Lord is at the door! Amen! He is at the door and I am letting him in!
You are not the body nor are you in the body.....there is no body. You are prior to consciousness where there is no pleasure or pain, you are the absolute, the witness, the nothing that causes all manifestations. Nisargadatta Maharaj
I am 42. I don't die my hair. When I look into the mirror and see those white hairs, and I am more grateful for the present day. It makes me aware that I aim aging, and it makes me more focused to live with integrity as a legacy.
I was a new mother when I was told I had cancer. I was terrified and every moment of my life was consumed with fear. I felt angry, “ why me, why now?” The unfairness of it all. My son is never going to know how much he could be loved and future children I will never get to hold. I tried to memorize everything the face of my infant, husband, colors, sounds, trees, feel of water, walking barefoot in grass, the glow of the moon. I felt like I was cramming for the ultimate life test. No matter how hard I tried to recall ever second of this life I was a failure. The harder I tried to slow life down the faster the minutes past by. It was like sand through a sieve, no faster like water or wind. Later, I was given the news that I no longer had signs of cancer. I didn’t react right away. I needed to be a lone and few days later I walked into my closet to hang up some new blouses. I hadn’t bought anything for myself in awhile what was the use I’d tell myself. I began to shake uncontrollably and cry out loud. It was as if I had been holding my breath and moving through the past months hypoxic. The relief washed over me like ice cold rain. I don’t know how long I was on my knees screaming and crying in the closet in an emptying house. It must have been awhile because when I stood up I fell back into the closet. My legs had fallen asleep and the pain like millions of tiny ice crystals pulsates to the bottom of my feet. There was no use walking so I lay there half in and half out of the closet. I began to laugh at how ridiculous I must look lying on the floor tangled in clothes, hangers, shoes and stuff. My legs and feet hurt and I moved them trying to get the blood to circulate back into all the empty spaces. Although painful there was also comfort that I was still alive to feel it. I had experience a lot of pain the past months. Now, I wasn’t just experiencing it, I was feeling. I told myself, I was given a second chance and I am not going to waste it. I had been so preoccupied with fear and anger over my death that I wasn’t living. I was grieving the life that I would one day lose that I didn’t live the life I still had left. I thought to myself, fear and anger what a terrible waste of time. The only greater waste of time is hatred. I told myself that I will never waste another day paralyzed in fear, anger and certainly not hatred. I have since seen loved ones diagnosed with terminal illnesses and recognize the fear in their eyes. I wish I could take it away so that they could spend their last loving, laughing, tasting, smelling, seeing and taking this world and this life all in. I don’t know what happens after this life but I hope we will be able to take our most happiest memories.
Try ketone diet please. There are many success of healing stories. Believe you're living and you will. What to lose? Go try it. May Allah bless you and heal 🙏💗 you.
@@aaronharman5431 basically your reply means'' God isn't real'' is this what you meant? if So the poor lady meant well am sure. and if I had to pray for you or anyone else since am from another religion, I would use the word ''Allah'' it's in Arabic which means ''God'' in English. May we all die peacefully and enjoy our lives to the fullest as the author of the above story illustrated to us the meaning of living lie to the fullest. ameen.
Be caring and spread love...don’t ever have or give into hate. Although there are bad people in the world...all you can do is live and love till the end.
This is VERY difficult, especially when you've been abused your whole life, and now dealing with complete strangers...don't get me started. I've never been a vengeful person, but after going through painful losses and grief, horrible job/financial problems, etc., and dealing with what seems to be the "a*hole" norm attitude of so many, I'm at the end of my rope. That whole "love thy neighbor.." deal is truly getting harder and harder with age.
@@joanna8978 There's no need to worry about what others force upon you. Live as you want. Death is inevitable. Try Stoicism. It helped me cope with external, uncontrollable events. It may not be the answer for everyone, but its a solution. Im not gonna hope that it will help. Im just sharing what worked for me, and give an option to people who read this.
I miss my grandfather so much. He was the loving parent for me. My parents have worked all their lives and they hardly spent 30 minutes a day with me while i was growing up. My grandparents took care of me. My grandmother is still alive and I am so grateful for it although my grandfather passed away in 2018. For the first two years of his death, I didn't grieve at all because I didn't want to face my emotions and grief. Recently, while going through a hypnotherapy session, his memories came flooding back and since then, I cry every day because i want to hug him one last time. My relationship with my parents is still not good and there are days that go by when i don't even talk to them even though we live in the same house. I just miss my grandfather so much. He was such a pure man and i will never ever forget him. I just want him to hug me and tell me stories of his life. He was the only one in my family apart from me who knew how to speak German and the two of us would talk in that language. I just want to meet him and have a nice meal with him. I want to tell him how far i have come and how much i love him. i just miss him so much.
Sending Hugs! My mother was raised by her grandmother and she loved her so much. Know that your grandfather is with you always and you will see him again. Be thankful you were able to have such love from someone. Best wishes.
Listen to your loving Heavenly Father saying, I will comfort you, like a loving mother ! God Himself promises to wipe away your tears. I hug you from a year after you posted this. God bless you, young one !
The thought of my death actually brings me a lot of peace. I would like to be around a little longer to see my daughter grow up. I think it's the transition from living to dead that kind of scares me.
When you no longer fear death, you live forever. Fearlessness begins with whole acceptance of the situation of health, or ideas today. I was told in 2017 that I was walking dead by the ER docs. That my final days would be excruciatingly painful as my brain was eaten away. I survived. I'm here. But in that time I accepted the inevitable and lived (psychologically) better than ever.
I was told last Thursday by my Doctors that I have masses all through my abdomen, heart, liver, intestinal track, kidney, urinary track, bladder, hips and etc. I will get more answers this coming Thursday. I am a Christian, and my FAITH in Jesus Christ allows Me to be at perfect PEACE. This earth is not my home, this body that my Spirit resides in is not my HOME! At my time I will pass, and IMEDIATELY I will be present with my King, Lord and Savior. I am at Peace. I pray Others have My Peace! God Bless All that Fear!
You are blessed my friend to know our great Lord and Saviour Jesus. I became a believer 33 years ago. And my life changed . May you continue to lean on Him for strength in the time you have, and know you will be with him eternally. God be with you.
I feared death as a kid but things took a different turn as i grew older and experienced deaths; mom, brothers and sister dying at separate time but very closely. Death is a transition. Ones fear should be where you heading afterward. Humans don’t die because the souls can’t die.
@@gummybear41283 you don’t get over it, you just live with it. The pain never ceases and once in a while, you catch yourself sobbing uncontrollably. Is tough but that’s life. As well faith is a strong tool. I am a Christian and that helped somewhat.
I lost my Mum in October 2018 & Father July 2020. Mum lived to 90 & Dad 87. They both weren't well but now I take comfort that they're back together again & in no pain. One of the best Ted Talk clips by far. Peace to all.
To me the biggest bummer of death is never knowing what it all is, what it all means. Often I marvel in wonder about the fact that we don’t know what we are, and it is truly one of the most awe inspiring thoughts I can tap into at any time. Take a moment now and then to remember that, that life is profoundly mysterious and a total psychedelic mind bend, feel the weight of that and smile.
I have been a cna for about 5 years now.. working with a lot of death and dying took a toll on me. But it has taught me to be centered in family, my faith, and my passions in life. God bless everyone may we meet one day after this life ❤
I'm 62 had covid while looking after my mother, step mother and father who all died 3 months apart last year. I then thought I'm next so I relaxed and prepared. Strangly I got stronger and healed. God decided I must stay, he was happy with way I looked after parents. You only die when God takes you, live your best life till that moment.
Listening to the accounts of those who go through near-death-experiences, it gives a comfort and understanding to the event we fear the most. They, by and large, all express an absense of fear and the sense of going home.
I don't believe death is the end, my mom who passed away 4 years ago always told me this and honestly when she passed I heard what sounded like wind chimes just for a brief moment and that gave me great comfort. I cant tell you what it was but I don't suffer from tinnitus etc and I know I didn't imagine that.... but that's my belief and it helped me cope with not only her death but eventually my death.
Hello Dewi, Having had many and varied experiences on a spiritual or "paranormal" level, I too am convinced of an afterlife! I have stage 4 metastatic lung cancer and I can honestly say that I have no fear of "passing!"
I work as an EMT, and one of the most memorable moments of my career was when a hospice patient asked me, “How long does it take for someone like me to die?” We talked and I realized, he didn’t fear death, he feared dying. Most of us don’t concern ourselves with being dead, we only fear our final moments of life and how we will feel in those final moments.
Once, I thought that I had a sign of the beginning of cancer (a lump under my skin) and what really shocked me, was that when I started thinking that I might die, I didn't fear it, I was calm, as if I'm ready for anything.. Prior to that, whenever I would imagine that I have some fatal disease, I would imagine that I'd be scared, sad etc. I was really surprised with this spontaneously calm reaction that I had.. 🤷♀️
I contracted HIV virus 30 years ago and felt shocked with no drugs, when i was informed i couldnt live for two years then. Finally ARV's arrived and i'm around but always ready for anything. I prepared my children when they were below 10 years and continued preparing them to this date. When i purchase any property i write their names not mine incase of anything. I've repented to my creator and i believe my name is written in the book of remembrance.
@@ronhanish thank you for your concern,before the arrival of ARV's i tried all traditional detox methods successfully for 20 years but many things were still failing. I have listened to Dr sebi and only tried alkaline detox though i feel comfortable with ARV's,there's something special about ARV's .
@@ronhanish ARV's are meds that inhibit the virus to undetectable levels but meds are just meds. Have tried fasting but can only manage 8hrs. I wish i got the specific combination that can erase the virus which is weak now,but from experience have tried many herbs just meeting some limitation. When HIV was a deadly disease all manner of cures came up ,i rushed to get but each time the results remained the same though my health kept improving.
My first pray for you to Allah is that you may get complete recovery because its not even difficult for Him. But if the will of Allah is to bring death to you around the time predicted by the doctor then i would pray that you may pass through this with ease, comfort and true faith in Him and receive His blessings in the eternal life after death.
Thank you. When patients or their family do not receive clear indications that the patient is clearly dying but are given false hope instead, they are hindered from making the best decisions. My late partner could have been spared much suffering as he died if there had been clarity in this respect. And so could we, his family.
My Mum told me what she wanted for her death in a number small snippets in our conversations. We both 'knew' she hadn't much time left, but in the end rather than be prepared I went to pieces, and was not able to recover myself enough to see her through her last week of life - even found I'd forgotten what she wanted to be buried in, and have for her funeral. My Mum was a very special, and nurturing person - she died in hospital and not at home as she dearly wanted ~ I do not think I will ever feel complete again as I will never be able to put this right for her. Mum accepted her coming death. I can only hope and try to live my life with as much grace and compassion, and laughter in adversity as my Mum did her whole life long 🌹
Your Mum loved you and has forgiven everything you have ever thought you have done wrong because that’s how love works. Now you must forgive yourself and live your life loving as she did.
It'll kill me loosing my mum I'm afraid to imagine the pain you went through losing your mother. I'm sorry for your loss and the pain it has caused you😪
@@nigelfenlon9035 You have to stay strong for her and make her proud. My mother is my soulmate and my everything, and I had to hold her hand, and tell her that it was "ok to let go," as she took her last breaths over seven years ago. I, like OP, also deal with irrational guilt over her death. It's true, when you love someone so much, you never get over it. It did kill me, I guess you can say.
@Wyatt Earp this week we are in has been to my inner experience like bells, whistles and clarion calls. Seems every wise counsel has been nudging me - open your heart, open your ears, open your mind, and TRUST to God. I thank you Wyatt Earp, for your reply today. I have heard, and I am paying attention. ♥️ Peace be with you Wyatt Earp 🙏
I don't fear death. In fact if I look forward to it. The thought of someday being freed from this miserable life is the only thing that gets me up every day.
Dr. Fahad Saeed soft hearted, soft spoken, softly and sweetly passes a practical message that birth and death are the two ends of the rope called life. Live and to die with no fear but with love and a sense of purpose. Don’t live your life with fear! Death need not feared of. Simple as that. You die the way you live your life. -Timothy E Quill, MD.
2-corinthians 5:8 - We are confident , I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord. Earnestly study the Bible and talk with your Heavenly Father, and u will be rewarded with hope and comfort.
i remembered the TV serial, 'RUN FOR YOUR LIFE'. Knowing his time is limited when medically diagnosed, he did many good deeds for others. Finally, he went back to the hospital and the doctor told him, "you have been misdiagnosed" with the mixings up of his X-ray films. He walked out bidding good-bye to the doctor as a new man in life....of a wonderful world to hear the babies cry.
Within a period of 2 years I lost two sisters to cancer, my brother to AIDs and my father to a heart attack. My father's death was sudden, but my siblings survived for months and dealt with their reality in different ways. They all said they wanted control of their end, however, doctors and hospitals refused to accept their truth. There is a moment when they need to leave a person alone. I also had to accept that I was not going to grow old with them. The entire period was a tangle of emotional tortures, but my siblings calmly watched knowing their journey was almost over. I hope you final hours are yours to do what you want: laugh, cry, or simply watch yourself dissolve back into the universe.
Wow, this is powerful!! My heart is filled with love, honor & admiration for this Doctor. I am a private caregiver & work alongside hospice workers. I too used to fear death but know within my soul there is nothing to fear bc we all are returning Home where we belong. We are only here for a brief time bc we are not just human beings having a temporary spiritual experience. But we are Spiritual Beings having a temporary human experience. God bless all of you, my brothers & sisters, may we see each other on the "Other" side. In the meantime, be kind to yourselves. Namaste, Renee 🤗
I’m not scared of death I’m just scared of loosing my love ones like my mom, dad grandma and grandpa I feel like I wouldn’t be the same without them just knowing I’ll never see there face again or personality.
You will not be the same again. It is true. Losing someone you love changes you. You may grow spiritually, you may not take relationships for granted, you may make more time for those people in your life. You may take away learning...but, in any case, losing someone you love will change you.
Life and death are 2 sides of the same coin. I am now 51 and I have lost all my great-grandparents, grandparents and my father- my only living direct ancestor is my mother. It is sad & difficult, but your life continues. All I can suggest is that while they are alive to give them as much love as possible and avoid causing them anger or sadness. Talk often and hear their stories. Enjoy every day you have with them as a gift, because one day all of them will be gone. Be good to them and you won't have guilt about treating them badly. Then they will live in your memories, in the faces of your children and in the wisdom you have learned from their example- leading a good life is the best way to honor them.
Losing my mom in 2014 . I was 21 at the time “ I have 7 siblings. The littlest one was 4 at the time . It’s been a long grieving process for all of us. But I truly believe that one day I will get to see her beautiful face again. That’s how I cope . With the HOPE and faith to see my mother, god , & Loved ones 🙏
I cried so much I lost my mom last may and it's approaching 1 year with my already previous fear of dying ... I have been a heavy MARIJUANA smoker for the last ten years and have trippled since her passing. I have attempted to stop several times within this year but couldn't bring myself to it. I truly hope that after hearing this and tapping into the real route fears and problems , I can stop being codependent. life is already mysterious and numbered and that's without freak accidents....I want to live the life my mom wanted for me! I want to be present I want to be clear and loving ,Excited for life while I have It . I am a mom of 1 to a beautiful handsome son and I want to be around as long as possible for him I want to have plans set up for him for when my time comes. I want to give him everlasting memories and joys for him and I to hold on and cherish forever to carry with him. So far I have been blessed not to have any serious health issues and after hearing about the heros you spoke of today I am compelled to CHOOSE LIFE over MARIJUANA
Indeed, the death from which you flee - indeed, it will meet you. Then you will be returned to the Knower of the unseen and the witnessed, and He will inform you about what you used to do.” (Quran 62:8)
2-corinthians 5:8 - We are confident , I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord. Earnestly study the Bible and talk with your Heavenly Father, and u will be rewarded with hope comfort and strength.
Three years ago my father passed away from a fall. He realized he was dying remained relatively coherent until the day he passed away. He spoke of who he was, things he had done and at times tears quietly flowed from his eyes, and even laughed. He knew his time had come. He went in peace knowing we loved him. My mother in law, she had an embolism and was told she would make a recovery which she began to do, that is until she was told she was paralyzed. She told us then it was over and she would be gone within days. To the day as she called it she was no longer with us. She controlled her destiny and for some odd reason, I believe she's home where she longed to be. I use to know a big man which was a roofer, his wife passed away and he left shortly thereafter, he choose not to live without her. My brother N law which was a nurse always told me those who fight it suffer the longest as their bodies continue to shutdown. So the question is which is harder to do...continue on or to let go....I believe those who believe there is something else beyond what we know somehow find peace in that thought.
My human was a Hospice RN case manager. Death is hardly "good", but Hospice and Palliative care help the "crisis" become more manageable. Tears may fall at random, but these are tears of love, loss, and grief. I'm just a cat but my human strongly believes in the healing nature of Palliative care, Hospice care, not only for the dying but also for their loved ones. This is the gift.
I made my piece with God when I was 29 and I had an infection that had eaten my aortic heart valve away. I made promises to those that I loved that I would do whatever it takes to stay alive and I have been fighting to stay alive ever since. I am 55 now. I don't know how I am alive but what I do know is that I am looking forward to the day that I don't have to fight anymore. Until that time I will celebrate life by flirting, eating, and helping my loved ones who dont listen to a word that comes out of my mouth. I cant tell anyone how to deal with death only how i deal with life. My secret is learning how to love people I don't know like they are the people I promised to stay alive for.
I once heard someone say Death is like a neighbor who's always knocking at the door with a plate of cookies, but you never open the door Then one day you face your fear and open that door and meet a very nice reaper and have a plate of cookies
It's okay if your afraid of death is just means your life meant something to you. You were dead once and you were fine with it once and we'll experience once again.
I have leukemia, leukemia was scary.. Yet what was more scarier than the blood disease was the anxiety and the fear of death which followed.. The ego has an uncanny will to linger on.. It creates a lot of unpleasant feelings in order to survive.
The ego is you . It's normal. The idea that the "ego" is a bad and selfish thing was created by famous scientist/psychiatric that were so full of their success and they valued it more than everything else. The Ego is you , your universe, your thoughts and your sentiments. It's the most important thing for you , even more than the universe. And that is normal.
@@francesco5581 I wouldn't say that the Ego is bad.. Or good.. I guess culture and a peppering of nurture is responsible for that.. Yet the Ego, does have an uncanny ability to survive.
“To consider that after the death of the body the spirit perishes is like imagining that a bird in a cage will be destroyed if the cage is broken, though the bird has nothing to fear from the destruction of the cage. Our body is like the cage, and the spirit is like the bird. We see that without the cage this bird flies in the world of sleep; therefore, if the cage becomes broken, the bird will continue and exist. Its feelings will be even more powerful, its perceptions greater, and its happiness increased.” ‘Abdu’l-Bahá
Without the virtual body (You are not the body nor are you in the body...there is no body. Nisargadatta, 'I am that') consciousness is no longer aware, has no attributes and is desireless, it has changed from phenomena consciousness to noumena consciousness which is your natural state, prior to consciousness, the unborn.
Death is absolute. There's nothing that survives, no soul, spirit or other jack-in-a-box feature. That goes against our thinking, and way of life, but ''when you eat of the fruit you will certainly die" God warned Adam. Teaching that we possess any kind of immortality is satanic in origin. However, the same way you can bring back an MsWord document that you closed, we can be resurrected. In Jesus case it took a weekend!
@@evankmutua3145 Even one of the greatest physicists, David Bohm, said that nothing really exists, no you or me, no universe, but the illusion is so good that it is difficult to see through it. There is an implicate order, everything, the possible ,the impossible is implicated waiting to become explicit for a time then the page is closed and turned and the old explicit becomes implicated again and a different implicated condition becomes explicit for a time, it's a dance whose meaning escapes us. There is no true religion, they merely bring comfort for ego hoping that the sleeping consciousness never awakens to the truth.
What a coincidence. My mom and dad also died in 2017, both 7 months apart. I guess dad decided to follow his love. I have never been able to get through it yet. Someday I'll meet them.
When my Dr told me I was terminal, I wold him he was too, so what. He's 75, I was 38. Said I have 12 weeks. I told him nope, I have stuff to do. That was July 2015, im still here. I'm still raising my daughter and making the most of every moment.
This warms my heart I wish luck and many many years more.
Your life is a miracle. As is mine. I pray we always cherish our time here!
Be proactive. Watch Doug Kaufman "Know the Cause".
Can you tell us more, what was it that was terminal, what improvements changes occured?
What a wonderfull post. You are blessed.
My hero is my husband. He died of pancreatic cancer seven weeks ago today. He received the toughest chemo with no complaint. When it quit working, he tried another. And another. Sicker and sicker, thinner and thinner, never complained. Worried about other people up until the day he died. The most unselfish man I’ve ever known. Even wanted to forego pain meds as much as possible so he could be more alert and active. He gave me and our kids so much love, even more during those 11 months. I will love and miss him forever.
I lost my husband a few months ago and it’s so hard for me to cope. He was the best most caring man I ever met. He was perfect and I miss him to infinity and beyond
So sorry for your loss....
God bless that courageous man.
YOULL SEE HIM AGAIN ONE DAY praise god
Thanks for sharing
"Do not regret growing older, it is a privilege denied to many" -Old Vaquero saying
*NO ONE Taught ME How to Find a GirL Friend!!!! I Never Learned!!!!*
*At 73, I am Ready for My Death!!! I BeLieve in JeHoVah GOD!!!!*
I'm 65, I love getting older! I enjoy the process, regardless of pain and limitations, I enjoy aging. Each day I see my expiration date coming closer and closer, so I enjoy the day.
@@Justin.Martyr me too but i hope Jesus is your Savior
It's also a privilege, and something to be proud of, because for so many elderly folks, they are that strong to endure what life and growing old takes, for them to get that far. We've all heard the saying, "Growing old, isn't for wimps!"
Instablaster...
I'm 76 years old and and have faced the perspective of death. The thought of leaving my loved ones behind was the greatest concern at the time. As I get older and my body weakens and it becomes easier to except the fact that I will die. I wake up each day and thank the Lord for blessing me with the gift of that day. I look at the world almost like a child and reveling the freedoms of enjoying so many things in this world. I'm happy with the things I have and worry less about the things I don't have. My wife and I enjoy so many things together. I worry about the trends out there and wish I could get people to hate less and to use their minds more. Stress seems to guide society today. Its hard to believe how ungrateful people can be. If I die tomorrow I will die with the knowledge that I enjoyed my time here during my lifetime and look forward to meeting the Lord in my next life.
Ray
Such a beautiful wisdom your comment is all I needed.
Death is a sacred celebration as much as birth. God desires each of us.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful message🥺💕💕
I love it Ray and couldn't have said it better, I feel exactly the same as you!
Thank you sir. That did help me
I have stage 4 terminal cancer. I totally accept death. However, our society should allow me more choices about how i handle the last few hours.
I hope they are peaceful and surrounded by loved ones.
Dear Mort Pes, sorry to hear about that. I just lost my dad 3 weeks ago to cancer, we are unprepared for that and still in shock. I wish the medical professions had given us more honest advices, we would love to have him home instead of leaving him in the hospital, while hoping for miracles. Though he did passed peacefully with all loved one around him, but nothing can make up for the lost time. Please prepared yourself and your loved one, say goodbye to each others before it's too late. If we strived to live a beautiful life, we should also strive to make a perfect ending for it. Keep you in prayers. May you be in minimal pain and may the grace of God be with you.
I hope your last few hours can be within some of your control. Your life and body. I send you peace Mort Pes.
I agree. We should be allowed to die gracefully
God bless 🙏🏽
i miss my mom ...without her the world is cold, lonely and scary.
Find someone you can love who can love you in return. That's the most we can do!
Heard that. I read the autobiography of BB King, and he lost his mom at 12 years old. He wrote the book much later in his life and had this great quote about the reason why he sings the blues is because he misses his mom, even at an advanced age. The point is that it's okay to miss your mom, and some people never 'get over it'. It's not a failing of character or a reason for shame. Carry on, as best as you can. Isn't that what your mom would want?
I miss my mom too and I regret that I have not recorded her voice. I have pictures of her but I cannot remember her voice any more. So I have to wait until I start the last journey myself until we are reunited again. So whoever reads my little comment: Please make sure you have audio tapes of your loved ones.
@@fw5134 ---- I don't have an audio tape. But I kept her answering machine with her message on it. Comforting.
My mother was the best friend I ever had. I miss her terribly! I wish I could give you some advice that would help.
I am a Christian, but several years ago I suddenly became very fearful thinking about death. I did not mention it to my husband or family or friends. A few months later I went to a ladies retreat at my church and the guest speaker prayed for several people who desired prayer. I went forward. I did not say what I wanted prayer for, but the lady started praying out loud and she said “Honey, the Lord wants you to know, the minute you stop breathing and close your eyes, you’ll be with Him”. I started to cry. But from that moment on, that fear of death left me, and it has never returned.
So beautiful! Thanks for sharing
I've also had that morbid fear of death too, but: "to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord"!!! The only ones who need to fear are the lost whom we MUST always pray for & witness to!! God is GOOD all the time, amen! 😇😍🤗
@@titov7823 The Lord takes away the fear of death if you accepted Christ as your saviour you will be with Him and have eternal live..have faith and trust Him with all your heart!!! Thanks for sharing
Christ has also taken away my morbid fear of death.
@@jolie1865 I'm Hindu
My dad passed away last August from brain cancer. I couldn’t understand how for the whole time after he was diagnosed to his final moments he was so positive and graceful. His last words were “can you cut me few slices of cheese?”
"You die the way you live"
This is beautiful. Thanks for sharing @Morgan & Teresa
Did he want bread with that?
@@jimbouwens1854 probably
Sorry harry but what brain cancer was it :( I lost my mother too on 5th October due to brain cancer, gliosarcoma. It was so tough :(
"All the mortals will taste death, but only a few will taste life" , this one quote kept me going. For anyone fearing death, come one, you have one life as you, lets taste it. Go and hug someone you love right now.
Really? Are you saved? Have you felt his presence? He is here! He's in us! He is here! I am his church! He blessed me 9 days ago! I seen miracles every day for 9 days! That's his glory! He made the blind see! Now I see! I am his temple, he the cornerstone! We his church! And he is here! He is here for us! I am to gather his church! I never read the bible until my king told me to buy 2 bibles less than 2 weeks ago! Now, the bible reads me! I see its meaning! Perpetual sin of the fathers! That is how satan is passed generation to generation! Jesus is the cornerstone! I am his body and his temple! It is me! Repent! That he blessed ye in my likeness so that you can get your households in order! Our Lord is at the door! Amen! He is at the door and I am letting him in!
Let any who needs him, his blessing know....
Your end is near! Know this!
It’s not only one life. There is a life after death, if you do not acknowledge the Creator as your Saviour, you will spend your other life after death in an unpleasant place.
"Be true to your teeth, or they'll be false to you."
- - Soupy Sales
I'm 29 years old, 18 weeks pregnant and my mother has less than a week to live after being diagnosed with stage 5 cervical cancer. I can't visit her because the hospital's strict covid policy so please call your mom and tell her you love her.
So sorry about that God see u thru
I wish you so much strength but I am also so angry to hear how unhumane our governments treat it's citizens. It is totally heartbreaking that you are not allowed to visit your mom. No words. I am so sorry. And wish all the good for you and your coming baby.
I pray that you are coping in a healthy way. I loss my grandmother on 3/10/21 and we can only take this one day at a time.. God Bless
I lost my mom last year when i was 29. Heart failure, I am an only child. It was the hardest thing I have ever gone through but I thank God I was able to take care of her on hospice in my home in her last days. God Bless you and you mom ❤
just walk in and pretend you work there or your supposed to be there...i wouldnt accept that.
I’m 21 almost 22 and For the past few days I’ve been getting a lot of anxiety about death. Right now as I write this I’m still overthinking and having anxiety. I wish I could come to the conclusion that everything will be okay and that death and time flying isn’t the problem. I wanna be okay with it but I’m scared. And sometimes I feel alone but I always try find a way to tell myself I’m not alone. Like reading these comments. I love life and I just wanna be better so that when I die. I have no regrets and I’m happy. I just think that time is flying by and death is getting closer. But we are human and I believe we deserve better. In every way
I hope you're feeling better now and yes this is life and we have a specific time to live but at least as you said live it to the fullest without harming others or yourself🤍
Let's give some to the world
You are not alone, there are many of us who struggle with the same thoughts
The one who doesn't have any health problems plzz be grateful and pray or help the needy ones
@Gice Rum believe me. That is not the worst thing.
@@loganrogan605 That's pretty unconstructive
@@loganrogan605 I hate when people say this. How do you know what is worse for her? People die from asthma. You don’t walk in her shoes!
@@loganrogan605 1st Corinthians chapter 10 verse 13(KJV)
I know what you mean....
@@leah36935 ECCLESIASTES chapter 12 verse 6
When we die
ECCLESIASTES chapter 12 verse 7
We return to our Father.
Never take your health for granted and never ignore your body when it tells you that something is wrong..God bless you all and peace be with you
four tails You are so right.
Thankyou and god bless you too we should not take out health for granted
@Gice Rum if the doctor thinks everything is not wrong then most likely nothing is wrong physically.
@Gice Rum if u feel something is wrong maybe talk to someone and find out what you think is wrong
Then maybe you can find the root of the wrong thing and find out the truth but this is just my opinion or idea so don’t trust in it fully.
im not scared of death...im scared of suffering till i die
In the grand scheme... What is some months of suffering? Nothing more than an opportunity to center, correct and plan for the next stage of infinity
It may well come on faster than you even notice. I shouldn’t be alive right now, but if I had died that day, I wouldn’t have even known that I did.
Bozo Jimmy ❤️
Bozo Jimmy me too
Bozo Jimmy I don't want a lingering death being in pain. I want it to be in my sleep.
I have lost a LOT of family, starting with my parents' drownings when I was14 y/o, and MANY more due to various illnesses and conditions. But, before my late husband, (2019), I had never lived with and cared for anyone on a daily basis with terminal cancer. All throughout his illness, I was astounded at how he never complained and accepted his fate. He lived his life wide open, took chances and seemed fearless to me. He taught me a lot about how to live and he made it easier for me when my time comes. He was in Hospice the last few days of his life and he faced his death with a deep faith, strength and courage. I know my Father's Promises, so that lessens my fear.The last thing I said to him was, 'You have fought a long, hard battle, but you don't have to fight anymore. Don't worry about me. You know that I'm a strong woman and we WILL see each other again. I love you!' A few hours later he gave up the fight. I miss every single thing about him, every single day.
linda handley - You've certainly been through a lot and your husband sounds like a lovely man! Yes, you will indeed meet again!!😊
@@evelynvanzale4757 Thanks so much Evelyn.'🌹
Nothing to worry they awere hopy spirits and so are you this is a show please enjoy it to the fullest we all are going to the same place one day... Just be ecstatic and joyful... Love everyone around you... Just love that is what God really is... Take care much strength to you mam 🌹🙏🙂
@@lindahandley5267 😊💝
@@shubhamdingra2449 You are so right Shubham! Thank you for your kind words!🌹
Wishing everyone here good health, success, and happiness! ❤️
Thank you, and the Same to you.
What about us who want to die?
Thanks. I wish all of us good health.
At the age of 5...The first funeral I attended was my little 3yo brothers, the same year, i went to my Great grandmother's funeral, she was in her 90s...at the age of 5, I knew that age doesn't have anything to do with death. We all die, enjoy every moment you have because we don't choose how many moment's we receive.
We kinda do choose
When I read your comment, I thought I was reading my own. My little brother Jeremy died of a rare leukemia at 3 years old (actually 1 week before her turned 3) I was 5. My great grandma died the same year my brother was ill and she lived in arkansas. They had her funeral in her little shack, I remember it vividly. Then my little brother died and that funeral was horrific. We have alot in common in the way death was taught to us. My brothers death has been with me every day, I am 42 now and I have guilt over not sharing toys with him once. I was his big sister and it has always haunted me. Very traumatic losing a little brother, I know your pain, a silent pain.
@@aaronharman5431 Did his 3 year old brother "kinda choose"?
Most of us have no choice as to our ability to enjoy life. For me, I always wanted to enjoy life to the fullest. However, just the opposite has played out. My life has been the Most UNHAPPY, MISERABLE, TORTURE one could possibly imagine. If you have Bad Mental Health, in my case Major Depressive Disorder we can only experience the WORST life has to offer
@@cityslickerchickens5835, I have a message for you from your brother (ok, I am making this up, but I am sure he would agree with me). He says that he wants you to live your life to the fullest - his was cut short, but you enjoy it for both of you. He says he is in a good place, so you don't have to worry about him. He had a good laugh and was also a bit sad about the toys story. He laughed because it is what kids do... fight with your brothers and sisters, not share your toys with them, even split on them to your parents. It is just a normal part of growing up, discovering who you are and exerting your newly discovered authority. He says he would have undoubtedly done the same to you at some stage because it is just a part of being human. But he says there are no hard feelings involved. Actually, he says that he had completely forgotten about the incident until you mentioned it recently. He was a bit sad because he hadn't wanted you to feel guilty about it at all, especially carrying that guilt for 42 years. He REALLY wants you to allow yourself to be human, forgive yourself because he has about 40 years ago already, and live life to the fullest. He says, Big Sister, see you one day in the future. He sends you a huge hug and a kiss on your forehead. Peace be with you trillzzz of skillzzz.
My near-death experiences completely changed my perspective on life and death. I have a shirt that says do not fear dying, fear the unlived life. Thank you for the uplifting video.
How were your experiences?
Tell us more. Please
Shawn, please take a moment and share your experience with us still living...
What if i am guilty of my own death? It just makes living - heavy punishment and death - final payment. May everyone forgive me for this.🖤
Loved this! Everyone is convinced of a different faith according to their upbringing. Every death is as unique and individual as each birth. I also experienced a NDE in a 12 car pileup. I was hit & propelled four times then pronounced dead by three people I was not under any anesthesia or drugs. The one thing I felt was this joy, relief, warmth and love.
I was still me just "super me" One thing I have faith in is soul/spirit energy. Those energies we loved who transitioned before us- Still love us. In the USA we need to teach more about death, dying and how to cope!
if you were born and you were the one and only person in the world to face death while everyone else stayed alive, then you'd have something to fear. it happens to everyone. don't be afraid💙💙💙
We spend so much time thinking about death that we forget what it means to be alive. Lets all start to live life and appreciate those around us that remind us what it means to be alive. Peace
The wonderful truth about being human is that none of us are alone. We are all in this together.
And wonderful how we keep reproducing despite not knowing wtf all of this means, the point of it all, or our place in the universe, we are just ants desperately seeking pleasure lmao
@@graham9334 I've often though about just that. We could end all suffering by just stop reproducing.
@@knottreel first humans would have to kill off all other life, and even then theres a possibility of a billion other planets inhabited just like ours, so it may also be futile to stop the cycle even then. We screwed bruh lol
@@graham9334 LOL!
Some of us kind of are alone
This is what youtube is meant for. Such a beautiful presentation.
Roland.......yup it is
This is what your comments are for, Appreciation and gratitude.
@@pstamaria Roldan was always a stand up citizen. At 8 years old he was recycling and making a difference.
@@VeN0m88 yeah ImFAo
Yeah Like you didn't see Any of the else Videos Here , Like Your BS Prophecies of Curse church LMAO 🤣
yT is a Productive and Joy passing Things and about everything almost...
I am a nurse and I am so incredibly impressed with the compassion and love for his fellow humans this man exudes, something rare in most doctors. Thank you Dr. Saeed!
Unfortunately good doctors are an endangered epecies. They usually don't treat people as patients but rather as customers, profitable goods. Sadly my beloved mother passed away five months ago and each physician I took her to, treated us (myself included) like as if we were lepers or something like that. I expect doctors' cold attitudes and indifference to people's suffering can change. Mom 's gone and now I'm so lonely, and sad hoping to see her again anytime soon (if possible). I miss her so much. God bless you.
@@tonygreen152 I think good patients are an endangered species. They show up obese, smoking/drinking and want treatments by way of pills. You think doctors don't "care" about patients? How about the patient caring about their own body first!
@@paulpena9548 I still believe what I said based on my own experience with my beloved mother. If you knew what I lived through I'm sure you wouldn't think the same. If you don't have any money and get sick, only God can help you. Medicine is all about business, no empathy towards your neighbors.
@@tonygreen152 It sounds like your mother belonged to a capitated health care plan, where the doctors are under the thumb of administration to keep costs down. You don't go through all that training to become a doctor because you want to make millions, there's easier ways to make money.
@@paulpena9548 Are you a doctor?
Thank you, sir, for the video. I am 80 and my mother is 98. I don't think my end is close by. It is a great comfort to have your mother alive at this age. You think your turn comes only after hers. I miss my grand parents and my father who passed away. My brother is 78 and he is also my comfort.
You are lucky!
my mom is 83 my dad is 81. I hope they live as long as your mom
Bless you, hope you're doing well
Iam 35 with stage 2. Lung cancer and I have a 13 year old daughter and wife I started chemo and radiation iam so scared
Praying for you Man
Marco Pereira thankyou my brotha means the world to me
Good luck dude I wish you good wishes for what is happening
Praying for you man it is not easy i was in that exact position just wanting to be around longer.. yet i am still not sure if anyday i will leave this planet
I pray for you. For tranquility and peace above anything else.
My doctor told me that I had 6 months to live. I thanked him and told him I was sorry, that I wouldn’t be able to pay his bill in that time. He gave me another 6 months - paraphrased from Rodney Dangerfield, MD
Born to die. As I age, nearly 72, I’ve discovered how our bodies prepare us for the end. Do not fear death, it is our destiny.
Easy for you to say, you had over 70 years! You are a lucky blessed person!
If you fear death, you're fearing life. I learned this at a young age fortunately. Was terrified of death, but one day I realized I was simply just afraid of everything. My mental anguish forced me to take life head on. The only other choice was suicide, but I was too scared to do it. Once I lived with more bravery, more courage and more of an open mind, I began to see the beauty in life. All the bad stuff was still there too, but I also started seeing all the good things I was too blind to see before. I realized that it was a balance. Life was never all good or all bad, it was always a bit of both. Once I accepted that and tried to live in harmony with it, I felt a sense of peace inside me that was the most beautiful thing I had ever witnessed. I no longer feel death. Nor do I loose sleep over what happens after. I do know however, that if I live an unfulfilling life and keep wasting time into things I do not believe in because I'm too afraid to take a risk and change, then I will start fearing death. And then I will loose sleep over what happens afterwards. And if I do that too much, one day, it will be too late.
Don't fear life. Live it. Find what you believe in. Whether it is to make others happy, or challenge yourself, and go for it. Don't waste time on pleasures like money and power. These are just drugs for the spirit. Go after what you believe in. What you REALLY BELIEVE in. If you can't explain why you want or love something, then there's your hint.
Thank you for the comment! I took a screenshot.
Hello Bangtan, you have expanded your conscience and know that we are all connected. We are one with the universe! Many people go through life without realizing this!
I love this comment
My wife was so brave. I watched her suffer tremendously and yet she was more concerned about the people she would be leaving behind. I can only admire her and hope that when my time comes, I will be as strong and as giving to my family as she was.
AMEN I feel the same about my mom she was the strongest most caring person I know she suffered so much throughout her life but yet she was always there for people anyone who needed anything at all. I am so proud of my mom and hope that I can be as courageous as she was. I miss her so much everyday but I know she now has peace and love nd no pain and I thank God for that!
That could have been written about my mum. All the best to you.
death doesn’t scare me. it’s losing my mom, my dad, my sister, my dog, my grandparents, my friends, my children, my loved ones, & all of the experiences life will bring me. i hope that when i die everyone knows how much i loved them
Beautiful post. Join us ,TOGETHER WE ARE STRONGER.
Tell them... every day!... how much you love them. ❤ No regrets. Peace & Blessings+
When i first got pregnant i was scared of giving birth,but thought if everyone can do it so can i,that's how i feel about death.
Death probably hits me the hardest when it's late at night. I'm going to wash my hands from the bathroom, and suddenly, I just think. I go to the mirror and stare at it, and a feeling of dread overcomes me as I think, "what if tonight's the night where I go to sleep and never wake up". This happens probably atleast once a week, and I haven't found any videos that have really helped me face my fear. I talked about it with my parents nearly a year ago, and again less than a month ago, which really helps. But still, I usually let the fear build up inside of me until one night I finally come to my senses and seek help from someone, but this video has been one of the only ones that has actually helped. Thank you.
Like you I loved this guy's talk. It was great and I am so glad it helped you. But the video led to the comments... and your comment and here we are. Do you have a very poor prognosis? I am a bit confused about what you said re your parents. Am I right in thinking that the two helpful communications with them about your illness were 11 or so months apart?
If you're really going through it, don't worry about replying to this message.
You need Jesus. He gives eternal life. In humility, cry out to God and ask him to fill you with His Holy Spirit, He will.
For God has not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7
You described my nights 😞 God I wish we all lived forever 😭
This is known as rumination/intrusive thoughts,
It’s just your mind playing with you as I would make a bet you have GAD or panic disorder
I’ve had this for decades but you know.. you keep waking up even the nights or days you feel this is different and you won’t.
Get some CBT and practice mindfulness
Living your life scared is not living
@@free5370 I don't think I have a disorder, but I would love some CBT!
I am not afraid to die but I am afraid to lose the people I love so much. I am saddened by the thought of how my daughter will miss me when I pass.
we’re scared because we’re scared to lose something. I’m not scared to lose my life, but to lose the ability to think. To lose my mind and enter into oblivion.
Same here😕
Dude same, it has been haunting for a few weeks now
I think it would be like before we were born, nothing. That’s scary
@@Ron-bz2xl yea same.ive been really coming to the knowledge of mortality and seeking answers but it really is the great unknown. Every day I wake up now im so grateful. But I'm wondering how I will be when It comes for me will I know its coming? Will I die suddenly? I don't know...
@@Marmazard you know how scientists will point out certain adaptive strategies that nature takes on in its battle for survival? For example there's this butterfly that is not toxic to predators who would eat it. But, it's adapted wing pattern looks almost identical to another species of butterfly that _is_ toxic. Apparently, it adapted those traits to secure its survival. Then, there are certain animals (rabbits, foxes, Etc) that change their coat colors with the seasons, making them better able to blend in & survive. And the list goes on & on. There's probably millions of similar examples. But, my point is, it's interesting that on even the minutest cellular level... there are signs of intelligence. And the more you look, the more it becomes apparent that there is proof of design in all these expressions of life. Where there is proof of design, there is proof of a designer. I'll admits to being scared of what my experience of death will be, but I believe existence will continue. Check out some of Derek Prince's TH-cam videos. Some of them are just 5 min long.
- BTW, I mean no offense. These are just my opinions & suggestions. I believe there's room at the table for everybody to respectfully share what they think & believe.
As someone with severe clinical depression, as well as a whole bunch of other chronic illness's, I've thought about death for most of my life. At times suicidal. But I always had what I thought to be a "wholesome" fear of death, that prevented me from ever acting upon my suicidal thoughts. In July 2019, I came home, and found my father had passed away in his sleep (which was great solace, as it was totally unexpected, so atleast knowing he went in peace, with no suffering, or illness, was the only thing to hold on to). Then in January 2020, my service dog became sick, and within 3 weeks, I had to let him go. This was 6 months apart, and I was absolutely devastated. Then, in Nov 2020, my retired service dog passed as well. I am living with unimaginable grief right now, for perhaps the 3 most important "people" in my life, have been taken from me, all within 16 months. That being said, my fear of death, is almost none existent now. I am not religious, but I do believe in an afterlife, and the one thing that comforts me, is that when it's my time to leave this earth, and this life, that I will be reunited with my father, and my service dogs. I can only pray that when it's my time to die, that I am lucky enough to die as my father did, in his sleep, without pain, and without illness.
NO ONE CAN GET TO HEAVEN UNLESS ONE BELIEVES IN JESUS CHRIST. NOW IS THE TIME TO KNOW HIM. NOW
You will be fine. I have watched relatives die. They come back to us. The soul is eternal.
I would like to recommend new or near death experience videos on TH-cam. It can bring great comfort to you. I watched hundreds. There is a type of death that is beautiful.
@@nancyrussell6598 it's more than just believing, it's about wholeheartedly repenting and trusting Jesus. And trust is expressed through obedience. Dear Sister Nancy, precious are your words and your dedication to the Lord and to people. You shall be blessed.
@@nancyrussell6598 totally disagree with you.
When my sister was dying, she made a comment I have never forgotten. She said it wasn't that she hated dying, but she hated feeling like she was dying.
How are you doing 😊😊👋👋
Every time I watch something like this I think about how lucky I am to be 42 and not have yet faced any real health issues. How many people are not as fortunate that have been robbed of their childhood, adolescence or adulthood. I suddenly feel guilty having ever felt cheated about anything.
I nearly bled to death in hospital one night in my wife's (then girlfriend) arms. The experience has left me with PTSD. That was five years ago. The thought of dying doesn't so much make me afraid, but sad. I don't want to leave my family broken by my passing. I don't want to leave my wife alone, and I don't want to leave her alone with our four month old son. This talk brought tears to my eyes.
The greatest tragedy in life is not dying; it is what dies within us while we are alive. Don’t let happiness, joy, love, and being present with your loved ones die within while you are alive. Your loved once will always remember how you LIVED not how you died.
@@bios3431 thank you sincerely for this wisdom.
You should have used the force!
John Doe w
Seek help for your PTSD
I'm 13 and for some reason I'm worried about death but most of all I'm worried of losing my loved ones. My grandma is getting old and my grandpa is in heaven but I get worried everyday and start crying for no reason because I'm scared I might not say I love them before they die.
You are young and all young people fear losing the ones they love . My father taught me to tell your brothers sisters you lve them and when you have children tell them everyday I love you , Never tire of telling then . never fail to tell them then they know they are loved . I am old now and still tell my children I love them .
I knew my father loved me so very much and I loved him If you don,t tell them how do they know sometimes gestures are just not enough .
So very time you see your grand mother put your arms around her and say Grandma I love you so much . Im telling you because I want you to know .. Hearing this she will say the same to you but in her heart she will know such love and joy just because you told her .
If you miss the time when she comes to die you will never ever feel bad ,because ,you can say to yourself . every time I saw grandma I told her I loved her I knew it made her happy and I promise you it will make you happy too . and it applies to all of those you love .
Never ever be afraid to tell the the people you love that you love them it becomes a habit and you know that they know you love them .
I feel you man,but what can we do?,im scared too,actually i just had a bad anxiety about death for about 3 days,but im just gonna live my life so i wont regret it,even if i lost everything atleast i have fun while it last and pray to whoever god that created me everynight,im gonna spend time with my family while i can
Yea im almost 15 and I've feared death for like 2 years and it's so annoying, it makes me cry sometimes for hours and my mother gets annoyed of it, I feel like I have the death anxiety because I don't have much good in life, I have no friends, my grandmother passed, a lot of my family hates me, my sister's and mother and I we don't have a lot of money :( makes it worse if one day I were to die and it was nothing
@@thehighprosecutor3829 Find people who love you. And love them yourself. Love is very healing.
Maybe you should start hugging your loved ones every morning and every night...
When my mother was dying of cancer she kept repeating "I want to die but I don't know how" She kept repeating this over and over. I will never forget that.
“I’m not afraid of dying, I just don’t want to be there when it happens” I can’t remember who said it but it’s the truth!
Allen Woods maybe
Woody allen quote
@@dommccaffry3802 Right on the dot. Woody Allen.
I am More afraid of being the last one standing in my family- old and alone 😱😥
I think that's Alzheimer's
Rupert Spira quote : Death is not the opposite of life. Death is the opposite of birth.. life is eternal.
Really? Are you saved? Have you felt his presence? He is here! He's in us! He is here! I am his church! He blessed me 9 days ago! I seen miracles every day for 9 days! That's his glory! He made the blind see! Now I see! I am his temple, he the cornerstone! We his church! And he is here! He is here for us! I am to gather his church! I never read the bible until my king told me to buy 2 bibles less than 2 weeks ago! Now, the bible reads me! I see its meaning! Perpetual sin of the fathers! That is how satan is passed generation to generation! Jesus is the cornerstone! I am his body and his temple! It is me! Repent! That he blessed ye in my likeness so that you can get your households in order! Our Lord is at the door! Amen! He is at the door and I am letting him in!
No sale
You are not the body nor are you in the body.....there is no body.
You are prior to consciousness where there is no pleasure or pain, you are the absolute, the witness, the nothing that causes all manifestations.
Nisargadatta Maharaj
@@rdallas81 whatever turns you on
@@albundy9597.......what ever, to each their own!
I am 42. I don't die my hair. When I look into the mirror and see those white hairs, and I am more grateful for the present day. It makes me aware that I aim aging, and it makes me more focused to live with integrity as a legacy.
Finally a Ted talk that talks about the worst fear of all death, finally we have someone that realizes how important life really is.
I was a new mother when I was told I had cancer. I was terrified and every moment of my life was consumed with fear. I felt angry, “ why me, why now?” The unfairness of it all. My son is never going to know how much he could be loved and future children I will never get to hold. I tried to memorize everything the face of my infant, husband, colors, sounds, trees, feel of water, walking barefoot in grass, the glow of the moon. I felt like I was cramming for the ultimate life test. No matter how hard I tried to recall ever second of this life I was a failure. The harder I tried to slow life down the faster the minutes past by. It was like sand through a sieve, no faster like water or wind. Later, I was given the news that I no longer had signs of cancer. I didn’t react right away. I needed to be a lone and few days later I walked into my closet to hang up some new blouses. I hadn’t bought anything for myself in awhile what was the use I’d tell myself. I began to shake uncontrollably and cry out loud. It was as if I had been holding my breath and moving through the past months hypoxic. The relief washed over me like ice cold rain. I don’t know how long I was on my knees screaming and crying in the closet in an emptying house. It must have been awhile because when I stood up I fell back into the closet. My legs had fallen asleep and the pain like millions of tiny ice crystals pulsates to the bottom of my feet. There was no use walking so I lay there half in and half out of the closet. I began to laugh at how ridiculous I must look lying on the floor tangled in clothes, hangers, shoes and stuff. My legs and feet hurt and I moved them trying to get the blood to circulate back into all the empty spaces. Although painful there was also comfort that I was still alive to feel it. I had experience a lot of pain the past months. Now, I wasn’t just experiencing it, I was feeling. I told myself, I was given a second chance and I am not going to waste it. I had been so preoccupied with fear and anger over my death that I wasn’t living. I was grieving the life that I would one day lose that I didn’t live the life I still had left. I thought to myself, fear and anger what a terrible waste of time. The only greater waste of time is hatred. I told myself that I will never waste another day paralyzed in fear, anger and certainly not hatred. I have since seen loved ones diagnosed with terminal illnesses and recognize the fear in their eyes. I wish I could take it away so that they could spend their last loving, laughing, tasting, smelling, seeing and taking this world and this life all in. I don’t know what happens after this life but I hope we will be able to take our most happiest memories.
Your post was beautiful, revealing (honest) and uplifting! Thank you!
Try ketone diet please. There are many success of healing stories. Believe you're living and you will. What to lose? Go try it. May Allah bless you and heal 🙏💗 you.
Thank you Isabelle. Good luck on your journey. Stay well.
ala' Arabyat allah isn’t real
@@aaronharman5431 basically your reply means'' God isn't real'' is this what you meant? if So the poor lady meant well am sure. and if I had to pray for you or anyone else since am from another religion, I would use the word ''Allah'' it's in Arabic which means ''God'' in English. May we all die peacefully and enjoy our lives to the fullest as the author of the above story illustrated to us the meaning of living lie to the fullest. ameen.
Be caring and spread love...don’t ever have or give into hate. Although there are bad people in the world...all you can do is live and love till the end.
This is VERY difficult, especially when you've been abused your whole life, and now dealing with complete strangers...don't get me started. I've never been a vengeful person, but after going through painful losses and grief, horrible job/financial problems, etc., and dealing with what seems to be the "a*hole" norm attitude of so many, I'm at the end of my rope. That whole "love thy neighbor.." deal is truly getting harder and harder with age.
@@joanna8978 There's no need to worry about what others force upon you. Live as you want. Death is inevitable. Try Stoicism. It helped me cope with external, uncontrollable events. It may not be the answer for everyone, but its a solution. Im not gonna hope that it will help. Im just sharing what worked for me, and give an option to people who read this.
@@joanna8978 Yes! I totally agree! It all depends on what type of life we have had!
*WeLL, Kevin, Count Me OUT!!! I won't be Taking your misguided Advice!!!*
Thank u
I miss my grandfather so much. He was the loving parent for me. My parents have worked all their lives and they hardly spent 30 minutes a day with me while i was growing up. My grandparents took care of me. My grandmother is still alive and I am so grateful for it although my grandfather passed away in 2018. For the first two years of his death, I didn't grieve at all because I didn't want to face my emotions and grief. Recently, while going through a hypnotherapy session, his memories came flooding back and since then, I cry every day because i want to hug him one last time. My relationship with my parents is still not good and there are days that go by when i don't even talk to them even though we live in the same house. I just miss my grandfather so much. He was such a pure man and i will never ever forget him. I just want him to hug me and tell me stories of his life. He was the only one in my family apart from me who knew how to speak German and the two of us would talk in that language. I just want to meet him and have a nice meal with him. I want to tell him how far i have come and how much i love him. i just miss him so much.
This gave me tears. You can connect to your grand father in dreams I talk to my father and get his responses in my dreams.
Sending Hugs! My mother was raised by her grandmother and she loved her so much. Know that your grandfather is with you always and you will see him again. Be thankful you were able to have such love from someone. Best wishes.
Listen to your loving Heavenly Father saying, I will comfort you, like a loving mother !
God Himself promises to wipe away your tears.
I hug you from a year after you posted this. God bless you, young one !
The thought of my death actually brings me a lot of peace. I would like to be around a little longer to see my daughter grow up. I think it's the transition from living to dead that kind of scares me.
Yes. Its the process from healthy life to death that is beyond my worst nightmare.
When you no longer fear death, you live forever.
Fearlessness begins with whole acceptance of the situation of health, or ideas today.
I was told in 2017 that I was walking dead by the ER docs. That my final days would be excruciatingly painful as my brain was eaten away.
I survived. I'm here. But in that time I accepted the inevitable and lived (psychologically) better than ever.
Praise the lord
This is hard to imagine. How did you survive. I live with a tbi
Death is just a change of body just like we change our shirts every day .
"Because we have the law of gravity something can be created from nothing" - Stephen Hawking.
I was told last Thursday by my Doctors that I have masses all through my abdomen, heart, liver, intestinal track, kidney, urinary track, bladder, hips and etc. I will get more answers this coming Thursday. I am a Christian, and my FAITH in Jesus Christ allows Me to be at perfect PEACE. This earth is not my home, this body that my Spirit resides in is not my HOME! At my time I will pass, and IMEDIATELY I will be present with my King, Lord and Savior. I am at Peace. I pray Others have My Peace! God Bless All that Fear!
I'm happy that brings you peace ✌. I personally choose not to indulge in fantasy.
You are blessed my friend to know our great Lord and Saviour Jesus. I became a believer 33 years ago. And my life changed . May you continue to lean on Him for strength in the time you have, and know you will be with him eternally. God be with you.
Wonderful. I pray others may come to a saving relationship with Christ. This is the PEACE He affords all who seek Him.😃😃
Sending u healing vibrations.get well dear.🙌🙏💐
@@gulistanden580 Thank You!
I feared death as a kid but things took a different turn as i grew older and experienced deaths; mom, brothers and sister dying at separate time but very closely. Death is a transition. Ones fear should be where you heading afterward. Humans don’t die because the souls can’t die.
how did you get over their deaths
@@gummybear41283 you don’t get over it, you just live with it. The pain never ceases and once in a while, you catch yourself sobbing uncontrollably. Is tough but that’s life. As well faith is a strong tool. I am a Christian and that helped somewhat.
@@Aries4uu I'm a Muslim, thank you
I lost my Mum in October 2018 & Father July 2020. Mum lived to 90 & Dad 87. They both weren't well but now I take comfort that they're back together again & in no pain. One of the best Ted Talk clips by far. Peace to all.
Im not scared of dying, im afraid of the disease and the suffering (being old) before dying.
True. I would rather live much less life rich than in poverty and unsuccessful.
@@PAC-nv3ep What do you think about the statement that a man's life doesn't consist in the things which he possesses?
Me too. I don’t want to be a burden to my family.
Hospice .....cuts your death time to 2 weeks no pain
@Patricia Crowell A good hospice is a gift. I agree.
To me the biggest bummer of death is never knowing what it all is, what it all means. Often I marvel in wonder about the fact that we don’t know what we are, and it is truly one of the most awe inspiring thoughts I can tap into at any time. Take a moment now and then to remember that, that life is profoundly mysterious and a total psychedelic mind bend, feel the weight of that and smile.
Agreed!
Sometimes i think about myself and can't comprehend what im actually and how everithing is just ....
I concur
I can just tell this doctor has seen peoples sufferings ...and there’s compassion and empathy in his voice and mannerism 👌🏻❤️🌹
I have been a cna for about 5 years now.. working with a lot of death and dying took a toll on me. But it has taught me to be centered in family, my faith, and my passions in life. God bless everyone may we meet one day after this life ❤
I’m not afraid of dying,just the process.
Don`t worry, When you reached a certain point; It will be comforting . You will feel sleepy and cozy. and slowly slip away.
@@sakthisairamr914 Love That!
I’m not scared to die. I just don’t want it to hurt! I’m READY and it’s OKAY!
Rhona Page I want to die in my sleep 😴
@@Documenting_Reality ......Me too, asleep in my bed ~ Blessings ~
@@angelfirelite my Dad died in his sleep
Same. I would hate dying of a disease or cancer. I would hate the pain
@@gc8328 yes i can't imagine how hard that would be.
I'm 62 had covid while looking after my mother, step mother and father who all died 3 months apart last year. I then thought I'm next so I relaxed and prepared. Strangly I got stronger and healed. God decided I must stay, he was happy with way I looked after parents. You only die when God takes you, live your best life till that moment.
Listening to the accounts of those who go through near-death-experiences, it gives a comfort and understanding to the event we fear the most. They, by and large, all express an absense of fear and the sense of going home.
The best teachers are those with experience and an observing heart.
I don't believe death is the end, my mom who passed away 4 years ago always told me this and honestly when she passed I heard what sounded like wind chimes just for a brief moment and that gave me great comfort.
I cant tell you what it was but I don't suffer from tinnitus etc and I know I didn't imagine that.... but that's my belief and it helped me cope with not only her death but eventually my death.
Hello Dewi, Having had many and varied experiences on a spiritual or "paranormal" level, I too am convinced of an afterlife! I have stage 4 metastatic lung cancer and I can honestly say that I have no fear of "passing!"
I work as an EMT, and one of the most memorable moments of my career was when a hospice patient asked me, “How long does it take for someone like me to die?” We talked and I realized, he didn’t fear death, he feared dying. Most of us don’t concern ourselves with being dead, we only fear our final moments of life and how we will feel in those final moments.
So what was your answer?
@@sb2261 I told him that was up to his body to decide.
After loosing so many people I love, I don’t fear death anymore. There’s time for everything, thank you Dr for your ending words
Once, I thought that I had a sign of the beginning of cancer (a lump under my skin) and what really shocked me, was that when I started thinking that I might die, I didn't fear it, I was calm, as if I'm ready for anything.. Prior to that, whenever I would imagine that I have some fatal disease, I would imagine that I'd be scared, sad etc. I was really surprised with this spontaneously calm reaction that I had.. 🤷♀️
I contracted HIV virus 30 years ago and felt shocked with no drugs, when i was informed i couldnt live for two years then.
Finally ARV's arrived and i'm around but always ready for anything. I prepared my children when they were below 10 years and continued preparing them to this date.
When i purchase any property i write their names not mine incase of anything.
I've repented to my creator and i believe my name is written in the book of remembrance.
Justina Musyoka Sebi detox!!
@@ronhanish thank you for your concern,before the arrival of ARV's i tried all traditional detox methods successfully for 20 years but many things were still failing.
I have listened to Dr sebi and only tried alkaline detox though i feel comfortable with ARV's,there's something special about ARV's .
Justina Musyoka what is Arv.? they flush virus Out. thru mucus dissolving ,detox, fasting , earbs, and electric food.
@@ronhanish ARV's are meds that inhibit the virus to undetectable levels but meds are just meds.
Have tried fasting but can only manage 8hrs.
I wish i got the specific combination that can erase the virus which is weak now,but from experience have tried many herbs just meeting some limitation.
When HIV was a deadly disease all manner of cures came up ,i rushed to get but each time the results remained the same though my health kept improving.
My first pray for you to Allah is that you may get complete recovery because its not even difficult for Him. But if the will of Allah is to bring death to you around the time predicted by the doctor then i would pray that you may pass through this with ease, comfort and true faith in Him and receive His blessings in the eternal life after death.
Thank you. When patients or their family do not receive clear indications that the patient is clearly dying but are given false hope instead, they are hindered from making the best decisions. My late partner could have been spared much suffering as he died if there had been clarity in this respect. And so could we, his family.
"100% of us will die"
Thats so soothing to hear
My Mum told me what she wanted for her death in a number small snippets in our conversations. We both 'knew' she hadn't much time left, but in the end rather than be prepared I went to pieces, and was not able to recover myself enough to see her through her last week of life - even found I'd forgotten what she wanted to be buried in, and have for her funeral. My Mum was a very special, and nurturing person - she died in hospital and not at home as she dearly wanted ~ I do not think I will ever feel complete again as I will never be able to put this right for her. Mum accepted her coming death. I can only hope and try to live my life with as much grace and compassion, and laughter in adversity as my Mum did her whole life long 🌹
Your Mum loved you and has forgiven everything you have ever thought you have done wrong because that’s how love works. Now you must forgive yourself and live your life loving as she did.
It'll kill me loosing my mum I'm afraid to imagine the pain you went through losing your mother. I'm sorry for your loss and the pain it has caused you😪
@@Alan_CFA well said my man.
@@nigelfenlon9035 You have to stay strong for her and make her proud. My mother is my soulmate and my everything, and I had to hold her hand, and tell her that it was "ok to let go," as she took her last breaths over seven years ago. I, like OP, also deal with irrational guilt over her death. It's true, when you love someone so much, you never get over it. It did kill me, I guess you can say.
@Wyatt Earp this week we are in has been to my inner experience like bells, whistles and clarion calls. Seems every wise counsel has been nudging me - open your heart, open your ears, open your mind, and TRUST to God.
I thank you Wyatt Earp, for your reply today.
I have heard, and I am paying attention. ♥️
Peace be with you Wyatt Earp 🙏
I like this guy. So many of his lines spoke to me so hard. And he’s pretty funny too.
I’m so stoked to know there are docs out there like this dude.
I don't fear death. In fact if I look forward to it. The thought of someday being freed from this miserable life is the only thing that gets me up every day.
Dr. Fahad Saeed soft hearted, soft spoken, softly and sweetly passes a practical message that birth and death are the two ends of the rope called life.
Live and to die with no fear but with love and a sense of purpose.
Don’t live your life with fear!
Death need not feared of.
Simple as that.
You die the way you live your life.
-Timothy E Quill, MD.
My heart condition has gotten to the point where there are no more treatments left. My health is slowly declining. Thank you for this
I’m hoping to god for you. May god bless you. I wish I can say more for you. Bless you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m terrified of death. Hopefully there is an afterlife more wonderful than we can imagine, and we can all meet up and laugh about my fear.
2-corinthians 5:8 - We are confident , I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord. Earnestly study the Bible and talk with your Heavenly Father, and u will be rewarded with hope and comfort.
@@CT-od9hr I tried talking but he never talked back.
I have bad death anxiety so I understand what you mean. 😔
@@scottfree6479 God is that voice that tells you things that are hard
There is no afterlife sorry.
i remembered the TV serial, 'RUN FOR YOUR LIFE'. Knowing his time is limited when medically diagnosed, he did many good deeds for others. Finally, he went back to the hospital and the doctor told him, "you have been misdiagnosed" with the mixings up of his X-ray films. He walked out bidding good-bye to the doctor as a new man in life....of a wonderful world to hear the babies cry.
Life is a near death experience!
some say this life is our time in purgatory.
We don't have memory in a photo,video or in an audio, we have memory in our mind and that stays forever.❤️
Within a period of 2 years I lost two sisters to cancer, my brother to AIDs and my father to a heart attack. My father's death was sudden, but my siblings survived for months and dealt with their reality in different ways. They all said they wanted control of their end, however, doctors and hospitals refused to accept their truth. There is a moment when they need to leave a person alone. I also had to accept that I was not going to grow old with them. The entire period was a tangle of emotional tortures, but my siblings calmly watched knowing their journey was almost over. I hope you final hours are yours to do what you want: laugh, cry, or simply watch yourself dissolve back into the universe.
Wow, this is powerful!! My heart is filled with love, honor & admiration for this Doctor. I am a private caregiver & work alongside hospice workers. I too used to fear death but know within my soul there is nothing to fear bc we all are returning Home where we belong. We are only here for a brief time bc we are not just human beings having a temporary spiritual experience. But we are Spiritual Beings having a temporary human experience. God bless all of you, my brothers & sisters, may we see each other on the "Other" side. In the meantime, be kind to yourselves. Namaste, Renee 🤗
AMEN
You know what Renee? You totally "get it" Perhaps we will run into each other on the other side! GOD bless you!
I’m not scared of death I’m just scared of loosing my love ones like my mom, dad grandma and grandpa I feel like I wouldn’t be the same without them just knowing I’ll never see there face again or personality.
It's exactly this reason I won't have kids. I would never put anyone through that.
You will not be the same again. It is true. Losing someone you love changes you. You may grow spiritually, you may not take relationships for granted, you may make more time for those people in your life. You may take away learning...but, in any case, losing someone you love will change you.
Hakunamatata! Roll with it. Circle of life and all that.
Life and death are 2 sides of the same coin. I am now 51 and I have lost all my great-grandparents, grandparents and my father- my only living direct ancestor is my mother. It is sad & difficult, but your life continues. All I can suggest is that while they are alive to give them as much love as possible and avoid causing them anger or sadness. Talk often and hear their stories. Enjoy every day you have with them as a gift, because one day all of them will be gone. Be good to them and you won't have guilt about treating them badly. Then they will live in your memories, in the faces of your children and in the wisdom you have learned from their example- leading a good life is the best way to honor them.
@@m00njaguar Fully agree
Losing my mom in 2014 . I was 21 at the time “ I have 7 siblings. The littlest one was 4 at the time . It’s been a long grieving process for all of us. But I truly believe that one day I will get to see her beautiful face again. That’s how I cope . With the HOPE and faith to see my mother, god , &
Loved ones 🙏
You will, if both you and her have accepted Christ as Saviour.
Ashley- you are inspirational. Your mom would be extremely proud of you and will connect with you daily for your love and goodness to your siblings.
I cried so much I lost my mom last may and it's approaching 1 year with my already previous fear of dying ... I have been a heavy MARIJUANA smoker for the last ten years and have trippled since her passing. I have attempted to stop several times within this year but couldn't bring myself to it. I truly hope that after hearing this and tapping into the real route fears and problems , I can stop being codependent. life is already mysterious and numbered and that's without freak accidents....I want to live the life my mom wanted for me! I want to be present I want to be clear and loving ,Excited for life while I have It . I am a mom of 1 to a beautiful handsome son and I want to be around as long as possible for him I want to have plans set up for him for when my time comes. I want to give him everlasting memories and joys for him and I to hold on and cherish forever to carry with him. So far I have been blessed not to have any serious health issues and after hearing about the heros you spoke of today I am compelled to CHOOSE LIFE over MARIJUANA
May God Bless and Keep you. May you be successful and live a good life, as your Mom would have wanted you to. 🫂
Indeed, the death from which you flee - indeed, it will meet you. Then you will be returned to the Knower of the unseen and the witnessed, and He will inform you about what you used to do.” (Quran 62:8)
2-corinthians 5:8 - We are confident , I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord. Earnestly study the Bible and talk with your Heavenly Father, and u will be rewarded with hope comfort and strength.
One of the most powerful things I’ve heard.
I just want my kids to to outlive me. If I have one prayer that's it! Love to all🙏❤️
Three years ago my father passed away from a fall. He realized he was dying remained relatively coherent until the day he passed away. He spoke of who he was, things he had done and at times tears quietly flowed from his eyes, and even laughed. He knew his time had come. He went in peace knowing we loved him. My mother in law, she had an embolism and was told she would make a recovery which she began to do, that is until she was told she was paralyzed. She told us then it was over and she would be gone within days. To the day as she called it she was no longer with us. She controlled her destiny and for some odd reason, I believe she's home where she longed to be.
I use to know a big man which was a roofer, his wife passed away and he left shortly thereafter, he choose not to live without her.
My brother N law which was a nurse always told me those who fight it suffer the longest as their bodies continue to shutdown.
So the question is which is harder to do...continue on or to let go....I believe those who believe there is something else beyond what we know somehow find peace in that thought.
My human was a Hospice RN case manager. Death is hardly "good", but Hospice and Palliative care help the "crisis" become more manageable. Tears may fall at random, but these are tears of love, loss, and grief. I'm just a cat but my human strongly believes in the healing nature of Palliative care, Hospice care, not only for the dying but also for their loved ones. This is the gift.
I made my piece with God when I was 29 and I had an infection that had eaten my aortic heart valve away. I made promises to those that I loved that I would do whatever it takes to stay alive and I have been fighting to stay alive ever since. I am 55 now. I don't know how I am alive but what I do know is that I am looking forward to the day that I don't have to fight anymore. Until that time I will celebrate life by flirting, eating, and helping my loved ones who dont listen to a word that comes out of my mouth. I cant tell anyone how to deal with death only how i deal with life. My secret is learning how to love people I don't know like they are the people I promised to stay alive for.
@O k looks like u found the anti christ my man!
Live your precious moments be alive before dying❤️ love to all
Thank you from a hospice nurse who is also the healthcare POA for my aging parents.
I once heard someone say
Death is like a neighbor who's always knocking at the door with a plate of cookies, but you never open the door
Then one day you face your fear and open that door and meet a very nice reaper and have a plate of cookies
It's okay if your afraid of death is just means your life meant something to you. You were dead once and you were fine with it once and we'll experience once again.
I am not afraid of death,I am just afraid of losing my beloved ones..
What a lovely man, so caring, soft and wise. Blessings and thank you.
I have leukemia, leukemia was scary.. Yet what was more scarier than the blood disease was the anxiety and the fear of death which followed..
The ego has an uncanny will to linger on..
It creates a lot of unpleasant feelings in order to survive.
The ego is you . It's normal. The idea that the "ego" is a bad and selfish thing was created by famous scientist/psychiatric that were so full of their success and they valued it more than everything else. The Ego is you , your universe, your thoughts and your sentiments. It's the most important thing for you , even more than the universe. And that is normal.
@@francesco5581 I wouldn't say that the Ego is bad..
Or good.. I guess culture and a peppering of nurture is responsible for that..
Yet the Ego, does have an uncanny ability to survive.
“To consider that after the death of the body the spirit perishes is like imagining that a bird in a cage will be destroyed if the cage is broken, though the bird has nothing to fear from the destruction of the cage. Our body is like the cage, and the spirit is like the bird. We see that
without the cage this bird flies in the world of sleep; therefore, if the cage becomes broken, the bird will continue and exist. Its feelings will be even more powerful, its perceptions greater, and its happiness increased.”
‘Abdu’l-Bahá
Without the virtual body (You are not the body nor are you in the body...there is no body. Nisargadatta, 'I am that') consciousness is no longer aware, has no attributes and is desireless, it has changed from phenomena consciousness to noumena consciousness which is your natural state, prior to consciousness, the unborn.
Of course we all bahais believed in "some answers and questions".
Death is absolute. There's nothing that survives, no soul, spirit or other jack-in-a-box feature. That goes against our thinking, and way of life, but ''when you eat of the fruit you will certainly die" God warned Adam. Teaching that we possess any kind of immortality is satanic in origin. However, the same way you can bring back an MsWord document that you closed, we can be resurrected. In Jesus case it took a weekend!
@@evankmutua3145 Even one of the greatest physicists, David Bohm, said that nothing really exists, no you or me, no universe, but the illusion is so good that it is difficult to see through it. There is an implicate order, everything, the possible ,the impossible is implicated waiting to become explicit for a time then the page is closed and turned and the old explicit becomes implicated again and a different implicated condition becomes explicit for a time, it's a dance whose meaning escapes us. There is no true religion, they merely bring comfort for ego hoping that the sleeping consciousness never awakens to the truth.
@@evankmutua3145 You started off so well then lost me at the god bit.
Both my parents passed away last year 7 months apart. May Allah unite me with them in a good place in the Hereafter.
Allah is not god
@@nayilaahmed2162
Can you shut up please?
I am not religious myself but he is worshipping whoever he wants
@@O.M- thanks
What a coincidence. My mom and dad also died in 2017, both 7 months apart. I guess dad decided to follow his love. I have never been able to get through it yet. Someday I'll meet them.
While we are alive: we are the universe looking back at itself. After we die: we are the universe in unison.
Nice.
Don't we go to heaven?
@@sovereignboss1841 I am not dead, so how would I know?
That's the best. 💚
That’s so creepy my God.
i don't fear death but am terrified of how the dying process might be.