Honest Thoughts on KOREAN HOLIDAYS? 🤔 외국인 아내의 시선으로 본 한국 명절은?
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Hi guys! Last week was Chuseok in Korea, and we spent the holiday at his grandfather's house as we do every year. We wanted to film a mix of both a vlog and documentary/interview style video this time during our stay. We get a lot of questions about what Korean holidays are REALLY like, so Kyuho decided to ask me (Sarah) some questions about my personal experiences & opinions about Korean holidays as a foreigner. We wanted it to be super honest and didn't want to just sugarcoat, so we kept it real, haha. Hope you enjoy this style of video!
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Many Koreans used to look foward for the holidays when Korea was a poor country because it was the only time when they could eat good food, get some pocket money and have good time with their family(entertainments were rare back then).
Still, older generations look foward to the holidays despite all the work because their children and grand children come to visit them which has become a rare thing(sadly). Korea has been changing so fast that we see a lot of conflicts and clashes between traditions and modern interests. However, I believe we'll figure it out in near future and make holidays enjoyable for everyone.
Excellent points and very well said!
I think if whole family members cook and serve for each others regardless of age or gender, then everyone could enjoy. Korean culture is oriented on male and elderly tooooooo much~! Thats the saddest part. Even in this 21st century~~!!
@@pinkzia I can only partly agree with you, because holiday stress in Korea is much more than just gender roles and elderly previleges. Conflicts caused by differences in family traditions, religions and favoritism in both sides of the married couple's families play a huge role. They make things very complicated and highly explosive.
I believe it's going to take patience and quite a few sacrifices for our society to figure this out.
@@sagepark7193Well ofcourse there can be many reasons of family conflicts not only in korea but in all over the world. But what i mentioned above was typical and unique reason of korean family conflicts.(Confucianism culture) And also every year we can see how much serious issue it is in korea by all the medias.
pinkzia I’m glad it’s changing for the better though slowly.
Love it how we get to see Sarah speaking much more Korean in this video than in others. 😊 I'd actually would be so interested in hearing more about your learning Korean story. Also awesome video. 👍
The part when Sarah mentions about how people are trying to down size (not just food but everything) during Chuseok - In my humble opinion I think Chuseok is finally going back to what it used to be before the Japanese colonial occupation period. Since I began my volunteer work as a history docent at Changdeok palace this year, I began digging into the history and tradition of my people in more detail. Chuseok meant what it means, time to celebrate harvest and everybody gathers to enjoy the product of their year's hard work. The only reason why people began holding a ritual (Cha Lei) is because of some sense of 'guilt' that the living should not be the only ones enjoying the party food. So Cha Lei became more of a way to bring down the guilt by sharing whatever food available with the ancestors and letting them know that their descendants are living happy. In other words, putting tremendous amount of food was not really what it used to be, pressuring women to kitchen work was not the way how things were either.
As time passed by and Korea went into the chaotic stages in history, more and more people wanted to emphasize how their family is noble and blue blooded. So that was really the time how food and service prepared for Chuseok expanded. Especially during and after the Japanese occupation people became obsessed about the idea how the family should appear to look noble. Some historians even go further and comment that what we see today, that is almost every household in Korea putting tons of food on the Cha Lei table is something Koreans never really had before.
Now that the Korean economy is more of a service based economy, it is unnecessary to celebrate a year's work with farm products anymore. It is more logical in sense for people to reward themselves by taking a long vacation - crowded airports is a sign that I believe Chuseok is returning to its normal meaning.
Woahh, this is absolutely fascinating 😮Thank you so much for taking the time to share this!
It was nice of you to share this! Thank you! :)
Wow, thank you for this comment. I didn't know most of this information and it's so helpful to understand more about the topic.
이런정보를 영어 채널에서 볼 수 있다는 것이 입이 떡벌어지네요!
thank you for sharing for info that i didnt know
Even japanese occupation is history of korea. If you keep chosun way, you're living in chosun era, not republic of korea. Whether you like it or not, that tradition is going to fade away as younger generations take their places. For me, I wouldn't go back to either way.
I respect Sarah so much because of her love to nature, animals, insect and what not! You have such an angel heart I believe!❤😍
*홀리데이라면 모두가 기다리고 바라는 날 이여야 한다* 이게 정상적인 생각인데 세라님이 말씀하신게 한국명절의 현실이죠.
한국 명절의 문화다보니까 없어질 수는 없지만 많은 사람들이 생각을 바꿔나가고 있으니 옛날보다 모두가 더 즐길 수 있는 명절이 되어갈 수 있다고 봅니다.
어렸을때는 먹기만 하다가 커서 이거해라 저거해라 하니까 당연히 싫을수밖에 없지. 그걸 뭐 거창하게 전통이 어쩌고 하는건 좀... 예부터 일하는 사람은 힘들고 짜증났다.
여기서 팩트 미국 백인 중산층 기준 여자 아내가 음식 엄청 준비한다는 사실 칠면조, 피치파이, 호두, 계피, 애플 파이, 라자냐 등 엄청 오래 준비한다라는거... 그리고 음식이 엄청 많고... 날 새도록 먹습니다... 각 집마다 만드는 레시피도 다르고 메뉴도 다름.. 중국계 미국인 집도 초대로 갔는데 상상을 초월함.... 음식양이 절대로 못 먹을정도로 만듦.. 그게 문화고 만약 다 먹을 수있을 정도의 음식이면 집에 수치라고 생각함..
한창훈 팩트팩트나 하지말고 니네집 엄마나 도와줘라 이런애들이 꼭하나같이 지네집명절땐 손하나 까딱안하더라
@@user-ls7zo2xf1p 여기서 팩트 미국 백인 중산층 기준 여자 아내가 음식 엄청 준비한다는 사실 칠면조, 피치파이, 호두, 계피, 애플 파이, 라자냐 등 엄청 오래 준비한다라는거... 그리고 음식이 엄청 많고... 날 새도록 먹습니다... 각 집마다 만드는 레시피도 다르고 메뉴도 다름.. 중국계 미국인 집도 초대로 갔는데 상상을 초월함.... 음식양이 절대로 못 먹을정도로 만듦.. 그게 문화고 만약 다 먹을 수있을 정도의 음식이면 집에 수치라고 생각함.. 한국과 다른 정... 음식 만드는 것을 힘들어도 재미 있다고 생각하고 함.. 또 티비나 잡지 이런 곳에 요리프로와 레시피집이 엄청 많음.. 가정주부들이 낮시간에 그걸 따라함... 즉 미국도 홀리데이 때 음식 만드는 일을 하는데 한국과 다른 점은 이걸 희생, 중노동이라고 생각하지 않고 가족들과 같이 먹는거?? 라고 생각함.. 이게 왜 한국만의 문제처럼 보이는가??? 한국 여성분들이 불만을 많이 성토해서 그럼...
Kyuho eats a lot and sleeps a lot lol my spirit animal
It's always delightful to see *Kyuho's* family and his grandpa's home in the countryside-it's such a bucolic setting.
And, perhaps, this is odd to mention but I think it's very touching and wonderful how you refer to *Kyuho's* family as "our" family-it says a lot about your relationship with them and theirs with you. Perhaps that's not unusual but I have a feeling that not every spouse refers to his or her in-laws that way. (Or maybe it's just transference from a Korean thing where you'd naturally say 우리 가족? I don't know.)
한국사람이지만 영상을 통해 한국에 대해 더 자세히 배우게 됩니다. 좋은 영상 감사해요.
I love Kyuho's parents.
I think it’s so funny how KyuHo is always so hungry. And is so thin. LoL
they walk a LOT! :)
Jenny they sure do...lol
He eats healthy plus fast metabolism
I love how peaceful your videos are. Your grandparents house is super cute too
Lol, I love the Korean noises when you cut the watermelon open. Sarah, you do Korean "oooohhh!"s too, when you guys eat something super delicious. It reminds me of my mom lol.
So refreshing to hear Kyuho speaking Korean. Every Sunday, i look forward to watching your heart felt videos. Mahalo nui (big thanks) for starting my week with love. Blessings to you both 💕🌺👍🏻
I honestly LOVE LOVE LOVE your chuseok videos!!! Your culture is very beautiful😊😊😊
두 분 모두 한국어 할 때랑 영어 할 때랑 많이 다르시네요. 귀여우심 ㅋㅋㅋ 특히 내츄럴 규호 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Really beautiful countryside!!!! The food looks SO delicious and beautiful too.
LOVE travelling to your grandparents house and having all the traditional food for traditional holidays...as always😍
This made me miss my family. When you live far from your family you realise HOW precious and cute it is when all family from older to younger spend time together ❤❤❤❤
Ps. I love Kyho's grandpa
어느 장소를 가던 영상 분위기가 항상 편안해서 좋아요 👍👍 힐링되는 느낌 ..💕
I enjoyed seeing Sarah conversing in Korean! I also liked the honest opinions and seeing the market you went to. Thank you for sharing! 🙂
저희는 간단하게 지내는편이라 그리부담은 안돼지만 명절이 오는건 싫긴해요 부담없는 가족들 다즐거운 명절이 돼었으면 하네요 오늘도 비모는 귀여워요😙
Literally your videos are getting me through this quarantine lol Thank you guys and Beemo!
I just love love Korean countryside. We need to hear kyuho's mom's thought on these holidays.
Here are her thoughts from last Lunar New Year: th-cam.com/video/Yp-pVhAAC0I/w-d-xo.html from 2:40
세라님, 규호님 고생 많으셨어요. 정말 스윗하고 아름다운 집안이신것 같아요. 세라님은 고향생각이 특별히 많이 났을것 같아서 짠하기도 했어요.ㅠ.ㅠ 저흰 종교도 없는데 차례 안지낸지 몇년 되었어요. 쉬운 음식 몇가지 만들어먹고 점심엔 라면 끓여먹고 카페에 차마시러 가요.ㅋㅋ 차례 없어진 후로 시댁가는게 기다려져요. 이제 크리스마스를 기다려봅시다~~^^ 나이먹는건 서글프지만요.ㅠ.ㅠ
우..세라님 한국말 매력적입니다 한복도 잘 어울리시던대 ㅎ
예전부터 구독은 하고 있었지만 늘 챙겨보지는 않았어요! 그런데 한 번 집중해서 보고나니 자꾸 예전 영상도 찾아보게 되네요ㅎㅎ 세라님 본인 생각을 조리있게 말하시는 게 언제나 듣기가 좋아요❤️ 전체적으로 브이로그지만 영상마다 대화를 나누는 주제들이 명확하고 또 다양해서 너무 좋습니당ㅎㅎㅎ 다음 영상 기다리고 있어요~😍
I love the way Sarah speaks Korean. I wish you’d speak it more often
한글자막도 달아주니
넘 좋네요~^^ 세라님도 음식차릴때 싫은티 안내고 볼수록 시크하고
두분다 멋집니다
항상 응원하고 있어요
이번편 아니라 이년 넘게 보고 있습니다ㅠㅠ엊그제에 설날 명절 쇠러 가시는거 본것 같은데 추석이라니 .. 새삼 시간 참 빠르다라는 걸 느낍니다 항상 행복하세요 규호 세라님
찍지마아~~ ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 이렇게 귀여운 모습은 이번 영상에서 처음 보여주신 것 같아욬ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Eating lots of food...that's the kind of holiday I love ..Beemo yelled...why you keep living guys? Nice vid guys
Hey guys! I just found your channel and I love it! I'm from Canada too (New Brunswick currently) so I can totally relate! I am loving your videos (and currently watching them at work lol) I'm also currently learning Korean so I'd love it if you guys could make a video about how you learnt? Or did you make one already? So many videos to check out!! Keep up the great works guys!!
유투브 잘찍어서 정말 부럽네요. 계속 진솔하고 솔직한 유튜브 부탁해요 자주자주 올려주세요 화이팅 이거보고 힘이나네요
This is by far my favorite video of Korea. It takes me back to my army days in Busan. I would go into the rural towns outside of the city and enjoy the people and scenery. the feast looks amazing and food too
세라님께서 야옹이를 아끼는 마음이 여기까지 전해지네요^^ 두분 행복하시고 좋은 영상 잘 시청하고 있어요^^ 행복하세요^^
Regardless of what we think of Chuseok and holidays, there's one thing we can agree on - food is awesome. We love it.
While I love all of your videos, the Chuseok and the Christmas videos are my all time favorites! I love when you both spend time with each others’ families! Both sets of parents are absolutely amazing! Sarah...... I love the relationship that you have with Kyuho’s parents and other family members......I especially love listening to you speak Korean. As hard as the work is for the two major Korean Holidays’, I believe that traditions are so important to keep alive! Thank you so much for sharing!!
In my husband's family they told me they are downsizing the food ! ☆ loved this video !
So many disclaimers 😂 love the informational blog!
You can’t be too careful 😂
Hi Kuyho and Sarah 👋. I think it is wonderful your family keeps up with tradition and meet every holiday. The country side reminds me of where my father’s side of the family lives, and I have not been there since I was a kid. Maybe Kuyho and I are related? 😹
I do agree that not all of the burden should be on the women. I think the most important part is that loved one are spending time together. I have a family that lives all over the place so seeing you guys celebrate reminds me of how special family is. Hope you had a wonderful holiday!
My fiance and I have a huge veggie and fruit garden every year. I'll tell you nothing beats picking the fruits and veggies off the plant that you grew from a little seed. It's definitely a labor of love! Thanks for the video. As a foreigner that doesnt really know about Korea's holidays, I appericate being able to learn about them. Can't wait to see the next one!
I know this year when I asked several of my friends if they were looking forward to Chuseok this year, and so many said no. Like Sarah said, they felt that it was too hard and tiering to prepare for Chuseok, and that I should never marry, lol. I can understand if so much pressure is put on the family to make so much food that it would be less enjoyable for some.
This is a beautiful holiday that honors those who came before us and celebrates the circle of life with hard work and feasting that brings families closer together. As time flows by and family members inevitably join with their ancestors, the memories of these celebrations will be greatly treasured.
Personally, a family getting together and cooking seems very nice. And it helps people appreciate food and how much work it takes to prepare it, especially if they live in big cities and are used to getting takeout. Much better than just chilling in front of TV. But I'm a bit biased because I love cooking, haha
So fun to see more rural part of Korea. So many videos are in the cities. New subscriber.
저희 집은 제사도 안 지내고 명절음식도 딱히 안 만들어서.. 큰 집도 당일치기로 다녀오니 추석 설날때 편히 지내게 되는거 같네요. 점점 제사 지내는 비율도 줄어들고 하다보니 (굳이 기독교 가정이 아니더라도) 세대가 지날수록 명절분위기가 바뀌지 않을까요 ㅎㅎ.
Finally heard a few sentences of Sarah speaking in Korean hehe😍
오늘보구 유투버 팬이 됐어요 정말 유뷰트 재미있게 잘찍으시네요 내용도 아주 좋아요 와 존경스럽네요
규호님 할아버지댁이 저희 할머니댁과 같은 지역이라 가끔 눈에 익은 풍경, 장소가 나오면 너무 반가워요😄 오늘 영상도 잘볼게요!
와! 반가워요 😍 이번 추석 연휴 잘 보내셨나요?
I just went over to my korean friends last weekend and her mom was so nice and made us hotteok, kimchi pancakes, chive pancakes and seafood pancakes!!!!! It was all sooooo good!! I’m obsessed with korean food now 😂
I don't comment on all your videos but I should, they are really precious. Thank you for sharing bits of your life with us!
I don't know what's a bigger betrayal. Finding out that shopping mall Santa takes the bus to go home, or that the Kyuho on film was never the real one.
규호 아버님 방갑습니다^^ 동안이라서 점점 젊어지세요
I’m korea and my bf also told me like her opinion about christmas . Also when i was in spain during christmas holidays i realized why he said to me.
구독자 14만 정말 축하드려요! 정말 예전부터 쭉 시청하고 있는데 이번 영상도 재밌네요 ㅎㅎ
감사해요 ☺️ 즐거운 한 주 보내세요!
This kind of holiday with familes are in lot of Japanese country side movies, eg. Still Walking and I Wish.
❤️I’m your new subscriber here, love your channel... from Thailand 🇹🇭
My favorite couple... Love you both
오늘 영상에서는 두 분이 힘이없으신거같아요ㅠ 여행도 연달아다녀오시고 추석 때도 쉬지 못하셔서 그런것같기두하구..!?
어쨌든 언제나 건강하시고 이번주 영상도 감사해요😊 세라님 말에 동감하면서 봤네용 ㅎㅎ
I understand it is a lot of work but it looks like a wonderful holiday! Thanks for sharing!
Let 'em have it, Beemo! They ate all that good food and you didn't get any. Lol! Love Beemo.
Ahhs! I used to live in Osong and even seeing the train station sign makes me miss it a lot. You guys should totally explore the area if you have the time in the future. Osong, Jochiwon and Cheongju is slower than Seoul so you can relax a little more. Hope you had a nice break and time well spent with family during the holiday!
My mouth was watering throughout the entire video... T_T
You makes me want to live in Korea.. Guys you’re so lucky!!!! I’m craving korean food like at least twice a week..
Oh guys are always so elegant, pretty and nice. ❤
10:18 its been a year already since Singapore? wow...
와우 고양이가 강아지처럼!주인을 반기다니 신기하다!
무척 착한고양이가 틀림없어!
찍지마~ 짱웃 ㅋㅋ
오늘도잘봤어요 많이 피곤해보시이는데 푹 쉬세요ㅠㅠ!
its my favorite snack too! and then he ends up eating your cookies after calling it old people snack lol
So it's basically exactly like Israeli holidays. Stress, housework and fearful tention build up wise. And fleeing abroad for the holidays, same here, can easily relate...
Totally agree with you Sarah. If I had to do that every year, it would be totally burdensome. Toning down the amounts or ever cutting out some of the dishes would make sense so you're not dreading the holiday and literally slaving away all day/week for the tradition. Keep the culture alive is very important, but there has to be a line between enjoying the holiday and slaving away. Great vid as always!
5일장은 5일마다 열리는 장을 말해요! 장마다 특정일이 있죠! 1일 6일 11일 16일 이런느낌으로요! -지나가던 시골러-
앗차! ㅠㅠ 잘못 알고 있었네요 죄송합니다 다음 할아버지집에 5일장이 열리면 꼭 정정할게요 ㅠㅠ 알려주셔서 감사합니다 😍
이분의 어떤 영상에서는 설명을 잘 써주셨던 것이 기억됩니다. 이영상은 주관적이고 우리의생각을 적은 것이니 이것이 정답이다라고 말하지않는다 는 내용이었죠. 정말 잘 하신것입니다.
모든 것은 선택입니다 물론 다른 요인도 영향이 있지만 자신의 선택에 의해서 그것이 행복하고 할만한 일이라면 그것또한 좋은 것이겠지요.
명절에 여자만 일한다고 해서 불행한것도 아니며 반대로 남자들이 일을 안하는것도 결코 좋지않은 것입니다.
명절에 아직도 남자가 일을 안하는 것도 기존의 가부장적 문화의 원인도 있겠지만 희안하게도 그 가부장적 문화에 우리의 어머니들이 동조하고 같이 일조를 했기때문입니다.
어떤분은 자신이 일을 하여 남에게 무언가를 먹이는 일이 즐거울수도있고 반대로 자기만 일한다고 불평할수도 있습니다.
분명 무조건 과거의 시대가 잘못됬다는 것은 나쁜생각일수있습니다. 과거의 시대에 만족하고 행복해하고 보람있다고 말하시는분들도 있는데 아니다 나쁘다라고 한다면 그분들은 뭔가 착각속에 사시는 분들도 보일 수 있겠죠.
그러나 명절에 많은 노동력을 필요로 하는데 남자들은 안하는것도 또한 안좋은 일인것은 맞습니다. 서로간에 잘 타협하여 서로 좋은 방향으로 가는문화가 좋와 보입니다.
한쪽만을 잘못이다 아니다라고 하면서 그 집단 자체를 매도할필요는 없습니다.
참고로 저희집은 다 사다먹습니다 ㅎㅎ
The countryside is so beautiful. Hey, I like old people snacks. ☺️👵🏻🍪
맞아요 저희 가족은 남자들은 다같이 술사오고 티비보면서 기다리고 ,, 엄마하고 할머니는 이틀동안 새벽부터 준비하는데 너무 힘들어서 추석끝나면 몇일동안 앓아누워요 ...아빠쪽 형제 2명더있는데 추석일하는거때문에 막내쪽은 이혼하고 둘째작은엄마는 이제 아예 할머니할아버지 보러안오더라고요 진짜 제사 지내는건 알겠는데 같이 요리를하던가 너무어이없어요ㅠㅠㅠㅠ여자들은 요리하고 남자들은 그 요리먹고 여자들은 또 그거 설거지하고 에효 제 주위사람들한테 제사지내냐고물어보면 걔넨 요즘 누가 지내냐그러고 너무부럽더라구요
음식 장만하는 돈 벌어오는거 남자고요.
벌초도 남자가 다 합니다.
더군다나 다른나라도 명절에 음식 다 하고요. 여자들이 더 많이 하는거 똑같아요.
한국여자들
일년에 한두번 하는 명절 음식도 힘들다고 징징 대는거 욕먹어요.
스파랜드 저기요 저희 가족은 벌초 따위 한번도 해본적없고요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 돈버는거 얘기 꺼내셨죠 ?? 저희 엄마가 영어강사하면서 돈많이 벌다가 돈한푼없는 아빠만나서 결혼한거고요 지금도 엄마가 돈많이 더벌고 더 많이일해요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ근데도 추석때 뼈빠지게 음식만들고 친할머니댁 3일 있을동안에 외할머니집 하루가요 왜그러냐물어보면 친할아버지가 외롭다고 오래있으라셨답니다 장난하나진짜 그리고 만약에 아빠가 돈벌어오고 엄마는 그 벌어온돈으로 먹고산다고 해도 엄마는 아이고 감사합니다 돈벌어와주셔서감사하네요 힘들어도 잔말없이 음식만들어드려야죠 하는게 말이되나요 옛날 생각좀 버리세요
스파랜드 아이구 꼰대 보소
다른나라도 여자들 다 한다고요? 헛소리 그만~
호주에서 울 아빠 크리사마스 요리 혼자 다하는디 ㅋㅋ
여러 방식 있고 집마다 다르죠
부부 같이 하거나 애들도 도와줘야하는 집도 있고. 게다가 제일 흔한 방식은 친족이나 방문하는 친구들 요리 하나씩 준비하거나 사고 오는거죠
이건민 집집마다 사정이 다 다른겁니다. 우리집은 여자가 더 힘들어!! 너무 징징대지 마세요. 지금 남을 위해서 음식 장만하는겁니까? 가족을 위해 그것도 못합니까? 나 혼자 돈벌어 오기 싫어. 나 혼자 음식 다 만드는거 싫어. 나혼자 군대 가기 싫어. 여자만 시댁살이 부모 모시는거 싫어.... 등등 그렇게 남녀 구분져서 내가 손해 니가 손해..이런식으로 이분법적으로 계산적으로 살고 싶으면 부모님보고 그냥 헤어지라고 하세요.
음식하고 벌초하고 일년에 한두번 명절 세는거 누가 더 손해니...뭐 가족끼리 대단한 희생이라고...
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돈 한푼 없는 님 아버지 명절에 아무것도 안하는거 그렇게 보기 싫으세요?
스파랜드 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 네 아빠나 할아버지나 저희집안 남자들 일안하는거 꼴보기 싫어요 어쩌라고요 술사와서 대낮부터 마시면서 소리지르고 음식더만들어달라 뭐가져오라 그러면서 새벽까지 하루종일 술만쳐마시고 엄마 언니랑 저랑 저희가 만들어놓지도않은 것들 뒷정리하고 네진짜 좆나 꼴보기싫네요 솔직히 생각해보면 엄마가 음식만들어주는 가족 피하나도 안섞였거든요?? 그리고 징징대지말라고요? 가족을 위해서 그거 하냐못하냐고요?? 그럼 그 쉬운거 남자들은 왜안하는데용..? 같이 하시고나 얘기하세요 ..^그리고 제가 뭐 딴 가족들 다 일반화시켰나여 저는 제 가족사정 얘기한건데 그럼 왜 답글 다셨어요?
Great video once again and very insightful!
It's nice seeing a change of scenery from time to time! :)
P.S. Somehow when you talk in Korean it sounds cuter, especially Kyuho! I really don't know why! ^^
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한국의 차례문화나 제사문화는 돌아가신 분들에게 공양드리는 의미도 있지만 우리네 조상님들의 지혜이기도 해요.. 가족들이 각 도시로 뿔뿔히 흩어지면 서로 연락하고 만나기가 쉽지 않죠.. 하지만 부모님이나 가족들에 관련된 제사에는 온 가족들이 모이는 계기가 되죠. 만약 차례나 제사등 유교 문화가 한국에 없었다면 산업화를 거친 한국인들이 지금처럼 모이긴 힘들었을 겁니다.
Sarah, the way you utilize the chopsticks is so proper, a lot better than some Koreans.
Oh wow, thank you! 😳☺️
@@2hearts1seoul so glad u're so quite immersed in the local culture. Appreciate ur effort. You're so sensible that u have been able to pick it up so quickly.
So beautiful couple!!
Beemo is the chillest cat I've seen.
Sarah, this is first time i see you speaking Korean ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
한가지 재미있는 것은 한국인들이 차례나 제사를 지내기 위해 본가에 가서 상당히 많은 음식을 만들고 함께 먹지만.. 명절이 끝나고 각자 집으로 돌아가는 길에 만든 음식을 모두 나눠서 가져 간답니다.. ^^ 그외 도시에서 가격이 비싼 각종 특산품을 집으로 실어가죠..
Lol, when Sara said "nege" for a second I thought she was speaking my native language (Qazaq), in Qazaq nege means why? 😂
11:48 진짜 규호는 이렇게 귀여웠군요. 화면에선 영어할때 뭔가 다른사람같다요. 멘트할때 딱딱하고. 새라씨, 내추럴한 규호 마니 찍어주세요.
세라 우리명절 문제점 제대로 짚었네 바로그거야 돈 노력등 과소비 외국처럼 즐기는것보다 대부분 종갓집등 일부층말고 피할수 있으면 하는 힘든문화때문 잘 지적 나도인정한다
Take beemo with you the next time. Would love to see his reaction when he encounters the world outside
That would not go over well-He gets terribly stressed and cries non-stop when we take him out of the house. 😿
oh Ok! Your videos are very nicely edited. Great job on the Macau ones. Loved the korean countryside. Very similar to the village here in Kerala, India
와.. 사라 한국어 엄청 많이 늘었네요!
That was some super fast train! Wow
Video about your favorite makeup products including lip tints, please!
세라말대로 하면 명절이 즐겁고 기다려지는 날이 되지 않을까 하는 생각이 듭니다.
Kyuho's grandpa has pink door in his house 😁😍💓
새라님의 한국어가 매력적이네요! ^^b
👍👍👍👍👏👏👏
부럽다 , 부러워 !
모든문제가 행복한 고민.
북한에서 고통받고 사는사람
생각하면.
Generally speaking, traditional holidays as a period of relaxation and stress-free fun are a modern-day conception, whether in Korea or anywhere else. As occasions when families come and spend time together to give thanks/pay homage out of mainly a sense of sacred obligation, unless one enjoys the company of family or preparing the feast, they're not, nor are they meant to be, all that restful or fun. (Women have had it far worse, of course.)The main reason why modern-day versions of traditional holidays are looked forward to by not just the elders and the very young in many countries is because we're doing or have done away with much of tradition, such as by choosing whom with and where we spend the holidays, what we do and eat during them, and for how long. More of us now perceive traditional holidays as more of a time for personal relaxation and recreation than about a time for reconnecting with our traditional roots.
Thats my fave snack too... I wonder who much is it in Korea? In Australia its $4.99 same one like that
Im talking about the 'old people snack'
Go to Asian Market! Where do you get it for $4? Woolies?
Lauren Joo noo korean shop, i dont think they sold those at woolies
Coneja thank you :D
이런 주제 가지고 있는 영상 너므 좋아요
Can I expect Canada version like this?
We spent Christmas in Canada in 2015 :) th-cam.com/video/ycyYRTjJsEs/w-d-xo.html
I mean like interview )
4524 525242 We could, but I (Sarah) have experienced Korean holidays in Korea about 7-8 times, but Kyuho has only experienced Christmas in Canada once, so it may be quite unbalanced, since he doesn’t have much experience.
2hearts1seoul than i will wait 😎 take care
Sarah
As for my culture, the Malays also has a holiday celebration (Hari Raya Aidilfitri) which we also have to prepare a lot of foods a day before and not only that, we also have to clean up the entire house, put on new curtain etc and on the day of the celebration we have to put on a new cloth, shoes etc and celebrate it for like a whole month! And yes of course the foods are what I live for😂❤
May I know if Sarah and Kyuho ever heard of Hari Raya Aidilfitri, the fasting month (Ramadhan) for the Muslims?🤔