Surprising Friends & Family With an Amazing Secret!

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  • @finlaydownham-white6823
    @finlaydownham-white6823 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3722

    This is what the trending page is really for.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Hah, yes! Thanks ;)

    • @amparohadad6593
      @amparohadad6593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is what the trending page is really for.

    • @rizckymeilan
      @rizckymeilan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BenHinders mmmmmmm

    • @rizckymeilan
      @rizckymeilan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BenHinders😭😭👎😭👎👎😊😊😭😊😭👎😊👎😭😊😊😭

    • @rizckymeilan
      @rizckymeilan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BenHinders mk

  • @jessh5661
    @jessh5661 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1895

    I'm 100% behind the woman who was smiling but shouted " WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?!" 😂😂😂

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Haha, yep, you're not alone :D

    • @laura565
      @laura565 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She is so not amused!! 😂😂😂

    • @marlenadlersflugel9615
      @marlenadlersflugel9615 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      It is realy strange not to tell ... it is not funny

    • @313girl5
      @313girl5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah... I agree with her.

    • @jeffersonximenesdesousa4070
      @jeffersonximenesdesousa4070 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      HAHAHAHA.... SHE WAS THE BEST ....

  • @jojomakes
    @jojomakes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +878

    I love how the first girl stood in the doorway and didn’t even realize the baby at first lol

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Hah yes! She thought we were just surprising them by being earlier than expected :)

    • @SalMans838
      @SalMans838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@BenHinders how is the 4 year old baby

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@SalMans838 She is great, and growing!! Check out my channel for more :D

    • @unapologeticallyamy9031
      @unapologeticallyamy9031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BenHinders oh my goodness she’s grown! I just saw a few thumbnails of recent uploads and she looks like she’s just about grown out of the toddler stage. I’m going to watch one of the recent videos now.
      P.S. Your friends and family seem amazing and loving 💕

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@unapologeticallyamy9031 I thought I replied to this! Thank you! We are so blessed and yes! Plz stay in touch.

  • @drea261
    @drea261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2208

    if you ever had a miscarriage you would understand why she hid it. I wish I could do this to my family. it really hurt me to see them so hurt after we loss our 3 children It is so much easier to just surprise everyone with the baby and know everything is ok.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

      I’m so sorry for your loss. :/ I hope you find peace. Thank you.

    • @drea261
      @drea261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@suzettejo617 that is the most horrible thing anyone could ever say to someone who lost a child. I'm so sorry that happened to you. if that was me I probably would have burst into tears and never spoke to him again. I couldn't do it

    • @thereisbeauty7
      @thereisbeauty7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Suzette Jo I’m so sorry that was said to you. That is horrible.

    • @dianamurphy2954
      @dianamurphy2954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I had 3 miscarriages before my daughter. I learned not to disclose until after 5 months. But 9 months, no way!!!! Something is wrong here folks!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      So sorry for your loss :/

  • @jormugand5578
    @jormugand5578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +561

    Grandmother: "How did you do that?"
    Mother: "Express delivery from Amazon."

  • @maurakay1917
    @maurakay1917 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4079

    My mother would KILL ME if I did this. 😂😂

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  7 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Noo she loves you!! Hah, but yes, I understand! We just hoped for the best.

    • @H20fanatic20
      @H20fanatic20 6 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Yeah my mom would be so heartbroken

    • @TheEnglandknp
      @TheEnglandknp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Mine would too.

    • @saracornish7575
      @saracornish7575 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Maura Sieber amen to that

    • @markigirl2757
      @markigirl2757 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Maura Sieber haha same I told them before the second trimester Bc my mom is known to freak out if I forget to text her back if I don’t make t home safe despite not living with her no more 😂

  • @skeewee-c6206
    @skeewee-c6206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +840

    All the reactions were great but the uncle on the phone had the best reaction

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Haha, yes! Love that one :D

    • @rinaberman7686
      @rinaberman7686 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      "ExCUSE ME?!"

    • @Sam-iy1nt
      @Sam-iy1nt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The choc... then "excuse me?!"

  • @juliaarnold1078
    @juliaarnold1078 5 ปีที่แล้ว +415

    I miscarried at 19 weeks and my aunt asked what i did wrong, when I told her I did nothing, her exact words were, “Look all I am saying is if you miscarry in the second trimester its usually something the mother did, thats all I am saying” When I tried to explain how I felt to my grandmother she said “oh, you know she didnt mean it like that”. I don’t blame or have any anger towards my grandmother, she is the sort of person who will always think the best of a person. Even when I have done some not so nice things in the past she always gave me the benefit of the doubt. My aunt on the other hand is a different story. My miscarriage was in February 2017, I fell pregnant in August 2017. Saw them at Christmas when I was about 6 months pregnant, was able to hide it as I wasn’t showing much, had my daughter on 2 May 2018 and showed up at Christmas with a 7 month old. I regret NOTHING.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Wow, that’s really sad that your family would parse blame off to you. I’m sorry to hear that. I hope they are more charitable to you now. Best.

    • @thewilliamsfamilyest
      @thewilliamsfamilyest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Wow congratulations for your baby.also sad for your aunt for saying that its disgusting. Enjoy your precious little onexx

    • @melilara4194
      @melilara4194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Your Aunt is a piece of work. Sadly pure ignorance and lack of empathy run in older generations. I would have done the same thing you did. She probably wouldn't even be invited to any of my function. Congratulations to you and your family also your baby girl has her sibling watching over her. Wish you nothing but the best.💖

    • @angelhollobaugh7798
      @angelhollobaugh7798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m sorry for you loss and lack of support from family. That was the last thing you needed 😢 I hope you and your baby are doing well ❤️ their sister/brother/and your daughter/son is watching over you I’m sure 👼

    • @darcy3478
      @darcy3478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm so sorry for what your Aunt said to you, also I'm sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby. You did nothing wrong & I hope you know that now, what she said is disgusting & she should be ashamed. I don't blame you for keeping your second pregnancy quiet & I'm so happy that you now have another beautiful baby who has their sibling watching over them. I hope you are both doing well & are happy, healthy & loved wishing you all the best for the future, take care & stay safe ❤️

  • @SuperChickJanice
    @SuperChickJanice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    “Hellooooooo...where’s your real mom??? 😃”
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lily5ever
    @lily5ever 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2181

    am i the only would who would be super pissed lmfao

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      Haha no you're not the only one! I think we knew or hoped how our families would respond though, so thankfully, the pissed off people weren't pissed off for long :D

    • @Tommiboo3
      @Tommiboo3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Honestly our family would freak out.

    • @TecnoMTA
      @TecnoMTA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      yes you are unique gratz

    • @laureli988
      @laureli988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Once they get over the shock they'll feel betrayed

    • @nikkibarbee2573
      @nikkibarbee2573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      for the grandparents I think they cheated them out of the delivery grandparents love that stuff

  • @SemyiaJenai
    @SemyiaJenai 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1056

    "Where's your real mom " lmao this was great. I cried. I laughed. I smiled so much my cheeks hurt lol 😍

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Hahah, love that part. That's my little brother. - - So excellent! So glad you enjoyed it :) :)

    • @frenjackson5907
      @frenjackson5907 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too .... in tears 🗣🥀💞😙😚

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      :)

    • @bendyandtheinkmachinezeekg3733
      @bendyandtheinkmachinezeekg3733 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      2:20

    • @taracook1127
      @taracook1127 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just found this today!! Totally cheered up a miserable Monday morning 😊

  • @anonamoose2229
    @anonamoose2229 6 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    "Where's your real mom?" Haha, gets me giggling every time I watch this!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hahah yep, that’s one of my favorite moments. So good.

  • @jackster2456
    @jackster2456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    I get why some people would be upset. Buuuuut I also understand why the parents would want to wait especially if they suffered a miscarriage or a stillborn.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yep, definitely just a choice we made.

    • @cassrose4601
      @cassrose4601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen. I plan to try and do something along these lines when I get my rainbow baby. I had my stillborn daughter in september 2019

    • @verabolton
      @verabolton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So exactly when would you tell your loving mother that you had a miscarriage or a stillborn? Months later? Years later? Never? Would you just suffer alone? This does not make sense at all in the light of what I know about LOVE.

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There’s no such thing as “a stillborn”. And what if their loved ones only found out after a stillbirth that the baby had ever existed. How do you think they would feel?

    • @cassrose4601
      @cassrose4601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@icturner23 how do you figure stillbirth isn’t a thing?

  • @hthbean
    @hthbean 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1292

    On one hand I think this idea is neat and fun. On the other hand, as a mother, I think I would be so hurt if one of my kids had a baby and did not tell me. To not tell me these details of their lives for 9 months, would just gut me. I know I would get over it and love that baby so much, but that first initial reaction I fear would not be a good one. I guess I am torn. But still fun to see on TH-cam because it is not my kid, lol

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      You’re right! It’s not foolproof for sure. But we’re just glad they enjoyed it :)

    • @samiam3799
      @samiam3799 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I loved, loved, loved this video SO much, but if I had kept my pregnancy a secret from family and they didn’t have the chance to go through the excitement and anticipation of those nine months, I don’t think they would have ever spoken to me again! But this is brilliant, the reactions were so sweet 😀❤️🇬🇧

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thank you so much! - - I am sure they would've gotten over it :D

    • @LittleLofiStories
      @LittleLofiStories 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same! And being pregz now I need to talk to my mom about so many things.... i told my mom the day after I had the positive pregnancy test.

    • @annek1226
      @annek1226 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Heather's life I, as a mother, a grandmother and a great grandmother agree with you 100%! But nowadays we tend to mean less and less as time goes on.

  • @YgaaoBR
    @YgaaoBR ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this video. Its been 6 years since i came back to watch eventually and I still got the same emotion from the first time. Thank you for put it online for us to enjoy this with you.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey! Good to have you back :) Really glad you enjoy it! :) You’re very welcome!

  • @samanthahawkins1534
    @samanthahawkins1534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's amazing u kept that quiet . What a great surprise. Congratulations mum and dad. Welcome 2 the world little person

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It was truly incredible to pull off. Thanks much :)

  • @GoCrazyBaby3
    @GoCrazyBaby3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +887

    If I was a parent I would be ok with this cuz I wouldn’t have to wait😂 it’d just be like boom, and now I’m a grandma

  • @alizzie
    @alizzie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1372

    Okay I love this but something I haven’t seen anyone mention... the driver IS LIAM HEMSWORTH LOOK AT THAT FACE

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Hahah a few people have said something similar 😂 I’ll pass it on ;)

    • @alizzie
      @alizzie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Ben Hinders I just saw this! But thank you 😂💛 your baby girl is beautiful!!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thank you!!! 😊😊

    • @rockoutchristian09
      @rockoutchristian09 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Oh my gosh his name is Kevin and he is great and he better LOVE this comment haha

    • @alizzie
      @alizzie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Annie Rowson hahaha honestly I don’t know anyone who wouldn’t like to look like Liam Hemsworth 😂😍

  • @NaturalCurlz1583
    @NaturalCurlz1583 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    First, CONGRATULATIONS! Second, I am sooooooooo jealous at (1) the amount of members in your family, (2) the love they have for you guys, (3) all the super sweet reactions. Take it from an only child, you guys are truly blessed.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much!! :) we are truly blessed beyond belief!! We won’t take it for granted!

  • @topdawg1692
    @topdawg1692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best thing I've seen on TH-cam 2021!! Just Beautiful!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! We think so too ;)

  • @euancampbell1
    @euancampbell1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2589

    I think id be so pissed if my daughter or son did this to me lmao.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Fair enough ;) Haha. A few people have been or are pissed! But mostly everyone is in love, which is great. But you're not wrong!

    • @euancampbell1
      @euancampbell1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      i mean only initially haha, everyone loves babies afterall.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Hah oh yea we were expecting some anger...only got a bit though. And yea, hard to be pissed at the baby lol

    • @hollym3083
      @hollym3083 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Yeah, cute baby but as her mom I would've been like why the he'll didn't you tell me while snuggling the baby

    • @chanchangads9634
      @chanchangads9634 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I’d be too.. like what the hell??? I’m your MOM.. helloooo??

  • @htmc2022
    @htmc2022 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Newborn Baby Girl has beautiful, intent eyes - so alert & intelligent for just being born! Congrats all! ❤

  • @jamdamonium
    @jamdamonium 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    You literally share your entire lives with your family as a human, why not keep something as special as this to yourself while you can? Like, obviously baby is going to be a part of everyone's loves forever, I absolutely admire taking this time for yourself and your wife and nobody else ❤️

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thank you! It was truly an amazing experience, and I wouldn’t change a thing. But we understand why people are upset or misunderstanding. We simply chose not to put it on social media. Thanks!

    • @yourerightimwrong4567
      @yourerightimwrong4567 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Will they have more and do the same with their subsequent children, I wonder?

    • @philiptaylor1762
      @philiptaylor1762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “part of everyone’s loves forever”
      Probably the truest, most beautiful typo ever

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Um, it seems like you don’t understand the meaning of the word ‘literally’. Everyone keeps loads of things from their family. This is just a bizarre choice of secret.

    • @hollinorton6890
      @hollinorton6890 ปีที่แล้ว

      When you are so in fear that any wrong move can lead to the loss, you keep your mouth shut out of sheer trauma. This is a rainbow baby.

  • @Roehrtribe
    @Roehrtribe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    We have lost 4 babies to miscarriage. And don’t announce pregnancy due to that. (Too many rude comments) We only had one family member angry and offended over it this time. I loved this video. So glad you could pull it off.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so sorry for your losses. I do hope the video brought you some joy. Blessings to you.

    • @BURSTOFPOPCULTURE
      @BURSTOFPOPCULTURE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥺💗I enjoyed the video.

    • @graceemachin
      @graceemachin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m sending you so much love. I pray for you. You’re time and beautiful baby will come! ❤️

    • @noraramos3798
      @noraramos3798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My husband and I have had 5 miscarriages, but I always told our families each time I was pregnant because it’s my belief that no matter if it ended in a loss, a pregnancy is a gift and my baby wasn’t any less alive before the miscarriage and deserved to be celebrated just as any pregnancy should be celebrated. After the first 2 misses I started to expect the worst each time, so I wanted to celebrate and to be happy for every second I was pregnant regardless of how it was going to end.if I didn’t tell anyone, I wouldn’t have had anyone to mourn with. I wouldn’t have had anyone to talk to about the loss and the pain. I totally understand why this wouldn’t be the route everyone would choose, but I chose to celebrate every second. Now I am 41 and have finally come to terms with the fact that my daughter (now almost 22 years old) is going to be my only baby. I was so lucky to be able to carry her and deliver her; she’s my miracle. Now my daughter has a little boy and it has been the most incredible time in my life! It’s the first time in 20 years that I can see diaper commercials and pregnant women without bursting into tears. I am very sorry for your losses. I hope if you haven’t found peace yet, that some day, it will find you. Be well❤️

    • @prnurse241
      @prnurse241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@noraramos3798 I will be 41 this year and miscarried twice, no babies. My only option is to buy donated eggs or embryos. I feel your pain! Sucks seeing those diaper and pregnancy test commercials!!

  • @lisasartori9595
    @lisasartori9595 6 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    I would totally trust this couple with ALL my secrets!!!😂
    Beautiful family! Congrats!!! So fun to watch!!!!❤️

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahah thanks :):) Thank you!! So glad you enjoyed it

  • @teasesquezze
    @teasesquezze 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It must be so lovely to have family like this. Beautiful baby and such a happy family. Wishing them so much luck and love.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are so blessed! Thank you so much!!

  • @janbenko7618
    @janbenko7618 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kto nikdy nepoznal tento pocit,nevie o čo ide. Sú to nefalšované,pravdivé emócie❤❤

  • @brianhudson7822
    @brianhudson7822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE, BEAUTIFUL FAMILIES, AND ONE HELLA BEAUTIFUL BABY. LITTLE IVY, YOU WILL NEVER MEET OR KNOW ME, BUT I WISH YOU AS MANY BLESSINGS AS THERE ARE STARS IN THE UNIVERSE. BE WELL, BE LOVED, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY BE HAPPY!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Brian!! So nice of you! We so appreciate your best wishes and blessings! We hope that for you as well :)

  • @LifexNick
    @LifexNick 8 ปีที่แล้ว +548

    This was so beautiful, and your little girl will be able to watch this when she's older and see how happy everyone was to find out about her :)

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nick and Nelly thank you so much ;) and yes! We have to make sure it doesn't go to her head, but it will be such a great way to show her how loved she is!

    • @sashazukiwskyj3071
      @sashazukiwskyj3071 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They would have been just as happy no matter how or when they found out.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably right!

  • @kieyrasalisbury7289
    @kieyrasalisbury7289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I don’t like these comments. What I do love is the empowerment you guys had throughout this process. You made it about you and your own little family. I watch this video every few years and as I get older I realize this is exactly what I would have to do. To stay mentally sane and keep my boundaries and do things the way I want with my baby. I LOVE this! I love your little family!!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No worries! We don’t mind, and everyone is entitled to their opinion! Thank you so much for your kind words, and we are glad it brings you joy! You’re right, too! It’s your baby at the end of the day. Do what is best for you and your family first. Best to you!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Linda J. Clarke thanks for your comment!

  • @66casa66
    @66casa66 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Love this 😍 after having 2 pregnancies filled with unsolicited advice lol i wouldn't mind taking this route. Blessings to your family.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ha yep, I think a lot of people discount that reality. At the end of the day, it’s your baby and pregnancy, and so my wife decided to do what she wanted! :) but everyone is entitled to disagree too! Thank you so much! Best to you as well!!

  • @johngross8300
    @johngross8300 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was wonderful. Twisted wonderful!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha glad you enjoyed it

  • @MorningKit
    @MorningKit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    And the baby is left wondering: why does everyone I meet talk SO LOUDLY???

  • @LiberateAlberta1907
    @LiberateAlberta1907 5 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    "OMG YOU HAD A BABY??! HOW DID YOU DO THAT?!!" 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahah 😂

    • @elizabethelias8373
      @elizabethelias8373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I wonder how, right? Ha, ha, ha

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      :D

    • @nduncan79
      @nduncan79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That was hilarious. I thought he was going to be cute and say well like first you got to date the person..

  • @Andy_M986
    @Andy_M986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is THE best surprise video ever!!! I'm a 52 year old man sitting here crying and laughing at the same time,thank you for sharing,kids are life!!!!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay! That makes me incredibly happy. Seriously! Thank you. So glad you enjoyed it. Kids are awesome :)

    • @Andy_M986
      @Andy_M986 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BenHinders All the very best to you and your family.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Andy!

  • @johngarcia5396
    @johngarcia5396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful moment. Thanks for sharing! Beautiful family!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, John!! You’re very welcome, and thank you for your kind words!

  • @fennecfox9490
    @fennecfox9490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This would have been the experience of people back in the days before phones and telegrams and fast post. Even though some might feel a bit mad, I can see the delight here. It's so sudden, with no waiting. Quite unique.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly. Insightful comment! Thank you :)

  • @kimberlybasaldua
    @kimberlybasaldua 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow.... I love that you captured everyone’s reaction. What a beauty she is.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!

  • @libellrtn
    @libellrtn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is amazing. Credit to you and the lovely mummy ! What a wonderful unique gift to the family, just saved them the painfully long wait and jumped straight to the bundle of joy ! Congratulations. She's beautiful 😊

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Libby Ellerton thank you! All credit goes to Mum, she was the absolute champion (plus it was her idea! ;) - Everyone who has met her loves her! She is a bundle of joy. Thank you :)

  • @troym.9588
    @troym.9588 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a way to make memories, absolutely beautiful! May you and your munchkin be blessed with a loving, long, and healthy life!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much!!! ☺️☺️

  • @Lara-ec6lv
    @Lara-ec6lv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video just popped up on my trending page and it's the purest thing I've seen on TH-cam for a very long time. I am literally in tears right now, this is so beautiful and you and your daughter are so glad to re-watch these reactions whenever you need a reminder of how much these people really love you.
    I hope your little family is doing fine, thank you so much for sharing this with us!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! :) So glad you enjoyed it! I agree, it’s a wonderful reminder of the immense love of family and friends :) We are great!! Thank you!

  • @CreativelyPhoenix
    @CreativelyPhoenix 6 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    This is so magical but my family would accept the baby into the tribe and kill me 😂😂😂😂 Thanks for sharing everyone's reactions to your little blessing.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Hahah so true. “The baby can stay, you are dead!” 😂. :) Thank you!!!

  • @jodicross4675
    @jodicross4675 8 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Totally envious of you're decision. And absolute love this video. I'm so glad this is on trending and I got the chance to see it. Good luck in you're future. Love from the UK xxx

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you so much! And best of luck to you also. Much love right back to you!

    • @MarcoLeeJones
      @MarcoLeeJones 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jodi Cross get a girlfriend first

  • @tonybhurji7320
    @tonybhurji7320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't normally watch these baby suprise videos because they are normally boring but this is one of the best and nicest videos on TH-cam. Not too long and not too short as well, well done!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, Tony! :) appreciate your kind words, and glad you enjoyed it!!

  • @ashleym3612
    @ashleym3612 6 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    "She's ours"
    " I thought you adopted!"
    Me: which would make it their baby.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Haha yea she didn’t mean it that way but it did sound like that 🙈. We have adopted family too 😆

    • @Jun-dw1mg
      @Jun-dw1mg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Ashley a year late but thank you for saying that. I’m adopted and it was hard to hear them say that.

    • @kptmaci4979
      @kptmaci4979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      She probably just didnt realise they went through the whole pregnancy thing. When you suddenly appear with a baby, without telling anyone about pregnancy she probably was very confused about how the baby appeared in their lives xD so i guess she didnt mean nothing wrong, she was just bamboozled at that moment xD

    • @jordanRfRb
      @jordanRfRb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I get how it sounded like that, but you can definitely tell that the first part of the conversation was cut and also all the commotion/confusion going on. When someone shows up with a baby saying its theirs and they hid the pregnancy, you're going to automatically assume they adopted and didn't tell anyone incase things didn't go accordingly. So she had obviously just said something (that was cut, or couldn't hear over everyone being so excited) along the lines of where did this baby come from, how did this all happen. And all Hannah meant when she said she's ours, is that she physically had her that she was made from both parents. And the other lady when she said I thought you adopted, didn't mean it as she's not theirs, she meant as she thought there was no possible way Hannah was pregnant and had a baby without anyone knowing. It was no way meant to be insensitive, or hurtful, or offensive. As Ben said they have adoptive family, so that right there also shows why maybe she thought they adopted seeing as that's not an uncommon thing for their family.

    • @tonyadaisyjoy74
      @tonyadaisyjoy74 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly!!!! I adopted 3 children and never mention it. They're my kids. People just don't get it. SMH!

  • @svrngd
    @svrngd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    If I couldn't see my daughter for 10 months and would get such a gift when meeting again I think my joy would pass any disapointment, but I might be wrong.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s really what happened instantly. Insightful comment! :)

  • @Izzybaggins
    @Izzybaggins 6 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I have 3 sisters, I’m the youngest brother and it was wonderful to experience their pregnancies and being there to help and support them, it was bonding but honestly I remember the worrying, fear and confusion on my sisters faces when family and friends gave them unsolicited advice, tips, warnings etc.... it was overwhelming sometimes that they didn’t really enjoy their pregnancy as they should’ve, not saying that this is the same case but I kept thinking of how wonderful these couple enjoy their pregnancy on their own and in their terms, ultimately it’s about them and how they chose their experience,
    not about The FOMO of the family members.
    My best wishes to the parents and your baby, may you all have a long and healthy life together.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thank you so much!! I appreciate your comments. I come from a big family and I think this just really stresses the importance of loving each other in their own choices. If they chose to keep their pregnancy private, wed support them :) we didn’t choose to, it just kinda happened via the distance :)

    • @skyrogue1977
      @skyrogue1977 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also have three sisters, but only the eldest has kids.
      Her first two were twins and I recall a smidge of worry about both being able to be born safely, with a certain procedure brought up at one point by a doctor.
      But both babies came to be and are doing great.
      Needless to saw I would die for those kids

  • @ThestuffthatSaralikes
    @ThestuffthatSaralikes ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:55 THAT FACE is the text book description of “mindblown”. Best reaction on here imo.
    And yeah, I’d get written outta ALOT of wills for this!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha yea that was too good 😂😂😂

  • @melaniegee
    @melaniegee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a beautiful surprise for your family. As a grandmother, there’s nothing more precious to experience than a grandchild. 💙💙💙

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much! :) I agree with you.

  • @meganmacedonio5044
    @meganmacedonio5044 7 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    2:00 “excuse me??” 😂😂😂 omg too funny

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hah, I know! One of my absolute favorite reactions.

    • @christineanthony6755
      @christineanthony6755 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My favorite was the grandmother: "How did you do that?"

    • @ellagreen9142
      @ellagreen9142 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Megan G Hahahaha same 😂😂

  • @ChelseyDIY
    @ChelseyDIY 8 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    this is absolutely amazing 😍 I personally LOVE how you've caught everyone's reactions on camera & now have the memories to look back on forever! Happy Holidays to you and your family! 🎀☃

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you! We agree ;) Happy Holidays to you also!! Best

  • @carlinarendsecarlin7132
    @carlinarendsecarlin7132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have just started to watch your guys video.. I am so happy for you guys.. May she bring lots of blessing,love and lots of memories.. all the way from Cape Town South Africa

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! We appreciate your very kind words! Lots of blessings and love right back to you, from Hawaii!

  • @gbpdrum45
    @gbpdrum45 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Part of what was missed out on is the “anticipating.” Knowing that a baby is coming and getting ready to finally meet them can be so satisfying! For all involved. When you’ve been gone for over a year and you come home, your family has been anticipating your arrival, no? And they were delighted to see you.
    But then a second later you place a baby in their arms that they had no idea existed and that is very jarring. Of course they’re going to love her but they didn’t know she existed until about 2 seconds before. That’s a little overwhelming.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea for sure. You hit the nail on the head. Probably the most accurate comment so far. I think we had no idea how people would react, because we just didn’t tell anyone. But that’s exactly how it went. Confusion + Jarring reactions. Thanks!

  • @RaijinKaze
    @RaijinKaze 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That baby has a very big and welcoming family! So heartwarming to watch.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! We are extremely blessed!

  • @danshaggy292
    @danshaggy292 6 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    By the time they got round to all the family and friends the child was 16, and the novelty had started to wear off.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Hahah. It's true. She's already 18! Oh, wait, 18 months.

    • @IMissThe90s15
      @IMissThe90s15 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @davidsewellclarke4997
    @davidsewellclarke4997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love these videos, it makes a Grumpy old man happy .

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to hear it! That’s all we hope for any and all of our videos. Bring a smile to someone’s day. Thank you, sir!

  • @rebeccasams2731
    @rebeccasams2731 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am so pleased this came up on my suggested feed! Such beautiful reactions, welcome to the world Ivy Elizabeth ❤️

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! :)

  • @salmankhawaja7861
    @salmankhawaja7861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just like to watch this video over and over again. And always love coming back to this again time to time. So heart warming

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! So glad you enjoy it!! Keep coming back :)

    • @tlets
      @tlets 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      sorry i dont agree with this , its such a joy looking forward to a baby in the family, why miss out on that special time.

  • @hamsaahmed3884
    @hamsaahmed3884 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I rarely like videos on TH-cam but I literally pressed the like button on and off like 50 times to really emphasise how I loved this and how beautiful this video and idea was, love from the UK and all the best to you, the baby and all the family.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, this might be the nicest thing yet. Cheers much. Thanks for taking the time to watch it. We are so grateful!

  • @kristenmanners146
    @kristenmanners146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Because of your beautiful heartwarming video, I am going to do this to my family in Jan 2021. 14 weeks pregnant and only one person knows, and she helping to arrange the rest of the family coming up for a 'visit'. Love this video.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!! Be sure to film it! I’m excited for you!

  • @Lara-ec6lv
    @Lara-ec6lv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have found this video about 2 or 3 years ago but from time to time I just re-watch it cause it's so precious, so real, so beautiful. I wish you guys the best ❤️

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!! We are so glad you enjoy it so much! Means a lot to us! Be blessed!

  • @melissaturnbull8575
    @melissaturnbull8575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Love this. Ignore the nay sayers. There are still members of my family that have no idea i have a child, who is now 2....im a private person and dont share much about me with anyone, even family. It's not rude or unfair or anything other than it is what it is. The fact you have introduced them is beautiful. Thank you for sharing this personal and beautiful moment with us....even if it was over 2 years ago. 😊

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! - Wow that’s crazy!! But yea it’s not always up to anyone but the parents, aka us. Ha. But thank you so much!

    • @Doctorkatnip
      @Doctorkatnip 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly!!!

  • @laragarzarella692
    @laragarzarella692 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved this! Congrats! She’ll love being able to look back at this when she’s older!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! Haha yep, she will!

  • @joehohmann6015
    @joehohmann6015 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Get over it already. The baby's healthy and beautiful and you can't get a better surprise than this !!! Congratulations !!!!!!!!!!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don’t worry :) The families were over it almost instantly ;) Thank you!!!

  • @nikkiechols5450
    @nikkiechols5450 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I JUST LOVE IT. I had to watch this 3 times because I just loved everyone's reaction. You have a beautiful daughter and a wonderfully family. Please post the next baby surprise. I'm about to watch again. I absolutely loved the surprise.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay! So glad you enjoyed it :) no more surprises for us 😂.

  • @Tech875O
    @Tech875O 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What an amazing group of friends and families. The reactions were unbelievably joyous!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! We treasured each reaction, confused or otherwise haha.

  • @AriesGirlTAROT
    @AriesGirlTAROT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I think this is a great idea, regardless of why they did it. Pregnancy is between the mother and the father, telling everyone about the pregnancy is a choice, especially if you’re not interacting with them in person on the regular.
    If the mother is having issues with carrying the baby, it makes perfect sense to keep it a secret for that reason as well. I also noticed that it looked like she did not give birth naturally and the baby was on oxygen so clearly something was going on. Regardless, I think waiting and surprising everyone is awesome, regardless of reasons for doing so. Who doesn’t get excited about a new baby in the family.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thank you for your kind words. You’re very right, there were some complications and baby came a month before due date. And we agree; the pregnancy is truly the parents journey and if they choose to let people into it, so be it. It wasn’t done out of malice, for sure. Thank you again!

  • @edsummers6869
    @edsummers6869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn...I cried. Are you all happy? Congratulations everyone...she's beautiful!!! Thanks for sharing.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are beside ourselves with joy ;) Ivy is a delight! And we loved the surprise. Thank you so much :)

    • @edsummers6869
      @edsummers6869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ben Hinders you have a beautiful family! I hope life offers you the very best it can offer.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ed Summers Thank you! We are so very blessed! Likewise for you!!

  • @amberburris1470
    @amberburris1470 7 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    I feel bad for the grandparents.. not being able to be involved... I hope my children don't hide that from me.... Side note your family and friends seem amazing and your baby is Beautiful

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I know, you're not wrong. It's not for everyone...Thank you!! They are amazing, and she is!! Thank you!

    • @natalieeubank4533
      @natalieeubank4533 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sometimes though when you are starting your family you want to have your family just be the three of you for a short time,

    • @kittykay088
      @kittykay088 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was always scared that something would happen and I wouldn’t tell anyone either till baby was here, but I didn’t or for the fear :(

    • @amaranth665
      @amaranth665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What is there to enjoy for them? Its a private thing. If they don't want to share, there is no reason for being pissed off. They have all the time of the world to spend with the baby now.

    • @lem0npypom728
      @lem0npypom728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's their child, not the grandparent's child

  • @Beepbeep4sheep
    @Beepbeep4sheep 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was so sweet; made me cry! Congrats to you guys!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much! :D

  • @veronicavgatencio
    @veronicavgatencio 6 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    Pulling the Kylie Jenner reveal method lol

  • @amandinereveiller3322
    @amandinereveiller3322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    CONGRATULATIONS !!

  • @Vaneleandro77
    @Vaneleandro77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Qué lindo tener una familia tan unida,que se alegre tanto de tus alegrías 💞

  • @MzVee106
    @MzVee106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My Gosh, I was totally confused as to how nobody knew until I read the comments. That was one hell of a BIG surprise! Y'all nailed it. BTW, Beautiful baby girl!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha yea it was difficult but not impossible because how far away we live. Thank you so much! :) we are blessed.

  • @Finlazy
    @Finlazy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    You're going on Ellen and she's gonna give you a life time supply of babies.. wait...

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Haha. We'd take a lifetime supply of diapers.....ha. Cheers ;)

  • @bubbacole1657
    @bubbacole1657 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great surprise for everyone. That is so awesome!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! :) We think so too!!

  • @miav6852
    @miav6852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I’m 18 and expecting my first ... seeing this knowing me and my boyfriend have support on both sides is really really giving me so much hope that everything’s gonna be okay 🥺❤️

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good luck!! You’re gonna be fine!

  • @pensonic9413
    @pensonic9413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Honestly seeing all of their friends react makes me realize they must be a really good person, good friends ..

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Kind of you to say, but we have been really blessed. Big families, lots of friends! We wish that on everyone.

  • @maddielopez8625
    @maddielopez8625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love this so much. Just keeping it between the parents seems so magical and special. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much :) It was truly magical and special.

  • @dogzillasquad9524
    @dogzillasquad9524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys make me cry is so beautiful surprise is the most beautiful time I can look back and see my kids like that now they big I miss so much this moment the sound of a baby👍

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw thank you!! I know that day is coming for me too 😭. But thank you so much!

  • @aileenc3034
    @aileenc3034 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Without doubt the. Best. TH-cam. Video. Ever! I've had to watch it over a few times cos there's just so much shock and amazement - and that's just me and I don't even know them! Happy new family xx

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, Aileen! I'm so glad you enjoyed it. We love it. Thank you, and all the best!!

  • @shelbyhanna5821
    @shelbyhanna5821 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wouldn’t of been able to keep something like that a secret. I see my family every day😂 Congratulations! She’s beautiful. 💜

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha, yep! Would be UNREAL to pull that off. "Where's Shelby?" "Oh she's sick...she's at the store...she's at work..." for 9 months :P haha.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And THANK YOU! :D

  • @Loveishopeinourheart
    @Loveishopeinourheart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing! It’s your family, and your daughter. You guys have that choice as it’s your decisions. No one should get upset about that! :) I would keep my entire pregnancy a secret as well. I’m sure no one felt upset that they didn’t get impatient for 9 months. They instantly had a new family member!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching! - You’d he surprised how accurate you are! Everyone was very elated. Any bitterness was very quickly lost

  • @sunflowerwatermelon9038
    @sunflowerwatermelon9038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hope everything goes well with your family right now.. I am not late enough to say Congratulations!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! We are well, and it’s never too late! Thank you!! :)

    • @sunflowerwatermelon9038
      @sunflowerwatermelon9038 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BenHinders you're welcome

  • @anameows88
    @anameows88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    My family would have been absolutely livid if I never said anything 😂😂😂

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha oh no! :)

    • @abbyz6614
      @abbyz6614 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mike sixx Actually it has been mostly positive, but thanks for your input!

  • @hello4hire
    @hello4hire 8 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I don't know about this I would be a little upset you kept it a secret the whole pregnancy esp from your mum and dad who may have wanted a bit more involvement being your first child

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Fair enough! Honestly, I don't blame you one bit. Yet, when you live so far away, and they weren't going to visit anyways, what could they actually have done besides call in, you know? But fair enough, and you're definitely not wrong! Cheers.

    • @cherylannhendron743
      @cherylannhendron743 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      As a mother of sons, I almost cried when your mother came in and discovered what you had taken from her. I could see it on her face. My oldest announced his engagement on FB. I was a little hurt certainly. I made it clear in a loving way that's not how I want to find out I will be a grandma. I'm not a smother in law at all, but certain people should not be part of a joke on everyone. Best of luck. Babies are such a blessing.

    • @judithfurmston3731
      @judithfurmston3731 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Cheryl Ann Hendron Taken from? I don't understand. Babies don't take, they are shared by family. Pregnancy isn't something that you can give though.

    • @alyssatruxel9493
      @alyssatruxel9493 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it's awesome. No waiting involved for the family!!

    • @Widdekuu91
      @Widdekuu91 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Judith
      They'd taken the opportunity away from her. Normally moms like to have, what we call in Dutch "voorpret."
      It means pre-fun. it's the enjoyment of preparing yourself for a great event that's going to happen later.
      The mom probably would've wanted to think about the baby, about the name, about the clothing. (Not that she could decide...but thinking about it in your head, can be loads of fun.)
      Perhaps embroider something for it. Find a toy. Dream about how it'll be.
      Now it's just a sudden mega-surprise, with no way to prepare yourself mentally whatsoever.

  • @juliareut7635
    @juliareut7635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Honestly if you don’t bother to see someone for 10 months, I think it’s valid. Plus its a fun memory.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hah, exactly. We just left the chips fall where they may, and we did have a few visitors sworn to secrecy.

  • @elizabethbetsy1
    @elizabethbetsy1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed this today!! Thank you sooo much for sharing!!! Thank you!!!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good!! Thank YOU! :) Be blessed!

  • @piccolitesticoli
    @piccolitesticoli 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    WOW that's a huge secret to keep. Mucho respect!

  • @williamstrob6
    @williamstrob6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congrats to the parents to be blessed with the most amazing gift wishing you love and happiness

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! :)

  • @aminator1
    @aminator1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That's amazing bro! You guys are incredible, and you have such beautiful family and friends, I wish you guys the best! Love from London UK

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      aminator1 thank you so much, mate! Much love right back to you. Unless you're an arsenal fan. Jokes jokes :)

    • @aminator1
      @aminator1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Ben Hinders hahaha, funny thing is, I am an arsenal fan :D! good luck with everything!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I knew it! All the best to you mate!! Thank you again, so very much! Love your beautiful country (lived there a year!)

  • @t.m.8618
    @t.m.8618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cried with each surprise...you have wonderful family & friends. God bless you all, love each other always & forever. ✌️❤️

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! We really are incredibly blessed. God bless, and Thank You!

  • @debraarizona4809
    @debraarizona4809 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg !!couldn't stop crying and laughing at every ones reactions...wow this is too!! cute!!..lots of luck!!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!! So glad you enjoyed it!

  • @AmeerAshfaq
    @AmeerAshfaq 8 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    This is actually amazing 😳😭the reactions are priceless I'm glad I watched this 😂

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ha, yes! They are so good. There were a few that didn't make the cut (my brother and sister-in-law for one hah) because they couldn't believe it for so long! - Thanks again

  • @ameliaweights
    @ameliaweights 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I wish we could have done this. Or at least kept our pregnancy a secret a little longer. People are so full of "advice" when you're pregnant. It feels like your pregnancy becomes everybody's pregnancy

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yep, at the end of the day, it's your baby and pregnancy! It's a shame more people aren't supportive of that, but I understand the sentiments. Best to you!

    • @amyazif3193
      @amyazif3193 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is their pregnancy but maybe at least tell the parents and or the grandparents. I can understand and respect that they might not want everyone's "advice" but the elders deserve to know. Still pretty cool.

    • @FedUpZebra
      @FedUpZebra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@amyazif3193 the elders don't "deserve" anything. Nobody is entitled to someone else's major life event. Being a part of someone else's pregnancy is a privilege, NOT A RIGHT. And just because you're someone's parent or grandparent, doesn't mean you were a good one.

  • @sabrinasab1106
    @sabrinasab1106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Much love, much emotions I love the video tkx for sharing, congratulations parents
    Très émouvante vidéo 🥰😍💐

  • @fargolargopants1694
    @fargolargopants1694 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't even know you all and im crying!! Ugggghhh! Love this!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay!! So glad you enjoyed it!! Sending love from afar!

  • @frito48girl
    @frito48girl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You don't need validation from internet strangers, but I've dreamt of doing this! Having everyone in your business for months on end is too much and with not living near by, it was probably very easy to do! I love it and am living my dreams through you!!! Congrats.

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! :) I say go for it. It was definitely very meaningful to only experience it together. The internet says that our baby is not ours ;) But it’s okay, everyone has their opinions. And we didn’t keep our family from coming out and visiting. Merely didn’t post it on social media :)

  • @xo7499
    @xo7499 7 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    this is how I see myself telling my parents I *was* pregnant because even at 35 , I am scared of their reactions

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Hah...well, I can tell you that they love you and your child no matter what, so eventually, they'll get over whatever they're struggling with. It's your life at the end of the day, and they should love and support you in that. But, I understand the difficulty.

    • @kristingallo2158
      @kristingallo2158 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I didn't tell mine until my baby was 6 weeks old. I was 35.

    • @xjcrossx
      @xjcrossx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That is funny. As the saying goes, it's always easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. Lol

    • @debbiepeter112
      @debbiepeter112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      xoxXOXO l I didn't tell my mother, she guessed by the fact that my body had changed shape. I was only 6 weeks gone!!!

    • @BenHinders
      @BenHinders  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      wow! That's amazing. Congrats! :D

  • @SusanKing-kx5tw
    @SusanKing-kx5tw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THE FAMILIES REACTION WAS PRICELESS❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤WELL DONE MOM AND DAD😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊