Tsis txhob qaug zog mog tus sister. Vim yog yus lub siab zoo zoo, siab muag muag es luag thiaj take advantage of yus os. This is a lesson learned hard. But yog kev kawm kom yus ntse zog mog. Tus neeg dag noj dag haus mus tsis txog twg. Nws ua neej nrog txojkev iab siab mus tag ib sim os. Continue being who you are, but love yourself, be kind to yourself. Take care & lots of hugs to you.
Because of stories like this, I learn to protect my hard earn money and choose to not be dating or get marry anymore. I give and spend my money only for the children. I don't trust anyone. Thanks for sharing your story for better awareness.
Sister, making mistakes is essential for personal growth. Embracing errors cultivates a growth mindset, encouraging innovation and creativity. It's through mistakes that we discover our strengths, weaknesses, and ultimately, our true potential. Life's journey is enriched by the wisdom gained from our experiences.
I’m sorry sister. Just consider lessons learned, it was a high price to pay not once but twice. When someone loves and respect you, they don’t treat you like that. I know this because I was once in your shoes and looking for love in all the wrong places and for the wrong reason. I remembered from one of the guy that I was seeing once told me that “never settle for less always settle for more”. I woke up and realized that I have done so much for him and yet I got nothing in return other than making me sick to my stomach. I finally let him go years ago and now I found the love of my life and have been married for 2 years! May you find happiness in the future! Happy new year!❤❤
Wow. The second guy did you hella dirty!!!! How sad! I can tell you have a good heart and that’s why you keep getting into these trashy situations. Don’t beat yourself up too much. You’re not alone, I’m sure there’s many people out there that has been played (not just Hmong) take it as a lesson learned. *Good luck*
Sister you already fell for the first scumbag, should’ve learned. I’m sorry this happened to you, guess ❤️ blinded you. Pick yourself up, stand tall and proud. You’re a strong independent person, what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger.
I feel you sister, I went through a similar situation like you as well once. It's a life lesson to learn. Be very strong minded and choose yourself, love yourself. Move on. Sometimes being single is better. Less stress and no conflicts.
You should have put a lan on their house so when they try to sell the house they will make them pay for you. Hopefully you will learn next time if anyone owes you money you put a lan on any property they own
I'm celebrating a $30k stock portfolio today, started this journey with 6k. I have invested on time and also with the right terms now I have time for my family and the life ahead of me
I know Mr Larry Marshall. He obviously brings a lot of experience in trading to the table but more importantly I think his is a tough person in an industry that....
Txawm peb ua poj nrauj los txhob lam siv rau txiv neej yog luag hlub koj tiag luag yeej g taij koj tej nyiaj li no. Yog tus txiv neej twg tham yus es thov nyiaj li no g yog luag hlub yus os. Peb txhua2 tus poj nrauj yeej paub zoo tias tham hluas nraug txhua yam yuav tsum yog tus txiv neej siv nyiaj rau yus tag nro. Puam chawj mas twb dhau mus lm ces hlawv xyhab hlawv ntawv kom ib hnub twg nws tau txais txoj kev npam xwb.😢😢😢
Here are some tips for you sister! 0: Do not trust anyone 1: Do not share accounts 2: Be very reserved 3: No cash loan ever! contracts for every loan 4 prenuptial agreement is a must if u have money and properties!
Keep on moving forward people come to our lives as a blessing or lesson. Keep loving yourself. I pray for great blessing to you sister… only ones who’ve gone through similar situation understands.. sending you love!
Viv ncaus aw!!! Kuv twb yog ib tus poj nrauj thiab tab sis kuv tsis kam txais nyiaj rau ib tug txiv neej twg li nawb …. Koj twb pom tias nws muaj nyiaj 401 K ntau ntau cas koj ho tsis kom nws mus tsho nws cov nyiaj 401K coj los remodel nws lub tsev naj???? Txawm nws tsis muaj cov nyiaj ntawd los nws mam li mus txais tom tej Banks xwb los maj…. Kuv tus no tsis lam tau lam txais yus tej nyiaj rau tej niag hmoob dab hmoob tsi ntawd li os
Oh, good story to learn. Life Style, Compatibility, Respect, and Honesty. How can these fit together in a world so full of shadows and doubt. Somehow, the real inner essence of life needs to actualize because without some decent quantity of it, honesty cannot form. Unfortunately, most never give enough time to think about what is really most important to them, and thus fall short of what true Care is. Learn, think, lean and think more - it is how goodness transpires. (And sorry, I have been stuck on a loop and lost track of time, lol)
Ua tsaug rua mej cov has neej neeg ua rua tug txiv tso kuv tseg lawm l os kuv ua ib sab tsi ca sab has tas yuav yuav txiv lawm tub yog tsi muaj txiv zoo lawm
You are not alone sister! I am going through the same road. This is my second husband and the 1st used me and my family and now the 2nd one is using me as well. But ita okay. Keep on moving forward. There's better new days for you and me.
Tsis txhob tu siab mog mam nrhiav tus hlub tiag os vim peb cov poj niam lam yog poj nrauj los lub siab muag siab zoo ces luag dag yus xwb los tsis paub li os viv ncaus aw tsis yog koj ib leeg os kuv kuj ntsib dua lawm thiab os
@bchang227 we thought grass is greener on the other side but 90% of the times is not true. Peb ua neej nyob ces yeej tsis perfect. Thaum txiv kub lawm ces niam yuav tau txias. Txhob xav tias yus tus tsis hlub yus ces yuav nrauj mus nrhiav tus tshiab. Xab maim no neeg ua show ntxias peb qhov muag lawm xwb. You don't know what's behind their close door. Just be happy for what you have
You are a single mom, never offer to pay someone’s debt or give your money to them. When you need financial help they are not going to give it back to you or offer to do the something. Just tell them you’re sorry you can’t help them and that’s it. If they are going to make you feel bad, then they are not the right man for you.
Its not because you are stupid, its because you know how to get out of shitty situation and you gave faith and chances to people to survive their situation... its ok, if those 2 guys had wrong you..i bet you are now 10times smarter and can over come any situation but will those 2 ? Its better to be wrong with a kind heart.....
Hau yau cas txhua tus txiv neej ua yawg nrauj mas yeej yog poj niam deev hluas nraug xwb tiag..dag tshaj plaws... Txiv neej ua 100 zaus los ok hos poj niam ua 1 zaug ces txhaum tib nkaus hauv dab teb li os lawv aw
Tus mi Viv ncaus aw koj ib leeg tsis yog Tus raug dag xwb os peb cov siab zoo ntshaw ib tug txiv zoo no ces yeej raug dag ib yam os nawb txhob tu siab os lov tig hlub yus tus kheej xwb zoo dua os mog
Tu me vivncaus kuv twb yuam kev li koj no lo law thiab txoj yuam kev no g tim yog u txoj hmos nawb tsuas yog u tej vij sub vij sws nyav heev e lawv lo sau mu kom tas e kom koj lub neej yav pem suab no tsua muaj lawm xwb nawb,
Sister, kam Liam os xav tias koj tej zaum koj tshuav nkawv nqi xwb no os, qhov phem dhau mus lawm ces qhov zoo yuav los rau koj os. Txhob rwam twg kev cia siab rau lub neej os.
Lub neej mus tsis taus ua ke koj txawm ua poj nrauj lo yeej tsis txhau leej twg li tsis tim koj ruam tab sis koj yuav tau xyuam xim yuav tham leej twg lo ua zoo saib xwb....tu txiv neej es tuaj tham koj nws quas nws zoo lo yuav tsum ceev faj....tu es nws hais tias tim 2 leeg lo koj yuav tau ceev faj.....tu ua nws hais tias tim nws xwb lo ceev faj nawb
Tus sister pab koj chim tiag tiag li thaub dag koj no ces yeej yuav npam nws xwb koj xav tias nws tsis them koj los nws yeej tsis tau zoo neeg ua thiaj tsis ua rau koj mob nawb mog.
Sister ua tsis tau li cas lawm es txhob chim2 os. Tos kuv ho ua ib siab ua poj ntsuam los tsis muaj ib tug zoo txiv out there lawm es muab daim ntawv poj ntsuam no ua kom txog hnub tuag xwb os
Yuav tsum tawm rooj me ntsi mus saib lub ntiag teb,muab pob nteg mus mloog thiab es kom thoob tsib to nrag,kom paub tias ntiaj teb no cov neeg siab phem coob tshaj cov neeg siab zoo.mus kom paub ceev faj rau yus tug kheej
Sister, you’re not stupid. You’re just way too nice and fell into people’s way too quick xwb. I totally understand you. U tsis muaj lub siab phem ces u xav hais tias lawv yuav siab tsis phem rau u thiab xwb. U tus husband kiag twb cheat tau u so anyone else ces lawv yeej cheat/dag tau u ib yam li thiab. Lesson learned and you’ll be smarter from now going forward. Cov nyiaj lawv dag tau mus lawm los lawv yeej tsis muaj os. Koj ces tseem yuav khwv tau ntau tshaj tom ntej no ntxiv.
There’s not much good husband around anymore, you can either find a txiv tsev or a txiv dev only. Don’t feel bad, it’s just lesson learnt and made you smarter. Good luck to you.
Yog koj yuav tham ib tug yawg nrauj...yawg ntsuag lo xij koj txhob nug tu txheeb ze ntawm nws xub ntiag...tu ze ze lawv tsis qhia qhov tseeb rau koj...yuav tsum nug tej zej zog es paub nws lub qe xwb....koj nug lawv nkauj muam...tij laug mas lawv tsis qhia qhov phem rau koj txawm yog koj lo yeej tsis qhia tej kev phem ib yam thiab
Viv ncau aw, tsis yog koj ib leeg thiaj li raug dag xwb os. Yeej yog li koj hais lawm tiam no cov yawg nrauj no tsis zoo yuav lawm, Lawv los ntxia yus nyiaj siv tas ces lawv cia li khiav lawm xwb tiag. Yus yeej hais tsis tau nyiaj rov qab los li lawm os.
Sister txhob feel bad os kuv twb mag ob peb tug txiv dev dag poob nyiaj ntau kawg thiab os! Yeej chim siab kawg os tabsis txhob tag kev cia siab mog txawm poob tag los mam khwv dua koj twb hlawv xyab ntawv ntau ces tsis npam ib hnub los yeej npam ib hnub xwb mas es txij no mus ntse zog txhob muab nyiaj yooj yim lawm txhob hlub hlub neeg yuav txais abtsi los need paper or tsis li ces ua tus tsis muaj kiag xwb! Kuv raug neeg kaus ntau tus kuv chim siab dhau ces ua thaj no lawm xwb! Tsis muaj txais os koj need mus tom bank tsis li ces kuv tsuas muaj npaum no pab koj xwb!!
koj siab zoo zoo li ces cia kuv mam tuaj ua tus thib 3 dag koj. Zau no mas kuv yuav dag kom tau tsib caug txhiab ntawm koj kiag ntag nawb. Kuv nab tuaj nrog koj tas ces koj kawm tiav college lawm lau. Kuv twb paub koj yog leej twg lawm es kuv mam li nrhiav koj tus xov tooj. Hnub puas tom ntej no ces kuv yuav hu koj nawb es make sure koj teb kuv nawb.
Kuv xav mas koj cov lus koj hais ko mas kuv ntseeg tsis tas vim koj nyiam tham hom txiv neej uas hais lus ya222 khav22theeb xwb txawm koj mus yuav mekas los tau tib hom txiv qub xwb mas nawv
Ua zoo saib os peb cov nkauj nrab vim tam sim no neeg lub siab phem2 kawg li tsis yog koj ruam os sis..tabsi vim koj lub siab muag siab zoo dhau xwb li cas los txhob tusiab tom ntej no ua zoo saib nawd mog
Viv ncaus… txhob tu siab nawb mog. Koj twb kawm Tiav daim ntawv txiv neej tsis qhia siab lawm… txivneej Hmoob, cov siab zoo2 tseem muaj coob os. Koj nrhiav tsis tau2 nws xwb. Thov Vaj Tswv Yawm Saub foom koob nchuav Hmoob rau koj kom tus neeg hlub tseeb los nrhiav tau koj nawb. Be an FBI, Investigate him, live with him, get to know him and get to know his side of the family. Give yourself approximately 2 years with him first, tsis work out, let him go… work out, and if he is a keeper, mam li yuav tsis lig. Kuv kuj kawm tiav lawm thiab. Bless your heart and take care of yourself! ❤️🩹❤️🩹
The person who did wrong to you or took advantage of you. They don't have a good life because deep down they will always felt some quilt for what they did. Don't trust people easly. Hopefully, those who took advantage of you karma will catch up to them very soon. Noj koj cov nyiaj tag lawm mas yeej yuau tsis mauj cov zoo rau nws os tu sister.
Cov txiv tsev zoo li ko ces yog txiv dev xwb. Yog nej tseem yuav thiab ces ruam xwb os. Yog cov zoo txiv tsev li kuv paub thiab pom mas nws yuav tsum ua hauj lwm company khov kho tsi zoo li kuv koj psub ko
Modern era for all Western men and women: Modern women "strong independent feminists." Modern men "Passport Bros and MGTOW" The nuclear family is dead.
Tus viv ncaus aw yog vim li cas koj twb raug ib tug dag tag lawm los koj tseem tsis zeem thiab koj tseem rog ntseeg dua yawg nrauj lim xav noj luag teej luag li ko rov dag tau koj zaum ob tseem poob nyiaj ntau tshaj li thauj zaug li niag yawg laib hluas qab choj ntawv dag thiab na los lub neej no tsis muaj txiv los pab koj tej niam tub los koj twb muaj koj pob nyiaj los ua koj tus txiv lawm koj pob nyiaj pab tau koj txhua yam lawm tsis txhob ntshaw2 cov niag yawg laib dev qab choj ntawv los tua koj lub siab ma koj muaj nyiaj ua li cas koj tsis tseg txhawb koj tug me nyuam yuav mus kawm ntawv qib siab rov tom ntej ma lov tsis tau niag qau qias neeg niag qau xyob txhiaj ntawv los peb yeej tsis tuag tsis ntshaw li os koj yim mus thab tej niag txiv dev qab choj ntawv ces koj yuav nyuaj siab mob siab rau koj tej nyiaj uas koj muab rau cov niag txiv dev noj tag tsis muaj nuj nqis muaj npaum li cas los cia koj tej niam tub siv xwb thiaj li tsis mob siab nawb
Tus me viv ncaus ,txawm tias thaub ntawd tsis kam them koj qhov nyiaj rau koj los xij peem muab xav tias yog raug dag lawm Xwb ,twb tsis yog nws mus nyiag ,yeej yog koj txaus siab muab rau lawm ces yuav tau kav liam Xwb yog nws tsis them los koj yeej hais tsis tau nawb ,cia lub ntuj mam li qhia Xwb ces nws yeej yuav paub ib hnub Xwb nawb !!
qhov ko tsi yog koj ruam os yog koj muaj kev npam kev khaum loj dhau lawm xab os niam tai poj nrauj aw koj twb them ta koj tej kev npam kev khaum ko lawm ce yav nov mu nyiaj koj tsi npam ntxiv lawm lauv 😆😆😆😆😆
Peb cov tub/ntxhais Hmoob nyob rau lub teb chaws Mes-kas no na... don't be so dumb to believe a divorcee (man/woman) so easily. You have so many relatives around that will know about the rotten egg of a divorcee. Find out everything about his/her background before marrying him/her so you won't regret later.
Ruam los kuj yog Ruam nyog ib zaug xwb zoo nkaus li tias koj pluag2 txiv neej kawg nkaus as los pes tau tias koj xav tias koj muaj2 nyiaj es koj muab nyiaj yuav kev hlub ces tau kev npam lawm laus me nyuam ntxhais hmoob ruam koj mas thiaj li txawj ntsaw txiv tiag li os yod koj puas paub tias cov txiv neej hmoob no yog ib tug txiv na txom fav es hnov luag qoob siav es yuav mus noj thaj qoob ntawd xwb hlwb tsawg kawg li os koj na
Sorry for your romance scam and hope that you won't make the same mistake for a third time and do not make any decisions when you are very happy or upset.
Oh yo tus viv ncaus aw…. Koj es Koj twb 40 xyoo Koj tseem ruam li ruam es tseem cia lawv muab Koj kaus li ko thiab! Koj yuav tsum paub hais tias yog ib tug txiv lawv hlub Koj tiag they will never ask any money from you. If a man really love you he will ask you that he will give you money to spend , but if a man ask you for money that is not a good man or a good husband.
I believe you should give urself time before committing to someone. I believe that’s the mistake you made. Moving too fast in a relationship is very fishy. It’s okay u lost 30k to those JackAss. It’s a lot of money…but remember that before giving money to help the person u loved..always question urself that what if u won’t ever get it back…can u accept letting the money go and be a lost to you?? If it’s a yes, then go ahead and give it knowing u won’t regret losing it one day. These days…men just wants sex and money….as a woman…as u get older…just be very careful and cautious. They sweet talk at first and then seduce u for sex…once they can read you…they will lock u in to make u feel stuck…then use u. Glad the stress is over for u.
Ur generalization that all divorced men r no good is wrong. Sure, most may be leeches, but there r good ones out there. For some women, whether they r smart r not, they don have a choice but to divorce, so ur advice to dont divorce if a woman is not smart is way wrong too.
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Tsis txhob qaug zog mog tus sister. Vim yog yus lub siab zoo zoo, siab muag muag es luag thiaj take advantage of yus os. This is a lesson learned hard. But yog kev kawm kom yus ntse zog mog. Tus neeg dag noj dag haus mus tsis txog twg. Nws ua neej nrog txojkev iab siab mus tag ib sim os. Continue being who you are, but love yourself, be kind to yourself. Take care & lots of hugs to you.
Thanks for sharing the experience is a great lesson for women to watch out for. Wish you the best one day Mr. Right will come.
Because of stories like this, I learn to protect my hard earn money and choose to not be dating or get marry anymore. I give and spend my money only for the children. I don't trust anyone. Thanks for sharing your story for better awareness.
Sister, making mistakes is essential for personal growth. Embracing errors cultivates a growth mindset, encouraging innovation and creativity. It's through mistakes that we discover our strengths, weaknesses, and ultimately, our true potential. Life's journey is enriched by the wisdom gained from our experiences.
Yes agree 100% with you!
Lesson learned. Don’t ever ask close relatives about lawv lub qes tsws lwj cause they will never going to tell you the truth!
I’m sorry sister. Just consider lessons learned, it was a high price to pay not once but twice. When someone loves and respect you, they don’t treat you like that. I know this because I was once in your shoes and looking for love in all the wrong places and for the wrong reason. I remembered from one of the guy that I was seeing once told me that “never settle for less always settle for more”. I woke up and realized that I have done so much for him and yet I got nothing in return other than making me sick to my stomach. I finally let him go years ago and now I found the love of my life and have been married for 2 years!
May you find happiness in the future! Happy new year!❤❤
Wow. The second guy did you hella dirty!!!! How sad! I can tell you have a good heart and that’s why you keep getting into these trashy situations. Don’t beat yourself up too much. You’re not alone, I’m sure there’s many people out there that has been played (not just Hmong) take it as a lesson learned. *Good luck*
Sister you already fell for the first scumbag, should’ve learned. I’m sorry this happened to you, guess ❤️ blinded you. Pick yourself up, stand tall and proud. You’re a strong independent person, what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger.
I feel you sister, I went through a similar situation like you as well once. It's a life lesson to learn. Be very strong minded and choose yourself, love yourself. Move on. Sometimes being single is better. Less stress and no conflicts.
Jenny,
Love the sound of the rain in the background.
I think the second one was sent from the first guy. You will overcome these situation...
Tus sister txhob tu siab,tsis yog koj tsis ntse os..koj siab zoo zoo hlub hlub cov neeg txom nyem....thiab koj ua hauj lwm tau nyiaj ntau es koj thiaj muab nyiaj siv yoom yim xwb.
You should have put a lan on their house so when they try to sell the house they will make them pay for you. Hopefully you will learn next time if anyone owes you money you put a lan on any property they own
I'm celebrating a $30k stock portfolio today, started this journey with 6k. I have invested on time and also with the right terms now I have time for my family and the life ahead of me
I know Mr Larry Marshall. He obviously brings a lot of experience in trading to the table but more importantly I think his is a tough person in an industry that....
I'm surprised that this name is being mentioned here, I stumbled upon one of he's clients testimony on CNBC news last week
This must be an investment with Mr Larry Marshall
Investing and trading now will be the wisest thing to do especially with the current economic fluctuation and inflations
Well I engage in various prolific by compound interest & leveraging this sounds more interesting
Nej ib txim tsi tau txais txoj kev hlub es nej ntshaw2 kev hlub nej thiaj li ua yuav kev tshuav li xwb os lawv.
Txawm peb ua poj nrauj los txhob lam siv rau txiv neej yog luag hlub koj tiag luag yeej g taij koj tej nyiaj li no. Yog tus txiv neej twg tham yus es thov nyiaj li no g yog luag hlub yus os. Peb txhua2 tus poj nrauj yeej paub zoo tias tham hluas nraug txhua yam yuav tsum yog tus txiv neej siv nyiaj rau yus tag nro. Puam chawj mas twb dhau mus lm ces hlawv xyhab hlawv ntawv kom ib hnub twg nws tau txais txoj kev npam xwb.😢😢😢
Here are some tips for you sister!
0: Do not trust anyone
1: Do not share accounts
2: Be very reserved
3: No cash loan ever! contracts for every loan
4 prenuptial agreement is a must if u have money and properties!
Keep on moving forward people come to our lives as a blessing or lesson. Keep loving yourself. I pray for great blessing to you sister… only ones who’ve gone through similar situation understands.. sending you love!
It’s ok sister. You do good and good thing will happen to you one day. Bad people will get their karma one day.
Viv ncaus aw!!! Kuv twb yog ib tus poj nrauj thiab tab sis kuv tsis kam txais nyiaj rau ib tug txiv neej twg li nawb …. Koj twb pom tias nws muaj nyiaj 401 K ntau ntau cas koj ho tsis kom nws mus tsho nws cov nyiaj 401K coj los remodel nws lub tsev naj???? Txawm nws tsis muaj cov nyiaj ntawd los nws mam li mus txais tom tej Banks xwb los maj…. Kuv tus no tsis lam tau lam txais yus tej nyiaj rau tej niag hmoob dab hmoob tsi ntawd li os
50 xyoo tseem raug poj niam tso tseg ces txaus ntshai nawb.....xyov zoo li cas lawm poj niam thiaj li muab tso tseg
Txhob tu siab o viv ncaus aw!! Kuv twb mag ib yam li thiab o tsis yog tim koj o yog tim tus neeg ntawv nws lub siab phem xwb o
Oh, good story to learn. Life Style, Compatibility, Respect, and Honesty. How can these fit together in a world so full of shadows and doubt. Somehow, the real inner essence of life needs to actualize because without some decent quantity of it, honesty cannot form. Unfortunately, most never give enough time to think about what is really most important to them, and thus fall short of what true Care is.
Learn, think, lean and think more - it is how goodness transpires.
(And sorry, I have been stuck on a loop and lost track of time, lol)
Ua tsaug rua mej cov has neej neeg ua rua tug txiv tso kuv tseg lawm l os kuv ua ib sab tsi ca sab has tas yuav yuav txiv lawm tub yog tsi muaj txiv zoo lawm
You are not alone sister! I am going through the same road. This is my second husband and the 1st used me and my family and now the 2nd one is using me as well. But ita okay. Keep on moving forward. There's better new days for you and me.
Tsis txhob tu siab mog mam nrhiav tus hlub tiag os vim peb cov poj niam lam yog poj nrauj los lub siab muag siab zoo ces luag dag yus xwb los tsis paub li os viv ncaus aw tsis yog koj ib leeg os kuv kuj ntsib dua lawm thiab os
Txhob tu2 siab os mog nws ua phem rau kj los cia vaj tswv mam rau txim rau nws xwb mog
Xab maim no tsis muaj txiv zoo lawm os. Yog cov tseem muaj txij nkawv cas lam sib uv nyob nawb. In our community now, there are too many hungry dev
Poj nrauj zoo nkauj muaj coob muaj ntau, yawg nrauj zoo nraug los coob li coob. Yog lawv zoo zoo no lawv twb mus muaj ntxij muaj nkawm los lawm ntev! Yog yus tus hlub tsis ua hluas, muab yus tsuj, muab yus ntau ces nyob twb ywm xwb txhob mus ntxiv lawv. Cov zoo ua ntxij nkawm tsis muaj ntau lawm os. Tsawg tsawg lawm xwb.
@bchang227 we thought grass is greener on the other side but 90% of the times is not true. Peb ua neej nyob ces yeej tsis perfect. Thaum txiv kub lawm ces niam yuav tau txias. Txhob xav tias yus tus tsis hlub yus ces yuav nrauj mus nrhiav tus tshiab. Xab maim no neeg ua show ntxias peb qhov muag lawm xwb. You don't know what's behind their close door. Just be happy for what you have
You are a single mom, never offer to pay someone’s debt or give your money to them. When you need financial help they are not going to give it back to you or offer to do the something. Just tell them you’re sorry you can’t help them and that’s it. If they are going to make you feel bad, then they are not the right man for you.
Agreed
Love makes people blind, no matter how much common sense you have.
Its not because you are stupid, its because you know how to get out of shitty situation and you gave faith and chances to people to survive their situation... its ok, if those 2 guys had wrong you..i bet you are now 10times smarter and can over come any situation but will those 2 ? Its better to be wrong with a kind heart.....
Viv ncaus koj mas ntseeg cov niag yawg nrauj tam sim no ua luaj li nas 😅
Kuv xav mas thiam no cov nkauj nrab yooj yim dau lawm os cov muam aw…😊😢
txiv neej ces tsi muaj tus zoo li lawm mog tsi muaj txiv los yeej tsi ua ca li
Viv ncaus mas ntseeg txiv neej dhau lawm os yom 😅
Hau yau cas txhua tus txiv neej ua yawg nrauj mas yeej yog poj niam deev hluas nraug xwb tiag..dag tshaj plaws...
Txiv neej ua 100 zaus los ok hos poj niam ua 1 zaug ces txhaum tib nkaus hauv dab teb li os lawv aw
Tus mi Viv ncaus aw koj ib leeg tsis yog Tus raug dag xwb os peb cov siab zoo ntshaw ib tug txiv zoo no ces yeej raug dag ib yam os nawb txhob tu siab os lov tig hlub yus tus kheej xwb zoo dua os mog
Tu me vivncaus kuv twb yuam kev li koj no lo law thiab txoj yuam kev no g tim yog u txoj hmos nawb tsuas yog u tej vij sub vij sws nyav heev e lawv lo sau mu kom tas e kom koj lub neej yav pem suab no tsua muaj lawm xwb nawb,
Txob ua neeg siab zoo txob ua tus nyiam lawv tshaj lawv nyiam koj mog, nco ntsoov thias nyiaj nyob ntawv yus thes yog yug tsis zoo siab muab lawv yuam tsis tau yus. Xaij maim no neeg sib tham dag noj dag haus lawv xwb os mog. Koj kawm thiab ib qib lawm yav nov lawv tov nco ntsoov txob ua neeg siab zoo lawm vim nyiaj khwv nyuaj2 li.
Sister, kam Liam os xav tias koj tej zaum koj tshuav nkawv nqi xwb no os, qhov phem dhau mus lawm ces qhov zoo yuav los rau koj os. Txhob rwam twg kev cia siab rau lub neej os.
Lub neej mus tsis taus ua ke koj txawm ua poj nrauj lo yeej tsis txhau leej twg li tsis tim koj ruam tab sis koj yuav tau xyuam xim yuav tham leej twg lo ua zoo saib xwb....tu txiv neej es tuaj tham koj nws quas nws zoo lo yuav tsum ceev faj....tu es nws hais tias tim 2 leeg lo koj yuav tau ceev faj.....tu ua nws hais tias tim nws xwb lo ceev faj nawb
Sister peb yuav tsum ua poj nrauj kaus txiv neej xwb es tsis txhob ua poob peev nawb , tsis txhob ua neeg siab dawb ntxiv lawm nawb.😢😢
Tus sister pab koj chim tiag tiag li thaub dag koj no ces yeej yuav npam nws xwb koj xav tias nws tsis them koj los nws yeej tsis tau zoo neeg ua thiaj tsis ua rau koj mob nawb mog.
Sister ua tsis tau li cas lawm es txhob chim2 os. Tos kuv ho ua ib siab ua poj ntsuam los tsis muaj ib tug zoo txiv out there lawm es muab daim ntawv poj ntsuam no ua kom txog hnub tuag xwb os
Yuav tsum tawm rooj me ntsi mus saib lub ntiag teb,muab pob nteg mus mloog thiab es kom thoob tsib to nrag,kom paub tias ntiaj teb no cov neeg siab phem coob tshaj cov neeg siab zoo.mus kom paub ceev faj rau yus tug kheej
Koj twb qhia lub ntuj tag lawm ces yuav li ntawv xwb....yuav tsis npam hnub no lo yog tag kis...tswv ntuj tseem ua line lo tsis tau txog nws xwb..
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It’s OK sister rather sooner than later. You deserve better.
Sister, you’re not stupid. You’re just way too nice and fell into people’s way too quick xwb. I totally understand you. U tsis muaj lub siab phem ces u xav hais tias lawv yuav siab tsis phem rau u thiab xwb. U tus husband kiag twb cheat tau u so anyone else ces lawv yeej cheat/dag tau u ib yam li thiab. Lesson learned and you’ll be smarter from now going forward. Cov nyiaj lawv dag tau mus lawm los lawv yeej tsis muaj os. Koj ces tseem yuav khwv tau ntau tshaj tom ntej no ntxiv.
There’s not much good husband around anymore, you can either find a txiv tsev or a txiv dev only. Don’t feel bad, it’s just lesson learnt and made you smarter. Good luck to you.
Yog koj yuav tham ib tug yawg nrauj...yawg ntsuag lo xij koj txhob nug tu txheeb ze ntawm nws xub ntiag...tu ze ze lawv tsis qhia qhov tseeb rau koj...yuav tsum nug tej zej zog es paub nws lub qe xwb....koj nug lawv nkauj muam...tij laug mas lawv tsis qhia qhov phem rau koj txawm yog koj lo yeej tsis qhia tej kev phem ib yam thiab
Viv ncau aw, tsis yog koj ib leeg thiaj li raug dag xwb os. Yeej yog li koj hais lawm tiam no cov yawg nrauj no tsis zoo yuav lawm, Lawv los ntxia yus nyiaj siv tas ces lawv cia li khiav lawm xwb tiag. Yus yeej hais tsis tau nyiaj rov qab los li lawm os.
Sister txhob feel bad os kuv twb mag ob peb tug txiv dev dag poob nyiaj ntau kawg thiab os! Yeej chim siab kawg os tabsis txhob tag kev cia siab mog txawm poob tag los mam khwv dua koj twb hlawv xyab ntawv ntau ces tsis npam ib hnub los yeej npam ib hnub xwb mas es txij no mus ntse zog txhob muab nyiaj yooj yim lawm txhob hlub hlub neeg yuav txais abtsi los need paper or tsis li ces ua tus tsis muaj kiag xwb! Kuv raug neeg kaus ntau tus kuv chim siab dhau ces ua thaj no lawm xwb! Tsis muaj txais os koj need mus tom bank tsis li ces kuv tsuas muaj npaum no pab koj xwb!!
Should had learned from first mistake, dont involved relationship with money.
Never asked a man's friends and family about them. Don't asked they're enemies either. Asked the outsider peoplr that will not take sides.
Uas liscas yov hais tias tsis ntses xob uas pojnrauj nas??? Yeej tsis muaj leejtwg xav uas nas!! Kawg tsisxav los uas tsis taus liscas lm ces, kawg yov taus uas xwb2 losmas!! Qhov tseemceeb ces ceevfaj, thb xob yooj2 yim, xob ruam2 xwb losmas cov vivncaus aws.
xob nug lawv tug muam nam txiv ib plaab has ma puab yeej yuav nplog lawv tug nug lub qai xwb nug lwm tug saab ntsau mas tha yug txawm qha tsw taag los yeej qha miv ntswv xob rua2
Peb muaj 1tug ntxhais nkauj nrab mus yuav tug yawg nrauj. Nws muab $20,000 qiv rau lawv tus muam. 2 xyoos nkaws sib nrauj. Tus muam yeej tsis them los tau 7-8 lub xyoo no. Nej cov nkauj nrab txhob ruam2 thiab nawb mog.
Txhais tias yog ntse txaus ces caw los ua poj nrauj.
koj siab zoo zoo li ces cia kuv mam tuaj ua tus thib 3 dag koj. Zau no mas kuv yuav dag kom tau tsib caug txhiab ntawm koj kiag ntag nawb. Kuv nab tuaj nrog koj tas ces koj kawm tiav college lawm lau. Kuv twb paub koj yog leej twg lawm es kuv mam li nrhiav koj tus xov tooj. Hnub puas tom ntej no ces kuv yuav hu koj nawb es make sure koj teb kuv nawb.
Kuv xav mas koj cov lus koj hais ko mas kuv ntseeg tsis tas vim koj nyiam tham hom txiv neej uas hais lus ya222 khav22theeb xwb txawm koj mus yuav mekas los tau tib hom txiv qub xwb mas nawv
Ua zoo saib os peb cov nkauj nrab vim tam sim no neeg lub siab phem2 kawg li tsis yog koj ruam os sis..tabsi vim koj lub siab muag siab zoo dhau xwb li cas los txhob tusiab tom ntej no ua zoo saib nawd mog
Mloogs koj cov lus tas yog tim koj lawm because look like you never learn.
cas kv mloog kj zaj no xwb kv cia ntshai txiv neej lawm thiab os vim kv lub hnub nyoog 1 yam koj thiab os
Txhob ruam2 muaj nyiaj rau lawv lawm nawj.... Yuav yam twg mas ua yus npe xwb ....txhob ua lawv npe os mog
Viv ncaus… txhob tu siab nawb mog. Koj twb kawm
Tiav daim ntawv txiv neej tsis qhia siab lawm… txivneej Hmoob, cov siab zoo2 tseem muaj coob os. Koj nrhiav tsis tau2 nws xwb.
Thov Vaj Tswv Yawm Saub foom koob nchuav Hmoob rau koj kom tus neeg hlub tseeb los nrhiav tau koj nawb. Be an FBI, Investigate him, live with him, get to know him and get to know his side of the family. Give yourself approximately 2 years with him first, tsis work out, let him go… work out, and if he is a keeper, mam li yuav tsis lig. Kuv kuj kawm tiav lawm thiab.
Bless your heart and take care of yourself!
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The person who did wrong to you or took advantage of you. They don't have a good life because deep down they will always felt some quilt for what they did. Don't trust people easly. Hopefully, those who took advantage of you karma will catch up to them very soon. Noj koj cov nyiaj tag lawm mas yeej yuau tsis mauj cov zoo rau nws os tu sister.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob coob2 tus mas raug cov niag nraug nrab nraug laus cov niag txiv dev tuag tshaib no kaus nyiaj noj kaus nyiaj siv thiab tseem los siv lawv lub chaw nyob tib si los vim peb cov poj niam hmoob ruam tsis muaj kev kawm tsis paub tab txaus thiab tseeg neeg yuam kev dhau thiaj yuam kev loj li no.
Cov txiv tsev zoo li ko ces yog txiv dev xwb. Yog nej tseem yuav thiab ces ruam xwb os. Yog cov zoo txiv tsev li kuv paub thiab pom mas nws yuav tsum ua hauj lwm company khov kho tsi zoo li kuv koj psub ko
umm ua cas kuv tham poj ntsau kuv poob xwb
Tseem yg poj nrauj ntse ntse es lawv thj tss xav yv ntag.
Fool you once, shame on him. Fool you twice, shame on you!
Fool you *thrice* Go eat *rice.*
Modern era for all Western men and women:
Modern women "strong independent feminists."
Modern men "Passport Bros and MGTOW"
The nuclear family is dead.
😂😂😂Easy money and easy pim!!!😂😂😂
Tus viv ncaus aw yog vim li cas koj twb raug ib tug dag tag lawm los koj tseem tsis zeem thiab koj tseem rog ntseeg dua yawg nrauj lim xav noj luag teej luag li ko rov dag tau koj zaum ob tseem poob nyiaj ntau tshaj li thauj zaug li niag yawg laib hluas qab choj ntawv dag thiab na los lub neej no tsis muaj txiv los pab koj tej niam tub los koj twb muaj koj pob nyiaj los ua koj tus txiv lawm koj pob nyiaj pab tau koj txhua yam lawm tsis txhob ntshaw2 cov niag yawg laib dev qab choj ntawv los tua koj lub siab ma koj muaj nyiaj ua li cas koj tsis tseg txhawb koj tug me nyuam yuav mus kawm ntawv qib siab rov tom ntej ma lov tsis tau niag qau qias neeg niag qau xyob txhiaj ntawv los peb yeej tsis tuag tsis ntshaw li os koj yim mus thab tej niag txiv dev qab choj ntawv ces koj yuav nyuaj siab mob siab rau koj tej nyiaj uas koj muab rau cov niag txiv dev noj tag tsis muaj nuj nqis muaj npaum li cas los cia koj tej niam tub siv xwb thiaj li tsis mob siab nawb
Poob nyiaj xwb txob nkauv xim mog nyiaj xwb koj twb taus hauj Lwm zoo zoo maj mam tseg tsis ntev xwb koj $20,000 Los lawm mas
Tus me viv ncaus ,txawm tias thaub ntawd tsis kam them koj qhov nyiaj rau koj los xij peem muab xav tias yog raug dag lawm Xwb ,twb tsis yog nws mus nyiag ,yeej yog koj txaus siab muab rau lawm ces yuav tau kav liam Xwb yog nws tsis them los koj yeej hais tsis tau nawb ,cia lub ntuj mam li qhia Xwb ces nws yeej yuav paub ib hnub Xwb nawb !!
Sister, u should Len your 25k to his house so when he sale the house the title company will make a check directly to you!!
Don't always believe its the wife's fault. I'm sure he has his own fault too.
Sister i hope you learned from this.
qhov ko tsi yog koj ruam os yog koj muaj kev npam kev khaum loj dhau lawm xab os niam tai poj nrauj aw koj twb them ta koj tej kev npam kev khaum ko lawm ce yav nov mu nyiaj koj tsi npam ntxiv lawm lauv 😆😆😆😆😆
Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj ces phem sib phim xwb nawb lawv aw....
This is why I don't remarried. Too many assholes out there. Majority good ones are taken.
All I go say it your fault for be dumb n give $ to those guys..guys in the new generation just use you for $ seriously
Peb cov tub/ntxhais Hmoob nyob rau lub teb chaws Mes-kas no na... don't be so dumb to believe a divorcee (man/woman) so easily. You have so many relatives around that will know about the rotten egg of a divorcee. Find out everything about his/her background before marrying him/her so you won't regret later.
Why are you giving these men money? I don't get it.
Don't pick up stray dogs. Homeless users. Dogs with no owners
You're not stupid..you're just very naive.
Make them pay with their weed money!!
good idea to marry different raise sister
To the sister that send in the story pls don’t fall for those romance scammer like you see on catfish show
Ruam los kuj yog Ruam nyog ib zaug xwb zoo nkaus li tias koj pluag2 txiv neej kawg nkaus as los pes tau tias koj xav tias koj muaj2 nyiaj es koj muab nyiaj yuav kev hlub ces tau kev npam lawm laus me nyuam ntxhais hmoob ruam koj mas thiaj li txawj ntsaw txiv tiag li os yod koj puas paub tias cov txiv neej hmoob no yog ib tug txiv na txom fav es hnov luag qoob siav es yuav mus noj thaj qoob ntawd xwb hlwb tsawg kawg li os koj na
Tus viv xav tias ntshe yog koj nws nqis xwb .no
Karma will get those guys one day. Just be careful next time.
Me ntxhais aw koj mas tseem tseem yog ib tug poj niam ruam tiag tiag li koj hais tiag tiag li lau,
Koj siab muag koj ntsawg txiv neej dhau tsis tas li koj tseem ruam heev yog li ntawd koj thiaj poob nyiaj dawb2. Yav tom ntej no yuav qiv nyiaj yuav tau muaj ntaub nrawv ua pov thawj tseg
Sorry for your romance scam and hope that you won't make the same mistake for a third time and do not make any decisions when you are very happy or upset.
Nice people's always get hurt
Oh yo tus viv ncaus aw…. Koj es Koj twb 40 xyoo Koj tseem ruam li ruam es tseem cia lawv muab Koj kaus li ko thiab!
Koj yuav tsum paub hais tias yog ib tug txiv lawv hlub Koj tiag they will never ask any money from you.
If a man really love you he will ask you that he will give you money to spend , but if a man ask you for money that is not a good man or a good husband.
I believe you should give urself time before committing to someone. I believe that’s the mistake you made. Moving too fast in a relationship is very fishy. It’s okay u lost 30k to those JackAss. It’s a lot of money…but remember that before giving money to help the person u loved..always question urself that what if u won’t ever get it back…can u accept letting the money go and be a lost to you?? If it’s a yes, then go ahead and give it knowing u won’t regret losing it one day. These days…men just wants sex and money….as a woman…as u get older…just be very careful and cautious. They sweet talk at first and then seduce u for sex…once they can read you…they will lock u in to make u feel stuck…then use u. Glad the stress is over for u.
Ur generalization that all divorced men r no good is wrong. Sure, most may be leeches, but there r good ones out there. For some women, whether they r smart r not, they don have a choice but to divorce, so ur advice to dont divorce if a woman is not smart is way wrong too.