This right here is rich teaching.. A lot of marriages would be saved if couples saw this and stuck it out. I'm not married YET! But I'm ahead of the game. Keep giving us wisdom Pastor Toure..👍
I got married 2-14-20 , Listening to this teaching, I now realize my husband and I have some growing to do. He hasn’t cleaved onto me yet, still holding on to his mother and I’m not comfortable with that at all. Pray for our union!
Lord soften the heart of my husband and open his ears to be willing to listen to this message! Soo, so good. We're in a tight spot & we need to unpack this message together.
Just felt led to share this.. Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. 1 Peter 3:1-2..
Yes prepare for marriage and ask God for your husband. Marriage is just a big compromise. Sometimes not even about Love ( honey moon stage a the time) , it’s the convenant and commitment you make to each other.
Praise GOD, I'm currently going through a divorce & my wife is done. I've given up but I was lead to this message for a reason. I pray that all marriages that's going through it & you were lead to this powerful message I pray for a supernatural miracle from Heaven & GOD restores your marriage.
In Jesus name I touch and agree with you my brother. I'm in that place now, but god. Im just now hearing this message for the first time and it got me wow god is truly a real god.
@@deshonlee5722 This probably confirmation that GOD is going to restore your marriage, my name is DuShon lol. I pray GOD heal your spouse, you, & your marriage. Trust in Him, Him only, You can Depend on Him.
Message and revaluation received. I lift my marriage up to the most high. I have to start looking at me. I was about to give up…I pray for all marriages around the world
Only Two rules: 1. If you're not ready make a sacrifice "Please don't get married" 2. Unless you let go of your single habits please don't get married.
3. You NEED to be able to have qualities within you that would allow you to take care of them in sickness. "Please dont get married" if you cant do that or vice versa. You actually have to care about taking care of/truly loving the person. 😑 major- and ppl act like thats when to dip out!
I'm praying for you. My wife of 17 years just left me. I'm clinging to God now and it has been good. Keep enduring and examine yourself. There's so much God wants to change in our lives. Love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and let the love for your spouse overflow from that source. You can only give one person your whole heart. Who will it be God or your husband? Seek God's guidance and trust Him for the wisdom you need to humble yourself to His will. I'm rooting for you because I still believe in marriage and in my current circumstances I lost a bride to be made one without spot or blemish for the Lord Jesus Christ. I embrace this test of faith whether God brings her back or not I'll remain faithful to Him. Take care.
@Derrick Hahn Praying for you as well! As much as I've been clinging to God and genuinely going after a real relationship with Him, I've been finding myself feeling a lot of unforgiveness, resentment etc. My husband has really really hurt and disappointed me. But, somehow I've been able to wake every day with a heart full of gratitude. And I know that even if my marriage does not survive this season, I'll come out of this in a much better place with my Lord and Savior so I'll have the strength I need to raise my kids the right way.
@seymoune sam Hi Seymoune most definitely a husband must be practicing loyalty and fidelity. What would be the reason to marry and defile the married bed? Nobody gets to do whatever. His infidelity will cause your temple to become il, failing you mentally, spiritually, and physically. Would you take a bath in dirty bath water, even if it was your own tub? God has given us a spirit of love, to love ourselves! with that said, nobody is above you and God to bring harm to you, be it financial, or otherwise. That's where you draw the line and be the woman God meant for you to be , walk out by faith, knowing it just may not have been the one God put together for you. God will do the repairs if it was meant. May your heart have peace knowing you are a deserving Queen. Be bless.
Yes!!! I cannot stress enough that marriages should not leave any stones unturned. We must flip them babies and rub them together until smoothness takes over. Amen. Amen. Jesus, brought tears to my eyes. I 😍PT word.
I stumbled across this message in the proper season. I am open to grow and stretch to be THE WIFE I am ordained to be! I ask God to anoint us walking into this new chapter of our lives🙏🏽 #hisfuturewife
I love me some PT! He is helping me so much in my single season! His book,”Wholeness” & sermon,”The 5 Keys to identifying my soulmate” has literally changed my life. Forever grateful for him!
My husband and I have been separated for some months now.... I'm praying for restoration. And also learning all I can about marriages. So when God have him return home I'll be in a place to receive and forgive and move forward....Thank You for this sermon. I'm really getting a little more understanding of the marriage life.
December of 2021.....this word fell on my lap. No intentions of listening but God....and he literally let God use him to stop the thoughts I wrestle with about my marriage. He spoke it so clearly...Lord forgive me. I'm a work in progress.
I agree with all of PTs message. Me and my common law separated after 10 total years together. There was a break after the first 2 followed by 8 straight and 2 children. I changed and she and my children became my all. I shut off the rest of the world. The problem is this was not a God Union. I payed the first break up and was shown by our Father " there is no longer here for you". I went back after two year break only to start a family and be devastated. PTs message is accurate in saying that. Good is the most accurate when you ask for guidance from the Father you must listen and obey. Our fathers love and mercy is enduring forever. We can always trust him. AMEN AMEN. 🙏🏾👊🏾💯❤️
WORD. This is everything God has been teaching me and enabling me to apply in my marriage. It’s so humbling and beautiful to let Love lead. Now I’m so obsessed with growing because I have learnt to Trust the process and wisdom of God especially when I don’t understand. God is awesome. God is Love
This preaching was such a blessing. It all makes perfect sense listening to this why so many marriages fail. People don’t decide to change and grow. People think the same person they married will remain exactly the same through the marriage but as people we evolve. I am open and willing to let God allow me to evolve for my marriage and the life he’s called me to. Toure is right it’s not impossible. It’s not too hard. It’s not something thats too hard for us to overcome. In Jesus name we can.
This was powerful. Thank you. It's sad how we don't take time to listen to such powerful teachings that could save us from alot of things we go through.
Thankyou sooo much for this powerful word l have just been married for less than 2 months but lve felt like giving up today l had packed my bags to leave and l had made up my mind my lm grateful to Jesus he led me to this powerful sermon 🙏🏾lm never leaving my marriage the devil is a liar 🙏🏾Praise Jesus
Self. Becoming. Growth opportunity. Never Compete. Born for. My victory in their weakness. My mirror not a window. Simple yet powerful, thank you Sir 🙏🏾
Wish I would've heard this message a year ago I've been separated from my husband for almost a year now 😭 divorce isn't final yet and I'm still believing for God to restore our marriage
This is one of the ONLY marriage messages that I’ve heard that specifically calls out abuse as a non-negotiable factor. Thank you, Pastor Touré, for inserting that snippet. That being said, more depth is needed in these types of messages. The “stay in it or else” tone often misses the other horrors that some marriages exist in. Beyond physical abuse, there is emotional and financial abuse, infidelity, neglect, and downright complete absence of love and care. The truth is that some spouses are truly being damaged by the person who is supposed to be a supportive God-fearing partner. I personally know women (and men!) right now who are declining physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually because of their partners’ abuse and the church’s blind eye to the depth of the types of abuse within Christian marriages.
@@taghazoutmoon5031 You did a great and courageous act by leaving a toxic situation. Firstly, rejoice and pat yourself on the back . The second most important thing is reclaiming yourself worth, your value as a person, re learning and reclaiming your identity, who God truly created you to be. Claiming the word of God as your truth. Remember this person tried to erase your worth, your value and your identity. This process takes time and patience. Stand in front of the mirror daily, get a handful of scriptures and tell yourself who God says you are. This should be daily medicine for your soul. Keep on saying those scriptures until you believe it in your soul....even if it takes up to 2, 3 or 5yrs. Remember that person was intentional in trying to destroy you. Now is your time to be intentional for you. Thirdly, seek counselling and God is to direct you to the right counsellor this will facilitate your healing journey. If you can't afford it yet. Join an online group that concentrates on healing, also ask God to direct you. Fourthly, find a hobby or a passion a new routine that will enrich your life and enable you to make new friends. If possible travel to new places, do and plan exciting and adventurous things. Perhaps volunteering will help you take the focus off yourself sometimes and it's an opportunity to help others. Lastly pray, pray, pray, pray without ceasing intensify your prayer life. Start developing an intimacy with God. Then you will see your healing manifesting and will not only be existing but thriving and flourishing. Stay blessed, remember God is able. Ps worship songs daily are a must.
@@taghazoutmoon5031 You could've been depressed during the abuse but only realize and focus on it now. The truth is, we live our lives depending on how we see it. You did a positive thing, separation is hard but staying where you are being abused is worst
I never believed in marriage .....rough childhood but of late God has been transforming my mind ....reforming ,remolding,reminding , repurposing, redefining.....for He is my creator ,my potter ....so as I believe am getting married soon am equipping my self with this and more don't want to get in blindly...
This was amazing. Simple to the point and very different than what I have heard before. I’m only 27 and unmarried but this is great for my relationships with my family members those close relatives pastor toure was talking about this really ministered to me!
Man this is so powerful! I've heard many things about marriage growing up and as a single man. I've never heard that there will be God ordained tension. I've always saw that as a bad things, having tension in relational context but listening to this has shaped and changed my perspective. I'm takes notes...
Your words blessed me this morning it really clarified and highlighted something’s in my life and I’m a single woman engaged to God. The blessing that keeps on blessing picking up tools that I know I need flowing into wholeness. Thank you PT 🙏🏾🌊⚓️
Wow this message BLESSED ME & I'm not even married yet! TO GOD BE THE GLORY! So grateful 2 hear & take notes before I marry my future husband! HALLELUJAH 🙌
This is applicable not only to marriage but to leaders..I was about to check out on My Pastor because of some friction but somehow God used this message to tell me 1. don't quit before you grow ..... 2. Look at yourself and work on you 3. I should speak up.. Thank you Pastor T.
This was so eye opening and yet practical. When I see that it's great to use evey circumstance to grow and change. Don't battle them fight the enemy within. In Jesus name Amen
AMAAAAZZZING Pastor Toure WOW Sooo Good anyone thinking of marriage or married should watch this! I am preparing to get married this year and i totally got it !!! A mirror and not a window , your partners imperfections are designed for your growth yep been there hahaha
This blessed me my fiance and I just ended our engagement because we were not ready. My pastor refuse to marry us(Thankful for his wisdom) Once we separated God started working thru us as individuals first and we both believe that God is positioning us to become one in holy matrimony.
This message has just changed my whole perspective, and it came at a time where there was tension. Thank you PT for sharing the revelation that the Lord has shown you , I've never heard it before! God bless you!
Wow this really bless me and my husband and confirm my prayers to clear confusing. I so greatful to have some better tools for our next season together Amen.
Feeling lost in myself and taking my uncertainty and anger out on my husband. And he does not deserve it, he has been there with me, since day one, loved me and have been nothing but a blessing in my life. I felt like leaving him, because I felt not worthy to be loved by someone so beautifully hearted. Listening to this sermon, helped me, opened my mind, this reminded me on what my goal is, and that is to make my marriage work with my incredible husband
this is definitely confirmation...The process is real...I was trying to get away but I knew there would be no growth which is oh so necessary...thank You Lord for this reminder
Thank you Pastor Robert. This powerful teaching really touched my soul. And I believe God is in the process of healing and restoring my Marriage. God bless you.
Pastor this was everything to me change has been something that I struggle with even when I first came to know the Lord I felt like I was loosing me the only me I’ve ever known. I thank God for you and than you for answering the call and for speaking truth and not what people want to hear.
“God release the capacity to deal with what I’m complaining about “ I’m single but from now on I’ll be applying this principle in all my relationships with my loved ones
I wish my husband and I would have heard this message before we separated. We haven’t divorced yet so there is still hope. Thank you Pastor Roberts.
I don't know you, but I am praying that your marriage be healed, in Jesus' name
LaTorya Nettles where can I find this?! Please
Praying for restoration in the name of the Lord Jesus
@@MCAppah amen
Exactly!!
I got delivered when I watched this video. I hugged my husband and spoke in tongues rivers of living water were flowing in my belly.
Aaaamen!🙌🏽THAT is Beautiful!!!
Alright now 🙌🏽💍🙏🏾
God be praised!
My God
This right here is rich teaching.. A lot of marriages would be saved if couples saw this and stuck it out. I'm not married YET! But I'm ahead of the game. Keep giving us wisdom Pastor Toure..👍
@Mia I totally agree with you. Very profound teaching.
Ahead of the game indeed! Preparation is a great tool in this area 🤗 Great Beginnings for you!🙏
I hear you. When we are in our marriages, we will keep this in mind.
Even if it’s abusive?!
@@7RlNGS 😀😀Thank you. Remember he is teaching this was married 15 years and now has started over. I can't get understand the concept.
Sent my husband this during our separation and praying for restoration. Release what we need for each other Lord.
I got married 2-14-20 , Listening to this teaching, I now realize my husband and I have some growing to do. He hasn’t cleaved onto me yet, still holding on to his mother and I’m not comfortable with that at all. Pray for our union!
Glenda Arrington takes sometime maybe you can communicate to him what makes you feel uncomfortable and how you guys can fix it😊
Praying 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Mikelly Wright I tried to talk to him about it but it’s like a stronghold I’ve never seen a relationship like theirs.
Sierra Clark Thank you..God bless you Sweetheart. I need it!
Marriage is a beautiful thing with the right person, so I will be praying for you both but if u need to go to counseling then go..it will help..
I enjoyed this because my wife and I listened together
That's awesome!!
Lord soften the heart of my husband and open his ears to be willing to listen to this message! Soo, so good. We're in a tight spot & we need to unpack this message together.
I'm in agreement with u sis!!! My husband & I needed this!!!🙌🏾💕 I just shared it with him.
I pray in agreement with you.
Amen sis. Me and mine as well
Just felt led to share this..
Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. 1 Peter 3:1-2..
Standing in agreement
I will NOT give up before I grow up!❤🙌 Powerful!!!
This got me meditating too! Profound🙌🏾
Amen
Beautifully said
we may grow old, but we will not grow up.....an adage....
"You can't have a strong marriage with out a strong you." YESSSSSS
True,and we ask GOD to make us strong
This is the message
Are you married
Amen!
@@sarahspeaks1384 Well he BEEN weak TWICE....cause he is in another Marriage and left his first wife which is all hush hush...
This is good!!! "My maturation needs her imperfections because if she was perfect, I couldn't grow."
🙌🏾
I like that. Anteresting take
So true
Hopefully he's not thinking he's perfect. They are both imperfect, and with God's help, they can become perfect...
Im anointed for my husband! He is anointed for me!
Amen!
I am not marry yet but I am getting all the teaching and wisdom to prepare me for marriage
I got convicted. I judge people and i need to take the beam out my eye. Good conviction
Yes prepare for marriage and ask God for your husband. Marriage is just a big compromise. Sometimes not even about Love ( honey moon stage a the time) , it’s the convenant and commitment you make to each other.
Good job.
“My Maturity is dependant on her imperfections “
So deep🙌🏽🙌🏽
Praise GOD, I'm currently going through a divorce & my wife is done. I've given up but I was lead to this message for a reason. I pray that all marriages that's going through it & you were lead to this powerful message I pray for a supernatural miracle from Heaven & GOD restores your marriage.
In Jesus name I touch and agree with you my brother. I'm in that place now, but god. Im just now hearing this message for the first time and it got me wow god is truly a real god.
@@deshonlee5722 This probably confirmation that GOD is going to restore your marriage, my name is DuShon lol. I pray GOD heal your spouse, you, & your marriage. Trust in Him, Him only, You can Depend on Him.
God is going to bless you my brother in Jesus name. Thank you for speaking that into my life I receive it and believe it in Jesus name.
Amen
Message and revaluation received. I lift my marriage up to the most high. I have to start looking at me. I was about to give up…I pray for all marriages around the world
& Christ sticks closer than a brother. So that's close close unconditional bridegroom love. Amen
Awesome Sermon. As a man on the edge of divorce this massage was God sent. Praise Jesus!!!
Currently praying for my future husband. I pray that God makes him whole and firm in Christianity. Oh lord, can't wait!!
Me too
This message was sent by God! I needed to hear this word and I pray my husband listen! i am believing God for a turnaround in our marriage!
Only Two rules:
1. If you're not ready make a sacrifice "Please don't get married"
2. Unless you let go of your single habits please don't get married.
Can you elaborate more
James Brantley yes please elaborate
💯💯
3. You NEED to be able to have qualities within you that would allow you to take care of them in sickness. "Please dont get married" if you cant do that or vice versa. You actually have to care about taking care of/truly loving the person. 😑 major- and ppl act like thats when to dip out!
Two BIG HUGE important rules😩
Marriage requires CHANGE 🙌🏾
Praying that my marriage of 17years can not only survive the current storm, but come out stronger and better than ever with our God as our captain!
I'm praying for you. My wife of 17 years just left me. I'm clinging to God now and it has been good. Keep enduring and examine yourself. There's so much God wants to change in our lives. Love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and let the love for your spouse overflow from that source. You can only give one person your whole heart. Who will it be God or your husband? Seek God's guidance and trust Him for the wisdom you need to humble yourself to His will. I'm rooting for you because I still believe in marriage and in my current circumstances I lost a bride to be made one without spot or blemish for the Lord Jesus Christ. I embrace this test of faith whether God brings her back or not I'll remain faithful to Him. Take care.
@Derrick Hahn Praying for you as well!
As much as I've been clinging to God and genuinely going after a real relationship with Him, I've been finding myself feeling a lot of unforgiveness, resentment etc. My husband has really really hurt and disappointed me.
But, somehow I've been able to wake every day with a heart full of gratitude. And I know that even if my marriage does not survive this season, I'll come out of this in a much better place with my Lord and Savior so I'll have the strength I need to raise my kids the right way.
Strong words of wisdom to live by and sending this to my fiancé as I text. 11/11/20 here WE come 🙏🏽💍✝️
Timothy Rouse God bless you and may you both grow beautifully stronger in Christ and for each other every day! 💗💗
Congrats you are all most there!
@seymoune sam Hi Seymoune most definitely a husband must be practicing loyalty and fidelity. What would be the reason to marry and defile the married bed? Nobody gets to do whatever. His infidelity will cause your temple to become il, failing you mentally, spiritually, and physically. Would you take a bath in dirty bath water, even if it was your own tub? God has given us a spirit of love, to love ourselves! with that said, nobody is above you and God to bring harm to you, be it financial, or otherwise. That's where you draw the line and be the woman God meant for you to be , walk out by faith, knowing it just may not have been the one God put together for you. God will do the repairs if it was meant.
May your heart have peace knowing you are a deserving Queen. Be bless.
I pray that my husband and I can receive this message and continue to grown and become the couple the good Lord ordained us to be !
Yes!!! I cannot stress enough that marriages should not leave any stones unturned. We must flip them babies and rub them together until smoothness takes over. Amen. Amen. Jesus, brought tears to my eyes. I 😍PT word.
I stumbled across this message in the proper season. I am open to grow and stretch to be THE WIFE I am ordained to be! I ask God to anoint us walking into this new chapter of our lives🙏🏽 #hisfuturewife
This word literally is the seed that is helping save my marriage. Thank you so much!
Wow, this is one of the best sermons on Marriage I've ever heard.
2years later and this sermon is still teaching and touching ♥️ hearts with marriage 🙏🏾
I have been saying, " I can't do this ". Lord, thank you for this Word! Change me, change my heart! Thank you for this sermon!
Not married yet, but this is sooo good!! Thank you, PT!
I love me some PT! He is helping me so much in my single season! His book,”Wholeness” & sermon,”The 5 Keys to identifying my soulmate” has literally changed my life. Forever grateful for him!
Same here!!!
Yes sir!
@@sandratabansi4320 I
Thank you pastor for this message! I am a single woman desiring to be married and I recognize the importance of this meat of a message!
My husband and I have been separated for some months now.... I'm praying for restoration. And also learning all I can about marriages. So when God have him return home I'll be in a place to receive and forgive and move forward....Thank You for this sermon. I'm really getting a little more understanding of the marriage life.
December of 2021.....this word fell on my lap. No intentions of listening but God....and he literally let God use him to stop the thoughts I wrestle with about my marriage. He spoke it so clearly...Lord forgive me. I'm a work in progress.
Crying watching this on my 2nd day fasting my marriage is going through it I believe my husband will be delivered from alcoholism & jealousy!
yes he will in Jesus 🙏
How did you do with your fast?
@@jazminebrunson4352 His wife is his best friend..... WHICH ONE? Didn't he leave his first wife and three children? This man is a JOKE.
I agree with all of PTs message. Me and my common law separated after 10 total years together. There was a break after the first 2 followed by 8 straight and 2 children. I changed and she and my children became my all. I shut off the rest of the world. The problem is this was not a God Union. I payed the first break up and was shown by our Father " there is no longer here for you".
I went back after two year break only to start a family and be devastated. PTs message is accurate in saying that. Good is the most accurate when you ask for guidance from the Father you must listen and obey. Our fathers love and mercy is enduring forever. We can always trust him. AMEN AMEN. 🙏🏾👊🏾💯❤️
I’m claiming all this in my future marriage 🙏🏾. Lord continue to build a strong me in preparation for my Union ❤️.
Heavenly Father, Thank you so much for leading me to this video before it was too late.
THIS
WORD. This is everything God has been teaching me and enabling me to apply in my marriage. It’s so humbling and beautiful to let Love lead. Now I’m so obsessed with growing because I have learnt to Trust the process and wisdom of God especially when I don’t understand. God is awesome. God is Love
This preaching was such a blessing. It all makes perfect sense listening to this why so many marriages fail. People don’t decide to change and grow. People think the same person they married will remain exactly the same through the marriage but as people we evolve.
I am open and willing to let God allow me to evolve for my marriage and the life he’s called me to.
Toure is right it’s not impossible. It’s not too hard. It’s not something thats too hard for us to overcome. In Jesus name we can.
This was powerful. Thank you.
It's sad how we don't take time to listen to such powerful teachings that could save us from alot of things we go through.
Whooo! Cmon pastor toure! Thank you Jesus for wisdom and marriage. Celebrating 4 years of marriage on Sunday 💕
Thankyou sooo much for this powerful word l have just been married for less than 2 months but lve felt like giving up today l had packed my bags to leave and l had made up my mind my lm grateful to Jesus he led me to this powerful sermon 🙏🏾lm never leaving my marriage the devil is a liar 🙏🏾Praise Jesus
Do not give up before you grow up.
The best part of marriage is growing 🌱🌱🆙
Self. Becoming. Growth opportunity. Never Compete. Born for. My victory in their weakness. My mirror not a window. Simple yet powerful, thank you Sir 🙏🏾
This was such a poweful message that i definitely needed to hear. Even tho I'm not married yet but i believe marriage is on the way in Jesus name!
Amen
Amen
How can an ADULTERER teach anyone on Marriage when they not doing what Jesus said themselves?
As someone who is engaged, this just blessed me tremendously. Thank you for this word through PT, Lord!
Same here
Wish I would've heard this message a year ago I've been separated from my husband for almost a year now 😭 divorce isn't final yet and I'm still believing for God to restore our marriage
Believe in it my sister. I'm in the same situation and God has the final say. We are growing through the season to be higher
Makes two of us..same situation.
Definitely with you two…. In the same boat!! But God is good
On this day I wish to watch sermons with my husband
Am not married yet, but this am going to practice in my marriage, I really need a healthy marriage and I believe God Wil bless me with that 🙏🙏🙏
This is one of the ONLY marriage messages that I’ve heard that specifically calls out abuse as a non-negotiable factor. Thank you, Pastor Touré, for inserting that snippet. That being said, more depth is needed in these types of messages. The “stay in it or else” tone often misses the other horrors that some marriages exist in. Beyond physical abuse, there is emotional and financial abuse, infidelity, neglect, and downright complete absence of love and care. The truth is that some spouses are truly being damaged by the person who is supposed to be a supportive God-fearing partner. I personally know women (and men!) right now who are declining physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually because of their partners’ abuse and the church’s blind eye to the depth of the types of abuse within Christian marriages.
Paulette Grey Riveria Preach
I left due to the abuse but now I'm worse off. Depression is worse
@Paulette Grey Riveria - PRRRRRRREACH!!!!
YOU 👏🏾 AIN'T 👏🏾 NEVA 👏🏾 LIED 👏🏾‼️‼️‼️
@@taghazoutmoon5031
You did a great and courageous act by leaving a toxic situation. Firstly, rejoice and pat yourself on the back .
The second most important thing is reclaiming yourself worth, your value as a person, re learning and reclaiming your identity, who God truly created you to be. Claiming the word of God as your truth. Remember this person tried to erase your worth, your value and your identity. This process takes time and patience. Stand in front of the mirror daily, get a handful of scriptures and tell yourself who God says you are. This should be daily medicine for your soul. Keep on saying those scriptures until you believe it in your soul....even if it takes up to 2, 3 or 5yrs. Remember that person was intentional in trying to destroy you. Now is your time to be intentional for you.
Thirdly, seek counselling and God is to direct you to the right counsellor this will facilitate your healing journey.
If you can't afford it yet. Join an online group that concentrates on healing, also ask God to direct you.
Fourthly, find a hobby or a passion a new routine that will enrich your life and enable you to make new friends.
If possible travel to new places, do and plan exciting and adventurous things.
Perhaps volunteering will help you take the focus off yourself sometimes and it's an opportunity to help others.
Lastly pray, pray, pray, pray without ceasing intensify your prayer life. Start developing an intimacy with God.
Then you will see your healing manifesting and will not only be existing but thriving and flourishing.
Stay blessed, remember God is able.
Ps worship songs daily are a must.
@@taghazoutmoon5031 You could've been depressed during the abuse but only realize and focus on it now. The truth is, we live our lives depending on how we see it. You did a positive thing, separation is hard but staying where you are being abused is worst
That tension be thick sometimes!🤣 Make marriage a mirror and not a window! Good word. Thank you.
I needed this; it was by divine providence that this showed up in my feed. Thank You, PapaGod for this message and for my spouse.
I needed this. I decree and declare this word of the Lord God over my marriage. In name and by the power of the blood . Amen
I never believed in marriage .....rough childhood but of late God has been transforming my mind ....reforming ,remolding,reminding ,
repurposing, redefining.....for He is my creator ,my potter ....so as I believe am getting married soon am equipping my self with this and more don't want to get in blindly...
This message was sooo rich! Thank you Pastor Toure!
What an INCREDIBLE INCREDIBLE teaching, beautifully delivered! ❤️💍🙏 SO rich and full of wisdom and insight! #Single
This was amazing. Simple to the point and very different than what I have heard before. I’m only 27 and unmarried but this is great for my relationships with my family members those close relatives pastor toure was talking about this really ministered to me!
Best teaching I’ve ever heard on marriage!
Marriage is serious business
No jokes.
Agreed!
Man this is so powerful! I've heard many things about marriage growing up and as a single man. I've never heard that there will be God ordained tension. I've always saw that as a bad things, having tension in relational context but listening to this has shaped and changed my perspective.
I'm takes notes...
Your words blessed me this morning it really clarified and highlighted something’s in my life and I’m a single woman engaged to God. The blessing that keeps on blessing picking up tools that I know I need flowing into wholeness. Thank you PT 🙏🏾🌊⚓️
Wow this message BLESSED ME & I'm not even married yet! TO GOD BE THE GLORY! So grateful 2 hear & take notes before I marry my future husband! HALLELUJAH 🙌
Wow! As a single,the nuggets of wisdom have been very well received.
Wow....the sparring analogy was SO powerful and useful. Sound teaching concerning marriage. Thank you for your transparency !
This sermon/teaching was so good !
WAIT! Who are these people disliking this message...??????
It is GREAT!!!!!!!🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
This is applicable not only to marriage but to leaders..I was about to check out on My Pastor because of some friction but somehow God used this message to tell me
1. don't quit before you grow .....
2. Look at yourself and work on you
3. I should speak up..
Thank you Pastor T.
This was so eye opening and yet practical. When I see that it's great to use evey circumstance to grow and change. Don't battle them fight the enemy within. In Jesus name Amen
Getting married next year! My fiancé and I just just got engaged last month and these sermons have very insightful!
AMAAAAZZZING Pastor Toure WOW Sooo Good anyone thinking of marriage or married should watch this! I am preparing to get married this year and i totally got it !!! A mirror and not a window , your partners imperfections are designed for your growth yep been there hahaha
This blessed me my fiance and I just ended our engagement because we were not ready. My pastor refuse to marry us(Thankful for his wisdom) Once we separated God started working thru us as individuals first and we both believe that God is positioning us to become one in holy matrimony.
This message has just changed my whole perspective, and it came at a time where there was tension. Thank you PT for sharing the revelation that the Lord has shown you , I've never heard it before!
God bless you!
I loved this message. The Holy Spirit was moving inside of me. I learned so much in these few minutes. Thanks so much for this message
This is deep on so many levels " Areas of ourselves we would not be able to get to otherwise" For a great marriage you need a great you lol :-)
This is so relevant for me. There's this honesty is PT's voice that I can't seem to shake. Thank you so much
Wow this really bless me and my husband and confirm my prayers to clear confusing. I so greatful to have some better tools for our next season together Amen.
Feeling lost in myself and taking my uncertainty and anger out on my husband. And he does not deserve it, he has been there with me, since day one, loved me and have been nothing but a blessing in my life.
I felt like leaving him, because I felt not worthy to be loved by someone so beautifully hearted.
Listening to this sermon, helped me, opened my mind, this reminded me on what my goal is, and that is to make my marriage work with my incredible husband
So gooooood! This perspective is not shared often. Thanks PT!
This is a Must Share!!! I pray that this teaching reaches the ears of many both young and old. 🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯✨
Marriage is an institution of TRANSFORMATION✨
Something inside you will bring out the best in your spouse ....
this is definitely confirmation...The process is real...I was trying to get away but I knew there would be no growth which is oh so necessary...thank You Lord for this reminder
This is good. I am glad I am listening to this. Thanks pastor Toure for sharing this word.
Great message and confirmation about what my wife and I have talked about. Thanks for sharing.
As a new wife THIS IS HELPING 🔥❤️🙏🏽🙌🏽
Wow, very powerful message! There was a lot of useful information in this compact message. Thank you!
I just started listening and my spirit is leaping with joy!! really awesome teaching Thank you Pastor
This was an amazing perspective on marriage! Very encouraging!
I recognize so much out of this message. Amen.
Extremely insightful, never heard about it like this before, thank you and may God continue to bless you..
Pastor, the God in you is amazing.
And the “Truth” shall set you free! I give thanks for this word. Ashé. Ashé. Ashé.
Thank you Pastor Robert. This powerful teaching really touched my soul. And I believe God is in the process of healing and restoring my Marriage. God bless you.
Pastor this was everything to me change has been something that I struggle with even when I first came to know the Lord I felt like I was loosing me the only me I’ve ever known. I thank God for you and than you for answering the call and for speaking truth and not what people want to hear.
“God release the capacity to deal with what I’m complaining about “
I’m single but from now on I’ll be applying this principle in all my relationships with my loved ones
Well done Ntokozo
@@sydneytshepo6672 wow, your comment is taking me back to a sermon a watched a year ago. Let me watch it again
I truly thank God for using you!! This is where I've been and Holy Spirit led me right to this Word!!! May bless you exceedingly, abundantly!!
This message will never be old. Its has a right own time message. Tku
Thank you for these gems!!! God bless you!