Thankfully, i have an amazing relationship with my motherinlaw, she's so supportive and caring. And even if she wasn't, i don't think i would make trouble with her, cos i always told my hubby before getting married that if any of his family members give me any wahala, i will not make any trouble with them, instead it will be directed at him😂. God bless my husband because he's one person that puts me first in anything he does as in anything...sometimes i feel guilty sef cos i don't match up to how prioritizes me and our son. The funny thing is the wahala we had came from my own side sef but thank God for my husband's maturity, he was even the one protecting me from my own family's wahala sef. All in all, we thank God for wisdom.
Emma,,.. I can relate. Lost my mom before I truly believed I gave back enough to be worthy of her sacrifice and I also repeat myself many times😂. Your wife reiterate what my sis told me too that her sacrifice was from a place of love, happiness and contentment. I love wisdom coming from young folks. Btw, I'm old to be your parents. I thank you both for the your advice. 👏🏿👍🏿
Wow! Your marriage is a blend of 2 different cultures (western & Nigerian) but God has helped you both to be one in all respect. Thank God for you guys.
I agree with Yetunde. Yes, we should take care of our parents when they are old but, they shouldn't be our utmost priority. Child bearing is not an investment as most Nigerian parents perceive it to be.
I wish both of You continue the conversation. There's a reason why God planted you in her womb, to be your MOTHER Amen. This is Very much helpful and Great. ( Emma, May the Lord fill your heart with Everlasting Joy & Good Memories of Your Mother Amen). Yes you DID WELL 👏😍 To All Our children out there over to you , May the Lord Almighty be the Pillar of your Home in Jesus name Amen🙏🙌
You have all made valid points but in the case where the immediate child cannot talk to their mother, what happens? I went into marriage hoping for a good relationship with my MIL but I was treated like the enemy. Seven years later, we have some type of truce. I thank God for the wisdom God gave me to handle hairy situations, they were opportunities to grow. if not for wisdom, I don't know where we would be today. I agree with Yetunde that parents have this sense of entitlement. Good, if you can take care of them but I think our generation should shed off that mentality and enjoy the children without the expectation that whatever you are doing now is so that they can take care of you
I agree with Yetunde that children should not be burdened by their parents. When I do things for my kids, I tell them to make sure they pay it forward and take care of their kids.
Brilliant discussion! however, in Nigeria where there is no stable system to take care of older people. it can be extremely difficult for parents not to depend on their children when old with no saving and pension to survive on like here in the UK
I really enjoyed this discussion. I think some people don't even see their mother's "sense of entitlement" until it causes a problem with the spouse. That is when the child/person sees the mother's extreme or how it can affect the marriage negatively. When it gets to this stage, for some people the marriage is already affected. I agreed with you though, the person is the major cushion, never allow your mum get in between you and your spouse. Take care of both your mum and your spouse's mum.
I'm actually crying right now when Emma said his mum was dead..😭 i knew before but mehn it struck something in me too..God bless you Emma..I'm sure she's smiling down at you right now😪
Emmanuel, your wife hit the nail on the head; she said your family is your priority. Please listen to her. Also, when your lovely wife is making a point, please let her finish. Thanks guys, nice conversation.
@@EmmaOhMaGod Yeeeeee. My friends go hia am ooo. E.omg replied my comment oooo. 😲😲😲 I'm balling with a celeb nitori oloun. Ashe I will blow Sha. Respect o
It is well. May your mum’s soul continue to rest in peace Emman! Both of you are so genuinely priceless! I quite enjoy your shows or rather my hubby and I enjoy your shows (we are in our 56-63years bracket) Watching you from Kent, England. xx
Leave predictable for the regular man dem! We LOVE your spontaneity so abeg, make you leave am beyen e joor. Although I’m not married yet, I believe you’ve both addressed this topic widely and well. More wisdom 🙏🏾
I'm sorry but I don't totally agree with Emmanuel's point when it comes to your priorities, kinda not so pleasant but bitter truth is your immediate family should be a priority for you when push comes to shove. Taken your parents could have gone through hell and back to train you, and you feel the need to repay them and some more for that, but, you should try to while "balancing" things not achieve that at the detriment of your new family. It's a tough one some times and the lines could be blurry at times, the beautiful thing about it all is the Holy Spirit is always available to nudge us in the right path if he's included in the tiniest of the decisions we make. Anyways, lovely video as ever. However, a lot of things were pretty repetitive from Emmanuel's end as Yetunde pointed out. Yetunde's look when he said " I feel we didn't really speak well about this" was epic! Like ta ba wa fe speak well nko? We'll spend the whole day??! 😂😂
Just to add, I personally think that Mothers generally should take into consideration that Yes, She suffered and brought her child up and all of that but now he/she also has to bring another person (their grandchildren) up, and this has to be done together with their spouses. Happy New Year To The OhEmGees!! Love from China ❣️💝
As usual, I'm seeing this now( being a late subscriber) Permit me to say: EmmaOMG, you are a son any mother would want to have. Your mother did a lot of serious upbringing on you. I know, because as a mother, I can hear it in your voice. I also know, she is smiling down at you from the bosom of her maker. Just make sure you remember everything she taught you. Just make sure you take care of your wife and family so she doesn't go through any of the sad things your mother went through in life. Don't let anything or anybody change you. I'm sorry if I've spoken out of place. I know you're a good man and God is blessing you, He will still take you higher. Remain blessed.
The child in concern should strike a balance let the mother understand,take care of your mother but the immediate family is the main priority.Most times the mother of the man take things too extreme forgetting the woman too has a mother.Am the iya oko,they get this to their head,don't forget the mother of the wife too suffered,stress your child not spouse
When you're married. You must leave your parent to cleave to your spouse. I remember a guy who told me his mum comes first in bow he shares his salary. The moment he said that.. I ran for my life. Today when I see his wife I feel sorry for the lady because that could have been me. Marriage is for 2 people not for in laws. Whether they suffer or not. Parenting is a duty but when cultural differences comes in that's when you start to bring them into marriage. In the end of that's where you find yourself. Strike a balance.
Great Job the ohEmgees!How many people rewind this video while watching to get clarity about some point i love watching your videos.@Emmanuel your mum was a great mother,sorry about her demise.You and your wife will eat the fruit of your labour on your children.
Speak to the child involve. They need to fix their parents. Parent need to let go at some point. As parents, we should trust that we have done a good job in raising our kids. Lobatan!
I have been married for over 10 years. I have alot to say on this topic but it cant be said in the comment section. Unfortunately my own experience has not been pleasant. It is a very hard and complicated topic. May God help us all.
Yetunde is right, when you marry, your immediate family becomes your priority and your parents and siblings come after. And that is biblical. “You leave and cleave”
It's really nice to hear from you guys and I really learnt alot. i don't have a mother-in-law yet but I only pray for the best. By the way Yetunde I love your hair😁😉👍
Thanks for sharing this. As long as you both have decided to be together forever and leave your parent house, that means you are matured enough, so with God's wisdom, rule your home. Take care of them both, provide for them and satisfied them, the wife should not be rude to her mother-in-law no matter how tough she is and vice versa. Every parent has suffered for their child in one way or the other and that does not mean because they have suffered, they should rule your home. They are part of your family but your immediate family is more important. Mother - In-Law, especially when the guy is the only son, they will want to control what goes on the family, due to what I call love towards the son, they will want their son to tell them literally everything that goes on in the family, in which is affecting the wife. Some will even cook for their son when his wife is available, which is not bad but you know it's somehow. The husband or the man should be the one to set a space and no go area and not be controlled by the mother. For the lady, some tell their mum literally everything that happens in their home and the mum will start leading and teaching her what to do which is affecting the marriage. The thing is the wife and husband should talk to their mum. They should both be guided and apply wisdom. They should both love their mother -in-law and show it because, if they do, even if the mother in-law is otherwise, she will come to realise that let me stop disturbing this people and all.
The Western notion is just so wrong no matter what. When you look at it forget about the financial side of things when our parents get old they become fragile and it’s their children they look up to. Secondly like you said here in the West people have pensions but in Africa what they are meant to put aside for pension they’ve spent on their children so by the time they get old they have nothing to fall back on and finally people like me am a single mum and my son seeing what I went through regardless of me being a professional he loves me too much that his wife to come will just have to respect that and like Emmanuel said it’s all about the bond and what our kids see us go through. I am independent, have given my son what even two parents couldn’t give eg my son attended ‘private school’ and a host of other things travel the world but boy I suffered to get to where we are and in the midst of our journey there have been times when there is no income and I had to sell my things so when a child see that and now gets married not that I am gonna demand but he knew what we went through times when I will have to sacrifice all that I have just to give him a good life and I thank God all my efforts have not been in vain. Even now he’s just finished Uni but as far back as when he was in year six/A/l he decided to pick up holiday job and bought me so much and he has always been since then till now . Another thing just like Emmanuel said am always like you are still young just pray for God to give me long life then you will pay me back. So long and short a child who has started like that will definitely do more when he gets married and his wife should just be understanding.
I just subscribed to your channel so I'm just seeing this video, my own question is, how do i cope with a mother in law (to be) that usually look down on her on son like he can't achieve anything good in life. I'm always the one trying to boost his confidence, so if by God's grace her son (my fiance ) become a billionaire, how do relate with her considering how she treats her son even in my presence. Please help me coz I'm already having this mindset about her. Thanks
Emma is so full of wisdom 👌👌👌Oh how i wish he can be my husband's brother(that he never had)! If you ever decide to visit the U.K soon,you have to do a meet & greet for your U.K. subscribers abeg.🙏🙏🙏
In the west, parents give to their children, even grown up and married children but our culture forces you to do and do for your parents and then do for your kids.
The same way Mums 'left' the child to go to 'school' to prepare for a better life; she needs also to 'leave' her child, (to an extent) to mature in the school of marriage. She would be happier to see her child progressively showing up on all fronts as a capable adult. Continuous meddling or interference negates all the effort put into the child. Unless; the mother is plain selfish. Dem go die together ni, mother and child at the same time? 🤷♀️ Tears of joy all the way #2020. Random moments?...
I really do not agree with a lot of things Emma said in this video. Cos you suffered on your child doesn't mean you have to be a pest to their spouse. To even think that "where is this one coming from" is disrespectful. What did you think was going to happen when your son/daughter got married? Why didn't you just cage them instead of "allowing" them to get married since you want them to yourself forever. The financial part of mother-in-law palava is nothing compared to the other aspect which is not knowing where your boundary lies as a mother-in-law. Interfering in things that doesn't concern you cos you suffered on your child? Or all of a sudden, the new wife is now your competition and it's like a polygamous marriage. Please abeg.
I strongly disagree with him k this one. Parenting is a duty not a choice. It is a responsibility. You owe it to the child. You dont take care of a child for returns. Your return biblically is peace. "To omo re ko le fun o ni simi". A lot of marriages are suffering bcs mother in laws are not allowing their children to cleave to their spouse. Most mother in laws giving wahala are bitter from their past and choice of marriage. It has nothing to do with the daughter in law. Happy women dont hurt other women!
I beg to disagree. Emma wasn't saying if a mother-in-law is crossing her boundaries, it is right. He was literally speaking from the angle (worst-case circumstance) of a mother-in-law just to show their way of thinking and what sprouts the sense of entitlement in them. I think he eventually mentioned that the child should take it as a responsibility to balance it. Additionally, he said the spouse should "understand" the mother-in-law and not receive it as "wahala" and the mother-in-law should also be considerate. Also, when your mother toiled a lot for you, it might be hard to choose your "first" priority. I totally understand Emma. His views reflects how well his mummy sacrificed for him. Love is a subconscious thing, you can't measure or divide it. it's a feeling. It hard mennnnnn... And we wouldn't know until we get to that stage, I swear. God help us 😢😢 Thanks😊
Facts: 1. It is the responsibility of a parent to take care of a child. 2. It is the responsibility of a child to take care of their parents. 3. It is the responsibility of the spouse to set boundaries for their parents if their inquisitiveness will hinder love. 4. Consider your spouse before your parents for your parents will still love you. You have nothing to prove to them but you still have a lot to prove to your spouse. (This is an opinion though). All in all, it is hard but always be objective.
Notification geng💃🏽 See how somebody's wife is fine😍 I'm not married yet, but I think... In my opinion, love both parties. But if you're ever in a situation where you have to take a side, your spouse comes before your parents. P.S: I may be wrong about this, but I feel the age of Methuselah has nothing to do with the wisdom of Solomon. You might not know EVERYTHING because you haven't been married for long, but that does not mean you don't know ANYTHING. You people keep saying you don't know ANYTHING (yeah you do that a lot😏) like we that came here to listen to you are wasting our time.😔
So, why can’t Yoruba movies write a script like this. Why always mother in laws always wicked, wife always mumu like that’s are some women are general. When wèré plenty.😂😂😂😂
Emma, your parents become extended family when the two become one. Unless of course we are not using the same scriptures ooo. That's why you give your child away into marriage. Care for them, but don't get it wrong and over do it.
My mother-in-law is golden, Mama Oyibo we call her. I have loved my mother-in-law a long time before I met my wife. I have been her child for over a decade before I started dating my wife. So for me, she has been a blessing.
@@EmmaOhMaGod Oga calm down, no one is watching her womb here, I'm also a mother.. She looks pregnant doesnt mean she is pregnant. Afterall she didnt show her tummy just her face looks so. Dont get it twisted. And thanks for the harsh response on a compliment.
If you don't take it to be compliment it's fine. Only if you read the full content of my comment. 'Thank you she is not pregnant' should have been a better response, not womb watcher, Who cares about her womb, if she is pregnant is a thing of joy and we all will be happy for her. I dont know why you took my first phrase too personal. But it's all good. Thanks again
Thankfully, i have an amazing relationship with my motherinlaw, she's so supportive and caring.
And even if she wasn't, i don't think i would make trouble with her, cos i always told my hubby before getting married that if any of his family members give me any wahala, i will not make any trouble with them, instead it will be directed at him😂. God bless my husband because he's one person that puts me first in anything he does as in anything...sometimes i feel guilty sef cos i don't match up to how prioritizes me and our son.
The funny thing is the wahala we had came from my own side sef but thank God for my husband's maturity, he was even the one protecting me from my own family's wahala sef.
All in all, we thank God for wisdom.
Same here
Instablaster...
Emma,,.. I can relate. Lost my mom before I truly believed I gave back enough to be worthy of her sacrifice and I also repeat myself many times😂. Your wife reiterate what my sis told me too that her sacrifice was from a place of love, happiness and contentment. I love wisdom coming from young folks. Btw, I'm old to be your parents. I thank you both for the your advice. 👏🏿👍🏿
Wow! Your marriage is a blend of 2 different cultures (western & Nigerian) but God has helped you both to be one in all respect. Thank God for you guys.
I agree with Yetunde.
Yes, we should take care of our parents when they are old but, they shouldn't be our utmost priority. Child bearing is not an investment as most Nigerian parents perceive it to be.
I wish both of You continue the conversation. There's a reason why God planted you in her womb, to be your MOTHER Amen. This is Very much helpful and Great. ( Emma, May the Lord fill your heart with Everlasting Joy & Good Memories of Your Mother Amen). Yes you DID WELL 👏😍 To All Our children out there over to you , May the Lord Almighty be the Pillar of your Home in Jesus name Amen🙏🙌
You have all made valid points but in the case where the immediate child cannot talk to their mother, what happens?
I went into marriage hoping for a good relationship with my MIL but I was treated like the enemy. Seven years later, we have some type of truce. I thank God for the wisdom God gave me to handle hairy situations, they were opportunities to grow. if not for wisdom, I don't know where we would be today.
I agree with Yetunde that parents have this sense of entitlement. Good, if you can take care of them but I think our generation should shed off that mentality and enjoy the children without the expectation that whatever you are doing now is so that they can take care of you
I agree with Yetunde that children should not be burdened by their parents. When I do things for my kids, I tell them to make sure they pay it forward and take care of their kids.
Brilliant discussion! however, in Nigeria where there is no stable system to take care of older people. it can be extremely difficult for parents not to depend on their children when old with no saving and pension to survive on like here in the UK
I really enjoyed this discussion. I think some people don't even see their mother's "sense of entitlement" until it causes a problem with the spouse. That is when the child/person sees the mother's extreme or how it can affect the marriage negatively. When it gets to this stage, for some people the marriage is already affected. I agreed with you though, the person is the major cushion, never allow your mum get in between you and your spouse. Take care of both your mum and your spouse's mum.
I'm actually crying right now when Emma said his mum was dead..😭
i knew before but mehn it struck something in me too..God bless you Emma..I'm sure she's smiling down at you right now😪
Emmanuel, your wife hit the nail on the head; she said your family is your priority. Please listen to her. Also, when your lovely wife is making a point, please let her finish. Thanks guys, nice conversation.
Vision 10mins is the tagline for TheOhEmGees😂😍😍😍😍
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Asin and it never comes to pass
You knooow😂😂😂
hahaha but for real though!
When our daddy said vision ten minutes I checked the time, saw 45 mins and I was like 😏 daddy wa "for your mind"
😂.. I will show you soonest
@@EmmaOhMaGod Yeeeeee. My friends go hia am ooo. E.omg replied my comment oooo. 😲😲😲
I'm balling with a celeb nitori oloun. Ashe I will blow Sha.
Respect o
It is well. May your mum’s soul continue to rest in peace Emman!
Both of you are so genuinely priceless! I quite enjoy your shows or rather my hubby and I enjoy your shows (we are in our 56-63years bracket)
Watching you from Kent, England. xx
Really good discussion guys! EmmaOMG pleaseeee come to the UK soon for a faaji Friday!!
"Nobody reject LOVE"... Got dat... God bless you both...
Your channel is the best thing that has happened to me!! I learn from every episode!! ♥️♥️
Leave predictable for the regular man dem! We LOVE your spontaneity so abeg, make you leave am beyen e joor.
Although I’m not married yet, I believe you’ve both addressed this topic widely and well. More wisdom 🙏🏾
I'm sorry but I don't totally agree with Emmanuel's point when it comes to your priorities, kinda not so pleasant but bitter truth is your immediate family should be a priority for you when push comes to shove. Taken your parents could have gone through hell and back to train you, and you feel the need to repay them and some more for that, but, you should try to while "balancing" things not achieve that at the detriment of your new family. It's a tough one some times and the lines could be blurry at times, the beautiful thing about it all is the Holy Spirit is always available to nudge us in the right path if he's included in the tiniest of the decisions we make.
Anyways, lovely video as ever. However, a lot of things were pretty repetitive from Emmanuel's end as Yetunde pointed out.
Yetunde's look when he said " I feel we didn't really speak well about this" was epic! Like ta ba wa fe speak well nko? We'll spend the whole day??! 😂😂
Just to add, I personally think that Mothers generally should take into consideration that Yes, She suffered and brought her child up and all of that but now he/she also has to bring another person (their grandchildren) up, and this has to be done together with their spouses.
Happy New Year To The OhEmGees!! Love from China ❣️💝
Thank you. How is the weather in China?
@@TheOhEmGees It's really Cold here in China but we're surviving. Thanks for the amazing content you out out there, Remain Blessed.
As usual, I'm seeing this now( being a late subscriber)
Permit me to say: EmmaOMG, you are a son any mother would want to have. Your mother did a lot of serious upbringing on you. I know, because as a mother, I can hear it in your voice. I also know, she is smiling down at you from the bosom of her maker. Just make sure you remember everything she taught you. Just make sure you take care of your wife and family so she doesn't go through any of the sad things your mother went through in life. Don't let anything or anybody change you. I'm sorry if I've spoken out of place. I know you're a good man and God is blessing you, He will still take you higher. Remain blessed.
45minutes, I’m so happy about this 💃🏻💃🏻
I enjoy content from TheOhEmGees!
But one day, one day we will see vision 10 minutes 😅😅!
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You never get over the loss of a mother, especially if they labored so much for you! The Lord continue to comfort you! Awesome episode, as usual!
We don't need a perfect opening! Love the natural opening, be yourselves, it's fun and adds more cuteness to everything!
Thank you so much, u just made me want to call my parents and appreciate them🙏thanks🙏🥰🥰
There is always something to learn here, 😌
Yeah! that is what i love about their channel. They drop right insights and wisdom
The child in concern should strike a balance let the mother understand,take care of your mother but the immediate family is the main priority.Most times the mother of the man take things too extreme forgetting the woman too has a mother.Am the iya oko,they get this to their head,don't forget the mother of the wife too suffered,stress your child not spouse
Exactly. Every parent sacrificed a lot for their kids.
I think your intro song is a good tagline
I agree with Yetunde, our parents becoming extended after marriage, your immediate family comes first.
When you're married. You must leave your parent to cleave to your spouse. I remember a guy who told me his mum comes first in bow he shares his salary. The moment he said that.. I ran for my life. Today when I see his wife I feel sorry for the lady because that could have been me. Marriage is for 2 people not for in laws. Whether they suffer or not. Parenting is a duty but when cultural differences comes in that's when you start to bring them into marriage. In the end of that's where you find yourself. Strike a balance.
Great Job the ohEmgees!How many people rewind this video while watching to get clarity about some point i love watching your videos.@Emmanuel your mum was a great mother,sorry about her demise.You and your wife will eat the fruit of your labour on your children.
Ha! Bros, don’t fight back?! What if your spouse now kick you to the ground after his mother has pushed you (figuratively)?
I'm totally here for Yetunde's look. Hair. Make up. Shirt.❤
You are such a blessing sir and ma👌
I love this talk👍
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I'm back ooo,,, I really learn a lot, God bless theohemgees ❤❤
Thank you
Ohemgees are the best........more grace to you both.......
Thank you
Aunty Yetunde is so cute, awwww
Glory Akute Thank you 😊
Emma OMG’s face when he said mumsy was gone😞😞😞🥺
Speak to the child involve. They need to fix their parents. Parent need to let go at some point. As parents, we should trust that we have done a good job in raising our kids. Lobatan!
I have been married for over 10 years. I have alot to say on this topic but it cant be said in the comment section. Unfortunately my own experience has not been pleasant. It is a very hard and complicated topic. May God help us all.
My sister,let us just keep smiling through our pains ... It is well.🙏 Happy for Yetunde that she didn't have to go through any of these #palavas.😆😆😆😆😆
Yetunde is right, when you marry, your immediate family becomes your priority and your parents and siblings come after. And that is biblical. “You leave and cleave”
God bless you for this video!!
May God almighty bless your union
It's really nice to hear from you guys and I really learnt alot. i don't have a mother-in-law yet but I only pray for the best.
By the way Yetunde I love your hair😁😉👍
Grace Damilola Thank you 😊
I love the chair !!!!! And Yetunde's hair
keren amodeni Thank you 😊
We see your rhymes 😄
Emma,oh My God..you’re making me miss my mom and dad😒.It was worse last December ,they left me so early.
🙏May God continually comfort you.
I'm so sorry.. I pray God covers you and comforts you forever. In Jesus name. Amen.
Thanks for sharing this. As long as you both have decided to be together forever and leave your parent house, that means you are matured enough, so with God's wisdom, rule your home. Take care of them both, provide for them and satisfied them, the wife should not be rude to her mother-in-law no matter how tough she is and vice versa. Every parent has suffered for their child in one way or the other and that does not mean because they have suffered, they should rule your home. They are part of your family but your immediate family is more important.
Mother - In-Law, especially when the guy is the only son, they will want to control what goes on the family, due to what I call love towards the son, they will want their son to tell them literally everything that goes on in the family, in which is affecting the wife. Some will even cook for their son when his wife is available, which is not bad but you know it's somehow. The husband or the man should be the one to set a space and no go area and not be controlled by the mother. For the lady, some tell their mum literally everything that happens in their home and the mum will start leading and teaching her what to do which is affecting the marriage. The thing is the wife and husband should talk to their mum. They should both be guided and apply wisdom. They should both love their mother -in-law and show it because, if they do, even if the mother in-law is otherwise, she will come to realise that let me stop disturbing this people and all.
taking notes for my potential family. love you both #muaaahhh #allthingsareavailable
Just so apt guys! Thanks...👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽
The Western notion is just so wrong no matter what. When you look at it forget about the financial side of things when our parents get old they become fragile and it’s their children they look up to. Secondly like you said here in the West people have pensions but in Africa what they are meant to put aside for pension they’ve spent on their children so by the time they get old they have nothing to fall back on and finally people like me am a single mum and my son seeing what I went through regardless of me being a professional he loves me too much that his wife to come will just have to respect that and like Emmanuel said it’s all about the bond and what our kids see us go through. I am independent, have given my son what even two parents couldn’t give eg my son attended ‘private school’ and a host of other things travel the world but boy I suffered to get to where we are and in the midst of our journey there have been times when there is no income and I had to sell my things so when a child see that and now gets married not that I am gonna demand but he knew what we went through times when I will have to sacrifice all that I have just to give him a good life and I thank God all my efforts have not been in vain. Even now he’s just finished Uni but as far back as when he was in year six/A/l he decided to pick up holiday job and bought me so much and he has always been since then till now . Another thing just like Emmanuel said am always like you are still young just pray for God to give me long life then you will pay me back. So long and short a child who has started like that will definitely do more when he gets married and his wife should just be understanding.
I love this content. Learnt a lot
Thank you
See my church members. All things are now ready for me and my house hold
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I just subscribed to your channel so I'm just seeing this video, my own question is, how do i cope with a mother in law (to be) that usually look down on her on son like he can't achieve anything good in life. I'm always the one trying to boost his confidence, so if by God's grace her son (my fiance ) become a billionaire, how do relate with her considering how she treats her son even in my presence. Please help me coz I'm already having this mindset about her. Thanks
Your wife is right. Stick to the word...honour your parents but also 'leave and cleave' to your wife. Let go of the traditions of men.
Emma is so full of wisdom 👌👌👌Oh how i wish he can be my husband's brother(that he never had)! If you ever decide to visit the U.K soon,you have to do a meet & greet for your U.K. subscribers abeg.🙏🙏🙏
How funny my husband actually knows Emma from Convenant University.🙈
Wow...it's been a while i watched your video.
Yetunde looking 🔥🔥🔥
Thanks!
Temidayo Fayemi Thank you 😊
Omg..first things first I looovee your hairr
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Vision 10minutes Emma😂😂😂
Emma parent can demand too much ooo. Hummm. I pray you don't experience what others out here are experiencing.
The joy that came in my heart when I saw your video 😍❤️
In the west, parents give to their children, even grown up and married children but our culture forces you to do and do for your parents and then do for your kids.
Not all wife will understand what ur mother passed through for u . all the same thank u for this very topic
Ooo thank you, i have learnt somethings with you
Thanks for this.
The way mummy Feranmi seemed excited when you said wahala. You had to ask if she knew the meaning
Lol abi o
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You both make me so happy 💙😁
As in, can we as well transfer the aggressions on our spouse
Hoops my people let me watch
We attend the same church. Just finding out 😁😁
Wow... RIP MOM
Wow wow wow I love the intro oooh OMGs 😅🤣😂😃😃💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾you got a new subscriber 😅😂🤣💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Yay. Welcome on board!
Same here 👌👌👌#new_subbie🙋♀️
Vision 10minutes 😂😂😂
Nice topic love you guys ❤️
You guys should just start the OMGee dictionary already (we go buy) weller than well😁
Just like me,my mum suffered but she wasn't alive to enjoy atleast a bit😭
The same way Mums 'left' the child to go to 'school' to prepare for a better life; she needs also to 'leave' her child, (to an extent) to mature in the school of marriage. She would be happier to see her child progressively showing up on all fronts as a capable adult. Continuous meddling or interference negates all the effort put into the child.
Unless; the mother is plain selfish. Dem go die together ni, mother and child at the same time? 🤷♀️
Tears of joy all the way #2020.
Random moments?...
Brilliant angle. Random moments will be back soon
God bless u ..I think some mother's both side...needs to take a chill pill and let the children make their own home and not get involved..
Yetty mama was crying😢😢😢😢😢
I love your videos.. Emma please give yetunde a chance to speak, I was really looking forward to hear her opinion. May God bless your family!
Ok thanks but did you watch the full video? She aired her opinions as much as she wanted.
I’ve been waiting for you guys na😩
We posted 2 videos last week na
You don’t need a “tag line” or catchphrase! Seeing your faces is enough. Why spoil a good thing?
I really do not agree with a lot of things Emma said in this video. Cos you suffered on your child doesn't mean you have to be a pest to their spouse. To even think that "where is this one coming from" is disrespectful. What did you think was going to happen when your son/daughter got married? Why didn't you just cage them instead of "allowing" them to get married since you want them to yourself forever. The financial part of mother-in-law palava is nothing compared to the other aspect which is not knowing where your boundary lies as a mother-in-law. Interfering in things that doesn't concern you cos you suffered on your child? Or all of a sudden, the new wife is now your competition and it's like a polygamous marriage. Please abeg.
I strongly disagree with him k this one. Parenting is a duty not a choice. It is a responsibility. You owe it to the child. You dont take care of a child for returns. Your return biblically is peace. "To omo re ko le fun o ni simi". A lot of marriages are suffering bcs mother in laws are not allowing their children to cleave to their spouse. Most mother in laws giving wahala are bitter from their past and choice of marriage. It has nothing to do with the daughter in law. Happy women dont hurt other women!
I beg to disagree. Emma wasn't saying if a mother-in-law is crossing her boundaries, it is right. He was literally speaking from the angle (worst-case circumstance) of a mother-in-law just to show their way of thinking and what sprouts the sense of entitlement in them. I think he eventually mentioned that the child should take it as a responsibility to balance it. Additionally, he said the spouse should "understand" the mother-in-law and not receive it as "wahala" and the mother-in-law should also be considerate.
Also, when your mother toiled a lot for you, it might be hard to choose your "first" priority. I totally understand Emma. His views reflects how well his mummy sacrificed for him. Love is a subconscious thing, you can't measure or divide it. it's a feeling. It hard mennnnnn... And we wouldn't know until we get to that stage, I swear. God help us 😢😢
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Facts:
1. It is the responsibility of a parent to take care of a child.
2. It is the responsibility of a child to take care of their parents.
3. It is the responsibility of the spouse to set boundaries for their parents if their inquisitiveness will hinder love.
4. Consider your spouse before your parents for your parents will still love you. You have nothing to prove to them but you still have a lot to prove to your spouse. (This is an opinion though).
All in all, it is hard but always be objective.
Notification geng💃🏽
See how somebody's wife is fine😍
I'm not married yet, but I think... In my opinion, love both parties. But if you're ever in a situation where you have to take a side, your spouse comes before your parents.
P.S: I may be wrong about this, but I feel the age of Methuselah has nothing to do with the wisdom of Solomon. You might not know EVERYTHING because you haven't been married for long, but that does not mean you don't know ANYTHING. You people keep saying you don't know ANYTHING (yeah you do that a lot😏) like we that came here to listen to you are wasting our time.😔
Christabel Oladapo it’s coming from a place of humility
First to comment 💃💃💃lemme farabale watch it,, be right back
This is rli deep...sorry bout ur mom
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I.love.your.hair!!!!
asantewaa opoku Thank you 😊
Vision 10 minutes is not an achievable goal
Lol we shall see
So, why can’t Yoruba movies write a script like this. Why always mother in laws always wicked, wife always mumu like that’s are some women are general. When wèré plenty.😂😂😂😂
I so wish my mum is still alive just to taste a bit of her labour and sweat 😢
Emma, your parents become extended family when the two become one. Unless of course we are not using the same scriptures ooo. That's why you give your child away into marriage. Care for them, but don't get it wrong and over do it.
My mother-in-law is golden, Mama Oyibo we call her. I have loved my mother-in-law a long time before I met my wife. I have been her child for over a decade before I started dating my wife. So for me, she has been a blessing.
Yes ooo
Excited to see you guys
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Yetunde is looking pregnant 👏👏she's so cute
Wehdone womb watcher
@@EmmaOhMaGod Oga calm down, no one is watching her womb here, I'm also a mother.. She looks pregnant doesnt mean she is pregnant. Afterall she didnt show her tummy just her face looks so. Dont get it twisted. And thanks for the harsh response on a compliment.
Lol her face looks like she is pregnant and that is a compliment??? It is well
If you consider this a compliment when I’ve not said I’m pregnant and I’m actually in fact not pregnant then you need to re-evaluate your compliments
If you don't take it to be compliment it's fine. Only if you read the full content of my comment. 'Thank you she is not pregnant' should have been a better response, not womb watcher, Who cares about her womb, if she is pregnant is a thing of joy and we all will be happy for her. I dont know why you took my first phrase too personal. But it's all good. Thanks again