You know..some say I'm mysterious, stuck up.....but that's fine, I choose to remain silent because over-sharing practically destroyed my life. I appreciate these words of wisdom. Thank you for understanding...🙏
I told my ex way too much about myself and our relationship ended in disaster. He used all he knew against me. Ladies, be SO careful about what you say to men AND women!
@@SharonMcCauley-d4f Yes, I WAS friend. The sad part is that one day I was praying over my troubled relationship. I felt a strong sense of dread. It ended in a savage two day beating off and on. God preserved me, thank God. However, I can never say He didn't warn me. God gives us answers. Sometimes we refuse to hear Him say 'No.'
Proverbs 4:23, which states, "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." NOT EVERYONE WANTS TO SEE YOU SHINE. Keep your business to yourself. Set BOUNDARIES #1! Keep your peace and discernment sharp at all costs. Value yourself always. Thank you, good day.
What Women must keep Private until the person is proven trustworthy I caught 5 1. Emotional Vulnerability 2. Personal Battles 3.Financial Status 4. Past Relationships 5. Dreams/Vision for the future
very wise words , an abusive man once criticised me for ' having no boundaries' I did not understand that , until now- thankyou . I have rediscovered myself and found my inner peace thanks to God.
I really needed to hear this I’ve felt so hurt and invalidated sharing my deep pain with my mom Stories of how martyrs and starving people are suffering worse. To just be positive I wish I’d never shared Guess this is sharing too God is my refuge
Some of the wisest words you can share with someone are,none.I have been single majority of my 47 years and the LORD has taught me these gifts.May you,I,we all, be healed of our pain and suffering.May YAH restore to you the years the locust hath eaten.Ask Yah,before you share.As nothing that goes into us defiles us.Your heart is a door.Choose who you open it up to,for what comes out of it can change by who you let in it.Yes,someone can cause defilement to come out of you.Your heart.Thank you for this channel.,What a blessing. It has become a daily part of my spiritual nutrition.All glory to the most high.❤🙏
Thank you for this teaching. This is a struggle I’ve had for a long while. How much should be share? What mustn’t be shared. I need to keep my peace, desiring to share my heart and emotions know when to opening up wisely. Preserving my heart and emotions to respect and respect myself standing strong in discernment. Lord God teach me to choose wisely on letting someone into my life and heart. ❤️
Well, it's way too late for me then. lol.. I've shared in public a secret I've kept hidden for 40 years. I finally feel FREEDOM!!!! No more suffering in silence and no more worrying someone will find out what I did .
No matter what you tell men, they don't listen, they always get it muffled up so what's the difference? As if we are gonna say, yes yes yes to everything, if I treat someone the best thats because their paying the bills. But what they do with being treated the best is what they do. If they decide to abuse me because I'm treating them the best im not breaking, and they will deal with the monster they've creeated face to face. I'm not backing down and i will not stand to be mistreated. You can tell if their a good man or a evil man in disguise. Some pretend they love you and all this bad stuff comes out of them. You know there's something wrong with them when they start with stupid lies. Then again and again and you can't bring up every little thing because it's too many. They really just want a doormat and a slave. When I make promises I'm very dedicated and have a lot to offer. I have not met one man that matches that. Look at it how you want to but I know I'm loyal and have what it takes. I Hate games. That is sick stuff.
We all strive for real connections. Trusting a sinful man is the problem. The transgressions that follow from these individuals is just an expression of their tyranny. May God provide comfort to these people who were looking for someone to confide in. We are all going through something in life. And no one is perfect.
@GB_008 God bless you for sharing your constructive feedback. I'm sure many would agree living by the Lord's teachings is more beautiful than using his words against your fellow brothers and sisters of this earth. I'm glad at least 11 people made sense of what I said about the kind of man to keep your silence around. Peace be to you.
yes, so true. Sometimes I open up and tell a new person too much. At least, though, I never let anyone take my body. Refraining from sexual immorality is the number one priority. God bless you.
I’m greatful for the knowledge and truth of these teachings that are life changing. It’s never too late to act on these principles and share with others who are ready to receive divine wisdom.🙏🏾❤️
I learnt that no one is proven trustworthy therefore give off only what you feel is just enough. No one is worth it. Only God is the keeper of your secrets, desires, thoughts, goals, etc.
For me it IS about shutting others out....some people are just nosey and need your info for their own entertainment!! They're not interesting enough to deserve your energy...
Thank you more than I can say. Your content here was a direct answer to the prayer of many months. Now I know how to proceed. I’m grateful to God for directing my path to your video and to you for making it happen.
Glory and Honor to God!! 🙏🙌 May He will guide and protect you wherever you go. Continue to be the salt and light to this world.🙏🙏🙌 God bless you more and beyond dear friend 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Many women see the financial 1 as keeping wealth to yourself & denying your husband anything. While men often over share and give all of their money to girlfriends whom they will never marry (including furnishings, food, bills, housing, & eveything only a husband would give his own wife!)
Not to be mistaken for people, women and men, who are intentionally secretive as a passive/aggressive manipulation. Young girls and women are not taught to listen to their inner voice, that gut feeling. Boys are innately in tune with that inner voice and are more suspect of their surroundings. Girls should learn to listen to that voice/gut feeling and know when danger...danger of saying too much, feeling too much, loving too much, giving too much, trusting too much, believing too much...is present.
Our pastors wife must have studied into this a little too much, when they were married she would NOT acquire his last name, she would NOT join her bank account with him, she would NOT allow him to see the deed to their home, she would NOT assist in paying any of the bills and actually it was found out later that the home he was living in had been paid off and he was still sending a payment unknowingly to his wife’s bank account. Did I also mention that she had took his post office box key? So, with constant disagreement, this ended in divorce, but this man STILL preaches the fire from the Lord. And we STILL support him. He fought this for over 6 yrs.
They say men are from Mars and woman are from Venus and that your husband is not your friend and you cannot tell him your feelings or what you care about And they wonder why the world is in trouble 😵💫
What does being from Venus or Mars have to do with anything? Those are just silly and meaningless constructs; neither planet supports life-how completely foolish. Lean on God’s word and your intimate relationship with Him. And your generalization about husbands isn’t fully accurate-mine was a prince who guarded my heart like his own. In other words, I sense the extreme pain you’re in and the amount of cheat and betrayal, and bitterness life has thrown at you, and I pray that God will help you work through it. You need peace, and if you ask God for that, wow-He will listen. Blessings on you, sweet person.
There is no such thing as financial independence. You always depend on someone. If you are working you depend on the company to decide your time your pay and how you spend. If you are married your husband controls your financial independence. I never feel free financially. Even if you inherit the money it's not complete freedom it gets complicated. Women are vulnerable in this world and don't let anyone say to you they are financially independent they are paying the price one way or another we just don't know fully their situation. 😢
I'm not sure why they had to say "Godly women" and CS Lewis. When we are married we become 1 flesh and our financial status is shared. Also the 1st 20 talking to yourself about yourself. Shouldn't the 1st fruits of our day be going to the Lord? I'm halfway through, and working out. I asked myself why I was listening to something unbiblical, and then I told myself I usually don't do that, I thought this was and looked at the channel and title. Best advice is read your Bible. Meditate day and night. Leave a (spiritual) inheritance to your children's children. And the Bible tells us that even the sparrows and flowers the Lord takes care of. We depend on him for our "financial success". He takes care of us. My 2 cents which don't really matter. Hopefully I don't upset anyone with my comment. Shalom
I enjoy some of your videos but I never hear you talk about Jesus and scripture. And I have noticed in a few videos women taking the posture of yoga and meditation (new age/Hinduism practices)
Pls lord show this to the right person. I’m about to be homeless cause I can’t find a job lord. But you know this. If anyone can do anything I’d really appreciate it. My C.A. Is picklikeapro. So sorry to ask but I don’t know what else to do. If you can’t a prayer would also do. God bless!
The job will come and it will be at the right time. Don't give up, all this is temporary!!! I pray you find stability and strength no matter what tests you go through. You will overcome them all ❤
You know..some say I'm mysterious, stuck up.....but that's fine, I choose to remain silent because over-sharing practically destroyed my life. I appreciate these words of wisdom. Thank you for understanding...🙏
@belindabenjamin5474 Let them! Preserve your peace. I am asking God to make me a quiet woman and to stop oversharing.
Me too
@@ksgraham3477 May God be your very best friend. You can talk to Him always. I hope for His rich blessings for you and the Joy only He can give.
They say I’m mysterious too
I told my ex way too much about myself and our relationship ended in disaster. He used all he knew against me. Ladies, be SO careful about what you say to men AND women!
I agree! Don't say anything you don't want repeated or used against you.
You were with the wrong man. A gentleman would not do that.
@@SharonMcCauley-d4f Yes, I WAS friend. The sad part is that one day I was praying over my troubled relationship. I felt a strong sense of dread. It ended in a savage two day beating off and on. God preserved me, thank God. However, I can never say He didn't warn me. God gives us answers. Sometimes we refuse to hear Him say 'No.'
Wish I knew this. I trusted others. As my doctor said "not everyone is like you, the only person you can trust is yourself and God"
❤yes he throws all of the painful things back in my face at will just to Break my 💔
Proverbs 4:23, which states, "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." NOT EVERYONE WANTS TO SEE YOU SHINE. Keep your business to yourself. Set BOUNDARIES #1! Keep your peace and discernment sharp at all costs. Value yourself always. Thank you, good day.
I recently tattooed this verse on my ankle ✨It’s one of the most important lessons to adhere to
Amen!
What Women must keep Private until the person is proven trustworthy
I caught 5
1. Emotional Vulnerability
2. Personal Battles 3.Financial Status
4. Past Relationships
5. Dreams/Vision for the future
There were only five. This video was misleading in its title and not well presented. He should have said: first, second, third etc.
One was sharing your thoughts.
Another was letting others know how you're feeling.
So, we're just supposed to only have idle chit chat.
very wise words , an abusive man once criticised me for ' having no boundaries' I did not understand that , until now- thankyou . I have rediscovered myself and found my inner peace thanks to God.
I wish I had this knowledge years ago.
❤❤❤
TO God be the Glory, God saw it fit for us to know in this disposition of time !!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It's a valuable scripture that says, "Know no man after the flesh"
I really needed to hear this
I’ve felt so hurt and invalidated sharing my deep pain with my mom
Stories of how martyrs and starving people are suffering worse. To just be positive
I wish I’d never shared
Guess this is sharing too
God is my refuge
Some of the wisest words you can share with someone are,none.I have been single majority of my 47 years and the LORD has taught me these gifts.May you,I,we all, be healed of our pain and suffering.May YAH restore to you the years the locust hath eaten.Ask Yah,before you share.As nothing that goes into us defiles us.Your heart is a door.Choose who you open it up to,for what comes out of it can change by who you let in it.Yes,someone can cause defilement to come out of you.Your heart.Thank you for this channel.,What a blessing. It has become a daily part of my spiritual nutrition.All glory to the most high.❤🙏
Lesson learned. The hard way ✝️
It's good to pray to God, and he will lead you in the right path in life.
Lololo
Thank you for this teaching. This is a struggle I’ve had for a long while. How much should be share? What mustn’t be shared. I need to keep my peace, desiring to share my heart and emotions know when to opening up wisely. Preserving my heart and emotions to respect and respect myself standing strong in discernment. Lord God teach me to choose wisely on letting someone into my life and heart. ❤️
Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I truly need to learn more silence and protect the heart that is worn on my sleeve💗
Amen
Me too! ❤
Well said ! I Wear it on my sleeve, front of my blouse, back. The list goes on! May we all find comfort in knowing we are not alone.
Same.
You should be able to trust your spouse but unfortunately... that isn't always a good idea. 😢
Well, it's way too late for me then. lol.. I've shared in public a secret I've kept hidden for 40 years. I finally feel FREEDOM!!!! No more suffering in silence and no more worrying someone will find out what I did .
If this is you, your voice is so soothing… it makes the message resonate more🙏🏾
No matter what you tell men, they don't listen, they always get it muffled up so what's the difference?
As if we are gonna say, yes yes yes to everything, if I treat someone the best thats because their paying the bills. But what they do with being treated the best is what they do. If they decide to abuse me because I'm treating them the best im not breaking, and they will deal with the monster they've creeated face to face. I'm not backing down and i will not stand to be mistreated.
You can tell if their a good man or a evil man in disguise. Some pretend they love you and all this bad stuff comes out of them. You know there's something wrong with them when they start with stupid lies. Then again and again and you can't bring up every little thing because it's too many. They really just want a doormat and a slave. When I make promises I'm very dedicated and have a lot to offer. I have not met one man that matches that. Look at it how you want to but I know I'm loyal and have what it takes. I Hate games. That is sick stuff.
Wealth isn't just about numbers but having options!! Amen
We all strive for real connections. Trusting a sinful man is the problem. The transgressions that follow from these individuals is just an expression of their tyranny. May God provide comfort to these people who were looking for someone to confide in. We are all going through something in life. And no one is perfect.
All but Christ himself is sinful. Your words do not make sense.
@GB_008 God bless you for sharing your constructive feedback. I'm sure many would agree living by the Lord's teachings is more beautiful than using his words against your fellow brothers and sisters of this earth. I'm glad at least 11 people made sense of what I said about the kind of man to keep your silence around. Peace be to you.
So valuable teaching. Thank you
Thank you. Really needed this info--not against men at this time, but against my family.
Amen
Glory to God🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌
This is soooo valuable and good timing. Thank you!❤
Amen🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Truth..our lives become "entertainment " for those "of the world"
People must strive for pure living. Refraining from sexual immorality should be the number one priority for all. The end.
yes, so true. Sometimes I open up and tell a new person too much. At least, though, I never let anyone take my body. Refraining from sexual immorality is the number one priority. God bless you.
A lot of wisdom.
This channel is divine. Thank you. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Thank You.
I’m greatful for the knowledge and truth of these teachings that are life changing. It’s never too late to act on these principles and share with others who are ready to receive divine wisdom.🙏🏾❤️
when you are married then shared bank acount is a must . The 2💕become 1❤
Shared with daughter and granddaughter's
Stay in the present moment. Don't allow the past mistakes to be brought up in the present new relationship. It is exhausting.
I learnt that no one is proven trustworthy therefore give off only what you feel is just enough. No one is worth it.
Only God is the keeper of your secrets, desires, thoughts, goals, etc.
Amen
Indeed. Amein
For me it IS about shutting others out....some people are just nosey and need your info for their own entertainment!! They're not interesting enough to deserve your energy...
Thank you more than I can say. Your content here was a direct answer to the prayer of many months. Now I know how to proceed. I’m grateful to God for directing my path to your video and to you for making it happen.
Glory and Honor to God!! 🙏🙌 May He will guide and protect you wherever you go. Continue to be the salt and light to this world.🙏🙏🙌 God bless you more and beyond dear friend 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@C.S.LewisLegends Blessings on you. Thank you.
THE HEART OF A WOMAN IS AS DEEP AS THE OCEAN AND HAS MANY SECRETS..... ROSE, FROM.... TITANIC.
Many women see the financial 1 as keeping wealth to yourself & denying your husband anything. While men often over share and give all of their money to girlfriends whom they will never marry (including furnishings, food, bills, housing, & eveything only a husband would give his own wife!)
We all have free will and choice, use it wisely, that's what i learn in every relationships.
Thank u lord for wisdom amen
This was an awesome teaching!!
Glory to God🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I appreciate all the wise advice. I plan to send this to my family and friend
Amen! Well said!
I love this channel ❤️ 💕
Glory to God🙏🙏🙌🙌
I love these words❤.
“Maintain financial independence “. Women make sure we win the lottery!!
Amen❤❤
Wise words
This should be for both women AND men I think.
Not to be mistaken for people, women and men, who are intentionally secretive as a passive/aggressive manipulation.
Young girls and women are not taught to listen to their inner voice, that gut feeling. Boys are innately in tune with that inner voice and are more suspect of their surroundings. Girls should learn to listen to that voice/gut feeling and know when danger...danger of saying too much, feeling too much, loving too much, giving too much, trusting too much, believing too much...is present.
Amen to all of this
Amen🙏🙏🙏🙏
Found this out 80yrs too late. Wish I knew this yrs ago. Too late.
My heart goes out to you, sweet person. I pray that you can find peace even at this stage-from one oldie to another.
@Fan-vm3sv thk you for caring
Amen 🙏 ❤️ 🕊
They meet u u pour your heart in time they use all against u..
Our pastors wife must have studied into this a little too much, when they were married she would NOT acquire his last name, she would NOT join her bank account with him, she would NOT allow him to see the deed to their home, she would NOT assist in paying any of the bills and actually it was found out later that the home he was living in had been paid off and he was still sending a payment unknowingly to his wife’s bank account. Did I also mention that she had took his post office box key? So, with constant disagreement, this ended in divorce, but this man STILL preaches the fire from the Lord. And we STILL support him. He fought this for over 6 yrs.
They say men are from Mars and woman are from Venus and that your husband is not your friend and you cannot tell him your feelings or what you care about And they wonder why the world is in trouble 😵💫
What does being from Venus or Mars have to do with anything? Those are just silly and meaningless constructs; neither planet supports life-how completely foolish. Lean on God’s word and your intimate relationship with Him. And your generalization about husbands isn’t fully accurate-mine was a prince who guarded my heart like his own. In other words, I sense the extreme pain you’re in and the amount of cheat and betrayal, and bitterness life has thrown at you, and I pray that God will help you work through it. You need peace, and if you ask God for that, wow-He will listen. Blessings on you, sweet person.
Also..the more others know our personal struggles the less they hear the holy spirit from us, all they see is the "natural man".
How can we prevent him from sneaking and knows everything 😂
There is no such thing as financial independence. You always depend on someone. If you are working you depend on the company to decide your time your pay and how you spend. If you are married your husband controls your financial independence. I never feel free financially. Even if you inherit the money it's not complete freedom it gets complicated. Women are vulnerable in this world and don't let anyone say to you they are financially independent they are paying the price one way or another we just don't know fully their situation. 😢
I'm not sure why they had to say "Godly women" and CS Lewis. When we are married we become 1 flesh and our financial status is shared. Also the 1st 20 talking to yourself about yourself. Shouldn't the 1st fruits of our day be going to the Lord? I'm halfway through, and working out. I asked myself why I was listening to something unbiblical, and then I told myself I usually don't do that, I thought this was and looked at the channel and title. Best advice is read your Bible. Meditate day and night. Leave a (spiritual) inheritance to your children's children. And the Bible tells us that even the sparrows and flowers the Lord takes care of. We depend on him for our "financial success". He takes care of us. My 2 cents which don't really matter. Hopefully I don't upset anyone with my comment. Shalom
Me too
I enjoy some of your videos but I never hear you talk about Jesus and scripture. And I have noticed in a few videos women taking the posture of yoga and meditation (new age/Hinduism practices)
What about avoiding men that are evil so you can just share those
Amen
AMEN🙌💖⚓🙏
C.S. Lewis INSPIRED…. Soooo, who is the actual writer of this video?
Why are people so ignorant as to need such "rules" This doesn't seem very advanced to me. Too much ego here
Not rules, it's wisdom.
Pls lord show this to the right person. I’m about to be homeless cause I can’t find a job lord. But you know this. If anyone can do anything I’d really appreciate it. My C.A. Is picklikeapro. So sorry to ask but I don’t know what else to do. If you can’t a prayer would also do. God bless!
The job will come and it will be at the right time. Don't give up, all this is temporary!!! I pray you find stability and strength no matter what tests you go through. You will overcome them all ❤
@ Tysm!
Do you have a degree? And how much is your rent?
I’ve prayed for you. Ask God for your needs!!
❤I’m praying 🙏 for you HE knows what you need and Will Provide trust Him