FREDA Addo-Oludare || Let’s Discuss Toxic Relationships ||

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  • @moduperichard8539
    @moduperichard8539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey girl it's been a while I've been offline. Love ur video n I have been in a toxic relationship before with a roomie n course mate too. Omo she frustrated my life that I had to stay home n go to school from home. And that was a serious problem too, she was reporting me to everyone. She was a control freak. But when I got too tire I collect myself from her o. I did everything she is against n turn the table. 2 years after we left school. She wrote letter to me( no phones then) a lengthy one apologizing for being who she is. Since then I don't allow people to control me like that o.

    • @FreedahVlogs
      @FreedahVlogs  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! I’m happy that she realized her wrongs eventually. I think that just goes to say that even “toxic” people can change. But also very proud of you for taking yourself out of unnecessary drama 😅❤️

  • @watchmanfaith9918
    @watchmanfaith9918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @gladysantonza
    @gladysantonza 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Any relationship that affects your relationship with God" Love that definition!
    Meanwhile, you are doing so great, Vellie!

    • @FreedahVlogs
      @FreedahVlogs  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you mama ❤️❤️

  • @tabithasesay8895
    @tabithasesay8895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a whole new perspective I’ve seen. Thanks ma🙌❤️

  • @estherdaniel6623
    @estherdaniel6623 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Freda, omoh love this video and topic, this has answered alot of my questions...thanks for adding up.

    • @FreedahVlogs
      @FreedahVlogs  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful! Thank you mama!

  • @TorotiBoye
    @TorotiBoye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so true, you are good with identifying people.

    • @FreedahVlogs
      @FreedahVlogs  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awwwww. Thank you sis 🥰❤️

  • @rejoicegodwin4207
    @rejoicegodwin4207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so proud of you Big Sis❤️

  • @tsourescorner
    @tsourescorner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, sis so just recently I was in one. I accommodate this person then we had a misunderstanding I told her the part where she made me unhappy and she told me hers. I apologized. But she never apologize instead she kept blaming me. This happened like 2 more times. The next time she tried blaming me I told her to stop and also admit hers, and she walked out of the house.
    Ahh, I wrote her a letter and said please I can't handle the fact that you do not own up to the part where you have offended me while I do and apologize. She finally apologized but I have gone through that 2 times, so I just distanced myself because ahh I cannot.
    And lastly, if there is one thing the Holy has worked on me so much is patience and gentleness, so much that when I meet difficult people I cannot form Jagaban with them because I do not have that fruit. So I will try to manage them. By getting the work done and moving on (this is especially for people I work with). God has given me the grace of forbearance because last last there are people that I have seen that never want to change especially from the same household of faith. So I cry to God and Forebear while I am still around them.

    • @FreedahVlogs
      @FreedahVlogs  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so key! I’m always reporting people to God too 😅.
      And people who don’t own up to their part of a wrong are actually a trigger for me. I’ll now start to ask if I’m the problem or if I’m wrong in some way. Thank God for HS though! He teaches and guides us always!
      Thanks for your contribution sis ❤️.