Maddie, we repeat, you are the most liked person! You never miss. Not only are you the quickest with the wittiest, you also give a voice to so so many of us forever in process with our gender(s)?!? I have felt so seen when you talk about how to untangle your personal feelings and the social constructs of gender and language and meaning. Thank you! We fucking love you!
Yeah 2nd all this. This podcast in general but def Maddie specifically has helped me sort out some gender sexuality stuff just by having well said, interesting, and different perspectives.
Was hoping to hear the "Vanessa" story but we got Jen AND we got Jen and Maddie teaming up to top Ashley so I can wait at least another week for "Vanessa" because this was awesome.
"Sort of like a drained parasite. I could tell this used to be a barnacle on the attention economy". Damn, Maddie is brilliant. Bloody brilliant. One of the smartest, quickest, wittiest, best comedians (and people) around, hands down.
Maddie! Ashley, girl you find THE BEST co-hosts. Maddie just slays, all the time, it's almost exhausting. Thank you all, Ashley Maddie and Jen, for a great episode xoxo
There's a spot on the wall behind Jen,and every single week, I start the podcast and think there's something on my phone screen and try to wipe it away 😅
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@@sasha_bean it was literally perfect, we were talking about real life lesbian representation and about the overlap and contradictions between masc lesbians and non-binary people which is LITERALLY ONE OF ASHLEY AND MADDIES FAVORITE DISCUSSIONS
i highkey am glad (sooorrrryyy) that the guests canceled. jen is iconic, have her on instead of someone else any day lol. jen and ash content for life!
I'm glad Maddie is actually being able to let her funny out and flirt shamelessly with Jen and not get shut down by Ashley like she always gets. Maddie is fucking amazing and hilarious I'm glad she's actually going off finally 😂
are you watched the unedited version on patreon? maddie often asks for things to be cut so I think what you're seeing as getting shut down is just the editing that maddie herself is requesting.
42:14 "I'm more heteroromantic, than heterosexual." As a late in life, comphet lesbian, I felt that. Above the waist crush is so real. I honestly attribute it to only having straight relationships represented growing up. I'm only sexually attracted to women, but I only ever saw hetero relationships portrayed my whole life (as the thing expected of me), so the wires get crossed in my brain; where I can imagine cuddling with an above the waist man crush, slight PDA, but when I try to picture having sex or even kissing a man, my whole body cringes. Straight relationships are all I'm used to seeing, so my brain just pictures a kind of default-heteronormative mode.
I always wonder why that door is open, especially since years ago in a Q&A Ashley and Jen did together, open cabinets was a pet peeve of Ashley's. Maybe there's a good reason for it, like some weird sound quality thing perhaps.
I've legit commented this before. My ADHD is like what are they using the dr. bronner's soap for!? theres so many uses!! I must contemplate all the options and cant concentrate on Maddie lols
I agree about the mindfulness thing. That's why it was borderline confusing for me when people started suggesting it as some new thing. I was born in 1979. I grew up mindful. I still am. Same goes with the exercise of "grounding", i.e. walking barefoot on the earth. That's just... how I walk. I grew up in a semi rural area, and we always went barefoot. That carried into adulthood.
the hair this episode! maddie is alt perfection and jen with the perfect high pony.. i (the backwards hat gay) am shaking also yes pleeease get olivia on the pod omg
just wanted to say that i first got the notification before i went to sleep so i had a dream that Jen was 23 (my age) and in a highschool class with me in a school which you finish it at 23 for some reason and i was like "oh no Ashley will get cancelled again" and that's it, that was the dream...
Ashley would you consider doing a “Gay thought reaction” to your own gay thoughts from the older episodes? You could even roast yourself. Reduce, reuse, recycle
I will judge Rotha Lintorn-Orman more heavily than non-queers because I am a queer so I need to ensure queer spaces are clean and safe. If you are not in my community, you are not my problem, that is someone else's work to do.
Not to be super creepy with this knowledge but actually selling your eggs could make you so much money. There is a big scarcity of Ashkenazi Jewish donations and lots of people search for it specifically for religious reasons of course and because there is more jewish people needing donations to prevent some genetic disorders. So if you are fit for that market it will at least triple the value.
✨no✨ I know the word queer has been used to hurt some of us, and you're more than welcome to not use it or identify with it, but many people have reclaimed it and it's been fairly widly accepted as an umbrella term to mean someone whos not cishet. Gay can also be an umbrella term in some ways, but I think for some people there's a more concrete meaning to it. And the word gay has also been used to hurt people before.
Queer is helpful cuz beyond sexuality it’s inclusive of gender which can be helpful for me when describing others whose labels I don’t know. But otherwise I love gay for everything else
I'm not Gay but I am ( to quote George Carlin) an Old Fart. It's hard keeping up with how people want to be reff'd to. I think if the person actually in the group uses a term it's Okay .
It's very hard not to be parasocial when you get to listen in on four friends just talking and laughing together. Y'all are amazing.
The self awareness is the difference between you and people screaming at me via their keyboard. So I appreciate this comment :)
Maddie, we repeat, you are the most liked person! You never miss. Not only are you the quickest with the wittiest, you also give a voice to so so many of us forever in process with our gender(s)?!? I have felt so seen when you talk about how to untangle your personal feelings and the social constructs of gender and language and meaning. Thank you! We fucking love you!
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Yeah 2nd all this. This podcast in general but def Maddie specifically has helped me sort out some gender sexuality stuff just by having well said, interesting, and different perspectives.
Was hoping to hear the "Vanessa" story but we got Jen AND we got Jen and Maddie teaming up to top Ashley so I can wait at least another week for "Vanessa" because this was awesome.
The anticipation will be worth it I'm sure!
My thoughts exactly. 😆
It’s not recorded yet, we’re gonna do the ep with Alayna! ❤
Saaaaame lol
Yayyyy!❤
"Sort of like a drained parasite. I could tell this used to be a barnacle on the attention economy". Damn, Maddie is brilliant. Bloody brilliant. One of the smartest, quickest, wittiest, best comedians (and people) around, hands down.
She is number one for a quick, perfectly constructed riff. No question, the whole comedy world knows it.
Maddie! Ashley, girl you find THE BEST co-hosts. Maddie just slays, all the time, it's almost exhausting. Thank you all, Ashley Maddie and Jen, for a great episode xoxo
MADDIE'S HAIR IS ICONIC!!
IDKY but maddie is giving very much rocker hair.. im thinking cherry bomb vibes
you should invite Kate Sisk, it would be a great trio with Maddie !!!
It's been a few months since I've watched but Maddie GLOWING today, feet up, socks out, make-up did, and hair LUSCIOUS
There's a spot on the wall behind Jen,and every single week, I start the podcast and think there's something on my phone screen and try to wipe it away 😅
maddie & jen in the same pod episode is absolute gold
Maddie and Mak need to discuss the imprint thing.
jen and ashley have the absolute sweetest relationship I love lesbian love
Jen emoting during Ashley's plugs already has me crying 😭
Seeing Ashley smile so hard looking at her partner warms my heart ❤
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
I’m glad you guys found each other in the comments all the best to you guys
this is so random but the way ashley looks at jen, oh god. both of them are so lucky to have each other🥰
I just recommennded the pod to a full Lesbian Literature class
doing God's work
@@sasha_bean it was literally perfect, we were talking about real life lesbian representation and about the overlap and contradictions between masc lesbians and non-binary people which is LITERALLY ONE OF ASHLEY AND MADDIES FAVORITE DISCUSSIONS
Where does one find a lesbian literature class? That’s my question cause that seems fun asf
@@sophiasleep8960 an english literature course of study with a queer teacher, we have gay classes every year because of her and I love her
Oh Maddie, you are so terrific!
47:18 not ashley just listing the entire handsome podcast 😂
now we have to wait for a crossover episode
@@apeonapcthat would be epiiiic
I get excited any time Jen is a guest.
Thanks for giving me something to look forward to on Monday's ❤
i highkey am glad (sooorrrryyy) that the guests canceled. jen is iconic, have her on instead of someone else any day lol. jen and ash content for life!
Taking a moment to appreciate Maddie’s hair in the comments!! 💖
I'm glad Maddie is actually being able to let her funny out and flirt shamelessly with Jen and not get shut down by Ashley like she always gets. Maddie is fucking amazing and hilarious I'm glad she's actually going off finally 😂
The amount that Maddie gets shut down during podcasts stresses me out
are you watched the unedited version on patreon? maddie often asks for things to be cut so I think what you're seeing as getting shut down is just the editing that maddie herself is requesting.
You gotta have Gabby Windey on!
42:14 "I'm more heteroromantic, than heterosexual." As a late in life, comphet lesbian, I felt that. Above the waist crush is so real. I honestly attribute it to only having straight relationships represented growing up. I'm only sexually attracted to women, but I only ever saw hetero relationships portrayed my whole life (as the thing expected of me), so the wires get crossed in my brain; where I can imagine cuddling with an above the waist man crush, slight PDA, but when I try to picture having sex or even kissing a man, my whole body cringes. Straight relationships are all I'm used to seeing, so my brain just pictures a kind of default-heteronormative mode.
My type is Maddie. She is so attractive!
Happy Monday to us all! Love to see Jen.
i've said this so many times already im sorry if this is weird but MADDIE YOU LOOK FANTASTIC IN THIS DEAR LORDE
Maddie, I am LIVING for the hair!! LOVE IT!!
Omggggg Jen is so cute in the intro I cannooooot
I'm so ready for this episode omg
I actually went as a plus one to an influencer event at margaritaville Times Square. Can confirm it’s a good time
Jen has such a soothing voice 🥰
Please allow me to say how intelligent and thoughtful Maddie is on top of fricken hysterical. And her flaming red tips ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Allowed!
Encouraged!!!
Love the pod.
What is going on in this room....😂
Ha ha, when Maddy said I told you about those two crazy times the rest of the time I just kinda hang
Maddie - that barnacle line was dope!
so damn funny
They are so fking QUICK witted, i love the riffs
Ashley with her little faces before and after plugging the patreon is so cute, is it just me?
Would you mind closing the cabinet door behind Maddie next time? 😅I know it sounds random but I just get distracted by it.
Same :D
I always wonder why that door is open, especially since years ago in a Q&A Ashley and Jen did together, open cabinets was a pet peeve of Ashley's. Maybe there's a good reason for it, like some weird sound quality thing perhaps.
I've legit commented this before. My ADHD is like what are they using the dr. bronner's soap for!? theres so many uses!! I must contemplate all the options and cant concentrate on Maddie lols
@@zarli-aria haha this is actually the second time that I've commented this 😅
I’m starting to love these comments so, I’ve been leaving it open on purpose
I agree about the mindfulness thing. That's why it was borderline confusing for me when people started suggesting it as some new thing. I was born in 1979. I grew up mindful. I still am. Same goes with the exercise of "grounding", i.e. walking barefoot on the earth. That's just... how I walk. I grew up in a semi rural area, and we always went barefoot. That carried into adulthood.
Boy lent is everything !! Even as a lesbian there’s still so much worry about the male gaze.
Maddie you are loved! ❤
I'm 35 minutes in and just realized Ashley has an Auntie Anne's sweatshirt on. Love it.
My pedantic brain can’t get past that yall keep saying JAATSU when the acronym is JAASTU 🙃🤪
Above the waist crush sounds like aesthetic attraction.
maddie is the best!!!
Best way to start my day! 😊
the gay thought being renee rapp is so real 😭
23:15 ARRIVAL MENTIONED RAHHHHHH 🗣️🗣️🗣️🦅🦅🦅🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸 that’s my fave movie too
Ashley being most jealous about a partner for Jen if they are successful is the straightest thing about her xD
London show was soo good you're killin it :)
Ashley please come to New Mexico 😭😭😭
Maddie is on fire, as usual.
Omg. Maddie straight up looking like they're possessed by the sass over here. 17:07
Maddie and Jen are so fucking gorgeous
Ashley, I wanna call you handsome
That’s very nice!
30:41 watched the vid just to see Jen's reaction
“Feels like drag” I totally feel the same!😅
Maddie is on fire 🔥
the hair this episode! maddie is alt perfection and jen with the perfect high pony.. i (the backwards hat gay) am shaking
also yes pleeease get olivia on the pod omg
When is Katie Rosenthal coming on the pod?? ;)
Parasocial comment for thé algorithme
Also can’t wait to see you Thursday!
Maddie is adorable
Jen is giving some serious Kate Beckinsale here.
just wanted to say that i first got the notification before i went to sleep so i had a dream that Jen was 23 (my age) and in a highschool class with me in a school which you finish it at 23 for some reason and i was like "oh no Ashley will get cancelled again" and that's it, that was the dream...
Do you plan to be in open relationship after marriage and/or kids? Just curious how that works.
wait you have two cats? I've only seen Fulton!
Maddie and I have the same taste in movies.
I love loopy doopy! lol!
THANK YOU
Mainbabes such a cuutiepieee❤
Ashley would you consider doing a “Gay thought reaction” to your own gay thoughts from the older episodes? You could even roast yourself. Reduce, reuse, recycle
Please try to get Yasmin Benoit on the show 🙏
Oh yeah!! She was on "coming out pod" and "yeah baby this is keke palmer" too if you want somw eps to listen to!
Maddie if you're ever in Michigan, hit me up. I'll take you on a very respectful date ❤
FINALLY!
31:01 ahh; rug burn
renee rapp 😛
I love Maddie's boy lent but as an ace saphhic I think I'd have to modify it to try to do it
Smash that like button ✅
Jens Face the entire start but SPECIFICALLY 32:10 - 32:16 I have never liked her more
Loopy doopy? lmao
You should get Kehlani on the pod
I will judge Rotha Lintorn-Orman more heavily than non-queers because I am a queer so I need to ensure queer spaces are clean and safe. If you are not in my community, you are not my problem, that is someone else's work to do.
maddie is so fucking funny!!
can someone clarify for me- is there a stuffed bird on the coffee table? 😂
Ilana Glazer on the pod (copy & paste ) on all ash gavs vids
why is this video kind of scaring me?
Not to be super creepy with this knowledge but actually selling your eggs could make you so much money. There is a big scarcity of Ashkenazi Jewish donations and lots of people search for it specifically for religious reasons of course and because there is more jewish people needing donations to prevent some genetic disorders. So if you are fit for that market it will at least triple the value.
Even if I’m only a quarter??
I want that sweatshirt 👀👀ashley
Dont say it dont say it dont say it
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Ugh jen is so hot
I agree!
I just want the closet door closed behind Maddie. OCD and it would better frame her hair!
Fun
With all due respect, Maddie needs to know she's completely wrong about the energy she believes is not present at the podcasts.
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That chip on the wall to the right underneath the were having gay sex photo kinda bothers me. It's like there is a smudge on the screen.
I was just about to wipe my phone screen during the intro when I realized it was on the wall. 😂
Actually ☝️ That mark on the wall has been there waaay to long.
Yer Uncle Taz say: Frame it or get your son Mak in to patch it...
This makes me wanna keep it
@@ashgavs damn you woman of chaos 😭
One the best episodes yet my opinion! Can we lose the word queer an use gay 🤔
why?
✨no✨
I know the word queer has been used to hurt some of us, and you're more than welcome to not use it or identify with it, but many people have reclaimed it and it's been fairly widly accepted as an umbrella term to mean someone whos not cishet.
Gay can also be an umbrella term in some ways, but I think for some people there's a more concrete meaning to it. And the word gay has also been used to hurt people before.
Queer is helpful cuz beyond sexuality it’s inclusive of gender which can be helpful for me when describing others whose labels I don’t know. But otherwise I love gay for everything else
@@ashgavs ok I hear you it's obvs a diffence in generation to thankyou for the reply appreciate it p.s I saw you last week in manc great show 😃
I'm not Gay but I am ( to quote George Carlin) an Old Fart. It's hard keeping up with how people want to be reff'd to.
I think if the person actually in the group uses a term it's Okay .
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