Idk y but i fear marriage a lot... Im currently 27 nd for some or the other reasons i always say no for any proposal... I always fear what if this happens, what if that happens, i have serious trust issues... Whenever any1 talks of marriage i get angry nd scared at the same time... Though i feel ashamed that my cousins younger to me r getting married.. I can't explain this to any1😭😭
Me too same condition ...there are many reasons for me for not getting married... I am very afraid of it dear ..iam just 22 and my family forces me to get married ..now my life is in suicidal condition ....brothers always say that tum to ladki ho tumhara kya tum to sadi krke acha khsa settle ho jaogi but they don't know the problems that a girl faces in a marriage life ....I can take all the responsibility but there's one thing that bothers me from inside that is marital rape ....no one can understand this problem ....iam very afraid of that
I used to think only I am suffering from this situation!!! But there are so many women going through the same situation!!! How to overcome this fear!!! 😢😢😢😢
When my mother got married my father used to be very busy in his work and business and when time progress after 7 8 years love regenerate and they are very happy after 20 years of marriage , marriage is not about only physical attraction but also respect and care
Can anyone plz help me😭😭😭....I m a student of 2nd yr graduation although I didn't get 1st yr result.........my parents have decided to fix my marriage at this time....m soo afraid ....not only bcz of marriage but also I fear of loss my dream career .....I m also scared of my further study .....it will disturb n.......as m belonging from a rural area where all the girls are married at the time of passing their 12 standard.....my parents have fear who will marry me if I cross my 12 although.... graduate girls are considered more aged....this is their mentality
I wish k me aapki madad kar sakti , parents ko samjane ka bhi koi fayda nai he per bhi ho sake to ek baar baat kar k dekh lijiye or unhe samjaiye ki aapko life me kuch karna he etc sayad wo aapki baat samaj jaaye . Kyu ki me to khud in sab me se guzar rahi hu pr har baar yahi sunna padta he ki umar nikal rahi he or koi milega bhi nai etc etc 😓
just try to select a candidate who supports women having job....its parents duty ..and they too have society and care for their childs future...its not their fault
Agar marriage karna hi pad Jaye aisi situation ban rahi ho tuo tum khud ki hi caste walo Mai koi ladka pasand aaye jisko tum bhi pasand ho ussi se shaddi Kar Lena .. padhai Mai try to go for after 12th standard ka koi diploma Kar lo jis Mai jaldi job mil Jaye ..
Thanks for discussing on this mam. I too felt the same. But when I discussed this with my would be husband he reacted very negative. After 6th months of marriage now he is divorcing me saying I don't want to be with him. 😣
I am suffering the same. I am getting married within 6 month. I have been knowing this guy for 1 years through matrimony. Initially I liked him an all. But as the days comming near I am overthinking about this and feeling very nervous. I had 10 years of relationship and after brake up I am going through emotional turmoil. Can you tell how to overcome this and be happy with the upcoming event in my life.? Please help.
@@korakcrystall1308 giving advice is always free but applying them to yr life is very difficult. So live in present, most of us stuck in future or overthinking
plz do a separate video on how one should buy the wedding things pack and like what ol things one has to buy also budgeting n ol like bride's shoping @littlecurves
srsly di i feel d same almost all these things ....i feel lyk made for me specificly....i m just loving ur contents...i m waiting for nxt video cz i wanna knw how can i overcome....loads of love di😘❤...u r so hlpful..othrwise also....u rply on instagrm also love u di...u r so natural....u vl grow vry fast...❤😘
hello ma'am, it was the first video that i have seen in your page, and i loved it, ma'am i have a deep question.i will be getting married in coming 6month, idk i am very open and cool minded, but why i am overthiking about her verginity and past of her, and trully i dont want to think about it, but again n again , i think that, me personally dont like to think that, but what about my mind ? how can i overcome with these thoughts, which even i also dont like, i like your way of talking & knowledge, i think i should share with you. please reply. will wait for it.
Didi muje tuo itni tension hoti hai ki agar boy ne muje Bina marji k chune ki koshish ki tuo Mai sucide Kar lungi .. just because parents shaddi Kar de mujse ye Saab nahi ho payega .. I am too unbalanced in mind because of marriage stress .. I hate arrainge marriage .. I feel it's better to die then live with the wrong person whom I can't feel love for.
Same sis main kya kru mere parents bas sadi ke piche pde hai mujhe to dar lgta hai agar mere hone wale partner acha nhi nikla to main kya karu ....main to mar jaungi yrr ...ar ajkl ke jdytr ladke bas body se pyar krte hai ...aise hua tokya hoga meri jindagi hi brbd ho jayegi .....bas ab kuch nhi bchaa hai roj sochti hu apne ap ko khtm kr lu .....shaanti mil jayegi yeh sab se
@@nanditadas8115 hello sister .. maine ek quote suna tha ... Humme aapna haaq khud hi chinnna padta hai . Tuo mai tuo lagi padi hu videsh jane ki tayari mai hu .. because ek baar vaha chale gaye tuo sab log umeed chor dete hai ki aab baccha hamari baat manega nahi kyuki aab uska khud ka dimag bhi hai .. aisa mai nahi sochti hu lekin samaj k log sochte hai .. agar ye bhi nahi tuo arrange marriage k liye tab tak haa mat bolo jab tak tumko ladka pasand na aaye. Varna bol doo ghar mai ki nibhana aapko nahi muje hai agar zada zabardasti kari tuo shaddi ki bhi aap hi log nibha lena kyuki fir mai vo hj karungi jo meri marzi hogi . Isiliye ya tuo meri marzi ki izzat karo ya fir mera mara muh dekhne ko tayar bhi raho .. iske baad bhi agar nahi mane tuo tanu weds Manu ki tarah direct ladke ko hi bata do ki you don't want to marry yet .. be staight forward . Independent bano .. mere bhai ne bhi muje ye hi kaha ki agar tere pass paise honge tuo khud ki decisions lene k liye or bhi independent ban sakti hai .. just because people feed you they try tj take control of your life's every decision . Paise se khud ki life ji sakte hai .. isiliye paisa kamao sister khoob sara . Mai bhi vo hi kar rahi hu . Earning money to earn the remote control of my life back . It's the only solution right now .. I can't say big words .. but hope this helps. My cousin had to get married to a guy just because she didn't earn and even her mother was crying when she got to know that her daughter is compromising just because she couldn't earn money .. paisa bohaut zaroori hai khud ki life ka remote control khud k haatho mai rakhne k liye varna samaj sirf faida utthane hi baitha hai nirbal logo ka .. nirbal logo ki madad usko uper nahi uttha ta hai samaj ulta nirbal logo ko faida hu uttha ta hai ye ghatiya samaj or hamara parivar bhi .. don't stay stuck in this loop for too long . Start earning money .. hope this helps .
@@nanditadas8115 dreams + discipline + positivity ... Make your life work .. stay positive sis .. marna tuo sabko hai .. aaj ya kal . Aaj ko jio full focus k saath .. aaj ko accha banao .. aaj tuo muskurao .. kal ko sunder banane k liye aaj ko sunder banao ..
@@athuz8924 yup parents are looking for right partner for me.and I am in doubt whether marriage right decision for me or not. I used to have dreams where I run away from my own marriage.not once not twice...but five six times.
Mein ek baath kahna chahunga apse maine apne jeevan mein kabhi kissi ladki se baath nahi ki, mere ghar ke logo ne kissi se baath karne nahi diya, aur ab mujhe shaddi karne ke liye bol rahe hai , to ab main ladki se kya baath karunga aap bataiye, ek to maine apne jeevan mein kissi ladki se baath nahi ki, mein usase kaise baath karunga , aur kya baath karunga, aap kahoge to mujhe bachpan se ladki se baath karne se manna kyon kiya gaya , to ab shaddi ka kya matlab hai, mujhe to usase manna kiya gaya hai, to shaddi ka matalab kya hai mujhe yeh bataiye , ,yeh to vahi baath ho gai , ek lawyer ko doctor ka kaam karne ke liye bola ja raha hai
No not at all this is my personal opinion and it may differ from urs ... Thngs have changed with tim and I totally agree and respect it ... do check my other videos also U will get an idea abt my personality
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Idk y but i fear marriage a lot... Im currently 27 nd for some or the other reasons i always say no for any proposal... I always fear what if this happens, what if that happens, i have serious trust issues... Whenever any1 talks of marriage i get angry nd scared at the same time... Though i feel ashamed that my cousins younger to me r getting married.. I can't explain this to any1😭😭
Me too same condition ...there are many reasons for me for not getting married... I am very afraid of it dear ..iam just 22 and my family forces me to get married ..now my life is in suicidal condition ....brothers always say that tum to ladki ho tumhara kya tum to sadi krke acha khsa settle ho jaogi but they don't know the problems that a girl faces in a marriage life ....I can take all the responsibility but there's one thing that bothers me from inside that is marital rape ....no one can understand this problem ....iam very afraid of that
I am also facing this situation.....I am 27....
I am in same situation getting married in December it's arranged marriage but I am very scared or ye videos bh kaam NH aa rha
I used to think only I am suffering from this situation!!! But there are so many women going through the same situation!!! How to overcome this fear!!! 😢😢😢😢
Me also same but not solution for problem
Luckly found the perfect channel for my current situation ❤️❤️
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Hey I'm in the situation now. Did you get married?
When my mother got married my father used to be very busy in his work and business and when time progress after 7 8 years love regenerate and they are very happy after 20 years of marriage , marriage is not about only physical attraction but also respect and care
Can anyone plz help me😭😭😭....I m a student of 2nd yr graduation although I didn't get 1st yr result.........my parents have decided to fix my marriage at this time....m soo afraid ....not only bcz of marriage but also I fear of loss my dream career .....I m also scared of my further study .....it will disturb n.......as m belonging from a rural area where all the girls are married at the time of passing their 12 standard.....my parents have fear who will marry me if I cross my 12 although.... graduate girls are considered more aged....this is their mentality
I wish k me aapki madad kar sakti , parents ko samjane ka bhi koi fayda nai he per bhi ho sake to ek baar baat kar k dekh lijiye or unhe samjaiye ki aapko life me kuch karna he etc sayad wo aapki baat samaj jaaye . Kyu ki me to khud in sab me se guzar rahi hu pr har baar yahi sunna padta he ki umar nikal rahi he or koi milega bhi nai etc etc 😓
@@DGs_TravelDairies me too
just try to select a candidate who supports women having job....its parents duty ..and they too have society and care for their childs future...its not their fault
@@shibanibhoi1104 ys
Agar marriage karna hi pad Jaye aisi situation ban rahi ho tuo tum khud ki hi caste walo Mai koi ladka pasand aaye jisko tum bhi pasand ho ussi se shaddi Kar Lena .. padhai Mai try to go for after 12th standard ka koi diploma Kar lo jis Mai jaldi job mil Jaye ..
Thanks for discussing on this mam. I too felt the same. But when I discussed this with my would be husband he reacted very negative. After 6th months of marriage now he is divorcing me saying I don't want to be with him. 😣
Omg. I hope you're doing fine
what if u dont think this but your partner is controller then how to deal it
communication talk to him and share wht u feel
Even men goes through the same phase… see me watching this video at 4:47 AM
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🥺 what I'm feeling right now .....on point everything
Where is other video of this one?
I also think this wayy.... 😰😰 plz post another video soon coz I am dying to know.. how to overcome these things
sure
I am 29 years and i am scared of getting married is it about the relationship that i had in past ??
Most probably
I am suffering the same. I am getting married within 6 month. I have been knowing this guy for 1 years through matrimony. Initially I liked him an all. But as the days comming near I am overthinking about this and feeling very nervous. I had 10 years of relationship and after brake up I am going through emotional turmoil. Can you tell how to overcome this and be happy with the upcoming event in my life.? Please help.
@@korakcrystall1308 giving advice is always free but applying them to yr life is very difficult. So live in present, most of us stuck in future or overthinking
@@korakcrystall1308now r u happy? 😑im in such a situation right now
Amazing content dear!! it's always connecting whenever we hear from u😍😍
The list is more than you discussed depressingly 🙁
Ok
Love your intro clips , its the cutest ever !❄️☃️💙
Superb such a useful video....Tqsm mam
I'm feeling the same. I want solution
Bride to be young hi honi chahiye kya ,,30 plus ➕ nahi ?
Very helpful video 👍. content is very common but much needed one
thnx alot
which one is thevideo to overcome for these things
Where is the video of solutions?
will u discuss the gamophobia in detail with each points
Thanks
I got a little relaxed 😅😢
Looking like a Boss Lady ❤
yes I am ... thnx dear love u
@@littlecurves ❤
I really appreciate your videos... When ever I over think about future life your videos support me alot sister ❤😍😘
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Thnks
Your videos are very halpful..and also you are looking always gorgeous😍😘
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plz do a separate video on how one should buy the wedding things pack and like what ol things one has to buy also budgeting n ol like bride's shoping @littlecurves
sure plzz follow us on instagram to get more styling ideas
srsly di i feel d same almost all these things ....i feel lyk made for me specificly....i m just loving ur contents...i m waiting for nxt video cz i wanna knw how can i overcome....loads of love di😘❤...u r so hlpful..othrwise also....u rply on instagrm also love u di...u r so natural....u vl grow vry fast...❤😘
Hi
Di pls make second part of this
Best best video 😍😍😍😍.
Needed it💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
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Amazing dede 😊
Very well explained ❤️
Love your channel ♥️
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Hi
mein kisi par trust nahi kar pati i dont why ajeeb sa thoughts aatay hai future ko lekar plz pray for me
Y can I find some one to married me
Really amazing mam....You spoke soo well...Love you mam
hello ma'am, it was the first video that i have seen in your page, and i loved it, ma'am i have a deep question.i will be getting married in coming 6month, idk i am very open and cool minded, but why i am overthiking about her verginity and past of her, and trully i dont want to think about it, but again n again , i think that, me personally dont like to think that, but what about my mind ? how can i overcome with these thoughts, which even i also dont like, i like your way of talking & knowledge, i think i should share with you. please reply. will wait for it.
Didi muje tuo itni tension hoti hai ki agar boy ne muje Bina marji k chune ki koshish ki tuo Mai sucide Kar lungi .. just because parents shaddi Kar de mujse ye Saab nahi ho payega .. I am too unbalanced in mind because of marriage stress .. I hate arrainge marriage .. I feel it's better to die then live with the wrong person whom I can't feel love for.
Same sis main kya kru mere parents bas sadi ke piche pde hai mujhe to dar lgta hai agar mere hone wale partner acha nhi nikla to main kya karu ....main to mar jaungi yrr ...ar ajkl ke jdytr ladke bas body se pyar krte hai ...aise hua tokya hoga meri jindagi hi brbd ho jayegi .....bas ab kuch nhi bchaa hai roj sochti hu apne ap ko khtm kr lu .....shaanti mil jayegi yeh sab se
@@nanditadas8115 hello sister .. maine ek quote suna tha ... Humme aapna haaq khud hi chinnna padta hai .
Tuo mai tuo lagi padi hu videsh jane ki tayari mai hu .. because ek baar vaha chale gaye tuo sab log umeed chor dete hai ki aab baccha hamari baat manega nahi kyuki aab uska khud ka dimag bhi hai .. aisa mai nahi sochti hu lekin samaj k log sochte hai .. agar ye bhi nahi tuo arrange marriage k liye tab tak haa mat bolo jab tak tumko ladka pasand na aaye. Varna bol doo ghar mai ki nibhana aapko nahi muje hai agar zada zabardasti kari tuo shaddi ki bhi aap hi log nibha lena kyuki fir mai vo hj karungi jo meri marzi hogi . Isiliye ya tuo meri marzi ki izzat karo ya fir mera mara muh dekhne ko tayar bhi raho .. iske baad bhi agar nahi mane tuo tanu weds Manu ki tarah direct ladke ko hi bata do ki you don't want to marry yet .. be staight forward . Independent bano .. mere bhai ne bhi muje ye hi kaha ki agar tere pass paise honge tuo khud ki decisions lene k liye or bhi independent ban sakti hai .. just because people feed you they try tj take control of your life's every decision . Paise se khud ki life ji sakte hai .. isiliye paisa kamao sister khoob sara . Mai bhi vo hi kar rahi hu . Earning money to earn the remote control of my life back . It's the only solution right now .. I can't say big words .. but hope this helps.
My cousin had to get married to a guy just because she didn't earn and even her mother was crying when she got to know that her daughter is compromising just because she couldn't earn money .. paisa bohaut zaroori hai khud ki life ka remote control khud k haatho mai rakhne k liye varna samaj sirf faida utthane hi baitha hai nirbal logo ka .. nirbal logo ki madad usko uper nahi uttha ta hai samaj ulta nirbal logo ko faida hu uttha ta hai ye ghatiya samaj or hamara parivar bhi .. don't stay stuck in this loop for too long . Start earning money .. hope this helps .
@@nanditadas8115 dreams + discipline + positivity ... Make your life work .. stay positive sis .. marna tuo sabko hai .. aaj ya kal . Aaj ko jio full focus k saath .. aaj ko accha banao .. aaj tuo muskurao .. kal ko sunder banane k liye aaj ko sunder banao ..
Next video??
I am 33 still scared of marriage
R u getting married? Im 23 marriage in 2 months.. But so scared
@@athuz8924 yup parents are looking for right partner for me.and I am in doubt whether marriage right decision for me or not.
I used to have dreams where I run away from my own marriage.not once not twice...but five six times.
@@jahaaneishq2248 y dnt u thnk abt choosng partner urself. Minne is 6 yrs love
@@athuz8924 I doubt my choice
@@jahaaneishq2248 what r u doing now.. Job?
Hii
Can you please make more tip on bride -to-be
And also if possible please make essential to carry on honeymoon
I have already made plz check
Please please please Di give solutions to these points in next video.
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looking like bappi ji...& ur thug😊😜😂
Yaa exactly
hey...what happen to you dear...just chill
wait...watch...wonnder , m sure whatever phase u r going with ull come out...
i connect with u in so many things...u r so cute...and adii is so genuine...u look great together 😍
Love u
You're so adorbs 💜
Mein ek baath kahna chahunga apse maine apne jeevan mein kabhi kissi ladki se baath nahi ki, mere ghar ke logo ne kissi se baath karne nahi diya, aur ab mujhe shaddi karne ke liye bol rahe hai , to ab main ladki se kya baath karunga aap bataiye, ek to maine apne jeevan mein kissi ladki se baath nahi ki, mein usase kaise baath karunga , aur kya baath karunga, aap kahoge to mujhe bachpan se ladki se baath karne se manna kyon kiya gaya , to ab shaddi ka kya matlab hai, mujhe to usase manna kiya gaya hai, to shaddi ka matalab kya hai mujhe yeh bataiye , ,yeh to vahi baath ho gai , ek lawyer ko doctor ka kaam karne ke liye bola ja raha hai
Feeling same at this situation
2 things you did not put in .Fear of regular intimacy with a man for many girls and fear of MIL
Was included in other videos I have a whole wedding series kindly check
Bride to be for MAY 2022😰
Saying that we are controlled by our father, husband nd son is so meaningless ur putting women down saying this
No not at all this is my personal opinion and it may differ from urs ... Thngs have changed with tim and I totally agree and respect it ... do check my other videos also U will get an idea abt my personality
Ok
ty mam💞
So y man do not,a man do not want to married me
Love you mam,,,💟
truly said 👍
Plz someone talk about men
Whyyyy!!!! So truee😭😭 help me out please
Getting married in 23 days 😩 scared as shit 😥
how are uh ?
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Looks like you make videos for me :-) thank you
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@@littlecurves sorry ma'am I don't have insta
Your speaking about problems not solutions
Thanks