🛑 Don't Beg Her, Don't Look For Her, Don't Write Her, Don't Call Her - Best To Do THIS

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  • @Joyanima
    @Joyanima  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

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    • @AngelShadap
      @AngelShadap หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the compliment mam... I needed dating you howw lvy😮😅

  • @Galavantin
    @Galavantin ปีที่แล้ว +1067

    And never forget, If you lose her to another guy......
    You haven't lost a women, but lost a problem.

  • @StillnessofMind
    @StillnessofMind ปีที่แล้ว +1380

    Some Golden Rules with women I have learned 50 yrs. on the planet.
    1. Never believe what a woman says; watch what a woman does. 2. Never underestimate how ruthless any woman can be.. 3. A mentally powerful and confident man is irresistible to every woman. 4. Do not let any woman control you; otherwise you are nothing to her. 5. You are the prize; not her. Let her chase you....

    • @awakennz5182
      @awakennz5182 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Total agree !! Awesome Pod cast 🙏💫🦁

    • @mariaflesher1961
      @mariaflesher1961 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm old school GOLDEN RULE : TREAT OTHERS LIKE YOU WANT TO BE TREATED I for one Don't chase men. I don't waste my time neither am I trying to play stupid mind games. I am not needy. BESIDES THIS generation There are no longer Real men : they are all Momas boy in man's body..mutual respect should be set in place non of this BS .

    • @hilversummanabagu9765
      @hilversummanabagu9765 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Words from the wise.

    • @brendanhiggins3442
      @brendanhiggins3442 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Ruthless is an understatement worse then wild animals some are for cruelty and selfishness.

    • @LateNightCable
      @LateNightCable ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not saying a good man is chopped liver, but how are you the prize and not her when she is the gatekeeper of the sex? Come on man.

  • @AJ-um3ht
    @AJ-um3ht ปีที่แล้ว +824

    Stay single , zero headache zero bullshit and zero drama 👌 😌 💯

    • @Dollar-bulls
      @Dollar-bulls ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yes sirrrrrrrrrrrrr🎉

    • @ugaladigala
      @ugaladigala ปีที่แล้ว +64

      and zero money wasted

    • @AJ-um3ht
      @AJ-um3ht ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@ugaladigala true story 💯

    • @kevinmcconnell3641
      @kevinmcconnell3641 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Zero head jobs!!

    • @ugaladigala
      @ugaladigala ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kevinmcconnell3641 bro trust me, paying a hoe for a bbbjcim twice a week is a lot cheaper than having a gf

  • @PlanetNegative
    @PlanetNegative ปีที่แล้ว +334

    Best thing to do if you are hurt is to accept the pain, accept rejection and move on, have dignity and understand that if you had feelings is because you are calable of love, embrace that , find someone else who is worth it.

    • @thebatprince2398
      @thebatprince2398 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hes to call it "one itis", hes never to slept with shes or hes ever dates her, but hes get attach and drive shes away to from him. hes cure to it; his sleep with to dozens other womans, and she will see if she still is such special flowers to us :)

    • @mosesyashua2395
      @mosesyashua2395 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you

  • @rr1746
    @rr1746 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +294

    You know what's sad?
    Me being genuine, actually having good intentions and so on etc.
    I am forced to actually play mind games and use manipulation tactics in order to get the women I genuinelly like.
    This is what I hate the most. To force myself to be manipulative. I hate this world.

    • @carlitosbrigante6889
      @carlitosbrigante6889 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      We are in the same page brother . That s who women , base on what man they choose to be with 😂

    • @koltoncrane3099
      @koltoncrane3099 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Some guys find women they’re completely honest with, and neither manipulates their partner.

    • @rr1746
      @rr1746 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      @@koltoncrane3099 Very rare situation unfortunately

    • @mrdaveylh1
      @mrdaveylh1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Agreed

    • @tadejkrek259
      @tadejkrek259 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I wanna tell a girl i started to like her…she gives mixed signals and i had enough im just gonna come out straight forward with my intentions but i dont know if i still wait abit so she contacts me and then i say listen there is smthing i wanna talk about.
      Any advice if thats ok

  • @spidersj12
    @spidersj12 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    Ignoring her / leaving her alone / on hold, makes your life more peaceful.

  • @Tony-sj6on
    @Tony-sj6on ปีที่แล้ว +319

    Never ever put anyone above you because it never ends well these days . Common sense.

  • @thrashmantim
    @thrashmantim ปีที่แล้ว +97

    They’re drawn to men with fulfilled and balanced lives because they want to come in and fk it all up for you

    • @matthalo89
      @matthalo89 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sounds about right. They don’t care about you necessarily but more so what material things you’ve gained from hard work and sacrifice that they want.

    • @bidensbikepedal8799
      @bidensbikepedal8799 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      LMAO

    • @pigslefats
      @pigslefats ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@matthalo89 Yep that's why they like "ambition" which is just another way of saying "Buddy you better bring in the cash, big time"

    • @dalac_93
      @dalac_93 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Damn bro you made my morning 😂

    • @mrt4044
      @mrt4044 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yep, drama is important!

  • @Enforcer_WJDE
    @Enforcer_WJDE ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Men who are content and fulfilled don't really need another person bringing Drama into their lives. 🤷

    • @in.edieudonnesworld3167
      @in.edieudonnesworld3167 ปีที่แล้ว

      😊

    • @jendabekCZ
      @jendabekCZ ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Everybody needs to love and be loved.

    • @AndrewEvenstar
      @AndrewEvenstar ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this is me. studying, gym, work and food prep takes up my time

    • @in.edieudonnesworld3167
      @in.edieudonnesworld3167 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jendabekCZ the self can do that rotation

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@jendabekCZ Not true, you only need to love yourself. Nothing else matters

  • @jusprit2817
    @jusprit2817 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    If a girl leave u or dont respect you as the way u did, just stay away from her, dont try to convince how much love u have for her, dont beg to love u back, just walk away. Block her from your life. They will surely text you or try to get attention. Don't fall for her again. U may forget everything she did but if u dont love yourself and respect yourself nobody will love u again.

  • @lockyp204
    @lockyp204 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Just completely ignore. As they do to us

    • @stevemoful
      @stevemoful 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But do not ignore the ones you like, let her know you're interested and pursue her just don't creep her out or be needy.

  • @jamesski1108
    @jamesski1108 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    No wonder I don't date anymore. It's all about playing games and passing litmus tests instead of actually enjoying anything.

    • @toastedasian3741
      @toastedasian3741 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Its mentally exhausting

    • @Albeatzzz
      @Albeatzzz หลายเดือนก่อน

      Since the caveman been around

  • @eric2685
    @eric2685 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    It's best to know when to walk away . It took me a very long time to grasp this but , once learned , the freedom and strength that it brings is worth a lot . It's a personal thing to learn , and the experiences of others may be different .

    • @Enforcer_WJDE
      @Enforcer_WJDE ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah, exchange numbers with a gal and she only gave short answers and took ages to do it too. ----> DeLeTe

    • @thebatprince2398
      @thebatprince2398 ปีที่แล้ว

      hes should get full stories from shes to girls, because it coulds be somethings hes maybe know :D @@Enforcer_WJDE

    • @redline350zHR
      @redline350zHR ปีที่แล้ว

      fuck that !@@Enforcer_WJDE

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 ปีที่แล้ว

      Freedom to masturbate. I know. Cheers!

  • @noelgibson5956
    @noelgibson5956 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    As far as I'm concerned, if she rejects me once, she's rejected me permanently. I don't pursue it further and look creepy. I don't want harrassment charges to deal with.
    Ask once. Get rejected (or accepted) once.

    • @lorderectus1849
      @lorderectus1849 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Agreed , why.ask for used fish.

    • @thebatprince2398
      @thebatprince2398 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lorderectus1849 or hes to bring bungee cables from jails :)

    • @geoffreystephens4357
      @geoffreystephens4357 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I was taught when a girl says “no” , that’s what she means!! Don’t beg any lady to go out with you! That is beneath me! I did it once(begged a lady) and learned my lesson!!

    • @thebatprince2398
      @thebatprince2398 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@geoffreystephens4357 hes funnys men, cantt to picture u are doing this to her o.O

    • @D33Lux
      @D33Lux ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Exactly, men have to have dignity. I agree with that quote "You cannot negotiate attraction" If a woman is not interested and say's no, its a clear sign she not attracted. To me that's such a turn off, especially seeing desperate guys try and try, get turned down and beg, bribing them by saying they want to pay for dates...etc. Pathetic!
      Global population just passed 8 billion, there are approximately 900 million women between the ages of 18-25 in the world. Men, you have options!

  • @matthalo89
    @matthalo89 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Currently doing this. Did it yesterday but she noticed me more and tried getting my attention numerous times. I didn’t sit with her, make a points to talk to her, I didn’t even acknowledge her most of the day. She seemed bothered by it. But I’m not going to go on this marry go round of emotions and be that pathetic platonic friend who gives her attention when she wants it. Literally she has told people why she doesn’t do anything with me is because she doesn’t want to ruin the “friendship”. If you can call it that. Fuck the friendship. It’s highly maddening to try to connect with women and you can do everything you know to be right but still get nowhere. And in this dead end scenario they don’t want to pursue anything but want to hold you there for their own validation until the bad boy asshole comes along and sweeps them off their feet only to end up breaking their heart. And that guy is the one she will fall for and keep going back to over and over while you were the one who always cared and would’ve treated her right. And I’m sick of the dickhead comments, so if you don’t have a decent thing to say then fuck off.

    • @closethockeyfan5284
      @closethockeyfan5284 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      👏👏👏

    • @awakennz5182
      @awakennz5182 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      LOVE IT 🙏💫

    • @pigslefats
      @pigslefats ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe she just doesn't appreciate your foul language. Maybe she sees straight through you to your gutter mouth-because that is fundamentally who you are-evidently- and she is perceptive enough to see it in your mean little eyes.

    • @OFallons
      @OFallons ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yip, I’m not part of her friendship bag of trophies of BS !

    • @christophervan6966
      @christophervan6966 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ignore her completely for months

  • @wayneanderson8034
    @wayneanderson8034 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    The women who took a keen interest in me over a lifetime have been the women I ignored. They can't stand not being good enough for simp treatment. The women we treat well will never respect us or follow us. Act like you don't need them, & mean it. It's a honey magnet.

    • @mcsedmcq6234
      @mcsedmcq6234 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Does that strategy works all the time or push them away

    • @wayneanderson8034
      @wayneanderson8034 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mcsedmcq6234 its for attraction for those interested in seeking a match. Ignored women initiate contact first. Then you can go from there. If you just want to live monk mode, showing disinterest when they initiate contact will be enough. The motive for ignoring women varies, but gives similar results.

    • @savizzlekeys
      @savizzlekeys ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This has been exactly my experience as well.

    • @charlesred6170
      @charlesred6170 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This has been my recent experience. Treated her well to the point where she said "I could not find anything wrong with you" and then low and behold the day before it appeared she was trying to be with someone else and got caught. Once you push them away, then they want you! Straight nonsense but true!

    • @hibiscushoney3759
      @hibiscushoney3759 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @charlesred6170 makes no sense. Not all woman do this. I do not entertain or engage if not fully invested or interested. I think some woman,men too need to heal trauma that affect their capabilities in a relationship or to love & connect on a healthy level.If a man treats me well I appreciate & match energy if interested. If not, then I am honest. The woman who cannot reciprocate are not interested or not at that level of intimate connection to a partner.

  • @Monatio79
    @Monatio79 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Gentlemen, strive to be a better person today than you were yesterday. Focus on yourself rather than on others, ensuring that you live your own life of fulfillment and well-being. The truth is that women, just like anybody else, come and go but you only get one shot at life. Make it clear that those special ladies are welcome to join you but never at the expense of your own core values.

  • @johnwrasse8090
    @johnwrasse8090 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She’s getting dug out by someone else… move on

  • @GrantHarri
    @GrantHarri 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    No wonder men aren’t bothering these days it’s just easier to be on your own it feels like a pathetic game I cannot be bothered to play -I’m happy on my own ❤

  • @big6316
    @big6316 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Do all ten of these perfectly and I guarantee you that when she inevitably decides to cheat she will say that it was because you were not "meeting her needs". On the other side of the coin, do exactly the opposite of these and when she inevitably cheats she will say that it was because you were "clingy" . Do all of these correctly about half the time and when she cheats she will say that its because you were too "chaotic" or "inconsistent"........you starting to see the pattern? Do something worthwhile with your life. Let women come and go like the alley cats they are. None of them are worth sacrificing your peace of mind.

  • @ThreepwoodForest
    @ThreepwoodForest ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Sometimes just say nothing and await her voice.
    Give her chance to speak and voice her emotions.
    Listen carefully and respect her time and effort.
    Allow her to express her emotions.
    Until then, focus on self growth.

  • @BritishRail60062
    @BritishRail60062 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Ignore and walk away. I have no time for garbage. I am higher than that and I love the single life!

    • @douglasroberts6316
      @douglasroberts6316 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So right thanks so much for the advice

    • @BritishRail60062
      @BritishRail60062 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@douglasroberts6316 Anytime. No one deserves a narcissist as a partner and they should value themselves.

  • @E_GIBSON
    @E_GIBSON ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Only approach or go after the Women who choose you. Pursue the Females that like you not the ones you like, then make choices. This will eliminate a lot of headaches and nonsense in your life . Value and Respect yourself and present the best version of yourself every day. Don't be motivated by want or need, have your own life in order and on lock. The more you interact with people the more you will realize most people are not worth your mental energy or time. Do things to better yourself and enrich your life.

    • @meshackgaolathe6492
      @meshackgaolathe6492 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very correct

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      why should we! I dont like the ones that choose me! I want the ones i want!

    • @back2basic390
      @back2basic390 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@luker1hutcher315 🤣🤣

    • @alexanderv4609
      @alexanderv4609 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sorry, but it sounds weak. It looks like you are afraid to be rejected. Just learn to handle rejection and pursue women you want to pursue. Rejected? - go to the next. That's it.
      Rejection is just the price to find the right one.

    • @AAJ23801
      @AAJ23801 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alexanderv4609 You sound goofy.

  • @303machine
    @303machine ปีที่แล้ว +101

    If she likes you, ignore all this mind and power games because she will ignore your flaws and appreciate your virtues. In short, if she likes you, you will not need to play mind and power games and you would not need to put to much effort to be with her. Case closed.

    • @GeordieSteel
      @GeordieSteel ปีที่แล้ว +2

      very true

    • @meshackgaolathe6492
      @meshackgaolathe6492 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely

    • @tommurphree5630
      @tommurphree5630 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Makes sense to me .

    • @forestlink6673
      @forestlink6673 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can still use a little of this by making her miss you , like for a day you act like ur busy and no text at all will make blow her mind thinking what r u doin right now, but not too much cause it will make her think ur not interested unto her

    • @jlddark
      @jlddark ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said.

  • @dedeborya9015
    @dedeborya9015 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This only works if she is attracted to you .... if she don't like your presentation of your idiom - she will never notice that you are not engaging with her. If you are not tall enough, rich enough, jacked enough, popular enough, powerful enough - she doesn't even see you to begin with. she will not miss your 'presence' in your life. at all. So - it is just best to avoid and ignore them all en mass as a matter of Standard Operating Procedure. Give them none of your Money, Energy, Attention, Time, Intention, Commitment. Deliver an empty box of nothing, wrapped in Apathy with a Ribbon of Indifference. If you give anything at all.

  • @Jumpzobw
    @Jumpzobw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love THEM as you love YOURSELF. That’s ALL the Bible tells us to do. Remember this and you’ll be GOLDEN. GOLDEN !!!! 💯💯🎯👌🏾

  • @dineshsharma1430
    @dineshsharma1430 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    No contact 4 months now💪

    • @williamheinsinger7390
      @williamheinsinger7390 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      5 years here 💪👊

    • @dineshsharma1430
      @dineshsharma1430 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@williamheinsinger7390 well done, but initial months might be more difficult

    • @Silver-Lining1111
      @Silver-Lining1111 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@williamheinsinger7390wake up 🤦🏻

    • @muzim8931
      @muzim8931 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      2 years. Had to do it.

    • @TheGlitch254
      @TheGlitch254 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      3 years here 💪

  • @glenerickson358
    @glenerickson358 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Only way to make her interested is to get her to chase you.

  • @MakeitZUPER
    @MakeitZUPER ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This presentation was awesome. I found it really amusing since I have more trouble declining women that have pursued me, lol. My trucks are 20 years old but in excellent condition and my house is very old (1860) and in need of major updates but it's on 3 acres and in a private rural & tranquil environment so I'm not likely to be showing off any wealth because I don't have any. The only thing I have going for me is a semi lean, tall muscular build and a lot of skills and experience that allow me to have the self-assurance that there's nothing beyond my capabilities. That seems to be enough for me because I'm not a "pretty boy" by any means, lol. I guess there's a lot to be said for having your "$hit together" these days. I'm always working here on the "Half-Mile High Homestead", so I'm never dressed to impress anyone either. The only thing I have going for me besides being fit is confidence and a lack of fear towards my situation. Finding a qualified companion is my only real obstacle these days.

  • @redeyzironman
    @redeyzironman ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm not going through/chasing doing all this just to get a woman. Sounds too damn trivial. This is playing games period besides why should I set my standards to accommodate hers. There's a proverb that says: NEVER YEILD YOUR STRENGTH NOR YOUR WAYS ON A WOMAN FOR SHE DESTROYS KINGS!

  • @vernondelancy6281
    @vernondelancy6281 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I’m not putting no energy towards someone who’s not interested in me

    • @skepo22
      @skepo22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right I will practice

  • @joshirish4350
    @joshirish4350 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Also don’t fall in love!
    Don’t spend money on her!
    Don’t take her seriously!
    Don’t spend quality time with her!
    Don’t text her back after you finish your business.✌🏽

  • @williamheinsinger7390
    @williamheinsinger7390 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    NEVER CHASE BUT BE CHASED 💥

    • @in.edieudonnesworld3167
      @in.edieudonnesworld3167 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Never chase means no one chasing and no one being chased.

    • @pigslefats
      @pigslefats ปีที่แล้ว

      @@in.edieudonnesworld3167 Yep women have the same idea

    • @Newlife-ol6pk
      @Newlife-ol6pk ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Steal their purse and be chased 🤣

    • @MHLivestreams
      @MHLivestreams 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Chase a woman and she'll run away. A woman that genuinely likes a man will do the chasing.

    • @marcosjimenez7046
      @marcosjimenez7046 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True however every girl is different. Some like to be chased. They wanna know that you really wanna be with them.

  • @NarcDiscarderMcGee
    @NarcDiscarderMcGee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Forget my ex. Can i just have you. Thanks.

  • @josephsnisky1851
    @josephsnisky1851 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    And if she calls you, don't answer !

    • @zeyanZen
      @zeyanZen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And if she tries to get your number. Don't give her. Just ignore her and walk away. Don't look for her. Avoid eye contact with her. This is the best option.

  • @PaulRhodes420
    @PaulRhodes420 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When trying to start a relationship with an attractive woman, I either get like a deer starring at headlights, or I'm like a racecar peddle to the metal full blast! When I should be like a Sunday drive, slow & easy! I get overly excited and that usually ends up alone again! I'm single at 60 & disabled,but not unable! I have a big soft warm heart and just want to cuddle up watch TV. Women are hard to figure out sometimes!

    • @imperialsaint3639
      @imperialsaint3639 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Most of the time Good Sir, and it’s very sad,women today play too many mind games, it’s best to just be alone rather than be with someone and still feel alone💯

    • @robertcarmosino6563
      @robertcarmosino6563 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Women, you ether love them or understand them you can't do both

    • @PaulRhodes420
      @PaulRhodes420 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@robertcarmosino6563 You hit the nail on the head there dude! Live, Laugh, Love! If that don't work, Load, Aim, Fire! ✌️😁

  • @jaredloos1636
    @jaredloos1636 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    One woman does not know what another woman wants, likes, or needs. Taking a womans advice is the worst thing you can do, because they are so fickle.

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everything she said in this video 100% works

  • @AnonymousBased
    @AnonymousBased ปีที่แล้ว +24

    If you have a woman who loves and respects you, then she won’t see the need to have girls nights out, because she will chasing the direction you’re going on as opposed to a random night of fun. 6:10

    • @MHLivestreams
      @MHLivestreams 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Why would any woman who loves their man want to go to bars and clubs where there are loads of thirsty fellas? It's disrespectful, and is only a matter of time before she cheats. Might start off innocently, but it's a fine line. I wouldn't want to know any woman engaging in that kind of thing.

    • @AnonymousBased
      @AnonymousBased 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MHLivestreams Well, the sad reality is that most women today will get way with that, because the guys they’re with don’t have the value to demand certain things from their women, so they just take what they can get, and neither party is happy.

    • @dillathekilla3110
      @dillathekilla3110 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about women just catching up with their friends

    • @RichOrton91
      @RichOrton91 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@dillathekilla3110that's what texting/social media is for-not "girl's night(s) out" at bars with the usual thirsty AF, jerky-fie'd prideless *HUSKS*-of what had been (once-upon-a-time) (in a galaxy far far away, etcetera etcetera / yadda yadda / ad-infinitum...) a ONCE *PROUD*, SELF-RELIANT & WHOLE/COMPLETE "MAN".. Who, likely out of pure, same-as-for-everybody initial non-compliance turned eventually (begrudgingly) into frustrated non-compliant-compliance, with this God awful (and morally corrupt) thing mutated and parasitically attached its now deformed sense of initial purpose to our "survival instincts"-aka, what is called the "physical/psychological urge/want/need, to reproduce"..

  • @ag1now
    @ag1now ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “Let her have her girls night out” Lol Never ask a fish how to fish.. ask a fisherman 😉

  • @malihachape
    @malihachape 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Here is a simple alternative answer: When she leaves, wish her good luck and find another one. Problem solved.

  • @lorderectus1849
    @lorderectus1849 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Don’t Beg
    Don’t Look
    Don’t write
    Don’t Call,
    Don’t bother being with her at all!

    • @nesan787
      @nesan787 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      stay single life long

    • @johnsmith1034
      @johnsmith1034 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nesan787you get no play

    • @ToneyFranco
      @ToneyFranco 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well said …

  • @MicheleDamato-co7vh
    @MicheleDamato-co7vh ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All the things you say are true, but most people jump into relationships because they're unstable in the first place, let's face it if people were truly happy with themselves why would they ask for trouble by getting into a relationship lol.

  • @Leon612
    @Leon612 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Also, if she breaks up with YOU…don’t chase her. It’s beyond pathetic and weak. When it comes to women leaving, they don’t do things like that out of nowhere. She was planning on it for at least a month before she drops the bomb. Don’t chase! Just forget it and move on with your life.

  • @jasonrocksvegas
    @jasonrocksvegas ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Don’t be a simp or wimp
    Be her pimp😂

    • @wesleydiolata3467
      @wesleydiolata3467 ปีที่แล้ว

      😳

    • @ay-tj7pj
      @ay-tj7pj ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Be a high value man. Don't depend on others so much.

  • @everettjoyce1012
    @everettjoyce1012 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Find someone new, get rid of her.

  • @Jd-eq3ul
    @Jd-eq3ul ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All a game! If you see a text and don’t take the 2 seconds to respond. Then it’s a become a game. because you not responding to me is disrespect not “ having a life” I can have 10 things going on at once , if the person I care about is texting me , only takes a second to respond that’s called respect. . I don’t need to pretend I’m too busy, or seems desperate to respond fast. This new psychology is BS! And no relationship will last this way

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bollocks..............not everyone has their phone surgically attached to their fucking hand. i pick up my phone when i pick it up.........could be 4 or 5 hours til i check it again, never mind reply to anything

    • @chrisandsneaky2453
      @chrisandsneaky2453 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you were very busy and took time away from work to text back, even if it took mere seconds, is seen as evidence that you're 'too nice.' You're screwed either way; and women do NOT play games like this with men they truly want.

  • @lostammo9026
    @lostammo9026 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If your straight out of high school and live with your parents don’t do this get your life together cause it’s hard out here

  • @JKfilmzor
    @JKfilmzor ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If her ankles are touching your ears she probably likes you

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yeh for those brief few seconds.............then they'll soon be around someone else's ears....then someone else's (each successively more to her gain)

  • @mypov4343
    @mypov4343 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    When you are happy and free as a single person (as some traits discussed in this video) its easy to enjoy and appreciate women just as they are. Do not try to understand them. Just give them the freedom to come and go while you remain your authentic self. Practice the art of "letting go". The key is your own personal development so that you can get to that point.

    • @JY601
      @JY601 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is gospel💯… let me ask you this though, how is marriage a possible option knowing this truth

    • @mypov4343
      @mypov4343 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@JY601 Perhaps the bigger question is how is a marriage possible that does not wind up in divorce? The only answer I can come up with is both of you have done the work on yourselves and on the relationship with total transparency. You have found yourself a unicorn when you find a woman willing to do that :) Ok, maybe I am biased LOL

    • @marvinpercival4717
      @marvinpercival4717 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U either dominate r discard her.

  • @mikedevonish3933
    @mikedevonish3933 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really like when Women advice from the Psychological.
    That's a big NO for girls nite. I think we all know what that's about...and so does she but left flanking by emphasizing the innocence of what it could also be as a norm. I mean come on, it is an after hour activity.
    I get what she's trying to do but IMHO...
    Doing these Suggestions can puts a man in a submissive state of mind. Submissive to the "Happy Wife Happy Life" thing if you only see it as a "list of things to do".
    I believe Women need Constant Stimulation or else they get bored.
    That's a dangerous thing Bro'.
    My Advice... don't buy the hype, about Masculinity being toxic or you'll self-neuter.
    Be a Man. Put your foot down and Stand your ground (Boundaries). Put yourself First and forever go forward in All endeavors. Always, always be prepared to walk out the door and never look back.
    The above will take care of the 15 and keep a Positive state of mind...it did for me.
    Your mileage may vary.

  • @Knightswhosaynee
    @Knightswhosaynee ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Do women ever take the shortest direct route to anything or are mind games mandatory ?

  • @CryptoTrading_Elite
    @CryptoTrading_Elite 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Leting her go out with her friends in night club ?! 😂😂
    Better to stay alone

  • @JeffCahill-tp8ik
    @JeffCahill-tp8ik 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I dated Chinese royalty for a few years in Shanghai. Her father was one of the most famous Chinese opera stars in history (even had a photo with Mao). Her brother is a billionaire land developer. I'm an absolute nobody. How did I get her? By ignoring her. She was so used to men of a much higher class than me chasing her around, and being ignored drove her insane. She even told me that that's what attracted her the most. It had never happened to her before.
    I asked her for her phone number and she gave me her Wechat, but then I never followed up and she sent me messages. I would sometimes answer her messages and sometimes not answer them. I wasn't doing this as any kind of strategy; I had three other Chinese girls I was dating at the time, so I didn't really care. I was absolutely not playing games. So yeah, it's true.

    • @Luis.realtor
      @Luis.realtor หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cool
      Man you are smart that’s what I need !!! I like a girl .. she is hot but she does not pay attention to me … and i am tired of chasing her damn !!! I like the girl how can I get her ??? Tell me I am going crazy she do hot and pretty. Thanks man ! Luis

  • @DavidCórdovaMacedo
    @DavidCórdovaMacedo ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You have Made me see what I have done wrong ❤ thanks Anna🙏❤️🙏

  • @danielmartin-zm6xs
    @danielmartin-zm6xs ปีที่แล้ว +2

    still a form of manpulation

  • @shootingbricks8554
    @shootingbricks8554 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Be able to do stuff alone.

  • @ToneyFranco
    @ToneyFranco 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was taking to this cute attractive girl for a couple weeks. Lately she seems too busy for anything. I advised her I wanna to spend v day with her to take the day off. She didn’t take the day off for me and when she got off work late like after 10p i decided to not see her especially after she said if I come I can’t stay long. Also her texting pattern has been off I would text her good morning & she replies hours later maybe 5-7 hours and say good evening. Today she texted good afternoon I didn’t even reply and probably won’t.

  • @HenryLebensbaumLaw
    @HenryLebensbaumLaw ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is one of your best. I wish the others would rise to this level.

    • @lorderectus1849
      @lorderectus1849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There’s nothing to rise for when the meat 🥩 curtains have been eaten.

  • @mariaflesher1961
    @mariaflesher1961 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No wonder women dont date anymore id rather be single.. Mexican and Italian men are real men they understand how and who too " Woo and win the hearts of a women.

  • @thomashenshallhydraxis
    @thomashenshallhydraxis ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why are women so ridiculously hard to understand?
    I mean seriously, I wouldn’t care who I hung out with as long as she was just nice to me and could talk with me like a friend 👻.
    Not if I talk to her to much she loses interest, if I love her to much she will find someone eles that’s mean.
    Women just be a nice friendly person and men would take care of you.
    I broke my back trying to love my xwife, and come to find out I loved her to much…. I wish someone would love me as much as I loved her and the women would get anything she wanted.

    • @andersnielsen6044
      @andersnielsen6044 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So what you say is that you are gay.. Cute way to come out of the closet.. ;)

    • @thebatprince2398
      @thebatprince2398 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      men hes to not ready for relationships, if hes to see her always as hes playmate :\

    • @thomashenshallhydraxis
      @thomashenshallhydraxis ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thebatprince2398proper English would help others understand the word salad.
      Playmates are SW, I was looking for a real relationship.
      But it never happens because women have to many rules.
      Just like this comment, who sees women as playmates? I see them as demon spawn ready to destroy and conquer a man’s soul.
      I wanted a true life long friend that has kids with me.
      Oh no, that can’t happen.
      Women need….. insert a 100 ridiculous things… men only need respect, love and companionship.
      So I’m out, I pulled the ejection handle long time ago. I’ve finally made ground and got back to my destination. No way am I going to allow the enemy back into my front lines so easily.
      Tom leykis was so correct in the 90’s dating is a war of sorts. Don’t allow the enemy to much ground or they will conquer the land.

    • @thebatprince2398
      @thebatprince2398 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thomashenshallhydraxis men hes speak these way hes from hes own places to find us here. but into hes subjects :)
      if his wants to quit then hes quit this dating games, because hes cant keep play if hes not interested. but then why hes come to computerse for hes complaints of these? use hes computer for fun games to play this and to learn this from these sweet girl!
      but men hes have to listen to shes say, hes need to give 2 sides to these storys for us to know or hes cant prove hes right to us. if hes have to be told, is sure that she is to say rightes to him?

    • @imperialsaint3639
      @imperialsaint3639 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh I’m in this situation right now!, me and my wife has been together for 3 years, we of course had problems earlier in the relationship, she was just TOO friendly with other guys and I brought it up and she got defensive, I started getting a lot of attention from other women even though I wasn’t interested, she didn’t like that. Eventually things started getting worst, went to Phoenix AZ to visit her family and when we got there it was weird vibes and we got home she was home less, always with her friends and out and about and never around when I wanted to talk. She said she wanted to take a break and explore (which is men already know what that means) then we got into a fight last week and she told me she wanted a divorce, I TRUELY loved her and now I feel empty but she says she wants to be friends, it took a BIG toll on my emotions because she still calls me babe or hun and the next day she’s distant and always otp with someone, at this point I’m just not gonna say nothing to her anymore and take me a trip

  • @tjrobinson4066
    @tjrobinson4066 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Look fellas if you have to play all these games to get a woman you do not need that woman. I understand there is a bit of cat-and-mouse when courting a woman. But if you have to ignore her distance yourself from her and all of that in order to be more appealing to her she's immature and you don't need her.

  • @robertturner2516
    @robertturner2516 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great advice, once you find a girl that likes you and you like her. How to stay in a relationship.

    • @lorderectus1849
      @lorderectus1849 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nothing is forever

    • @MHLivestreams
      @MHLivestreams 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lorderectus1849 in the great universe, time is a paradox (greek saying)

  • @TomeRodrigo
    @TomeRodrigo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do not date, and all these "primitive" problems are solved. Be this, be that, behave like this, behave like that... Women are opportunists. Their thought process will be - "Is this the best I can get for myself"? It will destroy you mentally, because she will never be happy with you, no matter how great you are. Build yourself as you want to be, don't build yourself in order to be "attractive" for dating. It's a trap.

  • @saulurraca9294
    @saulurraca9294 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That girl night out thing is definitely out of the question. Don’t listen to that one most of the girls I had sex with was on girls night out why their man let them go out I have one guy that would drive his girlfriend to go out with my girlfriend and then we would stay home pretend that we went out and we would have a threesome and I’ve done that with plenty of girls that had their men let them do girls night out that’s a no, no girls with a lot of boys as friends that’s a no no be careful cause what you might be wanting might not be worth it

  • @Autonomous1969
    @Autonomous1969 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Don't Simp.

  • @robertrowan8174
    @robertrowan8174 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Anna 😊
    Thank-you for your wisdom.
    Awesome and informative vidz👍🏻😊

  • @USA_ExplorerFT
    @USA_ExplorerFT ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This's one of the best videos you made Anna. Well done!

  • @edwardbright9434
    @edwardbright9434 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    well I don't worry about all tht because whn she thinks hiding,& not talking to me nor open to certain things it's cool with me they don't know about blow back until th end

  • @tony_bucharest
    @tony_bucharest ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This might’ve been useful 20 years ago. Nowadays if 80 percent of women go and chase the rich bad guys… most hope is lost. Most men will fight over the leftovers 😅greeting from România

  • @RobertsDigital
    @RobertsDigital 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm stuck in this situation.
    I'm so much in love with a girl. We've been talking for a while but the ghosting from her has been going on for sometime. But I really like her like crazy.
    I have already stopped communication with her but I'm struggling not to communicate with her. I have already sensed that she will be no good but at the same time another part of me is really crazy for her and its giving me so much depression.
    Guys do you think I will grow out of it.

    • @Nix_Pardus
      @Nix_Pardus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you bro do you have an update on this? Hopefully you have long since moved on

  • @robmetalhead6185
    @robmetalhead6185 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    True it shows neediness and a lack of ambition on your own life

  • @theauthor3259
    @theauthor3259 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are above points why drug addicts and alcoholics are having multiple girlfriends 🤔 ... An old man said: 'for advice on how to catch fish, don't ask the fish, ask the fisherman.'

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women LOVE weak men.

  • @wheelsofafrica
    @wheelsofafrica ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Some excellent advice here, thank you, Anna xx

  • @johnjakson444
    @johnjakson444 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    as a Brit, I find her speech all too sugary syruppy and completely ungenuine, and a high value man is always about money unless you live in fantasy world

  • @anthonypaules7893
    @anthonypaules7893 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They want top G, not needy simps. If you really, really, want her, she will wonder what is wrong with you. She wants a step up from herself, not less or straight across. A man has to settle for one that makes big moon eyes at him, even if he's not that into her. It's just the way it is. If you swoon for her, she'll be disgusted by you. Tge best part is, you can't fake it. You really have to settle for a woman as a man.

  • @CryptoTikibro
    @CryptoTikibro 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Actions speak louder than words. Body language will give you important clues.

  • @TastyGoomba
    @TastyGoomba 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    great video and great comment section too... my 2 cents: if a woman is mentally weak and brainwashed by what society deems them to "be", it's tough to break through that, even if you know they like you... save yourself the heartbreak & frustration & just let it go...

    • @silentalliance3269
      @silentalliance3269 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very well put mate even if a girl really likes you but she’s been brainwashed by society just like you said she’s not gonna change for you so in the long run it isn’t going work out anyway

  • @silvermine2033
    @silvermine2033 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great information. Thanks, Anna!

  • @bnizzio
    @bnizzio ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow! I got a lot from this video within the first 60 seconds. I feel like I fell for a woman I never imagined I'd fall for. This brought me to my senses. Maybe I did fall, but was it for the right reasons? And, this vid just prevented me from chasing her. I need to chill, look into myself for validation and make my next move from there.

  • @JolPil
    @JolPil 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Problem is, ignoring her is So Boring! No thrills. Even if it works a little (a local health food store worker - super skinny tall model hot) - I feel so bored when I play this ignore her game - no adrenaline, no joy - it seems to work a little bit - but not strongly. How can I attract her by boring myself with this ignore her game!? I feel So Bored passing her by as if she does not exist, So Bored!!!

    • @Luis.realtor
      @Luis.realtor หลายเดือนก่อน

      You right man happens to me I prefer adrenaline fire I love to chase this girl I like is good girls love that fire 🔥 go ring is boring you right

  • @zerolbcool
    @zerolbcool ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So true absence does make the heart grow fonder, tell me about it. :) Meanwhile some are currently always present!

    • @Monatio79
      @Monatio79 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absence makes the heart grow fonder but familiarity breeds contempt.

    • @zerolbcool
      @zerolbcool ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Monatio79 True Dat. You do realize I was being sarcastic about always here right.

    • @CaesarConsuloProVita
      @CaesarConsuloProVita 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is a two edged sword and you can overplay that hand. Once you do…it won’t work again. This Giga Chad advice is the worst advice ever…it leads to games and hook up culture, which is diabolical!

  • @vincenttrujillo6143
    @vincenttrujillo6143 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Look at this huge checklist! @_@
    What you are describing is not how to get women, but the life long process of self-development....LOL If men are ganna be bringing this then what the hell are women doing?!?! xDDDD

  • @Jay_Tsunami_
    @Jay_Tsunami_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Okay, so be perfect. Got it! Thanks ma’am!

  • @justafriend3408
    @justafriend3408 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men should not chase specific women, they should go for whoever is available there and then that has your vibe; live in the moment; women are everywhere. The more you chase a specific person, the more they distance themselves.
    Also, don't look at someone's beauty nor wealth. These will distract you from feeling that person's vibration which is by far more important. Get specific people off your mind, move places and keep up your vibration; these will lead to meeting new and less complex people with more fulfilment in life

  • @MetalSStar196
    @MetalSStar196 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I gave one of my friends an honest pep talk about her depression. I know she has these mood swings and gets depressed easily around this time of year. Long story short, I told her to not focus on her depression, but on her goals because she's too busy to be focusing on remedying her depression.
    I mean, look at Arnold Schwarzenegger. Did he ever make depression front and centre of his thoughts? Nope! In fact, he put the thought of his depression over his brother's and father's deaths behind on the back burner. I would say his way of coping compared to his older brother (who died from drinking, then driving, then smashing the car into a telephone post).
    I don't care that I came off as a jerk in that pep talk text. I just gave her what she needed as any parent should.

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 ปีที่แล้ว

      what do women have to be depressed about, it's we men who have the hard time trying to 'get' them, or understand them. Women are born, Men are Made (or should be)

  • @seanmontague4739
    @seanmontague4739 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is too much. My advice is respect yourself.

  • @anaphaxeton
    @anaphaxeton ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Anna, that girls night out brings me horror.

  • @g-dcomplex1609
    @g-dcomplex1609 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    when i stopped trying to be attractive, i became very attractive

    • @zeyanZen
      @zeyanZen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

  • @amdeko
    @amdeko 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I will forever clap for others until its my turn 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @TIGERCAT716
    @TIGERCAT716 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    💕Joyanima 💘 Thank you so much for all of your videos and all that you do. Love you.

  • @oliverpetroski4205
    @oliverpetroski4205 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First😂

  • @AJAYPATEL-bp9to
    @AJAYPATEL-bp9to 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow ! This all works initial days but when her belly bulged up she gets all her senses so man has to wait till then

  • @JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd
    @JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "If she leaves, let her go. If she comes back, send her away. If she doesn't, good riddance"
    I think that's the saying

  • @Coolproducts44
    @Coolproducts44 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always have a girlfriend my entire life I'm never single

  • @Xavier2Live
    @Xavier2Live ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your the goat at this

  • @MegaSilverscorpion
    @MegaSilverscorpion ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Naw, if a girl likes ya she likes ya. A simple “I’m busy that day, but maybe X day?” And that’s healthy banter betwixt two individuals, but if you ignore her or she ignores you, do you really like her/him?

  • @GoaWay4Sanity
    @GoaWay4Sanity ปีที่แล้ว +12

    5:54
    ⚠️ *NO GIRLS NIGHT OUT!* ⚠️
    *just another excuse for her to cheat!*

    • @anaphaxeton
      @anaphaxeton ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said. My similar line fell under yours.

    • @thebatprince2398
      @thebatprince2398 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      let shes to get with guys :D hes to make her happy to filmes :D

  • @Kain_R_Heinlein
    @Kain_R_Heinlein ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was with you until you said to let her have her girls nights out. 😂 Hell no, I encourage having her own interests and Independence so she cannot be codependent and overly attached because that is toxic and gives her a sense of identity. But girls night out is a big No-No, a girl and her righteous femininity has no reason to go out with her single friends seeking male validation

  • @Robert-uj6rr
    @Robert-uj6rr ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow who cares what a woman wants.
    At the end of the day their the one's who want to get pregnant