Dangelowallece: calls out himself for spreading misinformation, confronts his mistake in a mature manner and sincerely apologise. *everyone liked that*
LOL! I mean, his job is being a content creator, and he puts a lot of time and effort into his videos, so unless someone was directly hurt by them, I see no problem with him making money off of his work. Just my opinion.
I know this is an old video and no one will ever see this comment but I’m so glad to see creators own something they said or did. It shows growth and maturity.
especially to see him not beat around the bush and actually address the specific things that he did wrong. this was an actual apology, not some bs statements from the beauty community!
I feel the same way. This is literally the best apology video I've ever seen. Like this is the example essay that you have to read during Starr testing. Now I know how to make an apology if I ever become famous lol
Really? I think he's only doing it because he got backlash and he doesn't genuinely regret anything... I mean he's this whole freaking video saying he was right apart from like one thing LMAO
‼️This apology is FAKEEE‼️ 1) he didn’t start with his hand by the camera and then slowly pulled back 2) he didn’t to the big sigh 3) no tears 4) there was no “I’m a different person than I was then” 5) he made too much sense Open ur eyes people
Instead of reducing them to “trolls” and exaggerating the criticism to subtly victimize themselves and manipulate their audience into defending them. Just saw an example of it last night from a youtuber I otherwise respect. So yea, it is REFRESHING and rare.
If only all youtubers were like d’angelo! Also, the fact that he said he didn’t receive a single hate comment and only got constructive criticism?? That proves he has built a really positive and mature audience.
Bro that put up a mental image of D’Angelo wearing a unicorn horn with like rainbows and sparkles in the background but like he still has that serous expression he always has. Made me cackle.
@@bwnnie ikr! Like why would he actually explain where he went wrong?! He should've just cried for 20 minutes and barely apologized. We don't need the extra commentary smh
Can we just appreciate how unproblematic he is. He gets called out, he responds and apologises. No hiding, no deleting, no ignoring, no getting defensive. You’ve got my respect.
@@sarahloy2003 not really, to be honest, infulencer or not its hard to find someone who can ball up their pride and make a *sincer* apology when needed
@@nuhaakmel663 perhaps, but they don't earn money from: - analysing youtube drama -scrutinising apology videos - speculating that persons intentions - judging the approach to saving their own backs/ solving controversy - knowing whether viewers react negatively or positively to said apology video think about how much understanding he would have by now. i still think anyone with a basic level of human decency, honesty and emotional maturity can make a sincere apology. if not i have second hand embarrassment for humanity lol.
"D'Angelo is always right!": ❌ "D'Angelo makes mistakes and can be our of line, but he always tries to be genuine and knows when back off and when to double-down.": ✔
I like him but I'm sick of 20-soumething TH-camrs trying to age-shame 30-something TH-camrs, like they're not part of our generation. I get it that these guys want to seem cool to get views by pandering to teens & young kids. In reality, YT personalities like D'Angelo have way more in common with that 30yo than he does with his teen fans.
Why does no one seem to understand that drugs aren’t the only thing that can give you a bad memory? Mental illnesses, chronic lack of sleep, neurological problems, some medications and heck even just straight up bad genes can all cause problems with memory. It is gross for anyone to assume that anyone else is using drugs purely based off of a single comment about their memory.
I almost feel like the way she made the video, she should have had a private conversation with her if she was actually concerned instead of making speculations... Which really makes me feel like she wasnt concerned for her well-being.... I get it but she could have went about the video another way
About the mental health , absolutely. The way she hesitated before saying drug abuse tells me that she knows what she wanted to say was horrible yet she said it anyway. It really had me face palming and smh from that point on
My anxiety does that to me :( . I do not trust myself and double check 10 times because I cant remember . Once even wasnt sure if i handed in an exam knowing damn well it is impossible i didnt but still couldnt remember me handing it to the prof
A bad memory is not the same as completely forgetting about a painful procedure. Especially when tattoos are usually something you have to decide on or design first. Yes a neurological disorder or DID would explain this, too. But what’s more likely?
i’m a fan of lauren, but i was getting so annoyed by the eMBRoiDeRY NeeDLe thing,, sometimes i can be laying in bed at 3am and my brain just goes aN eMBRoiDeRY NeeDLe and i wanna cry
As a heavily tattooed person, I understand Lauren’s concerns and how she expresses them. There’s a lot of responsibility with tattoos and I understand where she’s coming from. But, I do think she could have been less...astounded. The theatrics were too much especially for someone she doesn’t personally know.
All her concerns are valid ones to HAVE, but some of them were unprofessional of her to voice publicly. Calling out unsafe practices is 100% fine, and I do absolutely agree with Lauren on the fact that Blake shouldn't be teaching folks unsafe techniques. However, concerns about Blake's possible substance use, lack of concern for their own future, and parental situation should've either been kept to herself, or discussed privately with Blake. I had all of those concerns about Blake too, when I watched D'Angelo's initial video. But I wouldn't have ever aired out someone else's dirty laundry in public like Lauren did, and definitely not in such a sensationalized way.
I fully agree with you. I got my first (and until now, only) tattoo when I was 18. I designed it at 16 and during those two years I contemplated very thoroughly if I really want to get it tattooed (my mom would've allowed me to get one tattoo at 16 (because I've always wanted one) but in the end I waited till 18 anyway). I just think you shouldn't take tattoos lightly as they're, obviously, permanent and that's why I really wanted to get something done that's very meaningful to me. Because in the end, you'll never know how you're going to think about it in 5, 10, 15, ..., years and there's so many people regretting (some of) the tattoos they've gotten. Now, obviously, it's everyone's own choice and it's their own body, so you do you, boo... but I really do understand the concerns because it's sad to see someone having to go through this and then saving up money to either get a cover up or get it removed (which is probably really painful). And of course, there's a very good reason that you have to be a certain age to get tattooed because oh my, as a 14 year old, I'd have wanted to get a skull tattooed but now as a 21 year old, I definitely do not want that anymore. So, in conclusion, Lauren made a well-meaning video but failed at delivering it. However, I do agree with @@jacklandismusic 's comment, I had the same thoughts while I was watching D'Angelo's first video on the situation... but as they also said, these are matters that should *not* be speculated on in a youtube video. Lauren could've voiced those concerns to Blake by directly and privately reaching out to them.
Shane Dawson’s video was in my “Recommended” for several days. And I refused to click because it was 1 hour and 13 minutes. I told myself “yeah right! I’m not spending that much time watching a TH-cam video”...eventually I clicked on it and thought I would leave after the first 5 minutes. Fast forward to 3 days later...I’ve watched not only Shane’s video, but Jeffrey’s, Tati’s, Ma’am...you’re 30 and Ma’am...I’m sorry...that’s approximately 4.5 hours of my time I’ve spent watching a 21 year old speak in front of a microphone. This dude is so eloquent, concise and well prepared, it blows my mind to think about the fact that he’s only 21! I really enjoy your videos, D’Angello, and can’t wait to be all caught up with the rest of them. Keep up the good work. I see a great future ahead for you (as long as you stay out of drama haha).
I actually really like this guy. he isn't like other 'drama channels' who talk about tea and petty stuff, he talks about genuine things in a mature and genuine way. It's clear he's not just here to bandwagon and spread drama, but to educate people on events. Which he does very well, he goes into a lot of detail and never leaves out points or tries to censor tricky subjects. I'm glad to see them making a community that isn't all about spreading drama and hate, but can recegnise when they're wrong and step back and apologise. I think it's what the internet needs
@ You're not a realist, trust me. No one asked but you came and decided to be negative to someone else's comment, even if it's not full of facts, it's still their own opinion. Sweetie, thats pessimism :b
you missed the part where you're sitting on the floor against your bed even though your bed is right there, with tear stains, furrowing your eyebrow, sighing heavily, and saying, "i've tried to make this video...so many times."
Young Sir ..good job. You have more character in your little pinky than many have in their whole body. If this is where you are starting I think you have so many things to look forward to in your life 😀. (hopefully given climate change and crazy geopolitics that could end up being a real bummer but in no way your fault) I have been on the platform for 7 years and this is the first apology video that does it correctly and honesty.
agreed! I think pointing out the dangers of self-tattooing(?) is very useful but I don't understand why a grown adult should go after a child so harsly. Also if you're REALLY concerned about this specific kid, why not talk to them directly?
Her whole fucking channel is about that. That video is probably one of the few where she doesn't get too deep with safety measures. I also think it is common sense to avoid stabbing your skin with a needle in an unsterilized environment. I'm not angry, mind you, but she made tons of videos where she talks about the consequences of unsanitary tattoo practices.
Fruitorsch You might want to be aware that some people who are unfamiliar with Treacle Tatts or “her whole fucking channel” would not know if not mentioned in the highlighted video. Chill.
I'm honestly more impressed by someone who can see their mistakes and apologise for them rather than someone who never makes mistakes Also props for going back and specifying where you were wrong and what you still agree with instead of apologising for the whole video
Lauren’s age and tattoo experience actually makes me more inclined to think she had good intentions towards Blake. Where impact didn’t match the intent was with the implications about her family/substance abuse-I’ll admit I felt the same concerns watching Blake’s clips, but those are huge accusations to make in public, especially towards a high-schooler. I think both of you had valid points expressed in imperfect ways, which happens sometimes! Your reaction to criticism was definitely more level-headed and mature.
As a teenager rn I think I could kind’ve see from Blake’s point of view. I mean I haven’t tattooed myself because I have eczema and it’s gets really bad when the seasons change however if I didn’t have that I probably would have tattooed myself by now. I also assure you that non of my family do substances or ignore me in anyway, but I think it’s just a teen thing to do. Blake is most likely going to regret those tattoos in a couple years however if I was them and Lauren said anything about me doing substances or my family doing substances I would have lost it. That later part of her video really wouldn’t help anyone in this situation. But idk just my opinion🧍
@@flimsyenthusiasm5769 I don't think the substance abuse assumption was based on Blake's tattoos, but on the fact that they said they don't remember making some of them. That usually implies you were under some kind of influence :/ Even if that wasn't the case and the lack of memory was for any other reason, the mere fact that they spread unsanitary ways of getting a tattoo by yourself for teenagers is super problematic. That can lead to infections or even worse. The thing is, when teenagers are looking for how to do certain stuff online, they don't usually care for the consequences, and that's why making that sort of content available is ad in the first place. I know Blake is a teenager themself, but their parents really should be more concerned about what their kid is doing online IMO. I understand what you're saying tho, and I agree.
Being a heavily tattooed mother to a tattooed child I made her promise not to EVER do a stick and poke/home tattoo as it is very dangerous. For her 18th birthday I took her for her first tattoos. I think it’s important for an adult to point out the danger in unsanitary tattooing conditions. However, once she goes off the topic of safe tattooing practices she absolutely loses me.
My child's father is a tattoo artist. They take having a proper apprenticeship very seriously and an artist with any morals won't tattoo someone under 18. And will use their good judgement when recommending placement. And will deter someone, who isn't already heavily tattooed, to avoid their face, neck, and hands. My child is also not getting tattoos until she is 18 as well.
Priscilla ff the way I did it was I told her she could get whatever she wanted and I would pay for it. If she got one before 18 the bet was off and she would be on her own. Plus a couple other immediate punishments I can’t remember. I’m 38 and I was in HS when piercing started becoming popular. I went to a seedy place to have it done and I did NOT want my kid getting a backyard tattoo. Mostly for safety reasons too. Sounds like you and your child’s dad share a similar philosophy.
yess!!! my mom was the same way! Im 20 now and have several tattoos and some of my friends MY AGE would rather have unsafe tattoos for cheaper so their parents dont figure it out from cost when they hide them. It freaks me out im terrified theyre gonna get infections
My parents told me to never get a tattoo before I'm 18 just so I don't have regrets after. They explained to me and I trusted them. Now I have 8 tattoos, all done after 23. And I'm happy I didn't made them before just for the sake of doing them. Even if they dislike them, we still have a great relationship. I think having a good relationship with your child and explain them how things are working in a proper loving way, it's better than saying no without providing some arguments.I loved how you explained to your child, that's a healthy atitude. Good job.
The fact that Dangelo was able to read comments from his own viewers talking about his mistakes and he apologized and admitted he was wrong instead of immediately assuming it was just people hating on him is so refreshing. Hes one of the only youtubers I have EVER seen being this genuine in their apology
damn, most influencers would just wait until the point they're "cancelled" until creating a half-ass apology video... proceeding to take down the video that contains said mistakes. i didn't even see anything wrong with your video until you pointed it out
I got a badly done tattoo underage and unsanitarily AND I regret it, AND I still agreed with pretty much everything he said in the original video. To be honest I still don’t see anything wrong with 99% of what he said, but I do appreciate him taking the time to make this video and face the music.
The way you handled this situation, and the way you were saying "I'm sorry" in a... idk... genuine manner? Makes me realize how I have never come across a TH-camr like you and it makes me like you a lot more. We all make mistakes, I forgive you.
the only other youtuber I've seen do proper "apology" videos is jenna marbles, and for him to be somewhere up there with jenna marbles in terms of being genuine is super fucking good imo
I don't think it's projecting, more like: 'Hey I made the same mistake when I was a dumb kid, and now I wish to warn people about jumping to hand/neck tattoos too quickly' Which is, well understandable
@@goldenbunnies4143 there is no way to go about it well. Kids who are determined enough to tattoo them selfs (i was one, lol) aren’t gonna be stopped. Laurens video is bringing up more than just this point, but if she was like “hey i did this and it sucks” kids would be like “that’s your problem i want a hand tattoo” bc that’s how teens are and they don’t think long term. I’m not saying everything Lauren did was right, but it seems all of it came from a place of concern for Blake rather than an attack on them.
But she didn’t say it as respectful as that. She said it in a very rude way telling her she WILL be the upset in the future. Listen to her choice of words.
i saw the video earlier, and while i did agree with several points, i did think it was unusually harsh compared to your other content. i really appreciate how honest this apology is. you're not deflecting criticism, but you're not pandering to try and get people off your back either. i've always found you to be really genuine in the videos you make, and this one is no exception. keep it up, dude
teethbandit that’s where I was- although I agreed with D’Angelo on most of his points, I also agreed with TreacleTatts with some of her points. When I watched his video I wanted to leave a comment just like “I don’t know how to feel” because honestly, I have such mixed emotions. Both her and he were giving some good points. I do feel TreacleTatts was being harsh about some stuff, like I think she should have absolutely never made any mentions of drugs in regards of a kid, or mental health- because it’s not like she made a video about a hugely known creator, like someone who had a full blown mental breakdown on camera, and she definitely doesn’t have enough to go by to make that claim publicly. If she was just like “I feel weird that they can’t remember giving themselves a tattoo, but that’s not my place” I feel that would have been enough. Express that made you uncomfortable, but don’t make speculations when it’s not your place. But I actually agreed with a lot of the other things she said, even if she was harsh on some other points i agreed it was concerning (one thing I can think of off the top of my head being that their mom doesn’t know the tattoos are real- I feel that is extremely concerning because you don’t know your kid gave themselves a tattoo? I do think she should have refrained from saying “this is borderline stupidity” tho. So I agree with her thoughts on some stuff, but not her way of expressing it). So I’m glad he made this video, not because I felt he needed to apologize because he really didn’t have to but I am glad he was big enough to do so- but I’m glad he did it because it helped me put together my own thoughts on the situation. Also on the hand tattoos. I have watched TreacleTatts videos several times, I am also a big fan of tattoos and love learning about the do’s and don’ts, or my own do’s and don’ts - and getting hand or neck tattoos either when you’re young or don’t have a lot of tattoos is considered a don’t to most people, including tattoo artists, because they are visible and because if you get a tattoo that is hidden- if you regret it later, you can hide it from being shown, and the point D’Angelo talked about with the safety net of jobs and just general safe nets. But yes I agree again- the execution of the original video, TreacleTatts, was a bit off. Tl:dr, glad he made this video, I just rant about my thoughts on all these videos.
Can’t say I still agree with all of your points but I respect them. I also respect how you corrected yourself and apologised. Also, this may be just me and I could be wrong, but I detect some real sadness at the end there. Your voice seemed to quiver a bit and looked as if you got a tad tearful at the thought of any of your subs being disappointed. Got me a bit emosh man, honestly felt for you, you seem very genuine.
bruh i was looking for a comment that said this... and if u look closely his nose gets red which happens in another video where he visibly and obviously tears up(the first shallon lester video) ... this just goes to show that he truly and genuinely is sorry and doesn’t want to hurt or offend anyone
@@victoriehughes4565 Same! The end hurt my heart a bit to see him get shaky about it. TH-camrs get called out for way worse and barely show an ounce of disappointment in themselves. He barely did anything in my opinion but you can tell how much he cares about making it right.
Did you even watch the video?? He didnt even fake cry once!! Smh I'm disappointed. He didnt even say he was in a dark place. -1000/10 apology video (This is a joke if that wasnt clear)
Not gonna lie, this was the first video of yours I've ever watched and I didn't even see the original video first for context, but this was the best apology video I've ever seen.
I'm really glad you stuck with the parts of the video that you still agreed with, instead of pretending you had entirely changed your mind about all of it just because you got backlash. Not only because I agree with you on those points, but also because it's just a lot more genuine than many TH-camrs are willing to be.
See this right here? This is why I like D'Angelo. It takes a mature person to admit they're wrong. I am so proud of this random internet dude I have never met and never will.
wow a TH-camr actually apologizing in a clear and concise way that doesn’t mince any words or say anything vague like” I did offensive things i’m truly sorry for my actions I’m disgusted with the person I used to be” and coming in telling what they did with clear and concise words the Gall the Audacity the Gumption I’ve never seen it before and I probably will never see it again Your favs could never
@@amandaschmidt9528 What I especially like is the "I still agree with most of what I did and said, there are just a few things I agree I should have done differently."
I’m happy that you didn’t take down your video. I hate when influencers do that. Your basically saying that you didn’t make that mistake and then leave a video up apologizing. This makes me happy that D’angelo put on his big boy pants and owned up.
The only time I think it would be appropriate to take a video down would be if it's incredibly damaging to the person you're talking about. The old video I don't think is so damaging that it would warrant being taken down, but if he made a wilder accusation against the woman then it would be better to remove it because if some rando came across it and didn't see the retraction video it could be really damaging.
Watching the “ma’am you’re thirty” video left me feeling a little uncomfortable towards the end of the video. Than I clicked onto your next , and what do you know: accountability. You’re very wise for your young age!
The fact that he looked like he was actually about to start crying at the end of the video when he cut it off made my heart ache because through the whole video you know he’s being genuine.
@Violet Verdict true but the only other time I’ve seen him look upset like that was when he was talking about how his grandparents almost died.. so I think it’s pretty telling
I can't believe I only found this channel a few days ago. The video about Shane popped up in my recommended, and I couldn't care less about that, but there was a tag that said "Jarvis Johnson's viewers watch this" or something like that. And I thought "Well if Jarvis' subscribers approve then it has to be good" and I'm so happy that I clicked on the video. I've been on this god forsaken site for 15 years and I have never seen a creator like D'Angelo. This is too high quality for TH-cam. And I'm so happy that his channel blew up because of the beautuber stuff. He deserves it.
The Shane video is kind of on another level tho. Like you don't really need to be invested in the saga to be mindblown by it. But I agree his videos in general are for sure solid no doubt and I think he's on the vanguard or forefront of this new wave of commentary channels (i.e. thoughtfully measured and left leaning) that I've been really enjoying
Dude, this is genuine. Even though I agree with most of your original video THIS is genuine to show you're aware of the bigger picture. No one does this anymore IRL. Respect you even more.
Small brain: Delete your mistakes Normal brain: Appologise for your mistakes Mega brain: Do a video on your mistakes while pointing out why you big dumb dumb
I was a self harming child who, sadly, did "tattoo" myself but it was... Let's just say more unhygienic and the results were worse. I feel very worried for this young person and I hope they are OK.
they’re really fine it’s weird people think they can just assume they’re just crazy or self harming they literally have their own apartment job and life and are so successful and still tattoo
@@lol4bunnyand you’re coming from the perspective that this person was 18, when at the time of the video she was 16. So what’s your point? Now she’s 20, I guess should say, it’s fine guys, she has her own place and she’s an adult, why is everyone making such a big deal.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen an apology video where someone went back through basically the entirety of the original video like this. Mad props for calmly and maturely tackling it like this! :)
❗️THIS IS INCORRECT❗️ Here I’ll script it for you *pulls hand away from camera* *sighs(long and heavy)* *tear stained face* “Hey guys..” *look very depressed* “I think that you all deserve and apology” *do not actually apologize* “Before I was a different person” *STARE DEEPLY* “Now I have changed, and my opinions have changed” *look down* *sigh* *deeply stare* “But now I have new opinions and you guys have pointed out that I was wrong” *start to cry* “But now-“ *small sob* “Now I think that it’s time to change” *sniffle* *deep breath* “I was in a very dark place, and it hurt me.” *look away from the camera and sniffle a bit, MAKE YOUR EYES TEARY AND RED* “I was desperate and I didn’t see how I had effected others” *preceded to explain about the situation, and the never apologize and never admit that you are wrong* There, I fixed it
Tundra Hunter a tutorial and advice do not necessarily lie under the same category. They can, but it all depends on how you word it and when making the tattoo videos they always use disclaimers and advise against what they are doing.
@@chabelyarismendy4311 So if they have a disclaimer advising against it, why would they even post the tutorial showing people how to do it in the first place ? 🤔
she used Blake as an example to a younger audience (who may or may not follow them). The majority of Blake's followers are young and impressionable, so I think the lady was just trying to alert them before it's too late
@@nyssiaeiko3476 I do agree with that, but I do think it’s a laps in judgement rather than malicious. Blake does have a larger plattform too to it’s not like she is anonimys either. It’s a hard one.
I need to stress something as a professional tattooer that you probably didnt think about, but in most states tattooing in your home is ILLEGAL. And in other states you need to have a license and be inspected. I think that's a real concern with the parents that this child could be spreading diseases illegally
Yeah, and it also made me wonder if the reason she specifically said substances was because that is illegal. But I am probably giving her too much credit.
“today i wanna talk about how i was wrong and WHY i was wrong, and i want to apologize for being wrong.” literally less than 15 seconds in and i’m already thinking this is going to be a jenna marbles level of genuine apology. good job. youtubers, take notice. this is a good example of how to handle criticism or just being flat-out wrong in a situation instead of deflecting any advice, constructive or otherwise, that your viewers and those personally involved try to give you. this is how you don’t come off as arrogant and just plain gross: admit you did something bad. own up to why that thing was a bad thing and apologize. d’angelo, it’s nice seeing more creators that can just... own up to something they’ve done or at the very least just *realize* that it wasn’t the best choice. it sounds sarcastic to me just typing it out, but genuinely: good on you for having a brain AND being a pretty alright human being.
I didn’t even have that much of an issue with the first one but the fact you went through the whole video and commentated on your current thoughts on it is how I wish other TH-camrs addressed stuff. This is so mature and great. This is the reality we want and need from TH-cam.
I think Lauren should have made a separate video, addressed to all young people (without calling out anyone in particular), on the topic of self tattooing for teens and her opinion that is informed by her experiences with it, instead of in the video about Blake, because it unfairly attaches them to it. The video about them should have just covered the unsanitary practices and ended there. No unacceptable speculation on substance abuse, no inappropriate speculation on their home life, and the opinions about tattoos on teens in a seperate video that is in no way attached to Blake.
yeah but calling out someone in particular get you so much more views which equals more money. Just look at what this channel is doing. All he does is call people out instead of making vague videos telling people what they should and shouldn't do.
@@Goldenretriever-k8m of course, because that is the purpose of his channel and he makes that extremely clear from the get go. The person he is apologizing to doesn't have a channel about that kind of thing, didn't make the video concise, and instead attached a bad label to a child of 16 yrs old. So what's your point?
@@GravityButterfly My point is that's how youtube works, you make tons of money doing this kind of thing. It's good if you are talking about truly terrible people but some people make videos that just speculate just because someone might make a clumsy or problematic video whether they mean well or not and then gets ripped to shreds because now it's out there as free material, so one person speculates about someone, then another about them, and then back and forth for a while, it all generates views because it's drama and youtube viewers love the drama.
@@Goldenretriever-k8m then it sounds like someone other than D'angelo should be making an apology video. The poor 16 yr old doesn't deserve being accused of being a druggy and have their reputation dragged through the mud. Guidance is fine, empathy is fine but to slander someone is not fine. Sure Lauren made some good points but i don't agree she with what she did where blake is concerned. That little girl deserves justice plain and simple.
This is why I like you and your content a lot, I like how you know you gotten some parts wrong and some right. It’s nice seeing creators like you going back to address stuff in a genuine and levelheaded manner. Edit: OH YEA I FORGIVE YOU
I guess it’s absolutely insane to think that a minor child should have freedom to do WHATEVER they want, as illegal as it is. I’m confused as to how a 15 year old can go through saying they’ve been homeless, have been abusing themselves, and their parents in turn abusing and neglecting her, then have other children egg her on and go about saying it’s no ones business after it’s been transferred into a public platform. You’re right, it’s not our business anymore. It’s the government’s. I’m shocked no one has ever called the police to do a well check. That’s how you know no one actually cares or else they would have made enough noise to have the child removed and in a better situation. Just a bunch of teenagers egging each other on doing absolutely destructive crap.
Mary Poppins you must be pretty privileged cuz teen homelessness is common where I come from and a lot of the time police don’t do shit even in cases where both the parents and child are on drugs/being abused/ etc.. :/
Emo Fucktard I’m privileged because I expect people who are paid to do a certain job, to do their job? Lmfao dude I grew up in the Soviet Union. My family survived the Holocaust by hiding out in the mountains. We had to collect scrap metal to get food on the table. I think privileged is the wrong word here.
Mary Poppins ah the commenter obviously misstepped by calling you privileged but I get why they said it-your comment reads as surprised and appalled at the lack of intervention given to kids in these tough situations. The surprise seems innocent/naive cause as the comment said-the system often doesn’t do jackshit to help these kids and some people are simply used to dealing with that fact. You’re completely right and the whole idea that these kids are effectively abandoned is horrifying, but it’s unfortunately quite normalized to myself and others (which fucken sucks cause desensitization and cynicism is just a shit place to be). When I read your comment, I realized how disillusioned I am tbh cause I felt none of the same shock at the lack of intervention. Also, I am sorry that you were called privileged; you and your family have obviously gone through unspeakable hardship, and my heart goes out to you.
I would say that it's unacceptable that she speculates that Blake's parents are stupid but I think its very concerning that Blake's parents don't see a problem with what they are doing and haven't looked into the fact that their child, which they are legally responsible for, is permanently marking their body without their parents knowledge.
@@boilingsoda which is the reason for the concern. They are a minor who could be in danger or at the very least, extremely neglected. Their parents should be called out.
@@nowhere8130 Do you know how easy nowadays it is to manipulate parents? They might not be dumb but she might just be "clever" in her way. I used to get inkbox, fake tattoos for months, and like two weeks ago I had my first real tattoo and my parents still think it is fake because I told them about inkbox and those super realistic tattoos! But my parents are not dumb, I just manipulated them, I am in the wrong, not my parents. They never neglected me, they trusted me. Who are you to know if Blake did not use the same trick? Even more, knowing that they are a minor, maybe the parents trust professional workers thinking that they will never tattoo them? Maybe they don't know that you can buy tattoo needles on amazon? I didn't, I always thought it was fake. Don't go around accusing people of neglect not knowing them, it is really bad and can hurt the family and the parents. As a daughter who wronged my family for years with my actions, I know how hard it is to move on when you trusted your daughter and all you feel now is disappointment.
honestly, i feel bad for blake. they clearly don’t have the best home life. they’ve posted videos of themselves doing drugs and their mom yelling at them. blake has discussed their mom having a mental illness and often being in foster homes or having to move in with a friend as a last minute resort because of their mother. looking at their social media for ten minutes would show that something is wrong in terms of their personal life. but i think it should be handled privately. i’ve been following blake for a long time, a friend of mine used to be good friends with them before they developed a large following, and i worry about them a lot.
Honestly same, all my friends who act like Blake does (dressing the same, same way of speaking, self tattooing) are 15 year old alcoholics or have been to rehab multiple times. It's very concerning
yes! All of this! Lauren didn't handle the situation with much tact, but I don't think it's wrong for people within the tattoo community to point out that we should probably be a little concerned for this person beyond just the wildly unsanitary tattooing conditions. Wishing Blake and Lauren and Dangelo all the best.
I feel like the situation could've been avoided if Lauren stuck to critiquing Blake's unsafe tattooing practices and refrained from publicly speculating on their personal life.
I'm glad you learned about the "collar/cuff" etiquette. I got a tattoo that barely came below my wrist when I was 24 and I never expected my life would take me into the military and I had to spend a lot of money changing something that I didn't regret at all. The world is vastly more accepting of tattoos than it used to be, but it's best to wait until you really know where your life is going before getting a career roadblock put on your body. Personally I think, military aside, nobody should really care whether you have visible tattoos or not, but kids shouldn't be making life altering decisions at least until they've gone out into the workplace.
@@CielPhantomhive1 They haven't ever been outright prohibited during my military career. I haven't been in particularly long, but understand that right after 9/11, the military waived all their tattoo regulations to facilitate a larger defense/deployment force. You'll run into a lot of guys/ladies who enlisted around 2001 or the surge in 2004 that have a lot of "out of regulation" tattoos. I enlisted long after these "mass enlistment" regulation changes, and the more stringent regulations from before had been mostly put back in place. When I joined, the Army allowed tattoos, so long as they weren't on your hands past the wristbone, face, or neck such that it would show while wearing a standard t-shirt. Also, tattoos cannot be racist, gang related, explicit, or derogatory. The Marines have much more strict limitations because they more often have their sleeves rolled up and find themselves at U.S. embassies where they're expected to look professional. The rules for Marines during my whole career have been no tattoos on your hands, face, or neck. No tattoos within two inches of your wrist, elbow, knees, or ankles, and no single tattoo, or cluster of smaller tattoos that cannot be completely covered by your hand with fingers together. The other branches pretty much just follow the same regulations as the Army. You can get waivers if you're trying to enlist and your tattoos don't meet the regulations but the chance of getting your waiver approved is practically zero for the Marines and the Army will get more lenient the more they need people. If we're not at war, they'll probably want you to get the tattoos removed.
My bad, my experience is only with the U.S. military. I've worked with the Koreans, but I've never seen a Korean soldier with tattoos.... Maybe they wait until after their mandatory service before getting tattoos....
Andrew Alvarez Not sure who you were replying to, to bring Korea up, but from what I’ve read they’re not allowed to have tattoos in the military either. It’s a problem because in Korea, the military is a mandatory service for men, and many of them can have tattoos way before joining- To combat this, they usually just get them removed and it’s common sense to get tattoos *after* serving. Though, apparently people will tattoo themselves right before entering the military to avoid serving their time, and it’s become illegal. “- young men who use the body art to try to evade the country's mandatory military service, crucial to its defense against communist North Korea. About 170 men have been arrested for ‘willfully tampering with their bodies to avoid military duty’ - a crime punishable by up to three years in prison. National media showed the disgraced young men, handcuffed, heads bowed and shirts removed to reveal large tattoos of dragons, scaled fish, birds and roses” I don’t get why they don’t allow people to join with tattoos anyways (Of course, at least until they’re healed to avoid problems), they’re at a constant front with North Korea and not accepting those with tattoos doesn’t make all that sense to me. Of course, take this with a little salt since I don’t know all of this front hand or if anything changed.
The way she criticizes Blake for not remembering something because she thinks they are doing drugs is just..... I mean I have mental health issues and I'm young and I have memory lapses because of it, no substances involved. My partner will tell me a deep life thing about her past and the next time she brings it up, I need a reminder about it because my memory is just fucked up now because of what I've been through. There are reasons a young person could have issues that people think only happens with aging. Similar to how a grandparent would tell me I'm "too young to be tired." That just isn't true, anyone can have issues and reasons for these things. You don't have to be 40 or 50+ to be tired all the time or have memory/physical health problems, for example. You know? A teenager isn't too young to have reasons they forget doing something that probably has an adrenaline rush attached to it. I'm 23 and I don't remember lots of high emotion moments clearly. I'm not saying that's exactly why Blake doesn't remember, but substance abuse should not be the thing to jump to when trauma, family life, mental health, general life events, emotional state, etc should be considered and are actually really common. Ok thanks for reading, I just had an opinion I wanted to get out♡
⟟ have an off and on memory, where some times I’ll not remember what ⟟ did that morning but then the next day ⟟ can remember everything ⟟ did for the past month
I think that why Lauren didn’t explain the tattoo etiquette behind why Blake having hand tattoos was “wrong” is because she’s assuming that everyone who sees her channel is in the know about tattoos because that’s what her channel is based around, which is obviously her bad, but it’s understandable.
I don't even think it's her bad, it's widely known and even more known among the people who watch her videos. I don't think that's something that needs to be explained. I feel like everyone should know just from basic critical thinking skills that someone who does not yet have a stable career should not get hand or neck tattoos.
Tbf,if you can't understand why having hand tattoos WHILE UNDERAGE you're pretty stupid 😂 If you can't see why having hand tattoos underage WHILE DOING IT THEMSELVES then you're just a lost cause.
@@missvoorhees7964 Or there just wasn't someone there to tell them? If you know nothing about tattoos and have nothing to do with them, then it's not suprising that you wouldn't know something like that. Not knowing something does not make one stupid.
D'Angelo aimed to make a criticism video every single day, and he's clearly very passionate and upfront with his criticism, so he was bound to go too far eventually. Even though I don't always agree with D'Angelo's videos, he's one of, if not my favorite channels on TH-cam simply because of his candor. This video just further proves that fact. Keep doing what you're doing, you're an awesome creator and I look forward to all of your videos, banger or not.
Sir . . . It’s okay. I’m commenting cause this situation is all crazy wild to me and rather it just gets all cleared up. First of all the biggest issue - I know I fucked up majorly with my substance abuse comment - the only experience of me knowing people who have tattoos but don’t know how they got them is cause they were drunk off their head in Ibiza or on something harder. Me saying that was me not thinking of a bigger picture and I now know that it’s wrong especially when that person is a minor. Secondly - Blake does have videos with their mum doing piercings so their mum is aware and complicit with some of these actions. Thirdly - you said not to assume about people’s parents yet you assumed on mine. I was allowed to do what I wanted with my body as soon as I was old enough to make that decision to. My mum was always against body modifications but ended up just accepting them. This isn’t for Pity or sympathy I promise you that - she passed away in 2014 and never has seen me “heavily tattooed” as I only started to take the art of tattooing more seriously from 2015 again like you said there’s always a bigger picture. Fourthly - I got big hand tattoos in 2019 at age 29 after thinking about doing it for YEARS as to me and many others they are a huge commitment. Reason I didn’t go into more details about etiquette of hand tattoos is cause my regular viewers have heard me bang on about it so much I didn’t want to bore them - thats on me I take full responsibility for that and not explaining it well to those who don’t know. Fifthly - my channel was built on me trying to help make sure people didn’t make the same mistakes as I did when I was younger. My content is mostly about my tattoo experiences and how about getting a good tattoo. Does that seem like projection? Yeah definitely and understand where you and many others are coming from but I truly am trying to help people and sometimes my delivery doesn’t make it seem that way (I’m Truly British and dry sarcasm is my language it’s a blessing and a curse being someone on the internet) I’ve probably missed some things out but yeah! I’ll keep in mind of all the feedback and will definitely not talk about a minor again. Sincerely the thirty year old colouring book 😜
thank you both for handling this like adults! its so nice to see THIS as the outcome instead of endless drama videos or even worse. bless up 🙏 i love BOTH of your channels! ❤️
I actually understand her bringing Blake's parents into it. After all, they are a minor on the internet doing unsafe things and it's really up to their parents what they do. So if Blake's parents aren't aware of what's happening or don't care then they could wind up getting seriously hurt. This is a minor who (most likely) is either lying to their parents about how safe this is, or are in a situation where they don't have a caring adult to stop them from accidentally hurting themself. Of course she shouldn't have called their mom stupid or made so many assumptions, but whenever a minor does something (especially if it's dangerous) their parents/guardians are a part of the equation.
It’s called a warped tour body suit when you have only tattoos on areas you can see. I think it’s becoming an old practice with so many rappers having face tattoos and nothing else. There was a time that if you asked for hands, neck or face but had no other tattoos, 9/10 artists wouldn’t do it.
I know this was a while ago but I don’t see the problem with only having tattoos on places you can see (if you’re over whatever legal ages you have and all of that). Aren’t tattoos personal? I don’t have any myself (I hope to someday, I have a slight fear of needles and the like), so it might not be my place to comment on it. I just think like, it’s your body, do what you wanna do.
@@thejapster It's because many employers will specifically say no visible tattoos or piercings, even though they shouldn't imo, and so by having visible tattoos at a young age, you're potentially limiting your opportunities. If there was no stigma or discrimination towards tattooed people then there wouldn't be an issue.
I think when Lauren says "I hope things get better for them" she means that tattoos are normalised. There are lots of people with traditional (tribal) tattoos who find it hard to get jobs because of the prejudice against ppl with tattoos. Even if it's not traditional, it's still your own body. She says, hopefully 10 years down the line, that attitude towards ppl change and Blake does not get to regret having visible tattoos.
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moral of the story: i'm always right, even if that means going back and admitting that i was wrong
damn wish i was like that
Damn
the ads
Can you expose “nice” celebrities like Drake etc
dangelowallace you’re grown :)
This is you calling out yourself calling out a lady calling out a person
K H how meta 😂
The Inception of TH-cam...
Callout-ception
K H who’s calling out her mom
Alexa Wood
their mom**
So Lauren called out Blake and D'Angelo defended Blake by calling out Lauren, then D'Angelo defended Lauren by calling out D'Angelo
I see a rock paper scissors situation here somewhere...
*Its the circle of **-life-** calling people ouuuuuuutt*
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exactly... 😭😭.
Dangelowallece: calls out himself for spreading misinformation, confronts his mistake in a mature manner and sincerely apologise.
*everyone liked that*
Brittany Beautiful isn’t he like in his early-mid 20s?
Brittany Beautiful or is this a joke I can’t tell
Do you know what everyone likes? A settlement that needs your help, here, let me mark it on your map.
Are y'all boomers or sumn because if you don't know common sense at at least 18 in worried for you
@@sundownermgr I'm a millennial; at the age of 5, I realized age does not determine whether somebody is intelligent or rational
"i'm gonna put ads on the video because... no one died?"
i felt that
LOL! I mean, his job is being a content creator, and he puts a lot of time and effort into his videos, so unless someone was directly hurt by them, I see no problem with him making money off of his work. Just my opinion.
lol me too. It's like when Arin Hanson talks about wanting to literally die on camera.
"I will die as I lived; fully monetized!" 😂
Being very much him💀
i read this and got an ad 😭
I know this is an old video and no one will ever see this comment but I’m so glad to see creators own something they said or did. It shows growth and maturity.
I agree. It’s a great apology video.
especially to see him not beat around the bush and actually address the specific things that he did wrong. this was an actual apology, not some bs statements from the beauty community!
I feel the same way. This is literally the best apology video I've ever seen. Like this is the example essay that you have to read during Starr testing. Now I know how to make an apology if I ever become famous lol
Madalyn Pfeil lmao love that! i’ll definitely be pulling out all of the theatrics during mine
not to mention he didn't just blanket apology it all. he owned the things he stands by while apologizing where it's due.
This apology is too genuine and this is not what this platform is for, sir.
Really? I think he's only doing it because he got backlash and he doesn't genuinely regret anything... I mean he's this whole freaking video saying he was right apart from like one thing LMAO
🤣oh my days
@@davepayneflip652
That's his online persona, you even seen his other videos?
@@simplyxsirena9056
What? I don't think I understand what you are trying to say...
@@davepayneflip652 because he figured out it was wrong ?
This guy doesn’t know how TH-cam works. You’re supposed to be fake crying dude! You’re too genuine.
He didnt even sigh 🤮
So true
IKR way to genuine
Smh
Not even one tear.
‼️This apology is FAKEEE‼️
1) he didn’t start with his hand by the camera and then slowly pulled back
2) he didn’t to the big sigh
3) no tears
4) there was no “I’m a different person than I was then”
5) he made too much sense
Open ur eyes people
He didn't give the iconic "I don't know who that person is anymore".
Annette Ayivi shii,u right
Yeah and he wasn't dressed in all white with a white background! Smh 🙄😂
Cristina Ortiz unforgivable smhh
Sheeple*
absolutely and completely disappointed that you didn’t start your apology with the infamous and crusty excuse, “i was in a dark place”
he didnt even do the iconic apology sigh smh
How could he, he missed out not actually apologizing but just asking for forgiveness, This is just plain wrong
LMFAOOOOO NOT JUNGKOOK WASHING HIS FACE😭😭😭
He didnt even make it look like he turned on the camera 😡 so disappointed
Wow so stupid of you
The viewers are not angry, they're disappointed.
Such a cool parent move.
disappointment hits way harder than anger
We are being moms basically and we are proud mothers
Yeah exactly, I just saw his other video and I felt so disappointed 😕
Gwendolyne Bernard hahahahaha yes!!!
We are not just his fans, we are his parents
It's so refreshing when creators can tell the difference between hate and criticism.
Instead of reducing them to “trolls” and exaggerating the criticism to subtly victimize themselves and manipulate their audience into defending them. Just saw an example of it last night from a youtuber I otherwise respect. So yea, it is REFRESHING and rare.
He should just get a real job
AllNightLemonade 01 this is his job..
- TheLast1nsStanding - where’s the income?
Don’t play yourself
AllNightLemonade 01 Monetizing, Add revenue, his main channel... and merch. The only one playing anything is yourself, my dear friend.
a 21 year old reacting to himself reacting to a 30 year old reacting to a 16 year old
Oh my god, you are absolutely correct and someone had to say it! 💅✌✌✌✌✌🤙🤙🤙🤙👍👏👏👏🙌👧
@My name is Irrelevant he’s now 22 i think, still younger than you by a bit though if you’ve been 22 for a bit
Wow.... you just discovered ages 😳
Inception
A 21 year old making a video reacting to the video of him judging a 30 year old who was judging a 16 year old.
"Today I want to talk about how I was wrong, why was I wrong, and apologize for being wrong."
You're a unicorn
Cause ur one in a trillion.... There, finished the comment😁
🦄🦄
If only all youtubers were like d’angelo! Also, the fact that he said he didn’t receive a single hate comment and only got constructive criticism?? That proves he has built a really positive and mature audience.
@@AmyAberrant I love D'Angelo, he's articulate and does his research
Bro that put up a mental image of D’Angelo wearing a unicorn horn with like rainbows and sparkles in the background but like he still has that serous expression he always has. Made me cackle.
I was so confused why this said “I’m sorry” not “you’re thirty” then I realised this is a different video :o
actually same. proud to see it tho, that’s our d’angelo 💜
Oh shit, u made extra likes within seconds :0 I saw it go from 69 to 91 likes
Omg saaanmmeeee. I thought he changed the name of the video or something LmAo
SAME LMAO
SAME LMFAO
I love how he handles his issues. He acts like an adult with every problem he’s involved in and I love him for that.
Probably why I like his channel so much. These kinds of TH-camrs are really rare, I don't think I've seen many others like this
He could have at least sighed around 20 times. Other than that, it was an alright apology.
@@christophergoodroe1825 honestly it wasnt even that great...he didnt even cry...yikes talk about being "real". 🙄
I'm joking please dont come for me
He’s just garbage in general
@@bwnnie ikr! Like why would he actually explain where he went wrong?! He should've just cried for 20 minutes and barely apologized. We don't need the extra commentary smh
Can we just appreciate how unproblematic he is. He gets called out, he responds and apologises. No hiding, no deleting, no ignoring, no getting defensive. You’ve got my respect.
His self reflection is inspiring
the bar is so low lol
@@sarahloy2003 not really, to be honest, infulencer or not its hard to find someone who can ball up their pride and make a *sincer* apology when needed
@@nuhaakmel663 perhaps, but they don't earn money from:
- analysing youtube drama -scrutinising apology videos
- speculating that persons intentions
- judging the approach to saving their own backs/ solving controversy
- knowing whether viewers react negatively or positively to said apology video
think about how much understanding he would have by now. i still think anyone with a basic level of human decency, honesty and emotional maturity can make a sincere apology. if not i have second hand embarrassment for humanity lol.
@@sarahloy2003 i've always had second-hand embarassment for humanity tbh
"D'Angelo is always right!": ❌
"D'Angelo makes mistakes and can be our of line, but he always tries to be genuine and knows when back off and when to double-down.": ✔
he's also always right
Brig & Nat's Crafts tbh... yeah
how dare u say that god isnt always right
I like him but I'm sick of 20-soumething TH-camrs trying to age-shame 30-something TH-camrs, like they're not part of our generation. I get it that these guys want to seem cool to get views by pandering to teens & young kids. In reality, YT personalities like D'Angelo have way more in common with that 30yo than he does with his teen fans.
Scarlet not necessarily but in some conditions yeah 🤷♂️🤔
"I'm 21 and I'm responsible for what I said" as fellow 21 year old thank you for holding yourself to that standard 😍
right! like every youtuber is like “im sorry 🥺 im still just 21 im innocent, i make mistakes” 😐
@davidjarjo Jeffree Star is like "Do I make mistakes? Am I human? Yes." We're all human, but barely anyone does the shit he does. 😜
@@NaudVanDalen YOU TELL EM
Yes I'm 24 but our generation needs to take a stand and be responsible for our own actions.
#fixthismess
Why does no one seem to understand that drugs aren’t the only thing that can give you a bad memory? Mental illnesses, chronic lack of sleep, neurological problems, some medications and heck even just straight up bad genes can all cause problems with memory. It is gross for anyone to assume that anyone else is using drugs purely based off of a single comment about their memory.
I almost feel like the way she made the video, she should have had a private conversation with her if she was actually concerned instead of making speculations... Which really makes me feel like she wasnt concerned for her well-being.... I get it but she could have went about the video another way
About the mental health , absolutely. The way she hesitated before saying drug abuse tells me that she knows what she wanted to say was horrible yet she said it anyway. It really had me face palming and smh from that point on
@@1hinita I completely agree with you on both points. She really should’ve thought it through more.
My anxiety does that to me :( . I do not trust myself and double check 10 times because I cant remember . Once even wasnt sure if i handed in an exam knowing damn well it is impossible i didnt but still couldnt remember me handing it to the prof
A bad memory is not the same as completely forgetting about a painful procedure. Especially when tattoos are usually something you have to decide on or design first. Yes a neurological disorder or DID would explain this, too. But what’s more likely?
i’m a fan of lauren, but i was getting so annoyed by the eMBRoiDeRY NeeDLe thing,, sometimes i can be laying in bed at 3am and my brain just goes aN eMBRoiDeRY NeeDLe and i wanna cry
like the period where she said ”etc” after every single sentence.
Lol, I’m so sorry 😭
Same the eMBroIdErY NeEdlE is now forever in my head
I do embroidery and from now on, I'll just forever say eMBRoiDeRY nEeDLe
@Bicycle Eyes no
Everyone makes mistakes, everyone has those days
Hearts for Lexis everybody knows what, what I’m talking ‘bout
@@user-ud2on4hb1g everybody gets that way
You didn't-
I-
NOBODY'S PERFECT
As a heavily tattooed person, I understand Lauren’s concerns and how she expresses them. There’s a lot of responsibility with tattoos and I understand where she’s coming from. But, I do think she could have been less...astounded. The theatrics were too much especially for someone she doesn’t personally know.
Facts! Everyone on the internet have to many opinions that can remain internal
Yeah, saying that what Blake was doing was dangerous was fine, but implying that Blake did drugs without knowing them? No thanks.
Perfectly said.
All her concerns are valid ones to HAVE, but some of them were unprofessional of her to voice publicly. Calling out unsafe practices is 100% fine, and I do absolutely agree with Lauren on the fact that Blake shouldn't be teaching folks unsafe techniques. However, concerns about Blake's possible substance use, lack of concern for their own future, and parental situation should've either been kept to herself, or discussed privately with Blake. I had all of those concerns about Blake too, when I watched D'Angelo's initial video. But I wouldn't have ever aired out someone else's dirty laundry in public like Lauren did, and definitely not in such a sensationalized way.
I fully agree with you. I got my first (and until now, only) tattoo when I was 18. I designed it at 16 and during those two years I contemplated very thoroughly if I really want to get it tattooed (my mom would've allowed me to get one tattoo at 16 (because I've always wanted one) but in the end I waited till 18 anyway). I just think you shouldn't take tattoos lightly as they're, obviously, permanent and that's why I really wanted to get something done that's very meaningful to me. Because in the end, you'll never know how you're going to think about it in 5, 10, 15, ..., years and there's so many people regretting (some of) the tattoos they've gotten. Now, obviously, it's everyone's own choice and it's their own body, so you do you, boo... but I really do understand the concerns because it's sad to see someone having to go through this and then saving up money to either get a cover up or get it removed (which is probably really painful). And of course, there's a very good reason that you have to be a certain age to get tattooed because oh my, as a 14 year old, I'd have wanted to get a skull tattooed but now as a 21 year old, I definitely do not want that anymore. So, in conclusion, Lauren made a well-meaning video but failed at delivering it. However, I do agree with @@jacklandismusic 's comment, I had the same thoughts while I was watching D'Angelo's first video on the situation... but as they also said, these are matters that should *not* be speculated on in a youtube video. Lauren could've voiced those concerns to Blake by directly and privately reaching out to them.
dangelowallance: “I’m sorry”, “I was wrong”
TH-cam: there’s an impostor among us
I love that game too! And yeah lol
why don't you get among some bitches
@@macafromthewired :triumph:
Ok waw🤣😌
Amogus
I’m glad we’ve accumulated a community full of people that don’t just bandwagon on what the creator says. I think that’s something to be proud of.
samir ? Why not
samir ? Okay
samir ? Why isn’t it important? For me this was about safety practices and how we can maturely talk about it.
I'm 1k
Nah for real
”I could do what every TH-camr does when they mess up - but instead I'm just going to do the right thing”
Cough.They don't think they were the best part,so I'm gonna try not care if they want the same as a result was a video games for this delightful.
Meliv ...what
DAngelo's hat:"I'll just look like the softest thing on earth and none of y'all can do anything about this"
hes so cute 😔
I realllly want to make one like that lol
Im-😂
Yess
I want oneeee
Shane Dawson’s video was in my “Recommended” for several days. And I refused to click because it was 1 hour and 13 minutes. I told myself “yeah right! I’m not spending that much time watching a TH-cam video”...eventually I clicked on it and thought I would leave after the first 5 minutes.
Fast forward to 3 days later...I’ve watched not only Shane’s video, but Jeffrey’s, Tati’s, Ma’am...you’re 30 and Ma’am...I’m sorry...that’s approximately 4.5 hours of my time I’ve spent watching a 21 year old speak in front of a microphone.
This dude is so eloquent, concise and well prepared, it blows my mind to think about the fact that he’s only 21! I really enjoy your videos, D’Angello, and can’t wait to be all caught up with the rest of them. Keep up the good work. I see a great future ahead for you (as long as you stay out of drama haha).
lol @
OMG sameeee
Same. Like I started yesterday, I can't stop!
Indeed. Well put.
same, i've just been binge watching d'angelo send help fhdfkdshf
The first TH-cam apology video that doesn’t start with a sigh and “I never wanted to make this video.” It’s beautiful. Just wow.
he should've for the meme
He’s just as good as all the WORST TH-camRS SO
He sucks
Calm down there, buddy. No need to be so rude
😅😅
@@allnitelemonade1748 Can you maybe chill out
I actually really like this guy. he isn't like other 'drama channels' who talk about tea and petty stuff, he talks about genuine things in a mature and genuine way. It's clear he's not just here to bandwagon and spread drama, but to educate people on events. Which he does very well, he goes into a lot of detail and never leaves out points or tries to censor tricky subjects. I'm glad to see them making a community that isn't all about spreading drama and hate, but can recegnise when they're wrong and step back and apologise. I think it's what the internet needs
@ clearly you havent seen his videos lol
@ ahehehe...no one said he was special? She's just mentioning the reasons why she respects him :b
@an oroc nope I'm a realist
@ You're not a realist, trust me. No one asked but you came and decided to be negative to someone else's comment, even if it's not full of facts, it's still their own opinion. Sweetie, thats pessimism :b
@an oroc true that :)
you missed the part where you're sitting on the floor against your bed even though your bed is right there, with tear stains, furrowing your eyebrow, sighing heavily, and saying, "i've tried to make this video...so many times."
'I'm sOrRy yOu FEeL ThAt wAy'
Smh and the grey hoodie. And tissues
He missed terrible lighting and visibly reading notes too! Smh
Young Sir ..good job. You have more character in your little pinky than many have in their whole body. If this is where you are starting I think you have so many things to look forward to in your life 😀. (hopefully given climate change and crazy geopolitics that could end up being a real bummer but in no way your fault) I have been on the platform for 7 years and this is the first apology video that does it correctly and honesty.
He did on the wrong platform though, this is too genuine for TH-cam
oh my god I love your channel!! I've followed many tutorials !
:0 Ma'am what are you doing here? I've been watching your tutorials for like 6 years now :D
Am I wrong or is that a quote from Disney's Cinderella remake
this and the Jenna marbles apology
I wish she would’ve explained the health hazards a stick n poke tattoo can expose you to instead of bashing her tho.
agreed! I think pointing out the dangers of self-tattooing(?) is very useful but I don't understand why a grown adult should go after a child so harsly. Also if you're REALLY concerned about this specific kid, why not talk to them directly?
I thought she mentioned sepsis. But that was probably in a comment.
Her whole fucking channel is about that. That video is probably one of the few where she doesn't get too deep with safety measures. I also think it is common sense to avoid stabbing your skin with a needle in an unsterilized environment. I'm not angry, mind you, but she made tons of videos where she talks about the consequences of unsanitary tattoo practices.
Fruitorsch
Wait? Your not suppose to stab yourself with sharp metal objects that are contaminated? Surely you must jest?
Fruitorsch You might want to be aware that some people who are unfamiliar with Treacle Tatts or “her whole fucking channel” would not know if not mentioned in the highlighted video. Chill.
I'm honestly more impressed by someone who can see their mistakes and apologise for them rather than someone who never makes mistakes
Also props for going back and specifying where you were wrong and what you still agree with instead of apologising for the whole video
Serena Brown I wasn’t mad about his first video either lol but I think it’s still dope that he responded this way instead of bitching out.
Everyone makes mistakes, to be self aware and humble enough to admit it is admirable and unfortunately rare.
Someone that never makes mistakes is way more impressive! That would be like meeting an unicorn.
cornerdelia if he doesn’t come out with a proper apology video *we riot*
cornerdelia we can beat the record James set, we just gotta believe!!
I honestly just realized that it says thirty and not thirsty. Oops
*Cries in same*
Cries in similarity
*cries in same*
same 😅😅😅
*cries in i’m so dumb and didn’t even realize till i saw this comment*
Lauren’s age and tattoo experience actually makes me more inclined to think she had good intentions towards Blake. Where impact didn’t match the intent was with the implications about her family/substance abuse-I’ll admit I felt the same concerns watching Blake’s clips, but those are huge accusations to make in public, especially towards a high-schooler. I think both of you had valid points expressed in imperfect ways, which happens sometimes! Your reaction to criticism was definitely more level-headed and mature.
Yea, if Lauren responded the same way he did in this video that would be soo much better
As a teenager rn I think I could kind’ve see from Blake’s point of view. I mean I haven’t tattooed myself because I have eczema and it’s gets really bad when the seasons change however if I didn’t have that I probably would have tattooed myself by now. I also assure you that non of my family do substances or ignore me in anyway, but I think it’s just a teen thing to do. Blake is most likely going to regret those tattoos in a couple years however if I was them and Lauren said anything about me doing substances or my family doing substances I would have lost it. That later part of her video really wouldn’t help anyone in this situation. But idk just my opinion🧍
@@flimsyenthusiasm5769 I don't think the substance abuse assumption was based on Blake's tattoos, but on the fact that they said they don't remember making some of them. That usually implies you were under some kind of influence :/ Even if that wasn't the case and the lack of memory was for any other reason, the mere fact that they spread unsanitary ways of getting a tattoo by yourself for teenagers is super problematic. That can lead to infections or even worse. The thing is, when teenagers are looking for how to do certain stuff online, they don't usually care for the consequences, and that's why making that sort of content available is ad in the first place. I know Blake is a teenager themself, but their parents really should be more concerned about what their kid is doing online IMO. I understand what you're saying tho, and I agree.
Really, I didn't think so.
ali_en yeah but she didn’t have to blast her like that
im so use to watching horrible apology videos that my brain cant even process seeing a genuine one...
kat lol
legit?? can we just?? save this video in the history??
Being a heavily tattooed mother to a tattooed child I made her promise not to EVER do a stick and poke/home tattoo as it is very dangerous. For her 18th birthday I took her for her first tattoos. I think it’s important for an adult to point out the danger in unsanitary tattooing conditions. However, once she goes off the topic of safe tattooing practices she absolutely loses me.
My child's father is a tattoo artist. They take having a proper apprenticeship very seriously and an artist with any morals won't tattoo someone under 18. And will use their good judgement when recommending placement. And will deter someone, who isn't already heavily tattooed, to avoid their face, neck, and hands. My child is also not getting tattoos until she is 18 as well.
Priscilla ff the way I did it was I told her she could get whatever she wanted and I would pay for it. If she got one before 18 the bet was off and she would be on her own. Plus a couple other immediate punishments I can’t remember. I’m 38 and I was in HS when piercing started becoming popular. I went to a seedy place to have it done and I did NOT want my kid getting a backyard tattoo. Mostly for safety reasons too. Sounds like you and your child’s dad share a similar philosophy.
yess!!! my mom was the same way! Im 20 now and have several tattoos and some of my friends MY AGE would rather have unsafe tattoos for cheaper so their parents dont figure it out from cost when they hide them. It freaks me out im terrified theyre gonna get infections
My parents told me to never get a tattoo before I'm 18 just so I don't have regrets after. They explained to me and I trusted them. Now I have 8 tattoos, all done after 23. And I'm happy I didn't made them before just for the sake of doing them.
Even if they dislike them, we still have a great relationship. I think having a good relationship with your child and explain them how things are working in a proper loving way, it's better than saying no without providing some arguments.I loved how you explained to your child, that's a healthy atitude. Good job.
My mom took me to get my first tattoo on my 18th birthday ~ I only have 2 (i’m still 19) although i want more ~ it meant a lot to me
d’angelo: posts video
also d’angelo: here’s why you’re wrong
The title of the video should be: "here's why i'm wrong"
Best comment
The fact that Dangelo was able to read comments from his own viewers talking about his mistakes and he apologized and admitted he was wrong instead of immediately assuming it was just people hating on him is so refreshing. Hes one of the only youtubers I have EVER seen being this genuine in their apology
damn, most influencers would just wait until the point they're "cancelled" until creating a half-ass apology video... proceeding to take down the video that contains said mistakes.
i didn't even see anything wrong with your video until you pointed it out
jennysea same I thought it was fine
well I mean this is way smarter and logical like why would diangelo act like those people he criticizes big thumbs up
same
I got a badly done tattoo underage and unsanitarily AND I regret it, AND I still agreed with pretty much everything he said in the original video. To be honest I still don’t see anything wrong with 99% of what he said, but I do appreciate him taking the time to make this video and face the music.
He wasnt gonna get cancelled cause if this tho...
I cannot believe you made me watch “embroidery needle. EMBROIDERY NEEDLE! EmBrOiDeRY NeEdLe!” a second time!
Ugh that was absolute torture
Heh 420 likes
people who think repeating themselves over and over makes smth funnier are the least funny ppl on this earth
@@x_jun_x THANK YOU. Someone finally said it!
CurveTheRain reminds me of Gabbie Hanna
The way you handled this situation, and the way you were saying "I'm sorry" in a... idk... genuine manner? Makes me realize how I have never come across a TH-camr like you and it makes me like you a lot more. We all make mistakes, I forgive you.
@Harold, The Talking Tree clearly, you do.
the only other youtuber I've seen do proper "apology" videos is jenna marbles, and for him to be somewhere up there with jenna marbles in terms of being genuine is super fucking good imo
@@maxebanana6143 also PewDiePie. Dude apologized for shit he didnt even need to apologize for lol
@@stares_mthrfckrly PewDiePie's a waste of human air.
@Harold, The Talking Tree damn bro that's crazy, I don't remember t asking tho.
I don't think it's projecting, more like:
'Hey I made the same mistake when I was a dumb kid, and now I wish to warn people about jumping to hand/neck tattoos too quickly'
Which is, well understandable
Yes, but it’s the way she went abt it
@@goldenbunnies4143 What way?
@@goldenbunnies4143 there is no way to go about it well. Kids who are determined enough to tattoo them selfs (i was one, lol) aren’t gonna be stopped. Laurens video is bringing up more than just this point, but if she was like “hey i did this and it sucks” kids would be like “that’s your problem i want a hand tattoo” bc that’s how teens are and they don’t think long term. I’m not saying everything Lauren did was right, but it seems all of it came from a place of concern for Blake rather than an attack on them.
I felt the same
Except ofc the accusations but everything else I pretty much agreed with...
But she didn’t say it as respectful as that. She said it in a very rude way telling her she WILL be the upset in the future. Listen to her choice of words.
i saw the video earlier, and while i did agree with several points, i did think it was unusually harsh compared to your other content. i really appreciate how honest this apology is. you're not deflecting criticism, but you're not pandering to try and get people off your back either. i've always found you to be really genuine in the videos you make, and this one is no exception. keep it up, dude
Nice profile pic!
Yeah, ditto. It seemed pretty off
If you take the first sentence and last sentence and get rid of the rest, it is a very different comment.
same here. we love to see it
teethbandit that’s where I was- although I agreed with D’Angelo on most of his points, I also agreed with TreacleTatts with some of her points. When I watched his video I wanted to leave a comment just like “I don’t know how to feel” because honestly, I have such mixed emotions. Both her and he were giving some good points. I do feel TreacleTatts was being harsh about some stuff, like I think she should have absolutely never made any mentions of drugs in regards of a kid, or mental health- because it’s not like she made a video about a hugely known creator, like someone who had a full blown mental breakdown on camera, and she definitely doesn’t have enough to go by to make that claim publicly. If she was just like “I feel weird that they can’t remember giving themselves a tattoo, but that’s not my place” I feel that would have been enough. Express that made you uncomfortable, but don’t make speculations when it’s not your place. But I actually agreed with a lot of the other things she said, even if she was harsh on some other points i agreed it was concerning (one thing I can think of off the top of my head being that their mom doesn’t know the tattoos are real- I feel that is extremely concerning because you don’t know your kid gave themselves a tattoo? I do think she should have refrained from saying “this is borderline stupidity” tho. So I agree with her thoughts on some stuff, but not her way of expressing it). So I’m glad he made this video, not because I felt he needed to apologize because he really didn’t have to but I am glad he was big enough to do so- but I’m glad he did it because it helped me put together my own thoughts on the situation.
Also on the hand tattoos. I have watched TreacleTatts videos several times, I am also a big fan of tattoos and love learning about the do’s and don’ts, or my own do’s and don’ts - and getting hand or neck tattoos either when you’re young or don’t have a lot of tattoos is considered a don’t to most people, including tattoo artists, because they are visible and because if you get a tattoo that is hidden- if you regret it later, you can hide it from being shown, and the point D’Angelo talked about with the safety net of jobs and just general safe nets.
But yes I agree again- the execution of the original video, TreacleTatts, was a bit off.
Tl:dr, glad he made this video, I just rant about my thoughts on all these videos.
d’angelo: ceo of being a good moral human
CEOs are incapable of being moral
zusha v. Not unless you read too much wattpad-
zusha v. morality is what you want it to be.
We need more people like him, we really do.
the bit where D'Angelo is reviewing D'Angelo who's reviewing Lauren who's reviewing Blake is basically commentary channel inception
Doodletones seven way commentary energy
Can’t say I still agree with all of your points but I respect them. I also respect how you corrected yourself and apologised. Also, this may be just me and I could be wrong, but I detect some real sadness at the end there. Your voice seemed to quiver a bit and looked as if you got a tad tearful at the thought of any of your subs being disappointed. Got me a bit emosh man, honestly felt for you, you seem very genuine.
bruh i was looking for a comment that said this... and if u look closely his nose gets red which happens in another video where he visibly and obviously tears up(the first shallon lester video) ... this just goes to show that he truly and genuinely is sorry and doesn’t want to hurt or offend anyone
@@victoriehughes4565 Same! The end hurt my heart a bit to see him get shaky about it. TH-camrs get called out for way worse and barely show an ounce of disappointment in themselves. He barely did anything in my opinion but you can tell how much he cares about making it right.
That hurt my heart and made me want to hug him😭
“I’ve made a severe, and continuous lapse in my judgement, I don’t expect to be forgiven, I’m simply here to apologize”
Logan, don’t look at me with those puppy eyes 🙄
Sarapapa 🥺🥺🥺
the fact that they moved out at 16 is very telling, i hope that their home situation wasn’t too bad and they seem happier now.
If you're talking about Blake, as D'Angelo stated two times at the start of the video, Blake is non-binary and uses they/them pronouns
*caitlyn voice* my bad, i commented before watching the video
@@Preciouspie8 then please edit your comment
Lol damn
For all we know, the homelife could be perfectly fine and they just wanted to be able to do wtf they wanted to do and just ran away lol.
Listen I respect him SO much for being able to say “I’m wrong here’s why”. 🙌🏻
And also "Here's what I still agree with despite what other people say and why"
@@blueismylove3128 yup
Frfr
@K - Dot big brein moment :o)
Wait... A TH-cam personality who actually knows how to apologize?!
Did you forget about Jenna?
Did you even watch the video?? He didnt even fake cry once!! Smh I'm disappointed. He didnt even say he was in a dark place. -1000/10 apology video
(This is a joke if that wasnt clear)
@@joynav excuse me?? It’s a 0/10 apology, he didn’t fake cry, he didn’t say all the necessary lines, this is horrible!!1!1!1!1!1
Not gonna lie, this was the first video of yours I've ever watched and I didn't even see the original video first for context, but this was the best apology video I've ever seen.
This was a video on a video on a video on a video.
Izak Wei vidception
check out jenna marbles then lol
kyu talks frrrr I miss her, she didn’t deserve being cancelled 😣
@@zacharyrain4730 didn't she cancel herself or did I miss something?
I'm really glad you stuck with the parts of the video that you still agreed with, instead of pretending you had entirely changed your mind about all of it just because you got backlash. Not only because I agree with you on those points, but also because it's just a lot more genuine than many TH-camrs are willing to be.
See this right here? This is why I like D'Angelo. It takes a mature person to admit they're wrong. I am so proud of this random internet dude I have never met and never will.
Same. And when I saw him start to well up at the end...damn, so did I. He seems so honest and open. I'd like to be more like D'Angelo.
Bruh why didn't you start with the classic sigh, the "I was in a dark place", and fake tears 🙄 -11037/10 apology
did you just- i- 11037.... AGHHGHHGVTRFYBR
The danganronpa stans are comingggggg
I LOVE THESE COMMENTS
I KNOW A DANGANRONPA REFERENCE WHEN I SEE ONE
iSn'T iT rAd HoW iT lOoKs LiKe A letTeR bUt ItS aCtUalLY a NuMbEr?!
wow a TH-camr actually apologizing in a clear and concise way that doesn’t mince any words or say anything vague like” I did offensive things i’m truly sorry for my actions I’m disgusted with the person I used to be” and coming in telling what they did with clear and concise words the Gall the Audacity the Gumption I’ve never seen it before and I probably will never see it again Your favs could never
ANNND HE DID IT THE DAY AFTER AND N O T 12 YEARS LATER??? WHEWWW
I especially like how he doesn't make himself into a victim 😁
@@amandaschmidt9528 What I especially like is the "I still agree with most of what I did and said, there are just a few things I agree I should have done differently."
I'm also so glad that D'angelo stuck to most of what he said, despite what people said.
I’m happy that you didn’t take down your video. I hate when influencers do that. Your basically saying that you didn’t make that mistake and then leave a video up apologizing. This makes me happy that D’angelo put on his big boy pants and owned up.
lol that’s insightful
The only time I think it would be appropriate to take a video down would be if it's incredibly damaging to the person you're talking about. The old video I don't think is so damaging that it would warrant being taken down, but if he made a wilder accusation against the woman then it would be better to remove it because if some rando came across it and didn't see the retraction video it could be really damaging.
Alternate title: Dangelo Wallace, heres why you're wrong
This..... is amazing
Petition to get this seen by him
... But actually right
Watching the “ma’am you’re thirty” video left me feeling a little uncomfortable towards the end of the video. Than I clicked onto your next , and what do you know: accountability. You’re very wise for your young age!
I wish the people who camped and hiked in my forest would admit their mistake and apologize for it
*isnt that just a m o o d!*
Maybe they want to have a party with you :)
@UCRnS3seszIkbCVbC5Lk2MAg I just follow a lot of channels
Sorry, the govt said I could camp there, Bigfoot
at first I had no idea what was going on here before I saw the account name
I'm a lurker. I don't even usually comment. But, I gotta say D'angelo: Nothing but respect for the way you handled this man! Peace!
Okay but can we talk about how I thought the video was called “ma’am . . . . your thirsty “
I thought I was the only one. I'm just now finding out that wasn't the title 🤣
Bro I though I was the only one
fuck, same
Amanda Andresen me too-
that... that wasn’t the title?
The fact that he looked like he was actually about to start crying at the end of the video when he cut it off made my heart ache because through the whole video you know he’s being genuine.
@Violet Verdict not always but sometimes
@Violet Verdict true but the only other time I’ve seen him look upset like that was when he was talking about how his grandparents almost died.. so I think it’s pretty telling
I can't believe I only found this channel a few days ago. The video about Shane popped up in my recommended, and I couldn't care less about that, but there was a tag that said "Jarvis Johnson's viewers watch this" or something like that. And I thought "Well if Jarvis' subscribers approve then it has to be good" and I'm so happy that I clicked on the video. I've been on this god forsaken site for 15 years and I have never seen a creator like D'Angelo. This is too high quality for TH-cam. And I'm so happy that his channel blew up because of the beautuber stuff. He deserves it.
Agreed and same
they have done videos together
The Shane video is kind of on another level tho. Like you don't really need to be invested in the saga to be mindblown by it. But I agree his videos in general are for sure solid no doubt and I think he's on the vanguard or forefront of this new wave of commentary channels (i.e. thoughtfully measured and left leaning) that I've been really enjoying
Same!
I agree with you...am so glad I discovered this young guy...too good for TH-cam he is
I appreciate this- everybody has off days, and sometimes we just plain don't see things clearly, it happens. I think this is a great way to handle it.
"Everybody makes mistakes, everybody has those days."
Dude, this is genuine. Even though I agree with most of your original video THIS is genuine to show you're aware of the bigger picture. No one does this anymore IRL. Respect you even more.
I agree as well
It’s such a beautiful personality trait that many people lack
This guy should honestly be a teacher who teaches you tubers in their 30's how to apologize
tana mongeou is typing...
Jeffrey Star is typing...
James Charles is typing...
Shane Dawson is typing...
David Dobrik is typing...
Small brain: Delete your mistakes
Normal brain: Appologise for your mistakes
Mega brain: Do a video on your mistakes while pointing out why you big dumb dumb
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D’angelo, I think this is the most mature “apology” video I’ve ever seen on TH-cam, you’re a king and should be proud of yourself
The beginning was so sincere, this is what TH-camr apologies should be like. Thank you for breaking the stereotype!
This video was uploaded 27 minutes ago, ur comment was made 26 minutes ago.
Nugget ST that’s why they said “the beginning”
@@Corviidei thank you :)
I was a self harming child who, sadly, did "tattoo" myself but it was... Let's just say more unhygienic and the results were worse. I feel very worried for this young person and I hope they are OK.
they’re really fine it’s weird people think they can just assume they’re just crazy or self harming they literally have their own apartment job and life and are so successful and still tattoo
@@lol4bunnyand you’re coming from the perspective that this person was 18, when at the time of the video she was 16. So what’s your point? Now she’s 20, I guess should say, it’s fine guys, she has her own place and she’s an adult, why is everyone making such a big deal.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen an apology video where someone went back through basically the entirety of the original video like this. Mad props for calmly and maturely tackling it like this! :)
This is really meta....
Commentary on your commentary on a commentary of another person on the internet
.... w o a h
yeah
fastest apology video in the west
Lol the original isn’t even 24 hours old yet
@@hayzmation5354 WHAT lol
Fr lol, the apology vid for this was posted seventeen hours after 😂
❗️THIS IS INCORRECT❗️
Here I’ll script it for you
*pulls hand away from camera*
*sighs(long and heavy)*
*tear stained face*
“Hey guys..”
*look very depressed*
“I think that you all deserve and apology”
*do not actually apologize*
“Before I was a different person”
*STARE DEEPLY*
“Now I have changed, and my opinions have changed”
*look down*
*sigh*
*deeply stare*
“But now I have new opinions and you guys have pointed out that I was wrong”
*start to cry*
“But now-“
*small sob*
“Now I think that it’s time to change”
*sniffle*
*deep breath*
“I was in a very dark place, and it hurt me.”
*look away from the camera and sniffle a bit, MAKE YOUR EYES TEARY AND RED*
“I was desperate and I didn’t see how I had effected others”
*preceded to explain about the situation, and the never apologize and never admit that you are wrong*
There, I fixed it
God that was good
PFFFFFT
The sigh at the beginning is def essential
You left out "I was in a dark place" and "I was desperate"
@@michaelsperson4856 my bad my bad, I fixed it. I need this guide to be EXACT
Why's TH-cam even allowing a video of a child giving tattoo advice though??
Kikirllett they are not giving tattoo advice though.
@@chabelyarismendy4311 They made a video tutorial about DYI tattoos tho
Tundra Hunter a tutorial and advice do not necessarily lie under the same category. They can, but it all depends on how you word it and when making the tattoo videos they always use disclaimers and advise against what they are doing.
@@chabelyarismendy4311 So if they have a disclaimer advising against it, why would they even post the tutorial showing people how to do it in the first place ? 🤔
Rayvaughn because it’s a TH-cam video on their channel about something their viewers may and do want to see. Bit of a silly question there...
My point is: if she was so concerned for Blake, why didn't she just reach out to them privately? Why did she but them on blast, on a big platform?
she used Blake as an example to a younger audience (who may or may not follow them). The majority of Blake's followers are young and impressionable, so I think the lady was just trying to alert them before it's too late
@@isa-kd2hy You can do that without putting a minor on blast. She could use the images as illustrations and blurred their face.
@@nyssiaeiko3476 I do agree with that, but I do think it’s a laps in judgement rather than malicious. Blake does have a larger plattform too to it’s not like she is anonimys either. It’s a hard one.
@@MissCaraMint It's very different. A thirty year-old should know better. Blake has a big platform and are a teen, teens do the dumbest stuff.
My name is also isa and I find that exciting
I need to stress something as a professional tattooer that you probably didnt think about, but in most states tattooing in your home is ILLEGAL. And in other states you need to have a license and be inspected. I think that's a real concern with the parents that this child could be spreading diseases illegally
THANK YOU, also fucking tattooing someone under the influence is illegal here! it is concerning as hell!
@@meg1653 hell yea. No one should be tattooing unless they have been trained and licensed
I thought I was the weird for thinking she should have gotten a professional...
Yeah, and it also made me wonder if the reason she specifically said substances was because that is illegal. But I am probably giving her too much credit.
“today i wanna talk about how i was wrong and WHY i was wrong, and i want to apologize for being wrong.”
literally less than 15 seconds in and i’m already thinking this is going to be a jenna marbles level of genuine apology. good job.
youtubers, take notice. this is a good example of how to handle criticism or just being flat-out wrong in a situation instead of deflecting any advice, constructive or otherwise, that your viewers and those personally involved try to give you. this is how you don’t come off as arrogant and just plain gross: admit you did something bad. own up to why that thing was a bad thing and apologize.
d’angelo, it’s nice seeing more creators that can just... own up to something they’ve done or at the very least just *realize* that it wasn’t the best choice. it sounds sarcastic to me just typing it out, but genuinely: good on you for having a brain AND being a pretty alright human being.
I didn’t even have that much of an issue with the first one but the fact you went through the whole video and commentated on your current thoughts on it is how I wish other TH-camrs addressed stuff. This is so mature and great. This is the reality we want and need from TH-cam.
I think Lauren should have made a separate video, addressed to all young people (without calling out anyone in particular), on the topic of self tattooing for teens and her opinion that is informed by her experiences with it, instead of in the video about Blake, because it unfairly attaches them to it. The video about them should have just covered the unsanitary practices and ended there. No unacceptable speculation on substance abuse, no inappropriate speculation on their home life, and the opinions about tattoos on teens in a seperate video that is in no way attached to Blake.
EXACTLY‼️
yeah but calling out someone in particular get you so much more views which equals more money. Just look at what this channel is doing. All he does is call people out instead of making vague videos telling people what they should and shouldn't do.
@@Goldenretriever-k8m of course, because that is the purpose of his channel and he makes that extremely clear from the get go. The person he is apologizing to doesn't have a channel about that kind of thing, didn't make the video concise, and instead attached a bad label to a child of 16 yrs old. So what's your point?
@@GravityButterfly My point is that's how youtube works, you make tons of money doing this kind of thing. It's good if you are talking about truly terrible people but some people make videos that just speculate just because someone might make a clumsy or problematic video whether they mean well or not and then gets ripped to shreds because now it's out there as free material, so one person speculates about someone, then another about them, and then back and forth for a while, it all generates views because it's drama and youtube viewers love the drama.
@@Goldenretriever-k8m then it sounds like someone other than D'angelo should be making an apology video. The poor 16 yr old doesn't deserve being accused of being a druggy and have their reputation dragged through the mud. Guidance is fine, empathy is fine but to slander someone is not fine. Sure Lauren made some good points but i don't agree she with what she did where blake is concerned. That little girl deserves justice plain and simple.
bro u know a content creator is good when they expressly go back and genuinely apologize point-by-point instead of just vaguely saying sorry
This is why I like you and your content a lot, I like how you know you gotten some parts wrong and some right. It’s nice seeing creators like you going back to address stuff in a genuine and levelheaded manner.
Edit: OH YEA I FORGIVE YOU
Why is TH-cam allowing a minor to upload videos about tattooing and piercing in the first place? Everyone should be concerned about that
I guess it’s absolutely insane to think that a minor child should have freedom to do WHATEVER they want, as illegal as it is. I’m confused as to how a 15 year old can go through saying they’ve been homeless, have been abusing themselves, and their parents in turn abusing and neglecting her, then have other children egg her on and go about saying it’s no ones business after it’s been transferred into a public platform. You’re right, it’s not our business anymore. It’s the government’s. I’m shocked no one has ever called the police to do a well check. That’s how you know no one actually cares or else they would have made enough noise to have the child removed and in a better situation. Just a bunch of teenagers egging each other on doing absolutely destructive crap.
Mary Poppins you must be pretty privileged cuz teen homelessness is common where I come from and a lot of the time police don’t do shit even in cases where both the parents and child are on drugs/being abused/ etc.. :/
Emo Fucktard I’m privileged because I expect people who are paid to do a certain job, to do their job? Lmfao dude I grew up in the Soviet Union. My family survived the Holocaust by hiding out in the mountains. We had to collect scrap metal to get food on the table. I think privileged is the wrong word here.
Mary Poppins ah the commenter obviously misstepped by calling you privileged but I get why they said it-your comment reads as surprised and appalled at the lack of intervention given to kids in these tough situations. The surprise seems innocent/naive cause as the comment said-the system often doesn’t do jackshit to help these kids and some people are simply used to dealing with that fact. You’re completely right and the whole idea that these kids are effectively abandoned is horrifying, but it’s unfortunately quite normalized to myself and others (which fucken sucks cause desensitization and cynicism is just a shit place to be). When I read your comment, I realized how disillusioned I am tbh cause I felt none of the same shock at the lack of intervention. Also, I am sorry that you were called privileged; you and your family have obviously gone through unspeakable hardship, and my heart goes out to you.
Then again, Shane Dawson has had TH-cam for years. Something's wrong with YT
I would say that it's unacceptable that she speculates that Blake's parents are stupid but I think its very concerning that Blake's parents don't see a problem with what they are doing and haven't looked into the fact that their child, which they are legally responsible for, is permanently marking their body without their parents knowledge.
You have no idea if they DO have a problem. Nobody has any idea what Blake’s home life is like and how their parents are acting.
@@boilingsoda which is the reason for the concern. They are a minor who could be in danger or at the very least, extremely neglected. Their parents should be called out.
@@nowhere8130 Do you know how easy nowadays it is to manipulate parents? They might not be dumb but she might just be "clever" in her way. I used to get inkbox, fake tattoos for months, and like two weeks ago I had my first real tattoo and my parents still think it is fake because I told them about inkbox and those super realistic tattoos! But my parents are not dumb, I just manipulated them, I am in the wrong, not my parents. They never neglected me, they trusted me. Who are you to know if Blake did not use the same trick? Even more, knowing that they are a minor, maybe the parents trust professional workers thinking that they will never tattoo them? Maybe they don't know that you can buy tattoo needles on amazon? I didn't, I always thought it was fake. Don't go around accusing people of neglect not knowing them, it is really bad and can hurt the family and the parents. As a daughter who wronged my family for years with my actions, I know how hard it is to move on when you trusted your daughter and all you feel now is disappointment.
@@nowhere8130 and... that's the way to call them out? there's an appropriate way to for adults to deal with situations concerning minors. How weird.
honestly, i feel bad for blake. they clearly don’t have the best home life. they’ve posted videos of themselves doing drugs and their mom yelling at them. blake has discussed their mom having a mental illness and often being in foster homes or having to move in with a friend as a last minute resort because of their mother. looking at their social media for ten minutes would show that something is wrong in terms of their personal life. but i think it should be handled privately. i’ve been following blake for a long time, a friend of mine used to be good friends with them before they developed a large following, and i worry about them a lot.
Honestly same, all my friends who act like Blake does (dressing the same, same way of speaking, self tattooing) are 15 year old alcoholics or have been to rehab multiple times. It's very concerning
yes! All of this! Lauren didn't handle the situation with much tact, but I don't think it's wrong for people within the tattoo community to point out that we should probably be a little concerned for this person beyond just the wildly unsanitary tattooing conditions. Wishing Blake and Lauren and Dangelo all the best.
Thank you for this important context. Making reaction videos to things one isn't informed about is a really bad idea.
I feel like the situation could've been avoided if Lauren stuck to critiquing Blake's unsafe tattooing practices and refrained from publicly speculating on their personal life.
nobody wait she posted videos of herself doing drugs?
I'm glad you learned about the "collar/cuff" etiquette. I got a tattoo that barely came below my wrist when I was 24 and I never expected my life would take me into the military and I had to spend a lot of money changing something that I didn't regret at all. The world is vastly more accepting of tattoos than it used to be, but it's best to wait until you really know where your life is going before getting a career roadblock put on your body. Personally I think, military aside, nobody should really care whether you have visible tattoos or not, but kids shouldn't be making life altering decisions at least until they've gone out into the workplace.
Out of curiosity, were tattoos prohibited during your time in the forces? US Marines or another country?
US Military in general*
@@CielPhantomhive1 They haven't ever been outright prohibited during my military career. I haven't been in particularly long, but understand that right after 9/11, the military waived all their tattoo regulations to facilitate a larger defense/deployment force. You'll run into a lot of guys/ladies who enlisted around 2001 or the surge in 2004 that have a lot of "out of regulation" tattoos. I enlisted long after these "mass enlistment" regulation changes, and the more stringent regulations from before had been mostly put back in place. When I joined, the Army allowed tattoos, so long as they weren't on your hands past the wristbone, face, or neck such that it would show while wearing a standard t-shirt. Also, tattoos cannot be racist, gang related, explicit, or derogatory. The Marines have much more strict limitations because they more often have their sleeves rolled up and find themselves at U.S. embassies where they're expected to look professional. The rules for Marines during my whole career have been no tattoos on your hands, face, or neck. No tattoos within two inches of your wrist, elbow, knees, or ankles, and no single tattoo, or cluster of smaller tattoos that cannot be completely covered by your hand with fingers together. The other branches pretty much just follow the same regulations as the Army. You can get waivers if you're trying to enlist and your tattoos don't meet the regulations but the chance of getting your waiver approved is practically zero for the Marines and the Army will get more lenient the more they need people. If we're not at war, they'll probably want you to get the tattoos removed.
My bad, my experience is only with the U.S. military. I've worked with the Koreans, but I've never seen a Korean soldier with tattoos.... Maybe they wait until after their mandatory service before getting tattoos....
Andrew Alvarez Not sure who you were replying to, to bring Korea up, but from what I’ve read they’re not allowed to have tattoos in the military either. It’s a problem because in Korea, the military is a mandatory service for men, and many of them can have tattoos way before joining- To combat this, they usually just get them removed and it’s common sense to get tattoos *after* serving. Though, apparently people will tattoo themselves right before entering the military to avoid serving their time, and it’s become illegal. “- young men who use the body art to try to evade the country's mandatory military service, crucial to its defense against communist North Korea.
About 170 men have been arrested for ‘willfully tampering with their bodies to avoid military duty’ - a crime punishable by up to three years in prison. National media showed the disgraced young men, handcuffed, heads bowed and shirts removed to reveal large tattoos of dragons, scaled fish, birds and roses”
I don’t get why they don’t allow people to join with tattoos anyways (Of course, at least until they’re healed to avoid problems), they’re at a constant front with North Korea and not accepting those with tattoos doesn’t make all that sense to me. Of course, take this with a little salt since I don’t know all of this front hand or if anything changed.
the first apology video that didn't start with a *sigh*
The way she criticizes Blake for not remembering something because she thinks they are doing drugs is just..... I mean I have mental health issues and I'm young and I have memory lapses because of it, no substances involved. My partner will tell me a deep life thing about her past and the next time she brings it up, I need a reminder about it because my memory is just fucked up now because of what I've been through. There are reasons a young person could have issues that people think only happens with aging.
Similar to how a grandparent would tell me I'm "too young to be tired." That just isn't true, anyone can have issues and reasons for these things. You don't have to be 40 or 50+ to be tired all the time or have memory/physical health problems, for example. You know?
A teenager isn't too young to have reasons they forget doing something that probably has an adrenaline rush attached to it. I'm 23 and I don't remember lots of high emotion moments clearly. I'm not saying that's exactly why Blake doesn't remember, but substance abuse should not be the thing to jump to when trauma, family life, mental health, general life events, emotional state, etc should be considered and are actually really common.
Ok thanks for reading, I just had an opinion I wanted to get out♡
⟟ have an off and on memory, where some times I’ll not remember what ⟟ did that morning but then the next day ⟟ can remember everything ⟟ did for the past month
I think that why Lauren didn’t explain the tattoo etiquette behind why Blake having hand tattoos was “wrong” is because she’s assuming that everyone who sees her channel is in the know about tattoos because that’s what her channel is based around, which is obviously her bad, but it’s understandable.
I don't even think it's her bad, it's widely known and even more known among the people who watch her videos. I don't think that's something that needs to be explained. I feel like everyone should know just from basic critical thinking skills that someone who does not yet have a stable career should not get hand or neck tattoos.
Then it's as simple as just saying "For more information, check out these past videos I've done." Most content creators take that route.
@@RealGermanish I had no idea tattoos were still actively discriminated against, so... not really, I guess.
Tbf,if you can't understand why having hand tattoos WHILE UNDERAGE you're pretty stupid 😂
If you can't see why having hand tattoos underage WHILE DOING IT THEMSELVES then you're just a lost cause.
@@missvoorhees7964 Or there just wasn't someone there to tell them? If you know nothing about tattoos and have nothing to do with them, then it's not suprising that you wouldn't know something like that. Not knowing something does not make one stupid.
D'Angelo aimed to make a criticism video every single day, and he's clearly very passionate and upfront with his criticism, so he was bound to go too far eventually. Even though I don't always agree with D'Angelo's videos, he's one of, if not my favorite channels on TH-cam simply because of his candor. This video just further proves that fact.
Keep doing what you're doing, you're an awesome creator and I look forward to all of your videos, banger or not.
Sir . . . It’s okay.
I’m commenting cause this situation is all crazy wild to me and rather it just gets all cleared up.
First of all the biggest issue - I know I fucked up majorly with my substance abuse comment - the only experience of me knowing people who have tattoos but don’t know how they got them is cause they were drunk off their head in Ibiza or on something harder. Me saying that was me not thinking of a bigger picture and I now know that it’s wrong especially when that person is a minor.
Secondly - Blake does have videos with their mum doing piercings so their mum is aware and complicit with some of these actions.
Thirdly - you said not to assume about people’s parents yet you assumed on mine. I was allowed to do what I wanted with my body as soon as I was old enough to make that decision to. My mum was always against body modifications but ended up just accepting them.
This isn’t for Pity or sympathy I promise you that - she passed away in 2014 and never has seen me “heavily tattooed” as I only started to take the art of tattooing more seriously from 2015 again like you said there’s always a bigger picture.
Fourthly - I got big hand tattoos in 2019 at age 29 after thinking about doing it for YEARS as to me and many others they are a huge commitment. Reason I didn’t go into more details about etiquette of hand tattoos is cause my regular viewers have heard me bang on about it so much I didn’t want to bore them - thats on me I take full responsibility for that and not explaining it well to those who don’t know.
Fifthly - my channel was built on me trying to help make sure people didn’t make the same mistakes as I did when I was younger. My content is mostly about my tattoo experiences and how about getting a good tattoo. Does that seem like projection? Yeah definitely and understand where you and many others are coming from but I truly am trying to help people and sometimes my delivery doesn’t make it seem that way (I’m Truly British and dry sarcasm is my language it’s a blessing and a curse being someone on the internet)
I’ve probably missed some things out but yeah! I’ll keep in mind of all the feedback and will definitely not talk about a minor again.
Sincerely the thirty year old colouring book 😜
thank you for watching and sharing your response, lauren.
thank you both for handling this like adults! its so nice to see THIS as the outcome instead of endless drama videos or even worse. bless up 🙏 i love BOTH of your channels! ❤️
This is the most mature and productive TH-cam discourse I think I’ve ever seen! Go team both of y’all!
As a British person I relate. Also I (and probably a ton of other ppl) forgive you, just as long as you learn from your mistakes
My two loves collide in the best and respectful way 🖤🖤
I actually understand her bringing Blake's parents into it. After all, they are a minor on the internet doing unsafe things and it's really up to their parents what they do. So if Blake's parents aren't aware of what's happening or don't care then they could wind up getting seriously hurt. This is a minor who (most likely) is either lying to their parents about how safe this is, or are in a situation where they don't have a caring adult to stop them from accidentally hurting themself. Of course she shouldn't have called their mom stupid or made so many assumptions, but whenever a minor does something (especially if it's dangerous) their parents/guardians are a part of the equation.
THIS IS WHY WE STAN.
thank you for your maturity and integrity.
Day two of asking D’angelo to play the guitar in the background on camera.
Everyone makes mistakes. Thank you for addressing your mistakes.
Eat your cereal
Lol I remember seeing day one
@@Cynodont1 are y'all related or something?
@@vocasoti Indeed
Eat your cereal
It’s called a warped tour body suit when you have only tattoos on areas you can see. I think it’s becoming an old practice with so many rappers having face tattoos and nothing else. There was a time that if you asked for hands, neck or face but had no other tattoos, 9/10 artists wouldn’t do it.
I know this was a while ago but I don’t see the problem with only having tattoos on places you can see (if you’re over whatever legal ages you have and all of that). Aren’t tattoos personal? I don’t have any myself (I hope to someday, I have a slight fear of needles and the like), so it might not be my place to comment on it. I just think like, it’s your body, do what you wanna do.
@@thejapster It's because many employers will specifically say no visible tattoos or piercings, even though they shouldn't imo, and so by having visible tattoos at a young age, you're potentially limiting your opportunities. If there was no stigma or discrimination towards tattooed people then there wouldn't be an issue.
I think when Lauren says "I hope things get better for them" she means that tattoos are normalised. There are lots of people with traditional (tribal) tattoos who find it hard to get jobs because of the prejudice against ppl with tattoos. Even if it's not traditional, it's still your own body. She says, hopefully 10 years down the line, that attitude towards ppl change and Blake does not get to regret having visible tattoos.
She rubbed you the wrong way and you went off, it's ok. You don't have to like everybody but good on you for apologizing for going off lol
Amanda F WELL SAID 👏🏼👏🏼
The confidence is chefs kiss
Melancholy MAZH omg your pfp has me rolling