Woman leaves Husband because She is Bored (Heartbreaking)
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This current time and generation is so sad. This world needs Jesus so deeply..
God said unless you're born again spiritually u will not enter the kingdom of heaven also God doesn't judge us by our good works he's judging us by our sins Gods standards are so high he's that HOLY saying oh my God is using Gods name in vain it's called blasphemy ❤
To get to heaven you must believe with all your heart that Jesus died and rose again paid full price for your sins repent and receive his Holy spirit.
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Jesus I confess that you are my lord and savior
I believe in my heart that God raised him from the dead by faith in your word I receive salvation now
Thank you for saving me! I am now reborn a christian a child of almighty God I am saved thank you Jesus! *Be genuine when praying this*
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Now our good deeds and works we think are good are like filthy rags in the eyes of God
Things to get rid of in your home
1sage
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4crystal ball
5ouija board
6 tarot and angel cards
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8demonic movies music or video games
9soul ties items
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Now like a theif robbing a store, demons won't make it obvious they are there unless they have to.
Now know you can't save yourself Jesus said I am the way the truth and the life
You have insurance on your house if it ever caught on fire which rarely happens but when it comes to your soul, you play with it like you have forever to make your choice which you don't
150k+ people Die everyday and you never know when it may be you
God spent 9 months shaping and forming you before you were born but only 7 days on earth you're fearfully and wonderfully made beautiful in the eyes of God❤
Don't waste time Hearts are deceitful above all things ask God for wisdom and understanding we are just tiny humans with a 3 pound brain and our imaginations cannot go beyond what we already know❤
Your souls is so valuable both Satan and God want it but it's your choice who you will serve
You serve the devil when you
Lie
Hate
Blasphemy
Disobey
Lazy
Gossip
Gluttony
Wanting what others have cause what God has for you is for you he will never deliver your male to someone else's house
Hate
And unforgivness
And cussing murder and more
And once you die, you're locked with your choice of where you're spending eternity God doesn't care about you doing more good then bad cause he's not judging that God never said that's the way to heaven
So who's lying you or God? Be serious about this❤
God is holy and righteous God is love
So either you would play around because you don't believe hell exist or you don't believe you're going there but the bible makes it very clear
The path to destruction is wide and easy many are on it the path to eternal life is hard and nerrow very few find it and to get into heaven u can only enter through the nerrow gate❤
You dont have to wait until you die to know if youre going to heaven you can know right now 100% where youre going❤
Satan doesnt rule hell this is a myth when lucifer known as satan now became prideful and rebelled against God he took many angels with him Demons are fallen angels we live in a spirital and physical world so hell was made for punishment for satan and his angels and the reason why people go there is because they Align themsleves with the devil in SIN!
Sin separates us from God and the wages of sin is death if youre found guilty with one sin on judgment day you will not enter the kingdom of heaven so the thing is We us humans broken Gods law and jesus paid the fine! So the good news is you dont have to go to hell if you accept him as your lord and savior!
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It is, but at the same time there’s little difference to previous generations. All generations are corrupt and choose to not follow God. One can look at the OT and see that this is a story as old as time.
Apart From Jesus There Is NOTHING.
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@@danielortega2575 gotta a point the same as us if not worse
The irony of this is she knows it’s wrong. That’s why she feels the need to justify it in the first place.
Love isnt a feeling, its an action
Clearly she ran out of the feeling and didnt take the action
Nearly all people who talk about loving their partner, actually feel infatuation, not love.
Infatuation is a feeling that fades 100% of the time.
You're right that actual love is a choice and it grows over time.
Let's pray for this woman, and every other man and woman on this Earth, that God will reveal His Truth into their hearts.
To be fair, there are many non Christian marriages that last, I think the main problem is to think that marriage is supposed to make you happy all the time and that you don't have to work into building the relationship anymore, even Christians can fall into that mentality, we all have heard the "I don't feel God's presence in my life " phrase.
The non Christian dating world is a scary place.
@@BiggestMuscles The Christian dating world is a scary place nowadays too.
It's kinda become like the secular dating scene driving the speed limit, it's like what secular dating was like maybe a couple decades ago or something. Much like how, to use an analogy, a lot of political "conservatives" are really "progressives driving the speed limit" if you get what I mean. It's still not as bad and has more good parts, but it's gradually getting there.
This happened in heaven with the devil he had a mansion in paradise and was the most beautiful angel of them all and had the highest position other than God's
and yet he wasn't happy with all that he had he wanted God's position and this happens in marriage some people can't ever find happiness it comes from within.
I agree
People in marriages should prepare for bad times and work on the relationship each day
The problem is once some people get married they stop trying to improve the relationship
Most don’t, Christian marriages are statistically healthier
1 Corinthians 7:10-17
But to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not leave her husband (but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not divorce his wife.
But to the rest I say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not divorce her. And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not send her husband away. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy. Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace. For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
Only, as the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each, in this manner let him walk. And so I direct in all the churches.
This woman is 99% of the single women in your congregation.
So good! I used to think that if only my husband would change, then I would be happy. Luckily, I found Jesus (or rather, he called me) and he changed everything (me, my husband, and our marriage)! Praise God!
so good! Praise God indeed.
Amen glad to hear that
Only Jesus Christ can give us full happiness
But dating nowadays is not only bad for one gender it’s for both men and women. I thought being a loyal girl, ready to commit, and getting ready for marriage was enough. I am 24 and unfortunately most guys I meet just want to sleep with me. They even say you are marriage material but they won’t commit despite that. I had to get to a point where I am okay being single so that I don’t believe any guy that love bombs me. I believe God will give me who is meant for me so I am okay being alone if God isn’t bringing anyone at this time in my life. Desperation for relationship can also be a downside for us Christians because a lot of people will use our want for marriage for their manipulation tactics. So slowing down to get to know someone is a better strategy.
You're wiser than I was at that age, stay close to Christ and don't give in to temptation or desperation! There's nothing wrong with being single. There's a LOT wrong with diving headlong into a relationship with someone who doesn't share your love for our Father.
Its not really surprising, we now live in a world where sex before marriage is normal,the so called "test driving." A lot of people nowadays aren't willing to commit to a sexless relationship, which is pretty sad. That being said the dating scene now is worse for men.
The only women I've heard say what you're saying has been those who treasure worldly qualities in a man more than their healthy relationship with God. So, they'd rather pick the 6'0 tall muscular "Christian" dude with tattoos over a man who is none of those things but is a mighty man of God. Examine yourself. Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. In simple words, don't judge all men based off of your bad choice in men. There are good men out there, but you don't want them. You want the worldly alpha man who shows a few hints of Christianity.
@@monkaZETTAincel detected
@@monkaZETTA not sure how you read her comment and completely misunderstood her point. She never mentioned the physical aspect of a man or that she kept choosing the wrong guy. She was talking about her current disappointment with worldly dating culture and how she is laying that aspect of her life in the hands of Jesus. I’m also on the same boat. Even if they believed in the same faith as me it doesn’t mean they are compatible with me. When you mention “good men” it’s just not clear. Also Keep in mind dating culture is man made. The Bible doesn’t specifically talk about dating just marriage. However the Bible does lay out spiritual fruits, values, and foundations that help out with choosing the right one. Also it’s not her responsibility or duty to be seeking godly men. The godly man for her will peruse her!
It’s sad because there are a ton of self proclaimed Christian women who are of the exact same and or similar mindset.
Your words are so important. Thank you
I think this mentality is GREAT...IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED. You need to figure these things out before you get married. If you aren't sure you can stick it out, do not do it.
Loves how she tries to justify it, by making it about what will make him happy. Divert the problem off of her.
A lot of western women do find good, stable men boring. Even many Christian women. To many women, there has to always be somewhere exciting to go. There has to be drama or arguments, even when there's no good reason to. There always has to be something going on in their life to talk about with their friends. There has to be something annoying or difficult about the husband to complain about. They feel they need to be living life to the fullest at all times, always be happy, never be bored or be okay with staying at home for a while.
And it's so sad to me that so many women take relationships so casually. They have no problem breaking up or divorcing a man for petty reasons such as him being boring when the relationship honestly was going pretty good, the man was loving and loyal. Some men should be taking their women out more often or get creative in finding date ideas, trying something new, but being bored really isn't a good reason to break up or divorce.
Agreed, there is a lot to do and preserve both out of home, and at home relationally. It’s heart breaking to think that people just want to end because it’s hard without a second thought. It’s why we must put Jesus before anything else if there is any hope to truly create a wonderful relationship.
Funny how you never mention that the exact same thing can be applied to men but it's only bad when women do it. Usually, dudes complaining about wEsteRn wOmeN are the type of men to go to third world countries to knowingly abuse and take advantage of women in horrible conditions. And then they act exactly like western women that they complain about. Give me a break.
The women can put in some effort too
A lot of western men are just as bad. Goes both ways big dog can’t put it all on women. Men have duties that most of them hardly ever do.
@@bullymaguire9156such as?
This was such a great video. Thanks so much for everything u do. To God be the glory!
Marriage directly parallels to Christianity. And almost two years ago, my wife abandoned me and kidnapped the kids God gifted us with. Still waiting and praying and watching your videos out of order of the release date. Thanks to God for bringing me back to Him. My wife claimed to be Christian, yet that was so far from the truth.
Prayed for you.
I'm not even 10 seconds into the video and i'm already punching the air.
How old is she to think so selfishly?
well , I am an agnostic married to a non religious jewish man. I think the same. We always prioritize each other. You don't have to be christian to be a caring person
Her argument that a woman leaving her husband because she's "not feeling it" is doing him a favor because it means he's not stuck with someone who doesn't like him anymore completely falls flat when she's still gonna take half his stuff and have him pay her alimony or whatever.
top , love how you explained the difference between the motives for marriage. great video brother
The add I got by clicking on this video is from the Catholic prayer app hallow featuring Johnathan Roumie. ( just to let you know)
He can’t control what specific add the video gets. I think it just goes by what kind of content the creator creates. I got a random add too but I forgot what it was about 😅
Her eyebrows is why she feels this way
😂
We should pray for people struggling with this in marriage
I pray that God helps people to get stronger love for one another
I think the problem is that media and books make marriages looks like its all spontaneous, romantic, and happy go lucky at all times. And that is not the case. It can last a little bit in the beginning but than it dies down, life gets in the way, ect. And then people think that marriage is not what it said it was and then when they hear tik toks like this they think their feelings are validated and that what they are doing is okay. They dont think about their partners or if kids are in the mix. I think some people do get married for the wrong reason and then when the fun, youth or whatever fades they do not have a firm foundation to keep the marriage strong. Its sad to see.
Good-looking women believing they can do better, but forgetting they won't be that good-looking for much longer.
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@@youtubeur Point where I'm wrong, please.
I didnt think she was that good looking? Aside from just surface appearance- rotting on the inside shows outside too.
@@TruthBeTold0914 She has conventional beauty, nothing special, but it's noticeable for sure.
Dudes when some girl reject them once in middle school be like:
Wow this is sad. A good guy is not that easy to come by.
Alas, as you asked at 0:55 "I don't understand why non-Christians get married", I asked my atheist friend the same question few years ago. They divorced soon after that :( Sorry I asked
I wish i had a dollar for every time i heard a woman say a marriage is just a peace of paper.
It's amazing watching demons speak through people.
IVE SEEN IT WITH MY OWN 2 EYES IN MY OWN FAMILY💯MARRIAGE ONLY TRULY WORKS WHEN ITS A COVENANT BETWEEN HUSBAND, WIFE, && MOST IMPORTANTLY GOD💯
Why do run away from commitment? When people agree that only death can part them, why do they not consider those promises seriously? Why can people no longer be taken at their word anymore??
Such a selfish mentality! Marriage is the most selfless commitment you could ever make.
This is exactly the reasoning my former wife of 12 years and two kids used. She professed to love and follow Jesus but said that Jesus was a man of joy so he must want her to be happy too. She wasn't happy being married so she went and had an affair. Marriage can be beautiful and life giving. It is meant to be a gift. But if you are expecting to be happy all the time, you've completely missed the point of marriage. It is meant to be a testimony.
I'm 40 now and learning to enjoy the blessing of singleness now as I raise my kids half the time. People are far too casual about the responsibility of marrige.
Me, me, me, mine, mine… what a great way to live your life😢
It sux that a man can try and be a good husband, father, and provider, put his family's needs above himself, and still be abandoned and divorced.
The best thing we can do is try to truly get to know your potential spouse beforehand.
And get out of any toxic relationship BEFORE getting married.
My husband was a Christian and served in church with me and left me for the same reason
I am so very sorry to hear that! I pray that you find peace and healing that only Jesus can offer.
Yo what the 😧
THIS IS ABSOLUTELY PITIFUL! The modern woman expects to be in a perpetual state of euphoria in their marriage. THAT IS NOT A REALISTIC EXPECTATION!
Marriage is not a transactional contract. It is (supposed to be) based on true love, which is unconditional and self sacrificial. She has never loved her husband, and he deserves a woman who will truly love him.
Most people (and I mean like the VAST majority of people in our culture), view love and respect as transactional.
Just read the comments in marriage help videos. "I will not respect him because he doesn't show love for me and doesn't deserve my respect" is the gist of it.
The funny thing is that it's often based on a misunderstanding. One spouse accidentally treats the other wrong because they were tired, sick, busy, distracted, on their period, or whatever. Then the other spouse retaliates because they were hurt by it and legitimately treat their spouse wrong, which causes a retaliation by the other (this time it's not a accident).
It goes back and forth and builds bitterness and resentment on both sides...because one person accidentally treated the other bad and both people retaliate, thinking the other doesn't deserve their love and respect.
Marriage require grace and mercy. That's part of true love to give the other better than they deserve. Because what we truly deserve would probably surprise us...
I would say she's toxic and yeah, her husband doesn't deserve her. So she should do him a favor and leave, because she's going to destroy and abuse him if she stays.
Im so ugly that sadly
I won't ever have
To worry abut it
No, men are reasonably scared of what happens after. The woman has so much more power where she can not only take his kids away but basically everything he owns. This is why a government marriage is now not a good idea. You dont need the government to have a biblical marriage and having a biblical marriage instead of a government marriage will give you more rights to the kids and your own finances
El problema es que la gente se enfoca en sus propios sentimientos. El amor es un tema de voluntad, los sentimientos acompañan. Es lo mismo con los hijos, los padres, etc. No se si Jesús en la cruz se sentía enamorado de las personas en ese momento. Mucha sabiduría en este video.
Her eyebrows scream "villian" seems accurate considering her views.
Women like this get "bOrEd" because they aren't being chased anymore. You have to put in work to keep sparks alive.
woman: "divorce him even if you like him"
JUST DON'T GET MARRIED THEN IF YOU DON'T COMMIT.
people are so selfish and self centered.
An unmarried man is concerned with the things of God, how he may please the Lord. A married man is concerned with his wife, and his interests are divided. Stay focused guys. No sense getting distracted by a wife. 1 Corinthians 7 go!
Yeah, i think iʼll stay away from the wides (didnʼt they use to call them “broads” back in the day?).
I'm single. I kinds love it!! I steer clear of most guys too.
I feel like since i've watched alot of content regarding the Anxious Attachment Style and how they work, This notion of Women getting "bored" of a genuine Husband is due to the underlying issue of attachment that they may be dealing with. I'm not a real psychologist so take me with a grain of salt.
No one take her advice seriously 😒 keep your heads up guys 😊 your wonderful
No one is Good Except God ❤
Amazing video and amazing points made, Traditional, Pure, Christian Marriage is what's needed in this society ❤
This is what watching reality tv does to women. Same thing happened to my brother
amen!
That women's eyes are dead, completely lost. Very sad.
Hello Daily Disciple, I was watching romance dramas and it left me feeling really confused on how it depicted relationships and marriage. Like on what is love? How do I know my relationship will work out? But after hearing this I feel much more confident! I know relationships all go through ups and downs but love is a decision to give yourself to someone like how Jesus gave Himself for us! God bless you Daily Disciple 🙏
This mentality has crept into the church, first hand experience with this.
I agree
If she is going to act that way, then she should be honest from the start and agree to the following: ""Do you [Partner 1] take [Partner 2] to be your lawfully wedded spouse, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to cherish and to honor, as long as the feelings endure?""
Important issue when it comes to marriage is that marriage that is created between two secular people should perhaps not be confused with what God’s idea of marriage is. In essence even if two people are married in a church but are not saved or have not chosen to live for God - are they then really married before God? Or should that Union be viewed as a secular union that society has chosen to call marriage?
Also many non Christians value and honour their marriage more than many people who call themselves Christians do too…
In lieu of that I think what is important is that people who are Christians and who have chosen to try and walk with God to the best of their ability should not just seek God in how to upkeep their marriages. But should also seek Gods advice on who to marry and when to marry before doing so… ❣️
All I can say is... WOW!
Smh to that women……… I was told by a guy that he wanted to move in and then see if it works …. I said no I’m not a test … this generation is SICK morals out the window! God helps us. :(
You don't think it might be helpful to see if you actually like living together? Is that "SICK"?
@estherchavez424
You're absolutely right! You responded well in that situation.
@@Maksie0what would show you if you can’t live together? Examples?
@@flyy1006 Can you be yourselves around each other when you're just going through daily life and not out on a date together? Can you stand each other's habits? Do you enjoy each other's company when you're around each other every moment of the day? These are good things to know before you make a lasting commitment, I think.
This woman will end up sad and lonely.
This makes me cherish my marriage with my husband even more. I cant imagine leaving him or him leaving me just because he or I didnt "feel anything" or "love each other" anymore. If you fall out of love, you were never in love in the first place. Lets pray for this woman so that she understands what real love is and Who it comes from.
As someone who works with women that have initiated divorce, a lot of women do it due to the exhaustion that comes from being a wife and often a mother. It’s a truly sad reality. Even though we are not called to be our spouses happiness, we should at least make their burdens lighter. As a Christian woman, I’m not sure I even have any interest left in getting married. It seems so tiring.
Usually the so called "tired" spouse always considers their burdens heavier than their other half to shift blame for their inefficiencies and/or unpreparedness. they always focus on how hard it is for them when in reality they're two people carrying the load.
One thing people don't understand is that Marriage isn't easy, and it isn't for everybody.
Whilst happiness should be a priority in your life, your love for each other and most importantly your children must be equal to or outweigh the love you have for yourself.
That's why it's important to discuss and make clear what kind of "roles" you'll have before you enter a committed marriage.
It's called life. it's not all about us it's about doing what God calls us to do. Everything in life can be tiring, what an excuse.
It’s the individualistic mindset constantly promoted. It’s only about self priorities and leaving little to no room for the priorities of others.
@@Sarah-bs4qtGod also calls us to carry each other’s burdens. Part of love is making the other persons life a little easier not harder.
@@Allin1XaviI do my best to treat everyone with love and that would be impossible to do if I don’t take care of myself and I’m constantly exhausted. There needs to be a balance.
When me and my ex-husband got married we both did not know what love was. He whined up divorcing me because he loved his sin more than he loved me. He rejected God and wanted me to sin with him. I wouldn't do it and that was it. He said he wasn't attracted to me sexually anymore and that was that. He said I was beautiful and deserve to be loved. I was willing to work through and was working through my issues and he never wanted to.
I’m really sorry that happened to you. You are worth more than someone’s sexual attraction towards you. 🫂
It's marriage based on feelings, material and aggrandizement and not two people joined by the will of God. We Christians don't marry like the world does we are different!
* should be
People say you shouldn't be scared of marriage if you just find the right person. My guy, how do you know she's the right person? What possible sign do look for that proves they won't leave in 10-15 years? Even Christian marriages are like this. If a dude risks losing 50% or more of his stuff and his kids then is it worth it? I'd genuinely love some input and comments
a single woman can bring a mans empire to the ground
Exactly. And they wonder why men are opting out of marriage
Why even get married? Waste of time and money
Maybe married conservatives should quit arguing that marriage makes people happier. That seems to reinforce the belief that unhappiness is grounds for divorce. I've heard Christian single women argue that marrying atheists would make them happy. Or stealing someone else's spouse. Our happiness should not be the number one priority in our lives as Christians whether married or single. And we do not have to get married to love others the way Jesus wants.
Love is an action. I mean look at Jesus he demonstrated his love to us and good disciples by showing it not saying something like "aww I love you" and all that
Did the original get taken down?
“Christian” marriages don’t seem to be any better than “non-Christian” ones. I’ve seen equal amounts of divorces among both groups and equal amounts of happy, healthy marriages. Christian’s need to stop thinking they’re so superior to non-Christian’s
There is no divorce without wrongdoing on someone’s part. Christians are no exception to wrongdoing.
I guess wedding vows mean nothing anymore. If people have this mentality why even say the vows at all?
People these days treat marriage like dating.
Where can I the bible you are using?
Probably in his house
@@Maksie0 I mean the version with that particular layout, duh
how sick ;o(
Well said
Great verse but it’s a little out of context.
1 Corinthians 13 is written to the corinthians who were obsessed with spiritual gifts. They used their gifts to inflate their own egos and for their own pride. 1 Corinthians 13 was written to point them to use their gifts in a loving way. Especially notice how the surrounding text is emphasising prophesy, tongues, etc without love.
It’s not written to mean love as in a marriage. It’s meant to be brotherly or familial love in the context of using one’s gifts. A lot of the concepts still do apply, but I think it’s important to make that distinction that paul isn’t referring to how a man and woman should love each other here.
Great analysis overall. Very disheartening to hear her approach to marriage…it’s selfishness and manipulation disguised as “I want ___ to be happy”
Boy howdy, if only there was some sort of way of guaranteeing that this doesn't happen to you...
*Cough* equally yoked *cough*
Misery loves company. Women on tik tok really seem to have that crabs in a bucket mentality.
I was about to ask what the point of non Christian marriage was but you already kinda asked it.
I don't think I would listen to a woman whose eyebrows look like she's seen a huge rat! But seriously I think God will point out the red flags and Christian couples need to make sure that God will be the head of their marriage BEFORE they say I do. I don't know how accurate this is but I heard that there are more Christian couples divorcing than non-Christians. Oh how this must break God's heart.😢
Sounds like she's seeing someone else tbh. It is well.
What the #@#@ is going on with the 1st girls eye brows?? That's a divorce right there.
I could call my married life many things burbling this rarely and only for very short periods if ever boring.
The real secret? Have plenty to do individually and as a couple In The work of the Lord. Then it’s always a little to a huge adventure.
"cat lady"
Many christians in name only. Compromising there walk and not really obeying jesus and or desiring to maintain a healthy relationship with god. If you fear god and know jesus you will continue to honor your husbands and wives . Really make sure you know he or she is sold out for the lord and in it for the long haul. Not everyone who says lord will enter the kingdom of heaven.
Thanks man for sharing this about true marriage. I didn't realize how my views about marriage were influenced by the culture of our society as opposed to God's word. Clearly, God's way is above the culture
Fulfillment HAS to come from Jesus .
I got radiation poisoning from the cringe of that intro.
those eyebrows man. I can't get past them.
I think often people forget that marriage is designed for 2 things:
1) Having and raising kids
2) Serving as a model relationship for Christ and the church
Neither one is a guarantee that things will be easy or lovely all the time, but just as Christ loves the church no matter what the circumstances, spouses need to love each other. Jesus set aside His own feelings in the garden of Gethsemane, and faced the great suffering of the cross for the sake of His bride. Marriage is a picture of that kind of self-sacrificial love. Even on the worst days where you don't feel like doing anything for you spouse, you still get up and serve her because Christ still loves you.
I do want to add a note that there is also abundant joy, love, and positive feelings in marriage too, but these are blessings and fruit from the relationship, not the foundational root of it.
Your cult didn't invent the concept of marriage.
@@Maksie0 Well, if someone believes the Bible, then yes, since the first man and woman, marriage was established for God's purposes.
Especially a monogamous relationship based on loving one another in a selfless and self-sacrifical manner.
In addition to being a picture of the love between Christ and the church, the primary purpose of marriage is the companionate union of man and woman for life. Having children is (normatively speaking) a blessed fruit of this marital union, but is certainly not the end-all, be-all of marriage. Marriage is *rooted* in the couple.
@@anne.ominousOr two women. Or two men.
Young Christian man, 22. What is wrong with what she said ?
Despite the fact that feelings do indeed change,
If people do not love each other, and are not happily willing to serve each other, then why stay together? Maybe they are able to find partners who can fulfill those roles. Maybe they union wasn't good to begin with ?
I am genuinely asking, I'd appreciate any advice ❤
The marriage love God calls us to is not an emotion. It's an action. This guy has great biblical wisdom. Listen to his words.
At Matthew 19:6, Jesus says “What God has yoked together, let no man put apart.” Marriage is not just a legal contract, it is a spiritual bond. This woman is not Christian so she does not view it that way. As a result it seems perfectly fine to separate for arbitrary reasons. If you are a believer in Jehovah and his son Jesus Christ, however, the words of Jesus explain that, as marriage is ordained by God, not man, it is a thing that must be taken seriously; marriage between Adam and Eve was the foundation of human society. This video promotes not only disregarding marriage bonds but also pushes the view that they are not of God. Furthermore, at Matthew 19
If you want to read this, its up to u. Aye man, I think the issue with what she said is that she is giving (Bad) advice to someone that wants to get a divorce for all the wrong reasons (selfish reasons, based on what the video says). I think the critique here is that divorce is so rampant and common that the statistic for the amount of divorce in the U.S is not even that far fetch. And most of these divorced people stem from all the wrong reasons, with the most selfish one ( in my opinion) being, doing it for yourself. One begins to ask, why was the marriage a thing to begin with, and if one is willing to do this so willynilly, was there love in the first place? (Like you said, and I agree) Because the bible teaches us that love isn't just a feeling, but rather a mixture of acts and virtue ( 1 Corinthians 13:4-8). Marriage is not a label, nor should it be a trend. That's why many people prefer the Christian way of life of marriage. Christianity teaches that marriage is the unity of a man and a woman, where they are united for life. Its a life long decision and shouldn't be treated as a simple relationship because it is a marriage that is accepted by God ( To be equally yoked), and divorce rejects what God intends it to be. Granted, there are some qualities and reasons for why Divorce is justifiable, where Neglect and abuse (Exodus 21 10-11, 1 Corinthians 7:15) or Adultery (Deut 24 :1, Mattew 19:9) is present within the marriage. But divorce on the shaky ground of selfish reasons, becomes more destructive and shows it was more the feels than the acts. But that's why I think that this video emphasizes that the thought of selfishness is not the right way to think inside a marriage.
At Matthew 19:9 Jesus says that “Whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of sexual immorality, and marries another commits adultery.” One man, one woman, one bond for life. If we are all God’s children we must act the part and be loyal. You must never be the one to break a bond; that is why it is only acceptable if your spouse breaks it first with the physical act of adultery.
Do not promote adultry
I know an older couple who have been married for years, and didn’t always get along great, but both held the “I don’t believe in divorce” mindset. They’ve reconciled with one another, and have a very joyful relationship now. That could never have happened if they didn’t first agree with God that divorce isn’t his plan.
And do you think one example means that's how it works for everyone? My parents divorced each other and I'm glad they did. They're both far happier now.
I went through a phase in my marriage when I thought my husband wasn't enough, he wasn't this, he didn't do what I wanted etc, but the Lord showed me over time what a wonderful guy he is and how I needed to stop trying to make him what I wanted him to be but to accept him for how God had made him to be! Once my eyes were opened to that, I could see what a self denying, loving man of God he is and after seeing that I willingly submitted to his authority because when he married me he gave his life over to nurturing me, caring for me etc (makes it sound like it's all about me, at the end of the day it's not, it's becoming more like Christ each day)!
I don't know if I'm generalising, but when I listen to women talking about their husbands it's as if they want their men to be clones of them, but God created men and women to compliment each other, to balance each others strengths and weaknesses! If only we'd recognise that, then our marriages would be much better - not perfect, but better!
Ps - we've been married 31 years 🥰
"Submitting to authority" does not sound like part of a healthy relationship
Islam was right about women all along.
Ew.
islam now is basically how Christianity was until quite recently anyways
Thank goodness we live in a society where women can be in full control of their own lives.
So you think it’s ok for a woman to leave her husband just because she’s bored? To leave a man who loves you and cares for you all because YOURE bored? Are you serious? That’s what wrong with this world. A world that only cares for sex, sexualizes everything, encourage young teens/adults to be lewd, watch porn etc. That’s what makes the world so depressing. Christians are about real devotion and commitment. So sorry that we care for what’s really right. I see you on here doing noting but spew insults and taunt like a bully.
@@Christainwithautism Do I think it's a good thing to do? No, not really. But I also think that everyone is free to live their life as they please, and that's an extremely good thing. And that to have a culture where divorce is stigmatized is extremely harmful. My parents separated when I was 14, and while it was difficult at the time, it was ultimately for the better as they're both much happier now with their new partners.
@@Maksie0 Again, that’s what’s wrong with the world that we Christians try to show you. A world that’s self centered and only cares for sex in general. Christianity teaches about the real holy bond in marriage. Marriage is commitment to your partner in holy matrimony out of true love and is a true bond. Sex before marriage shows impatience and desperation, and not real love. We’re pressured constantly to degrade ourselves and stain our body, and get made fun of for refusing. Isn’t it sad? It’s depressing! Thankfully still a virgin still at 22. Just “doing what you want” is the worst thing ever in life. There’s no real peace, no order, no justice, and no real purpose. Only chaos. Once again, this is what Christians try to tell you, but people don’t listen. Kindly read this please.
@@Christainwithautism I didn't even say anything about sex in either of my comments lmao
@@Maksie0 The point I make is how selfish people are and everything that society pressures us to do. Everything happening is all coming to a close. Isaiah 5:20 evil becoming good and good becoming evil. It’s apparently ok to leave your spouse all because YOURE bored. You expect them to entertain you, and only do what you want and not love them unconditionally and put them above yourself as every spouse should. How’s that any different from a spouse leaving for someone with more money? All the crap happening…..it’s disgusting. The people with real morals are the ones thrown under the bus and mocked.
Lilith left Adam becuse they weren't compatible. Then Adam got Eve and was happier. Just sayin
Bruh yes
Yeah, marriage is a contract - but it's not supposed to be 5 year base w/ 5 1yr options.
Like srsly...what happened to fighting for one another & your union? If you've decided to enter into a *holy* union, why not honour it (and Him) as such; not everyone gets this opportunity after all. Him coming alongside you in your weaker moments, you coming alongside him in his? Remembering the good times...looking forward to the adventure of life you get to share together? Why would someone just blow that up cuz their bored? Real talk: Is she actually bored or is she just boring & projecting hard?🤔
Forget not letting your kids have access to the internet, now a days you can't even let your wife have access to the internet. Men's authority is being undermined from every single direction.
With that Men should be on the internet either
@@NotDuncan Yes, generally speaking nobody should be on the internet but that's not really possible in today's society. Ironically, my dad's activity on the internet is actually what made my mom divorce him. My point was just that the man needs to be the leader that defends his family from this kind of stuff. Even if the man is in charge he can still get compromised, the internet is very dangerous.
@@Nick-ij5ntexcept you never mentioned that in first place. You sound like you're backtracking to save face.
@@yasiem6245 I think you're just being a woman and you're reading into things that I didn't say.
@@Nick-ij5nt but you mentioned it though but alright
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