Touching toh hai par unko zinda rakhne mein child ki poori jawani nikal jati hai aur usse koi freedom nai milta apni life jeene mein ya travel or relocate karne mein.
@@swati2899 wahi baat ho rahi hai ki jyada tar parents bachche budhape ka sahara bada kar rahe hotey hai aur yeh bhul jaate hai ki bachcha bhi ek individual hai, uski apni life hai aur choices ka freedom hona chahiye.
girls in indian society don't get properly educated to have good careers. Even if they get good education, their own parents push them to give importance to marriage/family instead of their career. Most girls in indian society end up as housewives who are dependent on their husband's income. So it's those parents' faults, who doesn't support their daughter's career. If daughter doesn't earn money how will she spend money to take care of parents?? Indian husbands believe His earned money is only his money. he doesn't understand that his wife needs to take care of her parents too. therefore this problem. Educate daughters, push them to earn good money, they'll spend that money on you when you're old.
I think this maybe a long thread 😅.... 1 problem is that even after education also job for women are limited ... I think teaching seems to be the most feasible one ...
@@rajc2645 I can't agree. I myself is a CA, CMA. I work at a an MNC which provides enough for us to have a comfortable home, i take my husband and in-laws to yearly foreign trips. the comfort i feel when i provide the luxury and care to my own parents, using my own money is immense. My husband also earns enough but he has to go to long work trips often... that time i take full responsibility of his parents and my own. That earns me respect and dependance of these 4 people. Everything good that happened to my life was possible because my parents didn't hesitate to educate me, push me to get good respectable job. They made my life what it is now. so i return as much as i can.
@creativehobbies4328 Great to hear that .... may u have such happy moments ahead as well ... But I am talking from my experience .... I have spent lot of time of my childhood in place like unnao ... I seen my aunts so sensible, all educated , cleared exams but cannot get jobs because they are allocated in distant location. The reason I still mentioned teaching is preferable job is i) safer environment than other jobs. i) inadequate law and order. ii) Women safety iii) court case running for years.
It's a give and take relationship. In India if you say my parents abuse me everyone was like it's normal why you make such a big deal. What's the problem that they don't allow you to do work or always make sure you're dependent on them but when times come they make Pikachu face that why there children are not responsible. Amitabh sir was amazing father to his daughter in this movie. He was not controlling her what she should do or not he simply guide her what she should do to protect herself and this is the reason she stayed with and cared for him.
Damn projecting much? Not everyone has abusive parents and in this movie her dad was great so obviously she was a great daughter back. It's not that deep. Yall really take the "Indian parents suck and hate daughters" trope too far. It's not every parents. It's just yours. Sorry.
Yes sometimes parents do ruin their kids lives, regardless of daughter or son and Indian or otherwise ! Parents are also just people who are trying to figure their shit out as they age and there is no perfect way to 'parenting' but it's also a matter of principle that they shouldn't have and raise children just so they can burden them by depending on them or controlling them excessively to fulfill their own needs and desires. If one can't do justice to being a parent, then pls don't become one.
@@sarcasticsree pehle apna naam likh ...tab bap ka parichay samne ayega...kisne bola i am discrediting her...the entire shot was brilliantly conceived by shoojit ... generic comments mat maro
If every parent deserve a daughter like Piku then every daughter also deserves a father Piku's father because every daughter want to play Piku in their parents life.
You do realise that in movie; they showed father didn't want his daughter to get married and have free sex not because he believed in free sex and independence but was scared that if she got married then she won't be able to take care of him. Father was extremely selfish and hell bent on destroying his daughter's life. His daughter was getting past child bearing age and he had no concern about that. Still don't agree!? Ok towards the end of movie you can notice daughter tells her would be lover (Irfan khan) that his mother sacrificed a lot and was a working woman. She had to leave her job because her father demanded everything for him to get done by her mother. She had to leave ger job however he didn't make ger leave the job.( It was implied there) All in all, father is the kind of guy here who shows himself as someone who is free spirited and not a misogynist a modern man. But actually he is the meanest guy possible. He is not what he shows and wants people to think of him. In some dialogues even her daughter implied this(Dipika Padukone)
@@AnuragSinha7 Is this for real? I never knew that he is like this, I've just seen half movie so I didn't know this thing. Thanks for clearing whole things.
But thing is kinds like Piku get too old before they can married and raise kids... end even if they managed to do it their kids have to play Piku for them and they get old too. Eventually there comes a generation that has to end this cascading phenomenon by "not playing piku" or going extinct alone!
i think it's only natural that children needs to take care of their parents after a certain age. In india, only men are allowed to take care of their parents. even DILs are supposed to take care of her husband's parents... And it's considered as cruelty when DILs don't take care of them.. but Husbands don't take care of his wife's parents. even wives are not allowed to stay with her parents and take care of them... This is double standard of society. It needs ro change.
After marriage, both husband and wife should take care of each other's parents in turns or as the situation arises. It's humanity. Both need each other for balanced life. Hope this becomes normal in society.
Whoever written this dialouge deserves award.. ek time ke baad parents apne aap zinda nahi reh paate, unhe rakhna padta hai aur ye zimmedari bachcho ki hai
Not every parents are godly!! Not every child has to suffer or sacrifice for their parents! Trust me , not everyone has a great childhood as well! Normalizing parental abuse is one of the problems of Indian society!
@@aschannel8664 some children are abused mentally and physically by their parents they get multiple personality disorder or other mental illness due to that. And you say why not forget? I mean somr parents have ruined their children's life and you are saying as if it's a normal everyday thing which should even matter at all. Not everyone has a good life some parents are really evil and it affects the rest of the childs life so no they cant forget because they have permenent issue which they didnt deserved. Even if they do forget they will never have a great relationship with their parents. Ik some who were sexually assaulted by their parents both women and men and some others were locked up at home or in cages since they were small kids beaten or treated really badly they cant even sleep alone now. Idk why are we Ignoring the fact that not all parents are angels and they can indeed ruin a childs life and there is no one to protect them. Iam studying psychology and one of my client was always beaten up badly his father used to drink and beat him he was admitted in critical condition many times almost died 4 times he had multiple personality disorder schizophrenia and amnesia which means he keeps forgetting things and he has multiple identities ehich protect him from that trauma but also thinks they are diff individuals so he has tried commiting suicide as his parents told him he has made up his identity in his brain and called him a psycho. He is also a drug addict started in early age so he wont feel anything. He wasnt even beaten for good reason so don't try to justify that. Ik plenty of children with childhood trauma and speech disorder all because of their parents. They were born happy kids but now can hardly speak properly. Many didnt even get mentally old their physical age is 25 but mentally 5 because of all childhood trauma due to parents again. Im not saying all parents are bad but plenty are do you cant say forget and move on because you didnt saw what they go through. Its not as simple as just saying let's forget it and it's also not as simple as parents being bit selfish its diff from that. Parental abuse can cause permanent issues or make a child suicidal which people dont realise that yet smh.
Perfectly said. Especially for the single child, it rings true. This situation is understood by daughters who have no siblings. Parents after a certain age become dependent, they do need support and care.
Its highl time our society also talks about toxic parenting, dysfunctional families, that cause immense pain to the child...... Not every child has a glorious childhood... Growing up in such environment gives immense trauma and pain to the child that it affects their adult life later
@@infiyatayon it's not about equality, it's about the mindset. Sorry to say but after marriage, sons usually start to pay less attention to their parents but in case of daughters, their love for their parents usually never change
@@Bhav2327 Why is everyone projecting their feelings and experiences and generalising that? If you’re like that or you’ve witnessed a few incidents like that, that’s personal to you. Not everyone’s like you or the people you’re surrounding you.
@@Manikanta21J if that's the case then why cases of mistreatment of elders by their own children are increasing day by day? or why number of people living in old age homes are increasing year by year? I'm not saying that everyone's like that but number of such people are increasing and usually sons are responsible in such cases
In my case, I have ended up single. I was not intelligent enough to create a life of my own and balance both world's. I could have handled both better but no regrets
@@preetij9872 It's rare to handle both. The boys in India are still not that mature. I am sure your parents too would have wanted to settle down but trust me no regrets is better than ending up with the wrong one. Plus you never you . May be there's still someone made for you .
I'm 36 and married and have kids and my parents live with me. I was very clear with my husband in the beginning itself that my parents are my responsibility. If I'm a girl that doesn't mean I don't have responsibility of my parents after getting married. If a guy has to look after his parents so I also have the right to look after my parents. My husband was okay with it and now we are 11 years in marriage he still is there supporting me in this decision.
Every young person should see this movie. Things might not turn out this way but Piku is an example of unwavering love of a child. (Parents ek samey ke baad khud Zinda nahi reh sakte, unhe Zinda rakna padta hai)
U r lucky if u got to see ur parents for soo long that now u can take care of them. Ask ppl who lost their parents at young age n was exposed to brutal world, realising every moment what all our parents have taken fir us
No thanks. We don't want to ask. Having abusive and insulting parents who make you sad for decades is just as painful as parents dying. Orphans may struggle because no one taking care of them but they atleast feel their love (see your own comment for that). Children of abusive parents get food and place to live but live in shame and self hate and depression EVERY SINGLE DAY. And in some cases, they don't even get enough food. Some families shame girls for eating well because 'girls should stay thin, if they eat a lot they will be fat' . So please
@@godswillm575 Yes. And people who have not experienced parental abuse would never understand how it destroys your whole life.. it makes you disabled. And we're so torn that we don't know whether to love or hate them. Meanwhile we comptely lose our self esteem and much more. Take care, more power to us!
i’m my papa ki pari and no matter how many arguments we have at times he loves me and i love him so much…im 19 and my dad has always told me that he has enough money and he doesn’t want me to worry about him in his old age and he would go to an old age home if necessary…i would never let him do that…he has always fulfilled all my wishes and demands….i dont need to ask him twice for anything..the moment i ask ..he gets me the thing the very next day and much more expensive….he has always told me to never ever worry about anything in life…i would be there for my parents always
@@AnonymousGuy12 kiun beti humesha to ghar chor k jatey h ek bar beta gaya to kya hua? N waise b mere father ki tabiyat thik nhi hai that's y he choose this coz he is good man n also his family. Not like some narrow mindset people. N BTW his family is also supported with this. So thank you for ur concern.
I have a di and her nickname is also Piku .. she's a software engineer.. She's actually my father's retired colleague's daughter. She has two other siblings and she's the younger one... Her older sister is married but the middle sister has down syndrome... Piku di has decided not to get married for taking care of her parents and sister... She's really a good and responsible daughter ... I'm so glad that I know someone like her ❤
Seems her situation is similar to me. I have a elder sister she too have health issues. My father died when i was young and i too don't want to leave my mother and my sister all alone in future.
Most versatile actress of this generation....hats off to her real parents who raised her so balanced ....!! She inspires so many ambitions girls across the globe.. no matter which field u r in!!!
Its so True, a Daughter only can really realise Such Powerful touching lines" Ek umar ke nasd Parents nahi ji sakte apnd aap, unko zinda rakhna padta hai" Aur really jaise hum unki zimmedari rahein hain aaj tak bhi unhone hamare lye kitna kuch kar rahein hain sirf hame khush Khushal aur atma nirbhar delhne ke liye to jab unko zaroorat hai wo hamari zimmedari hain.. Deepika is a GREAT actress Piku is one of my fav movies of all times so DELICATE True touching Really who wrote thos script should get an Award ❤🤗👌👍
You are not alone. My mother is also very uncaring and really hateful towards me. It really hurts, especially when you love and care for a person that much, as you naturally do. But we have to make peace with the fact, that some mothers just are bad mothers. We have to find comfort in God and the friends that God gives us. I wish you and all children that have bad mothers strength and true happiness in life. 🙏🎀
Many times I felt like the father didn’t deserve Piku because he’s so mean and cranky and “ruins” her relationships. But then I realised how many years of sacrifice he must have made before and after Piku was born….Indian parents sacrifice and compromise their whole life for their kids, maybe not all of them are healthy but they also survived traumas. Everyone of them deserves a Piku
so if you sarcrificed for your kids all your life it doesn't mean they have to do the same and lose their life. Kids don't ask to be born. Having kids as a retirement plan is selfish
One important thing to learn here is the attitude of the girl in making the guy understand her mind in a calm fashion, but not trying to dominate/win the argument. Even when the guy cracks a joke of her situation, she took it like a joke rather than aggressively pushing back. In my experience while interacting with people a lot of people takes a discussion as an argument leading to heated conversations.
In India discriminations based on caste & creed are nothing when it comes to Gender discrimination. As it is omnipresent in all the strata of society.........if u r a girl & even if ur parents r the best in the world & give u the best of what they have........they SHOULD NOT be wanting any security from u in their old age, otherwise they will be judge as SELFISH by the societal standards.........this is really too selfish of the society to think this way
Our grandpa ,my mom's father lived with us in his last few years, i shared a room with him, it is very important that children take care of their parents when they are old , be it son or daughter.
But sometimes they don't understand that their children have life heart n desires..they become selfish unintentionally or unknowingly and ruin their children's life even if they want them to be happy.. even if u have conversation with them they will not take positively.. parents are like this especially when their son gets married n daughter in law comes.. I hope this changes
They expect from their daughter in law. The daughter in law which they do not like. Even if they have three kids, only one child does everything. Others don't take responsibility. The one who does, son n daughter in law are bad and entire world is good.
@@suvarnakulkarni3331 I don't understand they want their son to get married but why dont they like daughter in law. I know this. No matter what you do they will not change. So its better we should focus on what we like what makes us happy.
"kyun ki ek age k baad parents aapne aap jinda nhi rhe paate Unhe jinda rakhna padta hai😢😢😢 aur ye jimmedari unk bachchon ki hin hai🙌🙌" THAT'S THE DIALOGUE❤
It's nothing.. It's just a toxic relationship...what he is saying is true.. He is not saying her to leave him..but he needs to put in his place...there are enough toxic parents in this world
@@9lirika actually he is saying her dad is not toxic but selfish.. Cuz dad knows daughter loves him and will tolerate his tantrums.. Mostly boys don't tolerate all these tantrums, boys are smart.
@@creativeaarts4023 being selfish to your own kid is my dear TOXIC....boys are not smart,boys are just previliges....girls are told n forced n trained to bear tantrums of parents,siblings while boys roam around n treated as kings....misogynistic shit happens in India
@@creativeaarts4023 thanks for your idea...I'm going to write a book with the title inspired from your comment...if it comes out my dear,big thanks for the 💡 idea
Exactly. There's a difference between kids taking care of parents and kids becoming the mother of old parents and losing their own life in the process.
@@luckyme0888 to be honest I have seen old people literally using new generation in the name of being old people.. They know everything still will do acting of being old. And spoil new generation life.. And the more u take care of them ,the more their tantrums.. Cuz they know u love them so their tantrums gets bigger day by day.. And the more they become lazier the more their health deteriorates..
@@drpooja1327unke parents ne bhi to rkha tha unko , they're not deprived of parental love first understand this, plus plenty of parents nowadays are becoming so toxic, and hardly sit down to self reflect on their behaviour and actions, I'm not saying I'm always right, i also make mistakes and apologize and try to fix it too, because I sit and self reflect, and most of the time Indian parents think that their every decision is right and their kid must follow whether the kid good or bad, they don't care, such narcissists
Some children have different childhoods. I understand this scene might be applicable for Majority but sometimes there are exceptions. Trauma faced in childhood takes years to overcome. Let's not generalize.
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Girls who are only daughters and daughters with no brother only can actually understand situation of Piku.
Ya right..and if u have brother..just run away....
Yaah
We are two sisters but tbh we never thought of the thing that why we don't brother but our parents mean the world to us❤️
I am a daughter with 3 brothers in my family and i still understand every situation and my parents more than my brothers
@@bkloug3450 then share the responsibility with brother, cause brothers also run away with wife and kids.
@@veenasinha3244 this is reality 🤣👍
Seeing my father getting old... i realized that strong man is shrinking of his power now... he needs me to drive.. this makes me realise things pass
Your comment makes me cry. So true yar what you said
@@trishachatterjee6705 🤝❣️
Mere bhi
That's true..
Please take care of him more far of as much you can
Give them love
@@yashirajepateriya4201 ❣️🤝
Zinda reh nhi paate, zinda rakhna padhta h, so touching lines😢
❤
That shows the selfish nature of people.
Touching toh hai par unko zinda rakhne mein child ki poori jawani nikal jati hai aur usse koi freedom nai milta apni life jeene mein ya travel or relocate karne mein.
@@luckyme0888 parents ki bhi puri jawani nikal jati hai apne child ko raise karne me .
@@swati2899 wahi baat ho rahi hai ki jyada tar parents bachche budhape ka sahara bada kar rahe hotey hai aur yeh bhul jaate hai ki bachcha bhi ek individual hai, uski apni life hai aur choices ka freedom hona chahiye.
I wish society understands this. Girls' parents also get old and sending money is not sufficient. 🙃
I thinks taking care is never problem,
money is the major problem
girls in indian society don't get properly educated to have good careers. Even if they get good education, their own parents push them to give importance to marriage/family instead of their career.
Most girls in indian society end up as housewives who are dependent on their husband's income.
So it's those parents' faults, who doesn't support their daughter's career. If daughter doesn't earn money how will she spend money to take care of parents??
Indian husbands believe His earned money is only his money. he doesn't understand that his wife needs to take care of her parents too.
therefore this problem.
Educate daughters, push them to earn good money, they'll spend that money on you when you're old.
I think this maybe a long thread 😅....
1 problem is that even after education also job for women are limited ...
I think teaching seems to be the most feasible one ...
@@rajc2645 I can't agree. I myself is a CA, CMA. I work at a an MNC which provides enough for us to have a comfortable home, i take my husband and in-laws to yearly foreign trips.
the comfort i feel when i provide the luxury and care to my own parents, using my own money is immense.
My husband also earns enough but he has to go to long work trips often... that time i take full responsibility of his parents and my own. That earns me respect and dependance of these 4 people.
Everything good that happened to my life was possible because my parents didn't hesitate to educate me, push me to get good respectable job.
They made my life what it is now. so i return as much as i can.
@creativehobbies4328 Great to hear that .... may u have such happy moments ahead as well ...
But I am talking from my experience ....
I have spent lot of time of my childhood in place like unnao ...
I seen my aunts so sensible, all educated , cleared exams but cannot get jobs because they are allocated in distant location.
The reason I still mentioned teaching is preferable job is
i) safer environment than other jobs.
i) inadequate law and order.
ii) Women safety
iii) court case running for years.
Actually no, not every parent deserve a daughter like Piku. Some parents are hellbent on ruining their daughter's life.
It's a give and take relationship. In India if you say my parents abuse me everyone was like it's normal why you make such a big deal. What's the problem that they don't allow you to do work or always make sure you're dependent on them but when times come they make Pikachu face that why there children are not responsible. Amitabh sir was amazing father to his daughter in this movie. He was not controlling her what she should do or not he simply guide her what she should do to protect herself and this is the reason she stayed with and cared for him.
Damn projecting much? Not everyone has abusive parents and in this movie her dad was great so obviously she was a great daughter back. It's not that deep. Yall really take the "Indian parents suck and hate daughters" trope too far. It's not every parents. It's just yours. Sorry.
And so do in laws
Yes sometimes parents do ruin their kids lives, regardless of daughter or son and Indian or otherwise ! Parents are also just people who are trying to figure their shit out as they age and there is no perfect way to 'parenting' but it's also a matter of principle that they shouldn't have and raise children just so they can burden them by depending on them or controlling them excessively to fulfill their own needs and desires. If one can't do justice to being a parent, then pls don't become one.
@@panjabipandit they are simply stating their opinion...why are u so pressed??
Only a single child specially a single daughter can understand piku’s situation ❤
What!?! Nope fool!
True
No no, single,guy gets a bahu for the parents, a single daughter still has to leave the house
Thanks for saying this!!
yes , another single daughter here
The best of DP. Natural , beautiful, simple, relatable, and performance wise class apart.
Yep she was her best version in this movie 😊
Love her. This was peak DP. Really miss her such performances. Nowadays she's playing really safe.
Yea.. the only movie of her that i could tolerate
The best of filmmaking i think.... without the linguistic group which he belongs backing him with soft power
DP is the Best !😭💓
DP has never looked more gorgeous in any other film. Piku is the essence of every woman.
The way she said situation shows how good an actor she is!
No it simply shows how good the director of this film is.
@@kuntalghosh1970 itna zehar leke jaate kaha ho tum log !😂 Arey director toh h he best , but she acted well ,thats a fact !
hadu bey hadu be..besharam rang ....gehrayiannnnnnnn
@@sarcasticsree ,🤣🤣wo zeherwalaa bohut accha tha
@@sarcasticsree pehle apna naam likh ...tab bap ka parichay samne ayega...kisne bola i am discrediting her...the entire shot was brilliantly conceived by shoojit ... generic comments mat maro
If every parent deserve a daughter like Piku then every daughter also deserves a father Piku's father because every daughter want to play Piku in their parents life.
Best comment I've read in section truely wise words.
You do realise that in movie; they showed father didn't want his daughter to get married and have free sex not because he believed in free sex and independence but was scared that if she got married then she won't be able to take care of him. Father was extremely selfish and hell bent on destroying his daughter's life. His daughter was getting past child bearing age and he had no concern about that.
Still don't agree!? Ok towards the end of movie you can notice daughter tells her would be lover (Irfan khan) that his mother sacrificed a lot and was a working woman. She had to leave her job because her father demanded everything for him to get done by her mother. She had to leave ger job however he didn't make ger leave the job.( It was implied there)
All in all, father is the kind of guy here who shows himself as someone who is free spirited and not a misogynist a modern man. But actually he is the meanest guy possible. He is not what he shows and wants people to think of him. In some dialogues even her daughter implied this(Dipika Padukone)
@@AnuragSinha7 Is this for real? I never knew that he is like this, I've just seen half movie so I didn't know this thing. Thanks for clearing whole things.
Trust me there is a huge difference in saying you want to be Piku and becoming Piku..
But thing is kinds like Piku get too old before they can married and raise kids... end even if they managed to do it their kids have to play Piku for them and they get old too.
Eventually there comes a generation that has to end this cascading phenomenon by "not playing piku" or going extinct alone!
i think it's only natural that children needs to take care of their parents after a certain age.
In india, only men are allowed to take care of their parents. even DILs are supposed to take care of her husband's parents... And it's considered as cruelty when DILs don't take care of them..
but Husbands don't take care of his wife's parents. even wives are not allowed to stay with her parents and take care of them...
This is double standard of society. It needs ro change.
Nothing like that. Daughters should not allow this to happen.
It’s in their hands
Be independent financially
Everything is possible
That's why they want atleast one male child to look after them when all daughters are married off
After marriage, both husband and wife should take care of each other's parents in turns or as the situation arises. It's humanity. Both need each other for balanced life. Hope this becomes normal in society.
The hell is DIL?
@@sakshisrivastava272 daughter-in-law
Whoever written this dialouge deserves award.. ek time ke baad parents apne aap zinda nahi reh paate, unhe rakhna padta hai aur ye zimmedari bachcho ki hai
Not every parents are godly!! Not every child has to suffer or sacrifice for their parents! Trust me , not everyone has a great childhood as well! Normalizing parental abuse is one of the problems of Indian society!
I’m one victim 😂
@@SJ-il7vy Me too
Mee too 😅
But why can't be just forgets that bad memories and let it goo .....
@@aschannel8664 some children are abused mentally and physically by their parents they get multiple personality disorder or other mental illness due to that. And you say why not forget? I mean somr parents have ruined their children's life and you are saying as if it's a normal everyday thing which should even matter at all. Not everyone has a good life some parents are really evil and it affects the rest of the childs life so no they cant forget because they have permenent issue which they didnt deserved. Even if they do forget they will never have a great relationship with their parents. Ik some who were sexually assaulted by their parents both women and men and some others were locked up at home or in cages since they were small kids beaten or treated really badly they cant even sleep alone now. Idk why are we Ignoring the fact that not all parents are angels and they can indeed ruin a childs life and there is no one to protect them. Iam studying psychology and one of my client was always beaten up badly his father used to drink and beat him he was admitted in critical condition many times almost died 4 times he had multiple personality disorder schizophrenia and amnesia which means he keeps forgetting things and he has multiple identities ehich protect him from that trauma but also thinks they are diff individuals so he has tried commiting suicide as his parents told him he has made up his identity in his brain and called him a psycho. He is also a drug addict started in early age so he wont feel anything. He wasnt even beaten for good reason so don't try to justify that. Ik plenty of children with childhood trauma and speech disorder all because of their parents. They were born happy kids but now can hardly speak properly. Many didnt even get mentally old their physical age is 25 but mentally 5 because of all childhood trauma due to parents again. Im not saying all parents are bad but plenty are do you cant say forget and move on because you didnt saw what they go through. Its not as simple as just saying let's forget it and it's also not as simple as parents being bit selfish its diff from that. Parental abuse can cause permanent issues or make a child suicidal which people dont realise that yet smh.
That smile in the end. Just pure beauty ❤️
Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child..
True 🙂
This movie grows on you as u watch it manu times. Subtle message is need of the hour
Movie?
@@habeeba2habi543 Piku
@@_Shivani_Rajput Manu times it is actually
Perfectly said. Especially for the single child, it rings true. This situation is understood by daughters who have no siblings. Parents after a certain age become dependent, they do need support and care.
Can you tell those Words in English yarrr
Its highl time our society also talks about toxic parenting, dysfunctional families, that cause immense pain to the child...... Not every child has a glorious childhood... Growing up in such environment gives immense trauma and pain to the child that it affects their adult life later
parents r more concerned about social status than the child's well being
True, parents sacrifice their kids happiness for their name and society's pressure.
That one bindi make you look more confident more power more independent more beautiful
What a brilliant actor the late Irfan khan was... May he rest in peace.. Ameen
Deepika looks no less in this scene.. haven't seen the movie but looks like she's standing right up there with him (in this scene only)
@@udaykhati1162 💯 agree
"aur wo zimmedari bachhon ka hi h" ♥️
For indian society , Only reason to have a child - old age insurance
Brutally honest .... love is not just romance but a bigger responsibility ....I LOVE YOU is more to do than spoken
Thanks to DP for taking up a role like this and making every individual think of their parents
She deservingly received Filmfare best actor award!!!🎉
Becoming the parent of your own parents.❤
Only a daughter will understand this, and can say this to their parents
that's wrong - son & daughter both are equal
@@infiyatayon it's not about equality, it's about the mindset. Sorry to say but after marriage, sons usually start to pay less attention to their parents but in case of daughters, their love for their parents usually never change
@@Bhav2327 Why is everyone projecting their feelings and experiences and generalising that? If you’re like that or you’ve witnessed a few incidents like that, that’s personal to you. Not everyone’s like you or the people you’re surrounding you.
@@Manikanta21J if that's the case then why cases of mistreatment of elders by their own children are increasing day by day? or why number of people living in old age homes are increasing year by year? I'm not saying that everyone's like that but number of such people are increasing and usually sons are responsible in such cases
@@Bhav2327 Care to share some proofs please?
Not every parent respect piku like daughter they already have
Yes I agree.
True
exactly
Totally agree
They take their daughters for granted
So true
this was such a lovely movie by Shoojit sir ... Deepika and Irfan sir..what a performance....
Dipika's acting is so pure, so natural.
There is no such thing as perfect parents, perfect daughter, perfect son or perfect relatives.
No, NOT EVERY parent. That's the bitter truth.
That's why I am never gonna leave my parents ❤ Cause if you have got good parent/parents, girls too should own it up taking care of them 😊
It's sad to see some great soul leaves us so early.
Irrfan we love you. We miss you.
RIP legend.🙏
Don't have any words to express my pian.😟
This was my decision for my parents. I wanted them to stay with me and I wanted to look after them
Then what happened?
In my case, I have ended up single. I was not intelligent enough to create a life of my own and balance both world's. I could have handled both better but no regrets
@@preetij9872 It's rare to handle both.
The boys in India are still not that mature.
I am sure your parents too would have wanted to settle down but trust me no regrets is better than ending up with the wrong one.
Plus you never you . May be there's still someone made for you .
@@preetij9872 best decision... nothing more important than parents
I'm 36 and married and have kids and my parents live with me. I was very clear with my husband in the beginning itself that my parents are my responsibility. If I'm a girl that doesn't mean I don't have responsibility of my parents after getting married. If a guy has to look after his parents so I also have the right to look after my parents. My husband was okay with it and now we are 11 years in marriage he still is there supporting me in this decision.
Parents are the best people of anyone's life ... I dedicate my every success, failure, hardships, happiness to them. God keep them healthy ..Amen 🙏
I ❤ irfan's natural acting and nice looks of Deepika and her cute laugh
Every young person should see this movie. Things might not turn out this way but Piku is an example of unwavering love of a child.
(Parents ek samey ke baad khud Zinda nahi reh sakte, unhe Zinda rakna padta hai)
what movie is this can you plese tell me I apprechiate .thanks
@@ferizathombs2589Piku
Every daughter is like this. I wish sons were like this too.
This movie was so human in nature. It had all the potential to win National Award. Every cast was terrific! DP did her best of best. 😢❤❤❤
U r lucky if u got to see ur parents for soo long that now u can take care of them. Ask ppl who lost their parents at young age n was exposed to brutal world, realising every moment what all our parents have taken fir us
yess I too have learnt to face this brutal world after 4 yrs of big lose
@@anurag_32 stay strong 💪. Ur parents r still protecting u from the sky n they r proud of u
No thanks. We don't want to ask. Having abusive and insulting parents who make you sad for decades is just as painful as parents dying. Orphans may struggle because no one taking care of them but they atleast feel their love (see your own comment for that). Children of abusive parents get food and place to live but live in shame and self hate and depression EVERY SINGLE DAY.
And in some cases, they don't even get enough food. Some families shame girls for eating well because 'girls should stay thin, if they eat a lot they will be fat' .
So please
@@godswillm575 Yes. And people who have not experienced parental abuse would never understand how it destroys your whole life.. it makes you disabled. And we're so torn that we don't know whether to love or hate them. Meanwhile we comptely lose our self esteem and much more.
Take care, more power to us!
@@cynthiajose7787 I agree.
i’m my papa ki pari and no matter how many arguments we have at times he loves me and i love him so much…im 19 and my dad has always told me that he has enough money and he doesn’t want me to worry about him in his old age and he would go to an old age home if necessary…i would never let him do that…he has always fulfilled all my wishes and demands….i dont need to ask him twice for anything..the moment i ask ..he gets me the thing the very next day and much more expensive….he has always told me to never ever worry about anything in life…i would be there for my parents always
wow dont leave him no matter what he says about old age home, dont leave him for anybody as you grow older💟💞💕💖
maybe if you were a son he's be telling something different
Piku is a art the more you watch the more deep you sink and realise what a beauty it is.
"Ek time ke bad parents zinda nahi pate unhe zinda rakhna padta hai " Hit this line😢
and even if he is selfish,he is my father...so true ❤
In her entire fimly career, Deepika looked the best in her Piku wala look....
Same situation so that my husband agrees to stay with us..
My husband lives with me n my father..❤
Or uske parents ka kya?
@@AnonymousGuy12 kiun beti humesha to ghar chor k jatey h ek bar beta gaya to kya hua?
N waise b mere father ki tabiyat thik nhi hai that's y he choose this coz he is good man n also his family.
Not like some narrow mindset people.
N BTW his family is also supported with this.
So thank you for ur concern.
That's how it should be
@@renupordung you found a gem ❤️ love this for you
@@renupordung Basically he is a Simp!
She looks so pretty in bindi....
"Even if he is, he is my Father" - this line hits hard
I have a di and her nickname is also Piku .. she's a software engineer.. She's actually my father's retired colleague's daughter. She has two other siblings and she's the younger one... Her older sister is married but the middle sister has down syndrome... Piku di has decided not to get married for taking care of her parents and sister... She's really a good and responsible daughter ... I'm so glad that I know someone like her ❤
Seems her situation is similar to me. I have a elder sister she too have health issues. My father died when i was young and i too don't want to leave my mother and my sister all alone in future.
This is so much my situation and I am proud to be their mom now...❤
Kavita Dii
Weel you please teac me english ❓
Oh She is Really beautiful. ....the simple beauty. ...
No. Only good and kind. Parents deserve a daughter like Piku.
We miss you Irfan Sir😢
😢💌💯
Most versatile actress of this generation....hats off to her real parents who raised her so balanced ....!! She inspires so many ambitions girls across the globe.. no matter which field u r in!!!
I hope every daughters think like that.
Aag lga do un khushiyon ko jaha maa baap ko jhukna pde 😢❤❤❤❤
Both looked superb....miss this guy
Apart from values
How good they both are in acting yaar❤
Its so True, a Daughter only can really realise Such Powerful touching lines" Ek umar ke nasd Parents nahi ji sakte apnd aap, unko zinda rakhna padta hai" Aur really jaise hum unki zimmedari rahein hain aaj tak bhi unhone hamare lye kitna kuch kar rahein hain sirf hame khush Khushal aur atma nirbhar delhne ke liye to jab unko zaroorat hai wo hamari zimmedari hain..
Deepika is a GREAT actress Piku is one of my fav movies of all times so DELICATE True touching
Really who wrote thos script should get an Award ❤🤗👌👍
No other actors can portray those roles. Both are super actors .
Damn! the acting is just 🔥🔥
I always cared my mom, but my mom never stand by me. It's my fate.
You are not alone. My mother is also very uncaring and really hateful towards me. It really hurts, especially when you love and care for a person that much, as you naturally do. But we have to make peace with the fact, that some mothers just are bad mothers. We have to find comfort in God and the friends that God gives us. I wish you and all children that have bad mothers strength and true happiness in life. 🙏🎀
Last lines was golden modern generation should realise this..
What a golden conversation..and amazing acting by both actors 😁
Many times I felt like the father didn’t deserve Piku because he’s so mean and cranky and “ruins” her relationships. But then I realised how many years of sacrifice he must have made before and after Piku was born….Indian parents sacrifice and compromise their whole life for their kids, maybe not all of them are healthy but they also survived traumas. Everyone of them deserves a Piku
so if you sarcrificed for your kids all your life it doesn't mean they have to do the same and lose their life. Kids don't ask to be born. Having kids as a retirement plan is selfish
Wish every son and daughter, son in law daughter in law thinks this way.
And parents don't end in shelter home
I just love how she chew and talk at the same time so gracefully ❤
And even if he is, he's my father....best line
Only daughter's can do this
Ladke to jaise Munh utha ke chale jate hain..
are you for real, matlab kuch bhi.
One important thing to learn here is the attitude of the girl in making the guy understand her mind in a calm fashion, but not trying to dominate/win the argument. Even when the guy cracks a joke of her situation, she took it like a joke rather than aggressively pushing back. In my experience while interacting with people a lot of people takes a discussion as an argument leading to heated conversations.
Great personality analysis
So true, totally agree with you.
So true dekhte hi dekhte jo parents apni young age mein humare liye sabse powerful hua karte the aaj unhe itna weak dekh ke bahut dukh hota hai
I wish every parents has daughters like Piku.
In India discriminations based on caste & creed are nothing when it comes to Gender discrimination. As it is omnipresent in all the strata of society.........if u r a girl & even if ur parents r the best in the world & give u the best of what they have........they SHOULD NOT be wanting any security from u in their old age, otherwise they will be judge as SELFISH by the societal standards.........this is really too selfish of the society to think this way
And even if he is he is my father😢
Right situation right dialogues. We r 6 siblings but me who is 75 yrs old cancer survivor taking care of my 95 years old mother. I feel blessed.
Script writer is actually an emotional person..... True lines.. straight to heart...
Bhot badi zimmedari h😊
true... 💕 even if he is, he is my father
Bhut khoobsurat piku
Our grandpa ,my mom's father lived with us in his last few years, i shared a room with him, it is very important that children take care of their parents when they are old , be it son or daughter.
But sometimes they don't understand that their children have life heart n desires..they become selfish unintentionally or unknowingly and ruin their children's life even if they want them to be happy.. even if u have conversation with them they will not take positively.. parents are like this especially when their son gets married n daughter in law comes.. I hope this changes
They expect from their daughter in law. The daughter in law which they do not like. Even if they have three kids, only one child does everything. Others don't take responsibility. The one who does, son n daughter in law are bad and entire world is good.
@@suvarnakulkarni3331 I don't understand they want their son to get married but why dont they like daughter in law. I know this. No matter what you do they will not change. So its better we should focus on what we like what makes us happy.
They change or not....they parents,agree with u or not....but v have to take Care of them...
@@ahmedabdullah-bz9yc right....next life u shud born as dinosaur at another planet...
@@bkloug3450 ....umm....after seeing ur condition, better not being born on Dino.....island......oh by the way u already occupied that place....☠️☠️☠️
I just loved this movie ❤
Movie name plz
@@rjsameer249 piku
Thanks sis
Beautiful when she says Bilkul
"kyun ki ek age k baad parents aapne aap jinda nhi rhe paate Unhe jinda rakhna padta hai😢😢😢 aur ye jimmedari unk bachchon ki hin hai🙌🙌" THAT'S THE DIALOGUE❤
Oh what have we lost...Irfan khan 💞💞
I realllllyyy reallllyyyyy feeel piku in this point of my life.....and i m proud of it and i think most of bengali girls also relate wid her
why not non-bengalis?
@@user-nz1xc6qi3s bcoz piku is a character of bengali girl in the movie
Irfaan sir😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Irfan khan 🙏👌RIP🙏🙏🙏 he was such an awesome human being..
Moh Bandhta hai...
Prem Mukti deta hai.
Choice differs from person to person. We really don't know if it's love or attachment.
The most beautiful lady on this planet ❣️
No only Narcissistic parents needs that kind of kids.
Not every daughter loves their parents and this disappointment can only be understood by people who went through heartbreaks due to their parents.
It's nothing..
It's just a toxic relationship...what he is saying is true..
He is not saying her to leave him..but he needs to put in his place...there are enough toxic parents in this world
@@9lirika shows how ungrateful u are
@@9lirika actually he is saying her dad is not toxic but selfish.. Cuz dad knows daughter loves him and will tolerate his tantrums.. Mostly boys don't tolerate all these tantrums, boys are smart.
@@creativeaarts4023 being selfish to your own kid is my dear TOXIC....boys are not smart,boys are just previliges....girls are told n forced n trained to bear tantrums of parents,siblings while boys roam around n treated as kings....misogynistic shit happens in India
@@creativeaarts4023 thanks for your idea...I'm going to write a book with the title inspired from your comment...if it comes out my dear,big thanks for the 💡 idea
Own life own choice
Excellent
Don't find words to praise the message which this clip has given to me
Irrfan was actually making sense. “Tum unki maa kyu bann baithi ho?” So much depth in that one sentence.
Exactly. There's a difference between kids taking care of parents and kids becoming the mother of old parents and losing their own life in the process.
@@luckyme0888 to be honest I have seen old people literally using new generation in the name of being old people.. They know everything still will do acting of being old. And spoil new generation life.. And the more u take care of them ,the more their tantrums.. Cuz they know u love them so their tantrums gets bigger day by day.. And the more they become lazier the more their health deteriorates..
So what men ?? Tum b 10 sal tak kuch nahi kar pate ,un parents n sab laga dia tum per ,y sun n k liye ?? Ki unke bache bole hum tumari ma nahi banege
@@drpooja1327but it was their choice to have kids.
@@drpooja1327unke parents ne bhi to rkha tha unko , they're not deprived of parental love first understand this, plus plenty of parents nowadays are becoming so toxic, and hardly sit down to self reflect on their behaviour and actions, I'm not saying I'm always right, i also make mistakes and apologize and try to fix it too, because I sit and self reflect, and most of the time Indian parents think that their every decision is right and their kid must follow whether the kid good or bad, they don't care, such narcissists
They edited the best part.. karoge adopt 😅
True ❤ I will never leave my parents
I need my parents till my last breath ❤
Some children have different childhoods. I understand this scene might be applicable for Majority but sometimes there are exceptions.
Trauma faced in childhood takes years to overcome. Let's not generalize.
I miss those days when bollywood made relevant films with relatable acting