Mum and Dad Pay for Everything! | Spendaholics | Only Human
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- Poynton, Cheshire, home to footballers wives, and 23-year-old Adele. Like her big-bucks neighbors, she can’t resist a shopping trip or a top of the range outfit. But, there’s no David Beckham to foot the bills. Looking good and partying hard has landed Adele £26,000 in the red. Her credit cards are fit to burst, so mum and dad provide rent-free accommodation and a steady flow of cash. So, while Adele piles on the little luxuries, dad Terry piles on the hours. With both her parents and her credit cards reaching their limits, she’ll need some expert attention.
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Adele is Rolling in the Debt
O yeah!
🤣😂
Underrated comment
*this person right here is a pure genius*
Clever!
“it’s tough to buy food and pay rent. it’s a quarter of my wage gone to nothing” welcome to the real world. and this was early 2000s when food and rent was cheap
@@toramisu4134 mad isn’t it! I remember 10 years ago I could rent a flat for about £320 a month and my current place is over double (still a one bed flat albeit a much nicer area with a view, although it’s mortgaged so if I was renting it’d actually be unaffordable). Definitely looking at min 50% income on bills, more like 70% if renting!
Didn't feel cheap at the time, lol. "Back when life was easy" is a false stereotype.
1/4?
That food and rent statement is made by someone who’s yet to live in the real world!!
@@Sinsteel I mean, they interviewed the young people on the street and the most anyone paid was 400£ a month in rent (which is equivalent to about 700 today) with the rest paying less than that. You don't get a flat for 700£ in Cheshire today, let alone lower than that. And food definitely was cheaper, even 5 years ago food was super cheap in the UK compared to other developed countries
I honestly watch these shows so i can help myself from my own hoarding and shopping issues. I used to own more than 80 pants (shorts, capris, skirts, leggings, gym wear another category) I never knew how much i owned until i categorized and counted and was very overwhelmed. Only then did i realize I HAD ISSUES. I had space so my clothes were just stacked here and there but really, how much do you only wear? I had to confront i had depression, sought therapy, watched shows where others were also experiencing the same thing. I’m so much better than before but still recovering.
Same here. Keep up the good work !!! 🍀
Im the same in fact actually came on to watch this as my husband has put his foot down and said i need to sell some shoes and in finding it hard to part with a pair that still has tag on i bought 2 years ago clearly not going to wear them but i just cant part with them 😂
Girl SAME!!!! I’ve been watching these the last two days like 😩🥴😳😳🤦🏾♀️
I need to learn to spend, myself. I have always been such a saver.
Must be so hard to face up to your addiction and depression. Well done.
I was very much like Adele at 23 and thought I needed lots of clothes to go out and have fun and attract men. It was so nice to have my own money and to spend it the way that I wanted! I got a tiny apartment that ate up almost 1/3 of my pay, but it was important to me to feel like an adult and have my own place. Still, I would run out of money on my low-wage entry-level job each month and go to Dad for an extra $20-40+ each month. In a way it made me feel cared for still as I dipped my toe into the adult world. When I was 25, my Dad died suddenly of a heart attack and my mother certainly could not support my financial extra needs each month anymore. I felt very "kicked from the nest", but I learned to stand on my own. Growing up is a process. It doesn't happen overnight. Adele can do it.
You dad died and you feel "Kicked from the nest?" 😳 Jupp, that is exactly i would feel, if my dad die.
Barb- JM so sorry ur dad died, u must miss him lots.
So true ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story
Good,wise words u share ..
Blessings
Her parents are 100% to blame for creating a spoilt brat. She was basically brought up to think that if she is has money trouble or needs extra money then it is fine to ask her parents, knowing that they would bail her out. Once she got some proper advise and boundaries set, she soon realized how life really works. The are many cases like this where the parents didn't set boundaries from an early age.
TheIcypolarbear her mom mainly because he would say no then she would go to mom to persuade him to it . It must be a strain on their marriage :(
Somebody sounds jeslous
@@katemiller7874 who is? Nothing but facts spoken there
100% and the fact she didn't know much about shopping, budgeting, cooking, saving, etc. showed a lot of about how much they did not teach her at all. I was surprised she could make a curry at the end lol.
She definitely has a very infantile attitude to money and managing one's own life in general. The part where she complains how she has to spend "a quarter of her wage on nothing", when speaking about rent and food. She actually can't grasp the fact that essentials in life cost money and that money is needed to live instead of just shopping and partying. She comes off as extremely naive and I 100% agree that it's because of her parents, not just because they bailed her out when she was adult but because they never taught her the meaning of money when she was a child
She would feel much more self confident if she learned to be more independent. She’s living life like a bored child. Her parents aren’t encouraging her to be a successful adult. I don’t understand her parents’ actions.
I moved out at 19 and had a mortgage by 24. Only once I borrowed money from my dad and I paid him back as soon as I could. Loans between family members is a horrible thing. It can really damage family relationships.
I’m 22 and still live with my parents but I help mum out with money and always buy her things I support myself now and don’t need anyone else to do it for me
except for your mum
@@jrtheg1235 what?
@@katelynhinkley9119 you still rely on your mum
Good for you. There is nothing wrong with living with a parent, as long as there are boundaries. Rent, chores and utilities should be shared.
@@jrtheg1235 who said I did you absolute excuse of a human!
The parents are to blame. The father needs to stop being an idiot and working all hours for a spoilt girl who should be supporting herself
Agreed!
I agree. And she'll expect future boyfriend/ husband to do the same. Stop treating your daughter's like princesses.
@@declanconnery6133 Agreed.
Quit calling him names. Daddies spoil their girls. Mine did
@@katemiller7874 just because he did it does not mean it is clever thing to do
She needs additional interests and hobbies. The job being a makeup assistant will be good for her. There's nothing wrong with going out or shopping (if you can afford it), but it's not particularly rewarding. Accomplishing goals you set for yourself and pushing yourself physically, intellectually, and/or artistically will make your life more fulfilling. Not to mention make you a hell of a lot more interesting.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
100%. She feels boring because she doesn't do anything, and she is unfulfilled. She needs a hobby, a career; something she can be proud of that's not her expensive clothes.
It's awarding to buy one of those things that will become your favourite piece that you feel really comfortable in and that you wear a lot.
My thoughts exactly!
She needs a LIFE - has no interests except spending
her mom says she wants her to understand the value of money but how can she when you never taught her that. You basically taught her that money grows on trees and the trees are mom and dad.
All those 2000s clothes are awful
Ryan Donnelly ikr
They wernt awful in 2000 trust me
@@loganl5408 😂Yay, I was starting to feel old!
People like you are the reason debt exists
@@janicewolk357 People like who?
I’m always amazed how people can spend so much in such a short time and have nothing to show for it..! They should do more of these shows to show what kind of debts lockdowns have left people with.
She looks like 1990s Baby Spice
She really does! XD
Thank you I was trying to figure out who ahe the looked like.
Baby Spice .👍👍
@@kateoloughlin8774 Lol Baby Spice has a doppelgänger 😂 . Man, I miss the original 5 - they were *everything* to everyone! I actually saw them live n Portland, Oregon during their (first?) world tour. They did such a great show...✌🏼
@@kateoloughlin8774 i thought she looked like Dawn from The Office
oh the days of dresses with jeans and ultra low rise jeans with muffin tops. I don't miss em lol
This is happening with so many young people. For some reason they feel entitled. I felt so sorry for her dad having to work extra shifts to pay for her stupidity. Sometimes it’s hard for parent not to give in , but how can these young people grow into responsible adults if you continue to feed their selfishness. I hope that things work out in their household and eventually she is able to leave home and manage within her means. Thank you for sharing, it does take a lot of guts to expose yourself too the world. Xx
How can they grow up? Choosing not to be selfish. It is, indeed, a choice.
This is old, I think a large portion of young people in every generation feel entitled
When I was 17 my bank gave me a cheque guaranteed card and cheque book my mum cut it up and ripped the cheque book up
I REALLY feel for these parents because my mother's a shopaholic/spendaholic and when she was married to my Dad she almost put them in debt... she got fed up of him asking her to cut down on her spending and divorced him; she has now remarried and is repeating the same patterns with her new husband.
Also, she has no problem spending over £1,000 pounds on clothes, shoes, makeup, stuff she doesn't need or use; but whenever I actually NEED something (like new summer clothes because I've grown out of my old ones; or new socks because my old ones are worn out with holes on them; or new shoes because they've been worn so much that the soles are coming off; or a new desk because the old one is broken; or school supplies like texts and stationary) she becomes so strict with money; she once refused to buy me a new pair of school shoes when she new full well that I couldn't wear my old shoes because they'd been worn out so much the soles had completely fallen off; I had to glue and tape the souls back on and the kids at school made fun of me. And often when I went to her for something I needed (like books and stationary for school/college) she would say "well you're Dad can pay for that"; when she knows full well that my Dad pays her over £100 child support for my upkeep, care and anything that I need or want, but she spends it on clothes, shoes, makeup and unnecessary things instead of the things I need.
It's gotten so bad that I've been searching for and applying for jobs so that I don't have to ask her OR my Dad for money.
I'm also a LOT more responsible than my mother; I don't go out very much apart from to go for walks and the occasional meet-up with friends; I rarely go shopping for clothes, shoes and things I don't need; instead spending the money I have (saved up from birthdays and Christmases) is spent on things I need like books, notebooks, pens, pencils, paints, paintbrushes and canvases, and I save the rest.
I'm sorry that you're going through this, your mother clearly has issues and maybe therapy is the way for her but I'm glad you're watching and learning from her mistakes instead of walking in your mother's footsteps when it comes to excessive shopping. I'm rooting for you!
What a horrible selfish woman doesn't deserve the title of mam
Your mom is financially abusing you. The child support money should support your basic needs like food and clothing. Hopefully you can afford to get out one day.
That horrible, sick feeling is called adulthood:; honey
It's only a horible sick feeling when you make it as such. To be fair, life is hard, but I'm bloody knackered of this victim mentality that people carry everywhere they go. The bank is robbing the little man or woman after they bought the Iphone 11 with a credit card. My carrer is awful, I choose it. My COPD is painful even though it's my fault after smoking since aged 13. Stop buying into lies, ask is this worth it, GROW UP!
@@tristanthomas5006 🙏👏👏👏👏👏
@@tristanthomas5006 laying down some truth!
hahaha Angela yes !
Ya it sucks.
Not a good sign if she needs a drink to build up her confidence.
Agreed. Definitely worrisome. She seems like a lovely girl. Hopefully she finds her way in life and actual happiness
Yes...I’m not sure why they wouldn’t address that
I kept waiting for them to bring up ALL her drinking.
I moved out when I was 18 and wondered why I was broke all the time. I stopped getting drunk and high every weekend and I had money all of the sudden. Weird eh?
I like the fact that her parents love her, nice family 👪
Her behaviour is like this because not one single person holds her accountable for her poor decisions. Mum and dad are complete enablers in this situation
Love how the comments are about what she could do to better herself in 2005, she's 40 or something now, 2 kids, happily married with no debt LOL. Also this is 16 years old, be warned, clothing and prices are dated lol, it was trendy for us millennials.
Do you know her personally? Just wondering if it's true she's out of debt and married with 2 kids or if that's an assumption with the amount of time that has passed?
@@livturner5696 some people found her on Facebook, she seems a LOT happier with her family. Another girl on this show was quite overweight, but she lost it all + now seems to volunteer to homeless charities etc.. crazy how times have gone on + they’ve actually got their dreams !
@@rosiedollface ahh I see well it's good to hear they're doing well all these years on, I've been watching a few wondering what they would be up to now
@@livturner5696 She's married with 3 kids now and a business owner of what looks like a beauty salon so she has definitely turned her life around. No, I don't know her but I did a quick search on Google and Facebook and found her easily. 🙂
Success isn't defined by materialistic earthly pleasures
£6 on petrol and 'a couple of drinks' for £4?! Definitely not the England of today haha - not even at 'Spoons prices!
It's like 16 years ago.
They should have made her sell those items in the boutique to help pay towards her debt.
This bird is acting like a bird that collects shiny things
I know she's a spoiled brat, but i was genuinely rooting for her. I hoped she's grown out of this phase.
Me too! She seems like a nice gal. Hopefully she's got her shit together now.
She’s working as a MUA I guess ... found her on social media.
Adeles needed that Hello from the otherside.
Ever notice that they’re almost always receptionists or in admin?
It's cause they have no life skills and those jobs don't require many of those, I'm a receptionist, I should know
@@wombatperson5431 ipeople hear "admin" and think "secretary" or "receptionist"...this ain't the 1940's, admin can be so much and a legal secretary is NOT the same as a receptionist
True. Receptionists and Admins are very different.
Boring jobs that they just end up in.
She's not looking forward to them going through her finances ços it gives her a sick feeling. Does she have any sick feelings about her father working overtime to support her? I thought not.
A 23 year old who needs so much alcohol. Addicted to shopping and alcohol. Hope she gets her life on track indefinitely.
ok so sorry but 9 pairs of jeans is kind of average, even for working class people- you can purchase a pair of jeans at H&M and Primark for about 10/12 Eur- so of course her jeans are kind of designer jeans, but just the fact that she owns 10 pair of jeans is nothing that special, even back then in the 2000s where the documentary took place and especially when you are wearing them on a daily basis. So I can't buy the "she's a spoiled brat because she owns ten pairs of jeans" aspect of the story^^
it just seems a bit humiliating to me^^
Yes but cheap jeans aren’t well tailored they don’t fit properly the only jeans I buy are Ralph jeans among others because they fit so nicely they are over a hundred pounds for a pair
@@kellytrindles984 I got 5 pairs of Armani jeans for $2.50. Charity shops are the best, tbh I wouldn't spend your budget for a pair of Ralph's
I buy one pair of jeans every 4 years for £10. I personally don't need anymore.
Agreed. Tho I have 3 but I’m not 23. I had wayy more at 23
I can’t believe it-😮 the parents are enabling this learned haplessness.
At 20 i was paying my younger siblings fees in college, and paying for a house. This lady is so lucky.
You were so responsible and accountable at 20 years old.
This lady is not lucky she is just spoiled.
There is something much deeper in her that is making her unhappy.
Why dose she drink so much?
Ta Tan I hope you are doing well.
Kind regards Kate. 👱♀️☕☕
I bought my first 4 bedroom house for $85k when I was 20.
The parents need the counseling. Then the girl will figure it out.
Parents think she should be supporting herself. Parents support her bad habits 100%. Makes perfect sense.
It's insane to me hearing people only having to pay £60 in rent. I know it was worth more then than it is now, but that's still crazy.
Right!!! Here in Western Upstate NY you can't rent an apartment for less than twelve hundred dollars a month plus utilities. I pay over eight thousand a year just for all my house taxes.
Same in UK now and we pay huge taxes, 63 percent average tax now in UK, average rent in London 26k per year !! We're all being screwed across the developed world, quality of life has nosedived in the last two decades.@@beverlyt.5526
Parents complain, while they're the ones to blame 🤦🏾♀️
God...we lived through that horrific era. The clothes. The makeup. The EYEBROWS.
They look just like everyday people to me. Nothing stands out as being particularly dated.
My eyebrows are still recovering from years of 00s over plucking! 🤦♀️
@@scoooter78 well it looks 90’s...
Indeed!!! The eyebrows 😱😱😱😱
What eyebrows! LoL But now people have gigantic brows that make them look perpetually angry surprised.
Am I the only one who thinks she's depressed? It's not normal to be having a night with your friends and needing to have such a "thrill" everytime while everyone else is not drinking or barely drinking and she's getting plastered
I can't bear to be asking my parents for money. They've helped me a lot but always with me pushing back. I've also lived at home rent free while I was working, but oh my god, I was aware and extremely grateful. I saved as much as I could to pay for my Masters Degree. Seeing her in a similarly privileged and blessed position, but with such a drastically different attitude makes me squirm
I don’t want ask my parents for money ever they on a low income and I feel bad take or leading off them
I didn't realize that the drinking culture was so unhealthy in England - wow!
A bit like gun culture is so unhealthy in the states wow
It’s huge there. My daughter dated a boy whose family was from England. They drank all the time. My daughter tried to tell me it was a British thing. She ended up breaking up with him
It's not as bad as it used to be, only because people can't afford it anymore but unfortunately, it's been replaced somewhat with cheap recreational drugs.
Can we talk about how she went to a wedding in that corset tho
I like that corset
Why? I'd rather not. She can wear what she wants as can anyone.
@Robert Robrahn ha yup a sloppy mess but she think with her pretzel logic she's the last coke in the desert
@@notthedoctor8621 yeah it was really pretty to me I'd totally wear it.
Tacky as hell
Is she 3 instead of 23? What adult pouts because someone ate the potatoes she planned to eat and ignored her father's alternatives? The chance that there isn't anything else to eat is slim, but she sits and complains "but I'm hungry'. Yup....she's 3.
Living with family past your prime does stunt your growth . There is a price for everything .
Doesn't she realize the other family members have to eat too? 😆
@@celestialcircledance Any data for such a claim? Most families in the entire world live together, you know. But all the brown and black people have stunted growth, eh?
Well, her brother ate them and it reminds her of the time her parents cared more for her brother, because he needed more care. Yes, that let´s her go back to that age when that happened. Seems like that never got resolved. There is reasons why people have problems growing up.
And I have a hard time buying anything over five bucks
Im like that in op shops 😘😘😘
Isa Belle lol same here
Me too 😂
same here...I'm not poor anymore, but when something in my house breaks down (and only then) my first trip is to the thrift shop. Old habits never die...:-)
And here I am working and helping out so much that i can't afford to buy a new pair of jeans been wearing clothes that's over 10 years old and the only time I get money from my father is if I
borrow it and yes I do have to pay back.
Dad says he can't force her to stay in because she's 23. She lives at home for free; she can be grounded. They should phase her out into independence very quickly to undo the damage they have done. Luckily she's old now and seems to be doing quite well.
Old? Lol
Wait, her dad is working double shifts!? Her parents are enabling her, she’s an adult ffs
I agree. If her parents are wondering why she is like this, they need to take a look in the mirror.
OMG I’m in love with the psychologist😍 great episode btw
I have a one-in, one-out policy. When I buy anything, I give away some like object. I've given away tons of clothes, shoes, accessories, furniture, whatever through the years, but don't regret it. I find I only wear about 5% of my wardrobe, my favorites, and the other 95% just sits in my closet.
Me too. I use a capsule wardrobe. I might sound extra when I say this but I actually track most items in my wardrobe on an excel spreadsheet. I use pretty much all of my wardrobe and buy few but good investment pieces I absolutely love.
I have a tiny wardrobe and I hate clutter so that stops me from getting into debt for clothes. You only need like three or four outfits to always look nice
@@robynnekelson4361 If one buys quality, only a few outfits will do. I have such a problem with excess, I can't even buy but a few things at the grocery at a time, even though I have the money. I panic if my fridge or shelves get over-full. I'm constantly shuffling stuff around and culling if I can. I didn't use to be this way.
Parents needs a doctor or therapy not her...
Parents need to say no to Adele, and charge her rent.
Ironically, people who shop and flash the bling are said to lack confidence, putting on a show as a facade. I on the other hand lack self confidence and swing the other direction as if I don't deserve anything.
Why do the parents spend so much time arguing about it? Just say "no" and go on with your lives. Really, she needs to be living on her own and figuring all this stuff out in the real world.
Because she screams and no doubt sulks and they dont want hostile homelife. When they said they'd move to a war torn country it shows how they hate the temper tantrums.
As a super scrimper, these vids make me wanna go out and treat myself
You should live is too short. You’ll be dead before you know it
People don't judge her...we watch this program to learn something , not to be judgemental person... Nobody is better than the other... Everybody has their own story
I am always shocked and dismayed by all the cruel judgments on the comments on TH-cam. Thanks for your compassion!
@@smnewstead4093 ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Her problem is that she was never judged .Lack of judgement is killing her father .
Everyone is a special flower, hahaha fffffrrrfff
@@MrBobbo18 nasty
Don't people have any urge to do things? A hobby could easily fill her needs of doing stuff & feeling good. Only the boring get bored, life is full of things to do & learn, but you have to pursue it.
Hi nicholas...A big thumbs up to you for your perceptive comment...If I live to be 100, it still wouldn't be time enough for me do & learn all the things that greatly interest me...I'm a Senior citizen & *still* get excited over learning & doing new things...
Let's face it most people work all week go on holiday go out at weekends so arent interesting people
$50 pounds a week for rent?!? My first apartment was $1,000 a month for a 1 bed1 bath small place... not including utilities! and that was CHEAP! Her parents did her zero favors preparing her for the real world.
40:45 the dog though lol cute sounds!😆
She rules the roost!
I have been watching these minimalist shows. It’s great. It’s just stuff you don’t need. I would rather now use money for travel. I don’t need more stuff
Agree, money is better spent on experiences rather than "stuff"
Travel and experiences are not for everyone.
If she were my girl, she could live back home again temporarily. But, she should also pay for her share of utilities and debt back asap. Her parents are so nice and caring, and she abuses their kindness. The girl needs to be self confident instead. Her needs for new clothes, expensive makeup and alcohol to cover up her insecurity are proven just that.
The low rider Jean's, they should never come back
They are ok in you have the right body for them.
@@liztrainer895 Unfortunately, I mostly saw fat people in them.
40:45 Yeah, it sucks honey but unfortunately it's the way of life and apart of being an adult. No one wants to spend their hard earned cash on bills and food. They're necessities. Just the way it is.
Giving her money isn't showing "love".
She needs to get into reality, the parents are to blame for giving her everything. There is a word called NO.
What happens when she decides to have a family lol.
Maybe she doesn't want kids
Hopefully she marries a rich man
46:50 Your fault, Dad... You should've stood strong.
Be a man
I was maybe a bit older than the target audience for these BBC3 shows, but I liked them at the time and I think they've held up very well. Interesting that lots of people on here don't like Adele. I think she seems nice, and I'm rooting for her to sort her spending out. One thing with liking drinking, as she does, is that you end up buying a round every time you want another drink. If you can fix that, then it make it a lot easier.
Day one she seems so spoilt, my parents would never let me leave steak and waste food.
I couldnt wait to leave home and get my life started. I worked full time 40 hour weeks from 16.
Parents to blame, I would soon have her sorted out in about 10 minutes flat.
I enjoy watching these shows on this channel. Its interesting to see how people are different and where they spend their money. It does get boring when you dont spend money sometimes! But your life gets more exciting(financially) when you live a "boring" life. Shes like a teenager and I'm pretty glad she didnt blow her budget! This is fun and kinda educational to watch in case you or someone you know has this problem.
10:40 me shopping online in quarantine
It would be nice to see current updates.
I thoughts she was 17 and then they said she was 23!! Img she needs to grow up. Acts very precious. I think it’s because she doesn’t have a boyfriend so she is compensating with the shopping and feeling negative about the way she looks. She is stunning
She looks young and is whimsical. She’s a beauty
She thinks her $50 a month rent to her parents should cover her food 😆🤣
Well she has been brought up to be stupid and the parents don't try to correct that impression
Well, you never said "no" to your daughter so this is what you get.
Her dad caving doesn’t help - they have to stop paying her bills - cold Turkey. If she doesn’t like it MOVE OUT - her father is working longer hours to pay for her - it’s got to stop
This girl is afraid of vegetables! She can barely handle being in the farmer's market lol. I wonder if there are update videos floating around I would love to see how all of these people ended up.
At 23 I was a married mom of 2 with a mortgage… I have little sympathy for her or her parents that cave in. My teenagers have a weekly allowance for chores but they don’t get it if they skip out on their jobs. Each one has a night of cooking and planning a family meal. How will she ever take care of herself??
Most people put off marriage and kids now until there 30s your 20s is for enjoying yourself building a career your 30s are for settling down I didn't get married until I was 30 and still no kids even though I would love them
Mum and dad need the life - style coach, you reap what you sow.
It’s amazing you can still get a rental property under £200/w
23 year old grown woman acting like a spoiled 12 year old child.
Spoiled, yes, but 23 is not actually fully grown yet. Impulse control doesn't finish developing til after 25 and lots of other brain functions. But while kids finish the last bit of growing up, they need support to be independent and functional. The parents should have been phasing her into adulthood from the age of 16-18. But apparently she's all better now!
No painted clown eyebrows in 2005!
Wed 24 Oct 2007 first aired but no brows like that then either haha
We had really thin, overplucked, round arches 😂
No eyebrows period 😂
@@trude_in_adelaidewas filmed in 2005
I am from Azerbaijan, in my coutry the 60% of population live like that, I mean dad and mom pay for everything, and sometimes even dad may say to a son 'my son you do not need work for a low wage, your dad is not dead yet", so the child used to this situation, and then when son grows up and get married dad and mom support financialy even a daugher in law and grandchildren. I know so many family like this in Baku. I know even 50 y.o. son who takes for cigarettes every day money from 80 y.o. mom
And do they do when theur parents die?
Wow...
And so many there have so little
@@anna-mariam4510first they spend their savings, then they sell their apartment and put this money in the bank on a deposit and live with the interests
@@anna-mariam4510 they inherit money
Those low rise jeans stress me out
I feel like you can make them work depending on your body type. I have a short torso so high wasted pants make me look shorter.
Jeez. I know the currency value changed but £100 rent a month? I pay £1100!
i thought the daughter was the mum :/
Hahaha yeah they look exactly alike 😏
She's inherited her moms good looks but definitely doesn't look like the older version .
The Dad looks like Bernie Ecclestone. :)
But without Bernie Ecclestone's money, as he'd be the first to say to Adele.
How are the parents on so many of these episodes that tuned out? You are at work while your daughter is out at the clubs, so you can give her money, and wonder why she is as she is? *Facepalm*
I own the money , money doesn’t own me . I only buy when it’s necessary . Despite having a lot of clothes throughout my life, I have quality pieces . I started working at 18 and very seldom did I ask my dad for money . My parents taught me the real value of earned money . I live abroad but I plan to move to the UK and this teaches me a lesson how shallow society has become . I bet Adele has not read any book in the past ten years . She needs to be born again and evaluate what standards .
Who cares if she hasn’t read books. Not everyone enjoys that.
Adele is a beautiful and friendly girl, is tall, has a nice figure and pretty smile, reminds me of Emma Bunton from Spice Girls so she doesn’t have to be self conscious about her looks.
She needs find more meaning in her life that doesn’t come only from shopping. Finding a hobby or doing sport regularly. The idea of being a make up assistant sounds brilliant and I hope she will stick to it. All the best!
This literally blows my mind! I know the economy was different a few years ago but still! 23 and shes basically living for free, im 22 moved out at 18 and think ive had help with my rent once maybe twice and working from 15🙄
Are you saying everyone should lose all their money to bills at only 18? I respect your work ethic, but it's okay to get a boost up in life if you need it!
@@smnewstead4093 No not at all! Ive done plenty since I was 18. music festivals, partys/going out in town, day trips with friends and family, my mum has always been the first person to get treated at Christmas too. The point i was making was its blows my mind that people will use there parents as a financial crutch for so long. I understand in some cases it cant he helped but spending there money like its your own and not really caring, over the age of like 15 when you are starting to understand money and the world is crazy to me.
@@hannahspanna13 I agree with that sentiment. Most people are probably not as industrious as you are! But you get it; the most important thing in life is experiences and joy and love, not junk from the store.
Life ain't a race
@@smnewstead4093 but she isn't learning to budget and isn't saving. If she was saving whilst living at home, and helping her parents when needed then fine. Or...only living on her own money
Minimalism. Most women wear 10% of their wardrobe 90% of the time and 90% of their wardrobe 10% of the time, so I try to make that 10% that I wear the majority of what I have. I could fit my entire wardrobe in a few suitcases. Every few months, I go through my clothes and get rid of anything that’s too shabby, doesn’t fit, or that I haven’t worn in a year. If I need to replace something, I shop around, buy used, use coupons, and check for sales. At the end of the day, it’s clothes and I can look nice without spending too much or having an overflowing closet. If anyone is going to be judgmental because my wardrobe lacks diversity and designer labels, I’m better off without that negativity in my life.
I wonder if anybody has ever thought maybe Adele is an alcoholic. Now I understand she doesn't drink every day, but to be considered an alcoholic you don't have to drink every day. It's not just about her money spending habits, she has some unresolved issues she needs to deal with 🤷🏼♀️
She’s not an alcoholic she’s partying with friends she’s 23. We all did that
23 years old??🤔🤔 she look much older!!!
Drinking alchohol frequently does that
Still watching and waiting for this chick go wear a shirt that fits. Lol
I could have used this advice and guidance in my twenties.
She should buy some eyebrows 😏 I also lost mine in the early 2000s lol
Amyv lol
Bought my own wreck of a car in order to drive to work and school. Paid for health insurance and car insurance, my parents couldn’t pay for everything. Her parents should figure out how to say NO!
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its her parents who have brought her up to be spoiled, maybe if they changed their ways she would not of ended up this way, they know she is in serious debt but kee giving her money!!
Yeah
Keep giving it to her then shaming her for it and wondering why she doesn't seem to want more out of life? It's like they expected to be able to retire from parenting when their children entered young adulthood.
Absolutely parents fault for enabling this young lass.
I had a 2 year stint where I would buy and buy and went into my overdraft every single month. Never got as bad as maxing out credit cards but I had literally no money at the end of each month and owe the bank. I still like to window shop but the question "do I really need this?" 99% of the time stops me in my tracks nowadays