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- Story Summary ━ You noticed that your partner flinched earlier during an argument. You check in with them to apologize, and make sure they feel safe and loved.
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Written by @fallingstarasmr
📜 Full Script Title: [A4A] Your Partner Comforts You After You Flinch [Past Abuse] [Comfort] [L-bombs] [You deserve to feel safe]
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"I didn't want you feeling trapped in uncomfortable or unsafe situation" & "I wanted to make sure that you can walk away from this conversation" seriously got to me TwT
I grew up in a home where I was followed from room to room whenever I tried to get away from arguments and (physical) fights, doors being locked when I tried to leave the house, and was told I'm crazy whenever I started crying because I felt so helpless and desperate for not being able to get away and just lock myself in some room where I'll be alone and no one will be able to get to me.
This audio is literally the comfort I needed and never got. You have no idea how much it means to some of us out here. Thank you so much TwT ❤
I am glad you found comfort in this. Thank you for listening.
Бдаг укнцук
Man kinda same 😅
And the audio is gold, very comforting, 10/10
Can we PLEASE talk about how sweet and gentle he sounds when he calls you like "Darling or my love" That right there is so genuine I actually feel like he's talking to me in front of me to me and just comforting me it sounds so like normal like it's suppose to sound like that and it's just so comforting and smoothing honestly I have no idea how only a limited amount of people listen to you when you have such a soothing voice and all the videos you do aren't spicy or anything they're real things that happen between partners and it's so refreshing to see that.
A very accurate summary of the channel. Thank you for taking the time to listen.
When I saw the cover I thought he was gonna get mad at us for flinching and say something like "you think I'm gonna be just like your ex huh? " but when it was the opposite I genuinely started crying 10/10 💗
Bro smar
Same sorry
Same
Having the consideration to wait until Listener wasn't physically trapped in a moving vehicle and could exit the conversation if it was getting too much is a major green flag :)
Is anybody else crying from how sweet and comforting he is?😭💕
Yes
He is so cute and considerate😭
The fact that he didn't want to continue the conversation in the car so we didn't feel trap... The fact he noticed the flinch and was upset he did something wrong...
utc will always be a master piece at its finest his audios age like fine wine😨❤
That is very sweet, thank you
@@UTC_Audio ANYTIME!!!
I've been in that kind of relationship before. My ex was totally abus1ve to me but thankfully i'm not with him anymore. I was so scared when people reached their hands to me. Honestly, after listening to this audio it really made me feel better. 💗🌹
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That was the most civil argument I have ever heard… no yelling, no screaming, it was just a small bicker, and a valid one at that. Well done!
I love those small moments in life. The ones that happen every day, but do not see as much love in grand stories.
@@UTC_Audio Yeah, I like the little situations like this. The arguments aren't blown out of proportion.
UTC NEVER DISAPPOINTS US LETS GIVE HIM A ROUND OF APPLAUSE
The emotional maturity and support in this 💯
your voice has something that makes your videos so interesting to watch, like, your voice is sooooo beautiful :)
btw, I really loved the video 😚
Thanks 😅
How dare you have me crying my eyes out before work😭😭😭😭 cuz damn this is too nice 😭❤️
Thank you UTC for making this audio because I had another type of abuse . And I felt good to hear , I was supposed to be loved , cared for and cherished . ❤❤❤
I had that same situation when I was in high school when I was 16 my toxic mentally abusive ex boyfriend would crush me with such words I never want to hear he would call me useless, pathetic nobody etc but the worst one he called me in front of the school when we broke up he yelled out the c word (I can’t say it because I’m too uncomfortable to say it) when my friends heard everything they all went momma bear mode within 3 seconds I’m glad that I left him but sadly most of his behaviour stayed on me
I found a new crush for me and he is 10 times better than my ex
I'm so glad you found someone better, but also know that you are good enough, and someone else's opinion of you shouldn't matter.
Thank again
@@UTC_Audio thank you for kind words🥺❤️
The fact that you confronted her about her flinching literally warmed my heart my bf doesn’t even talk to me so I don’t even know if he’s ever ok or not😭😭✨
Does he know he is your boyfriend if you do not talk?
@@UTC_Audio yeah he knows every now and then he’ll remind me that he love me but that’s it
I wasn't really physically abused but I was mentally abused but this still helps
Ditto, I still flinch tho especially in arguments
Man I'm crying...I've been in a abusive relationship when I was 13. I can't stop crying...
The last one “or take advantage of you” really got to me that’s what people have to look out for.
I subscribed, these types of comfort audios are my favorite! Great job. Keep up the good work bro.❤
Thanks for the sub!
why do I enjoy watching things that remind me of my traumas
SAME BRO.... 😨😭
because u get comfort after
helps your brain process what happened! when shitty things happen our brain doesn't always process everything when it happens because it's in panic mode. reliving and remembering those shitty things gives us a chance to actually make sense of what happened without being in panic mode :>
Same here 😭
This made me cry i crave this kind of understanding. People dont always realize how much of a lasting effect abuse can have on a person both mentally and physically. ❤ thank u for this
I want a bf like this🤭😍💗
I’ve had a a toxic relationship before so this makes me want to cry.😭
Omg this fits my 2 abusive ex’s so much thank you for this ❤️
girly, you better get yourself a good, loving man or imma be mad
@@Veniceeeeeeee I second that, girlie you better get yo self a nice gentleman that’ll spoil ya because ya deserve it
I third that, you and I would hope all the people here deserve the top treatment and love ❤️
Thank y’all this really means a lot to me
"I love you more than anything else"
Oh to be loved like this 🥲
That sentence made me laugh because my ex used to say the same thing🤣🤣
Im not crying you are 😭😭😭😭
can't wait to watch the video, I literally just watched +10 videos of yours cuz I can't sleep🥴
Hopefully you got some sleep
@@UTC_Audio I slept well, thank u ☺️
When the tone raised at "and I'm not angry at you." I fliched at THIS moment
got this video in my recommendations and it was so good I wanted to subscribe but then I noticed I already did lol
😶…😨…😰…🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭 probably me during the whole vid
My brain: SHUT UP WERE GOING TO GET YELLED AT!
My heart: this is so sweet I can’t stop crying 😭 I love your vidssss!
Woah, this really hit me hard, through my younger years I was with this girl named brianna who was EXTREMELY abusive to me mentally and physically, she was a manipulative jerk who literally had me terrified of future relationships and this audio just cured me, ily bro 😭
This was so beautiful, oh my God i cried through out the audio 😭😭❤️🩹❤️🩹
I had trauma as a kid but realized as a person hitting your child is abuse so I thought it was "disabling your children" but Putting your 13-year-old female daughter in a room with a 67-year-old man isn't controlling your child(sorry I just wanted to tell you!)
Thank you for sharing.
Him: u can walk away from this conversation
Me:✌
Sir , This one better not be like my ex
ALSO THERE SHOULD BE A BRING TISSUES DISCLAIMER ON THIS ONE
Wow this made feel happy 😮
This happened to me once I came from an abusive relationship and my girlfriend saw me flinch when she yelled and she got really worried because she thought it was her fault (she didn’t know about my past relationship)
I think we all need a person like UTC in our life 😊 the heartwarming and heart field vid is my daily dose of happiness Ψ(≧ω≦)Ψ😊
i was searching for a good voice and ur the one 😍😍
Thank you very much!
Me struggling to hold back tears 😃
FIRST AND I WAS ON TIME
I SET A LOUD ASS ALARM
TO WATCH THIS.
I mean. I'm not complaining.
Oml I found this at the best time thank you I can finally sleep 😭😭
This is the video I went straight to as soon as I started crying💀
being such an observant and considerate partner is a major turn on.
Not the chicken express, Im trying to leave that State behind me. Lol (great video)
Nah this actually made me tear up
“I’m sorry you had to be so strong”
…
I want to cry sm but I physically can’t you don’t even understand how much this line means to me, as someone who struggles with parental issues, S/H and past S/A issues, and much more, this fucking hits.
The pic: *nom nom tie*
Me: does that tie taste nice?
I liked it matching the black and white background and when I think about teeth I always find myself biting something, like I'm testing that they are ok.
@@UTC_Audio im always chewing stuff so yh lol. Ill see if my tie tastes nice
Shit, he is a good guy.🥺
8 hours (っ˘̩╭╮˘̩)っ
It's all ready on my watch list (・∀・)
Why am I crying
Your voice is soothing 🥺🤍
Thank you very much.
@@UTC_Audio you're very much welcome 🤍
THIS WAS A 10/10 LOVED IT :))❤ also i literally blushed when you put my name on that list 😅
My tooth??😭
"CHICKEN EXPRESS"😭😭
this audio is good
I had childhood trauma. My parents always argued and they always treated me bad sometimes my mom or my dad would hit me sometimes when I tried to break them up. So I just stayed in my room listening to them yell at each other
I am sorry you had to go through that.
23 HOURS!!
I'll not let this pass. Not again 😤
ONE HOUR
The way he blamed himself first- 😭😭😭😭
İt was so good
Thing is…i was abused in my past life so thanks for making this video and you’re voice sounds EXACTLY like my boyfriends voice :)
"I'm sorry you had to be strong"
The fact that I’m actually missing teeth
Nah 7000 is crazy man
Forget ex try mom and dad lmaooo
omg this gets uploaded on my birthday,im a lucky girl 🤭
First 🏆 (also happy birthday)
Happy bday
@@FirstAwarder tyy!!
@@Kas.actss. tysm!!!!
@@326lover yw bestie
Bro was saying facts about the dentist
The start is so true. I had emergency (key word is emergency) dental surgery and my insurance didn't cover it because I had already "used up" my dental for the year. Ok sure let me just wait out on that, it's not like it was progressing and if i waited longer I could have lost my vision in an eye and need part of my whole skull replaced yup
I flinch easy so this is like 💞💞💞💞
I actually was in a relationship with a guy a few years ago and he did freaking break my ancle and said i should tell the doctor i fell...
Jesus! I hope you are in a safe place now.
I really want a boyfriend like you toki 😭😭😭
Toki is on a different, but equally awesome, channel
LESGO 🎉
DAIM THIS GUY SAW ME FLINCH WHEN MY TEACHER DOESN'T, WOWOOW DAIM MEN
Hi UTC. Can you make a dedicated audio comfort for a terminally ill mom care to me.
Base it around this story: This is the predicted year of mom could pass on; she has been discharged again from hospital, looking swollen for the second time and need assistant mobile nursing from me and other aunts. She is also a changed a person, by the fatigue, she only tells me calm down instead of thanking me with hugs for holding the fort for her and little sis. I get sad for not being strong enough to help her more that I had to call others and tolerating her stubborn behavior. I beg and pray for the mom that I know and remember from long ago, she wanted me to be happy and get me a normal life, here I am being it. I need a lean and cuddle from you and add on little dogs.
If this it too long, I will understand whether or not you could make it.
Sunday. Give me a week. I don't know if it will be comforting, but I'll try my best.
@@UTC_Audio Really, you can? This is really great, I'm really alone and in need of quality time comfort words. My request is based true events of today.
All occurring from liver, bloated digestion is trying to flush out for jaundice.
Bro is a walking green flag )that is a gods thing)
"...and we'll put on the office..."
...can we watch gravity falls?
I've been meaning to watch that series.
@@UTC_Audio Yeah, you should really watch it! It's great even tho Sometimes confusing and/or creepy!
Do men like this even exist? 😢
Wait what happened to my teeth 👁👄👁
It could be anything, but I think in this one it's implied an ex broke them.
This was amazing but chicken express threw me off guard.
Spicy Chicken express tenders are great.
@@UTC_Audio YES
Am I just stupid but what's chicken express💀
Chain Fast Food Fried chicken or Chicken Tenders in the south.
What did our ex do 🫢
Messed up your teeth.
😔😔
What's a flinch?
Ya know when there's a sudden movement and your body kinda tightens up like it thinks it will be hit? Thats a flinch.
@@UTC_Audio oh, thank u
You got $7,000 on hand??
With TH-cam this last year, I've essentially been working two jobs non stop. I've got a little chunk of change. Although I'd say finance through care credit, because debt is good to have during inflationary periods. The money you pay back is worth less than the money they paid at the start.
@@UTC_Audio I was so in shock hearing you say $7,000, but I suppose that makes sense. Two jobs tho? Ah, I hope you're taking care of yourself and remembering to hydrate!
Well, Im counting youtube as the other one. Putting so many hours into it each week is a choice I gladly make over and over.
@@UTC_Audio As long as your TH-cam career makes you happy, right?
Very much so.
th-cam.com/video/r66psaSOLvI/w-d-xo.html
I thought the script sounded oddly familiar!
Its a good script. I like to add stuff to my versions, but I do credit the author in the description.
I'm so happy to see scripts and content being shared like this!@@UTC_Audio lLso I think both of your takes on the script are really great!
I love this audio my teeth were mest up form my ex lol 🤣 can’t even with how real this feels
Exqueze me?!?!? 7,000 DOLLARS FOR A BRIDGE!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!??!?!!?😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀UR GETTING A SERIOUS RIPOFF MY GUY!!!
United Health wants crazy money when they deny an insurance claim.
@@UTC_Audio makes sense tho but still😭😭
This is getting posted on my sisters birthday🎂🎂
Slay happy late bday
I grew up in a very… angry household and can’t flinch from words but I’ve also never been able to walk away from the yelling cause then it’d just be worse so when he made sure listener could walk away it just comforted a part of me