Size 8 refuses to forgive (Dine With The Murayas Ep 8)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ส.ค. 2024
- Mo feels his wife is nagging by frequently calling and checking on Him. We find out that size 8's Lack of forgiveness leads to holding bile in the heart which leads to other issues in marriage. Thank you Pastor Simiyu and your wife for helping us in tackling our issues by the Grace of God.
Thank you all for watching ... am sure we all learning something... we love you
Wising you good tidings and blessings
This show is the bom
Still following from ep 1:aty divorce?alafu tutoe show kali hivi wapi?..nawapenda bure... Kudos
Tumelearn so many things
Work out your marriage guys. Its not easy but learn to understand each other.
Who else is watching from abroad? This is the best show so far 😍
I love them because they portray day to day life
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The Mrs simiyu is a kamba married to a luhyia and kambas are a resilient tribe.
Wapi likes za kaos women
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This reminds me when i was a newly wed ....hizi vitu aky must happen .....dj moh is copyright ya my hubby .....arrogant ...sema kupiga simu 50 him ignoring hadi i gave up i stopped calling n asking mbona ymechelewa ??? I stopped n started focousing on me ........thats my advice for newly weds focous on you .....do wat you love saa zingine ukipata kitu unapenda kufanya unakuta umeingia 7pm kwa nyumba ni kupika ni nini azin you have no time kufikiria negative things.........keep yourself busy doing what you love as a lady it really helps your marriage
😁😁exactly i went through this bt now i thank God
Very sad. i would rather be single ikifika hapo but vumulia. lakini taking care of yourself is important.
U just said newly Weds so lazima ifanyike
True
Men please note that when a woman is "nagging", that means she genuinely cares about you... the day she stops "nagging", be worried. be very worried!!!
True
100% true
💯💯 very true. She has already moved on in her mind if not physically.
I like that
Pure truth
Likes za size 8 leo hajaongea sana
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Hahaha true lol
Wisdom
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LINET you almost made me cry.aki may God keep you strong and sustain your marriage. DJ Moh.Mundu wa nyumba take it easy on this queen.Love you guys.always learning.
Wewe unasema almost made you cry. Me I have had tears running till the end. I guess I'm too emotional
Waah....i salute you Size 8 for sacrificing a sensitive matter like this one and putting it out here because i exactly know what you are going through. I was ready to give up on my marriage because one day naona nimeforgive but next day memories flood and torture me mpaka naona its not worth it but a voice inside me ikaniambia give yourself one more week before you go na Mungu amekutumia coz this video is what i was waiting for. My healing journey is the same i have a husband who is not giving up on us but mimi memories zinanisumbua i nag him a lot but he still does everything to help me in my healing journey . I will stay in my marriage and take Mr and Mrs Simuyu's advise. God above all.
I'm sure I'm not the only one who relates to what size 8 is feeling and saying.
Linet!
This one your calm character has won my heart 💓, humble , you're even owning your mistake, and the respect you've given to the old couple 💪 bravo ...
Aki am going through the same same problem in my marriage.. It felt like we were the one on the show with my hubby..thanks Murayas we also learnt
Aki I remember the 1st year of marriage I used to write my husband's mistakes in my diary, then when we argue I revisit it and the pain starts afresh and I got more bitter and pushed myself away until I found peace & learned how to forgive & love again through the word of God🙏.I burned the diary & deleted the phone diary too and I told him that am ready to forget everything & start afresh.😢That's how my marriage was saved & healed 🙏.In all trust in God.
You don't have to write a diary you should solve your issues daily to avoid pealing grudges
Aisee Mimi sijakua kwa marriage Ila nilikuua naona makosa ya mtu but nimejifunza kubadilika,
Woooi sorry dear, it happens,,, na ni kidonda ndugu , never to heal the best is to pray when you feel strong just try to remember good things ,, forgiving is not easy but when you think positively ,,, better
Tell them
Untill today I write his mistakes and I always review them
They sacrificed there privacy but this are the things that go on in marriages and relationships. God bless your marriage
I don't think they are going through all those issues,they are representing marital issues most couples go through
@@susannjuguna67 thats a great move though especially na ii episode ya mwisho
Manze leo si nipate hata 10.likes🥰
Who is here after Celebrity first encounters ep 11 after size 8 saved Hapa kule news♥️♥️ mob love Linet
Na huyu bibi ya pastor simiyu ni msupu sana.
Yeah ako baby face
Yes indeed⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘
@@b008gia_anna3 kwa hivyo umejua.
Saaaaaaaaaaana
haki sry i was mistaken
I learn so much through this show,it really prepares me for marriage
me too
Same here
I love Mrs pastor.... She is a good listener
Am not yet married but i really learn from you guys...the Lord increase you😊
I am 25 years old, I lost my family as a toddler and i realized i have issues with attaching myself too much on any man i date. always been the clingy girlfriend and it never ends well..sometimes, all i need is to feel appreciated and held, i do not mean to be nagging or clingy..I just hope someone i deeply love does not leave me.. it may not make sense to you, but believe me, if you are dating someone who has no family, you are their rock and their joy.Dont hurt us, if you dont see a future, let go respectfully.God is our shield❤️❤️❤️
Sorry pia ni vizuri ufungulie ur love roho yako coz for example ukikasirika or react differently and he doesn't know ur background u will feel not appreciated... GOD ABOVE ALL
@@maggymaggy9825 thankyou❤️
@pule j thankyou❤️
I used to be clingy and possessive like you, after I encountered the Holy Spirit my life changed. I feel perfectly loved and peaceful.The healing journey wasn’t easy but I was patient and trusted God fully,God did His part. You need to seek God for the perfect and unconditional love of the Holy Spirit and your life will never be the same again. Jesus cares for you, He is the only one who can understand and love you the way you hope people would
i feel you...you need to work on yourself abit ..time isnt enough..you need to put in some work
Love Size 8's humility and determination to work on herself...so nice to hear Dj Mo at the end acknowledging his past failures and expressing that he'll support her through the ups and downs.May God heal your scars and continue blessing your family.
I feel so deep for size 8 ,mo should change immediately,when the nagging stops be very very afraid
So true umeongea ka ten elders. Ladies wakiinua mikono reverse gear inakuwanga imeng'olewa.
So true umeongea ka ten elders. Ladies wakiinua mikono reverse gear inakuwanga imeng'olewa.
I agree 💯💯
So true
Soo true
When we stop nagging that means we av given up
Best reality show in Kenya so Far 💕💕Be blessed the Murayas
Mrs simuyu Sasa apewe spot ya bi mswafari ule was citizen.... she's amazing 💕 best episode 😍
Kabisa anastahili kupewa nafasi
Yes that sounds awesome
Bi mswafari hu support men pekee, eeeh ladies do this do that for your men, aah
@@nancywambui3984 aki very true ...its like men are gods na sisi ni wahudumu😂🚮
Kabisa
Linet anapenda Mo ukweli... She's just a wife and a mom fighting for her family
Very true
Love the mama... she even helped in cooking the sukumas 👏 and she exudes calmness, maturity and wisdom 👌
Yes mama paster kudos!
She's good in advising. I know her personally
These are surely real marriage issues affecting couples.
I'm glad i can learn in this platform.
Love you guys.
I feel you size 8 when you say you don't have the word Divorce in your marriage.
Surely God will sustain you guys.
Salute!❤️❤️
Moh, when a woman stop nagging, that’s when you should be worried. When she stops nagging, then she’s done ohhhhh!
Very True
Absolutely!
Support you fully! Love my wife for that.
So damn true
Absolutely 💯
Some men do not understand women. Make your woman feel confident in you. Eliminate all doubts and you will help her remove her insecurities and doubt in you... You should see a man loved by a woman he glows with another kind of glow
Wow this is really important. Forgiving will make marriage work
Quite true
Hapa umenena kabisa
Who is a fan of the Muraya's "don't lie
BTW read my name
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Me a fan for life
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DJ Mo be humble, wewe ni kichwa ngumu . My observation over the episodes.
yeah ukweli
It's acting...ako job
It's acting and educative too
Size eight should also be calm atachunga mwanaume kweli
This is acting my friend 😂😂
Size 8 you always do me!!! A true version of me😂😂😂hadi my hubby huniuliza kama sisi westerners ndio hu behave hivyo
We the westerners talk to much😂😂😂
@@ronaldmasinde9948 we don't talk much but we don't tolerate nonsense
Aliye na sikio na asikie, this show has alot of teachings to learn.
I love how size puts a guilty face to show how she is feeling ashamed of her mistake.....mstakiwa anayekubali😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 did someone note it😂
Kukiharibika lazma tukunje mkia
For sure marriage is a clear sacrifice,trust and true love...
Inakuaga wen
Yes I noted
Insecurities ndio shida but just talk it out with him..plus what both of you should understand is that there will be bad days and good days and the person u met day one will not be that person all the time...things change but with prayer and endurance you two can fight all these problems! #loveforthemurayas❤
Best show ever,i really loved this am also like size 8 holding on to the past mistakes especially to my husband but now i have learnt
From my experience, I have learnt that:
1. In some cases, forgiveness is a daily decision. Msamaha wa jana haukusaidii leo. You have to decide to forgive again today. You do this until the burden is lifted and you heal completely.
2. It is also important to understand your triggers. What is it the reminds you of the offense and brings back the pain. When you figure it out you can then share with your spouse and find a way to avoid them or manage the situation when triggered.
3. Avoid reinjury. When the same offense is repeated it worsens the pain and deepens the wound.
4. Learn when and how to communicate to your spouse in an effective way. Express your needs and help them understand where you're coming from without having an accusatory tone. Don't assume that they should know. Only the wearer of the shoe knows where it pinches.
5. Relinquish control. You can never change or control a person. Trying to micromanage and over investigate is only a disservice to self. It burdens you and takes so much energy. You will live in constant fear, worry and anxiety. Just surrender the issue to God and let Him fight your battle. It is very freeing and liberating when you do. Even when you're not able to trust your spouse, you can still trust God and find peace and rest in him.
6. Focus on yourself. In stead on trying to control what you have no control over, why not focus on what you do have control over, yourself. Practice self care, self evaluate and seek to improve yourself, pursue your life goals and invest in healthy nurturing friendships. You are responsible for your own happiness and healing. You can't delegate that to your spouse. It will become burdensome. As you do that, you will see change even on your spouse.
7. An attitude of gratitude. When you learn to look out for the small things, be grateful for them, and appreciate your spouse. It motivates them to be better.
Maureen Eston come here
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Wisdom detected.
True
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This is not only happening in marriage ata kwa relationships😊 This was inspirational size 8 i loved how you calmed down this is amaizing your resolutions are on point👌
She was too cool na DJ mo uko na bibi kindly pls try solve all those things
Aki ilove this couple of late Dj and size 8 huwa amuleti dine with the murayas and the way like watching your story it teach alot
😭😭😭I understand how it feels
Insecurity almost costed my marriage
Lovely couple and blessed family
Haki the muraya wanatakiwa wawe kama Diana hata siku moja wawe wanatusalimia kwa comment,,kama unakubaliana nami nipe likes twende pamoja
Aky walai Dee huwa n tym ya mafans wake
@@salomemungai4897 na enjoy sana yan D yuko powa sana natamani na hawa wafanye kama D na watutambue mafans wao
Hey hey hey
@@themurayas. hello fav couple,,,i wish u a long-lasting marriage of happiness,,,,,,
Dnkz the Muraya's u help alot,pole azin tunadai mnapitia kwa comments muone atleast we love u guyz n pia mnatuhelp much 😘😘😘
...take it easy size 8, I know the feeling...forgive and don't keep reminding him...and you are very talented young woman, focus on things you want to achieve. instead of keeping records of many wrongs, write down your ...to do list, with target dates, put your energy to achieving your goals...when MO is not around...let him be. Instead of going to the phone, go to the
Throne, literally calling JESUS, help me, help me now...those moments you feel hyped by thoughts.
This was me last year...bt i thank God i no longer have insecurities ..infact i dont even call to ask where he is...n yy siku izi huwa anankol...its all started by Keeping myself busy all day, doing whatever makes me happy, making new friends who are genuine & slightly older than me..sah nko sawa
If this is not stage managed, it is the best show ever!! Kudos guys ❤️💙
This channel was recommended to me by my mom watching all the way from Hamburg Germany
What you guys are going through is perfectly normal in all young couples. Both of you are still transitioning from single life to married life. D J Mo is yet to fully appreciate the fact that he is no longer the ‘young Kijana chipukizi ‘who’s been used to mingling with mabeshties all the time and is now a married man and a father of two. He’s still finding it difficult to let go of his youthful life and rightfully so because he is still young but it is a high time that he starts to appreciate that he cannot continue to spend a lot of unnecessary time with those mabeshties and cut down significantly the time he spends with them. He may end up messing up his own marriage for the sake of those who undesirables. Put it simply, if Lynette starts conducting herself in the same manner of wanting to spend time unnecessarily with mabeshties, DJ Mo won’t have a home to come back to. DJ Mo, you must consciously start to transition from life ya ma- youth to settling down. Be home early whenever possible, spend more if not most of your free time with family and the nagging and insecurity will significantly stop. On your part Lynette, just go on auto-pilot, stop nagging him and allow him space to transition because men take a little longer than women to settle down after marriage. Never entertain the thought of spying on him unless there is a very very credible reason to do so otherwise such a tendency of kumshuku may easily be translated as hostility towards him especially if done repeatedly and can easily result into him literally doing the unthinkable. Lastly my brother DJ Mo, purposely start reducing the time you spend with those mabeshties and instead divert it to your kids and wife and you’ll see how much joy and confidence it will bring to them. You are a wonderful couple and we pray for your family life that God will protect you all and keep you in His Will at all times.
Douglas wamburu DJ mo anafaa kusoma hii
Good advice
Very wise words!
I think the murayas are representing issues that affect marriages not really about theirs and so far 🤝🤝
Wise words ! Mo should read this
Friends can destroy ur marriage to by controlling ur husband or wife and the key to this pls don’t listen to ur friend issues are solved with just two of u.. sec forgiveness is good but to say the truth sometimes is hard to forgive kwanza if u remember what he/she did to u but always forgive to able to save ur marriage... such a great show to the Muraya’s baraka men n thanks kabisa we learn from this show everyday...to Mr $ Mrs Simuyu thanks so much for explaining to us how to do thing when things are not well baraka...
Moo"next time see your father in law out instead of size 8.trust ME.more 💖 frm 🇹🇿
Very Empowering Episode. Before i forget,Thank You Linet for saving a life #WAKUREGENZI Hoiyeeee!!!
Hoyee mkurugenzi😂😂
Size8 itabidi urelax kidogo na hizi maphone call🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣let him breath as long as he comes back home at the end of the day!!what can I say men will always be men.
this is a show bt i can confidently say that there's some reality considering how Lynette was expressing everything.the calmness in her leo was lit...thnks guys am learning alot...i get to see most of my challanges here.God bless this fam
I've been following all your Episodes and trust me,,,you are helping and healing Alot of marriages. God keep you always.love you guys
Loving the show Muraya’s. Bring younger couples too you can learn from them too.
I love the way mrs simiyu is talking. And listening.
Av found myself shedding tears after watching this, may God restore peace in murayas House
Muraya Dear, be kind to your wife... Just assure her she's your only queen... sometimes we need affirmation... l stand with Linet. Nowonder Linet anazeeka... Divorce is not the solution... uuuuuuiiii
Hapo kwa kuzeeka,ckubaliani na we we.She has just gain weight and it's understandable coz of the delivery. Am sure after taking care of junior at a work out on the weight.She is still beautiful and has always been.
@@elizabethmrata8460 Well Dear, The bottom line is that we wish her well in her marriage, May her marriage prosper in all things even as her soul prospers... Isaiah 26:3
This is a very good lesson taught by mature couple. Both Lynette and Muraya were calm. Maturity enters the scene, drama ends. God is on the throne. Keep praying and trusting Him. Muraya spend more time with your babies. Its valuable investment. God bless you and thanks for keeping it real.
This is the realest couple I know,keep up the good work,we are encouraged
That man is too proud to have a lady so humble like size 8.my friend the moment she will stop nagging jxt knw she has found love smwhere else.even cardi.b got tired of fighting and moved on.
We ladies we're talented to forgive but when it comes to forgetting,we don't!!! And then , Saitan huwa na moments yeye huja na shosho yake, wajukuu wote,hata na majirani kukumbusha vyenye kulifanyika 2yrs ago😂😂😂😂
Haki I know
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Mungu nifunze kunyamaza
Niukweli its easy to forgive n kusahau nistori ingine
apo sasa au ata 3 years ago
Hahaha so true
I am not married....just 21 .But it ain't hard to tell that Size 8 doesn't want to lose her husband and really loves him .But Dj Mo should also call his wife at times and tell her "babe nitachelewa"
One thing am sure, When size 8 stops calling her husband too much or completely. DJ moh will be the one complaining kwanini hapigiwi simu. When your woman calls you all the time thats love. And when she stops you'll most def feel the impact. May God intervene
Very true. Hubby ndio ataanza kukol / nag wife
Very true
Me now...
Mama wambo uko smart sana en that make up is 😍😍😍
You guys are extraordinary manze you really help us who are almost having families 😊😂😂😂😂😂Buda nowadays napeleka kambaibe na mutaratara😂😂😂
Wow this is amazing i pray that God gives me that grace of forgiveness in my marriage
Watching from +966 am always your number one fan uuuuuuuwiiiiiiiii likes za size8
Real talk. Good job Murayas. You are bold enough to do what most of us are unable to do. Kwanza in public. Mnatusaidia sana.
Thanks sana the murayas Kwa hii episode it was just today my husband was blaming me why am I stubborn I was dwelling Kwa vitu za past nashindwa kumwambia na he confessed it is true but am trying to forget thanks for this video imenisaidia sana
Wau am soo happy linet amekua mpole thought I have missed her laughing loud
Waooo the show is getting into a higher level i have to say size 8 today she was listening to the husband and getting his point then i like the way she was cool without interrupting keep up guys
🤣🤣🤣🤣ladies it's very hard for us to forget... That's the problem with us for real it's better to let it go the past....
True
It's not that easy but God can add more Grace for that
The best show so far😍😍
Size 8 you so real💯
DJ Mo haki size 8 has given way too much, I know uv tried but pls be light don't wear down this mama. Any man would do anything to v such a prayerful virtuous woman. Pls dj mo haki feel like crying 4 size 8. Study ur woman ,when in really wahala trust u me only ur wife can stand the time but friends wl hold on a little &desert u. Hivi ndio Wazee huachwa solo wakizeeka. Women experience words, they code hurting experiences its inborn,emotions in women is God that gave. If u forget all remember to bring a queen in size 8 &U'll b king forever,I mean attention, listening. Haki Muraya u got a dark black berry don't let the sweetness slip away trust u me size 8 is awesome. Don't compare ur r/shp just do u.Also marriage has 4 phases,if u want honeymoon all the time,adrenaline will kill ur heart. Ecclesiastes 9 there's time for everything but in God u'll conquer all . Pia every child when born cries,meaning u got to make ur happiness as no one promised u an easy life,life haina manual.Also one's joy more so is tied up in ur destiny which ur destiny helper ur spouse comes in.Kupanda,kupalilia ni kugumu ila mavuno matamu sana.Hold on guys. hizo BAGGAGE pelekeni kwa lungs exhale life is too short to remain mad. Visit elishagoodman materials.
Aki moooh akuangi serious something’s Linet you are an inspiration to so many young ladies out there a May God bless your union
Big up the murayas watching from Bahrain watu wa gulf piga like tukisonga if u learn something today episode even though some of us are single but we are learning something for our future marriage
Thanks size 8 and dj moh you are real and this is what makes this special. The pastor's wife is so beautiful and full of wisdom, pastor also God bless you for the advice. Mr and Mrs Simuyu the best advisors. Baba Linet a man full of wisdom, he brought the guests and left hakutaka kukaa hapo, coz angetetea mtoto wake, he is a good father. I also call my dad fathe, am from eastlands k.south civo.
Shida ni pale upate mtu akikosea hataki kuambiwa yet yy ndiye amekosea au ukijaribu tu umuulize hio swali dj mo ameulizwa na wife wake answer itakufuata utawish heri hungeuliza ungenyamazia tu "ehh sikupendi na hii relationship imenichosha toka uende🤔" how would you solve that hii kama sio depression sijui nn itakumaliza kwa hio rlship/marriage some men are ruuuuuuuude and they can cause emotional abuse.
I appreciate this channel aloooot. I am newly married and tumekuwa tukiexperience the same things u guys go through and for a while I have been thinking I made a wrong mistake marrying her. I thought we ain't compatible because of these small issues that kept on coming up. But watching you guys made know am not the only one going through that but you guys mmenipea hope sana and divorcing thoughts zimeisha. Thanks so much for izo tips.
My only prayer for this family let this show continue growing mo and size 8 keep going and never give up i have learnt alot sana even though I am not married yet
Aki I thought I was top 10 but wpi it's not too late am top 20 I love this couple from the bottom of my heart 💞💞💞💞
Woow today's lesson was really awesome .....thanks the Murray's. May God bless your marriage 😇 ladies we should focus on forgiving, letting go and trust our men
Ukimaliza kuwatch hapa enda top up na TDjakes sermon "let go" ...great show .
It's lit 🔥🔥 watching from Sharjah UAE
You guys are such a blessing to all couples ....thumbs up
In African Culture ukiona in-law involved in a Domestic dispute u know this is Serious...God Keep This Marriage
When size 8 finally laughed in the end.... ❤️❤️💯
I like the part mama wambu says’ aliforgive lakini venye hio kitu hurudi kwa Riho hata yeye hajui. 😅I love her honesty. Dj Mo penda huyu mrembo Na pls try to listen to her when she ask for it. Remember whoever finds a wife ( not mabeshte)finds a good thing. Kip up the good work guys 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾
Size 8 huita budake "fathe" hehehe
😂😂😂
Me too
When young we used to call him Baba, but now Fathee takes the day ❤ 👨
Do this men even care what causes the nagging? It's them who triggers it. We do not just wake up and start nagging. Nice show though
May God bless you size 8
A happy marriage is a happy family..I love the reconciliation at the end..moo never think of divorcing your beautiful wife..Linet really loves you and you love her that's why you can't wait to find solutions that will make your marriage stand..you're a role model to many of us out here..God bless this marriage in Jesus name
l love the maturity in this character...just wow.
I love this couple❤️👌
if only my husband is still alive 😭😭
Next time Call Dr Jacob Kinyanjui.
He is in U.S.A
@@jerameelkevins2555 He is just a phone call or video call a way KEVINS.
Dr. Jacob Kinyanjui is blessed, gifted and extremely professional.
I love this couple because it's real,your teachings keeps me going
mume heal marriage yangu after watching this. God bless the Murayas
Looking beautiful as always size8..
I'm no marriage expert but I hope this lovely couple does not break up.
If a man does something to breach a woman's trust and doesn't even know how to tell it out to the spouse,it creates a big insecurity in the woman.Not until it's talked about,that relationship is bound to have issues back to back.
Dj Moh try and understand that your wife needs affirmations and assurances that she is your queen.
In my marriage ,I believe in open communication and it has really helped alot.
This power couple that's here to advise you is amazing.May God open your eyes and enable you to sort your issues.Marriage ain't for the faint hearted.♥️lotsa love😘
Murayas u really help many pple..... Those are the things that go on in marriages.... May God bless ur marriage and take it to the highest level
Aiih Dj Mo for all the episodes I've seen so far anakaa so unconcerned, hardheaded, arrogant na hana ile discipline a family man anafaa kuwa nayo.
Especially arrogant... and with a temper. He seems to be a don't care too.
Bado anajiona yeye ni kijana
Ati meno????
That mamaa is so cute wallah
Kama wee ni dem unasema hivo na mimi chali ntasema aje?? For real she is beautiful
Kamba genes
She looks familiar
I think size 8 is insecure becoz Dj Mo cheated on her once..so she doesn't trust him fully.
Omg you saw right through that too? I think so too...there's more than meets the eye. She's hesitant to say it...but the undertone is there.
Byteway the you find mistrust once it us very hard to regain that trust again ,Me naelewa size 8
@@ningningshah1905 to make it worse, mo has cheated again
Ooh maybe
It's evident Lynn loves Moh than he loves her .