Watch how Family tradition ended a beautiful marriage
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- Watch how Family tradition ended a beautiful marriage
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My sister the discrimination is rather coming from your boyfriend's people so please take it easy with your daddy. Very painful.
My dear sister, take it easy with your good father, it is not his fault. Respect him a child
There is no way out girl humble yourself the marriage will not happen. The boy family will permit. I am they have already done spiritual cleansing of their son as he has committed an abomination.
When will they abolish this tradition.Is really painful.You can't do anything.Look for someone else.In my place he will never marry you or he will be excommunicated from the community and family members...😮😮😮😮😮😮.His love is not that strong for the battle ahead.
@@aniekwennenna6183Other tribes can change things, yes, but Igbos, no way. When they tell you “no”, even if it kills them, they will still stand by that “no”. I don’t know any other tribe that trumps Igbos when it comes to being impossible. I am open to learning new things but for now, that is my experience from having been intricately close to them for the past 38 years.
All men are equal in the sight of God. Guyana 🇬🇾 South America in the house
What I can't or don't understand is why didn't she talk to her Dad privately first before coming out publicly. This is strictly private family matter. The father loves his daughter dearly and trying to protect her.
No speaking up like this can generate a call for something to be done for the affected tribes . I think the younger generation should be speaking up now
She still would get married to a very good person from another tribe of the country.
You will not leave your boyfriend but your boyfriend will leave you because he has gone to do his findings. So use your head girl and make yourself happy because there's nothing anyone can do about it not even your poor father.
why so much traditions in African cultures that don't make sense... we as human beings are all one... traditions are made by MAN, and can be abolished by MAN... it's just that you'll don't WANT to abolished them...are men GOD??? Smh
It's not easy to abandon your people but if your people and the land are the source of your suffering and unhappiness, then you will need to choose between accepting suffering or rejecting suffering and accepting to leave you land and people to look for happiness, love and belonging! Move anywhere in the world, you find people ready to accept you.
No way. You may deceive yourself for some time but it will catch up with you either with your children or your grandchildren. It is when they start asking questions that the reality comes back to bite you in the backside.
This man was on Zita find love show the other day very calm ❤❤❤
I'm also here confused he said he only has a 16yr old daughter how comes he has a mature daughter even ready for marriage
And said his daughter is 16😅 I didn't believe him then ...I saw him as not being genuine in his answers...now look at this
This is what he was trying to avoid. So you people should leave the man alone.
You are right. I recognize him ❤
I watch that too
If both of them like and love each other they can marry that's all.
You’re right but as far as their families are concerned, especially the man’s family, their children’s children will always be treated as Osu.
Hmmmm my brother it's a lie if the boy friend try it he himself will be isolated with his kinsmen and at the same time his offsprings will automatically become an outcast too
The osu cast system was abolished in Igbo land since about six years ago but some wicked communities with uncivilized leaders especially in Imo and Abia states don't want to alıgn with other Igbo towns during the ceremony in which tha abolition took place. Most of them claim to be Christians but yet don't see their fellow human beings like themselves. The ceremony actually took place in Agukwu - Nri in Anambra state.
Ibos are mainly Christians. This law is very contrary to the tenners of Christianity.
My brother that's what I said, is only wicked people that are still holding on on so called osu or outcast of a thing, because as for been a Christian I don't believe things like that exist in my life. I have said my own mind and my believe
But their primitive tradition allows them to marry a hillbilly white girl from the primitive mountains of West Virginia but not to a beautiful queen like this lady and trust me this primitivity is still very rampant in Anambra state and the rest of the Igbo land for real🙄
Abolished in the 70s..
All these “abolition” that are being mentioned here are simply wishful thinking. Ceremony or no ceremony, as long as some part of Igboland still hold on to the tradition, then it is still alive and kicking. It’s not easy to get Igbos to let go. It’s not what they tell you, it’s what they do in practice that matters.
Love the man ..his talk..his humbleness❤
This girl your father is so sweet and it is not his fault. Your father is right because the tradition have not been abolished and i pray it will be abolished😢. Carlos there is no way oooo, it all depends on the man and most men tend to listen to there parents.
Ihe gbasara osu a Mazi Nnamdi Kanu the leader of BIAFRA NATION said on one of his broadcast that when #BIAFRA comes nobody should refer as osu anymore if we heard it from any bodies mouth that person will go to jail.
This is the reason I’m praying for Nigeria government to release him from dungeon. He’s the only leader who can deliver his people from bondage.
Because he knows the games of the Cabals another way to divide and conquer from one deception to another 😢😢😢
@@titiayo1509 Exactly! The enemies of #BIAFRANS has created a lots of enmity between ourselves. The coming of #BIAFRA NATION will break those chains. It's will happen sooner than we expected.
@@chinedukanebi9332 The GOD in heaven who sent him to take us out of this bondage, evil called Nigeria 'll set him free in no distance time.
Carlo, this is a tough matter. I am not Igbo, but when it comes to tradition, the Igbos can be impossible even if they are Christians. My sympathy is with the girl. Six years in a woman's life is not six days or six months. The error from the Dad is his failure to tell his daughter much earlier when she started experiencing inexplicable disappointments from men. My suggestion:
1. If the boyfriend's family are willing to cooperate, they could both go for traditional cleansing. Thereafter
2. Meet a gifted man of God to conduct deliverance on the boy and the girl. This must be after they must have genuinely surrendered their lives to Christ. Studying the Bible shows that the Jews had their tradition which the followed to the letter. However, Jesus Christ came to fulfill the law, and all traditions that go against believers' ability to worship God directly through Jesus Christ were abolished. Personal relationship with God is the key, one crucial factor why this matter appears tough.
Christianity brings everyone together regardless
When u are a Christian u belong to a unique community
We are equal in the body of christ
@@nnamanikenneth2018Keep telling yourself those lies. It is when you need to do something important that the truth hits you in the face. Even your pastor will chicken out. Nor be Naija?!
Why is the daughter ranting? The man's family rejected her not the order way round. The girl cannot force herself on them. I am not an Igbo but I would not allow my children to marry an Osu, although my wife from Igbo. My wife would not allow that to happen, we have told my children already.
Yes ooo, I thought I recognized that man with the lady who owns a restaurant but I thought the daughter was younger.
Same here, I think he is the man who wanted to give his daughter out to one old rich man who opened a shop for them and the lady didn't agree with them and informed @Chiamaka Ugoo and she sent her to her house.
No it's not a same man
Yes this man was in Zitachy show that I watched yesterday that was looking for a wife and said he has a daughter that's 16yrs old. All these content creators are just confusing us.
@@philominastackhouse1256 ok
Hi Carlo, you doing a wonderful job, I feel so sad for this family, I pray that God Almighty restore this beautiful family and I recall seeing the gentleman on Zita's show, what a gentle soul, please Carlo help this family 😢all I can say is God Almighty Bless You All🇿🇦 Soweto Orlando East
There is nothing like osu or outcast in a good relationship, government has legalized things like that. Chinwe take them to court it doesn't exist anymore
In ur village .in Imo state they ve Osu
Dey play na.. 😂
Is nobody's fault! The only solution is from the guy. If the guy is bold enough, let him go ahead to marry the girl. One of my brother marry one of them though we were not in support but the guy made his decision. I, for one, is nothing, but I can't marry from there. The only solution is BIAFRA, which I know with strong legislation, we will abolish it
Don't say what you don't no
Some people just open their mouths waaaah and talk nonsense. Do you think that the government is powerful enough to dictate traditions? Maybe in your village but not mine. Take who to court?
These people don’t realise that the girl’s father is not the problem. He is not the one refusing to give the girl away. The problem comes from Igbo tradition and a lot of people are under that curse. No non-Osu clan will ever agree for their boys to marry the girl. They don’t even do as much as talk about it. To them, it is an abomination to even deliberate on Osu matters. Her family must have done something terrible in the distant past to make the entire lineage Osu. The father is obviously not willing to share that information. He had suffered for it all his life and now, it’s his daughter’s turn to continue the suffering. She’ll have to marry a non-Igbo guy. That’s the only solution.
Is not in all Igbo land, my side in Igbo land don't do anything like Osù or what ever.
@@owens8356hahahaha! You better not live in darkness. Go back home and do some serious digging for yourself just be reassured. Families have a way of hiding this shame from their children until they have something important to do and then, boom! it hits them in the face-just like this lady here. So don’t just simply deny it in hope that all is well. It’s an Igbo thing 💯% - like it or not. Every tribe has their own creepy secrets, trust me.
Come to Ika land in the delta to marry. We don't know that rubbish called outcast.
Igbo land needs to change and institute a law mandating everyone to marry from there or the entire family of the defaulters go 20yrs in prison for discriminating on a fellow human being.
@@saynotoforeignreligion1815Keep talking rubbish. Discriminating on fellow human being… Na Queen’s English you dey talk. That wan nor be the real thing. Go Igboland go dey speak na. Mtchewwww.
@@Kantz1 I've asked her to come to Ika land to find love...
All of you claim to be Ndi Jesus, yet harbours ev!l.
CARLO PIKIN , my people no dey marry an out cast , Christianity no dey cure it oooooooooh, nothing to talk about oooooooooh, she knew who she was she hid it from the guy, whether im attacked by people or not , it is our custom and tradition.
She did not know. Did you not hear her father say he sent her abroad so she wouldn't have to deal with that. People can not say they are Christian and still hold onto man made tradition. God is not tradition. He loves all and saves all.
Gbam!
This nonsense has to stop, so many people has been suffering the same thing, our people have to find a way to put an end to this outcast of a thing.
I think something like "General Igbo Tradition cleansing ceremony for the affected tribes" can be done so every Igbo race becomes inclusive!
I remember my story, because of that I was forced to leave my childhood wife
The core reason for findings in marriage in Igbo land is to know whether you are OSU or Ume on both sides. No exceptions here. No body risks it in Igbo land.
Let's get married shiow this I saw in realzitach show ♥️♥️🇹🇿🇹🇿👏☘️
Traditions sometime are borring please my sister this is not your case God loves you my dear only prayers can help look for solution my father's children will never remain single because he is the creator of heaven and the earth 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Same thing happen to my friend she dated an Osu and her family found out. They both had to go for spiritual cleansing. She needs to understand it is not possible. Another friend in the US left his family after he found out his wife was an Osu. Look lady end the relationship his family will not agree.
What if they had had kids together before they found out? Would they die if they don’t separate? This is really sad
Cant comment on the matter on hand, I just feel it for the girl,Watching from Jamaica.
Look, Igbo people have no solution to this problem, period. That relationship will not be allowed. It doesn’t matter how many children they’d had before the family knew the truth. They will not be accepted. They have to live as outcasts. It’s a bit like telling Indians to abolish their caste system. Try it and face the full force of their wrath😂. People like us who don’t have such heavy chains hanging around our necks don’t know what we are missing (sic).
Tell d girl to fine a lover from Alor town dey don't do dat osu of a thing
Sir , it was wise to have informed your children.
So they won't get hurt.
Society can be brutal on the OSU matter, especially the igboes.
Never knew this stupid tradition still exist. Sorry dear, your father kept it away cause it hurt so much.
Which state is practicing this tradition
It's quite deep, even if they get married, her Children will also be regarded as an Osu. We need to change this tradition.
Tradition is tradition. Whatever one thinks or does, draditions will remain. They didnt start today but have been there since the beginning.
There must be a reason for such. We cannot deny or try to dissociate from traditions.
She has to accept the reality and pick her life. She will succeed. The whole world is open for her.
Denying tradition will not change her destiny but will only bring miseries. Will cause much pain.
Are you saying that because it is an old tradition, how does it mean it cannot be changed. Those laws were made by man and can still be changed by man. Holding on to this tradition that negates the love of God should not be celebrated any longer.
@@comfortedewor1997 No Things or traditions can be changed for the better, but that should be taken by the community as a whole.
Changing traditions is very difficult with much enmity. Patience and resolve might help. But people are hard to change.
Many follow blindly. Again we follow the west with their skewed values without thinking. We think by doing that we are better. Is it?
See how life is changing for the worse. We follow blindly and forget our values. Is that progress?
People from villages who keep their values are seen as backward. And citizens who do a lot of skewed deeds are seen as forward thinking.
Abeg Waka far with your primitive tradition 😂 but your primitive tradition will allow you to marry a white woman easily 😂 Yawa primitive people
@@comfortedewor1997You will have to physically go and tell them that in Igboland and see what comes back to you. Then you know what is the “love of God”. You think this is a joke?
The lady should not be too hard on her father he meant well for her.
That practice is no morecin existence. I am from Abia state. It is not practiced in our Abia state, especially my Ngwa clan.
She is NOT a good girl nor going to be a good wife- for failing to talk with the father first before hitting the streets and calling in the cameras!
Must you marry igbo man come edo we go accept you wella
Osu, no go area in Igbo land whether you like it or not, it is an old time tradition that requires no negotiations.
THIS IS SOMETHING SHE SHOULD BE TALKING TO HER BOYFRIEND ITS SHOULD BE HIS DECISION IF HE WANTS TO BREAK TRADITION
Break tradition? In Igboland? Dey play. Tradition in Igboland is wayyyy beyond social media comments, y’all!
I am a born again christian. I have always said to people that this is one problem that christianity cannot erase. It is a pity that this poor lady will never get married to any ibo man.The presenters are not right to say that this ptoblem is only a problem from one part of ibo land. This is something that is in every part of ibo land be it Anambra or Abia or Imo State. From what i was told it is said that Osu people are seen as slaves that were used as sacrifices in the olden days. There is no way out .The man knows that going to see his kings men will escalate the whole situation. He will never go to them except if he will meet an Osu kinsmen like him. This is why it is important to know exactly where the man or woman you want marry comes from. UK
My sister don't only blame ur father also blame ur boyfriend for not also telling this for the past 6yrs
This man went for blind date last time
Her daughter is not at fault at all
This man was trying to protect his child’s psyche growing up.
Take it easy with him. He probably thought she could marry a non African/ Nigerian.
It is bizarre!
There is nothing you can do but he should have told you earlier.
Pray God to give her another tribe.
My dear sister, there is no way out , nobody is cooking anything ,osun is like racial sicrimination in America. My dear Young lady , you are beautiful,smart, and brilliant go out your husband is out there waiting for you.I wish you Good luck.
There is no ways. IT'S TRADITION NNEOMA
Elders of these 21st century should be enlightened, certain negative traditions / cultures should be done away with.
This is a spiritual promblem.
Prayer and fasting is the only solution.
It is very painful but she must be respectful to her father.
I have seen that man on other platforms before and he talked so well about his daughter.
This girl should find love outside Ibo land.
The father is to be blamed she supposed to tell the daughter should be married to different tribe earlier on
The girl's father has no say in whether the marriage will go on or not. It rests on the future husband's family whether to go ahead or not.
Even me self I don say am not igbo I have adopted edo for the past 25years and am happy why would I accept a tribe who see me as outcast anyway na me outcast igbo before now
This old man was in zee let ' s meet.get marriage na
If i am not mistaken, there are some Igbo communities that are doing away with this Osu matter. And those born into this osu caste system are not guilty. Several years ago some Igbo elders, Nzes, Ndi Ichies, advisors, and Ezes did meet on this matter. They agreed that to do rid this osu issues, they must allow their children and grand children to marry into osu families. I hope this tradition gradually go. There are many Igbo traditions, that have become extinct ever since ndi Igbo made contact with Europeans. Osu matter needs to be re-addressed and resolved immediately to avoid future generation encountering unnecessary hardship or problems.
It's never the fathers fault he tried to keep his family save. They should not ever look for marriage among the igbos but look for love among other Nigeria.
I will advice you to just relax and pray for Go intervention. You are a beautiful girl. If you hand your life over to God he will fine tune your way.
It's a very difficult situation.Once it comes to marriage, it's becomes more serious
THIS GIRL NEEDS TO CALM HER AZZ DOWN
I thought that the guy who want to get marry to the girl is the osu ! I don't even know that is the girl with her family sef. But my question is that why is it the father of the girl was rejecting the guy than the guy rejecting her??? Nawao for waec!
this man was in realzitachy letsget married show.
will pos the limk so you see
Pls my sister try to get married to an American man or someone that is not a Nigerian. You will be happy again and Leave everything to God .
Some towns don't like marrying osu people but Some dey marry dem, in my husband town dem dey marry osu people, my town nodey marry osu people, but dis osu things is very bad oooo😢
Hear what you said; i will go crazy. A family rejected you and you are forcing your self. Instead of thanking God. Which one concern your father inside. Is your father that established that tradition. Please give that man peace of main.
Yes there's something like that but it's no longer effect I mean you can Marry anyone you love provided the person is a good person, true love conquers all.
True love for where? In Igboland, the hierarchy is Tradition, then Family, then love comes last. Love doesn’t conquer anything in Igboland. A whole family can be ejected or even obliterated if they break Igboland tradition.
It's not your Dad's fault. Some communities in Igbo Land have abolished outcasts.
But it's supposed to be abolished in the whole Eastern region by the government.
This is true but, while growing up I hard about it, but never believe, you gave to look aside another tribe
This is so sad I am from Zimbabwe we also experience this kind of thing it's really sad
Which tribe in Zimbabwe practice this type of tradition?
If the boyfriend after his investigations, still decides to marry her, nobody can stop the marriage. The families of the osu girls never object to such marriages. Only families of the groom are bothered.
Girl stop blaming your father, you should sort things out with your fiance. If both of you agree, u can go ahead with your marriage; somebody has to break the jink
I can now see why many Igbo men don't marry from their tribe. Woah
Yeah. Igbos are extremely proud and don’t like other tribes at all. So when you see them marrying into other tribes, it’s an indication that there is probably something underneath they need to confess🤣
This is a very sensitive matter. Don't cause your father further suffering by killing yourself. Remember, the boy has already left you; that alone is why you need to become more sensible in your approach to this situation.
1. Give your life to Christ if you haven't already, and go through a series of deliverances.
2. Ask God to lead you. There are so many single believers and amazing men looking for wives everywhere. Name it: Caucasians, black Africans, or non-Africans.
May the good Lord strengthen and open your eyes in this your time of need, in Jesus name, Amen.
The father is very right, but he could have educate her at young age, people are too wicked, 😂
Young lady in as much as your dad did not tell you about the osu , do not blame him for the actions of your boyfriends family ; they are the problem here and not your dad. Find out why your mom left your it could be the same case. In this situation I feel for you both . I am not from the Igbo tribe but I’m married to an Igbo man they went to my village to find out about me , it has been it didn’t start today. I was not happy when I heard it but they apologized and said it was their tradition and responsibility to know what family they are to take a wife from.Please stick with your father it will shock you to know that your boyfriend will not fight for this love you claim.The Igbo people should wake up and realize what they are doing to their children with all this nonsense.
Yes
Tradition is tradition according to some of you, but what about the now generation,and modern world, civilized world,some young people are not going to give in to all that craziness.
TO GOD THERE'S A SOLUTION THAT'S WHAT I BELIEVE
Please i have seen a man from the other side marrying a girl from out cast side. Every thing depend on understanding and your faith as a Christian. The relations to the sider of the boy tried to stop the marriage but the boy's mother refused and today they are happily married with four kids and even progressing.
It is so sad. The boy's family are the ones to decide if the marriage happens. The Osu tradition is a wicked one.
It is best that those wirh Osu ancestry renounce their Igbo identity and claim another tribe or nation
Other tribes do not have this strong beliefs 😮
I think the father is not the issue here, rather the culture. If you think about it, the father is not happy with the situation and we may not blame him for not telling her. He believed that event would overtake the evil culture.
More importantly, everything is in hands of the young man (boy friend). If he loves the girl, they should marry and be happy.
It is possible that a person in the community accused one person of a particular thing and the evil villagers "placed a curse or Ban" on him and his children and it continued till date.....Let them be strong and challenge the status quo.
The people who gave feedback to the investigators are evil people, why would they still make such report in this generation? You will be suprised that they go to one church or the other.
This is wickedness and an insult to a human being.
My sister do not blind your eye with love ooo😮,what is 6 years?Do you know what the boy's family will do if you marry their son?People have been married for ages and they divorce,you have only dated a guy,you are crying rivers out because you don't want to loose him.If that boy loves you as you said,he will chose you over his achaic tradition.My advice is to date a non Nigeria.
OR A DIFFERENT TRIBE ENTIRELY
Osu tradition has been abolished just like slavery. Marriage should continue please. Nobody is an outcast unless you make your self an outcast by your behavior
Like he said we’re all created my God I don’t understand traditional issues that mean I can’t give any advice it’s very hard situation I think that these things were just in the movies about kings men.
No kinsman on this matter
But he don't want to marry her again. Why is she forcing a mariage
Many ldemmi people don't reject osu people dey marry dem ,but if u see any town dat did notyp like marrying osu dere in nothing u can do to make dem marry osu if dey try d hole village of dat guy will add dem as osu family too bc of dat one ose dat enter d family, nd no umunna will follow dem nd go for d marriage nd no body will enter dat family again bc of dey marry osu girl or boy
There nothing her father can do as long they are from Osu so she has to marry from other trips
If this tradition has been abolished in parts of Igbo land, why is it not applicable to all parts of Igbo land? Again, if both parties are willing and surrender their lives to Jesus Christ and deliverance is undertaken, will that not help?
This tradition is a serious one o especially from Imo state. It is a no go area. Even Pastor can not solve it other the pastors whole family will be ban from their community.
They must be from imo
Chinese - don't blame your father. See, what happened to him with your mother.
It's an Igbo Ancient Culture that has a always been there and continues irrespective civilization, Christianity etc. Osu group from what we know are a group of people presented (or you can say given to gods/idols/deity of of Igbo land as of that time) as a sacrifice. In some of them were actually to god's/idols/deity in Shrines in the Ancient Time when Christianity hadn't arrived in Nigeria. They were
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Are you guys not tired of using this very man? Is this man not one on Realzitachy Let's get married show? And this man on chiamaka ugoo when this same man with his wife forcing their daughter to marry an old man cos he was the one rent a shop for them. Please try to keep it real.
You have a good father. Let’s the will of God be done. The solution to your problem is not about your father, but your boyfriend’s belief
This old traditions should fade out this 21st century
Girl even if u wants to marry ur guy ,d family of ur guy will never allow it bcs if u guys do be ready to face anything that comes out of it
You guys are just a confusing, i have seen this very man on different content, 1st Chiamaka Ugo, 2nd, zytachy, and 3rd, this very one here, 😂😂😂😂 honestly you guys are just so funny
Exactly
Obviously, he’s trying to use social media to change his story from being an Osu. He’s tired of the curse and wants to change things around. This girl might be in on the matter as well, trying to correct things. Who knows but the obvious thing is that they are fed up of being Osu.
This same man I watched on Zitachy show, looking for a wife. But he told the woman he met he is from Delta state but he is from Imo state. I feel for you sha.
I think the girl is being too dramatic it's not the father's fault God always has a way.
Pray God will make a way.
He is also a victim.
Stop stressing the old man.
yes it can work is forbidden totally he can marry you if you want to leave a happily married life okay.
I believe this is the same man that was in Zithachy’s show titled let’s get married.
Ya....
Exactly, you get it.though I think he crooked some lies to cover himself up.I can't blame him anyway. This is a pure stigmatisation
Yea,
He is the one.Zee,chiamaka now is Carol pikin
This man even looks like the man Realzitachy matched with a 48 years lady yesterday's video at LET'S MEET AND GET MARRIED. He said he had only one daughter, that he divorced his wife because she's not giving him PEACE in their Marriage.
This Issue is beyond the father ,so Chinwe you cannot change what great Ikemba and other prominent sons of Igbo with good faith try to change. But traditional politics and some enemy of Ndi Igbo are making it difficult.
I really like the man