I have been on my Level up since becoming 21 & when you CHOOSE to Level UP. You will never Be normal you will have MORE oppurtunity MORE business colleagues More Ideas & things tht Resonate. A Journey You must take Alone.
Not going to lie, I disliked being alone at first. I would wonder why would my friends not want to level themselves up. Good thing I took the initiative. All I got was hate. Loving the hate at this point
Wonderful that younger women are taking advice from SheRa . I was slim and super cute when young but I didn’t know my value . I messed up once due to insecurity and then I messed up again with my next relationship , I just kept under valuing myself . Today many women around Me have great partners , lovely homes and are taken care of because they chose well .Put top dollar on yourself , don’t settle for any man who doesn’t see you as the prize . If you are doing it all for yourself , you don’t need the down sides of having a man . Set your standards high , never be owned or allow him be more important or have the power. Xxx
ONLY a “PROVIDING” man understands the providing man mindset!!! Them 50/50 /“roommate” men don’t have ANY IDEA what a providing man wants or what a providing man is! There’s somebody for everyone
I look much better now at 41 after being divorced than I was in my 20s when I was married to my toxic ex husband. My friends are amazed they say I look like a different person🥰 Some people are just not good for us because they are selfish and don't care about us so we need to always put ourselves first
@@zanetawrightsell8527 I totally accepted that my fairytale version of what I thought marriage will be like is over and my ex husband used me to get material assets. Anyway I continued to focus on my career, my kids they were babies when I was divorced and I exercised and tried my best to choose healthy meals and healthy lifestyle. Now I'm eating vegetables during week and meat once a week on Sunday. My kids too are now eating it as well without a fight. I take care of my skin, use good body lotions and coconut oil for skin and hair. I take vitamins too. I think its setting goals for yourself and it feels great accomplishment. I was able to pay to build my house and buy a new car. My ex is still living in his fathers house in his same bedroom. He hasn't accomplished anything really.
@@zanetawrightsell8527 also keeping positive mindset, keep negative people away. Your circle of friends will change. I probably have one true female friend I can trust. Shera advice is on point💞
@@KA-ub4rc I'm definitely seeing things shift more after quarantine. I got happier n much more peace with myself in these 4 months. Even neighbors avoid n feel uneasy around me. My circle of friends pretty much disappeared this year as I got happier n healthier, but I do have a handful of people that are really supportive of my new happens so that's what counts. Genuine sincerity. Keep up the good work!
Started my level up April 1st 2020. Almost 25lbs down. Taking care of my feet skin nails hair and Yoni very intensively. Now apt re decor❣. I got two more months for my Quarantine. I end July 31. I'm stepping out a brand new women. ❣Sprinkle Sprinkle
Mille grazie, bella donna! Please believe that SheRa's advice works, no matter your age, wage, and stage. I went from dusty to DIVA in about a month. Tailor her advice to YOU! I can't compete with young, slim Queens, but I'm going for a mature, thick booty, Mob Wife look aesthetic that attracts retired money. I haven't gotten that boo with the bag, yet, but I did get my dustboy to give me money and men and women are noticing. SheRa for President ❤❤❤❤.
Thank you!!! LEVELING UP IS FOR YOURSELF, SELF IMPROVEMENT IS FOR YOURSELF!!! In the realm of being your best for yourself you will attract "like" in people and opportunities.
True Brother I’m under 18 no I don’t have a man at 16 but at 16 I have enough ability to understand basic comprehension of vast subjects to know you prove the point a comment below explained in perfect detail how you proved it
Please Read!!!! Listen to shera ladies please I have been listening to her,but almost got played by this man's words until I investigated him and found out he is living a double life and has a whole other family I was shocked and everything Shera said made scence.Men will disappoint you,love money first not them!!!! I totally got rid of my emotions and will just play along and secure the bag and leave.
I’m doing OMAD fasting so I put a 24hr timer on my phone! I eat when it goes off and start it back over! My whole body is leaning out, my sweet face is back and my body and mental clarity are improving!
I have learned to start controlling my emotions.I loved this video because you can see the emotion that is being displayed for WOMEN to get it.We can be POWERFUL when we demonstrate the right mindset.SELF care is a key to everything.👑💅🏿
This was right on time, I could soak this in all day. It’s directly on the path that I’m on in this next stage that I am in. I was mourning a divorce, I married too young. Now I feel free and have launched my business.
Jocelyn Smith of course I did which is why I corrected her! That way she doesn’t continue trying to be leveled up and not knowing the difference in the spelling of the two. Sometimes receiving help is part of leveling up and my correcting her was for that purpose. Apparently, you have a problem receiving correction. Being coachable IS leveling up because looking uneducated or ignorant is not cute either. And I’m NOT saying she is either of those but she didn’t seem to be offended, so why are you?
I did some of the thing’s you said on another video as far as my looks before going out and I had much younger men opening doors for me and all thank you
Did Shera ever share her secret on how she lost so much weight? I‘m binge watching all of her old videos and damn she mastered leveling up and is still doing it! Love you Queen sprinkle sprinkle! James is one lucky man! 😌
Yes, the videos are super long. But you should watch them on 1.75 or 2.0 speed. Change the setting. It speeds up the video and yet you can still understand everything she says. Don’t try to listen to this on normal speed because you can’t spend half a day/shift listening to one video!
I’m not sure why some of the men that come on your channel talk crap about women dying alone and aging at 60 as if they don’t age and look old and become handicapped lol. It’s as if they think they don’t look any different when everyone in the world is going to get old. Very confusing to me indeed. My great grandmother found the love of her life on a cruise at the age of 55💕 they’ve been traveling the world together and she’s 85 right now.
Jumping rope helped me a lot at least 300 every morning and evening And the last meal i take is at 4pm and morning i only do a bowl of fruits then lunch and supper u can have anything, , , , , i have lost 15kgs in 3weeks😄
🌿🍓 Amazon has cool cheap fitness supplies. Over the Door-toners & I even found a small elliptical machine you can use while sitting at the computer. Different flavored teas help with switching up cravings🍒
I live in new York n ladies as a black nice figured big boobs 24 year that doesn't mean shit lol. These men dont want ntn for themselves more so for a woman. All want 50/50 relationship n then they cheat n act like you the problem. As a finish school I'll be moving
@@ScientificAnomalies876 yes I know but even if u doing your thing take care of me. No NY men are so mean n selfish. I am single for so long I feel my privates have no use lol
@@xeniastephenson8076 .... Go for the older men already established.... Most men want to lead/ take care of you.. But they have to be that type.... And you have to have a gift of gab on fitnessing
I need to level up my confidence. when God changes my finances, I have some ideas on how I will work on that. In the past, I attracted a few decent men without makeup, but I do have a figure men seem to be attracted to. sometimes you choose the wrong man because of self-esteem issues.
Kaylynne I’m really pretty, girls have always been mean to me, usually the only nice ones are unattractive, guys I reject end up bitter and then turn mean, people often think I’m stuck up, I have been told by guys that they never spoke to me because I was really pretty
Kaylynne guys usually put me on a pedestal, but I’ve learned to use this as my advantage, I’m only 17, girls in the past effected my confidence and made me feel ugly when in reality I wasn’t, I always get told I’m pretty from strangers and men, the friends I had were never really friends and would lurk for anything they could use against me , being very pretty naturally has it’s downsides but more upsides in terms of getting the bag 💰
In my experiences, the women who were passive aggressive towards me were envious of something about me. I was good friends with the first woman until I lost weight and she wasn't able to. She took her frustrations out on me. The other one was fake friendly and using me. I got recognition and praise for my work. She didn't. The common thing about them was that they were also unhappy with what's going on in their personal life.
I was making my scrub and my housemates told me y do u use coffee scrub y do u use coconut oli for ur skin y ur learning makeup y ur waxing ur body oh God 😢😢 but l had to give them a deaf ear and do my thing, 😡😡😡😡 coz l want to level up and to have a good looking skin
Shera can you let us know when you are doing a live please even if itsit's a Premier reminder 2 hours before the live will be greatly appreciated. Sorry I missed it.
HI Ashera, I have been watching your TH-cam for a minute now, and you have Inspired me to start my own business, My man takes Very Good care of me, My business is Doing well & I started a New TH-cam channel and I just wanted to do a video on women Leveling up As I have ,and I wanted to give CREDIT TO YOU..is that ok to do.. I dont want to Get in Trouble with TH-cam for using your name. and I didn't see another way to contact you. Thank you so much you are my SHERO💕💕
Hey, in one video you said you should date men who are10 years olders. What if we fall in love for a guy lil younger than our age? We cant replace them?
Dear Shera, I need your advice: I’m a 16 year old girl who really wants to level up ( I believe it’s never too early to start with this journey) But it’s all so so overwhelming! Can you give me advice on where to begin? I hope on your respond✨
Work on your femininity but still do regular dating and have fun but still date multiple guys. In your 20's you will learn what you want in a man/beneficial dating.
Should I take it personally if i don't want anything from a person/they have nothing to give me of substance, and they get in the way of my bag 💰? Question for anyone who has good advice... I struggle with this..😔
I see there is a lot of a confusion of what an exciting above average female looks like. Cause I see a lot of women who think they look good who look very boring and average looking for or think they deserve a rich man and their looks are average at best. Allow me to leave 5 links to female who are purely "gangsta and can rightfully asking for a rich man cause they really look super sexy!!
what about feminity for women with disabilites? my life has changed and to convince myself to keep going is femininity. whats the level up for women with a disadvantage should we expose insecurities like bipolar depression? are we equal?
Lose WEIGHT! It is vital for the level up no way around it.
Facts! Step one
I totally agree with this
Step 1 working on it
Totally.
Being fit is powerful!
I love the advice : " Be around someone who can add to your life not take away ".
AMEN!!!
I have been on my Level up since becoming 21 & when you CHOOSE to Level UP. You will never Be normal you will have MORE oppurtunity MORE business colleagues More Ideas & things tht Resonate. A Journey You must take Alone.
Not going to lie, I disliked being alone at first. I would wonder why would my friends not want to level themselves up. Good thing I took the initiative. All I got was hate. Loving the hate at this point
Correct I stayed on my exercise regiment, hygiene, and beauty...and became a vegan too...skin is flawless too...no Quarantine belly for me lol
Nice!💕
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TheTruth 7 yeah we still on lock in NYC...so to keep myself motivated I volunteer (as I was laid off) eat right and exercise
Cia s yeah we still on lock in NYC...so to keep myself motivated I volunteer (as I was laid off) eat right and exercise
Amazing! Good job, I did as well, perfect time to implement new routines and ground new habits. 🤗✌🏾💞
Wonderful that younger women are taking advice from SheRa . I was slim and super cute when young but I didn’t know my value . I messed up once due to insecurity and then I messed up again with my next relationship , I just kept under valuing myself . Today many women around Me have great partners , lovely homes and are taken care of because they chose well .Put top dollar on yourself , don’t settle for any man who doesn’t see you as the prize . If you are doing it all for yourself , you don’t need the down sides of having a man . Set your standards high , never be owned or allow him be more important or have the power. Xxx
Amen!
💕
Better late than never to learn and do better. You’re still super cute btw! ☺️
💛
ONLY a “PROVIDING” man understands the providing man mindset!!! Them 50/50 /“roommate” men don’t have ANY IDEA what a providing man wants or what a providing man is! There’s somebody for everyone
I look much better now at 41 after being divorced than I was in my 20s when I was married to my toxic ex husband. My friends are amazed they say I look like a different person🥰 Some people are just not good for us because they are selfish and don't care about us so we need to always put ourselves first
What kind of things are you doing that I can immulate both actions n mindset? Congrats!
@@zanetawrightsell8527 I totally accepted that my fairytale version of what I thought marriage will be like is over and my ex husband used me to get material assets. Anyway I continued to focus on my career, my kids they were babies when I was divorced and I exercised and tried my best to choose healthy meals and healthy lifestyle. Now I'm eating vegetables during week and meat once a week on Sunday. My kids too are now eating it as well without a fight. I take care of my skin, use good body lotions and coconut oil for skin and hair. I take vitamins too. I think its setting goals for yourself and it feels great accomplishment. I was able to pay to build my house and buy a new car. My ex is still living in his fathers house in his same bedroom. He hasn't accomplished anything really.
@@zanetawrightsell8527 also keeping positive mindset, keep negative people away. Your circle of friends will change. I probably have one true female friend I can trust. Shera advice is on point💞
@@KA-ub4rc amazing! Way to go on your growth n progress!
@@KA-ub4rc I'm definitely seeing things shift more after quarantine. I got happier n much more peace with myself in these 4 months. Even neighbors avoid n feel uneasy around me.
My circle of friends pretty much disappeared this year as I got happier n healthier, but I do have a handful of people that are really supportive of my new happens so that's what counts. Genuine sincerity.
Keep up the good work!
Started my level up April 1st 2020. Almost 25lbs down. Taking care of my feet skin nails hair and Yoni very intensively. Now apt re decor❣. I got two more months for my Quarantine. I end July 31. I'm stepping out a brand new women. ❣Sprinkle Sprinkle
Fabulous 🙌
My birthday lol
Congrats
Hey how are you doing now?❤
Everytime I get in my feelings, I come watch Shera. An immediate switch happens and I remember who I am baby! Thanks Shera🙏🏽❤️
I’m leveling up and aging backwards.
You and me both.
me too sprinkle sprinkle
What most helped you do that? I’ve aged so much in the last 2 years.
Anytime a woman a masculine woman complains that you look more feminine than her your leveling up right
This. When masculine women become jealous of you, your level up is right.
This women literally changed my life 🧚🏻♀️
Same girl❤️
Mille grazie, bella donna! Please believe that SheRa's advice works, no matter your age, wage, and stage. I went from dusty to DIVA in about a month. Tailor her advice to YOU! I can't compete with young, slim Queens, but I'm going for a mature, thick booty, Mob Wife look aesthetic that attracts retired money. I haven't gotten that boo with the bag, yet, but I did get my dustboy to give me money and men and women are noticing. SheRa for President ❤❤❤❤.
I don't even have to click the notification bell cuz ima always searching up aunty shera😭
Thank you!!! LEVELING UP IS FOR YOURSELF, SELF IMPROVEMENT IS FOR YOURSELF!!! In the realm of being your best for yourself you will attract "like" in people and opportunities.
When Kobe cheated, he bought Vanessa a $4 million dollar ring! think about it.
That was a start
True Brother that’s the point? You proved the point
True Brother I’m under 18 no I don’t have a man at 16 but at 16 I have enough ability to understand basic comprehension of vast subjects to know you prove the point a comment below explained in perfect detail how you proved it
And now she is very comfortable for life.Smart.
Please Read!!!!
Listen to shera ladies please I have been listening to her,but almost got played by this man's words until I investigated him and found out he is living a double life and has a whole other family I was shocked and everything Shera said made scence.Men will disappoint you,love money first not them!!!! I totally got rid of my emotions and will just play along and secure the bag and leave.
Just from certain questions and comments I see ill say it again the mental level up is first and foremost and super important loves💚
The Me time- YASSSSSSS!!
Looking like she’s 21... we see you Shera 😌😌😌
For real😍
I’m doing OMAD fasting so I put a 24hr timer on my phone! I eat when it goes off and start it back over!
My whole body is leaning out, my sweet face is back and my body and mental clarity are improving!
Nice💕
💗
A timer is a good idea.
What is OMAD fasting?
Happy to hear 🙂. With the OMAD, are you exercising too? Or is it falling off easily without it? 🤔
I started a business during COVID...but I gained 12lbs after losing 67lbs. So I bought Phase 1...the level up is till the casket close.
Thanks Shera!
Let them know you're out of their league BEST ADVICE EVER
I have learned to start controlling my emotions.I loved this video because you can see the emotion that is being displayed for WOMEN to get it.We can be POWERFUL when we demonstrate the right mindset.SELF care is a key to everything.👑💅🏿
“Liquid diet & fasting” literally true
Your personality type is winner.
Im watching at 1am couldn't sleep any longer...Oh how i love these late night chats #FavChannel ♡
Me too💕
Same!! 💕
This was right on time, I could soak this in all day. It’s directly on the path that I’m on in this next stage that I am in. I was mourning a divorce, I married too young. Now I feel free and have launched my business.
Exactly,I enjoy it all.I have a room in my house that I call my Queen Room.Its helps me keep the focus on leveling up.💖💞🌹🎀💘👑💃💎
Learned so much. I especially like her tone here like she’s talking to a group of long time friends.
You are appreciated Shera 💜
👸🏾🙏🔑💎💰
Once I loose these 30 pounds I will be leveled up 😆
Do it!!!! Little by little 🏃🏾♀️
@Aminah B you want to “lose” 30 pounds, not LOOSE.
SilverPhoenix 😆 aww u knew what she meant
Jocelyn Smith of course I did which is why I corrected her! That way she doesn’t continue trying to be leveled up and not knowing the difference in the spelling of the two. Sometimes receiving help is part of leveling up and my correcting her was for that purpose. Apparently, you have a problem receiving correction. Being coachable IS leveling up because looking uneducated or ignorant is not cute either. And I’m NOT saying she is either of those but she didn’t seem to be offended, so why are you?
SilverPhoenix I wasn’t offended tho, u are right it just made me giggle. Ugh never mind...
Shera is a gift to the universe and women! Shera Thank you for all you do. I ❤ u
I did some of the thing’s you said on another video as far as my looks before going out and I had much younger men opening doors for me and all thank you
Did Shera ever share her secret on how she lost so much weight? I‘m binge watching all of her old videos and damn she mastered leveling up and is still doing it! Love you Queen sprinkle sprinkle! James is one lucky man! 😌
And also, she exercised
Water and vitamins...
" no back sliding on the level up" Sept 4 2018.
Its what she does and why she does it in all areas
She said she stopped drinking too
Your hair looks incredible wavy! Please wear it this way every day!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Im just losing hope that ill ever be able to catch up with all your videos, they are just damn too long, but every minute Is worth watching lol
Marijana D lmaooo
The first half of her videos is what matters more anyways. The rest is just her answering questions so you're good.
Lol yes and yes
@@simone6169 wow, who would have thought? 😂😂
Yes, the videos are super long. But you should watch them on 1.75 or 2.0 speed. Change the setting. It speeds up the video and yet you can still understand everything she says. Don’t try to listen to this on normal speed because you can’t spend half a day/shift listening to one video!
Love your advice. Already started my own level up process.
Onesis with the feet on......too funny......I love it😂🤣
I’m not sure why some of the men that come on your channel talk crap about women dying alone and aging at 60 as if they don’t age and look old and become handicapped lol. It’s as if they think they don’t look any different when everyone in the world is going to get old. Very confusing to me indeed. My great grandmother found the love of her life on a cruise at the age of 55💕 they’ve been traveling the world together and she’s 85 right now.
Thank you for continually putting us on game😇
I'm losing hope instead of weight. I need to set up a battle plan 😈 This home-office life is killing me 👩🚀
Kami 1 try intermittent fasting and lemon water
Jumping rope helped me a lot at least 300 every morning and evening
And the last meal i take is at 4pm and morning i only do a bowl of fruits then lunch and supper u can have anything, , , , , i have lost 15kgs in 3weeks😄
Eat fruits and veggies in abundance.
🌿🍓 Amazon has cool cheap fitness supplies. Over the Door-toners & I even found a small elliptical machine you can use while sitting at the computer. Different flavored teas help with switching up cravings🍒
We are so lucky to have you
Don’t move to New York. Unless you look like a runway model and have your game on point and beyond Bring money with you and leave your emotions behind
Is it really that bad in New York? I've heard similar things about LA/California too.
Celti I live here in la I can definitely say that’s true for me
I live in new York n ladies as a black nice figured big boobs 24 year that doesn't mean shit lol. These men dont want ntn for themselves more so for a woman. All want 50/50 relationship n then they cheat n act like you the problem. As a finish school I'll be moving
@@ScientificAnomalies876 yes I know but even if u doing your thing take care of me. No NY men are so mean n selfish. I am single for so long I feel my privates have no use lol
@@xeniastephenson8076 .... Go for the older men already established.... Most men want to lead/ take care of you.. But they have to be that type.... And you have to have a gift of gab on fitnessing
I need to level up my confidence. when God changes my finances, I have some ideas on how I will work on that. In the past, I attracted a few decent men without makeup, but I do have a figure men seem to be attracted to. sometimes you choose the wrong man because of self-esteem issues.
222 you’re like my momma teaching me the way to success 💎 THANK YOU Shera goddess🥰
New viewers shera from philipines I like all your advice😊❤️🙏😍
💕
I love your attitude queen
You’re just brilliant. 💕😘
You're appreciated 👍💕
This video makes me get my hair done
Great video from beginning to end
What I hear is- the MAIN idea is to keep the man IFEAas the MAIN IDEA. Period. ❤️
Little Miss Sasha has your whole face!! 🤎🤎🤎🥰🥰🥰
Yes Queen 👑❤
Haven't seen you in a while and you look amazing 😉
Tired of these damn dusty lies. Level up starts today lol
Why are women passive aggressive with other women, for no reason ?
Kaylynne I’m really pretty, girls have always been mean to me, usually the only nice ones are unattractive, guys I reject end up bitter and then turn mean, people often think I’m stuck up, I have been told by guys that they never spoke to me because I was really pretty
Kaylynne guys usually put me on a pedestal, but I’ve learned to use this as my advantage, I’m only 17, girls in the past effected my confidence and made me feel ugly when in reality I wasn’t, I always get told I’m pretty from strangers and men, the friends I had were never really friends and would lurk for anything they could use against me , being very pretty naturally has it’s downsides but more upsides in terms of getting the bag 💰
In my experiences, the women who were passive aggressive towards me were envious of something about me. I was good friends with the first woman until I lost weight and she wasn't able to. She took her frustrations out on me. The other one was fake friendly and using me. I got recognition and praise for my work. She didn't. The common thing about them was that they were also unhappy with what's going on in their personal life.
These unattractive manly woman gonna keep on hating for no reason cause they want what you have whatever it is
They are full of rage about dissapointment for their choices in their own life - so the agression is bursting out on everyone they encounter
I was making my scrub and my housemates told me y do u use coffee scrub y do u use coconut oli for ur skin y ur learning makeup y ur waxing ur body oh God 😢😢 but l had to give them a deaf ear and do my thing, 😡😡😡😡 coz l want to level up and to have a good looking skin
They Are jealous
Omg wait are you living in Ug? We could level up together
Jealousy
Shera can you let us know when you are doing a live please even if itsit's a Premier reminder 2 hours before the live will be greatly appreciated. Sorry I missed it.
HI Ashera, I have been watching your TH-cam for a minute now, and you have Inspired me to start my own business, My man takes Very Good care of me, My business is Doing well & I started a New TH-cam channel and I just wanted to do a video on women Leveling up As I have ,and I wanted to give CREDIT TO YOU..is that ok to do.. I dont want to Get in Trouble with TH-cam for using your name. and I didn't see another way to contact you. Thank you so much you are my SHERO💕💕
🤣🤣🤣🤣maybe his mama couldn't level up
You look like Sasha's 18 big sister here ! sooo gorgeous Mama
Thank you shera you inspired me to quit. ;) but i might just call in for now if they don't like me calling in oh well 😒
@2:29:01 Ask that girl that stole the phone & the ray bans 🤣😂
Hi Shera, I've leveled up and started my business. Would you please share how to contact you for a business shout out on your video?
What business did you start?
Where is your sweater from? Nice!
Hey, in one video you said you should date men who are10 years olders. What if we fall in love for a guy lil younger than our age? We cant replace them?
Dear Shera,
I need your advice: I’m a 16 year old girl who really wants to level up ( I believe it’s never too early to start with this journey) But it’s all so so overwhelming! Can you give me advice on where to begin? I hope on your respond✨
Look your best. I was very lazy at 16 don’t be like I was lol
Brittany Choyce Same, I was a tomboy at that age. Yikes.
Subscribe to as many femininity and beauty tutorial channels you can.
Work on your femininity but still do regular dating and have fun but still date multiple guys. In your 20's you will learn what you want in a man/beneficial dating.
Prisca thank you! But I’m not allowed to date. I have to marry right away.
Should I take it personally if i don't want anything from a person/they have nothing to give me of substance, and they get in the way of my bag 💰?
Question for anyone who has good advice... I struggle with this..😔
❤❤❤❤❤
❤️❤️
Cool
Você e linda
I see there is a lot of a confusion of what an exciting above average female looks like. Cause I see a lot of women who think they look good who look very boring and average looking for or think they deserve a rich man and their looks are average at best. Allow me to leave 5 links to female who are purely "gangsta and can rightfully asking for a rich man cause they really look super sexy!!
Hy💋
You literally look 22/23 here wtf
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53 I amazing
🌹🌸💐🌺🌼🌼🌼
I'm eating smoked neckbones, I'mma stay thick puerto rican love thickemms
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what about feminity for women with disabilites? my life has changed and to convince myself to keep going is femininity. whats the level up for women with a disadvantage should we expose insecurities like bipolar depression? are we equal?