This conversation was truly anointed and appointed! I received so much revelation from the both of you and I thank God for this platform because it truly blessed me right when I needed it.
That's what God was trying to tell me a while back when He told me not to say anything. I didn't understand, I spoke up and was left looking like a fool. Thank you for breaking it down brothers. Thank you for sharing this transparent conversation with us
What freed me from divorce is knowing that while the Bible says, “What God puts together, no man can separate”. Well, God didn’t put a lot of these relationships together. A lot of us tried to force our will on God or we chose before knowing our God given assignment/purpose.
I'm happy you all are watching this episode and liking it. Please keep watching until the end and share this video. It will mean a lot to me; it is a pleasure to sit down with exceptional people and give you another look into their mindset. I love you, Moore!
The end was the best part! Thank you for your words of encouragement to those of us trying to listen for the voice of the Lord rather than our temporary feelings of loneliness. Prayers for continued blessings and success to you both!!
Something that might not be thought in the church is, yes God hates divorce, but not the people involved. For whoever needed to hear that, know that the Father still sees you and loves you beyond your present!
Not entirely true. We have to remember that GOD is a FATHER FIRST. If you are a parent you'd understand. This is the very reason when people divorce men or women never thrive again, lose everything and everyone and which is also why some men try to move on and their dicks don't work. You can't hurt someone's child and think you'll get off scott free all the time 🤷🏿♀️. God doesn't want to despise a man forever but a curse can't stand without a cause and a reason a lot of people stay in stuff longer than they should is because they didn't apologize to their father or the person they hurt to make it right.
@@rknihayBiblically, he’s not a father first. He’s a married man first. God created an established order, outside of that we find ourselves in bondage.
@@rknihay Based on the context of your response, it seems there is some hurt that still needs to be healed. My point was that no matter what the context of your marriage is or is not, God still see you beyond the situation because of his unlimited grace and mercy. Some people feel that if their marriage failed, then they failed God, and that is a lie. Society puts pressure on people that God never intended for it to be.
Laterras’ transparency is unmatched!! More people need to work to live in that transparency…even if he/she does not choose marriage. Marriage is not death and it’s not for everyone. Marriage is what you make of it…ESPECIALLY if you are connected to YOUR purpose partner…IT CAN BE FREE AND REWARDING!!! LOVE IN MARRIAGE SHOULD GO VIRAL and not cheating and games. It’s time!! Another blessed episode Willie!!
When Willie asked, who are you to you, after acknowledging who Laterras was known to be for others and it made me think...who am I to/for me? Really great episode 💯❤️
I love Laterra’s transparency! He is wholeness personified! He is a blessing to the Kingdom and I can’t wait to see the woman God brings into his life!!! ❤❤❤
As a divorced mom of kids 4 and older, I resonated most to Willie encouraging others to allow your kids to see you at your happiest moments. I truly desire for my kids to see and feel their mother happy. Because for so long all they saw was unhappy tears. Even on the days of being tired from working hard, the tears they see today is happier than they were 2 years ago. Thanks for the motivation!
Im a single woman im in recovery 3 yrs 4 months the greatest thing I took from this is that while im single do the work I start my first therapy session in a couple of weeks. I truly am blessed by hearing you guys speak on the real life issues that prevents relationships/ marriages from being great. God has someone for me but he won’t let them in until I’m healthy and healed from all my past trauma.
I WANT TO CONGRATULATE YOU PERSONALLY! To take that first step is the hardest, but thank GOD for his grace. HE TAKES OUR SHAME AND TURNS IT INTO POWER! The power to change, the power to make a different choice and make a difference in other's lives. There is this song called graves to gardens...so to you, get ready for those beautiful flowers to start blooming. The seed has been planted. There will be constant pruning, constant falls, but constant growth!!!❤❤❤
Don’t let loneliness or being alone make a decision on your emotions!! Wow powerful Willie Moore Jr. I am a divorced Mother of two children. My son is 15 and my daughter 11. They both told me mom we are good you don’t need to talk to anyone LOL. That’s because it’s peace here and they see and know that. But God will send someone for me one day and my children will accept because they know that person will be my purpose partner!! Great episode by the way. I have so many people in my office watching your show! 🙌🏾 🔥
Loneliness has caused me to make decisions out of emotions that bound me to hurt and pain. Thank you for the reminder to slow down and improve my relationship with God.
"Divorcing with grace". This comment touched my heart and reminded me how much I've matured. When I divorced this was my #1 priority because I wanted to show my kids that just because their parents weren't together didn't mean we had to be enemies. I needed them to see that I was at peace, happy and hopeful for the future. I am determined to wait on God and show my kids that marriage can be a beautiful thing when God is at the center of it! Thank you for your transparency! I thought I was the only person on earth that felt like God gave me peace about moving on in order to thrive!
Some people are totally against divorce, regardless of the circumstances, Especially in the church. I left my ex husband, and I absolutely know it was not only the right thing to do, but the GOD thing to do.
❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤ Thank you WillieMooreJr for having Laterras R Whitfield on your podcast. Thank you, Laterras for sharing your story about your dad. I had a history story with my dad before he left this earth July 17, 2023. My dad knew that I forgave him when I drove him to his last Laughlin Bowling Tournament July 7-9, 2023. It was the first time I went bowling with him since I was in the 5th grade.
Healing the Inner Child wounds heals tremendously, its like clearing the cache of your computer so that it operates properly ❤️❤️❤️!!!!.. Awesome testimony Laterras!!!
I appreciate Laterras's honesty. When Willie asked him who he is when he's not being someone's hero, I was able to put one of my thoughts about him into words. I think he's so analytical and focused that he may take some of the spontaneity out of his encounters. He projects what he thinks and wants when he speaks - like he's teaching. But I wonder if he allows himself to relax in someone else's company, and to receive their energy in return.
I soo appreciate your comment here. I wonder the same about Laterras. You articulated my thought perfectly. I also see that he responded, but I hope he considered your words prior to responding.
From man to man I simply want to thank you both for your honesty and candidness. Men in the church need to have these real conversations with men after God's on heart.
I love this episode! Laterras is a hero not just because what he does for others. He is a HERO because he has consistently been open about who he is inner and outer! His transparency and being an authentic example for ALL BLACK MEN! Willie Moore you are hilarious and a man of Gawd!!! I love it thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!
It is11:23 p.m. Central time N O. La. 05/20/24. This is my first time listening to willmoore show,so honest so teal andwers. To so many questions I have had through the years..Going through a divorce after we yrs. No regrets not the right partner God knew all along I didn't. When you are in love and have a cheating spouse you make excuse after excuse, even when you know the love is gone. Never again no anger just enlightenment. I am 74 years old and I believe there is still love out there for me. I gorgot about myself,never again and I thank God for my deliverance..Amen!!!!
I JUST had a conversation with a friend about the fact that I'm praying for God to partner with a person with a peaceful heart posture after the work I've done. She warned me not to let loneliness keep me from my REAL purpose partner. Thank you both for the confirmation! "Don't out race the pace of God's grace!"
Omg that closing you gave about the children seeing you now at peace…and not wanting you to go back to that un-peaceful place…that was definitely meant for me…thank you for sharing and letting Holy Spirit use you 😢😅😊
This was SO GOOOD! It feeds the soul to see Black men speak on relationships. We need more. Thank you God for blessing this union of information and restoration.
This has truly been a blessing for me!! I going through a divorce and it was like God paid it in my spirit this is over. And as a Christian woman I was terrified! And because I kept what was going on in my house everyone was shocked. But I know what God told me. So thank you both for being transparent. Much Love...
Laterras and Willie Moore together is a blessing! Thank you Kings! Happy Father’s Day to all the amazing fathers!! May God continue to bless you and give you the wisdom to be the Fathers that God called you to be!! ❤
What touch my heart is that you gentlemen are truly truly transparent and honest. Thank you. I’m not experiencing peace in my marriage, we are at church every Sunday. Smh… I’m in counseling he’s not. Thanks to you both…
Praise God for Willie Moore and Laterras Whitfield I love when Men of God are vulnerable with each other as well as show their appreciation and love for each other without being weird! Wholesome Men of Integrity!
I enjoyed this entire episode! One of the things that stood out to me was radical acceptance! That’s what helped me accept my divorce, knowing that I did all I could in the relationship and I’m ok with it not being restored
I am currently not working a full time job so I have more flexibility with my time during the day. During this time, God has lead me to Dear Future Wifey and to listen to the Willie Moore Jr show. As I am figuring out this next chapter in my life, Willie Moore and Laterras have been such a blessing to my life. Laterras thank you for your transparency and for asking all of the right questions with the guests on your show. I have shared your podcasts with my friends. Willie, your words of wisdom on your radio show inspire and motivate me to seek God more and to know that God has something better for me. Continue to led God lead you and He will give you the desires of your heart.
This was so meaningful. I don’t know why it took me this long to tap in. My prayer is that God be glorified in ALL…for God’s glory and our good. 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾💛🙌🏾
My favorite nugget is Lateras (sp) speaking on the value of marriage & having a Kingdom partner as opposed to “ball n chain.” God’s grace over the marriage & the two of you strategizing “TOGETHER” etc. I absolutely enjoyed Lateras going in on the value of marriage. I am convinced when he finds his Kingdom wife oooh hasha ta maasaätah Holy Spirit…I am more open to the idea of marriage now.
Hey Laterras!😆I love me some dearfuturewifey… this is the first episode I’ve watched on this platform & I can say I’m so glad I clicked on!! I love seeing two black men supporting one another and pouring into each other and the world while showing up authentic… there were so many great nuggets .. Y’all had me laughing and saying amen all at the same time !👏🏽😭
Wow! What really touched me was when Laterras was asked who is his hero because he’s been everything for everyone else. For him to start to get emotional and be honest and say he truly can’t answer that yet because he’s still trying to figure that out. I have been watching a lot of his videos recently and I’ve truly never heard of him until about a year ago. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man I can say I actually admire because of their self awareness and honesty and transparency. I’m excited for him to find his future wife because I truly believe he’s putting in all the work for her and God sees it and he will deliver it better than Laterras can ever imagine!
The one thing that touched me was when you asked who are you if you’re not being a hero to others. That touched me because I am trying to figure that out for myself. I have always put others needs and desires before my own and my passion is to help others. now I am trying to reflect on who I am if I’m not being that person for others. So I appreciate knowing it’s not just me dealing with this. Thank you!!
These are two of my favorite Kings!! I genuinely love them and all that they stand for!! My prayer is for God to continue to bless, comfort and keep them!🙌🙌🙌🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤💜💜
What stood out to me was that Laterras is not giving up on love, he still looking for that special woman to share his safe space. I am single and I want to give up on love. ❤well done Wille Moore Jr.
I love both of you, I sent this to my son because his marriage is not going well and I pray he can receive something from this message. Much love to you both 👏🏾🙏🏾
What a beautiful interview!❤️❤️ TH-cam just showed your video and because I follow Mr. Whitfield I had to watch. Now I’m a new subscriber… from Germany 🇩🇪 , Nigerian roots 🇳🇬 and I have family in Texas 🇺🇸. I love the future wife podcast and am excited to see more of yours. Wishing God’s blessings abundance to all of you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
My God, this has just touched me on soooooo many levels. Laterras is him🎉🎉 I pray my husband has a heart posture as he do when it comes to God and marriage. I know its more, but the purpose partner is EVERYTHING ❤
When Willie Moore Jr asked Laterras, who is Laterras outside of being everybody's hero? I felt that personally!! I have been everybody's hero and now I'm left with figuring it out. I'm on a journey. This interview is definitely hitting home
Greetings Young Brother Moore, the interview you did with Laterras R.Whitfield, when he said that the Lord told him to stop trying to defend his self, and " To let his integrity out live there lie." That was epic for me!!!❤
What stuck out to me most was Laterras’s statement about lamenting over a relationship that had ended!! It spoke to my heart because I have been lamenting over the separation of marriage and it’s been 6 months yesterday since our separation and I am causing myself more pain when my husband clearly doesn’t want to reconcile our marriage. Time for me to let Go and Let God! ❤😢
Uuuummmm.... 'she is the present form of God in your life!' Loved the energy.. loved the laughter and just the flow of it... it was a sermon... my Dad just passed a couple of months back ...as Laterras spoke about his Dad and about our parents not having the tools , It settled something within me... you touched on so many things which all are very very healing and i learnt a lot ... Thank you both. God richly bless you.
What is not talked about much is that as believers we must fast and pray continuously. Most don’t fast to break generational curses or to get confirmation from God regarding who their spouse is, their decisions, career choices, etc. Pastor Kevin LA Ewing breaks this down extensively using scriptures and not his opinion. Be encouraged that all things work together for our good: the good, the bad, and the indifferent. It is in our darkest moments that the Lord reroutes us to the original destiny and purpose he has for us. Whatever we experience is never just for us, but to help with others who are struggling with what we ourselves have overcome. Be blessed.
He touched my heart on so many levels . He’s what a man is defined a great man that understands his flaws . He ready to be a husband and purpose partner ❤
I swear Laterras is the male version of me. Our lives are so much the same I feel like I’m listening to myself! That gem he dropped~ Let your character outlive their lie snatched all my edges! I remember when I was going through my divorce I heard all types of mess about me that was noise coming from my ex husband I never stopped 1 time to clear any of it up. FFWD 9yrs later my character still standing on business against those lies and the world sees it 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾 thank you Lord
I absolutely adore Willie Moore Jr! This was a great episode because two of my favorite people were together. The entire show resonated with me, but the part that I had to rewind back was when Willie said, “you’re going to live to see it, and you’re going to wait, and not outrun the pace of God’s grace”. Thank you for that! I am patiently waiting.
I thank God for both of you gentlemen. Thank you for your transparency, perspective, and your obedience. You all dropped some gems, and I needed to hear this. Keep doing what you're doing. Lives are being touched. 🙏🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾
Telling on ourselves is a state that God loves us to be in that state He will be willing to work and walk with us. It takes a lot f grace to be in that kind of vulnerable space with God
I love that you Brothers/Kings can chop it up together and truly share and draw from one another. My ex-husband and I remained respectful in divorce and these conversations helps me know how to pray for my purpose partner. I salute you Kings!!
You two Men are True Gentlemen. I Appreciate the conversation and the sheer revelation. I am a 54 year old woman with a life filled with brokenness. I was abandoned at five years old by the love of my life....my father. He had to leave my mother and seek a divorce because of the toxicity. At five, I thought that it was my fault. I rode his foot and wrapped my arms around his leg as I begged him to stay. I promised him that I would be good, but it didn't matter. Fast forward to today; it is sad to say that no matter how good of a woman I am or have been, I have been abandoned by Every male in my life since then. I have chosen to be single and abstinent for about five years. I have isolated myself pretending that this is safe and what's best for me. Any advice or nuggets of wisdom for me?
Wow seems ur still dealing wth abandonment, is that what you've attracted into ur space, that definitely has to change, maybe that lil girl who wrapped her arms around dad is still hurting from that moment, which of course you realize this.
@@aprilstravel7733 as I mentioned and asked for advice in getting past the abandonment issue. I recognize it for what it is as I travel this road of healing and revelation. I left the post in an attempt to get their male perspective and insight.
Just watched this podcast. Although I have been divorced for many years, my ex and I still have a good relationship. But the conversation made me look at my marriage in a different light. We were not friends after I decided to leave, but it also made me look at the mistakes we made and not considering that we both were lacking in things we didn't have while growing up. But I want to commend you for hitting on life issues on all your podcasts. Thank you, Bless you, and keep listening to The Holy Spirit. 🙏🏽❤️
LW is so cool , honest, goofy, and real. It would be cool to fly down & to hang out with him 1-2 days & kick it! He is just good ppl. Hearing him talk on this subject is just so relatable, and so on target! Str8 wisdom and heart. I just want to give him a huge hug! That is all! He is so strong and giving to everyone else! What about the strong I am always saying and those who are constant giver? If i ever get the opportunity to meet him, I would just hug him! Here is the scene: HE is standing there, I see him, No conversation, no hi, no words, none of that.! Just a loving embrace and hug! Then we will laugh at how odd that was, but how needed it was too though. Then just like the dad sad, "ok, that's that"! lol...Now let's kick it! 😂😂🤣🤣 Great episode! Excellent job gentlemen!!!
Hello Willie and Laterras. The thing that touched me was 'let your character out live the lie.' I really love both of your shows, I watch them every week. Keep on coming with them.😊🙏🏽👌🏾
Ohhh, the comment about how the children see you now that you have come to a place of peace... damn near made me cry. Whew. Sometimes, we don't realize the damage that holding on causes. Fear and desperation will hold us in lonely places.
I enjoyed this interview. I love myself some Laterras R. Whitfield/Dear Future Wifey! Thank you Willie for your podcast! You and Laterras are men who make us proud flaws and all! It’s a beautiful thing to see the evolution of our people doing their work and empowering others! Shalom!!
Thank you GENTLEMEN!! These honest, transparent conversations WARM my heart and soul… and ultimately fan the flame of HOPE that Abba indeed has prepared me for My King AND Him for Me. My nuggets: -10,000 to flight. Power of 5!! (hidden under God’s Grace the addition of TWO is multiplied by FIVE). -husband/wife = PURPOSE PARTNER -“I’m trying to TOLD you…” - reminder: the Vengeance IS the LORDs… and the lies being told will NOT stand. What looks like ‘delay’ does not mean forgotten. HE is mine and I AM HIS. Abba won’t keep allowing the dirt and lies. -RADICAL transparency!!!!!!!
YT recommended this to me; and I'm glad it did. This is the first video I'm watching on this channel. You're a great interviewer Mr. Moore. I hope you'll find your purpose partner, if you haven't yet.
13:07 internal word curse created …. “I will never” we don’t realize what we spoke when we spoke it! We became critical and judgmental of their lives and that thing followed us! 49:59 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Willie speaking in tongues and Laterras preaching 🙌🏾 come on sir 1 can put a 1000 to flight but 2 can chase 10,000 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 53:10 come on Willie the music cued up 😭😭😭😭😭 the glory is here whew 😮💨👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
1...definitely feeling this conversation in my shanana! Especially as a divorced woman who knows without a shadow of doubt that God approved of my divorce, regardless of the pressure and perception of others in the "church".
This is my first time commenting on The Love You Moore Show. I've been a silent watcher for a while. I also love The Dear Future Wifey Podcast. It is wonderful to hear healed men and men who are committed to healing. It's beautiful to see the support and admiration you both have for each other. I pray G-d will continue to lead and direct you both so that you'll see and be in full alignment with your purpose partners. I love to see the growth ❤.
I understand Latterras' situation. My bio-father has never reached out. When I reached out 20 years ago. His wife answered the phone, called my mother all kind of names before he got the phone from her...He never apologized for the lies she spoke then told me call his place of business to talk to him & insulted me by saying "I don't have any money to give You, if that's why You’re calling" I have never called his funeral home or met my brother who is only a month & days older than me...
I'm enjoying my season of growth. An how God is revealing me to me. I'm learning why certain people are in my path. And Laterras, like many others, have helped me unpack my emotions by his willingness to share his journey unselfishly. After 15 plus years, my ex expressed that he never saw me cry. I never knew the importance of tears being another form of communication and transformation through unspoken prayers to heavens ears.Thank you, Kings for you honesty and vulnerability. I'm learning to embrace forgiveness and my healing journey. ❤️🙏🏼
@user-uq9yd1hn2z Absolutely! The purpose of the healing journey is to get to the root cause and stop treating the symptoms. Of all the unhealed emotions caused by miss diagnoses, symptoms which contributes to more self prescribed pitfalls. It's worth embracing temporary discomfort for permanent peace.❤️🙏🏼
Man, I'm in awe of this podcast. You guys touched on so much! It was truly a blessing to watch! Both of you keep doing what you are doing. You have definitely encouraged me. I had to do a grace divorce as well. And my family thought that I was not thinking correctly. But I knew when God told me to not look at my marriage as being a marriage. And I messed up by telling my family, but it didn't stop me from moving on. I just wished I wouldn't have put that pressure on myself. They were trying to convince me otherwise. Only God knows what’s best for you! ❤❤
My first episode of your program. It nice just to hear the testimony. I am 60 and single for 12 years. I am satisfied with be single but I feel like I can be better married.
When Laterras said,
“Let your character outlive their lie.” Powerful statement! 🔥
Amen! I felt that as well!
This conversation was truly anointed and appointed! I received so much revelation from the both of you and I thank God for this platform because it truly blessed me right when I needed it.
That's what God was trying to tell me a while back when He told me not to say anything. I didn't understand, I spoke up and was left looking like a fool. Thank you for breaking it down brothers. Thank you for sharing this transparent conversation with us
Powerful, indeed! 💪🏾
Yes, it is. I have that on my refrigerator. I read it every day.
What freed me from divorce is knowing that while the Bible says, “What God puts together, no man can separate”. Well, God didn’t put a lot of these relationships together. A lot of us tried to force our will on God or we chose before knowing our God given assignment/purpose.
There is also alot of manipulation through "prophesy" and deception
BIG FACTS @@888hereandnow
EXXXACTLYYYYY!!!!! 🗣️it’s that simple to understand.
Yesssss
This ☝🏽
I’m married and just learned so much from Laterras!! I’m going back to apologize to my husband on some areas I missed in our relationship!
That's so very important queen 😊
Wow! That’s growth & maturity! Congratulations on putting in the work to honor your marriage!!
Wow! Glory to God! I salute you.
I salute you Queen. That’s maturity. Blessings on you both
WOW , what a thought!!!
I'm happy you all are watching this episode and liking it. Please keep watching until the end and share this video. It will mean a lot to me; it is a pleasure to sit down with exceptional people and give you another look into their mindset. I love you, Moore!
The end was the best part! Thank you for your words of encouragement to those of us trying to listen for the voice of the Lord rather than our temporary feelings of loneliness. Prayers for continued blessings and success to you both!!
This is my first time here and I'm loving it! 💕❤
We Serve A God Who Wants To Make Sure He Gives Us What We Need🙏🏿
This is too good 🎉
Something that might not be thought in the church is, yes God hates divorce, but not the people involved. For whoever needed to hear that, know that the Father still sees you and loves you beyond your present!
Not entirely true. We have to remember that GOD is a FATHER FIRST. If you are a parent you'd understand. This is the very reason when people divorce men or women never thrive again, lose everything and everyone and which is also why some men try to move on and their dicks don't work. You can't hurt someone's child and think you'll get off scott free all the time 🤷🏿♀️. God doesn't want to despise a man forever but a curse can't stand without a cause and a reason a lot of people stay in stuff longer than they should is because they didn't apologize to their father or the person they hurt to make it right.
Like laterras said divorce with grace vs most people divorcing with the seed of hate. Makes a difference.
@@rknihayBiblically, he’s not a father first. He’s a married man first. God created an established order, outside of that we find ourselves in bondage.
@@tanishacoats834 God is a father first
@@rknihay Based on the context of your response, it seems there is some hurt that still needs to be healed. My point was that no matter what the context of your marriage is or is not, God still see you beyond the situation because of his unlimited grace and mercy. Some people feel that if their marriage failed, then they failed God, and that is a lie. Society puts pressure on people that God never intended for it to be.
MAAAAANNNN, That part about being quiet and letting your character speak... was for me and right on time.
I love how Laterras is honest about what he wants. I love the vulnerability and the strength.
Laterras’ transparency is unmatched!! More people need to work to live in that transparency…even if he/she does not choose marriage.
Marriage is not death and it’s not for everyone. Marriage is what you make of it…ESPECIALLY if you are connected to YOUR purpose partner…IT CAN BE FREE AND REWARDING!!! LOVE IN MARRIAGE SHOULD GO VIRAL and not cheating and games. It’s time!! Another blessed episode Willie!!
“I recognized that I just couldn’t thrive in that atmosphere” This hits.
Really HIT
When Willie asked, who are you to you, after acknowledging who Laterras was known to be for others and it made me think...who am I to/for me? Really great episode 💯❤️
I love Laterra’s transparency! He is wholeness personified! He is a blessing to the Kingdom and I can’t wait to see the woman God brings into his life!!! ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!
As a divorced mom of kids 4 and older, I resonated most to Willie encouraging others to allow your kids to see you at your happiest moments. I truly desire for my kids to see and feel their mother happy. Because for so long all they saw was unhappy tears. Even on the days of being tired from working hard, the tears they see today is happier than they were 2 years ago. Thanks for the motivation!
Im a single woman im in recovery 3 yrs 4 months the greatest thing I took from this is that while im single do the work I start my first therapy session in a couple of weeks. I truly am blessed by hearing you guys speak on the real life issues that prevents relationships/ marriages from being great. God has someone for me but he won’t let them in until I’m healthy and healed from all my past trauma.
Amen! 🙌🏾
Praying for healing 🙏🏿
I WANT TO CONGRATULATE YOU PERSONALLY! To take that first step is the hardest, but thank GOD for his grace. HE TAKES OUR SHAME AND TURNS IT INTO POWER! The power to change, the power to make a different choice and make a difference in other's lives. There is this song called graves to gardens...so to you, get ready for those beautiful flowers to start blooming. The seed has been planted. There will be constant pruning, constant falls, but constant growth!!!❤❤❤
Don’t let loneliness or being alone make a decision on your emotions!! Wow powerful Willie Moore Jr. I am a divorced Mother of two children. My son is 15 and my daughter 11. They both told me mom we are good you don’t need to talk to anyone LOL. That’s because it’s peace here and they see and know that. But God will send someone for me one day and my children will accept because they know that person will be my purpose partner!! Great episode by the way. I have so many people in my office watching your show! 🙌🏾 🔥
Loneliness has caused me to make decisions out of emotions that bound me to hurt and pain. Thank you for the reminder to slow down and improve my relationship with God.
"Divorcing with grace". This comment touched my heart and reminded me how much I've matured. When I divorced this was my #1 priority because I wanted to show my kids that just because their parents weren't together didn't mean we had to be enemies. I needed them to see that I was at peace, happy and hopeful for the future. I am determined to wait on God and show my kids that marriage can be a beautiful thing when God is at the center of it! Thank you for your transparency! I thought I was the only person on earth that felt like God gave me peace about moving on in order to thrive!
Divorce is already grace.
Some people are totally against divorce, regardless of the circumstances, Especially in the church. I left my ex husband, and I absolutely know it was not only the right thing to do, but the GOD thing to do.
I felt that
That's it.
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Thank you WillieMooreJr for having Laterras R Whitfield on your podcast. Thank you, Laterras for sharing your story about your dad. I had a history story with my dad before he left this earth July 17, 2023. My dad knew that I forgave him when I drove him to his last Laughlin Bowling Tournament July 7-9, 2023. It was the first time I went bowling with him since I was in the 5th grade.
I love when friends are on each other's platforms. The conversation hit different.
Healing the Inner Child wounds heals tremendously, its like clearing the cache of your computer so that it operates properly ❤️❤️❤️!!!!.. Awesome testimony Laterras!!!
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I love Laterras it is refreshing to get a man's perspective of love and marriage.
I appreciate Laterras's honesty. When Willie asked him who he is when he's not being someone's hero, I was able to put one of my thoughts about him into words. I think he's so analytical and focused that he may take some of the spontaneity out of his encounters. He projects what he thinks and wants when he speaks - like he's teaching. But I wonder if he allows himself to relax in someone else's company, and to receive their energy in return.
I rest in energy of a woman's company. I embrace it.
I soo appreciate your comment here. I wonder the same about Laterras. You articulated my thought perfectly. I also see that he responded, but I hope he considered your words prior to responding.
From man to man I simply want to thank you both for your honesty and candidness. Men in the church need to have these real conversations with men after God's on heart.
Salute king!
I love this episode! Laterras is a hero not just because what he does for others. He is a HERO because he has consistently been open about who he is inner and outer! His transparency and being an authentic example for ALL BLACK MEN! Willie Moore you are hilarious and a man of Gawd!!! I love it thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!
It is11:23 p.m. Central time N O. La. 05/20/24. This is my first time listening to willmoore show,so honest so teal andwers. To so many questions I have had through the years..Going through a divorce after we yrs. No regrets not the right partner God knew all along I didn't. When you are in love and have a cheating spouse you make excuse after excuse, even when you know the love is gone. Never again no anger just enlightenment. I am 74 years old and I believe there is still love out there for me. I gorgot about myself,never again and I thank God for my deliverance..Amen!!!!
I JUST had a conversation with a friend about the fact that I'm praying for God to partner with a person with a peaceful heart posture after the work I've done. She warned me not to let loneliness keep me from my REAL purpose partner. Thank you both for the confirmation! "Don't out race the pace of God's grace!"
Omg that closing you gave about the children seeing you now at peace…and not wanting you to go back to that un-peaceful place…that was definitely meant for me…thank you for sharing and letting Holy Spirit use you 😢😅😊
14:47 epiphany
Asking him to be something that WAS NEVER MODELED FOR HIM💔
That’s what we need more of from our Men✨☮️🌻💜🙏🏽
This was SO GOOOD! It feeds the soul to see Black men speak on relationships. We need more. Thank you God for blessing this union of information and restoration.
This has truly been a blessing for me!! I going through a divorce and it was like God paid it in my spirit this is over. And as a Christian woman I was terrified! And because I kept what was going on in my house everyone was shocked. But I know what God told me. So thank you both for being transparent. Much Love...
Laterras and Willie Moore together is a blessing! Thank you Kings! Happy Father’s Day to all the amazing fathers!! May God continue to bless you and give you the wisdom to be the Fathers that God called you to be!! ❤
What touch my heart is that you gentlemen are truly truly transparent and honest. Thank you. I’m not experiencing peace in my marriage, we are at church every Sunday. Smh… I’m in counseling he’s not. Thanks to you both…
Praise God for Willie Moore and Laterras Whitfield I love when Men of God are vulnerable with each other as well as show their appreciation and love for each other without being weird! Wholesome Men of Integrity!
We have to extend more grace n forgiveness to our parents. Forgiving them heals every party involved!
I am new to your channel but Ive been following Dear Future Wifey. I just want to say This was everything! Left me in tears and Hopeful. Thank you. 🎉
I enjoyed this entire episode! One of the things that stood out to me was radical acceptance! That’s what helped me accept my divorce, knowing that I did all I could in the relationship and I’m ok with it not being restored
Thank you Brothers, I need a financial miracle to stay in my home now. This is truly helping me to trust God, thank you!!!
I am currently not working a full time job so I have more flexibility with my time during the day. During this time, God has lead me to Dear Future Wifey and to listen to the Willie Moore Jr show. As I am figuring out this next chapter in my life, Willie Moore and Laterras have been such a blessing to my life.
Laterras thank you for your transparency and for asking all of the right questions with the guests on your show. I have shared your podcasts with my friends.
Willie, your words of wisdom on your radio show inspire and motivate me to seek God more and to know that God has something better for me. Continue to led God lead you and He will give you the desires of your heart.
This was so meaningful. I don’t know why it took me this long to tap in. My prayer is that God be glorified in ALL…for God’s glory and our good. 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾💛🙌🏾
My favorite nugget is Lateras (sp) speaking on the value of marriage & having a Kingdom partner as opposed to “ball n chain.” God’s grace over the marriage & the two of you strategizing “TOGETHER” etc. I absolutely enjoyed Lateras going in on the value of marriage. I am convinced when he finds his Kingdom wife oooh hasha ta maasaätah Holy Spirit…I am more open to the idea of marriage now.
The ending I'm in tears. Thank you Willie Moore. Wait on God! Your purpose partner!
Hey Laterras!😆I love me some dearfuturewifey… this is the first episode I’ve watched on this platform & I can say I’m so glad I clicked on!!
I love seeing two black men supporting one another and pouring into each other and the world while showing up authentic… there were so many great nuggets ..
Y’all had me laughing and saying amen all at the same time !👏🏽😭
To God be the glory!
My Lord Laterra is Speaking Truth to Power.Glory
Wow! What really touched me was when Laterras was asked who is his hero because he’s been everything for everyone else. For him to start to get emotional and be honest and say he truly can’t answer that yet because he’s still trying to figure that out. I have been watching a lot of his videos recently and I’ve truly never heard of him until about a year ago. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man I can say I actually admire because of their self awareness and honesty and transparency. I’m excited for him to find his future wife because I truly believe he’s putting in all the work for her and God sees it and he will deliver it better than Laterras can ever imagine!
@tiffany3613 Thank you so much for your kind words. You've sincerely touched my heart.
The one thing that touched me was when you asked who are you if you’re not being a hero to others. That touched me because I am trying to figure that out for myself. I have always put others needs and desires before my own and my passion is to help others. now I am trying to reflect on who I am if I’m not being that person for others. So I appreciate knowing it’s not just me dealing with this. Thank you!!
These are two of my favorite Kings!! I genuinely love them and all that they stand for!! My prayer is for God to continue to bless, comfort and keep them!🙌🙌🙌🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤💜💜
The “what comes with a wife” segment was top tier!
What stood out to me was that Laterras is not giving up on love, he still looking for that special woman to share his safe space. I am single and I want to give up on love. ❤well done Wille Moore Jr.
Amen! Giving up on love is giving up on God because God is love.
I loved this entire conversation✨♥️
I love both of you, I sent this to my son because his marriage is not going well and I pray he can receive something from this message. Much love to you both 👏🏾🙏🏾
What a beautiful interview!❤️❤️
TH-cam just showed your video and because I follow Mr. Whitfield I had to watch. Now I’m a new subscriber… from Germany 🇩🇪 , Nigerian roots 🇳🇬 and I have family in Texas 🇺🇸.
I love the future wife podcast and am excited to see more of yours. Wishing God’s blessings abundance to all of you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
My God, this has just touched me on soooooo many levels. Laterras is him🎉🎉 I pray my husband has a heart posture as he do when it comes to God and marriage. I know its more, but the purpose partner is EVERYTHING ❤
When Willie Moore Jr asked Laterras, who is Laterras outside of being everybody's hero? I felt that personally!! I have been everybody's hero and now I'm left with figuring it out. I'm on a journey. This interview is definitely hitting home
Greetings Young Brother Moore, the interview you did with Laterras R.Whitfield, when he said that the Lord told him to stop trying to defend his self, and " To let his integrity out live there lie." That was epic for me!!!❤
Love This episode... Iron sharpening Iron💪🏾❤
Bless both you men of God are a blessing and encouraging.
What stuck out to me most was Laterras’s statement about lamenting over a relationship that had ended!! It spoke to my heart because I have been lamenting over the separation of marriage and it’s been 6 months yesterday since our separation and I am causing myself more pain when my husband clearly doesn’t want to reconcile our marriage. Time for me to let Go and Let God! ❤😢
Uuuummmm.... 'she is the present form of God in your life!' Loved the energy.. loved the laughter and just the flow of it... it was a sermon... my Dad just passed a couple of months back ...as Laterras spoke about his Dad and about our parents not having the tools , It settled something within me... you touched on so many things which all are very very healing and i learnt a lot ... Thank you both. God richly bless you.
A kingdom partner! So real - two is better than one!
Thank you all for making this! 🙌🏽Even though you are males, I can agree with the generational curses of my parents and my family. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
What is not talked about much is that as believers we must fast and pray continuously. Most don’t fast to break generational curses or to get confirmation from God regarding who their spouse is, their decisions, career choices, etc. Pastor Kevin LA Ewing breaks this down extensively using scriptures and not his opinion. Be encouraged that all things work together for our good: the good, the bad, and the indifferent. It is in our darkest moments that the Lord reroutes us to the original destiny and purpose he has for us. Whatever we experience is never just for us, but to help with others who are struggling with what we ourselves have overcome. Be blessed.
He touched my heart on so many levels . He’s what a man is defined a great man that understands his flaws . He ready to be a husband and purpose partner ❤
I swear Laterras is the male version of me. Our lives are so much the same I feel like I’m listening to myself! That gem he dropped~ Let your character outlive their lie snatched all my edges! I remember when I was going through my divorce I heard all types of mess about me that was noise coming from my ex husband I never stopped 1 time to clear any of it up. FFWD 9yrs later my character still standing on business against those lies and the world sees it 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾 thank you Lord
Man this really hits home….. so much transparency and realness. Helping each other become whole.
I absolutely adore Willie Moore Jr! This was a great episode because two of my favorite people were together. The entire show resonated with me, but the part that I had to rewind back was when Willie said, “you’re going to live to see it, and you’re going to wait, and not outrun the pace of God’s grace”. Thank you for that! I am patiently waiting.
Absolutely love Laterras and his transparency. Willie Moore Jr. I enjoy this podcast
I thank God for both of you gentlemen. Thank you for your transparency, perspective, and your obedience. You all dropped some gems, and I needed to hear this. Keep doing what you're doing. Lives are being touched. 🙏🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾
Telling on ourselves is a state that God loves us to be in that state He will be willing to work and walk with us. It takes a lot f grace to be in that kind of vulnerable space with God
I love that you Brothers/Kings can chop it up together and truly share and draw from one another. My ex-husband and I remained respectful in divorce and these conversations helps me know how to pray for my purpose partner. I salute you Kings!!
The Statement let your character outlive a lie that is hard when you in your feeling but god is good and faithful
Sooo many great nuggets!!! I’ve been divorced for over 20 years. I desire to be that purpose partner, a godly wife that can support her husband.
You two Men are True Gentlemen. I Appreciate the conversation and the sheer revelation. I am a 54 year old woman with a life filled with brokenness. I was abandoned at five years old by the love of my life....my father. He had to leave my mother and seek a divorce because of the toxicity. At five, I thought that it was my fault. I rode his foot and wrapped my arms around his leg as I begged him to stay. I promised him that I would be good, but it didn't matter. Fast forward to today; it is sad to say that no matter how good of a woman I am or have been, I have been abandoned by Every male in my life since then. I have chosen to be single and abstinent for about five years. I have isolated myself pretending that this is safe and what's best for me. Any advice or nuggets of wisdom for me?
Wow seems ur still dealing wth abandonment, is that what you've attracted into ur space, that definitely has to change, maybe that lil girl who wrapped her arms around dad is still hurting from that moment, which of course you realize this.
@@aprilstravel7733 as I mentioned and asked for advice in getting past the abandonment issue. I recognize it for what it is as I travel this road of healing and revelation. I left the post in an attempt to get their male perspective and insight.
These two quotes right her "Let your character out live their lies" and
"Radical Acceptance" 🙌🏾
I love to hear Laterras speak!! Every time I hear him I get a relevation and get inspired!❤
Just watched this podcast. Although I have been divorced for many years, my ex and I still have a good relationship. But the conversation made me look at my marriage in a different light. We were not friends after I decided to leave, but it also made me look at the mistakes we made and not considering that we both were lacking in things we didn't have while growing up. But I want to commend you for hitting on life issues on all your podcasts. Thank you, Bless you, and keep listening to The Holy Spirit. 🙏🏽❤️
LW is so cool , honest, goofy, and real. It would be cool to fly down & to hang out with him 1-2 days & kick it! He is just good ppl. Hearing him talk on this subject is just so relatable, and so on target! Str8 wisdom and heart. I just want to give him a huge hug! That is all! He is so strong and giving to everyone else! What about the strong I am always saying and those who are constant giver? If i ever get the opportunity to meet him, I would just hug him! Here is the scene: HE is standing there, I see him, No conversation, no hi, no words, none of that.! Just a loving embrace and hug! Then we will laugh at how odd that was, but how needed it was too though. Then just like the dad sad, "ok, that's that"! lol...Now let's kick it! 😂😂🤣🤣 Great episode! Excellent job gentlemen!!!
Hello Willie and Laterras. The thing that touched me was 'let your character out live the lie.' I really love both of your shows, I watch them every week. Keep on coming with them.😊🙏🏽👌🏾
Ohhh, the comment about how the children see you now that you have come to a place of peace... damn near made me cry. Whew. Sometimes, we don't realize the damage that holding on causes. Fear and desperation will hold us in lonely places.
I enjoyed this interview. I love myself some Laterras R. Whitfield/Dear Future Wifey!
Thank you Willie for your podcast! You and Laterras are men who make us proud flaws and all!
It’s a beautiful thing to see the evolution of our people doing their work and empowering others!
Shalom!!
Thank you GENTLEMEN!!
These honest, transparent conversations WARM my heart and soul… and ultimately fan the flame of HOPE that Abba indeed has prepared me for My King AND Him for Me.
My nuggets:
-10,000 to flight. Power of 5!! (hidden under God’s Grace the addition of TWO is multiplied by FIVE).
-husband/wife = PURPOSE PARTNER
-“I’m trying to TOLD you…”
- reminder: the Vengeance IS the LORDs… and the lies being told will NOT stand. What looks like ‘delay’ does not mean forgotten. HE is mine and I AM HIS. Abba won’t keep allowing the dirt and lies.
-RADICAL transparency!!!!!!!
57:49 I watched the replay. You both are great. I love to see and hear men tell their truth and be transparent.
YT recommended this to me; and I'm glad it did. This is the first video I'm watching on this channel. You're a great interviewer Mr. Moore. I hope you'll find your purpose partner, if you haven't yet.
13:07 internal word curse created …. “I will never” we don’t realize what we spoke when we spoke it! We became critical and judgmental of their lives and that thing followed us! 49:59 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Willie speaking in tongues and Laterras preaching 🙌🏾 come on sir 1 can put a 1000 to flight but 2 can chase 10,000 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 53:10 come on Willie the music cued up 😭😭😭😭😭 the glory is here whew 😮💨👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Let your character outlive their lies.... Oh boy! Now that was my message. With appreciation from Nairobi Kenya... Alex Gabriel
I love that question ❤ he’s so special . His heart is huge a real man .
God will vindicate us and we are commanded to pray for and bless those that say all manner of evil.
PRAISE GOD!
"Sometimes we want to avoid something so bad, that we end up running right into it." Geeeshhhh!
1...definitely feeling this conversation in my shanana! Especially as a divorced woman who knows without a shadow of doubt that God approved of my divorce, regardless of the pressure and perception of others in the "church".
I love Laterras transparency and openness. It’s so refreshing to see.
I bless God for you two. You're honesty is everything ❤
This is my first time commenting on The Love You Moore Show. I've been a silent watcher for a while. I also love The Dear Future Wifey Podcast.
It is wonderful to hear healed men and men who are committed to healing. It's beautiful to see the support and admiration you both have for each other.
I pray G-d will continue to lead and direct you both so that you'll see and be in full alignment with your purpose partners.
I love to see the growth ❤.
Glory to God! Thank you for commenting.
I understand Latterras' situation. My bio-father has never reached out. When I reached out 20 years ago. His wife answered the phone, called my mother all kind of names before he got the phone from her...He never apologized for the lies she spoke then told me call his place of business to talk to him & insulted me by saying "I don't have any money to give You, if that's why You’re calling" I have never called his funeral home or met my brother who is only a month & days older than me...
I'm enjoying my season of growth. An how God is revealing me to me. I'm learning why certain people are in my path. And Laterras, like many others, have helped me unpack my emotions by his willingness to share his journey unselfishly. After 15 plus years, my ex expressed that he never saw me cry. I never knew the importance of tears being another form of communication and transformation through unspoken prayers to heavens ears.Thank you, Kings for you honesty and vulnerability. I'm learning to embrace forgiveness and my healing journey. ❤️🙏🏼
Sometimes You Need That Down Town Just To Appreciate Life,You,And See How Far You Come
That's Deep But Real
@user-uq9yd1hn2z Absolutely! The purpose of the healing journey is to get to the root cause and stop treating the symptoms. Of all the unhealed emotions caused by miss diagnoses, symptoms
which contributes to more self prescribed pitfalls. It's worth embracing temporary discomfort for permanent peace.❤️🙏🏼
Powerful
I needed to hear that discussion about a father's healing. I welcome intercession in that regard! Bless y'all for the LIT conversation.
Man, I'm in awe of this podcast. You guys touched on so much! It was truly a blessing to watch! Both of you keep doing what you are doing. You have definitely encouraged me. I had to do a grace divorce as well. And my family thought that I was not thinking correctly. But I knew when God told me to not look at my marriage as being a marriage. And I messed up by telling my family, but it didn't stop me from moving on. I just wished I wouldn't have put that pressure on myself. They were trying to convince me otherwise. Only God knows what’s best for you! ❤❤
There were sooo many gems I had to re-watch with a note pad!!!! Awesome EPISODE!
My first episode of your program. It nice just to hear the testimony. I am 60 and single for 12 years. I am satisfied with be single but I feel like I can be better married.
Wow! Let your character outlive their lies! Jesus Jesus Jesus!
Speak Father! I am listening. Glory🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
This episode blessed me in more ways than I can count. May God continue to bless both your ministries. 🙏🏾