Life Update: The Wedding Is Canceled
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- This video was difficult to film and even more difficult to share online. Thank you all for always being supportive even in the tougher moments. If you are currently experiencing heartbreak, you are not alone. Love yourself, take care of yourself and know that you will always be ok.
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TH-cam Algorithm:
Do you want to know why this random girl didn't get married?
Me: I guess we'll just have to find out.
Sameeeee
Yup me too
Lmfaooooooo same here 😂
😂
Same
Came back to this video after your baby announcement. You're now seemingly in such a healthy relationship with a bundle of joy on the way. Oh if only this Melissa knew the blessings already on the way to her! Gives me so much hope.
Yep same! So crazy how things had to end in order for her to meet her new boo and have a baby! This is why the universe allowed for her last relationship to end! We always just have to trust the process.
God’s rejection is God’s protection. Sending you positive vibes as you start this new chapter in your life 💕
VivaLaDari mans rejection is God’s protection*
VivaLaDari Amen!!🙏♥️🙌
Amen 🙌🏾
Girl at least you didn’t actually get married. I did and two months later he left me.
AzulCeleste 8A 🥺😮
We’re you by chance constantly pressuring him for marriage?
@@sdg954 no, not once.
AzulCeleste 8A I ask because there are situations in which guys aren’t ready for marriage l but somehow get pressured into it, then realize afterwards that it’s not what they wanted. But in your case he should have never let it get that far if he was planning on leaving. Sorry you had to go through that.
SMH I'm so sorry. But God never disappoints. One door closes a better one will open. Everything happens for reasons we may never know 💜
Remember this: Heartbreaks dont last. This will pass. God knows whats best for your life. Stay up Mama you got this!! 💪🏼💋
Big Al & Lisa Marie Vlogs yes I agree!:)) Small TH-camr here 😁
Big Al & Lisa Marie Vlogs facts been there and time heals.
I just turned 30 and thought my life would be way different than it is. I have faith something great will come along. We’re in this together 💪🏼
A lot of women relate with you, me included. And something great will DEFINITELY come along.
PinkGlitter I have a group of girlfriends who have their dreams career, husbands and even babies so it’s hard some days too feel so behind
Maria k so do I. And it definitely is hard at times. But remember, grass is always greener on the other side. Our destinations might be the same but our journeys are different.
My 30th birthday is today and man I felt this so deep in my soul! I thought my life would be way better by this point in my life! We’re definitely in this together!
Ughh I’m so glad I’m not alone on this😏
Just be you. If u feel like crying then CRY! We are only human. Its okay. No one is gokng to judge you for crying and being raw. We have all been there and can relate
I'm a little older than you with children & plenty of heartbreak experience. My only advice is, don't suppress your pain, feel it & process it. There is light on the other side, I promise. More importantly, God is the God of the lost, lonely, rejected, brokenhearted, seek refuge in His presence, He is a strong tower on your time of weakness. Only God can mend what has been broken. God bless you lady, stay graceful and authentic! Xoxoxo
My fiancé broke it off with me a month before our wedding. I understand the pain and confusion. But I know that God ended it for a reason, so you have to just trust Him.
he got Insecure that you were too good for him ❤️ fuck him 🙌🏼😂
Thank you ❤️
I just canceled my wedding a month before our at as well. I feel so lost and emotionally drained
Heartbreak is painful at first but I applaud you for choosing you.
Babe, man’s rejection, GODS PROTECTION. ❤️ You’re absolutely beautiful.
I was with my ex for almost 10 years, engaged moved in together ... all that. Then bam it was all over. Time truly heals all wounds. I feel your pain and it’s okay to cry it out ❤️
How did you deal with that? I need advice
It’s better to stop it at the beginning, alot of people like the idea of marriage but it’s a big commitment that I feel some people don’t know, this shall pass You can find yourself again and bring joy to yourself ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You can do so much better than him. I can't believe he even had a chance with you. Such a beautiful woman and the right man will find you.
I’m not even gonna lie, thought this was click bait. I’m sorry to hear about this. Take
Time to heal and lean on God. Blessings.
I know this may sound weird. But I’m honestly really happy for you and the new journey you’ll be on. I obviously don’t know what happened and it’s none of my business but it’s good that you recognized now that your relationship wouldn’t work out and made the decision to split up. So many people stay with their significant other for many reasons whether it be kids or financial whatever. And you made the decision to split up before you did anything permanent. It’s honestly so noble and strong especially being in the eye of the public. You will find hour happiness, but for right now that happiness may just be yourself ❤️ much love always
I’m currently going through a similar situation and my heart is broken . However, I know Gods plan is far more grand than I can ever imagine . Keep faith and love yourself, pray for Gods strength and keep moving forward !
Praying for God's PERFECT peace over your life. May He embrace you with His unconditional love and grant you Serenity and Unspeakable Joy! Love You!💜
I was with my fiancé 5 years, we had a baby 2016, he proposed March 2019 and we bought a house in sept 2019. Nov 2019 he got weird, then nasty and basically cancelled the wedding in Jan 2020. It’s. Been. Hell.
Cancelling my dress was heartbreaking, I think that was the worst part. It been humiliating explaining to all the guests (my friends and family) that he left me and it’s all cancelled.
We are still living together as we bought a house so I don’t really know what is going to happen. Sending my love to you, you must feel horrendous. I’m so sorry it’s happening to you too xx
Hayley Lisa I’m so sorry. Remember this: “Rock bottom became the foundation on which she built her life.” Take this as the sign you’ve been looking for. Sending you good karma.
I’ve been there. He met someone else. It’s going to be easier to try to stay, but things will never be the same. It will end one day. I hope you have the strength to leave ASAP!!
MsJones so sorry hun, sending love ❤️ to you stay strong.
Don't take him back . Y
Oh girl... That must be so hard. Has he told you why his feelings changed?
Melissa, I’ve been through this before and it’s all very heartbreaking. More than anything.. I did not want YOU saying anything until YOU were ready. Blessings and love to you 💓
I’m sorry you’re going through this, but everything happens for a reason. Stay close to Your faith and let the universe guide you to your new journey. You’re amazing and so strong, don’t underestimate yourself. I know things will get better for you. love you babe 🤍
I just started following you a few months ago and love your content. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. Everyone should respect your decision to keep it private. I pray you find peace. You will and be happy 💗
Jenessys Diaz shes so amazing.
Small youtuber here❤️
I don’t know you. This is the first video I am watching from your channel. You don’t know it yet, and you probably can’t see it, but this was a blessing. He left, making room for someone/something bigger and greater. 2020 is going to bring you so many blessings! It’s difficult now, but in time you will heal.
Omg Melissa I’m so sorry to hear this. I was curious why most of your vlogs been in Jersey . Girl you’re AMAZING and God has great things coming your way! Always trust Gods plan and remember all this heartache/heartbreak is temporary. Continue to be the queen you are and I’m looking forward to your new journey. Love ya girl! 💕
I hear you on the whole “you plan your life to go a certain way, and then it doesn’t,” but the universe/God has a plan for all of us. Keep your head up girl, brighter days are ahead! Sending you lots of love and positivity 💞💫
I’m so sorry babes. Everything happens for a reason. Greater things are coming your way. We are all here for you 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I hear your pain in any way. I just turn 30 and started this new year with a heartache, betrayal, shattered and ashame. All in gods hands, he will bring better light in our lives. 💕💕
Aww babygirl you deserve nothing but to be happy and the best and you will find it at the right time ❤️you are beautiful and a smart women! I hope you find happiness with your self and your love one 💕
I'm almost 30 and last year I ended a four year relationship and I remember exactly how that felt when it first happened. It was devastating.We are here for you, you got this💕💕
Always classy! You are stronger than you believe! thank you for sharing! This too shall pass! Your positivity is contagious 💕🙏🏽
It’s not embarrassing it’s authentic. You’re human and being so emotional about it means you were truly invested with your whole heart. Mama we are all here cheering you on and praying for you. God will never put you in a situation that you cannot handle 💕 You are strong, beautiful and are doing what is best for you. One door closes, another will open. Cry, feel it, have good and bad days but remember you’ll look back at this moment in a few years and be so proud of the women you are and how you stood firm. We are all about settling down but we are never about settling... remember that. Sending all my love!
Melissa, you have so many people loving you and supporting you from afar. You will get through this rough time, I promise. Your ability to be raw & honest is inspiring. Take care of yourself the best you can - your supporters will understand.
Oh girl Everything happens for a reason! You're so strong and brave, sending the hugest hugs ! ❤ Just know that any heartbreak is temporary and this shall pass too ❤
Hi Beautiful, it sucks that you felt the need to tell us. I felt something was off but didnt imagine It would be this. Focus on you..your true supporters will be here when you're ready. My heart aches for you..but know that feeling is temporary. Greater things will come your way❤❤ 🙏
Dont feel embarassed. Im so happy for you, heading on this new journey and chapter of your life! You deserve nothing less!
I felt this Melissa. I could see your hurt and pain through the camera and I want to applaud you for being so brave. Putting your life out there even when it’s not “perfect”... people are all caught up in this fantasy world where it’s “attention seeking” if you post your not so happy moments. Thank you for sharing your personal experience, I’m sure you are inspiring someone to do what they need to do to make themselves happy as well. Love ya girl, we are here for your new journey! Keep moving forward 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️
Prayers with you Melissa. You owe NO ONE an explanation of why! Girl do you. Stay focused and positive. One day at a time sometimes one minute at a time. Love yah girl!!! ❤❤🙏🙏
My heart goes out to you. I know first hand how a big breakup really affects your whole mind, body, soul and everything in between. Just know it will definitely get better and this will all
Pass although it might not seem like it right now. Sending you all the positive vibes. Love you
2020 is a year of big changes, that's for sure! I know you must be heartbroken, but your bravery gave me hope! ✨
You been someone that has lifted my spirits many times when I’ve felt down so just know you have thousands who love you and are here for you ❤️ you’re such an amazing soul and God has a whole world for you to see , stay strong beautiful .
We can definitely feel how heartbroken you are. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Just know you have us to lean on whenever you need it. Sending you lots of love and light ❤️
I am so sorry. I can’t even begin to imagine how you’re feeling and what you’re going through. I pray that you find healing, peace, comfort & happiness in this next chapter of your life. It’s okay to cry. No one will judge you. We understand. You’ve been strong for so long that sometimes you just need to let it out. We support you. We will be here. You are strong and you are a fighter and you will get through this. It just takes time. Don’t rush or push yourself to be OK before you’re ready. We will be here when you’re ready to get back to your regular schedule. Don’t feel the pressure to do anything you’re not ready for. You have an army of supporters behind you. Much love and many blessings to you xo 💗
Sweetheart I know what you feel. Believe me I do. I was married for a year and got divorced last year. My God has it been SO painful. You feel like your life has been shattered. You are shocked and think all of your plans have been “destroyed”. Baby it gets better. The world keeps spinning and each day the weight becomes less heavier. Trust the process and in God. You may not know the answer now as to why this happened but life will show you why it happened. Take it a day at a time and give yourself time to mourn and process everything. You will be okay.
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Ugh I been through this before .. getting engaged and almost getting married.. it isn’t easy in the beginning and thank you for sharing your experience.. it’s always appreciated by many of us who watch you.. just remember, you are beautiful, smart, intelligent, you have aspirations for yourself and maybe he wasn’t mean to fit in those plans.. I don’t want to judge him or make assumptions because we don’t know him but what I can say in my opinion is you deserve the world, you deserve to be happy, you deserve someone who will bring out the best in you .. if he wasn’t able to do that .. it is okay and you will be happy regardless and continue inspiring others and making new content .. your dream person is out there and it’s only a matter of time when you two will meet 💯❤️
this is beautiful! such kind words
I just want to say that this felt personal. Yes we all have been with you on your TH-cam journey which encompasses your personal when you chose to share. I won’t speak too much on the topic because it is still fresh but you should do a Pop up shop for Sunday Energy so we all can come see you and buy your stuff and give you Hugssss! 🙌🏽😃
CoCo S yes!!! A pop up shop for Sunday energy!! 💯💯
YoShiCrazii yesssss I’m here for it! It would uplift her and give her that positive energy! 🙌🏽🙏🏽
Amen 💕💕
CoCo S yes exactly!!!! All good vibes! ❤️❤️❤️
Oh Mel, I wish I could fly over to you and give you the biggest hug EVER! I love you so much. I’m sorry for the pain you have to endure. You are so loved! Stay Strong
We are here for you and your not the only one going through this currently. We love you Mel ! Your beautiful, strong, intelligent & most importantly worthy.
you're gorgeous girl! god will put the man you deserve in your life
Put your life in gods hands and see how much better your life will be. I used to be so lost, dated all the wrong guys, but when I gave my life to Jesus everything changed for the better. Trust me he can help you through anything.
Ugh girl I’m so sorry ! I hope you take all the time you need to heal. Just know we support you no matter what! Love you girl
Live your best life sweetie, EVERYTHING happens for a reason which is something that’s not always clear when you’re sad but you’ll see.
Wishing you all the best and better for this chapter 😘
I’m so sorry. I feel your heartache literally.
Time heals everything. I've been through something similar and I remember looking back at how hurt and lost I was thinking things would never get better but I overcame it and you will too. It's normal to feel the way you do but everything happens for a reason! God will open new doors for you! Wishing you the best, xo
I don’t know why I decided to re watch this. It makes me happy to see where your at now ❤️
Melissa you are so strong. Stay beautiful inside and out and continue moving forward ❣️
Please please please do NOT feel embarrassed!!!!!
You got this Melissa! Im going through a really hard break up right now too... I recommend you go out and do the things that make you happy and push urself even when you don't want to, try new things, just feel it out... you can weather this storm! You can get through it and you will! You're so beautiful and amazing, take all the time you need!!! Sending you lots of love! Thank you for sharing your life, you are very brave
Heartbreaking, but god has other plans for your life. Thanks for sharing can’t wait to see your new place and of course keep following your journey.
I dont know what happend but I'm sure somewhere in his heart hes hurting too. Whatever happend i hope the best for the two of you as you find yourselves and purpose in life. My heart goes out for the both of you❤ Be encouraged 2020 has just begun. 💖🤗
Melissa I am so sorry, my ex and I have been together for 5 years and broke up October 2019... I’m 30 with a 4 year old son and 2 year old girl, I thought I would be married by now but it didn’t happen with him... I still cry sometimes now, just trying to adjust being alone.. it’s hard at times, I wish there was a fast forward button... but I know things happen for a reason. You got this girl, just know you have support out here in the TH-cam community 😘
Dang I really wanna know what happened cuz you two seemed so solid!!! I hope he didn’t cheat cuz he doesn’t seem like a cheater but you never know cuz the break up was drastic and sudden. Not trying to be messy. Anyway, It’s none of our business though but I really appreciate you being at least a little transparent with us because it’s really not easy putting your life on social media because ppl are so cruel. You seem like a very strong woman , and you have lots of friends and family and great support so I know you’ll be okay! Wishing you the best! God bless you chica. 🤗❤️
The men that dont look like cheaters are the ones who can surprise you the most!!!!!
I know it seems like ever since she got back from Sam's wedding in Florida things got bad...they were my fave TH-cam couple,they looked so happy,and got along great..I hope they can really work things out!!!! We love you melissa 💕🌹
@@MuzicXLoveR shit I agree it's so sad man need to grow and not be in a relationship if not ready like why is that so hard 🤦🤦it's like them love hurting the ones that love them 🙄
It def sounds like cheating :( men can be so stupid
Tbh they were on and off before. :/
Ugh we love you too💕💞. I kept passing this video up because I didn’t want it to be true😭. But take all the time you need. Sending prayers your way🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. I can’t wait to see what god has in store for you. I know it’s going to be great!
Awww I hope you feel better babe 🥰 we’re all here for you and rooting for your happiness. Everyday gets a little easier..
YOU GOT THIS :)
Blessings to you for prosperous journey hun💗💗💗🧡🧡🧡
we love you so much!!! I'm proud of you in how you've back to trying to keep going! heartbreaks are never easy seriously. take your time one day at a time!
Oh wow. Im sorry and i hope your mental and emotional status heals day by day. I love you though. Its just a new chapter and you take it day by day. I hope you know you don't have to tell us your business at all. We support you either way.
Hi Melissa, im so sorry to hear whats happened, your a very strong young Lady.
Keep the Faith, stay close, to Family and Friends.
Peace, Love and Blessings to you.❤😘🦋
Holaa
Girl you got this. I cannot wait to see what you accomplish this new year I’m so sorry about what happened but wait and see girl this year’s gonna be amazing for you...💕💕💕 And we are all here to support you!
So I’m driving back from North Jersey and I’m hearing this in my car. WHAAAAAAAAAT!!!!! Dios mioooo ! My prayers are with you . You’re a very inspirational person and you will get through this! Love you!!!!
Girl you will be fine..... it’s sucks now, you may not see it and of course things are easier said than done.... but one day you will see this as the BEST THING that happened to you. Good vibes your way !!!!!!
Big hugs babe! So sorry for what you’re going through 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for being so open with us, I know this must have been difficult. ❤️
I'm sorry. A breakup can feel like a death. Unfortunately pain is a part of life. Trust me, I've been there and done that and it all turned out fine. There is light at the end of every dark tunnel! 6 mos from now you'll be thanking God for bringing you thru this situation. You're a gem.
This video just popped up in my feeds and I’m amazed at how much your life changed in just a year 1/2! If you only knew the blessings that were upon you. ❤️
Sorry to hear that babe, 2020 has come in strong and I can relate but things happen for a reason, working out helps so so much keep it up, it know it took a lot from you to make this video pero God has a plan for all of us 🙏🏼❤️😘 stay strong 💪🏼 & positive ❤️
3:30 what did we ever do as humans to deserve dogs ♥️ that was so much needed! Allow yourself the time you need to go through what you’re going through. Heartbreaks are awful :( We’ll be here waiting for you when you’re ready 👯♀️🙌🏻
You are such an amazing soul! Don’t ever let anything that happens to you to dim your light! Right now take the time to grow through it and heal your amazing heart. You are never alone and always ask your Angels to wrap their wings on you when you feel like you can’t on those rough days! 💖💫🙏🏼
😔 i’m so sorry hun.
I hope you recover and regain your beautiful joy😘. I know you will!
I hate that your heart broken right now. But if you want to cry then let it all out! And better sooner than later, time will heal everything and you will be a stronger woman because of it! We love you!
This heartbreak will pass and you will find someone who truly cherishes you. Feel all the feels and go through the process.
So sorry to hear, I’m glad you are back around your family & friends so they will be able to help and support u during this time. I’m just like u, I like having a routine/schedule and when things go dramatically different it’s hard to get back to the swing of things but give it time & u will be in a much better place. Praying for u and Max ❤️
I’m so sorry that your going through this. Thanks for sharing your personal business with us. Just know, You got this girl! You’re going to be more than ok.
Honestly I didn't see the chemistry when ya'll were together and I didn't see any light in your eyes when he proposed. Looked like a brother/sister dynamic or 'best friends' vibe.
You are loved, Melissa. We love you and you are not alone.
I’m genuinely deeply sorry for what you’re going through. Prayers coming your way!
I’m so sorry to hear this news, I can’t imagine what you’re feeling but just know that you will get through it. My mom was supposed to marry another man and he randomly broke up with her 3 days before the wedding. It was such a tough time in life for her but then she would have never met my dad or had me and my brother. I truly believe everything does happy for a reason! 💫
One day at a time. God is with you always. ♥️
Thank God this happened now and not after a divorce is worse beleive me!! you will survive this just get closer to God and he will help you get passed this trust him he knows whats best for you girl cry let it go and get back up you think life is over but its not its just a new chapter.❤
Melissa, thank you for being so vulnerable and honest. Heartbreak is ultimately like grieving a loss and its tough for sure. You will get through this. Take it one day at a time. Do the things that make your soul happy. Sending you so much love and light
You handled yourself very well in viewing this video. Things like this are truly difficult in general yet much more difficult especially when your life and work revolve around social media. Keep pushing forward Meli. Been here for some yrs watching you evolve, and well continue to be here throughout the rest of your youtube journey. 💜💙❤️
I’m so sorry hunny 🥺 love you!! ❤️ Heartbreaks suck but time heals all wounds 🙏🏼 you WILL get thru this!
this video makes me cry but in a good way. I am so happy you finally got over the break up and came out of it strong with a man and a baby on the way. u deserve that and more. you are so beautiful inside and out. I hope i also come out of what im going through and end up in a good side of things.
Omg babygirl praying for you🙏🏻. One chapter is closed, but another chapter in your life is starting that will bring joy, positivity, and all the things you deserve in life. 💕🙏🏻
You’re vulnerability is why I love watching your videos, you literally don’t owe us anything but have shared this important situation in your life. We all love you and you’ll push through 💞
You got this girl, you will get through! You dont owe us anything, but thank you for sharing.Just keep doing you and keep shining.Im supporting and rooting for you.God is protecting you. Love you!!!
I’m so so sorry for what you’re going through 💕 You’re so strong and God has such a great plan for your life!
Melissa, it’s better this way. I personally broke my engagement then got back together, got married and now we’re divorced. I know that’s not how it goes for everyone but marriage is so much more than signing papers...it’s painful to go through a divorce and honestly it’s better to call off a wedding than to try by getting married and not feeling 100%. When it’s right you will feel it in your heart, it should bring clarity and peace. I’m not saying everything will be perfect, we’re all imperfect humans but I believe when something isn’t consistent and solid it’s for a reason. God bless hun ❤️
Girl you are so strong!! I know how hard it is to go through something like this but can’t imagine having to do it publicly but remember everything happens for a reason and I know eventually you’ll be looking back and you’ll see why this happened. I’m here for you ❤️💕
I don’t even know you but I came across this video. But just watching your composure and your vibe, just speaks volume about how strong you are!!! You are amazing ✨✨