EPISODE 8: MOVING FORWARD w. Omi Valdivia

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  • On this episode of the Overcomfort Podcast, I sit down with one of my best friends, Omi Valdivia, and we get candid about the losses of mothers and what grief has taught us. Omi also opens about her dad moving on with his life and her weight loss journey.
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ความคิดเห็น • 181

  • @jennyu1025
    @jennyu1025 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Bring your mom’s assistant Julie ❤️ I would like to hear stories from her.

  • @JLiss
    @JLiss ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Omi was on the right track, pediatricians take care of kids. Pediatric oncologists take care of children with cancer. That was heartwarming that omi wanted to become one bc of her friends passing, that shows her heart 🥺❤️

    • @alexiavasquez567
      @alexiavasquez567 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Exactly 😊 i don’t understand why she kept laughing at her !

    • @imak3upi
      @imak3upi ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@alexiavasquez567 that exactly what I thought and I don’t know why she thought it was funny that she got fire 😕

    • @Jeniv9820
      @Jeniv9820 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree - why was she laughing at her ? Maybe that’s the way they get along but I think it wasn’t a good way to host a guest on your podcast.

    • @imak3upi
      @imak3upi ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Jeniv9820 I’m sure they’re great friends but Jenika wasn’t nice as like with her ex roommate friend ect. She was more like making fun of her :/ this video I didn’t really like her attitude with her.

    • @mari.5690
      @mari.5690 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I literally thought the same thing. Jenicka looked down at her in this video. Not cool, I don’t care how good friends you are. A real friend wouldn’t laugh at her this way.

  • @jackiegm
    @jackiegm ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My mom also did not listen to music when my grandpa died. She did not listen to it for a year.
    Music is therapy for me and she thought I was being disrespectful listening to it. Thank you for sharing 🤍 I thought I was the only one.

  • @Tasneem_ino
    @Tasneem_ino ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I freaking love omi so much, you can tell she been through it but stays strong for her friends and family. 🥺💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 she’s my favvvvv

  • @RosasPhoto
    @RosasPhoto ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can attest to what Omi said about not playing music when someone has passed. And from what I was told, it was only for a certain amount of time to allow them to rest (can’t remember how long). My dad passed away when I was 15 and listening to music was how I wanted to cope. My aunt didn’t let me play music at home or in the car. But now that I’m older, the songs that I did manage to listen to during that time, I am no longer able to listen to now as an adult. If I do hear a song that I remember listening to around the time my dad passed, it takes me back to that pain I was feeling as a teenager when I knew life would never be the same.

  • @gisellfigueroa9732
    @gisellfigueroa9732 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Maybe one day I’ll be able to hear this episode. having lost my mom to covid.. I can’t omit my heart goes out to you. From one grieving daughter to another I send you some of my strength on your hardest day and I send you a big hug 💖💖💖

  • @hildaegarciaquintanilla7474
    @hildaegarciaquintanilla7474 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    💥WE NEED A PART TWO OF LIFE AFTER CHIQUIS FIRED HER.💥

  • @anahiloza5265
    @anahiloza5265 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This really touched me after loosing my mom . But it really made me open my mind and make sense to me.

  • @elizabethguerra8923
    @elizabethguerra8923 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omi is such a strong soul sending you extra love baby girl we love you so much 💕

  • @marisolgonzalezgaribay3557
    @marisolgonzalezgaribay3557 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When y’all were talking about working out and eating habits, that forsure hit. I’ve been able to lose 70Ibs and I’m 5’0 so it was noticeable, but breaking those bad habits was hard still is.. thank you for being you 💗

  • @almabanuelos2010
    @almabanuelos2010 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Yay, i'm so glad you had Omi on the podcast. She's real, honest and says it like it is. Omi will you be my bestie too? You both are awesome! Invitame a el grand opening de los raspados ok!! 🙏🙏

  • @vanessaluna6278
    @vanessaluna6278 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I want a bestie like Omni she has beautiful soul ❤

  • @cheloborders5880
    @cheloborders5880 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love omi - I feel like this podcast could of been better , jenicka interrupts a lot and is all over the place so it was a little frustrating- hopefully she brings her back so we can hear more about omi

  • @Valenciabre
    @Valenciabre ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Omiii I’m going through the same situation with my dad, it’s one of the hardest things in my life. We got this 💕

    • @balbinamusic.
      @balbinamusic. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m sending you a huge hug Bcus I know it s a very tough situation to be in. Just know that communicating your feelings to him helps a lot and he needs to respect them. You either give yourself the space or time you need from him but let each other know that you guys will always be family and will be there for each other. Some things are just too hard to process 💖

    • @Valenciabre
      @Valenciabre ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@balbinamusic. you’re so sweet 🥲 thank you

  • @Savagemode09
    @Savagemode09 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omi is your time to shine!!! I'm glad you're getting a moment always been helpful to the Rivera 👪
    I lost my irl mom a few years ago and the healing takes a bit. Having peace w8th it makes a little better. And she's right and never does go away you're gonna have moments where you're gonna cry because you missed them. As long as you know that your mother is not suffering more and she's in a better place than you should be a piece with it and she would be very proud of you for you both to be successful women and you know doing God's work.

  • @susansalcido8257
    @susansalcido8257 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Omi, girl get on opening your raspado place someone is going to take your idea, which is great! Jenicka, love the podcast! Many blessings to you both! ❤️

  • @julisaoropeza2681
    @julisaoropeza2681 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u for this podcast...I lost my dad to a driver. In 2021...and the grief has made me feel so sad yet understanding about life moving forward. Thank u

  • @conniengee6611
    @conniengee6611 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow omi..thanks for speaking of your family. Your right not being selfish it isn't easy i know if i was in your shoes i don't think I'd be happy if my dad meet someone new after my mom. Props for you omi your a soldier.

  • @hcr5643
    @hcr5643 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I admire Omi for her strength and vulnerability definitely taking her advice and making my feelings priority

  • @vanesalima444
    @vanesalima444 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I felt so bad when I started enjoying things after my moms passing. Like I felt like I shouldn’t be living 🥺 It’s about to be 4 years and I’ve learned to accept that this IS my life now & everyday I am learning to heal

  • @plainjane3737
    @plainjane3737 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omi is a beautiful person inside and out 🤍

  • @LifeasAlex759
    @LifeasAlex759 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved this episode! A person that i would really love to see is Becky g. Her come up story is inspirational ❤

  • @gabrielasandoval3072
    @gabrielasandoval3072 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is one of my favorite episodes. So natural!! I loved y'all's laugh and laughed with y'all! Lol 😂

  • @joannarubalcaba
    @joannarubalcaba ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can’t wait!!🫶🏽🫶🏽 we 🤍 you Omi!!

  • @heyitzmanny
    @heyitzmanny ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this episode, truly touching and very heartwarming. I really love how you're showing different ways of grieving and also the way we cope with relationships after our loss.
    I also want to mention the moment when jenicka laughed at Omi and I literally thought someone farted. Lmfao love y'all!

  • @ashleyanguiano2697
    @ashleyanguiano2697 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jenicka your laugh brings me so much joy 😂❤️❤️

  • @susanaruiz6399
    @susanaruiz6399 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Bring your mamas assistant Julie 💗

  • @iratherbeoffroading
    @iratherbeoffroading ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this. My mom passed Sept 2021 from Cancer and I took care of her together with my 2 siblings. My grief journey has been pretty difficult and I appreciate people openly talking about their experience.

  • @stacymarroquin6925
    @stacymarroquin6925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My parents separated and i can completely understand when parents move on and accepting their new ways with their partners and seeing them do things that they didnt do with my mom/dad im like maybe if u guys would have done that u guys would still be together

  • @kayraa98
    @kayraa98 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Okay this podcast is very intimate, real , and relatable. Love what your doing Jen!!! ♥️

  • @janetayala6908
    @janetayala6908 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I suggest camera close up's at times, estan muy lejos.

  • @ashleyburgess1740
    @ashleyburgess1740 ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand omi so much. I lost my dad in 2021 to COVID I feel guilty because I told him he would come back from being ventilated but he never did. I miss him so much

  • @Elislilac
    @Elislilac ปีที่แล้ว

    Healing never stops, and it’s so true. My mom passed away January 10, 2021 due to COVID and it’s and incurable ache.

  • @yurisylopez7785
    @yurisylopez7785 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved your advise but for me it was my dad who passed and my mom left with her boyfriend 2yrs after. It’s true you really have to feel your feelings to heal I cried until I could no longer cry. And just as you said now I’m happy and can remember my dad without being filled with sadness. And girl open that raspado shop especially with the California heat that’s just around the corner.

  • @maribelacosta7884
    @maribelacosta7884 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMI!! Our story is so similar its crazy. It's true that you're just meant to cross certain peoples paths. Thank you sharing. This episode was a good therapy session.

  • @naomidelgado4670
    @naomidelgado4670 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gonna get my coffee ready 💖 . I never hit the notification button so fast for a podcast ✨️ love you ladies very much💛. Omi, such a strong and kind hearted person. I wish I had friends like yous.

  • @jalisco87
    @jalisco87 ปีที่แล้ว

    Similar to my life story , my mom passed away and months past my dad married my mom sister, I was only 2 years old when this happened. It was hard . BUT its really true what OMI said man cant be alone . Recently I lost my Step Aunt Mom too . Super hard for the family and Dad . ❤ my dad is my dad And I always going to love him no matter what .

  • @breebee702
    @breebee702 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yess loved folding laundry with you ladies. Omi better drop the address to the raspado 🍧 place as soon as it opens!!!
    I can relate a ton to the part about your dad. I think it’s so healthy and important to talk about boundaries, especially as Mexican women!! We love a queen who knows her limits ❤❤❤❤

  • @veegee27
    @veegee27 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omi! You say the word "like" a lot. We love you girls! 😄💕

    • @daisy31393
      @daisy31393 ปีที่แล้ว

      We all do in socal. Especially us valley girlies

    • @naomidelgado4670
      @naomidelgado4670 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was about to say the same thing 🤭 . Everyone take a shot for every "like" Omii says 😆😆😆

    • @Mydear___
      @Mydear___ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s a California thing lol

  • @patriciahernandez512
    @patriciahernandez512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel for omi my dad passed away from covid an he used to say things like that he didn’t wanna be that parent that can’t do for them self, it’s about to be 3 years from his passing and I’m bearly been able to just learn to live with out him

  • @crystalmorales7643
    @crystalmorales7643 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you jenicka! I love listening to your podcast, it really makes my day and I enjoy hearing from you and your family! God bless you beautiful

  • @petralomas3030
    @petralomas3030 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was waiting for this podcast.

  • @alexiavasquez567
    @alexiavasquez567 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I dont like how jenicka she just laughs at her when shes talking ! Like anything she says she laughs !
    Like come on jenicka , thats not a friend let her talk its her time ! Rude ass ! I kinda didnt like her today ,u dont laugh at other people in your podcast! Like relaxxx dude !
    But love you omi 😊 you have a amazing heart & you are a great person ♥️

    • @Mydear___
      @Mydear___ ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Seems like she doesn’t respect her and it’s annoying bcuz omi is such a good friend to her

    • @bebecita3512
      @bebecita3512 ปีที่แล้ว

      i think its more that omi is naturally funny and she carries herself as that character. and they’re really close friends so anything omi says she finds it funny bc omi is just like that, i think we all have that friend or person that are just comedians so naturally anything they say u will find it funny bc thats just their personality. im sure behind cameras they’re great friends and they respect eachother❤

    • @lilyreyes744
      @lilyreyes744 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bebecita3512 who on earth would want to be seen as a 🤡? it’s not like she’s making jokes. Omi, obviously is having a hard time finding the correct wording/ idk but she’s being misunderstood!

    • @bebecita3512
      @bebecita3512 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lilyreyes744 whos seeing her as a clown? no one said that i said she’s naturally funny

    • @JenickaLopez
      @JenickaLopez  ปีที่แล้ว

      Jenicka and Omi are bestfriends, they are always joking with each other, if you dont understand their friendship its ok. But thats how they are!

  • @jojovlogsandmore6570
    @jojovlogsandmore6570 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg I look forward for your podcast Princess😍 Love them🥰

  • @frances02fr
    @frances02fr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omi looks good from when we were first introduced to her.

  • @kekemacias7057
    @kekemacias7057 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omi! Hello girl. It's so cool to hear from you. God Bless you🙏❤💙

  • @R0Ni91
    @R0Ni91 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lmao love omi so much! Love this episode and yals relationship 🤎

  • @blessedmama4361
    @blessedmama4361 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes!!!! Bring Julie. I away wonder about her.

  • @lilyreyes744
    @lilyreyes744 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omi tu échele ganas hermosa ur not a 🤡 to them. tienes una hermosa alma, find ur self and do what you❤️.life is short ✨☝🏼 we support you!

  • @tiffanynaranjo4427
    @tiffanynaranjo4427 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omi is so nice, I love this podcast.

  • @lovemomrios6925
    @lovemomrios6925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg ive never seen this side of omi shee sooo cool

  • @Mrs.Lady-J
    @Mrs.Lady-J ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite podcast!!! I love that you brought Omi on, conversations are so real and relatable. You both are doing amazing and inspired me in so many ways tonight♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼

  • @hmedina09
    @hmedina09 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jenickas laugh sounds just like her mommas🦋❤

  • @xoxoari
    @xoxoari ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of my favorite episodes!💖 We love Omi💖

  • @LosCuatesYLaDona
    @LosCuatesYLaDona ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg finally catching up with your pod cast, Omi best advice I can ever hear rn 💔
    Thank you ladies for this episode✨

  • @mariasaenz3094
    @mariasaenz3094 ปีที่แล้ว

    The “little ham” thing had me dying 💀💀😂😂😂😂 idk if it’s bad that I’m laughing about it but the way you say it girl 😂😂😂 now I see myself like a ham 😂😂

  • @lmacias123
    @lmacias123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Take a shot every time they say “like” 😂🥴 jk , I loved the episode

  • @chelorodriguez6288
    @chelorodriguez6288 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE YOU GUYS!! ❤ OMMI IS A VERY KIND PERSON, I CAN SEE IT!!

  • @taimihernandez7572
    @taimihernandez7572 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Idk but to me Jenicka was kinda mean in this episode, she kept laughing at omi.

  • @Yourmomlovesmeee
    @Yourmomlovesmeee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i need more of Omi content

  • @mariefh22
    @mariefh22 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lost a mother figure to covid so watching this was hard❤❤❤ praying for u omi
    Music thing is a Mexican thing. Me on the other hand imma blast music and cry. Music helped me grieve

  • @MariaRodriguez-ih2td
    @MariaRodriguez-ih2td ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy to see Omi 🫶🏼 on this podcasts! Got to know her a little more💕

  • @derrickrodriguez2139
    @derrickrodriguez2139 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love omiii shes the best person ever. And the strongest person and shes so lovable❤ i love you gurlll and you to jenikaaaa you’ll stay strong 💪🏼 gods with you’ll every step of the way. Las amoo un chingoo❤

  • @yesseniasanchez6158
    @yesseniasanchez6158 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Omi! Great episodes 🥰. I love that yall are so close and share so much history. You are definitely hitting it with the episodes that are a little more intimate. It sure would be nice to see a brothers episode. With Mikey and Johnny. Much Amor 🥰 Great Job Jenika!

  • @OLopez-pc7xp
    @OLopez-pc7xp ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maybe like you, your pops also got a wake up call. He is choosing to appreciate his gf while he can by sending her flowers, because he also knows the pain of losing someone.

    • @OLopez-pc7xp
      @OLopez-pc7xp ปีที่แล้ว

      No hate at all btw, but maybe that’s his way of being in the moment and being present with his current gf.

  • @melissaarellano9250
    @melissaarellano9250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    awesome podcast!! beautiful ladies, bring Julie to a podcast episode

  • @bebecita3512
    @bebecita3512 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this friendship and i wanna see more of omi in podcasts!!!🤩 do some episodes where omi is the co

  • @jackiem8191
    @jackiem8191 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This episode had me dying 😂😂😂

  • @vgallardo9107
    @vgallardo9107 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVE this podcast ❤ Omi has such a big heart ♥️

  • @angelicaeusebio5428
    @angelicaeusebio5428 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been dying for this podcast

  • @v.g.55
    @v.g.55 ปีที่แล้ว

    loving this podcast! you should have a new episode every day! Howdy from Texas!

  • @kellyguillen5257
    @kellyguillen5257 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jenicka is just like me fr LMAOOOO minute 17 of her wheezing her ass off bc Omi said "something ologist"

  • @RosasRojas05
    @RosasRojas05 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s a belief in my family.Don’t listen to music because it’s disrespectful to the person that passed and to the people grieving. Omi te deseo lo mejor este año. God bless❤

  • @christinalparee1820
    @christinalparee1820 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel your pain cause I too lost my mom going on 5yrs.

  • @Veronica-em5vj
    @Veronica-em5vj ปีที่แล้ว

    Awwwww I luv my hishhh …and Jenicka so proud of ❤❤

  • @Cmar02
    @Cmar02 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Why all the laughing from Jenicka?? Omi was talking and making sense. Jenicka was weird with this interview.

    • @JenickaLopez
      @JenickaLopez  ปีที่แล้ว

      Jenicka and Omi are bestfriends, they are always clowning each other. Sorry you dont understand their friendship. - Overcomfort team

  • @Nakachismes_venenosa
    @Nakachismes_venenosa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We love you omi ❤❤

  • @AuthenticallyVanessa
    @AuthenticallyVanessa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would really love to see you invite new people who are starting off as influencers and give a opportunity for others ❤

  • @makavelimary5607
    @makavelimary5607 ปีที่แล้ว

    love the podcast, keep up the good work ! ❤️

  • @lauriecardozotoscano4963
    @lauriecardozotoscano4963 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this!!!!! You guys made me cry and laugh !! Now I want a raspado 😅

  • @valgal24
    @valgal24 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you please have your sister Jackie on there by herself I have truly followed her journey with Mike her husband and they are very inspiring how they were able to come back together and they seem more in love and stronger than ever it would be great to hear their testimony as well as how she is handling being the CEO of your mom‘s company❤

  • @evercruz4140
    @evercruz4140 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love omi! 🤍✨ incondicional friend!

  • @jojovlogsandmore6570
    @jojovlogsandmore6570 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg you girls are truly amazing😍 Many Blessings

  • @xiomaraalvarado8108
    @xiomaraalvarado8108 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great conversation!I I also lost my mom 4months ago you guys really give good advice thanks ❤

  • @fernandezbabevf
    @fernandezbabevf ปีที่แล้ว

    Maybe your dad learned to cherish n value the person they have by their side, cause he can no longer express it to your mom, just like u learned and tell others to acknowledge their moms. I hope times brings you closure n comfort over this topic. You still have your dad to love and enjoy 💙

  • @vanessapitones4746
    @vanessapitones4746 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bring julie! Ogs remember her

  • @breedavalos7164
    @breedavalos7164 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yay we love omi!!!!❤

  • @wendyhernandez2190
    @wendyhernandez2190 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bring Val to your next podcast😊

  • @RafaSlice1990
    @RafaSlice1990 ปีที่แล้ว

    I bb love omi

  • @patriciahernandez512
    @patriciahernandez512 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m watching this while my son is next to me and jenicka an omi start talking about working out and he says I know how you feel l just did 200 push ups an I don’t feel good about it and I’m hungry lol

  • @christinachavarria2969
    @christinachavarria2969 ปีที่แล้ว

    I grew up with no music or tv when someone passed too!

  • @sandrarodriguez7390
    @sandrarodriguez7390 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yay omiiii ❤️💫

  • @aracelivargas4010
    @aracelivargas4010 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice you are awesome girls loving themselves and growing up and supporting each other

  • @deedeebeltran3938
    @deedeebeltran3938 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omi is hilarious

  • @nefcarol95
    @nefcarol95 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want a best friend like Omi ❤

  • @donnyvanesavillatoro90
    @donnyvanesavillatoro90 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Love Omi she has a big heart 🤍🥹

  • @IAMARMANDOJ
    @IAMARMANDOJ ปีที่แล้ว

    Love omi she a Taurus and Taurus are loyal af

  • @Amy1111f
    @Amy1111f ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was good. ❤

  • @maribelreyes3666
    @maribelreyes3666 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love Omi ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jenniferamaro137
    @jenniferamaro137 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG it's like you are telling my story when my Abuelita passed I heard every word in Spanish for fat and our mexican families will tell us we are so fat but get mad because you don't eat or if they ask how many taco's you say 2 and they give you 3