Pam tells Ben that Paul would want him to be happy - EastEnders (08/11/19)

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  • @itsonlysound
    @itsonlysound 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    I do love that Ben is written as being so open about his thirst for Callum
    😂

  • @artyevie2906
    @artyevie2906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    The long pause after Ben described Callum in his clothes 😂

    • @mf8080
      @mf8080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah haha Jay was like I'm not even gonna go there lol

  • @Mimiprowse
    @Mimiprowse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Ballum is everything I stand for !!!!
    The story line is great and the way max Bowden is able to talk about old scenes that he wasn’t even in is amazing
    His reaction to Callum’s being a cop was the best thing I have seen in a long time !!! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @plestrange511
    @plestrange511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I love seeing Ben with Pam- hes so much more honest & open. She's like the relatives he should have had, ones who listen & look after him.

  • @shutterbird13
    @shutterbird13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    "Bring out your dead!"😂

  • @mf8080
    @mf8080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Max's non verbal acting in the end with Ben and Pam is amazing, he's such a brilliant actor

  • @louisevann6802
    @louisevann6802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Ben's face when he sees pam

    • @raymondgriffiths5610
      @raymondgriffiths5610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank god she hasn't seen the other ben??? ha he won'ts to
      follow in dad's footpath one that
      Would spoil her illuisons of him
      for sure calham so will he down
      the road a bit ?? mind u he and
      bro did Rob mick Carter at gun
      point so he's no angel ether me
      thinks 👍😃🤔🤔

  • @JoeyT1
    @JoeyT1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pam is amazing! Great emotional acting

  • @nikko__5850
    @nikko__5850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Clip towards the end😢such a tender scene and acting on both parts.

  • @GoddessOfWhatnot
    @GoddessOfWhatnot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    2:41 Her magic Granny finger-point zapped him! 😂

    • @jonathanz2522
      @jonathanz2522 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      GoddessOfWhatnot Exactly! I replayed that moment for 3 times and couldn’t help smiling. Hahaha

    • @BelJbraithwaite22
      @BelJbraithwaite22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I replayed it twice ben is a big softy when pam is around

  • @MJQueenForever
    @MJQueenForever 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pam pleeeeeease come back 😭 miss her! She was the sunshine of that dark square! Everyone loves her, she doesn't have a bad bone in her. She makes everyone feel better and happy! She brings people together, like when she brought Jay back from being homeless and back to Ben! She loves Jay, Lola and especially Ben, like family. And she finally brought our #Ballum together properly or at least got Ben to come to his senses even though, in a way, I saw Ben's point... to not want to upset Pam or fearing he'd make her think he'd forgotten Paul!
    Devil's advocate -
    I also saw why Callum got upset by being sidelined and ignored... He understood WHY Ben couldn't do anything with him right then and there... But I could understand why he felt so hurt as he worships Ben and felt like it could have been a step back in a relationship that took so long to establish and become something REAL in the first place.
    Then came that SAINT-LIKE Pam 😍 adored by all, including us viewers, for making sure everyone was happy... Like Ben, who is like a Grandson to her. Has always treated him like he was her TRUE family too, same with Jay...
    She supported Ben through everything, even after losing Paul. Yeah she took her anger out on Ben at one point after losing Paul... She realised she was just angry in general at losing him and lashed out to the people closest including Les at the Wake (typical in grief).
    I love Pam and Ben's relationship. She's given Ben the most love, support, and most importantly for Ben... a real, loving family to be part of cos SHE saw how much he loved Paul and made him happy. Pam has seen him during his best, worst, in his most gentle, loving, kind moments and has stuck by him and Jay when no one else did/wanted to know. She saw how they had been mistreated, but especially Ben... and made him feel loved and brought him into her life, her heart, her family and has never stopped supporting him and treating him like everything I said above.
    She's the kindest, most loving and LOYAL person Ben has EVER had in his life. She gave and still gives him stability and see's the REAL Ben. She wants him of all people, to have the best and happiest life he can have. She saw that Ben had moved on with Callum who she see's as the best person for Ben. She saw at that bar, the REAL situation and because she loves Ben so much? She tells him that he needs to accept that he cannot drive the one thing he needs away... LOVE! Which she see's = Callum! And not even knowing Callum, she see's that he is what Ben needs.
    I swear she's a good, magical empath and Fairy God/Grandmother lol. So loving, kind, caring and utterly SELFLESS!
    The Square bloody well needs her back, especially nowadays after Ben losing his hearing and nearly losing EVERYTHING, including Callum! Or just as bright decoration to go to when you feel bad 😂
    Wow... Sorry about the rambling 🤣

  • @kirstywebb4712
    @kirstywebb4712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love this video of Ben and Callum.

  • @kasipears
    @kasipears 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Jay's face at 1:10 just cracks me up...escpecially since he has no visible eyebrows to raise, but can still raise them. Hahaha!! 😍😍

  • @DoctorVision
    @DoctorVision 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The fact that Pam was axed as a regular character is a crime. The square could do with a mother-hen figure like her spreading positivity and, most importantly, trying to keep Ben on the straight and narrow as she seems to be the only character he can be his true, sensitive self around.

  • @alicethompson1385
    @alicethompson1385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    ❤️😍❤️😍❤️ I'm begining to love ballum as much as I loved Christian & Syed's storyline!

    • @nicoletaminculescu3283
      @nicoletaminculescu3283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alice Zecevich You should see Christian and Oliver story (a german series).. It’s way better than Christian and Syed ..

    • @suzawilo
      @suzawilo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nicoletaminculescu3283
      🌈😍CHROLLI🌈😍

    • @jujubean9598
      @jujubean9598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@suzawilo CHROLLI WAS THE BEST!!😍😍😍those two set some pretty high gay standards on a soap opera..they held NOTHING back...

  • @jetnight88
    @jetnight88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aww 🥰 and you’ll never forget Paul Ben. You
    And Pam will never will. ❤️

  • @kathrynpitt4973
    @kathrynpitt4973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The cafe scene always makes me well up, love Pam so much ❤️

  • @shannonvowles7074
    @shannonvowles7074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love ben flirts with Callum even tho he isn't there

  • @nashtarsingh3243
    @nashtarsingh3243 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Pam should have stayed in walford

  • @JordanjamesX
    @JordanjamesX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you

  • @ryanhills4907
    @ryanhills4907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    How did Pam even recognise Ben

    • @taylorphinney6711
      @taylorphinney6711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think they kept in contact even though she left

    • @JoeyT1
      @JoeyT1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😄

  • @raymondgriffiths5610
    @raymondgriffiths5610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It would be a real eye opener for pam if she saw the other ben
    Wouldn't it??? 🤔🤔👍😃ha

  • @767wattsy
    @767wattsy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think I have something in my eye...

  • @Straykidsfamily24
    @Straykidsfamily24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love #ballum ben and callum

  • @thomashernandez8700
    @thomashernandez8700 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What did Ben say when he first arrived, and who is Terry?

    • @shutterbird13
      @shutterbird13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He said, "Bring out your dead!" And if you don't get the reference, that makes me sad, lol.

    • @kathrynpitt4973
      @kathrynpitt4973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't get it either

    • @chloepullan8295
      @chloepullan8295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      terry is the man who killed jay's dad, they buried him the week before this

    • @thomashernandez8700
      @thomashernandez8700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shutterbird13 It makes me think of the Plague of 1666. I'm an American, and started watching EE on BRITBOX.com recently. I watched the Yotube clips starting in November. Did Ben call Jay "Maria"? My question remains: Why did Ben seem to be joking/camping it up?

  • @kathrynpitt4973
    @kathrynpitt4973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The cafe scene always makes me well up, love Pam so much ❤️

    • @JoeyT1
      @JoeyT1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

  • @Straykidsfamily24
    @Straykidsfamily24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love #ballum ben and callum