Chris Stapleton - Fire Away (Official Music Video)
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Music video by Chris Stapleton performing Fire Away. (C) 2016 Mercury Records, a Division of UMG Recordings, Inc.
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I’ve suffered with depression and anxiety for most of my life. 2 failed suicide attempts, dozens of doctors, counselors, therapist, and medications later, I finally found a doctor who helped. That was 10 years ago and while I still have bad days/weeks/months, I thank God every single day my suicide attempts failed.
I’ll be 63 years old this year and I’m living my best life. Help is out there but it’s a very long, hard journey. Please don’t ever give up on yourself. You ARE worth the effort ❤
Wow. Hello mam/sir! I just wanted to say tha k you for this comment bc you just gave me more hope than I've had in along time. I have very serious issues with anxiety/depression and some degree of ehat I've been told is "agoraphobia." But it all stems from my social anxiety and panic disorder. I went to treatment for opiate and ambien addiction on Jan 2nd of this year. So I haven't used since Jan 2nd. However my anxiety and fear of being in public(I have a neurogenic bladder bc of a spinal cord inijury) which means I' have extreme odds of pissing myself in public due to my lack of control. This issue combinednwith my extreme anxiety and panic disorder makes it extremely difficult to out myself in positions to get help. Another example: I'm in intensive outpatient, but I find myself struggling alot to get to the CPT group therapy sessions whether its in person or theough zoom bc im terrified of how im being judg2d whether its in person or on video. I understand how crazy that sounds, but when it's happening, my stomach is filled with extreme butterflies like I'm going down a very steep roller coaster ride due to my terrified reaction ro potentially being judged. I guess my point is, I've been trying my best to go to therapy whether its 1 on 1 or groups sessions and I always end up having a panic attack or puking just before the meeting or both. I've explained this to my psyche doctor bit she told me that "she waa afraid to prescribe medications that would help me" bc she's done it b4 sith other patients and they ended up becoming addicted. I completely understand the risk, but I know that a low dose of ativan or klonooin for emergency situations would help me TREMENDOUSLY! BUT Since I used ro be addicted to oxycodone, they won't even consider It. This situation has caused me to wanna drink alcohol to lower my anxiety so badly it's hard to describe. I've also had horrible thoughts of suicide bc the anxiety leads to depression, which then leads ro thinking I'd be better off not in this world. This life isn't worth living thidneayz and if I cannot get help I'd rather be dead. I honestly don't know why I'm saying all this, other than hoping someonebwiĺ actually and finally help me for once in my life bc I genuinely don't have the strength to help myself to get better at this point in time!!!! It's now or never!!!
l like 9😅😅😅🎉
Thanks for typing that sir/mam! I'm 35 and in the middle of finding a doctor that will help me. I'm so sick of psyche doctors and antidepressants that do nothing and therapists who hate their job. I just want some relief. I think about ending my life alot but it would ruin my family's life. Thanks for this comment! It gives me hope!
I just found this song. I can feel it with everything in me. I have severe depression and ptsd. My childhood broke me. I'm now 34 and trying to pick up the pieces. Pray for me guys.
same and I'm 52 ... hold on
Praying.
@@alancaldwell9117
I agree with your comment... 📍
So often we feel like our traumas and past have made us "bad people" but in reality, they make us resilient. You are not broken, even if it feels like it....You are strong for what you've endured and conquered. You are a survivor.
Continue your journey of healing knowing that we are loving you, you are not alone ❤️
Everyday week I pray for people like you. People in situations I know nothing about but still feel guilty about. I will pray for you too. God bless you.
I hesitated to share but it goes... I absolutely love my wife, been married for 10yrs, we are best friends, inseparable and enjoying life together and some don't understand why we are always together, but we crave each other and truly enjoy our friendship, love and energy. We both have our childhood history which damaged us, and I have my PTSD / TBI from the Marines and deal with those demons, yet I put them aside to deal with hers as well, trying to be strong for our relationship when she drinks and damages it. I deal with her toxic behavior every 4- 6 months since the beginning and I will continue to do so until it kills me. My wife is therapy, which I fully support but it works for a few months and then she loses herself when she can't control her alcohol. I know why she loses control, and I want to be there for her and let her know she's stronger than this and don't allow her past to control and destroy her / our future. I've tried everything to help her.... I'm exhausted and wanting to check out myself but I don't....
Just found out yesterday my stepdad is dying from heart failure can't do anything about it because of hard drugs still listen to this song😫❤
I'm 42. Going back into rehab. Severely depressed I'm not giving up that easy
Hey man good luck. I hope you can find real joy again
Stay strong. Take what you can find yourself and good luck
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We Do Recover 🌹💗🌹
❤ There is all the strength we need in His name ❤ I pray for your healing and for you to take back your shine and your place on this ride that which is the greatest gift to us.
Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world 💖
God bless you!
1:59
Thank you, need all the luck I can get today 🙏
Thank you! Keep your head up my friend and I turn ill try and stay strong as well salute 🫡❤.
We need more people like y’all,not only care,but openly vocal about,my best to everyone!
Ezra I know things are pretty dire right now and I don’t know how to keep going when everything seems to be falling apart. But I’m not going to stop trying because in this life the thing that I’m sure of is that I have to be here for you. So I’m not going to leave.
You will make it!
Good shit!!! Keep that mindset. Sending you love n prayers
@@cheyenneavery944 thank you i love yall
In 2011, I lost my wife of 14 years to suicide, leaving my 4 kids without their mother. It devastated our family. As a result My only daughter killed herself on 12/28/22, 3 weeks short of her 22nd birthday. Suicide sucks. It. Destroys the families left behind. If you are struggling with it, please get help. Otherwise you're transferring your pain to the people who love you, that are left to deal with the consequences of your actions. You ARE loved. Please don't hurt the people who love you by hurting yourself.
Prayers for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. That is so true, it just pushes the pain to someone else !
There are truly no words but I am sorry for your loss😢
I know your pain and I am so sorry for your loss.
Just horrible. I'm so sorry for your losses. 🙏
I know your pain maybe not as much but I'm sorry for your loss
Broken people ( like me) recognize this. Thank you for giving this song to us.
Everything will be fine! Believe ❤️
I feel you I'm bordering broken, or in repair, I can't tell at times. There's always something bringing me back down to were I must belong 😭
Please know that you are loved here and beyond this world. There is more to this life with Jesus. Please, please, please seek him. He loves you beyond words!!!
This song always has hit home for me. Knowing both sides. I lost my husband 3 years ago, and he was everything to me, my best friend, my person. But he was an alcoholic & suffered from (undiagnosed) severe bipolar disorder. I felt like the male in this song/video. But I think this video would had rang more true, in hind sight, if the person that took all the shots, all the fire, all the heat, was the one that couldn't take anymore & ended their life. I'll never forgive myself for not being more gentle, even though I thought I was, doing the best I could/knew. Now, I'm holding onto all of it, all the hurt I took, all I should had, could had done differently or better, and "I'll cry to my grave." I wish it was me. I love you CT, see you soon ❤️😘
This song hit home. I just lost my GF to depression. We tired and tired but I guess her depression took the best of her. I will never unsee seeing her leave with the M.E …. So many times I ask my self was there more I could’ve done. But my baby was hurting 🥺
Long story short.. I moved to Oregon back in October of 1998, I was 21 and I didnt know anyone. I got a shitty factory job right away so I could support myself, and thats where we met. She was 23, and with some dirt on her cheek she introduced herself "Hi...(it was that super long pause you only see in the movies).... I'm Susie", she said. I was already in love by the time she said her name. I instantly fell in love with her, right then. We started dating and at times I needed to pinch myself because I honestly couldnt believe a girl this amazing and beautiful actually WANTED to be with me. Fast forward 3 years. We lived together and made friends together..we were starting a beautiful life together.
On a rainy March weekend I went out of town with my friends band (I would help carry gear, do lights, whatever was needed) and returned that Sunday evening, it was March 18th 2001 to learn that my Susanna had committed suicide and her body had been found that morning in a room at a hotel by the freeway.... I can clearly recall the exact moment that my heart was crushed and I became dead inside. It was like getting hit my a silent freight train.. I had no idea. Zero warning signs... nothing. Nothing except her goodbye letter to me. Im 40 years old now, .. I still have not been able to allow myself to love the way I loved her..
Tell the "one" in your life that you love them, before its too late..
R.I.P. Susanna Lynn Hathorn
I will always love you..
Great video, by the way.
zombie668 Just remember that in her mind she probably was feeling as if her very existence was torture to you. But in reality, it was the exact opposite. God bless her soul, at least she is not suffering anymore.
Always remember, you'll see her again. And you'll be together once again for all eternity. In peace. Happy. Together.
Part of me hopes it is that easy. Most of me knows that isnt a realistic hope to hold on to. And ALL of me knows, she was never "mine" to hold on to in the first place. I have chosen to try to use this as a way to learn something about myself and the world around me. Something that only she could teach me, even if that lesson had to come from her death... funny part is, I still dont know what it was I was supposed to take from this that makes me a more well rounded human being.... I have resolved that I may never know... and thats ok
Oh man imma cry
I did not consent to this feels trip.
this song makes me feel everything! all my emotions. see as a young girl right after I had my baby girl my life long strong mother was so hurt and down, aside I never saw before. she walked in to my room at the time she was living with me. she hurt so long so hard so many days with a smile on her face. see she walked in and held me thigh and expressed how much she loved me but could not feel the way she has for 13 years. she stepped back with the most broken lost hurt look any one could see in their mothers eyes. I could of died inside at that but then she slowly pulled a kitchen knife to her wrist as blood poured on to my floor as I cried out to her. see she hurt for 13 years over losing our dad of 6 daughters. she longed for his touch and strong shoulders that held her up when she was low. I hurt for what I experienced that day in my house as a new mom and for my family who had a loss. not everyone can hold it together for so long. I love this song and how I allows me to feel every bit of what's real it's a strong deep love song to so many. thanks for the share. God bless all thanks Casey landis
I wonder if Mr. Stapleton realizes how many lives he has saved out of the 19 million views this song has? One right here. God makes no mistakes and puts people (angels) in the right spot at the right time. This I know. Keep on keeping on!!
indeed
June 1st, 2024, anyone?
I wish i had someone to love me unconditionally like this. Everyone in my life has always walked away mother, father and now my husband of 12 years. Depression is at its highest but the only reason im still here is because im scared to leave my kids behind and knowing i wont see them again scares me
This song is not about depression... This song is about unconditional love. The video depicts a man loving his wife in the hardest times imaginable.
This video adds so much to the song. Absolutely incredible.
I am a musician that struggles fiercely with depression and suicidal thoughts. And this video just hit home for me. Love it.
Stay strong...depression is a hard road to follow...good mental health to you!
Mike Scully; You hit the proverbial Nail on the head brother. This song is about the unconditional love for your spouse regardless. If we could just remember real & true love, is not conditional.
+Mark Haywood thank you.
and they use real actor and actress ben foster is the guy and i forgot who the lady but she a movie star too
The actress is Margarita Levieva.
Ben Foster is severely underrated as an actor.
Yessssss, he's my favorite!!! Especially in Alpha Dog.
what movie is this from@@randivassal
I have ptsd, depression, and anxiety.... And I would never wish it upon nobody. But I do wish more people understood it.
i understand ❤❤ we got this.
I understand that
Hang in there
Aman! Sister I hear you ❤ 3:01
Mucha fuerza hermano
I dated a woman with depression and at times it dominated her existence. She would constantly thank me for “putting up” with her. I never looked at it that way. I just loved her. Sadly she has since passed on to a better place. For you Baby Girl, for you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Depression is a monster, I know that from personal experience 😢
Sorry for your loss, I have major depression & PTSD, this song hits me hard. Cause I feel the meaning of this song. I've suffered from depression from before i was 13 yr old. I wish my BF i have now knew how to deal with my depression, he gets mad and makes it worse. I'm sure you was a blessing to her.
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I've been with two men in my life that's dealt with depression that sadly 😥 😔 took my ex he was in the war in Afghanistan he was a paratrooper and I knew him from Highschool. But we got together after our marriages didn't work out and I didn't realize then how bad it was. The thoughts of suicide is what I mean. I seen what the war had done and I was just 21 at the time he was 23 went in as soon he was 18. So he came home and it just hurts thinking bk. He had flash backs, insomnia like very severe. And I didn't know what I was getting myself into but I loved him very very much. But we split for other reasons to work on ourselves and whatnot and we kept in touch but I wrote him maybe a wk before it happened checking in on him and my sister wakes me up to tell me he was gone and I thought it was a cruel joke. But it wasn't. I knew him being alone was the worst thing for him mentally. He lived w me but I moved out if my apartment w the lease was up so he moved bk in w his parents until he had bought his own home. And that's where he took his life. I blamed myself idk why but I did. And this song makes me think of hom so much. My ex husband also deals with self harm and depression very badly. I mean to the point of askin me w he used to drink to say I was okay with it and we have a daughter together. It breaks my heart he feels this way. 💔 😢 we have known each other now the majority of our lives and thankfully he's not drinking anymore but it still worries me at times. About the depression or starting to drink again and getting in his head. I just pray, check in on him and hope for the best. I want him to be happy even tho I couldn't make us work. He still has a beautiful daughter we share. Depression is tough I deal with it in a daily since I was around 8. But I don't get suicidal doesn't mean I haven't been. But if you're ever feeling that way, it's not the answer it will literally devastate your loved ones. As much as you think nobody cares people do. It's not the answer I promise you it's not.
Sorry for you're loss, I lost a ex boyfriend to it and it's awful. ❤🙏🪽
I don’t listen to this song often but when i do, so do my neighbors
I lost my 14 yr old son last year and don't know if ill ever be fixable
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@@dakota22121 I can't think of anything worse to suffer than that Mike, big internet hugs buddy. Stay strong mate.
@@dakota22121 Sorry for you loss man. Stay strong.
@@no1computerrepairguy 5
This video is very powerful , and it is intended to bring awareness to mental illness and how it destroys a person's life , not only that person , but all the family around them , There is a time and need to seek Help , before the tragic ending takes place , just like in the heart wrenching video. Do not be ashamed to ask for help. It just might save your life, or someone else you love and don't want to lose. Thankyou to "Chris" for bringing this in to full view.
Yes, please. Do not be afraid to ask for help. You never know where it may come from if you just ask !
+Kerry Feland : my cousin is a medical examiner , suicide is a reality that M.E's encounter frequently , If someone would have just stepped into their life and took them by the hand and got them help , this can be prevented. Or if that person realise them self it's time to ask others for help , that is the 1st step to recovery.
I live this every day. My daughter is bipolar. This video puts into view what cannot be described to someone who is not living with this. To get help is not as easy as others would like you to believe and even the people within the system are not always the help you think they are. Someone who is going thru depression needs at least one voice in their corner to stand up for them, protect them and help them to get to that help. It is as much of a battle for the caregiver as it is for the person suffering with the depression. I've been asked for years by the professionals how I've managed to keep going and being there for my daughter. Simple answer....when I look around, there is no one else there except me and God to help her.
Yes!! I can relate to this video! Its never too late to get help! I love this video and song itself
Agreed Ms. Glenda!! "Chris" is bringing country music back. I think he is very talented. Music is a huge influence in society. He brought awareness to a much needed cause.
I mistakenly thought this song was my redemption but like my pretend boat redemption I was wrong. It is exactly what it was written about. Nobody would fire away so I chose another realistic and much anticipated option! I'll cry to my grave!😢❤
My husband is a literal gift from god he has stayed thru all of my mental bullshit ...i dont deserve him, and he never deserved to see the shit he has. 10 years going and finally doing great.
Others have said this before and I'll say it again. This man is helping to save music.
AMEN!!❤️❤️🔥🔥
Music doesn't need saving.Music is music perfect the way it is
+Todd Tackett lol im scared 😱...what im trying to say is that music is the best way artists express themselves and if someone saids music needs saving they really dont respect the way artists express themselves
+Baflbruno opinions are okay and you're allowed to express yours. We certainly appreciate it. In this case my opinion is that Chris is saving music. Thanks and have a great day.
+Ssheldon618 im just saying thats such a big statement to say but ok 👍
You don't listen to Chris Stapelton's music you feel it,
1000 % TURE
No life Shaq read your comment for this song on his reaction channel
I'm here for that too
Love it!!
Damn right
I'm very thankful this song wasn't released 15 years ago. My girlfriend who is now my wife went through a very deep and dark depression after her world collapsed around her. If I had heard these lyrics it would have broke me.
I cry at this song because we were so close to this happening,my best life decision was never giving up on her because it has been worth everything.
My wife deals with depression and this song scares me to death. I showed her the video and we both cried uncontrollably. Don't want to lose her.
Hold onto her, support her and be there just stay. She will make it through. I promise you.
My personal struggles with mental illness have always been a part of the reason why no one wanted me and everyone gave up on me. Once I realized I had to not give up on myself that’s when I knew… if you love her then just stay. 😊God bless you and prayers for a long beautiful life ♥️
Prayers for you both 🙏 Only God knows 🙏
That sounds like a real connection man♥️
God please place your hand on this guys wife. Depression is hard for both her and him so please camo your angels around them both. Give her peace that surpasses all understanding. I lift them both up in your name. Amen
@@judychandler5271😊😊😊😊😊
Holy god damn shit! Metal head here, and this is beyond words! Well done Chris.
Mateo H 💔💔h
Also a metal head and this song just speaks to me!
not much he can mess up.. too talented for the mainstream
Same here. Horns up for heart break.
Country music was my next transition from metal music. I don't know how but it's quite enjoyable and really speaks to the heart. Always do love to go back in time and listen to some of the old bands
I’m a 19 year vet of Birmingham police department and I lost my wife on March 14 2019 do to mental illness. This video crushed me in 2016 and I didn’t know y. I cried my eyes out with my then girlfriend. Mental illness touches us all right now it’s on me. Anyone who needs too talk please talk to me I need it and so do you! Love to all
I'm so sorry to hear. How are you doing, sir? Thank you for your service. Stay safe and take care of you.💙 God bless!
God bless you guys on your journey
God bless you officer,from Glasgow ,scotland💙💙💙💙💙
I'm manic depressive with schizophrenia I'm truly sorry for your loss I do meth can you make it so i dont get pulled over? I'm also retarded
So very sorry. This happened to me too. I hope you are doing ok. Sending you love and hope❤
Lost my dad 2018 you don’t get over loss you just survive fire away is an amazing true to everyday life song so glad it was created lived around mental illness for over 20 yrs only 55 my husband in a home all the care 24/7 takes it’s toll now I’m so tired and low as they call it hopefully not here for long time I couldn’t bare it gets harder every day just can’t find the courage to escape it’s a cold lonely world now ❤🙏
Although this music reaches deep into some of the most emotional parts of my soul, I also acknowledge that the title of the song might entertain evil. I understand what it is trying to say, this song honestly makes me cry a lot. At the same time its lyrics could affect the healing process (for those who connect with it at a very personal level) negatively.
I pray for healing to everyone and a stronger understanding of each other, in the name of Jesus.
You are absolutely correct... For me it's like a "love" letter to the chaos and pain... Flirting with death, because 31 years on this planet,... And I never felt like I belong here, and constantly being misunderstood and quickly rejected,.. I don't have too many people that I can relate too or can relate to me... It's been a very long and lonely journey here on this beautiful planet.....
@@aa-hy7fs I can relate. I recently started a public journal hoping those who find it can comprehend how much I want to connect with others but after tragically losing loved ones it definitely gets hard to even decide to approach and/or take the first step.
The initiative is there, there are definitely options to help us navigate through those feelings.
This song took my attention one day and I keep coming back to it regardless I agree with its message or not… perhaps deep within I have an undeniable connection with it because it reminds me of where I have been mentally and it reminds me that I do not necessarily need to keep going back to that complicated state of mind.
Lots of changes these past few years but it is nice to have a soundtrack for something that existed and no longer is, which is probably how I would define the connection with this song.
@@aa-hy7fsAlso this guy’s voice is just simply too good 😅
Jesus Christ.
I have never once been able to truly articulate, to ANYONE, what my marriage felt like. What it WAS like.
Not why I loved her so much..
Those incredible highs.
Those moments of tenderness.
And inextricable ONENESS.
Nor why it nearly drove me mad...and cost me a piece of my soul.
This song, this VIDEO...
says more than all my words, sighs, and tears ever will.
For all those desperately trying to make a go with someone who is in so much pain...
strength and courage to you. 💪🏾❤️
And for all those suffering so greivously, haunted to the core of your souls, by demons you simply cannot shake...
Oceans of love to you.
It's not your fault.
We know. We really do.
May peace someday come to your heart. 🙏🏽
You said what I was thinking my Cindy was wild. I loved her so much. I couldn't have even imagined leaving her. I feel bad and glad at the same time for people who never really know how that feels.
And as for the filthy dog beneath my feet is how the Bible describes this person i pray God gives you since enough to stop using pills to keep someone so precious and worthy of a much better life than a dog like you could or would ever give her before life consumes you because I am not as strong as God so know everyday I pray for you and you might need to pray for me that God stays in me and I keep you in my prayers for ever
Amazingly well worded
@@meandmy3make4 Thank you, Amanda. You're very gracious. 🙏🏽
I cried when I read this. As hard as it can be to love someone with mental illness, it's a million times harder to be that person. The suffering is unimaginable to the point where one is willing to take their own life to escape the pain. Then we are treated as if we are weak-willed and it is our own fault.
Reminds me of my friend Bradley, she suffered from depression. She had her highs and lows threw the years, she killed herself 4 years ago. She tried to get treatment, doctors labled her as a drug seeker and send her home with nothing, she self medicated with street drugs and booze. It is sad to think that life is that bad you dont want to live, and it is hard for those left behind. This song and video really touched me.
I'm really sorry to hear that I hope your life turns out to be nothing but a blessing
Jon Phillips Thank you for your kind words. I miss my friend, I regret I could not help her. I am in the medical field but there are very limited resources for mentally ill. Depression is an elephant in the room and goes undiagnosed far too many times. I pray for awareness to this terrible disease.
Listened to this song a lot. Just now watched the video. Damn... I'm sorry for your loss.
Tammy Renee Moore that is a very true statement that you made about people giving up on life to medicate themselves and that's the bottom of the bottle it's always empty because we think too hard and not really searching for the answers but when you she had a good friend like yourself just remember she's watching you she just couldn't help herself didn't have no one to really lean on an open heart I thought about suicide years ago and I was one drugs pills and alcohol the guy told me has something better for me and I begin to draw you got very good at it and then I have a clothing line coming out this year the clothing line is call Jelani please look out for me support me has I will support any other artists make our Dream Come True God bless everyone have a great day
Tammy Renee Moore I knw what the sad life of depression and emotional problems can do to a person and anyone who lives that person . But your friend not in pain anymore
I have always loved this song. I just saw this video and it took my breath. I found my husband with a self inflicted GSW. Spent the rest of his time in a hospital room going back and forth between heart break and anger. I let him go on the 6th day. Never.gets any easier. I type this thru tears. Please, PLEASE seek help. Reach out.. I know it may not seem like it but you ARE loved. You ARE important. The devastation of those left behind is immense. He was 23. Way too young to say goodbye. Thanks to Chris for bringing this very important issue to the surface. Its a hard one to deal with on so many different levels. Those of you who need to hear this listen: please stay. Choose life. Today may be the worst day of your life.. Tmrw may be the BEST. Once this decision is made its irrevocable.. Please stay.
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That's heavy. I hope you find the strength to make it through this time.
God bless you. I suffer from many mental issues and ur post too has helped me
@@tammeyslone3435 That makes me very happy. Hang in there. You can do this!
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I’m a wreck. Lost my husband of 25 years , then our daughter to fentanyl.. all the last few years. But my new husband of 6 months is my hero.. I see this and he is the one that carries me.. I love him so much… but I’m struggling..
Hold on to what you got 🖤 and remember what you had🖤 now believe in the future and what is possible 🖤 I am sorry for your losses. I am grateful for your gains and I am excited to see how you adjust to make your future showcase all of those things.
She had unconditional love she sacrifed her Soul so he would be at peace she new he could never save her from herself so she saved him from himself she new he would never understand and Let her Go because there Love was unconditional with compassion endless Love for one another he tried to save her she saved him peace ☮️ that is only my thoughts ❤️
"She had an unconditional love for him. She sacrificed her soul so he would be at peace. She knew he could never save her from herself, so she saved him from himself."🥺💜💜
Well said
Y'all's comments are completely nonsensical....
@@calamityjane573 neither is life or suicide. If these comments don't make sense to you, the I am happy for you.
This comment hits close to home for me. My fiance left me last week, we were together for seven years. She had a heart of gold but I was a fool. I talked to other women, talked bad to her at times and I got jealous because I knew she had a heart of gold and I didn't deserve her. When she left me last week i had a hell of a journey, my grandpa passed away I've been lost and now I'm finding myself again because she pushed me to do that. I have something to prove to not only her but myself.
Contemplating my life right now. It's been almost a year since I swallowed 100 Tylenol and spent 4 days in ICU waiting for my kidneys to fail. I'm still struggling in this very moment. Thank you Chris Stapleton for this song.
I am praying a blessing on you right now. Your life matters. Corny as it sounds, I went around the world only to discover the purpose in life is to be a blessing in the world. Bless everyone you see. This is where your true power lies. You can change someone elses life. I finally said yes to Jesus and have never looked back since. Life is simple for me and very, very sweet now. :)
Danielle Roberts I did the same but I just was sick for a week throwing up foam. God really does hear prayers.. I'm glad you are still here.
I know you don't know me but if it helps to unwind ever, I'm all ears... you're life matters sister. you are not alone.. god bless you.
Hello, how are you doing today? Thank you so much for your love and support.
My best friend of 25 years took his life 52 days ago. I was the last person he talked to. We got off the phone at 8:37am; at 11:49am, I think he's callin' me back. It was his folks callin' me from his phone to tell me he was gone. Sometimes, the signs are not there. Hug your loved ones, and let them know how much they mean to ya.
I'm sorry 🫂
So sorry
That's what loving someone with mental illness is like. It consumes you and in the end it can destroy you both.
+Brandy Thorne very true, the worst is.. at some point the person that had it worst moves on and 'survive' the situation, the other person struggles and its hard to move on
+Brandy Thorne i know i was there accute depression is hard to live with almost impossible without god that is your only hope to survive and it works
I hit bottom with anxiety in 2003. I got to the point where I had so much mental pain that I understood why people kill themselves although I never actually tried to. I was buried in hopelessness and despair. It took me five years to learn my way out of it, but I did it!! What gave me hope was listening to others that made it out. If I can do it, you can too! When I was finally able to put my thoughts together I started writing songs about the things I had learned. Love yourself! Take care of yourself! Treasure yourself! And let everything else go!! It's about your thoughts and beliefs. Pay attention to them, and allow yourself to change them to something that feels good. Follow your heart, and let go of everything you've ever been taught. Your heart knows best!💞 Lots of love, Shelley😊
+Shelley Marie Songwriter Go you!!
Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for the support and love.
RIP Dad I spoke to you that night before finding you that morning, you will always be my hero even though you went out like that I miss you so much it’ll always hurt til I see you again. Love you
02;23 a.m. 04/02/2024 Oh my gut punch!!! My soul screamed Nnoooo!
You did your job with this one, sir. You got me. You broke me with this song. . . Kudos, bravo, encore, take a bow...
Nothing left unsaid...
No emotion untouched...
Mic drop...
Head bowed...
Walk away...
Legendary!
this song is about depression she cldnt fight the demons and he stood by her side until the end..pay attention to every sign if you can do something...
U hit it perfect!!
I didn't see it. My daughter recently committed suicide... I knew she was going through a lot but every time I saw her she seemed to be okay. Wish I could have stopped her
Jaded Star , I'm so sorry. Prayers for you and your family. I lost someone very close to suicide a year ago. My son has bipolar, and he's had several attempts. Mental health services need to change. They are failing too many people.
Wrong. Unconditional Love
I would suggest that it is not up to Mental Health Services to be God for people. They are not Miracle workers. They are simply doing a very difficult job with many employees being the lowest paid on the medical scale. Do one week in the Mental Health field and you will want to jump off a bridge, yourself...because of the overwhelming mess in society. I have been in this field for over 30 years, and the only thing I have found that truly works with much higher percentages than every other program out there is when you wrap a good family focused church that actually believes in God, and compassion, and is willing to roll up their sleeves and get involved int he tough work or breaking the chain's of addiction and helping people walk out of that dark valley. I have never known it to take less than 6 months.. most of the time it takes about a year for most folks to rebuild their world. More and more recovery programs are asking for the help of local urban churches to provide the structure needed for folks.
Takes me back to my marriage. Never in my life had I ever met such a sweet, passionate lover. When times were good, they were the best. Unfortunately, when times were bad, they were horrible. I miss that woman's love, that can never be replaced. Only if I had the maturity and understanding at that time in my life, it could have survived. Sometimes you can love but that doesn't mean you can be together. So sad.
This songs prolly the most haunting from my past…trying to save my ex-wife with a 2 y/o and a newbie addicted to drugs, we were freshly married and everything was supposed to be picture perfect here we are 7 years later I’m raising these children without her doing the best I know how to… this song was released exactly in the middle of my life’s hardships and Chris’s made me understand as much as you try at things some things you can never understand❤ if you’re battling what I had to endure my heart is there for you in every turn god bless
You got this.
My husband lost his life to suicide 4 years ago. On our 15-year anniversary, he was in a locked psych unit, and when I went in to see him, he didn't recognize me. He ended his life 4 months later after coming out of this year-long manic episode. This song reaches me to my core.
Im so sorry.
Be strong.
God is with you 🩵
I hope you can find new life ❤️
This song is a masterpiece. Anyone agree?? [edit: didn't expect this many likes :)]
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Darn straight. My wife soon to be ex is just like that
Well beyond a masterpiece….. this song touches the very depth of our souls
Agreed!
Totally AGREE
This is about mental illness. I know because I’m her. The man never abandons her no matter what. The unconditional love from the true love will go on way past death. For all of you who face someone who’s mental, don’t abandoned them! They need you to be there
Exactly, i spent 2 years for someone like her, it was like being with someone who has couple diffrent person in same body, no matter what i stand with her, supported her, showed love n understanding too. Not easy thing to do cause at some point things starting breaking you inside too, but no matter what i stand with her n i made her better i think cuz she abandoned me ( who was anxious about that i will leave her when i was with her every day in those years) and went to be with someone else. So things are confusing sometimes so fire it away.
6-1-2024 😢and once again feeling this way … I can’t win
Depression is something that a lot of people deal with on a daily basis, we all have different ways to deal with it. Just remember that no matter how bad it seems, no matter how alone you feel, you're not alone. There are plenty of people you can reach out to, never keep suicidal thoughts to yourself. Even if you have to reach out in the comment section do it, someone will respond that will listen to you. I know I said this already but remember YOU'RE NEVER TRULY ALONE!!!
Sometimes you can't save someone that doesn't wanna be saved. :/
You don't understand how badly we want to be saved. sometimes you don't get that option. Turned away, left hopeless begging for help. it's not something you can just turn off and on
Suzanne Ambrose we all want to be saved
you just don't know; everyone wants to be saved; maybe not your way.
God damn this video is an emotional one.. but this is country. Real problems.. real people. Not everything is fuckin tan legs swinging from a tailgate in the moon light sipping fireball. Country is the music of soul, life, hardship, the appriciation of the things you already have, and the voice of coping with what you have lost. Life isn't always a fuckin party.
+domzdaman373 Amen to this!
Comment of the year!!!!!!
Well said! 😊
Best breakdown of TRUE country I've heard in a while! Very well said!
apparently you have never lost anyone to suicide!! God help you when you do!!!
I recently lost my Mom due to stage 4 melanoma this song helps me to cope with the struggle of losing her. I love you Mom ❤
Sorry for your loss
I am one that suffers from ptsd, depression and anxiety. I would be lying if I said detrimental thoughts have never crossed my mind. We all have different things that have brought us to this point. Sometimes it's a daily struggle dealing with it. Other days are cake. But I have to keep trucking along. I know it's going to be a battle, but I'm a survivor and I won't let it beat me. Being a musician I can appreciate the way some can convey things like this in a song. Sometimes it's just the therapy required.
I really want to say to all those in the comments that have said they suffer from the same things, I am proud of you each one of you for being able to say it. It's a strong thing to admit that you always aren't. Keep you heads up and please reach out if things start to go in the wrong direction. Y'all are survivors! Y'all got this!! Much love.
My girlfriend, one of the most amazing people on this earth, was badly abused as a child and as a result has dissociative identity disorder ("multiple personalities" although the right term is dissociative identities). She struggles with chronic derealization and depression/suicidal ideation and ocd too. Loving someone so much and so unconditionally, despite how much they struggle, can really fucking hurt. All you want is for them to get better and be okay, but it's never that easy. There are nights when I'm scared I'll wake up the next day to see she's gone. She deserves to live and be okay. She deserves to feel like the world around her is real and not just some dream, like her derealization tells her.
She's suffered enough and I want us to have a happy ending, because her beginning sure as hell wasn't. It's unfair as all fuck and sometimes all I can do is cry and curse at the world for putting this on her and on us.
If anyone sees this, and if any of you believe in God, I do ask that you send out a prayer for her recovery. Shit can be so hard. I'll be praying for any of you that need it too.
update almost a year later: we are no longer together - not because of her mental health though! nothing bad. we are still very good friends, but the actual relationship wasn’t working because our respective long term goals weren’t compatible. she is recovering every day. very, very slowly, but i see the little bits of progress every time we see each other. things still aren’t easy for her at all, but i can see them getting there. stay strong everybody.
Praying for her & praying even harder for you. It’s hard to bare witness to these things, to not be able to fix all the hurt. You’ve both got this. Lots of love.
It's really beautiful how much you clearly love her. I hope you both get your happy ending
I will pray for you and your girlfriend
This got me sobbing. I hope she gets better.
Prayers for healing in Jesus name amen. Tell her I tried it wouldn't fire now my children are grown I'm raising my granddaughter. I had lost my little boy 2 years old I was a mess. Jesus came to me in a vision showed me my son on his lap then he run off with the other children in a huge meadow. I still miss him. I know he's in heaven. I cry every birthday holiday ..I pray
Officially released his first music video, talk about the seriousness and signs of having depression. Salute to the man.
Never felt a video so powerful. Mental health is about both partners. Life is too fast to have fights, just love.
I lost my husband to suicide in 2019. This video hits home so hard. You do all you can to be there for them but always fear that they will try something when youre not there. There is help & hope out there! You are loved. You are enough. ❤
June 1st 2024 anyone?
Chris Stapleton our last chance at real country music
agreed
We also have Justin Moore, but I'm afraid his new album might be pop country
don't forget about Sturgil Simpson and Cody Jinks
Kacey Musgraves has a really good country album too. It's new, but it's written from the heart by her and just a few other people. She keeps the same band, and they have respect for original country's sound while still being current. Her last album was equally as good.
You need to listen to Jamey Johnson, Frank Foster, Cody Jinks
who is cutting the fucking onions in here?!?!!?
What a beautiful piece of music! I feel so refreshed and rejuvenated after listening to it.This sound is so wonderful. The person who is reading this comment, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness!
When he runs out into the field to get her, the way she grasps onto him like she's holding on for dear life...I felt that..I've been there
Me too...
Literally had this happen to me with my bestfriend her dad kept beating her and she kept getting bullied she said enough called me and said im done i knew what she meant so i fucking superman my ass over there but it was too late.. 😢😭😭 she Amanda Todd herself..
@@XXXfCJgXXX I'm so sorry
I'm there now.
@@mandinorman1337 im so sorry i know u don't know me but if u ever need to talk to someone ill b glad to listen n I would try n help in any way I can.
When you feel like you’ve suffered enough but don’t know how to end it all so you come here and play on repeat
Yip
I hear ya..
Yes 😥🥺
Same😞😔
Non stop 🥺😔
May 26th happy memorial day !! Be good to each other its not hard
I’ll never forget the day my dad showed me this song. Told me he wanted me to watch a music video and listen to the song. He never knew I was struggling mentally. But this song saved me.
Keep pushing. You’re not alone. Despite the hurdles, it gets quite better and worth the shot of keep pushing through life.
Maybe he knew, or suspected, but he just didn't know how to talk to you about it.
Im willing to bet your dads hurting too. We all are
hes your dad. he knew something was wrong.
Such thin and fragile threads connect us to people we have never met, to people that seem like reflections.
This is one of those videos that its even better to watch the 2nd time.
Am I hearing music with lyrics that actually make sense? Am I feeling emotional? What's happening? ❤😩
yes ma'am
was thinking the same thing
ITs called country music. Its amazing stuff, went dormant for about 20 years but is coming back strong. Probably wont find it on many "country stations"
+Tyler Witty I agree
whataboutlastweek is the best thing ever I love it when I basically have a good day to
This is the only Stapleton song I have found that I prefer the studio version to the live version most commonly offered up on TH-cam
I’d never heard of Chris Stapleton till I saw him come on stage with Kings of Leon on a random video. Chris is now my favourite go to artist and has pretty much made country my favourite genre ( along with Luke Combs of course!)
Brad Paisley: Whiskey lullaby is the saddest country song ever written
Chris Stapleton: Hold my cowboy hat
In Lullaby, she cheated, in this, she nor he could do anything about it. We don't always defeat our demons/sickness. Why I hope I never get Alzheimer's.
oh i know
Whiskey Lullaby had a Vet... not even close.
I mean concrete angel is pretty rough to get through
Vern Gosdin chiseled in stone and many more. Stapleton still makes you feel it and has that old school feeling I've been listening to him for years since he was with or better yet he was the Steel Drivers
Chris Stapleton. Idk if you'll ever read this. But know this video has let me put a visual on the suffering I go through when I am hitting that low point. Thank you for this video and just to know I am more. And survive another day..... I fire away... Everyday.....
You ARE someone Ashley Noonan and you have no idea how many lives you have touched and changed just by being here and being a part of life. You matter to this world - don't ever let the illness lie to you and tell you that you don't. Big hugs to you :)
+Kerry Feland I there was a like button for your comment. I don't know either one of you, but that was amazing and uplifting. I can be a true jackass most of the time, but I do actually try to see the good and importance in all people. Thank you.
Thank you Matt for your kind words. My daughter is bipolar so I live the life in this song and I know the people who are ill will start to feel and think that they are not worth anything but that is just not true - they are worth everything to all of us. People miss seeing so much beauty, kindness and love in others when they close their minds....I just keep trying to open the doors that others keep trying to shut.
+Kerry Feland
well said
+Kerry Feland I know what you mean. My girlfriend is bipolar. I love her to death. It scares me when he gets in one of her moods. I am afraid she will hurt herself. She cuts herself and talks about how ugly her scars are. I look her in her eyes an I always tell they are beautiful just like her. I know the Lord is watching over her from heaven. I truly believe they are God's Angels. We are there protectors.
Exactly what I go through.
Just found out I’m bipolar 2.
I always thought the surges of energy were just happiness, and I never felt like anybody truly understood how low the lows would get.
To anyone dealing with this I love you . Don’t give up.
As someone who was in love with and in a relationship with someone like this, PLEASE talk to them. We don't understand. Honestly. My ex tried to kill her self over it, and it still haunts me. We love you, I promise, and we really want the best for you. We would give our soul to see you be happy forever.
🤔 IDK exactly why most of the comments on this 👍 song and video are about the ‘struggles’ of the individuals who wrote their stories based on its words. Not that I’m insensitive or don’t feel for them - I am and I do - but for me the lyrics are significant for different reasons too. I interpret them as being more about staying strong, and having the desire, courage, mindset, strength and ability to take whatever is ‘given’ to you (and/or your loved ones) EVERY SINGLE DAY and BELIEVE YOU CAN make the GD BEST of them! ✝️☮️💟
I've never seen anything so closely resemble my life. The only difference would be that when I lost my daughter I lost my mind and my will to live. It was this.. this insanity..and still he stayed. This was 6 years ago and I finally started to find my way back and my stomach ruptures...and for the first time I watched this beautiful, strong man I'm married to cry and literally beg me to survive..so I am. I will never understand why God gave me this man or why he still loves me like this 22 years and the death of a child later, but God knows how grateful I am. He's the reason I know we truly have soul mates.
Hope
@@bealightnthedarkness7662 hope and love. I just don't know that I deserve it, but God knows I'm grateful.
Boo hoo. Stop looking for attention
@@teddybroosevelt6826 awww Teddy..what you chose not to see is that I'm still here, still loved by many and still not ever intimidated or even a little hurt by someone like you. I can already tell what a sad, perpetually single and incredibly lonely life you live by this simple comment...the actual need for attention..which is so desperately needed on your part that you'll even take scraps of negative attention versus none at all.
You keep eating your feelings, pittying yourself and raging at the world over things you perceive as unfair and I'll keep being me. Loved, happy and confident enough to know how very little you matter.
Hugs and prayers.
@@teddybroosevelt6826 Quite the opposite. It is you seeking the attention and no doubt, you'll receive it precisely for your soulless comment. Enjoy the fame.
I was married for 25 years to a wonderful woman when I first met her. However, she injured her back on her job and had back surgery. But to know avail, she was left in tremendous pain and so was prescribed pain pills and she became extremely addicted for the 22 of these 25 years. This ruined a good marriage and relationship. She has passed since in 2015 with ALS. Now I am old and alone and it gets very difficult at times, we never had any kids. Thanks Chris Stapleton!
Sending prayers for you 💖
@@KaySmith-cr1ks Prayer is about all I have left. Thanks!
God damn pills take just about every person who takes them. I can promise you it was never that you weren't enough to quit or anything to do with you at all.
They literally rob a person's soul, their entire being.
Don't know you but I will tell you that underneath the pills, and illness existed a woman that would have loved you with every last breath.
I know this because she was me..
And I'm right where she was... and watching the love of my entire life walk out of my life before the inevitable takes place.
I'm very ill now, and she's chosen to leave and nothing i can do to stop her.
Hope you find some peace in this somehow.
George, I hurt my back 25 years ago in a car accident, 3 verb. crushed. I have never been me again. I refuse the pain pills because of what I have read about them, side effects and stories of people like your wonderful wife. My family knows nothing of the pain I feel. I take the pain and move forward. I sit, lay, stand to ease the pain, ice too. I have gained so much weight that it hurts to move. I hurt my knee about 2 months ago and now I have trouble walIking. Must have been very painful for her to take those pills. I am so sorry for your hurt. I hope you are at a new place in your life now than you were 4 months ago when you wrote. I enjoy Chris' song Starting Over. Peace to you Friend! Blessing to you!! CheerS!!
@@vwalker3139 I am sorry and feel for you all that you have gone through and what you are going through also. Life can really be a full job of challenges, many of what we did not expect. I hope all things will get better for you and that there will be hope at the end of this tunnel. As for me, I have moved on from where I was and what I was experiencing and would never want to go through all of this again. Even though it is all over now, I try to find peace in my solitude, trying to become a better person and doing things that keep me occupied and make life enjoyable as best as can I am not very trusting in having a relationship mostly because of my age now....It is not as it was when I was younger. I just hope that you will be able to heal and find joy in this very unpredictable world and know that you have a purpose to strive for that gives you a peace of mind
" your love might be my damnation and I'll cry to my grave " hits like a cold winter breeze, excellent song writing.
a year ago i lost my older brother to suicide. I remember being so mad at the world for him leaving. But looking back on our messages we would send each other songs to listen to. This song was always sent to me multiple times. I never listened to country that much until after he passed. This song touched me once i played it over and over again. I miss him. but the music lives through him. I love this song and my brother.
Man, I have always loved Ben Foster as an actor, he chooses script so sparingly, and so carefully in the fact that he chose to be in this music video is amazing
Man, this video......soooo sad :( Made me think of a time when I didn't value my own life and tried to take it. I thank GOD to this day that I wasn't successful......
Pretty cool and humble dude for someone who can sing better than anyone in the industry
He is considering he wrote half of the songs that thr pretty boys sing.
I've struggled with depression and anxiety since I was 15. I'm now 37, and it's still a battle. It just sucks when sometimes you feel like you just can't win!!
I absolutely get it. Hope you can keep strong!
@@unepetitebr Thank you!
You are winning simply because you are still here. Don’t ever give up the fight.
@tyfaknee Thank you! Nope, never give up!!! Again, thank you for the nice words!!!
@@Nikkilou36 ❤️
My heart goes our to everyone who is suffering from depression and mental illness. I will be praying for you guys that God lifts those chains off of you. Keep fighting you are loved.😢
Best comment here. Go to God. 🙏
I pray to God everyday 🙏 Have a blessed night
I really appreciate your kind words. I’m battling a bout of depression right now. It’s very hard to deal with at times.
You have a blessed night and keep praying
Thank you from ireland as a sufferer it is not easy, and to hell with anyone who knocks it, i was brought up in a generation where the word depression was never talked about u were just in a bad mood, like hell i was, scared to say i feel depressed because u would of got laughed at or punched and told to catch yourself on, i was in my mid 40's before i addressed the problem and being an alcoholic didnt help near 5 yrs sober, and being treated properly for depression, iv found myself living in a city somewhere i never thought id ever live as im a country boy, but the count of 13,14,15,16yrs taking there own lives absolutly shocking scares me more needs to be done tell ur wee boys its ok to cry, wont make u any less of a man will make u a better man, rant over nice to hear of someone commenting like u just did we appreciate it thank you 💚💚💚💚💚💚🇮🇪
I know this video is more of a husband wife thing but I have to tell you my mother was bipolar schitsopherenic, (I may have misspelled that) my daughter is bipolar with severe anxiety. both suicidal. I am in turn ptsd, emotionally repressive. I externalize everything. It's not easy being the only ground for a hot wire. I have mad respect for everyone who can hold someone until the storm passes. Bless you all and may your loved ones be well.
Hey there Rhino - my name is Kelley. I am the daughter of a retired Marine / Vietnam vet... I watched my dad suffer with crippling PTSD just about my entire life due to the horrific atrocities that he witnessed while on embassy duty during the Fall of Saigon. Seeing someone you love suffer with PTSD is torture - but it is nothing compared to the sheer hell that I know you have to battle your way through day in and day out. It is unimaginable, and my heart goes out to you more than I can put into words.
Marines are God's special Warriors - it is a certain fact that there isn't another branch of service that comes close to having the same PTSD issues that Marines have - that means that YOU are the BEST of the BEST, God gave YOU something very special inside of you - it's something that the majority of us do not nor ever will have.
I am so thankful and appreciative of everything you have done. Your sacrifices were major - and the fact that you are STILL fighting the battle - even though you are off the battle field is 100% HEROIC. Please don't ever question or doubt the honest to GOD TRUTH of that.
God Bless you ~ Happy Birthday and Semper Fi. 🇺🇸
hey I have a hard time with the word schizophrenic too. like without autocorrect that wouldn't even be correct lol. but honestly you're a tough mudder.
You can cry or sing along :)
Honey load up your questions
And pick up your sticks and your stones
And pretend I'm a shelter for heartaches
That don't have a home
Choose the words that cut like a razor
And all that I'll say
Is fire away
Take your best shot
Show me what you got
Honey, I'm not afraid
Rear back and take aim
And fire away
Well, I wish I could say
That I've never been here before
But you know and I know
That I'll always come back for more
Your love might be my damnation
But I'll cry to my grave
Fire away
Take your best shot
Show me what you got
Honey, I'm not afraid
Rear back and take aim
And fire away
Ah, fire away
Take your best shot
Show me what you got
Honey, I'm not afraid
Rear back and take aim
And fire away
Fire away
Ah fire away
Fire away
thanks brother
I know it's a worn out saying but Jesus is the answer. He is the savior for people like this. Don't give up before you give him a chance. I've seen it work miracles in my own life, in spite of what you may think about the gospel story. The power of forgiveness is the greatest power of all. It's real.
Jesus is not the answer..although it is a wonderful reference to go to. ❤ It is a disease, it cannot be cured or remedied by faith. Medical intervention and medication is the only thing that will subdue..there is no cure. It is a disease..just like cancer although there is no remission or cancer-free option. It cannot be fixed. It is real. Btw..what do you mean by "people like this"?
I lost my wife of 12 years to suicide, I pray everyday that she was still ere n it was me that was gone, I'd give anything to take her place, it's hard to carry on with life wen the light has gone out,
I MISS U N I LOVE U WITH ALL MY HEART ALWAYS WILL,I'll cya soon hun xxx
This song is my life. Through my battle with depression I have lashed out at my husband, thrown things at him and locked myself in a room with a knife and a bottle of pills. He never once left and would hold me until I exhausted myself when I went wild.
He is the sole reason I am here today and better then I have ever been. He monitors my meds and loves me despite it all. Thank you Chris Stapleton for honoring our loved one that live and suffer with us.
Thank you so much I sincerely hope you never stop listening to my music 🎶❤️, Happy New Year once again.
I felt that!! My husband is also like this with me and he is also the sole reason I am here. My medications stay in a gun safe, because that's t the only one I can pick the lock on, and he gives them out on a daily basis. I don't know what I would do without him. He loves me so much and I him. Prayers for you and yours!!
@@AmandaWilshire031 Thank you once again for your love towards my music 🎶 Do you mind if we talk somewhere private? I'm not on here much
Mine was there for 15 yrs I honestly thought id nwver find someone who would love me with all my battles in my mind and he did right up until god stole him from me with a fatal stroke that I now know was caused by the stress i put him thru so in the end I killed the one person that was always my rock and im now so alone and miss him and want to be where he is
My girlfriend is like this, bipolar disorder, major depression and anxiety. Being on call all the time as a firefighter it gets very scary to leave her alone sometimes. I love her so much, she has good days and bad days, but she's so unpredictable. She is a good person. If only she say her self worth through my eyes.
Jackaroo Dundee it's a hard thing to get over
@@sheliamiller5162 I don't think it's something you get over, it's something you deal with and share. It's weird like that.
Jackaroo Dundee i also have all 3 of those things... Its hard. Make sure there's always something at home with her. Like something to keep her from feeling alone. Don't let the silence get to her. If she tries shit she needs to go to the hospital. Its a dark feeling. And she probably doesn't want to go but usually meds work for bipolar. Its well studied. I have a lot of friends like this and they ended up going to the hospital for a while why they started lithium usually. Its like magic a lot of the time. I'm sorry just this songs got me emotional as hell. And i just wanna do litteraly anything I can do to help. Ik what its like being her. Its hell but it really is possible to escape the darkest part. Its just hard. Best if luck man.
Just do what you can for her. I wish you the best of luck bud!
You are an amazing human for having the strength and courage to care for someone with a mental illness. As one of those people myself I always worry I will scare away the ones I love, but this goes to show that we can be loved. And people do care, and we appreciate that more than you can imagine.
The love of my life is bi-polar, depressed and harms herself. We are both almost 30 years old with an 11 month old daughter and idk what to do. I love her so much and don't want to leave her when she needs me the most but it's starting to affect us long term and our daughter. 😢
Prayers for you
I know Chris will never see this… just wanted you to know what this song means to me… I’ve been trying to leave my husband for 4 years… I always go back, first time I left- I drove from Ohio to Florida stopping twice in between for gas, listening to this cd the entire trip! I couldn’t change the music and cried the whole time bc I was scared! Drove to the ocean and then to my aunts… she told me don’t ever let anyone take your joy, that’s given me so much strength believe it or not… went back to him again… idk maybe I’ll really get away next time ❤
You will. Get away.
Here's how you're going to do it.
A most polite 🧎🏼 prediction. If i may. I'm being real.
You will enter a state called "Apathy Syndrome" . Likely post-PTSD.
Post traumatic stress syndrome:
"After all the fights I'm ILL from the stress" Exact same thing. Break it down right?
What happens is sooner or later your mind will snap ALL THE WAY IMMEDIATELY. You're done no matter what but here's the kicker!!!. and you WILL KNOW you're in PTSD Apathy Syndrome.
You will feel no pain.
Repeat. Endless heartache to INSTANT emotionlessness. It will shock you in your own mind but NOT scare you. Unbelievable, cosmic soul/core change will happen permanently and instantly.
It will be like a light switch. Emotions OFF. Click!
To my, untrained in this genre, but experienced ear, it sounds like you're near that. You can't really see it coming.
It just happens when your brain says:
"ABSOLUTELY NOT ONE MORE MOMENT OF DRAMA WILL BE TOLERATED REGARDLESS OF ANY CONSEQUENCES ANYWHERE WITH ANYONE EVER"
It's weird sis. Just did it. In it now. SO know where you're at.
It's peaceful in Apathy.
Let it go. You own you. Fuck what "they" think anymore. It DOESN'T matter. Be happy. ✊🏼
I didn't know about it until it hit me. I was hoping my drama could maybe help you understand what may happen. Just saying don't be scared. You'll realize it was THE moment.
The solution to your problem is inside you. Release the power you have been gaslighted into thinking you don't have. Show no weakness.
Fucker will be on his knees begging for forgiveness when he sees the fire in your eyes won't go out this time. His control is gone. You're free. He cannot hurt you then.
You'll see. Don't be afraid. Keep your eye on your joy, peace, and freedom.
It's coming. You'll be okay.
Who else would put this in the top 10 music videos you've ever seen? Wow!
I’m black and I love Chris Stapleton. I needed to put this comment on record bc it’s not only white peoples that like country music.
Brother music has no color.. Music of many dif styles have stories and brings out visions and emotions that some folks may connect with or not, but if we open our ears and hearts instead of our eyes we can learn so much more of what's in front of us and in our souls. :-) Peace Omari and well said!
Shut up and listen.
Music is universal it’s crosses racial boarders and it’s not a black or white thing it’s the love of music that unites us as humans it’s what separates us from animals if only we could look past color and see we’re all the same inside we feel the same we bleed the same color we love the same we hurt the same I’m 48 and roll with Tupac almost everyday it’s the love of music and being To appreciate it for what it is and not the color of the person singing it.
We’ll seeing as how many black people are stereotyped. There is a love for this music that we black people have created. Like K Michelle stated. She was denied to perform on stage at a venue bc she was black. But she loves country music and so do I. So I want to project my thoughts, feelings, and , beliefs of this music is not just loved by whites but all other races. It seems that country music is exclusive. Your gonna come back wit 2 or 3 black persons that sung country. And be like were inclusive. FOH.
Nobody gives a shit, spin you some Hootie.
This video will literally make you cry your eyes out
I struggle with anxiety and depression and recently I lost my sister to cancer and I had a miscarriage a few weeks ago and trying so hard to stay positive I often listen to this song and cry
Please try to stay strong, even though it's hard ❤
@@melissaruiz7329thank you ❤
May you be blessed with the grace to see God's love for you despite what you may perceive as God not being there. Trust in God and give everything to Him, all your pain and sorrows. Put God first and watch Him make your life anew.
Hi so sorry for the loss of ur sister, my sister had a miscarriage, I remember looking at her wee face, and knowing there was nothing I could do, and I was only her brother, broke my heart, I suffer also with anxiety and depression, I'm also a recovering alcoholic, 5yrs sober my punishment was to watch alot and I mean alot of my friends, friends I knew all my life and was involved with them all, all the way,lost my grandad on Christmas day and my dad on new yrs night different yrs, only to find out he was not my biological father, iv 2 sisters both called adele and now 2 brothers half siblings if u want to call them that, well after 30 odd yrs of alcohol and drug abuse, I fathered 1 girl and 1 boy and adopted 1 girl, my 2 wee girls now woman 1 married wasnt invited to the wedding, had to watch on a video of my xwife walk her down the Isle dressed as a man, top hat etc, looked like a joke ridiculous but hey that didn't put me back to drink or drugs I'm fighting like hell inside my own head to get all 3 of my kids back, my son is gay so what its 2023, I'm a grandad he is just 1yrs old past in Jan and hopefully a little granddaughter at 4 I think, I wrote a song and produced it and sang in the chorus, I talk at the end, it's called ( havent got to say hello yet ) by silent brook if u like check it out on TH-cam, and I'm in the middle of writing a couple of children's books, mermaids, Kings, witches, magic, and princess's I think what I'm trying to say is, I'm 50 51yrs old in a couple of wks, I made it this far, no idea how AA, helped saved my life, so I went talked to my doctor, and sought help elsewhere and talked to someone about it all, the deaths that hit me the screw ups iv made, I feel ur pain, plz hold on tell ur man, tell somebody or come on here and leave comments like this, this helps me it let's me share some of my experiences, and if I help 1 person who reads this hopefully you, ur not alone always remember that, and crying is good, God Bless u, andi hope u read this and any part of it helps even a little cause a little is better than nothing, and that's something ur not, ur not alone ur not nothing ur not wrong keep reaching out loads of love from ireland 🇮🇪🙏🙏🙏😊
This is what I call good music.
+Alain Bruno Chris makes good music!
+Alain Bruno i agree
+Alain Bruno i like your body
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Can you fuck off and stop commenting on every fucking songs you see! Clearly you don't listen to the songs. You just want people to see you and subscribe to you !
uhh qnd one more thing, Change your fucking ugly picture!
Anyone still listening 2020 one of the best songs ever!
Dam wright.Davo 54
Ok boomer
no no one, every stopped listening in 2019 insert eye roll
Absolutely.
Yes ,, and always will !!!
I’ve suffered from depression for a really long time. If it weren’t for my children, I wouldn’t be as strong as I am. I hope to find someone who doesn’t blame me for my bad days and instead holds me closer.
Hello Melissa how are you doing? I hope you are fine, I’m Jonathan from Dartmouth MA it’s my pleasure to meet, seems like you are a real country girl?
WOW this hit hard. If you are suffering you are not alone, we are with you. Dont ever take your life. get help and dont ever stop fighting the pain is real. As a retired police officer it was sad to arrive to a home and see the lifeless body of a person who deicded to take his/her life. Years later i suffered from PTSD as a result. As a police Officer not only to you have to deal with others but also the ones in your home. Powerful video, still tearing up. God bless all those suffering, god bless the famliy of those suffering and God bless our first responders who deal with it on and off the job. PLEASE DONT EVER STOP FIGHTING
you dont hear these songs they find you out like a truth in your lies and cut and nourish you at the same time . peace and love to you all
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Hits me right in my heart. Speaks to me!
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So my girlfriend on 7 years just left me today, I love her and I always will. This song kills me. 😞
Adam Niles yeah thing is I had the ring, my birthday (Jan 9th) I was gunna purpose.. I'm so lost dude, Jack Daniels has me for now.
Dayton Shirt Sorry to hear that man hope you get better
keep your head up high brother you got this
Dayton Shirt, better days well come your way. be patient, listen to her complains, understand what you need to improve. if she's not coming back, anyway you will be able to address your own issues. I listen to Tony Robins a lot. you will get better.
Albert Faustino thanks, means a lot.