No Freaking Speaking: Managing Public Speaking Anxiety

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  • This clip defines the sources of public speaking anxiety and identifies specific, academically validated, anxiety management techniques to help presenters become more confident. Learn more at NoFreakingSpeaking.com

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  • @sabrinacollins8135
    @sabrinacollins8135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    We watched this in my speech class today and it legitimately bothered me so much that i found this video just so i could say:
    He looks like Toby from the Office

    • @sabrinacollins8135
      @sabrinacollins8135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If Toby and Woody Harrilson had a baby, it would be this guy

    • @fangirlalways3853
      @fangirlalways3853 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately same lol

    • @patriciaptak
      @patriciaptak 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      bro same i'm watching this for my speech class and he kinda looks like him lmao

    • @spadesofspades
      @spadesofspades 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Discount bin Toby

  • @abdellatifagnagay8740
    @abdellatifagnagay8740 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Source of anxiet:
    1_ Situation based anxiety : instead of thinking about it as a performance we need to reframe it as a conversation and to do that you need to : Practice conversationally, use conversational language, and questions
    2_ The audience : visualization is the key
    3_ The goal of the speech : these goals are all in the future, but at this case we need to be in the present situation, to do that: do some pushups, play little game, counte backward from 100 or play the tongue twister game .
    Hope you'll find this usefull

  • @BladesByClaw
    @BladesByClaw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The "imagining of the audience responding positively" really helped

  • @rellhayes5626
    @rellhayes5626 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Practice - Conversational - Questions - Noted that, very very good source! Thank you Matt for this video!

  • @unityoneproject2321
    @unityoneproject2321 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Asking questions is very important, creating dialog really helps defusing anxiety. Another point for me was that I would often say I hate speaking, saying this all the time really creates an unnecessary anxiety.

  • @Jonathan-zd8dg
    @Jonathan-zd8dg 9 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Easier said than done. I have a presentation on Tuesday. But I will apply your techniques. I am my worst enemy when it comes to public speaking. I will try to think like this and I will succeed. Thanks for this video.

    • @ThinkFastTalkSmart
      @ThinkFastTalkSmart  9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good luck! It takes time, but you should see some improvement. Also check out www.nofreakingspeaking.com for more tips.

    • @lovelaughlive8446
      @lovelaughlive8446 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      how did u do?

    • @primus0381
      @primus0381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lovelaughlive8446 I guess he failed and left the country.

    • @futurteacherinchaellah8706
      @futurteacherinchaellah8706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@primus0381 in contrast I think he SUCCEED . BE POSITIVE ,DON'T DESTROY OTHER PEOPLE BY THIS THINKING

    • @donuthurtme
      @donuthurtme ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey man how did that presentation go? It's been 8 years lol.

  • @mdquik
    @mdquik 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A real presentation and not a performance. I like it.

  • @MsParmesh
    @MsParmesh 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Matt..You are absolutely right, i always try to focus on seeing the words that i will say.

  • @khosta6690
    @khosta6690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That being you into the moment part is the probably the most effective one. I will apply that I know it will help

  • @alexmazzi6556
    @alexmazzi6556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Matt! You are simply my guru. I listen and watch your videos on a daily basis.

    • @ThinkFastTalkSmart
      @ThinkFastTalkSmart  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad my videos are helpful. Please check out NoFreakingSpeaking.com for more.

  • @Ann
    @Ann 10 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I used to be terrified of it, but last year I had to do 6 presentations in uni! And now today another one . I am a little nervous but not as I used to. What helped me? stopping thoughts, stop thinking about what others may be thinking, and preparing well.

    • @conlawmeateater8792
      @conlawmeateater8792 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Proper concentration no thoughts in your head just absorb the moment

    • @Ann
      @Ann ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@conlawmeateater8792 exactly. But to get there it takes some time and training

  • @loosygoosy101
    @loosygoosy101 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This presentation is so helpful. Thanks so much for uploading this video.

  • @EEHUGO
    @EEHUGO 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic presentation. Getting a lot of value out of it. Love the idea of being "in the moment". I personally crack my knuckles and neck and that gives my brain the "let's do this!" queue.

  • @MsKaylaAustin
    @MsKaylaAustin 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this video helped me tremendously. i really like the idea of turning it into a comversation!

  • @kikr2233
    @kikr2233 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful. Thank you for posting!

  • @orangeyvette8819
    @orangeyvette8819 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi there that was helpful as I am new to public speaking .so empowering!thank you sir.

  • @Zetsuke4
    @Zetsuke4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so true! very helpful!

  • @marombahacks8509
    @marombahacks8509 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are totally right! i feel like that when i gonna make a presentation!

  • @carameltones1
    @carameltones1 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Matt Learned alot from you

  • @AmbientAuteur
    @AmbientAuteur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wonderful teacher! Sign up for his class at Stanford!

  • @MsKaylaAustin
    @MsKaylaAustin 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    This helped me so so so so so so so much. thank you.

  • @Lilshannie1
    @Lilshannie1 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a presentation in about 3 weeks and i am sooo nervous! I really hope these tips will help me :)

  • @josephngugi6679
    @josephngugi6679 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    very informative and well articulated

  • @johndoe4073
    @johndoe4073 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent stuff!

  • @drinktillwerefunny
    @drinktillwerefunny 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOnderful, great, thank you

  • @teminachastain4149
    @teminachastain4149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love this so much

  • @dinamanibhimproductions7736
    @dinamanibhimproductions7736 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent tips. Thanks.

  • @Salamaleikum80
    @Salamaleikum80 9 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Im thinking about creating a platform where people can perform infront of an random audience. It will be a longterm project, are there any people that would like to have such an service?

    • @carmenroxanailie3074
      @carmenroxanailie3074 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Rotbard1337 Hello there! Nice video you have there! Since you are on the topic of Child Anxiety; have you bought from " Vidadsmedia Child Anxiety Treatment " (should be on google...have a look)? My boss had some dealings with them and was impressed by their awesome treatment when the Anxiety issue was completely treated !

    • @boubacarbalde5887
      @boubacarbalde5887 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course yes

    • @raedkuhail9137
      @raedkuhail9137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      VR

    • @abhishekdave1182
      @abhishekdave1182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Join Toastmasters international where you can get exactly what you asked for.

    • @guiermel
      @guiermel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm In

  • @pebbles6022
    @pebbles6022 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look like Toby from The Office, but cooler. Amazing speech btw, super helpful - college student struggling in communication class

    • @ThinkFastTalkSmart
      @ThinkFastTalkSmart  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha! Please check out NoFreakingSpeaking.com for more tips

  • @mybui8290
    @mybui8290 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much.

  • @ShepardRockstar
    @ShepardRockstar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great speech!

  • @user-bi1zf5ht9j
    @user-bi1zf5ht9j 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mr. Abraham for your lovely talks ... you know what !! I like the music in your talks ... I like the way you speak more than what you say :) ... your audios are played in my car when I travel ... I accept that they are music to my ears.

  • @tyishayoung9953
    @tyishayoung9953 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best video

  • @Zetsuke4
    @Zetsuke4 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is very good!

  • @AllanDavisArt
    @AllanDavisArt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this dude

  • @SaaniAdnanDangotey
    @SaaniAdnanDangotey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you David Macron

  • @stanlya9025
    @stanlya9025 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a great fan of you, love your techniques which are more realistic. Like GIVING A GIFT..
    Need more tips from you...

  • @shahfibre
    @shahfibre 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    is there any relationship between speaking anxiety and the distance (between where audience is sitting and the speaker)?

  • @humtum8975
    @humtum8975 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    ''Great''

  • @emphoenixcat1110
    @emphoenixcat1110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm still slightly nervous when I'm just talking to my group of friends tho, that's just who I am

    • @phoebecooper7340
      @phoebecooper7340 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have the same problem, but I just thought about if I think about it as if its like someone who's totally on my side & won't get offended if I mess up something, I think it might help me, maybe it will help someone else also

  • @ScrubsIsee
    @ScrubsIsee 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for this speech fill of Knowledge. But i wonder: Is there a transcript of your tips available? Greetings from Toastmasters Dusseldorf.

    • @ThinkFastTalkSmart
      @ThinkFastTalkSmart  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't have a transcript, but check out NoFreakingSpeaking.com for the blog or downloads that can help.

  • @ameenuk2000
    @ameenuk2000 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im just about to leave for a speech and hopefully all these things will help. im feeling fine but I know in 15 minutes all of this is about to change. I will tell you how it went when I come back lol

  • @shidamiyarna
    @shidamiyarna 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matt, I have no probems singing in public on stage, but face huge anxiety speaking /presenting in public. As such not sure if performance anxiety is applicable in my case?

    • @ThinkFastTalkSmart
      @ThinkFastTalkSmart  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This other talk might help you: th-cam.com/video/XIXvKKEQQJo/w-d-xo.html

  • @wizolufa1452
    @wizolufa1452 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    how was it?

  • @littleripper312
    @littleripper312 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why do we need to put ourselves through this stress when we could video it in this day in age =(

  • @adsilv1117
    @adsilv1117 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Help! I cant speak in public because im unsecure about my accent. I tremble and words dont come out.

    • @ThinkFastTalkSmart
      @ThinkFastTalkSmart  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are not alone. Please check out NoFreakingSpeaking.com for many more techniques that can potentially assist you.

  • @ThinkFastTalkSmart
    @ThinkFastTalkSmart  10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. Good luck with your presenting. You may get value out of checking into NoFreakingSpeaking.com.

  • @anonymousefitz8736
    @anonymousefitz8736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thought he was Mr.Bean

  • @devangkankaria1386
    @devangkankaria1386 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Toby

  • @omermindivanli2981
    @omermindivanli2981 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matt looks like Emanuel Macron :)

  • @ScrubsIsee
    @ScrubsIsee 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    ... full of ...

  • @willcarryu9044
    @willcarryu9044 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s missed here is the fear of embarrassing yourself, showing nervousness, blanking out, etc. When you think of what might go wrong, the anxiety surges.