You guys can't blame Asy and other vloggers, blame the person who posted the video,he or she should have given a comprehensive caption to avoid misunderstanding. The first time I saw the video I taught that maybe that woman is he's first wife and listen to what the mc said,he really made it look like there was really a problem
The Cultural Tradition of "Dachahali" at Weddings In certain Northern cultural traditions, there is a longstanding practice known as "Dachahali" that often occurs during wedding ceremonies. This custom involves the groom's paternal aunt's daughters (the groom's cousins) asserting their role and authority during the wedding festivities. The "Dachahali" tradition stems from the belief that the groom's paternal aunt and her daughters have a special claim over the groom, as they are considered part of his immediate family. During the wedding, the groom's cousins may intentionally cut in and dance with the groom, or even attempt to "take him away" from the bride for a period of time. This behavior, while surprising or even upsetting to those unfamiliar with the tradition, is seen as normal and acceptable within the cultural context. The motivation behind "Dachahali" is complex. It is viewed as a way for the groom's paternal aunt and her daughters to assert their familial ties and status within the wedding proceedings. There is also an element of playful competition, as the cousins vie for the groom's attention and try to disrupt the bride's time with him. Additionally, "Dachahali" is sometimes seen as a means for the groom's extended family to maintain their influence and involvement in the marriage, even as the bride becomes the primary partner. It is important to note that while "Dachahali" may appear disruptive or even inappropriate to those unfamiliar with the tradition, it is deeply rooted in the cultural norms and expectations of the region. For those who are part of this cultural context, the practice is not viewed as a "side chick" situation, but rather as a legitimate and accepted part of the wedding festivities. In conclusion, the cultural practice of "Dachahali" at weddings in certain Northern regions reflects the complex social dynamics and familial relationships that are deeply embedded in the local traditions. While it may seem unusual to outsiders, it is a longstanding custom that holds significant meaning and importance within the cultural context. Cc: Jaleel W Wonder Yendi
Thank you for the explanation. When I watched the video, I saw the bride laughing/smiling while others were trying to push the girl away; I knew right away this must be some tradition or a close family member. There is another custom in East Africa where the bride has to fight her in-laws to enter the groom's family home after the wedding. Its all for laughs and giggles.
Wow! Thank you very much for this detailed explanation. This is very important. I always find myself trying to break down Igbo culture to outsiders, and I believe this is right because the colonial masters destroyed our beautiful culture and ways of life when they took practices out of context. Every ancient practice has a purpose, we can only improve on them when we understand the context and purposes
Misinformation and misinterpretation have become very rampant these days making almost everyone so quick to say something without cross-checking or doing any research. From the video, you could see the guests giving the lady money; it's a tradition in the northern part of Ghana. Social media is indeed powerful and we as consumers should be careful about what we comment on
The MC was the one that was misinformed and misinterpreted the situation, so I’m wondering how y’all are expecting viewers to understand the tradition when the MC was acting shocked!!! As a wedding planner, I know this is the time the MC is supposed to use the mic to inform the guests of what is going on and the tradition. He’d also call on people who want to come and give her money. Listen to the video again and judge without bias
@@AsyDarlyn I believe the MC was doing what he was paid to do and he didn't interrupt until the lady was asking for more money. Moreover, we wouldn't know whether he explained the tradition as we didn't watch the entire ceremony from the beginning to the end. Also, he didn't say anything about the lady being a side chick. I can't be biased as I was only stating facts and I think what makes a TH-camr unique is making your findings before reporting and commenting on videos; you can't just follow the masses. You have a bigger platform and so your audience deserves better. We all make mistakes and that's fine; thank you!
Na dem sabi😂😂 some say it’s tradition, some say it’s cousins.. Even the MC said they should allow them. the person that uploaded the video wanted reactions so they should thank the person.
ASy I heard it’s a northern Ghanaian culture were cousins are regarded as the wife,so it’s an opportunity for her to make more money that it is nothing serious,like she’s indirectly telling them to give her more money before she allows the wife,ASy I want to believe is true because if it’s not,the wife is in trouble.
that's not a side chick, but a culture from Ghana when the groom's family does that until she is paid to leave the groom alone. As vloggers i think y'all need to do more to give out good and correct information. And you can't say someone's culture is not right.
Please is tradition in the Northern part of Ghana.. She has to be given a certain amount of money before she lives the groom.. The bride knows about it, that’s why she was calm.. The MC was supposed to be informed about it.. but in a nutshell it wasn’t cool
I confirmed this wedding practice from two of my Ghanaian friends. You should see the onslaught from American social media space… comments that can kpai someone😂😂
Anyway sha now that out aunty asy of Canada fully has her PR. I’m just waiting for the ministry to move to the new site because I can see her event business being VERY successful here. As she prayed that the land will favor her if she chooses to expand her business here it will be successful IJN. 🙏🏾
Hi asy there was a time you talked about an app that you use to get work shifts. Please can you direct me to that Video? I am in canada currently and I need to find a job to help myself.
This is a Northen Ghana wedding. The tribe is Dagomba and is part of their tradition. The other woman is his cousin, the mc was not informed of this cuz he’s from the southern part of Ghana
Please could someone explain something I am missing? If in the first clip, it is a Northern Ghana tradition, then why were folks trying to get the lady of the dance floor?
The tradition involves begging her for a period while she proves stubborn. It’s like how Igbo bride look for her husband and intentionally goes round before kneeling down in front of her husband. The silly MC spoilt the whole thing.
It is not what you are thinking ooh, I get that it appears disrespectful but it is a traditional thing. Though most times it appears as if there's an actual conflict because it's some sort of drama acting.😃 The lady in question must be a relative of the groom, I have witnessed such at a Ghanaian wedding. As it is the Tamale people's tradition from Ghana, a lady dancing with the groom is usually his family member playfully assumed to be his wife until she's bought off with a handsome gift, or cash.😁 If it was otherwise, I am yet to see my gender that would be as calm as that bride ooh! If you noticed, the groom gave her money and then the other guy tried giving her money too.😊
That young lady that is dancing so wildly with the groom seems to be a little overexcited,I am not sure that there is anything malicious about this.People are losing their sense of dress when it comes to the church.Kudos to those who are trying to maintain the sanctity of the house of worship.
Assumption and narrative of social media. The woman is the guy's senior sister. There is a culture rite in monetary value that must be fulfilled by the brides' family until the guy can dance with the wife. It's just for fun
The straight face husband,the wife will cry blood and the husband will keep typing his computer and ignore her in the house,God will see her through,it is well 😂😂😂
I would suggest you take this video down. It is misinforming at its best. This is simply cultural practice where the groom’s female cousin dances with the groom, until the bride’s family « pays’ her off.
hmm you people just quick to jump into conclusion without investigating. I saw this on Instagram and the explanation is that the lady is a cousin and in their tradition the groom must pay first before allowed to dance with his bride. I beg this is not professional before publishing whatever just to make money you need to do the background check.
You guys can't blame Asy and other vloggers, blame the person who posted the video,he or she should have given a comprehensive caption to avoid misunderstanding. The first time I saw the video I taught that maybe that woman is he's first wife and listen to what the mc said,he really made it look like there was really a problem
EXACTLY!!! Even the MC was not aware and his shock fueled the controversy
This is crazy 😂 the dancing one. The bride's patience, hmm! 😬 so there was no security at that wedding to carry her out? 😂
If I was a bridesmaid, I would have picked her up myself 😂
She got me angry
😂😂😂😂
I was waiting for you ooooo😂
This was beyond understanding
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The Cultural Tradition of "Dachahali" at Weddings
In certain Northern cultural traditions, there is a longstanding practice known as "Dachahali" that often occurs during wedding ceremonies. This custom involves the groom's paternal aunt's daughters (the groom's cousins) asserting their role and authority during the wedding festivities.
The "Dachahali" tradition stems from the belief that the groom's paternal aunt and her daughters have a special claim over the groom, as they are considered part of his immediate family. During the wedding, the groom's cousins may intentionally cut in and dance with the groom, or even attempt to "take him away" from the bride for a period of time. This behavior, while surprising or even upsetting to those unfamiliar with the tradition, is seen as normal and acceptable within the cultural context.
The motivation behind "Dachahali" is complex. It is viewed as a way for the groom's paternal aunt and her daughters to assert their familial ties and status within the wedding proceedings. There is also an element of playful competition, as the cousins vie for the groom's attention and try to disrupt the bride's time with him. Additionally, "Dachahali" is sometimes seen as a means for the groom's extended family to maintain their influence and involvement in the marriage, even as the bride becomes the primary partner.
It is important to note that while "Dachahali" may appear disruptive or even inappropriate to those unfamiliar with the tradition, it is deeply rooted in the cultural norms and expectations of the region. For those who are part of this cultural context, the practice is not viewed as a "side chick" situation, but rather as a legitimate and accepted part of the wedding festivities.
In conclusion, the cultural practice of "Dachahali" at weddings in certain Northern regions reflects the complex social dynamics and familial relationships that are deeply embedded in the local traditions. While it may seem unusual to outsiders, it is a longstanding custom that holds significant meaning and importance within the cultural context.
Cc: Jaleel W Wonder Yendi
Thank you for the explanation. When I watched the video, I saw the bride laughing/smiling while others were trying to push the girl away; I knew right away this must be some tradition or a close family member. There is another custom in East Africa where the bride has to fight her in-laws to enter the groom's family home after the wedding. Its all for laughs and giggles.
@@ItsAllAnillusion U are always welcome dear 😚 Is our culture
Wow! Thank you very much for this detailed explanation. This is very important. I always find myself trying to break down Igbo culture to outsiders, and I believe this is right because the colonial masters destroyed our beautiful culture and ways of life when they took practices out of context. Every ancient practice has a purpose, we can only improve on them when we understand the context and purposes
@@Ekwy2023 U are welcome dear 😚
And Asy calls her Side chick. You dont know other people's culture. Read the comments. Asy you're completely off on this one.
Wow. I didn’t know it’s a cultural thing. See me about to send condolences to the bride. Happy married life then.
Misinformation and misinterpretation have become very rampant these days making almost everyone so quick to say something without cross-checking or doing any research. From the video, you could see the guests giving the lady money; it's a tradition in the northern part of Ghana. Social media is indeed powerful and we as consumers should be careful about what we comment on
Exactly what I saw on instagram that it is tradition and I agree in Yoruba land it is the same culture
The MC was the one that was misinformed and misinterpreted the situation, so I’m wondering how y’all are expecting viewers to understand the tradition when the MC was acting shocked!!!
As a wedding planner, I know this is the time the MC is supposed to use the mic to inform the guests of what is going on and the tradition. He’d also call on people who want to come and give her money.
Listen to the video again and judge without bias
@@AsyDarlyn I believe the MC was doing what he was paid to do and he didn't interrupt until the lady was asking for more money. Moreover, we wouldn't know whether he explained the tradition as we didn't watch the entire ceremony from the beginning to the end.
Also, he didn't say anything about the lady being a side chick.
I can't be biased as I was only stating facts and I think what makes a TH-camr unique is making your findings before reporting and commenting on videos; you can't just follow the masses. You have a bigger platform and so your audience deserves better.
We all make mistakes and that's fine; thank you!
@@maameakua7870
This is the Internet. By posting something like this, people should be ready for obvious and reasonable reactions.
@@estherelufowoju3166
Please where abeg? I am Yoruba and I have never heard this before.
Hello Asy
Crazy things are really happening 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I pity the bride ohh😢
Apparently it’s a tradition 😄
I laughed wickedly when ASy said this is why u need bouncers 😂😂😂,so during first dance she will enter their middle.
😂😂😂 they said it’s their tradition
This video eh...the comment section was wild😂😂😂😂.
Apparently, it's some kind of tradition in Ghana. Groom and the Lady are cousins "allegedly"😈
Na dem sabi😂😂 some say it’s tradition, some say it’s cousins.. Even the MC said they should allow them.
the person that uploaded the video wanted reactions so they should thank the person.
ASy I heard it’s a northern Ghanaian culture were cousins are regarded as the wife,so it’s an opportunity for her to make more money that it is nothing serious,like she’s indirectly telling them to give her more money before she allows the wife,ASy I want to believe is true because if it’s not,the wife is in trouble.
They’d have used small time to inform the MC, cos his reaction actually fueled my anger cos it showed that her action was out of place
@@AsyDarlynThe MC is obviously not aware of their culture.
Wig na wig wig na wig wig na wig eyoooooo!😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Aunty Asy, I saw this clip and I was like, straight to Asy Darling headquarters.
See, the bride is usually the one choosing the bridesmaids' dresses. But like you said, the bride should have inquired about it.
Yeah, cos churches are not playing these days
that's not a side chick, but a culture from Ghana when the groom's family does that until she is paid to leave the groom alone. As vloggers i think y'all need to do more to give out good and correct information. And you can't say someone's culture is not right.
I don’t think the MC was informed of the tradition, so I’m wondering why vloggers should be the ones to blame?
I was going to tag you yesterday o 😂. The person playing the drum for this woman is really trying…
😂😂😂
Please is tradition in the Northern part of Ghana.. She has to be given a certain amount of money before she lives the groom.. The bride knows about it, that’s why she was calm.. The MC was supposed to be informed about it.. but in a nutshell it wasn’t cool
Your explanation makes sense. Thank you 😊
The MC’s reaction was what brought more attention to this as I thought it was an overzealous kid sister initially.
I confirmed this wedding practice from two of my Ghanaian friends. You should see the onslaught from American social media space… comments that can kpai someone😂😂
The corset has carried all her small and large intestines😂😂😂😂😂😂
Asy,
This video speaks volume and it's obvious that there is more to what we see, that's my take.
Hmmm as in ehhh
Anyway sha now that out aunty asy of Canada fully has her PR. I’m just waiting for the ministry to move to the new site because I can see her event business being VERY successful here. As she prayed that the land will favor her if she chooses to expand her business here it will be successful IJN. 🙏🏾
That straight face groom reminds me of blood sisters
That groom is dangerous🧐
She shut down their Wedding. Groom Man Up, don't allow her harm your Marriage ooo
I've been waiting for you to make a video about this. This went viral since yesterday. What nonsense
They said it’s a tradition but it’s like the MC was not aware cos he was also shocked
@@AsyDarlyn that's a very stupid tradition. 🙄, someone would have slapped her.
Hi asy there was a time you talked about an app that you use to get work shifts. Please can you direct me to that Video? I am in canada currently and I need to find a job to help myself.
It’s on my other channel. “AsyDarlyn vlogs”
They will soon make room for her in their bedroom
🤣🤣🤣
The man is not assertive and the wife is too laid back. So help them God😂
🤣🤣🤣 they said it’s a tradition. They forgot to tell the MC😂
This is a Northen Ghana wedding. The tribe is Dagomba and is part of their tradition. The other woman is his cousin, the mc was not informed of this cuz he’s from the southern part of Ghana
9:34 this people sef. Even if the lady didn't go out of line. The full Asoebi were so stiff and frowning. No single smile from anyone
Maybe the bride is an Indaboski 🤣🤣
Africans and traditional nonsense! Hold on to things that are good and trash the bad things as THIS!!! GOD HAVE MERCY ON WOMEN! 😅
😂😂😂
What a shame!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 weddings are comedy sametimes
The cosset outfit bride
My God!!!!!
Why???
Please could someone explain something I am missing? If in the first clip, it is a Northern Ghana tradition, then why were folks trying to get the lady of the dance floor?
The tradition involves begging her for a period while she proves stubborn. It’s like how Igbo bride look for her husband and intentionally goes round before kneeling down in front of her husband.
The silly MC spoilt the whole thing.
Thanks for clarifying.
She wanted to be snatched because she was not blind wen she wore the cloth
Asy I have to rent a wedding gown outside my main wedding gown
Hi Asy.
How are you doing?
It is not what you are thinking ooh, I get that it appears disrespectful but it is a traditional thing. Though most times it appears as if there's an actual conflict because it's some sort of drama acting.😃
The lady in question must be a relative of the groom, I have witnessed such at a Ghanaian wedding. As it is the Tamale people's tradition from Ghana, a lady dancing with the groom is usually his family member playfully assumed to be his wife until she's bought off with a handsome gift, or cash.😁
If it was otherwise, I am yet to see my gender that would be as calm as that bride ooh! If you noticed, the groom gave her money and then the other guy tried giving her money too.😊
That young lady that is dancing so wildly with the groom seems to be a little overexcited,I am not sure that there is anything malicious about this.People are losing their sense of dress when it comes to the church.Kudos to those who are trying to maintain the sanctity of the house of worship.
Gradually things are changing
Asy ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Assumption and narrative of social media. The woman is the guy's senior sister. There is a culture rite in monetary value that must be fulfilled by the brides' family until the guy can dance with the wife. It's just for fun
Social media assumption and narrative was fueled cos the MC was also not aware of this tradition
@@AsyDarlyn Exactly
Geng Geng.
Weird tradition..
just bcos u don't practice it doesn't mean is weird
What’s worse is that they didn’t even inform the MC but they’re expecting bloggers to be aware of the tradition 😩😂😂
Asy ❤❤❤😂
The straight face husband,the wife will cry blood and the husband will keep typing his computer and ignore her in the house,God will see her through,it is well 😂😂😂
The corset gave her another breast at the back.
Oxygen is for the weak😂😂😂
He was too cold for a new groom!! That’s crazyyy
Hi Asy
Hello!!!
👋🏾 hello
I would suggest you take this video down. It is misinforming at its best.
This is simply cultural practice where the groom’s female cousin dances with the groom, until the bride’s family « pays’ her off.
Is not true please is a tradition in the northern part of Ghana
Tell the MC, cos he was shocked
hmm you people just quick to jump into conclusion without investigating. I saw this on Instagram and the explanation is that the lady is a cousin and in their tradition the groom must pay first before allowed to dance with his bride. I beg this is not professional before publishing whatever just to make money you need to do the background check.
People on social media can assume wrongly but LISTEN TO THE VIDEO you’d hear that the MC was shocked. So what do you want people to assume??
She is not side check. it's a tradition from northern Ghana.
First research research research. You are in Canada now. Research
You guys will just carry news and make your own assumptions without knowing the fact
🙄🙄 Even the MC wasn’t aware, how much more people watching online.
Fake news, get a life
Asy, you got this wrong, take it down
No