ไม่สามารถเล่นวิดีโอนี้
ขออภัยในความไม่สะดวก
Our First Date // EP 1 - Pretty Lonesome
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2023
- Welcome to the world of Pretty Lonesome. Madeline invites you into her lovely, lonely world (with her dog Bugs) giving you the inside scoop on fashion week, the evolution of her friendships, and her chaotic inner thoughts.
Above all, Madeline expresses her personal struggles in feeling alone. She opens up about the challenges in finding friends and meeting people, as well as the excitement in those new connections. Whether that might be a new friend...or a hot date. Buckle up and share the loneliness! Available to listen now on any podcast streaming platform.
Follow and connect with all things @PrettyLonesome across instagram, TikTok and TH-cam.
If only she knew
Ikr😢
@@user-np7qt2nk8r what's happened??
@@pastelcardigan central cee cheated on her with ice spice
What’s black and rhymes with trigger
@@healthyliam6803my favorite word does
im gonna reference this video in my paper on male vs female psychology, its honestly fascinating how differently women and men view the world.
Interesting, can you elaborate?
When is the young woman in this video going to learn her lesson and stop dating these obnoxious brutes?
@@RobbieStacks90not the point of the video at all but pop ur shit ig
Wait I actually wanna see ur paper so badly this is such an interesting topic
@raineedust A high level overview is focusing on the glorification of different social factors that affect men and women's mentality and their interests but only radical viewpoints, specifically delusional mindsets associated with each. Off the top of my head would be men's glorification of war and women's glorification of beauty. Most likely will use her as reference of the women's attraction to beauty. Using a man kick streamer for their infatuation with war. Both of which are textbook cases of delusion, from my personal and educated perspective.
Never clicked FASTER
Really 😂😂😂
Get a life
Fr 😂
I’m so pretty 🤩 I’m not 😢
Fr 😂
"they might not looking for me,but for a relationship" damn this point was so enlightening,also you are so right about not wanting certain relationships to last forever
as an autistic woman with adhd this is now my favorite podcast lmao the way you jump from topic to topic heals me
this !!!!
Right
i don't even notice i literally just go along and forget what she was talking about right with her 😭 she's at my pace fr
ASD Superpowers UNITE! ASD + OCD here, diagnosed at 35. I just discovered her and Im just slightly obsessed.
Treating friendships seriously and looking for genuine connection is just self care. My friends are family to me
I totally understand taking your friendships seriously and I honestly wish more people did. Also being selective about your friends. I’m the same way like I get so excited when I have a new friend but at the same time it’s rare because I know what kind of people I don’t want in my life and I’m very I guess choosy about people. I think it’s a smart way to be honestly. Quality over quantity.
HOW DO YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD EVERY FUCKING TIME? The point you made about feeling like everyone else is more at home in the world than you and you’re like a child resonates so strongly with me. And the not having a woman’s body so not feeling like an adult/a real “girl”. I feel like nobody should take me seriously, and I also feel so young speaking to anyone, even people younger than me.
Omgg same. That’s exactly how I feel. Thank you for sharing 🫶🏻
Yes I’m so happy that someone is talking about this bc I 100% relate and just want to feel like a real woman I know that I am but I still feel otherwise
especially when people comment on you looking young it just knocks your confidence
Oh my god i feel this so much. How does it get better🤣x
@ThatGreatnessyeah whatever 😂you have Logan Paul as your profile pic🤦🏻♀️🤣
I literally discovered this channel two days ago and still I'm so happy to see you back with a new video, your positivity is contagious and your awareness level is quite impressive
you're so like well spoken idk you explained everything so well, you're actually so real and relatable, and you're also really pretty.. watching this is very therapeutic
The best possible start to the week! Mondays just got a whole lot easier! I’m so stupidly excited for you. Big big things to come! Sending all the love in the world!❤️
8:58 I feel this completely!! You truly put it into words what I try to explain to people. Friendships are so important and mean so much to me. I wish it was talked about more the importance of them.
Yesss that’s exactly what I thought. People don’t understand how important friendships are and how much of an impact they can make in your life. I always take my friendships very seriously and I think this was the first time I’ve really heard someone explain it in the exact way that I think of them.
@@elisabethherzog9369 For real!
the part where you spoke about you feeling out of place in social situations resonated with me so hard.
Hearing you talk about friendships was honestly what I needed to hear. For the past few months now I’ve been wishing I had more girl friends, I’ve always been the type of person to find comfort and happiness in one solid friend. As soon as I got with my boyfriend in college I noticed myself drifting away from my friends and sort of got used to the comfort and companionship of my boyfriend, he became my best friend as well, so I lost a lot of female friendships. With this I’ve also ended up building up a lot of anxiety when it comes to friends, I’ve been going out more often this month with a couple closer friends, but I just wish I wasn’t so anxious all the time, and I often just wish I had a big group of close girl friends.
Madeline, the part you talked abt your imposter syndrome and feeling younger than everyone has been the most relatable thing i’ve heard in a while. Thank u for making me and others feel less alone love u girl🩵
Hey Madeline, I subbed a while ago and I will just say, thank you for this cozy podcast! It's very easy for us younger adults to feel like we're behind these days - older adults seemingly have it all together, wages are more spread than ever, and everyone seems to be doing *something* that someone else isn't doing. When you mentioned you're 23, and feel so young, I chuckled to myself because I'm 28 and I already feel old. I have a supporting family, a beautiful and loving wife, a decent job, and overall my life is "pretty good". Like you though, whenever I enter a room, I feel less than everyone else despite those blessings I have in my life. Maybe it's just me though. Keep your chin up, you've got a world ahead of you!
such good advice about picking your friends like relationships. i don’t think of it like that probably because i’ve never actually made good friends or had options until now (i’m 23) i’m gonna try to start thinking of it w the same intense selectivity that i do my relationships. and i feel you about the socializing and loving being alone. just found you the other day on your how to be hot and confident video which was exactly what i needed to hear. will be watching the podcast 24/7
it feels so good to know there is someone like you in this world. I feel understood. Conversations like these are such a lost art ❣️ thank you for your authenticity
look at how gorgeous Madeline is, she shouldn't be so insecure cause comparison is the thief of joy.
I'm a guy but I can relate to this as well. I have a very small group of friends etc and I prefer this way tbh.
Treating friendships/relationships seriously important but its a 2-way street, so if that means you have to cut people out so be it.
Also do allow yourself to enjoy experiences no matter how small they may seem.
Appreciate the time & effort you put into this!
i love madeline for being so real about her life and things she struggles with, that's how a podcast should be.
Never related to someone so much. I have all these feelings and it’s so refreshing to not feel alone in it Thankyou !!!
I feel the same way about travel. I'm a homebody that loves adventure but I've never had a desire to travel abroad for extensive periods. I love travel, but I also love my home, and I find so much happiness going about my normal life knowing that I have somewhere to return.
madeline does it all - from talking about how american chocolate tastes like sick to commenting on her dog’s “tiddy” developments - all in basically the same breath
OMG I’VE MISSED YOU SO MUCH can’t believe the wait is finally over!!!!! LOVE YOU
I love how she procrastinated for months making podcast AND FINALLY ITS HERE
This is honesty better then therapy. Madeline is just so real all the time and I think we all relate to her in some sort of way.
hand on heart, im baffled with how accurate everything she said correlates with my life. its so nice to see a successful girl who has the same mindset as me it honestly gives me hope.
I have lived in Wyoming with my parents, and it is such a beautiful state with so many kind and caring people - thats genuinely where I met some of the best people and friends. There are all four seasons - but from living in northern europe, I can say its way better during the winter since its beautiful and "fresh". Also it didn't take the winter depression toll on my mental health. Would recommend
I relate to the (not) having social anxiety part. I dont think im shy, but when out of my comfort zone my ability to have a good conversation goes to zero.
i dont know if this will reach you but congrats on the progression of your podcast madeline! im not a woman and cant exactly relate to some of the experiences/thoughts you touch on but am still thoroughly entertained by each episode you put out, theres a plethora of truth nuggets embedded in every minute. i think youre probably going to encounter a lot of bigtime opportunities in the near future, like expensive contracts and chances to change your format or improve the tech etc, but just know that what draws your fans in is your authentic personality and relatable qualities! dont get lost in the sauce because with this format you have perfected, the sauce will naturally begin to flow in with overwhelming quantity.
the fact that this is my therapy from now on😫
im so happy we have a Spotify version of this, love u madelineee
I’m folding laundry while I’m listening and I feel so productive. I love the relatability.😂❤
Just started watching these, omg how can he do such a thing to herr shes so fcking sweet I LOVE HER 😭❤️
i am in love with everything about this podcast
completely agree with the way she talked about friendships love this 🫶🏽
This podcast was So like I don't even know how to describe it as but perfect for me. And You've just made me realize something about myself and I have a real delayed social processing like in the moment I try to be as fully aware of one's feelings and the situation as I can But after If I say something bad or good or something that Just embarrassed myself Ill think about it after its over And I dont want to sound like im crazy after when I think about it flinch, or fucking twitch because I feel like I could've done better.
you really explained that childlike/imposter feeling so perfectly
The friendship stuff. Omg. You get it. I’ve never met anybody else that is that selective with friendships. I wanna be friends w u. I feel like we would vibe so well
I feel the same about the imposter syndrome and feeling like a kid compared to other people my age. I'd like to say it gets better but I'm 30 and still feel like this!
the imposter syndrome is so real i feel like im still a 12 year old girl and shouldn’t be out by myself and i feel like people can tell that i feel like i don’t belong
To answer your question about what is in the trucks, You know, most towns don't make everything they need. Things like clothes, shoes, food, and even stuff like construction materials and beauty products usually come from different places. So, these trucks are what are used to import or just bring in these products. They don't use planes or boats because that's expensive. Trucks are just a more practical and cost-effective way to transport everything for overland places though. That's why they're always on the road, because people heavily reliy on the stuff they bring in. I do not know if it was a genuine question but I just felt the need to answer you. Also I enjoyed the first episode,can't wait for more!!
When you said Wisconsin I FLIPPED lol. You don't want to move here. Maybe a quick visit to Milwaukee is fun, but the winters here are absolute shit.
Love her new era
I’ve never related to someone more. Literally feel like an alien sometimes so it’s nice to know someone else has these same feelings
so relatable 😩dont ever stop sharing your random stories pls youre making me feel normal lol 💜
Madeline u should abs do an episode about your university experience!! I think lots of us would enjoy to hear , being in uni ourselves❤❤❤
I relate so hard on the not enjoying going out thing, i haven't drank alcohol since i was 13 (lol) and i'm now 20, in the last 7 years all that any past friends and even current ones seem to ever want to do is either go out clubbing or go and drink but it's so difficult knowing who real friends are and who isn't. I have felt alone many a time over the last 7 years, sometimes i just feel like i'll never find somebody similar to me being a 20 year old male who doesn't drink or go out clubbing or drinking at all.
So glad you’re still in your car 🥰 it just feels safe
19:06
i could listen to you speak for so long it’s crazy
OMG she's backkkk!!!! The way I've missed Madeline and this podcast 😭😭
This podcast is the best thing I have seen and listened to in a while, good stuff Madeline!
i love who you are and i hope to find a woman like you one day , much love
Oh my…I can relate so, so much. I always feel like a child, when I’m with people my age or even younger than me. I literally feel like a toddler lol. I’m also 23 and very short (5 feet 1) and I also feel like my body looks like a children’s body. Overall I am quite skinny, what I hate, but I got chubby thighs and it just looks weird and it makes me so shy and self conscious in social situations, although I am not a shy person in general. I feel like I will never feel like an adult or a sexy woman or something. One day it will just switch from toddler to grandma💀😂
Absolutely loved the podcast. She made my smile the entire time.
This is crazy, I'm also very much a one on one kind of person, and it's felt weird because others would often be like oh can we invite more people etc. like bruh. And I also find it really hard to navigate big groups, cause you'll get along with a couple of people but it's often unlikely that you'll find affinity with all of them! Thanks for this video ^^
Girl I was listening to podcasts on shuffle to go to sleep and in the middle of the night, I realized I was listening to call her daddy because of her voice but I was like why is this guest’s voice so soothing then went back to sleep. That was YOU. That makes so much sense.
im also someone who likes to be alone and struggles with socializing, so I relate a lot to Madeline.
19:43 that part literally simplify all that I think about relationships and never knew how to say for people 😮
I have never related more within the first minute…. My car is my safe space. My partner and people don’t understand why I sit in my car for literal hours after work or before or after I go somewhere…. So excited for this podcast!
"If you're a hater of the to-mah-to pasta, then I'm a hater of you." I came for the accent, I stayed for the conversation. Liked and subscribed.
always loved your podcast because you are someone i relate to deeply. excited for this :) i live with my mom in my 20s as well
Hi, Madeline! Happy Monday and welcome to the tenth month of October!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🍂🎃🇺🇸🌷🇬🇧💜💜💜💜💜💜🍂🎇👍. Long time no see. I missed you and looking wonderful. I'm impressed!😀😍⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐👍. Also, your beautiful dog you have there in the car is so cute. Awwww!😍😍😍😍😍😍👍
It’s kool/mature that you are self aware. I’m 23 and if you didn’t mention your age, I would’ve thought you were older than me
I FEEL SO LESS LONELY WHEN I LISTEN TO THESE PODCASTS
This is how I feel, I feel like I need someone that likes to have fun and do things and go out with because I’m just at home every day because I don’t have a friend/bf to do those things with
yes! i feel like i can’t let loose and when i do i don’t enjoy it
Was watching the whole video and enjoyed it. I can relate to the friendship part. Loved how open and authentic you are. You seem like a cool and genuine person❤️
i’ve been falling asleep to ur first podcast vid every night (dont even ask ur voice is so soothing) and im so happy ur posting moree
I just love your podcast, honestly makes me feel like I can fully be myself🤣
I genuinely want to be her friend
What a beauty, natural, pure and fresh
Thanks you for the date!
I've been trying to date ladies for the past 2 months to find a serious relationship but between the constant ghosting and rejection its been... going well haaha. The learning curve is rough 😅
Anyway lovely to see there are still genuine women in the UK and that you are so mature and sensible.
One day I'll find a lovely lady like you but I would really appreciate if you or some kindred spirits in the comment section could advise me where y'all go to socialize.
Excellent content, so good I had to comment and I NEVER comment.
Keep learning and growing as a person (Not talking physically :P, we all come in different shapes and sizes, I found it took time to be comfortable it my own skin too)
Hope this puts a smile on your face because you've certainly made my day! ❤
I've never related to anything more in my life..
personally I grew up with different groups of friends my entire life. new season, new group of friends. it wasn't like I couldn't make or keep friends, I actually fit into all sorts of different cliches. but nobody ever grew on me, or I guess me on them, to where we become long-term friends. it's like everyone is meant to be an acquaintance and nothing more.. but that's the loneliest part I think. whenever I'm asked the question, "who's your best friend?" I just cant help but say myself...
the body type is so real .. we have the same silhouette and i feel the same about how im perceived
They actually have refrigerated trucks! It’s how we get everything around basically. Anything you can think of, fuel, food, flowers, ANYTHING
I just watched your first two episodes, and I am literally crying rn bc even though I relate to so much, I thought this podcast was about being lonesome... it seems like you have a great support system. I'm happy for you but it just makes me feel more alone when I literally have no friends or supportive family
There is definitely a difference between people who want a relationship and who wants the person infront of them
Thank you so much.
Ok I will see you next monday, in the mean time have a wonderful Day 👍
I love this podcast is very cozy and now is my dose of british accent, which is lovely reminds when my brother used to live there, have a great day!
MADELINE all the shit you've describes is the same shit i have experienced too.. dude every single point was exactly what i went through goodness me. this felt so incredibly validating????
WHAT A PLEASANT SUPRISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thank u for this absolute blessing on my day!!!!!!1 very grateufl
I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR FAR TOO LONG
i have never seen someone so similar to me i’m in love
Nice. Very genuine and down to earth. Lovely spirit and character. ❤ I clicked because I noticed you were dating that Central Cee character, I found you beautiful and magnetic. And i was right. Very intriguing and relatable. Human. Wish you the best. ❤🎉
My favorite podcast since the beginning 😻😻
My way of getting away from my mom is going on my Computer with headphones - then she comes and taps on my shoulder and all peace leaves lol I gotta appreciate the time I have left with her.
I love every word you are saying. The dogs calms you down. I would love to explore a forest with you. Dream girl !
everything she says is literally me but she expresses it and tells ut in such a better way than i would
We wish you all the best. Keep working hard as always.
i saw the notification before i went for a shower and had the best shower ever preparing myself to get comfy and listen to this ❤
I get the same way in conversations, my
Mind goes blank and it’s so uncomfortable (usually it’s with people I’m not comfortable with, so makes sense) yes around 7:27 I would rather be with myself by myself bc of this reason, I don’t want to be influenced by others it stops me from being who I really am
I found you through Alex, wow are you so fascinating and relatable all at the same time ❤
i love you so much thank you for sharing how you feel i resonated more than you know and i spent all my life thinking it was just me.
The stuff about friendships and one on one etc is so real
Wyoming has dreadful winters!!! Colorado is close to there it still gets cold but it’s the sunniest state. Sun comes out nearly every day. New Mexico, Arizona, Nevada stay warm all year.
HOW do you differentiate between platonic and romantic love as a queer woman 😭 i love my best friend so much and i’ve never met anyone else who understands me as well as her, but idk if that’s super intense platonic love or something else
So glad you’re still in your car ❤
Man, i was the one just looking for the relationship rather than choosing her, I think that ultimately led to her breaking it off with me. Damn, I’ll reflect on that. I just found you after watching Shannon’s podcast. Good stuff.