A very difficult and complicated position indeed. I was born with Pluto in the fourth house in Scorpio. My Sun is in Cancer. Which makes the impact of this position particularly strong in my life. Your interpretation is correct. I grew up practically without my parents, even though we lived in the same house, they behaved as if I am a burden to them. So they preferred to ignore me, not communicate with me, and often did not meet my physical needs. I had to learn how to be a father and a mother for myself from a very young age, because I was really neglected. My parents are also very manipulative and emotionally unstable. You're right about the secrets too. I know almost nothing about my father's past, he never shared anything about his personal life with me. So he remained an enigma for me. Another thing I want to point out with this position is that from a child I not only want to live away from my family, but also to change the country. Because the fourth house is also connected with your home country and with Pluto there it is another manifestation of the disfunctional family but at a larger scale. In general, my childhood experience pushed me towards sciences like psychology, philosophy, even astrology, in an attempt to understand why two parents might not love their children and perhaps most importantly, to cure my psyche and soul from their negative programming, because I want, as you mentioned in the video, to create a healthy family environment for my children in the future. I hope that what I wrote will be helpful for someone. I want to reassure young people who have this placement that this Hell you were born into has an end! Please, be strong and believe that there is a better way, a better life and you can ahieve it. This position is a chance for you to TOTALLY transform yourself and your life. Don't lose hope!
Life I have this Pluto in the fourth along w it conjunct Uranus ,sun and mercury. I’m 53 and still not sure how to get my shit together for being in the everyday working class. I don’t know why I came here. I need major help
@@donnaspitler9911Hi Donna, we are the Generation with the pluto Uranus conj in virgo (my 4th house). Are you a Cancer rising? Where is your sun? Cancer 1 decade have that conj. in virgo. Have a look of the other planets, do you have the pluto-Saturn conjunction in the 6th/7th or 8th house? Wish you all the best.
I have sun in the 8h , Pluto in the 4h . This is a very sad placement for a child, felt alone not lonely but totally alone my whole life . I have to fight for attention from my mother , the only person in the world that I wanted attention from, my world was my mom but she just doesn’t respond. This is a struggle for love from your parents and family. You’ll never get it tho, what you’ll get from this is tremendous emotional strength, survival skills and extreme sense of independence which in the end becomes your super power. You become this super human who is invincible, very few things on this planet can break you emotionally. The pain also never goes away but there’s no anger in me. Now I look at it this way, I may never get the love I so wanted from the only people that mattered to me but God gave me somethings that made my existence worthwhile and many benefited from those gifts that God afforded me and for that I’m grateful. No matter what, give thanks.
”These are the people that are very nurturing to the world because they didn’t receive that nurturing at home and in turn that helps them get more in tune with their own emotions. So on one side we have looking for the emotion that wasn’t given, and on the other side we have the projecting of the emotion that wasn’t given, but still searching for it.”
I was waiting for this one. This placement hasn't been easy. . Learning how to nurture and guide myself and give myself the things I never received coming up. Thanks for what you do🙏🏾
Yes. My mother was very self involved and had some issues with depression. I never knew much about what was going on. I just saw her emotional breakdowns or outbursts. She was not overly affectionate. I never seemed to be the daughter she wantted. I just felt that. My parents were very strict Christian’s also. Yes. I’m deeply sensitive but have not expressed that it shown it until more recently in life.
Wow so spot on! Puto in scorpio in the 4th house. Mom was abusive, I moved to a different country and I’m becoming more successful than anybody in my family. I try to nurture people because I know how it feels to not have it and also I try hard to raise my kid in a completely different way.
Spot on, thank you!! Pluto in 4th, moon in Scorpio. I probably didn't have it as difficult as some (as in no drug addiction or prison or outright neglect); the lack of support and nurturing has been more on the emotional level. Have always felt misunderstood, alone, pushed away or just not having any common ground with my immediate family members. Distant father figure, both parents almost absent from my early memories. Food, basic clothes (never the ones I wanted), that's it. To this day I feel rather disconnected from my parents, other people find it surprising that I don't miss them when being away from home for months and years even. Never understood people who talk to their parents every day or week...
Well pretty much the same experience for me with exact same placements, however I was beaten sadistically by my mom from 7-14 until I beat her up, from then on she's perfect mom and was bullied verbally by me every day for 3 years or so until memories of abuse faded out a little bit and I felt I had my revenge. Still my loved ones are a great source of misery even tho 99% of the time we're fine, every little conflict or misunderstanding gives me flashbacks and my hearth starts racing and I scream unbelievable insults and creatively destructive profanities while wanting to get physical if needed to come out on top out of the argument, never allowing the defeat, I usually do get physical with then every November when trsnsit sun conjuncts my natal moon in scorpio 29 degree. Luckily I never outright punch them, just throw them around, push them and curse their dead beloveds, this time around I cursed my fathers dead mother even tho she's alive and laughed at his face, amonunt of energy I pour into these conflucts is insane, I guess I am eating their organs. However I can't feel guilty about this, never, feeling of having to come out on top and that I am the wronged one is soo overwhelming. If I had American living standard I would definitely move out, however average salary here is 400 euros and prices of goods are same as in Germany. I work only to eat so it's out of the question right now and they know it.
1000% on point. My 4th house is an uncomfortable Stellium- Pluto conj. Venus, S. Node, Juno, Sun, Saturn conj. Moon The childhood described was very accurate. My birth father was violent, he hit me in front of my mother at 18months. Mom left, Grandma died, Grandpa disowned the family and got with someone else and their family. Mom was emotionally unstable, abusive, controlling, manipulative, and at 12 she handed me to a child molester for 5 years. She knew and did nothing. The 35yr old man gave me an STD (cured for 15 yrs thank god), and possibly got me pregnant. He told me I must be "cheating on him." Step father detested me, was horribly jealous of me, and cheated on my mom incessantly. I have had serious drug problems in the 90s with opiods. I overdosed. I dabbled in black Magick, cut myself, drank. In my mid 30s now and while I have serious medical conditions because of my childhood- C-PTSD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Panic and Agoraphobia- I'm so greatful to be alive. I have a phenomenal service dog, a now healthy relationship with my mom, and freedom. It took medical intervention to keep me here, but I'm glad it did. Get out of your house asap, have money, know how credit works, call homeless shelters, get on Welfare and food stamps. Medically document everything. Keep a HIDDEN journal, learn how to shop and make your own food. It's hard, but you can do it. It's not worse or harder than what you're going through right now. Fight.
You are amazing!!! I'm learning so much. I'm a Gemini Sun, Leo Rising, Cancer Moon, Mercury and Venus all three of those in the 12th house. My childhood is making so much sense! Scorpio rules my 4th house as well. Whew! I'm also a lifepath 13/4. Hey, now that I know what's up and have guidance and understanding from astrology, I'm here for it. I see I'm an old soul playing this game on the highest difficulty and that means I'm an expert, a veteran. I've been trying to relate to and mix with young souls who would never get it. I asked for my tribe and now I'm finding it through the spiritual and esoteric arts.
Omgggg this is literally Almost meeeee….cancer sun mercury venus (12h) mars 12h cusps….also knowing I’m an old soul n om a missipn here om earth since i was….god…born????…it’s a weird feeling of inner knowing ever since i was young n literally few days ago I concluded that I definitely chose the hardest missions lmaoo….buuuutttt…with a chart so well put out…difficult af but through innerwork (spirituality) being highly intuitive, sensitive etccc i manage to work to pretty much all the traumas/curses etc.
I think you did a good job, and I would like to also add these people are bad af and can be very healing to others at the same time, they are emotionally powerful and intelligent and will go to any length to have emotional freedom, either from it or within it, and they will transform deeply on an emotional spiritual level and go from the scorpion to the phoenix🕊 in this life time or beyond.
Wow, Pluto in Libra 4th. My mom had me very young so I was mainly raised by my grandmother. I feel like I was a secret on my father’s side. Met him once and that was it. Christian growing up until I started my spiritual journey I feel later in life compared to others.
Very Spot on! I have Pluto in the 4th house. There has definitely been secrets in the family. I have no idea who my biological father is... and my mother i only met her once but idnt kno anything abt her... she passed away as soon as I was going to meet her. I heard that both of my parents were drug attics. I also have a 12th house moon. Im raised by my aunt since 3 days old... My Aunt is Mom to me. Anyways I recently did a horary chart to see if my biological father is alive and sadly NO. But with the horary I found out that Im a secret and that my father is a secret and that Im a product of a love affair.
The reason why i don’t like claiming to be sensitive is because at the same, at the end of the day I know I only have myself cause I don’t have any emotional support from neither parents so yeah it makes me feel tough and not sensitive even though I could be sensitive lol Hope that makes sense
Same here. I can come across quite cold and insensitive but it's to keep me from getting hurt... And that lack of emotional support from parents, been struggling with it, too.
Thank you for this interpretation All about family that's mentioned here is so accurate because I have Pluto in 4H, Sun in 12H, Capricorn Moon, Saturn 10H, North Node 10H and South Node 4H So it is already obvious that I must not get too much attached to my family and relatives and don't chase them when I was young I would always chase for their nurture and attention but now that I'm 18 It changed my perspective when I've learned astrology I must be independent and not too Dependent on them.
You’re so spot on it’s scaring me. I was a adopted at a young age by a Hispanic family (I am African American) They weren’t good to me. They were treating me so poorly that I tried to kill myself at 15 years old. They’d abuse me physically and emotionally. At 15 when I did this I had to go to the hospital at a young age and from there I was taken from there care because I spoke up in the hospital. They tried to tell me to tell them that I was lying. To convince them that I made my allegations up. I never did that. I grow up in the system after that like group homes, residentals, and when my mental state wasn’t good I went to hospitals and this was alot because I’ve been through a lot of traumatic things. At 18 I found out who my mother was when I was getting kicked out of a shelter and I was near homeless, I panicked and called the only people I ever knew my adopted family and begged them to take me back…that’s that Pluto in the 4th house manipulation because I knew dang well I could never return to that nightmare. And I was older now. They weren’t my real parents so they didn’t care. They gave me my real mother’s Facebook and contact information and said go see if she’ll take you. It dawned on me that they knew who my mother was the whole time and hid it from me. They could’ve told me who she was when I got taken away at 15 instead of letting me think I belonged to them or that my family never wanted me. I did go with my mother but it didn’t go well and then I tried living with my father and let’s just say I can see why I got taken away from them. I’m on the process of healing just started and I still have to go back and understand things and myself and the Pluto in the 4th house energy. I will say that I recently got a reading done a month ago and the women told me she saw my mother struggling with addiction. It broke my heart even though she doesn’t talk to me and would prefer I didn’t exist. I’m not mad at either just have to heal myself so I don’t pass down that same trauma 😷 I’m not sure if marijuana can be considered an addiction but I feel like I struggled with quitting because I was escaping reality and running my pockets dry to stay high. I stopped. A lot a lot of things to process and heal and get out. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO!!! without you N this video I would’ve still been blind. Pluto would’ve stayed hidden 😉 Thank you again, you helped me on my journey 🙏🏾✨
With my adopted family when I was younger i thought I really came from them until a boy from my school asked me “Why are you black and your parents are Spanish?” I was a confused little girl. Poor me. I cried when I got home and told him what the boy said and they laughed at me. My adopted mother asked me why was I crying and I was confused what was funny I was genuinely hurt, I told her I was crying because I thought I came from her and how could they say something dumb like that to me in school. I had their last names (still do) I was so confused. They told me that I was adopted at a young age from there. The way it was done was not okay either. The made it seemed like they saved me from my parents and they gave me a better life and that there was other children who wished to be in my place. I had a nice roof over my head and food every day but I didn’t feel emotionally secured. Yeah that’s all nice but I didn’t ask to get beat and emotionally abused (called mean things in their language ex. Negra)
@@msjupiter5 were you part of a sacrifice too ? I forget the part where I felt like someone was having sex with me while I was sleeping as a young girl. I was still a virgi.
I have Ploto in the 4th house in Scorpio with sun and moon in the 12th so yeah definitely a very dark childhood with a religious strict and very controlling mother and an absent and emotionally detached father, I really hope my 20’s get better💜
I’m a Pisces sun, Leo moon, Leo rising with my Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th house and moon in the 12th house as well!! Definitely had your pain too as a child. Especially being Leo moon, family means a lot and so does loyalty. it was the most painful growth for me to go through.
Wow - talent 🙌🏾! 4th house Pluto here. I’m intrigued by your comment about the expression of energy. I’ve always been a feminine man - but I’ve never heard that attributed to Pluto in 4th house. I believe I have more than one placement that’s been pointed to effeminacy as well. I’m an artist to the bone though so I believe the energy strongly aids in my work. I’d love to see a video on aspects that create character quirks or traits you’ve picked up on .
Having Pluto in 4th house is like ‘Because you have Pluto in the 4th your dad’s gonna commit suicide when you’re 4, but because you have Pluto in the 4th you’re gonna know he’s dead before anyone finds him and freak your mom out. ‘
im a woman who had no fathers presence in my childhood and was raised by woman not my bio mother. i was told so many lies about my mom that once i got older, i figured i was product of an affair cuz his name was legally omitted off my birth record
Pluto in 4th (Libra) Scorpio Moon..Dad was an alcholic (although loving when in my presence) mother overloaded with cptsd symptoms and very disassociated and step father who was just there to provide housing and food but nothing else..and here i am complaining about my childhood..loli believe its all for a reason..no use dwelling in the negative..just looking to transform the energies somehow to something more resourceful.
Rx Pluto conjunct NN Virgo 4H 1 degree orb, retired, single woman who subscribed and agrees w/u about this adverse placement in my placidus natal chart. Happy being retired from rat race and living alone the rest of my life cuz i love it!
This is my son's placement…i pushed him like crazy to get out and be successful. I was smothering and overbearing! I love him to pieces and stayed on deployment due to my military service. He is in the service and doing excellent. I hope he dosent hate me🤦🏾♀️
Thank you so much, Gemini Brown! Always wanted to really understand that. I can attest to each and every aspect you brought up regarding Pluto in 4th house in Natal Chart!
I have this placement and when you said these people find they’re better off away from their family it really resonated with me as I cut my whole family off a couple years ago and it was the best thing I ever did.
5:32 Cancer sun in my Gemini 12th house. Pluto in Scorpio is in my Libra 12th house. Only coorelation is with my dad commiting suicide and my mom was left to work SO hard to bring balance in the house for me and my two sisters. My own interpretation.
wow this is my placement and my mom been in and out of jail all my life & my dad is on drugs from my understanding and im girly but i don't like to show emotions tho smh my life been crazy af this made me cry
This is my natal placement 😩 my Pisces Moon in the 7th struggles with this... disconnect with mom too, since I was a child. Defiantly better off away from family. I also have Venus in the 4th though! I dream of a Venusian home other than the one I’ve grown up in. Toxic/Chaos!
Anoa Bayete Omg! Mine is in Pisces in the 7th house I crave emotional relationships lol there’s defiantly nothing surface level about our 4th house.. or our charts!!!
i resonated with this all the way down to suppressing it!!! Its something about my mom that's really shady and i know but i don't and i hide it cause i feel bad. there's a huge amount of guilt when it comes to her. She's blind and is really troubled and she literally always talks about all of the bad things that happened to her in life- like yeah it sucks but its like she wants me to nurture her and treat her like my child. I feel like growing up i was there for her emotionally in a way that she should have been for me. Alot of things i just hid from my family and some of the biggest secrets involve my sexuality, my stand on religion and just some opinions that heavily clash with theirs. its so suffocating truly.
I so love the lens from which you deliver the message. So important to remember our soul chose this placement for the learning and expansion. If we don’t view it from this “wholistic” perspective of what we truly are; a soul having a human experience, we can slip down into the rabbit hole of “poor me”victim, the opposite of what our soul signed on for. Thank you, Gemini for keeping it real, always. ✌🏼Five planet Stellium in 4th house; North Node, Lilith, Venus and Uranus, all in Leo! Pluto too but in Virgo (mercifully). 🤣
Small minded, family, narcissistic, and no see others, thank you for the point of view ❤❤ I actually see this in my d9 chart in vedic system.. I want to have a children and nurture her or him with lots of love ❤❤
This really really resonates with me and it hit me hard, I wasn’t expecting this. My pluto is a sag, which trines my Leo sun, Venus, and Jupiter (all of which are in the 12th house). And it’s conjunct to my moon in sag. There are a million things I could say and a million things this video brought up for me. But mainly I feel like the fire signs made these placements super volatile for me. I felt trapped in my own houses (I assume that’s the sag moon). And the Leo sign made it impossible for me to just shut up and stand down when I was attacked, even as a small child. My parents relied on extended family when I was younger and I’m not surprised that in every single house I have lived in, with the exception of one, I have trauma from. Everyone who was supposed to take care of me other than my grandmother hurt me in some way. And I am dying to escape everything that happened to me. I am so close to cutting off contact completely. And I super appreciate this video this is perfect for me.
Abusive, narc, squizoftenic, alchololic, involved in gangs mother… absent father. I asked for adoption at 11. So tough childhood being a little sensitive girl. Very smart thanks god. Adoptive family very emotionally inmature. 100% don’t connect at all with that adoptive family. So we have little contact. Always been my own mother, my own savior, my own hero. Im not sure how could I become so smart and strong as a kid. How strong a kid can become.. to survive. It should not be like that. I’m 32 and still recovering. I feel I relate to no one. Feel deeply lonely my whole life. Like.. I’m missing something others have.. always transforming, challenging myself.. many personal crisis… Very nurturing but: also been taken advantage of because of that.. people using me, my energy for their advantage, and then having no one when in need of people be aware of me needing help, support, etc…
Heres the thing. Both me and my mom have this placement (idk if anyone else in our family has this) but like, it's weird. A lot of our placements line up, but we're still disconnected, but still trying. It gets tough.
Stellium in the 4th in Scorpio. Sun/moon conjunct, mercury conjunct pluto. Sun/moon square ascendant. Now. Let me tell you how secretive and protective I am of my emotions and identity! Plus I have moon square Saturn. *sigh* my mother always worked and put work ahead of me. Emotions were a set back to me. Felt like I had to be that boss strong woman. Couldn't be weak. It's so hard to open up and be raw with ppl.
Ty Gemini Brown. I enjoyed this video and i subscribed months ago but this video, you did me justice. I learned a lot about my Rx Pluto in 4 house. Im a single, fatherless woman w/Gemini ascendant, Rx Pluto Virgo in 4 house, Rx Uranus in Leo and North Node Virgo all in 4 house. U have answered a lot of my questions about my childhood and why traumatic things happened to me in my family in one video. Rx Pluto Virgo 4 house opposition Saturn Capricorn 9 house. Laws have mercy. I need to find out about this aspect next.
Thank you so much for the great video. Just subbed :) I personally have Pluto in the 4th house, 4th house cusp is in Scorpio, and chiron is also placed in this house. Tis rough lol
From my assessment of self and others, Pluto by Transit be having much the same effect as a Natal Pluto. From those I've read and my own personal experience, it can be a tough one, without a doubt! Thank you brother, excellent job with the series so far. Keep 'em coming!
Excellent video sir. Both my husband and I have pluto in virgo 4th house. Both are 12th house Gemini suns/cancer asc. Both of us have very different backgrounds, we both went into military and left our families behind. When we had children, I stayed at home while he worked. So resonates for us both in different ways, but still exactly correct. Thank you! Wishing great success and fortune in all you do!
Dallas L H I noticed your comment on Miriam Kramer’s take of Pluto in the 4th house placement and how she said it’s bond to be homeless. Don’t listen to her she hates Cancers and uses fear to get people to side with her . I had to go off on her a couple times because she shit talking about us in other signs readings . She always puts us down always tries to make us look like some ungrateful brats but she’s so disciplined with her high values . Her kids don’t even talk to her so trust me she is in her own little world . That’s what she does she has to make a point she will be extreme about it self centered always brings herself up like nobody cares just do the reading I unsubscribed cuz I can’t trust a word she says. Look through her Virgo and compare it with the Cancer readings every Virgo reading is making them look like the martyr but with Cancers were just doomed that’s what she always says straight up hater . You know what Virgos usually end up doing Fraud Claims want free money for doing absolutely nothing don’t trust her she is a fucking crook .
I have this placements and so does my eldest daughter. My mother is a sociopath, and on one occasion actually tried to kill me. My father is a narcissist. I have no contact with either anymore. And believe me, THAT is a massive improvement. I'd describe being around them, as being continually under attack. When my eldest was born my situation was difficult, in fact, I'd describe it as being deseiged. Things are better now. My youngest has nothing but Jupiter in her 4th. This placement feels to me very ummmmm genetic.
Mom had me very young (age 19), dad wasn´t present in life, horrible childhood, physical and emotional abuse, trauma, insecurities, abusive mother and disfunctional home... Mom married stepdad 6 years later and had my sister, i was left out, felt like they were a perfect family without me, that i was a burden, i was a bad sister, i chanalized all my anger with my mother and my childhood with my baby sister... i was mean to her, bothered her all the time, i had this kind of jelousy which now after more that 10 years i realize was never her nor my fault, but my mothers. Now she is the only person in my family that gets me and is there for me and i regret so mucho being a bad sister to her, but i promised myself i would make it up for her and now i am always the first one to defend her and trying to make her feel better... she is that little light that i always needed. Now as an adult, i am extremely empathetic and sensitive to people with family issues, i always want to help everyone and prevent them to feeling how i felt because i know how horrible it was.
It's ok. You didn't know better earlier. Don't judge /shame yourself for being a 'bad' sis. You've made mistakes,you've realised and you've followed it up with better actions. And that's wonderful! More power to you ❤
Wow.. Is there a way we can all link up in the comments.. even if it’s a zoom link haha seriously though.. have a little powwow 😅 I have never heard something more accurate.. I appreciate everything here 🙏 just wow ☀️
4th house is also the family you raise of your own. There can be manipulation in your adulthome. Spouse can be Pluto too. Saturn in the 7th. Sun Venus Mercury SN in 12th. Very difficult to break this
woah ur good! I have pluto in 4th and sun (almost) conjunct saturn in the 8th in pisces! Mom indeed was preoccupied by other stuff and the father was an absent alcholic and the stepfather was abusive af. But we're all cool now (I'm 25 yo). Also pluto aquare moon in the 1st. And I'm a tomboy since forever. Great video thank you :)
Pluto in Scorpio 4th, Pisces Moon in the 8th. My mom is very religious, overbearing, controlling, always working. She's a Cancer rising, Taurus Moon, Aries Sun conjunct Saturn, Aries Stellium in her 10th house. Pisces is her 9th house with planets there lol Jamaican mom. She moved to the US at around 12 I believe. Growing up I noticed my dad and my sister and brothers all sweat on the bridge of their nose and they all have height. I was the oldest and felt like I didn't belong but I never said anything. I just wondered why I felt that way cause it seemed crazy. After high school, my dad was like I might not be his. My mom was mad he did that but she gave me a picture of who she thinks my birth father could be and I lost it. My mom was the other woman and my sister also has moon in the 8th. Then my brothers are from his wife who he was with before I was born.
Sun with Pluto in 4th house, Libra. Difficult relationships of the Parents in my childhood. Every birthday I have it’s very emotional, want to be alone and cry. Is there anything positive about Pluto ? Thank you 🙏🏻
I feel like this placement would resonate more with my mom vs me with this placement.. I’ve had a great childhood.. I believe I had nurturing issues with my father though .. he didn’t show love like my pop pop did but my dad has always been in my life ... I’m thinking other planets in my chart probably override the “trauma”
My daughter has this placement and when I was reading a lot of people's trauma and abuse I was like this doenst make sense because I'm a single mom and I'm overly affectionate with her. Her father pretty much absent like My mother was. I was like this placement not making sense sounds like my story growing up. Severe emotional abuse and physical at times, I have lilith in the fourth and I always felt unheard growing up, kind of just pushed aside, my feelings weren't heard also abusive and manipulative stepmother. I always said before I had children I would so break the generational trauma and bs.
@@nicoledonnelly6154 Well you've failed as your child has no father, that is more of a trauma than having emotionally unavailable one, at least that one would instill some structure. Children from single parent households are much more prominent in crime, prostitution, drug use and any other dysfunction you can name, almost all of those households are single mother ones so good luck. My own best friend is a male from single mother household and amount of brainwashing she did on him is unbelievable, still at 25 he is very much mind controlled by his mother despite her death a few years back, he also acts very girly. Girls with single mothers most often get sexually active earlier and with older men as that is energy they lack in their lives, however those guys are definitely not healthy as they are breaking the law being with her, predatory animals selling a dream to a naive teenager. And having another partner while she's growing up is dangerous as most sick individuals hide their wickedness the best, I mean what kind of a role model is a mom that brings a new "dad" every once in a while, in 14 years of her growing up and being conscious chances are that there are gonna be more than 14 dads, that shows her from her only role model that sleeping around is ok, well it is not as every failed relationship is a trauma on it's own as you wouldn't be with a guy that you didn't trust and it really destroys the healthy ego.
Having this placement being put in foster care. I had to mature fast and look after myself. To this day trust issues are bad and don't call on family for help
Exactly so in my life. Iam a Cancer and Cancer rising with pluto conj. Uranus in my 4th house in virgo. mars in 12 house makes qua with ura and pluto…. My mother died with 49 years on heartattack, my Father was strict and did Things, a Father shouldnt do (he a scoripo, my mum a Leo). Good times we had until I was 15years, after that not. Kisses from my mum only when I had Birthday or on Christmas. With 18 years I lived in another town, and when I felt lonly all the time I started dreaming, when I am 18 years, what I will do than. I loved that dreamy times, because it gave me hope (with Neptun in scorpio). I had very good times at home too, my parents had good Things and not so good Things. So I had my own flat wanted to live with pets (2 dogs,, 1 cat) worked Always, twice devorced, but I feel better livving on my own, Maybe with venus and mars in the 12 house, moon in pieces.
Thank you for speaking on a soul level. I am looking forward to the Pluto transit into Aquarius the transit will be in my 4th house. I am looking for ideas. lol Pluto in Cap in my 3rd house, has given me what I needed. I FEEL, therefore I think. And soon enough I will be in I feel, therefore I am home.wish me luck. lol
4th house stellium (Sun/mercury Sag; Pluto/mars Scorpio) I basically grew up in a war zone. 1.5yrs ago I moved away from my family to Cali (your 4th house sun video encouraged this btw) and it was the best decision I ever made. Definitely have to give all the love and nurturing I never had. Thanks for this
My son is Libra rising Capricorn in 4 th house either Jupiter Saturn and Pluto ! I am very worried about this, am I not going to be a good mother for him? !
Pluto will be transiting my 4th house when it goes in to the sign of aqua in 2024. I have pluto on my asc also. Not gonna lie I'm really scared about this pluto transit.
I think thing changes when Jupiter is together conjunct pluto in the 4th house. The parents is so doting and loving towards the baby, always reading bedtime stories and running to the baby on the first cry.
My boyfriend has this placement with his Scorpio moon and Chiron falling in his 4th house. but his moon is not negatively aspected, it’s actually well aspected. would this still be the same case ?
My moon is 8H Pisces 👀 Pluto 4H Scorpio mom is a Scorpio. Leo rising. She’s definitely on my descendant too. I’m Definitely a tomboy. Do I need to book you for a natal chart reading? 😩
@@Lotus4271 Poverty, psychological trauma & unavailable parents. Parents never married. Father had drug problems. Had 3 father figures in and out of my life before the age of 5. Grandparents played a big role in my life for better or worse. So... it wasn’t the best lol.
@@elysian5599 ah ok man I'm so sorry:( that sounds really rough. I am wondering because I have this exact placement sitting on my ic. Family issues I have had failed friendships, abuse, trauma, conflict with authority, and I got sick from lyme disease at the age of 17 which is from the depths of hell and I had to drop out of high school and lost a year of my life lying in bed without any friends and am now trying to finish my classes.fun life:(
@@Lotus4271 I think it’s a really rough placement to have. I know most of my life I’ve been stuck at home whether i like it or not. I’ve been riddle with illnesses throughout my life, as well.
@@elysian5599 same, so that means you have nn in tenth house like me? How has your career turned out? Have you managed to gain reputation for yourself? I have a saturn north node jupiter conjuction in my tenth house so I'm hoping that compensates for the past 18 years 😅
You mentioned how if the sun is in the 8th or 12th house that it can come from the father as well, what if my dads sun sign falls into my 4th house? Both parents actually
What if Pluto in the 4th with moon, Venus and Uranus all there in Virgo even. Cancer sun with Mercury retrograde and gem rising. My mom and I don't and never had the best relationship. She was definitely not loving or nurturing at all, very overbearing. She is an Aries so was all about her needs all the time. My grandma (Libra) basically raised me and the best role model ever. My biological father (alcoholic Virgo) was near non existent but I had an amazing step dad (Taurus). I was born to her out of wedlock. Yes, to three religious on grandparents side (not parents) and racist. Yes, I broke away from my family to a large extent but my cancer part still associates with them. Just not close since my step dad and grandma passed. I've never been a part of their ways and raised my kids totally different! We are very close. Man you are spot on!!!!
A very difficult and complicated position indeed. I was born with Pluto in the fourth house in Scorpio. My Sun is in Cancer. Which makes the impact of this position particularly strong in my life. Your interpretation is correct. I grew up practically without my parents, even though we lived in the same house, they behaved as if I am a burden to them. So they preferred to ignore me, not communicate with me, and often did not meet my physical needs. I had to learn how to be a father and a mother for myself from a very young age, because I was really neglected. My parents are also very manipulative and emotionally unstable. You're right about the secrets too. I know almost nothing about my father's past, he never shared anything about his personal life with me. So he remained an enigma for me. Another thing I want to point out with this position is that from a child I not only want to live away from my family, but also to change the country. Because the fourth house is also connected with your home country and with Pluto there it is another manifestation of the disfunctional family but at a larger scale. In general, my childhood experience pushed me towards sciences like psychology, philosophy, even astrology, in an attempt to understand why two parents might not love their children and perhaps most importantly, to cure my psyche and soul from their negative programming, because I want, as you mentioned in the video, to create a healthy family environment for my children in the future. I hope that what I wrote will be helpful for someone. I want to reassure young people who have this placement that this Hell you were born into has an end! Please, be strong and believe that there is a better way, a better life and you can ahieve it. This position is a chance for you to TOTALLY transform yourself and your life. Don't lose hope!
Life I have this Pluto in the fourth along w it conjunct Uranus ,sun and mercury. I’m 53 and still not sure how to get my shit together for being in the everyday working class. I don’t know why I came here. I need major help
Great words of advice. Did you move out of the country?
I have the same placement and I highly relate to the neglecting part especially by my father and yeah a lot of secrets.
@@GeminiBrown What I did first was changing the city, but emigration takes a little more time and preparation. So I'm still working on it.
@@donnaspitler9911Hi Donna, we are the Generation with the pluto Uranus conj in virgo (my 4th house). Are you a Cancer rising? Where is your sun? Cancer 1 decade have that conj. in virgo. Have a look of the other planets, do you have the pluto-Saturn conjunction in the 6th/7th or 8th house? Wish you all the best.
I have sun in the 8h , Pluto in the 4h . This is a very sad placement for a child, felt alone not lonely but totally alone my whole life . I have to fight for attention from my mother , the only person in the world that I wanted attention from, my world was my mom but she just doesn’t respond. This is a struggle for love from your parents and family. You’ll never get it tho, what you’ll get from this is tremendous emotional strength, survival skills and extreme sense of independence which in the end becomes your super power. You become this super human who is invincible, very few things on this planet can break you emotionally. The pain also never goes away but there’s no anger in me. Now I look at it this way, I may never get the love I so wanted from the only people that mattered to me but God gave me somethings that made my existence worthwhile and many benefited from those gifts that God afforded me and for that I’m grateful. No matter what, give thanks.
”These are the people that are very nurturing to the world because they didn’t receive that nurturing at home and in turn that helps them get more in tune with their own emotions. So on one side we have looking for the emotion that wasn’t given, and on the other side we have the projecting of the emotion that wasn’t given, but still searching for it.”
Exactly, well said.
Excatly why i chose to work with children in grouphomes.
I was waiting for this one. This placement hasn't been easy. . Learning how to nurture and guide myself and give myself the things I never received coming up. Thanks for what you do🙏🏾
Yes. My mother was very self involved and had some issues with depression. I never knew much about what was going on. I just saw her emotional breakdowns or outbursts. She was not overly affectionate. I never seemed to be the daughter she wantted. I just felt that.
My parents were very strict Christian’s also.
Yes. I’m deeply sensitive but have not expressed that it shown it until more recently in life.
I can relate Susanna!
Sending you hugs from across the internet. My heart goes out to you. 💜✨
@@Heatherrenee424 you are so sweet!!❤️
This resonates with me.
God bless 💫
Wow so spot on! Puto in scorpio in the 4th house. Mom was abusive, I moved to a different country and I’m becoming more successful than anybody in my family. I try to nurture people because I know how it feels to not have it and also I try hard to raise my kid in a completely different way.
Spot on, thank you!! Pluto in 4th, moon in Scorpio.
I probably didn't have it as difficult as some (as in no drug addiction or prison or outright neglect); the lack of support and nurturing has been more on the emotional level. Have always felt misunderstood, alone, pushed away or just not having any common ground with my immediate family members. Distant father figure, both parents almost absent from my early memories. Food, basic clothes (never the ones I wanted), that's it. To this day I feel rather disconnected from my parents, other people find it surprising that I don't miss them when being away from home for months and years even. Never understood people who talk to their parents every day or week...
Well pretty much the same experience for me with exact same placements, however I was beaten sadistically by my mom from 7-14 until I beat her up, from then on she's perfect mom and was bullied verbally by me every day for 3 years or so until memories of abuse faded out a little bit and I felt I had my revenge.
Still my loved ones are a great source of misery even tho 99% of the time we're fine, every little conflict or misunderstanding gives me flashbacks and my hearth starts racing and I scream unbelievable insults and creatively destructive profanities while wanting to get physical if needed to come out on top out of the argument, never allowing the defeat, I usually do get physical with then every November when trsnsit sun conjuncts my natal moon in scorpio 29 degree.
Luckily I never outright punch them, just throw them around, push them and curse their dead beloveds, this time around I cursed my fathers dead mother even tho she's alive and laughed at his face, amonunt of energy I pour into these conflucts is insane, I guess I am eating their organs.
However I can't feel guilty about this, never, feeling of having to come out on top and that I am the wronged one is soo overwhelming.
If I had American living standard I would definitely move out, however average salary here is 400 euros and prices of goods are same as in Germany.
I work only to eat so it's out of the question right now and they know it.
1000% on point. My 4th house is an uncomfortable Stellium- Pluto conj. Venus, S. Node, Juno, Sun, Saturn conj. Moon
The childhood described was very accurate. My birth father was violent, he hit me in front of my mother at 18months. Mom left, Grandma died, Grandpa disowned the family and got with someone else and their family.
Mom was emotionally unstable, abusive, controlling, manipulative, and at 12 she handed me to a child molester for 5 years. She knew and did nothing. The 35yr old man gave me an STD (cured for 15 yrs thank god), and possibly got me pregnant. He told me I must be "cheating on him."
Step father detested me, was horribly jealous of me, and cheated on my mom incessantly.
I have had serious drug problems in the 90s with opiods. I overdosed. I dabbled in black Magick, cut myself, drank.
In my mid 30s now and while I have serious medical conditions because of my childhood- C-PTSD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Panic and Agoraphobia- I'm so greatful to be alive. I have a phenomenal service dog, a now healthy relationship with my mom, and freedom. It took medical intervention to keep me here, but I'm glad it did.
Get out of your house asap, have money, know how credit works, call homeless shelters, get on Welfare and food stamps. Medically document everything. Keep a HIDDEN journal, learn how to shop and make your own food. It's hard, but you can do it. It's not worse or harder than what you're going through right now.
Fight.
You look like a professor sound like a professor Gem my man, you should be a professor. Wonderful presentation. ✊🏾
You are amazing!!! I'm learning so much. I'm a Gemini Sun, Leo Rising, Cancer Moon, Mercury and Venus all three of those in the 12th house. My childhood is making so much sense! Scorpio rules my 4th house as well. Whew! I'm also a lifepath 13/4. Hey, now that I know what's up and have guidance and understanding from astrology, I'm here for it. I see I'm an old soul playing this game on the highest difficulty and that means I'm an expert, a veteran. I've been trying to relate to and mix with young souls who would never get it. I asked for my tribe and now I'm finding it through the spiritual and esoteric arts.
Omgggg this is literally
Almost meeeee….cancer sun mercury venus (12h) mars 12h cusps….also knowing I’m an old soul n om a missipn here om earth since i was….god…born????…it’s a weird feeling of inner knowing ever since i was young n literally few days ago I concluded that I definitely chose the hardest missions lmaoo….buuuutttt…with a chart so well put out…difficult af but through innerwork (spirituality) being highly intuitive, sensitive etccc i manage to work to pretty much all the traumas/curses etc.
Ps. I watched readings from Magnetize urself…she s realllyy good….n personally still lean onto vedic astrology for in-depth analysis
Pluto in 4th house Libra. As well as Saturn. Challenge after Challenge. Alone indeed away from everyone.
I think you did a good job, and I would like to also add these people are bad af and can be very healing to others at the same time, they are emotionally powerful and intelligent and will go to any length to have emotional freedom, either from it or within it, and they will transform deeply on an emotional spiritual level and go from the scorpion to the phoenix🕊 in this life time or beyond.
Wow, Pluto in Libra 4th. My mom had me very young so I was mainly raised by my grandmother. I feel like I was a secret on my father’s side. Met him once and that was it. Christian growing up until I started my spiritual journey I feel later in life compared to others.
Very Spot on!
I have Pluto in the 4th house. There has definitely been secrets in the family. I have no idea who my biological father is... and my mother i only met her once but idnt kno anything abt her... she passed away as soon as I was going to meet her. I heard that both of my parents were drug attics. I also have a 12th house moon. Im raised by my aunt since 3 days old... My Aunt is Mom to me.
Anyways I recently did a horary chart to see if my biological father is alive and sadly NO. But with the horary I found out that Im a secret and that my father is a secret and that Im a product of a love affair.
The reason why i don’t like claiming to be sensitive is because at the same, at the end of the day I know I only have myself cause I don’t have any emotional support from neither parents so yeah it makes me feel tough and not sensitive even though I could be sensitive lol
Hope that makes sense
I feel you completely 😭
Same here. I can come across quite cold and insensitive but it's to keep me from getting hurt... And that lack of emotional support from parents, been struggling with it, too.
It’s a shell. You HAVE to be tough. But you are not… at least that’s my experience. And it’s difficult to bare this persona
Thank you for this interpretation
All about family that's mentioned here is so accurate because
I have Pluto in 4H, Sun in 12H, Capricorn Moon, Saturn 10H, North Node 10H and South Node 4H
So it is already obvious that I must not get too much attached to my family and relatives and don't chase them when I was young I would always chase for their nurture and attention but now that I'm 18 It changed my perspective when I've learned astrology I must be independent and not too Dependent on them.
Dude, you’re so insightful and it all comes from your head and heart! Subscribed!
You’re so spot on it’s scaring me. I was a adopted at a young age by a Hispanic family (I am African American) They weren’t good to me. They were treating me so poorly that I tried to kill myself at 15 years old. They’d abuse me physically and emotionally. At 15 when I did this I had to go to the hospital at a young age and from there I was taken from there care because I spoke up in the hospital. They tried to tell me to tell them that I was lying. To convince them that I made my allegations up. I never did that. I grow up in the system after that like group homes, residentals, and when my mental state wasn’t good I went to hospitals and this was alot because I’ve been through a lot of traumatic things. At 18 I found out who my mother was when I was getting kicked out of a shelter and I was near homeless, I panicked and called the only people I ever knew my adopted family and begged them to take me back…that’s that Pluto in the 4th house manipulation because I knew dang well I could never return to that nightmare. And I was older now. They weren’t my real parents so they didn’t care. They gave me my real mother’s Facebook and contact information and said go see if she’ll take you. It dawned on me that they knew who my mother was the whole time and hid it from me. They could’ve told me who she was when I got taken away at 15 instead of letting me think I belonged to them or that my family never wanted me. I did go with my mother but it didn’t go well and then I tried living with my father and let’s just say I can see why I got taken away from them. I’m on the process of healing just started and I still have to go back and understand things and myself and the Pluto in the 4th house energy. I will say that I recently got a reading done a month ago and the women told me she saw my mother struggling with addiction. It broke my heart even though she doesn’t talk to me and would prefer I didn’t exist. I’m not mad at either just have to heal myself so I don’t pass down that same trauma 😷 I’m not sure if marijuana can be considered an addiction but I feel like I struggled with quitting because I was escaping reality and running my pockets dry to stay high. I stopped. A lot a lot of things to process and heal and get out. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO!!! without you N this video I would’ve still been blind. Pluto would’ve stayed hidden 😉 Thank you again, you helped me on my journey 🙏🏾✨
With my adopted family when I was younger i thought I really came from them until a boy from my school asked me “Why are you black and your parents are Spanish?” I was a confused little girl. Poor me. I cried when I got home and told him what the boy said and they laughed at me. My adopted mother asked me why was I crying and I was confused what was funny I was genuinely hurt, I told her I was crying because I thought I came from her and how could they say something dumb like that to me in school. I had their last names (still do) I was so confused. They told me that I was adopted at a young age from there. The way it was done was not okay either. The made it seemed like they saved me from my parents and they gave me a better life and that there was other children who wished to be in my place. I had a nice roof over my head and food every day but I didn’t feel emotionally secured. Yeah that’s all nice but I didn’t ask to get beat and emotionally abused (called mean things in their language ex. Negra)
i hope everything is going well 🥺 i have this placement too if you need someone to talk to im here & i will listen
@@msjupiter5 were you part of a sacrifice too ? I forget the part where I felt like someone was having sex with me while I was sleeping as a young girl. I was still a virgi.
I have Ploto in the 4th house in Scorpio with sun and moon in the 12th so yeah definitely a very dark childhood with a religious strict and very controlling mother and an absent and emotionally detached father, I really hope my 20’s get better💜
Btw I have cancer sun, Leo moon and rising.
I’m a Pisces sun, Leo moon, Leo rising with my Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th house and moon in the 12th house as well!!
Definitely had your pain too as a child. Especially being Leo moon, family means a lot and so does loyalty. it was the most painful growth for me to go through.
Wow - talent 🙌🏾! 4th house Pluto here. I’m intrigued by your comment about the expression of energy. I’ve always been a feminine man - but I’ve never heard that attributed to Pluto in 4th house. I believe I have more than one placement that’s been pointed to effeminacy as well. I’m an artist to the bone though so I believe the energy strongly aids in my work. I’d love to see a video on aspects that create character quirks or traits you’ve picked up on .
Having Pluto in 4th house is like ‘Because you have Pluto in the 4th your dad’s gonna commit suicide when you’re 4, but because you have Pluto in the 4th you’re gonna know he’s dead before anyone finds him and freak your mom out. ‘
im a woman who had no fathers presence in my childhood and was raised by woman not my bio mother. i was told so many lies about my mom that once i got older, i figured i was product of an affair cuz his name was legally omitted off my birth record
Pluto in 4th (Libra) Scorpio Moon..Dad was an alcholic (although loving when in my presence) mother overloaded with cptsd symptoms and very disassociated and step father who was just there to provide housing and food but nothing else..and here i am complaining about my childhood..loli believe its all for a reason..no use dwelling in the negative..just looking to transform the energies somehow to something more resourceful.
youre honestly incredible at this. thank you
Rx Pluto conjunct NN Virgo 4H 1 degree orb, retired, single woman who subscribed and agrees w/u about this adverse placement in my placidus natal chart. Happy being retired from rat race and living alone the rest of my life cuz i love it!
I’m heading down this same path. So much more peace in my life!❣️
This is my son's placement…i pushed him like crazy to get out and be successful. I was smothering and overbearing! I love him to pieces and stayed on deployment due to my military service. He is in the service and doing excellent. I hope he dosent hate me🤦🏾♀️
This was amazing. Thank you
Thank you so much, Gemini Brown! Always wanted to really understand that. I can attest to each and every aspect you brought up regarding Pluto in 4th house in Natal Chart!
I have this placement and when you said these people find they’re better off away from their family it really resonated with me as I cut my whole family off a couple years ago and it was the best thing I ever did.
Wow, this was incredible 🙏🏼! You read me like a book ♥️, thank you for this video and sharing your gifts with us 🌿
5:32 Cancer sun in my Gemini 12th house. Pluto in Scorpio is in my Libra 12th house. Only coorelation is with my dad commiting suicide and my mom was left to work SO hard to bring balance in the house for me and my two sisters. My own interpretation.
Omg! You just described my chart (manifestation of it ) to a T.
Amazing! Thank you!
wow this is my placement and my mom been in and out of jail all my life & my dad is on drugs from my understanding and im girly but i don't like to show emotions tho smh my life been crazy af this made me cry
Sorry to hear that
I Thank You. This Interpretation Is GOOD, GOOD!
This video resonates the most with me
This is my natal placement 😩 my Pisces Moon in the 7th struggles with this... disconnect with mom too, since I was a child. Defiantly better off away from family. I also have Venus in the 4th though! I dream of a Venusian home other than the one I’ve grown up in. Toxic/Chaos!
Same, I have venus in the fourth too, in Scorpio
Anoa Bayete I have it in Sag girl! Such an intense & opposite paring in the 4th.. where is your moon?
@@kk.kanso9 my moon is in aries. Whats your moon? I also have venus conjunct Pluto. Yes girl, intense!!
Anoa Bayete Omg! Mine is in Pisces in the 7th house I crave emotional relationships lol there’s defiantly nothing surface level about our 4th house.. or our charts!!!
@@kk.kanso9 that’s crazy I have Pluto 4th house and picies moon 7th house....👀
Great⭐❤
Thank you
This video is on point. Thank you brother. 🙏🏾
i resonated with this all the way down to suppressing it!!! Its something about my mom that's really shady and i know but i don't and i hide it cause i feel bad. there's a huge amount of guilt when it comes to her. She's blind and is really troubled and she literally always talks about all of the bad things that happened to her in life- like yeah it sucks but its like she wants me to nurture her and treat her like my child. I feel like growing up i was there for her emotionally in a way that she should have been for me. Alot of things i just hid from my family and some of the biggest secrets involve my sexuality, my stand on religion and just some opinions that heavily clash with theirs. its so suffocating truly.
Mind blowm. Literally. 4th house Pluto and moon in libra.
I so love the lens from which you deliver the message. So important to remember our soul chose this placement for the learning and expansion. If we don’t view it from this “wholistic” perspective of what we truly are; a soul having a human experience, we can slip down into the rabbit hole of “poor me”victim, the opposite of what our soul signed on for. Thank you, Gemini for keeping it real, always. ✌🏼Five planet Stellium in 4th house; North Node, Lilith, Venus and Uranus, all in Leo! Pluto too but in Virgo (mercifully). 🤣
I was waiting for this since yesterday and dam are you spot on.
I have Pluto in the 4th and moon in 12th lol
hey, placement twins!!
Very helpful! Thank you so much!
I appreciate you so much for this! Thank you for being you! 💚
Small minded, family, narcissistic, and no see others, thank you for the point of view ❤❤ I actually see this in my d9 chart in vedic system.. I want to have a children and nurture her or him with lots of love ❤❤
Saturn and Pluto 4th house and it's been tough. I get along great with my mom, but not with my dad. It's been a traumatic life...
This really really resonates with me and it hit me hard, I wasn’t expecting this. My pluto is a sag, which trines my Leo sun, Venus, and Jupiter (all of which are in the 12th house). And it’s conjunct to my moon in sag. There are a million things I could say and a million things this video brought up for me. But mainly I feel like the fire signs made these placements super volatile for me. I felt trapped in my own houses (I assume that’s the sag moon). And the Leo sign made it impossible for me to just shut up and stand down when I was attacked, even as a small child. My parents relied on extended family when I was younger and I’m not surprised that in every single house I have lived in, with the exception of one, I have trauma from. Everyone who was supposed to take care of me other than my grandmother hurt me in some way. And I am dying to escape everything that happened to me. I am so close to cutting off contact completely. And I super appreciate this video this is perfect for me.
Wow this was so on point. It was scary.... Astrology don't Lie!!!!
Abusive, narc, squizoftenic, alchololic, involved in gangs mother… absent father. I asked for adoption at 11. So tough childhood being a little sensitive girl. Very smart thanks god. Adoptive family very emotionally inmature. 100% don’t connect at all with that adoptive family. So we have little contact.
Always been my own mother, my own savior, my own hero. Im not sure how could I become so smart and strong as a kid. How strong a kid can become.. to survive. It should not be like that.
I’m 32 and still recovering. I feel I relate to no one. Feel deeply lonely my whole life. Like.. I’m missing something others have.. always transforming, challenging myself.. many personal crisis…
Very nurturing but: also been taken advantage of because of that.. people using me, my energy for their advantage, and then having no one when in need of people be aware of me needing help, support, etc…
Heres the thing. Both me and my mom have this placement (idk if anyone else in our family has this) but like, it's weird. A lot of our placements line up, but we're still disconnected, but still trying. It gets tough.
Stellium in the 4th in Scorpio. Sun/moon conjunct, mercury conjunct pluto. Sun/moon square ascendant. Now. Let me tell you how secretive and protective I am of my emotions and identity! Plus I have moon square Saturn. *sigh* my mother always worked and put work ahead of me. Emotions were a set back to me. Felt like I had to be that boss strong woman. Couldn't be weak. It's so hard to open up and be raw with ppl.
Ty Gemini Brown. I enjoyed this video and i subscribed months ago but this video, you did me justice. I learned a lot about my Rx Pluto in 4 house. Im a single, fatherless woman w/Gemini ascendant, Rx Pluto Virgo in 4 house, Rx Uranus in Leo and North Node Virgo all in 4 house. U have answered a lot of my questions about my childhood and why traumatic things happened to me in my family in one video. Rx Pluto Virgo 4 house opposition Saturn Capricorn 9 house. Laws have mercy. I need to find out about this aspect next.
correction: Rx Pluto Virgo 4H opposite Chiron Pisces 10H western placidus chart
Thank you so much for the great video. Just subbed :) I personally have Pluto in the 4th house, 4th house cusp is in Scorpio, and chiron is also placed in this house. Tis rough lol
pluto in the 4th, moon in the 12th, sun, saturn & mars in pisces in the 8th. this has been enlightening! as always, thank you for the video ✌️
From my assessment of self and others, Pluto by Transit be having much the same effect as a Natal Pluto. From those I've read and my own personal experience, it can be a tough one, without a doubt! Thank you brother, excellent job with the series so far. Keep 'em coming!
Excellent video sir. Both my husband and I have pluto in virgo 4th house. Both are 12th house Gemini suns/cancer asc. Both of us have very different backgrounds, we both went into military and left our families behind. When we had children, I stayed at home while he worked. So resonates for us both in different ways, but still exactly correct. Thank you! Wishing great success and fortune in all you do!
Dallas L H I noticed your comment on Miriam Kramer’s take of Pluto in the 4th house placement and how she said it’s bond to be homeless. Don’t listen to her she hates Cancers and uses fear to get people to side with her . I had to go off on her a couple times because she shit talking about us in other signs readings . She always puts us down always tries to make us look like some ungrateful brats but she’s so disciplined with her high values . Her kids don’t even talk to her so trust me she is in her own little world . That’s what she does she has to make a point she will be extreme about it self centered always brings herself up like nobody cares just do the reading I unsubscribed cuz I can’t trust a word she says. Look through her Virgo and compare it with the Cancer readings every Virgo reading is making them look like the martyr but with Cancers were just doomed that’s what she always says straight up hater . You know what Virgos usually end up doing Fraud Claims want free money for doing absolutely nothing don’t trust her she is a fucking crook .
I have this placements and so does my eldest daughter. My mother is a sociopath, and on one occasion actually tried to kill me. My father is a narcissist. I have no contact with either anymore. And believe me, THAT is a massive improvement. I'd describe being around them, as being continually under attack. When my eldest was born my situation was difficult, in fact, I'd describe it as being deseiged. Things are better now. My youngest has nothing but Jupiter in her 4th. This placement feels to me very ummmmm genetic.
Get far away from anyone who hurts you asap.
Mom had me very young (age 19), dad wasn´t present in life, horrible childhood, physical and emotional abuse, trauma, insecurities, abusive mother and disfunctional home... Mom married stepdad 6 years later and had my sister, i was left out, felt like they were a perfect family without me, that i was a burden, i was a bad sister, i chanalized all my anger with my mother and my childhood with my baby sister... i was mean to her, bothered her all the time, i had this kind of jelousy which now after more that 10 years i realize was never her nor my fault, but my mothers. Now she is the only person in my family that gets me and is there for me and i regret so mucho being a bad sister to her, but i promised myself i would make it up for her and now i am always the first one to defend her and trying to make her feel better... she is that little light that i always needed. Now as an adult, i am extremely empathetic and sensitive to people with family issues, i always want to help everyone and prevent them to feeling how i felt because i know how horrible it was.
It's ok. You didn't know better earlier. Don't judge /shame yourself for being a 'bad' sis. You've made mistakes,you've realised and you've followed it up with better actions. And that's wonderful! More power to you ❤
Pluto & Venus in Libra ♎️ in The 4th House!
Wow.. Is there a way we can all link up in the comments.. even if it’s a zoom link haha seriously though.. have a little powwow 😅 I have never heard something more accurate.. I appreciate everything here 🙏 just wow ☀️
Pluto in the 4th my mom was a acholic had a great relationship with my father pluto square sun sun in the 1st
4th house is also the family you raise of your own. There can be manipulation in your adulthome. Spouse can be Pluto too. Saturn in the 7th. Sun Venus Mercury SN in 12th. Very difficult to break this
I have pluto in scorpio in the 4th house. My parents are alcoholics and LOTS of problems because of that...
woah ur good! I have pluto in 4th and sun (almost) conjunct saturn in the 8th in pisces! Mom indeed was preoccupied by other stuff and the father was an absent alcholic and the stepfather was abusive af. But we're all cool now (I'm 25 yo). Also pluto aquare moon in the 1st. And I'm a tomboy since forever. Great video thank you :)
Holy….. My mother was my birth mother but my dad adopted me. I didn’t find out until about 8 years old 😮
I have this placement and my mother was a horrible person, my home life was like living in a prison! 😞
Pluto in Scorpio 4th, Pisces Moon in the 8th. My mom is very religious, overbearing, controlling, always working. She's a Cancer rising, Taurus Moon, Aries Sun conjunct Saturn, Aries Stellium in her 10th house. Pisces is her 9th house with planets there lol Jamaican mom. She moved to the US at around 12 I believe.
Growing up I noticed my dad and my sister and brothers all sweat on the bridge of their nose and they all have height. I was the oldest and felt like I didn't belong but I never said anything. I just wondered why I felt that way cause it seemed crazy.
After high school, my dad was like I might not be his. My mom was mad he did that but she gave me a picture of who she thinks my birth father could be and I lost it. My mom was the other woman and my sister also has moon in the 8th. Then my brothers are from his wife who he was with before I was born.
Sun with Pluto in 4th house, Libra. Difficult relationships of the Parents in my childhood. Every birthday I have it’s very emotional, want to be alone and cry. Is there anything positive about Pluto ? Thank you 🙏🏻
I have Pluto, Mars and Chiron in the fourth house in Sagittarius. Thank u for the video it was great. 🙏🏼❤
I'm 4th house Pluto with 8th house Sun, Venus and Saturn in Pisces. This reading is very true.
I don't comment a lot... but you should really know that I appreciate this message. Spot on. Thank you
Thank you
Thank u. This is so accurate for me. Ur examples of other aspects were of my own chart as well. Hit home.
Wow great explain
I feel like this placement would resonate more with my mom vs me with this placement.. I’ve had a great childhood.. I believe I had nurturing issues with my father though .. he didn’t show love like my pop pop did but my dad has always been in my life ... I’m thinking other planets in my chart probably override the “trauma”
My daughter has this placement and when I was reading a lot of people's trauma and abuse I was like this doenst make sense because I'm a single mom and I'm overly affectionate with her. Her father pretty much absent like My mother was. I was like this placement not making sense sounds like my story growing up. Severe emotional abuse and physical at times, I have lilith in the fourth and I always felt unheard growing up, kind of just pushed aside, my feelings weren't heard also abusive and manipulative stepmother. I always said before I had children I would so break the generational trauma and bs.
@@nicoledonnelly6154 Well you've failed as your child has no father, that is more of a trauma than having emotionally unavailable one, at least that one would instill some structure.
Children from single parent households are much more prominent in crime, prostitution, drug use and any other dysfunction you can name, almost all of those households are single mother ones so good luck.
My own best friend is a male from single mother household and amount of brainwashing she did on him is unbelievable, still at 25 he is very much mind controlled by his mother despite her death a few years back, he also acts very girly.
Girls with single mothers most often get sexually active earlier and with older men as that is energy they lack in their lives, however those guys are definitely not healthy as they are breaking the law being with her, predatory animals selling a dream to a naive teenager.
And having another partner while she's growing up is dangerous as most sick individuals hide their wickedness the best, I mean what kind of a role model is a mom that brings a new "dad" every once in a while, in 14 years of her growing up and being conscious chances are that there are gonna be more than 14 dads, that shows her from her only role model that sleeping around is ok, well it is not as every failed relationship is a trauma on it's own as you wouldn't be with a guy that you didn't trust and it really destroys the healthy ego.
Wow, spot on!
on point!!!!!!
Scorpio moon Cancer Sun Gemini Rising. Thank you for this information.
Wow!!!🥺
💯💯💯💯
Spot on.
I'm a Gemini sun, Leo Rising and I have Pluto in my 4th house- Scorpio. Wish my emotions weren't so intense.
Moon is in Virgo.
Great video! Thank you ✨🙏🏽✨
Having this placement being put in foster care. I had to mature fast and look after myself. To this day trust issues are bad and don't call on family for help
Exactly so in my life. Iam a Cancer and Cancer rising with pluto conj. Uranus in my 4th house in virgo. mars in 12 house makes qua with ura and pluto…. My mother died with 49 years on heartattack, my Father was strict and did Things, a Father shouldnt do (he a scoripo, my mum a Leo). Good times we had until I was 15years, after that not. Kisses from my mum only when I had Birthday or on Christmas. With 18 years I lived in another town, and when I felt lonly all the time I started dreaming, when I am 18 years, what I will do than. I loved that dreamy times, because it gave me hope (with Neptun in scorpio). I had very good times at home too, my parents had good Things and not so good Things. So I had my own flat wanted to live with pets (2 dogs,, 1 cat) worked Always, twice devorced, but I feel better livving on my own, Maybe with venus and mars in the 12 house, moon in pieces.
Thank you for speaking on a soul level. I am looking forward to the Pluto transit into Aquarius the transit will be in my 4th house. I am looking for ideas. lol Pluto in Cap in my 3rd house, has given me what I needed. I FEEL, therefore I think. And soon enough I will be in I feel, therefore I am home.wish me luck. lol
Great observation
Yoooo, great work! 👊
4th house stellium (Sun/mercury Sag; Pluto/mars Scorpio) I basically grew up in a war zone. 1.5yrs ago I moved away from my family to Cali (your 4th house sun video encouraged this btw) and it was the best decision I ever made. Definitely have to give all the love and nurturing I never had. Thanks for this
I'm soo happy to hear that. More power to you!
Thanks for this video it’s very informative and accurate
My son has pluto in the 4th house in Sagittarius 😢 Moon in 9th house in Taurus. Sun in the 11th house in cancer . What does it mean?
My son is Libra rising Capricorn in 4 th house either Jupiter Saturn and Pluto ! I am very worried about this, am I not going to be a good mother for him? !
I want to add that I absolutely have no addictions and he is not from affairs the only thing is that he was born during Covid
Pluto will be transiting my 4th house when it goes in to the sign of aqua in 2024. I have pluto on my asc also. Not gonna lie I'm really scared about this pluto transit.
I understand but remember knowledge is power so being in the know now should empower and prepare you for what's to come
@Ana Sofía Torres how are you holding up? I have pluto in scorpio too
I think thing changes when Jupiter is together conjunct pluto in the 4th house. The parents is so doting and loving towards the baby, always reading bedtime stories and running to the baby on the first cry.
Nope. I have Jupiter there as well and it didn't change anything
@@HoneyBeeBee is your Jupiter far from the IC?
I know someone who both has their Pluto in the 4th and their Moon in the 8th. Also their North Node is in the 2nd. Everything is connected.
Amazing video!! 👍
my son never met his dad and he will be adopted by my fiance.
My boyfriend has this placement with his Scorpio moon and Chiron falling in his 4th house. but his moon is not negatively aspected, it’s actually well aspected. would this still be the same case ?
Thank you 🌌💫
My moon is 8H Pisces 👀
Pluto 4H Scorpio mom is a Scorpio. Leo rising. She’s definitely on my descendant too.
I’m Definitely a tomboy.
Do I need to book you for a natal chart reading? 😩
I have this conjunct my south node. Many people in my life have their Mars right on my Pluto and SN
How was your childhood like?
@@Lotus4271 Poverty, psychological trauma & unavailable parents. Parents never married. Father had drug problems. Had 3 father figures in and out of my life before the age of 5. Grandparents played a big role in my life for better or worse. So... it wasn’t the best lol.
@@elysian5599 ah ok man I'm so sorry:( that sounds really rough. I am wondering because I have this exact placement sitting on my ic. Family issues I have had failed friendships, abuse, trauma, conflict with authority, and I got sick from lyme disease at the age of 17 which is from the depths of hell and I had to drop out of high school and lost a year of my life lying in bed without any friends and am now trying to finish my classes.fun life:(
@@Lotus4271 I think it’s a really rough placement to have. I know most of my life I’ve been stuck at home whether i like it or not. I’ve been riddle with illnesses throughout my life, as well.
@@elysian5599 same, so that means you have nn in tenth house like me? How has your career turned out? Have you managed to gain reputation for yourself? I have a saturn north node jupiter conjuction in my tenth house so I'm hoping that compensates for the past 18 years 😅
You mentioned how if the sun is in the 8th or 12th house that it can come from the father as well, what if my dads sun sign falls into my 4th house? Both parents actually
What if Pluto in the 4th with moon, Venus and Uranus all there in Virgo even. Cancer sun with Mercury retrograde and gem rising. My mom and I don't and never had the best relationship. She was definitely not loving or nurturing at all, very overbearing. She is an Aries so was all about her needs all the time. My grandma (Libra) basically raised me and the best role model ever. My biological father (alcoholic Virgo) was near non existent but I had an amazing step dad (Taurus). I was born to her out of wedlock. Yes, to three religious on grandparents side (not parents) and racist. Yes, I broke away from my family to a large extent but my cancer part still associates with them. Just not close since my step dad and grandma passed. I've never been a part of their ways and raised my kids totally different! We are very close. Man you are spot on!!!!