This lady is describing me,I have been doing things like that. But 2 days ago,GOD revealed to me that I have an attitude problem I need to deal with. I will buy that book .GOD BLESS YOU MA'AM
You are describing me. My anger has made me very disrespectful to my husband. I was good to my ex while he treated me badly, but I’m now horrible to the most wonderful man on earth. I must always find fault with everything he does. I’m too critical and loud. I want to change. I’m also tired of my behaviour. God help me! 🙏🏾. I need this book 😢
Keep praying sis, its great that you see how you are... so if you are unable to get rid of the luggage you came to the marriage with by yourself then seek help... you maybe need inner healing and deliverance... God bless you sis
I think the most amazing thing in ministry is when pastors bare their scars. Jesus doesn't call perfect folks. He calls us the way we are and it's for just ONE reason- so we can bring people to Him by showing them how He changed our lives. Any book, I repeat ANY BOOK that contains scars borne open will go a long way; and I sincerely think one of the books to be the most successful in ministry has just been written! Thank you Pas. Eno Jerry for baring your scars. You will always have audience and I'm not praying. It's the result of doing what you have so graciously done!
This was so me! It wasn't what I saw growing up necessarily, but the many failed relationships I had where I got used, and was taken advantage of, and I felt worthless. My husband is a very calm and patient, passionate person...and I really tried him. But I saw a problem when he stopped smiling, and I was bringing tears to his eyes. I knew that I had to change and so my journey has begun. It is better now, but it is ongoing. I thank Yah for His guidance and correction. I thank Yah for my Husband.
Born again is the first work of Grace, the second work of Grace is cleansing of the adamic nature or inherited sin which is called Sanctification. This is where many Christians fails. So we need to pray hard until we are cleansed or sanctified. Note that Born again is like cutting the trunk of a tree while Sanctification is like uprooting the tap root of the tree.
Great interview. I had an issue with the way the present kept interrupting and completing the sentences of the lady she was interviewing. I think it best to just let them speak
I'm not even married but this is totally me 😭😭 and I make excuses for my attitude. Lord I'm making a you turn TODAY! Please help me because I now see how terrible this is.
Trust me, I think it's more me than any one else. Even to the point of slamming doors, bitterness and refusing to back down. Choi! I just realized I have serious attitude problem. Lord break me, heal me, help me please I beg of you
I’m so glad I came across this video... The description of how Eno’s marriage started and the anger/bitterness issues is an exact replica of what was going on in my own marriage... but the interesting thing is my wife brought the video to my attention and I believe for doing so, change has started in our home in Jesus name!! I have ordered the book on Amazon.
I’m very happy this has brought positive change to your home. Thank God for the grace for her to share this . We don’t know who what God asked us to share can help.
My fiance really need this book but the problem is that he doesn't read in English, had it been they have it in Spanish language. He is so quick to anger and disrespectful.
I kept on ignoring this video clip that was popping up on TH-cam partly because of the duration until I decided to listen to it and I was blown away! We need to get this video to have more views and somehow get it into the TH-cam algorithm stream. Storyteller Media, try and make 3 mins clips on the several high points on this video along with captivating captions and a link to the full video. Good one here!
Honestly...I was ignoring it too.. until this morning...I was on Nsppd live and they both said it was their Wedding Anniversary and Pastor Jerry recommended it... that's when I remembered that this video had been popping up... really so grateful to God that I've seen it at last... and I'm really so blessed and comforted by it! Thankyou Pastor Eno for bringing out your realness and sincerity to see and learn from...greater grace and fresher oil for you on every side! Amen 🙏 🙏🙏
I love her honesty and openness. She speaks like a woman that has been broken before God with so much humility. Father Lord, break me , rid of myself, fill me with more of you. Teach me patience and humility. God Bless you for talking about this !
This is really good, I wonder if during marriage counselling couples can be made to undergo personality tests. Churches should be able to do those things to help us better understand who we are before marriage
You can change yourself I don't thing church can change you because lady have in build spirit on them, only God can change that, and men have the same spirit too but we men think we all and all, you no in marriage one of us is hot and one is cold you need to understand that.
My husband and I had personality tests during our marriage counselling before marriage and we were on opposite sides of the spectrum 😄 Kudos to Pastor Eno! Thank you for showing your weaknesses ❤
The word of God is the perfect "personality test". The book of James says the word of God is a mirror..showing us who we are. The word of God says we should mortify the works of the flesh. All these bad characters are the works of the flesh That we all need to deal with. God help us.
Personality tests are worldly constructs made by man that put you in a box and barely give any room for growth. We should seek to define ourselves and a holy institution such as marriage by God Himself not my manmade designs.
I've been praying to God for a change in my attitude since the day I accepted that my attitude was bad. The man im currently in a relationship with was the person who detected my bad attitude. I've been praying and taking conscious steps asking God for help. Today I prayed more on this topic and just this afternoon God answered me with this session....I've been shouting Jesus since because mama Eno you acted exactly like me, if my man sees this interview he will say this is my woman😭😭😭😭😭 I'm rushing to get this book and I believe by getting to see this interview, God has started the journey of changing me. Thank you mama for been the instrument for my change.
Thank God for you Blessing Bill. If I may ask, how has the journey been? I hope you can say that a lot has changed with you between then and now? Just asking from a place of concern. God is with us and He makes all things work together for our good
This was an interesting discuss, so open, honest and vulnerable. Shows there's hope when theres genuine repentance. No one is a lost cause as long as there's genuine contrition. Blessed. God bless you women of God.
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Hello ma, I'd love to make a plea sorta, if we could have a session with Pastor Jerry Eze.....to help those on the receiving end in their marriages and how he was able to deal with this for so long....so we can have a rounded session that helps both the doer and the one recieving.. This will in turn help someone somewhere to be as patient because their trying times will be over sometime soon... We would also like to know how he dealt with hurt, pain etc
Yes ooo! I first read her book several years ago. I heard her about that same time too. My respect for her husband went sky-high, coupled with the fact that he was a pastor, successful in ministry. I mean he was a very bright light in the east on international assignments, and having to deal with this! We urgently, desperately, need to hear Pst Jerry's side- how did he process all of it? how did he deal with it? how did he stay on despite?? From a concerned spouse.
A friend passed me Pastor Jerry's message as a guest speaker at The Elevation Church ( i don't attend TEC anyway) He scratched the surface to confirm what Ps Eno is saying, and spoke about his own side, which is what is being requested here. You can ask and get the message at the Elevation church.
In my opinion, I believe a lot of our relationships need professional counseling for both individuals and couples not just church counseling alone. Also, this should be done before and after marriage.
I completely agree with you. My fiance and I are currently in counseling. We started prior to the engagement and we will continue after the marriage. What counseling has taught us are truly deep. Root issues in our courtship, that can easily transfer into the marriage and eventually lead to divorce. I implore singles and engaged couples to go to therapy before saying "I Do". We need to fight for FOREVER again. There are too many divorces out here and we're in the place to stop divorce. Premarital counseling at church is not enough. That's the prescription. Therapy calls out your flaws and behaviors that may potentially harm the marriage in the future and it focuses you to change for you and also for the marriage
This conversation is very raw, and comes from a place of sincerity, maturity and understanding. This is really what marriages actually need. I wouldn’t mind working with you, ma. We share a lot in common.
Women should also research PREMENSTRUAL SYNDROME. The level of hormones in your body before your period can negatively affect your mood, anger management etc. I control mine through prayer (spiritual) and multivitamins with B vitamins (practical). I take these about 1 week leading to my period (well woman multivitamin) and during the duration of my period.
As a teenager who is just coming into puberty, PMS and the attendant anger cum bad attitude can be excused but as for someone who has been experiencing this for a while, you must master the act of controlling anger/bad attitude resulting from PMS. Personally, as a teenager, the first thing i worked on when i came into puberty was the mood swings. I became very intentional about it and after a few months practice, i perfected it and i have gotten to the point where i don't have to even try. My body already knows not to go into any foul mood when i am expecting or on my period. In summary, what i am saying is this, self awareness is key. When we are self aware, we can train our bodies and hormones to whatever we want them to be. If it becomes difficult, the Holy Spirit is available to help.
Listening to this just made me realize that all these issues are what I have. Hence forth I will continuously take a drastic steps to change in the place of prayer and practically live right. Thank you PAstor Eno
The interview is very interesting, but please stop interrupting the guest speaker every now and then; allow the speaker to finish expressing his or her speech. At times it seems as if you are putting words in the guest mouth
Pastor Eno, you really nailed it. You said the truth and nothing but the truth. Please, how can I get some copies for my children and other children that I know.
🤔Yes I observed that too. I also felt some of her remarks were a bit condescending like the way she interjected here and the comment she made 22:57 The host is okay but she can be much better if she improves on that 😊 Pst Eno, this is very bold of you opening up like this. No one is a saint but the way this came across was like you were the villain in the movie. I also know Pst Jerry is human like he rightly admitted so there might have been some things which transpired that triggered you. Maybe we should hear his side of the tale. Would love a book about your marriage from his perspective 😊
The marriage survived and was restored because there was one party who was mature, rock solid despite being on the receiving end and interceding ie the husband (Pastor Jerry) without him seeking the face of God during those difficult moments I bet it would have gone wrong because he too is human and no one has an endless reservoir of patience and endurance. At some time we all reach our breaking point because you cannot really change anybody. Thank you so much Pastor Jerry for standing your ground and you did the right thing in a very uncomfortable situation and thank you too Pastor Eno for sharing your life experience and being this open and honest. When you admire people's happiness and heaven in their marriages, please check their journey and listen to their stories... 👀.. 👀.. 👀
if bad attitudes can tear, then the good ones can build.' 🤔 Such a sweet lady btw.. her smiles r so heartwarming. Love, regards & best wishes💕💟 Thanks for hosting her
Honestly I've always admired her smiles. She practically glows! Thot all was heavenly in her marriage and now this...! Great discovery for me...the story behind the glory... Pastor Jerry and Pastor Eno, I appreciate you both even more.. thankyou so much!
This was so me. By Gods grace I'm a better person. Anger, bitterness, lack of forgiveness and pride got the better of me. One day I will tell my story to change lives
Haha I love this woman even more! Thank you for your transparency! God bless you. I myself, needed to work on my anger before entering ministry. It’s a silence sin, we can easily ignore. God bless you for opening many eyes. God bless you. 🙏🏽❤️
pls Pastor Eno needs to tour with the book, am begging, just listening to this interview, hmmm, I'm sure she knows stuff. I'm really begggggggin and crying, pls ma.
Look at the Fraudsters giving thumbs up to their fake and scammed prophecy. You thieves and imposters. You refuse to change,and God will continue to expose you
Dis is just my husband everytin gets him angry, I try my best helping Sha most times I divert his attention wen he is angry I pray he changes soon I trust God
Wow! This has been coming up on my timeline and I’ve been ignoring it. Thank God I decided to watch. I’m single, but have desire for marriage, and this has really opened my eyes for when the time comes. Praise God for this interview
The interviewer is managing time pls understand, you can't get it all here...its a preview of a book...so do the effort to get it. The 67 people who dislike... Ur the problems in ur relationships
Interesting..quite frankly it is during this post lockdown I "discovered" this wonderful woman of God and Pastor Jerry Eze and their ministries..It's a wonder how the Lord is "introducing" new faces in our generation ( at least to some of us in other parts of Nigeria). From this conversation, it seems this book can also apply to those who are about to get married and singles ..even relationship with close friends and siblings that live together in the same space..
Premarital counseling may not be enough to solidify a marriage. My fiance and I are currently in therapy. We started prior to the engagement and we will continue after the marriage. What therapy has taught us are truly deep. Root issues in our courtship that can easily transfer into the marriage and eventually lead to divorce. I implore singles and engaged couples to go to therapy before saying "I Do". We need to fight for FOREVER again. There are too many divorces out here and we're in the place to stop divorce. Premarital counseling at church is not enough. That's the prescription. Therapy calls out your flaws and behaviors that may potentially harm the marriage in the future and it forces you to change for you and also for the marriage
I have same anger issues,but my fiancee is just God sent and by the grace of God I have been able to work on it. God bless you, Pastor Eno and your beloved husband, Pastor Jerry
What a testimony. Thanks for sharing Ps Eno. You look so beautiful, anger doesn't befit your face. Thank God for the work of restoration in your life. To God be the Glory!
Exactly my experience so far in marriage. The mental abuse has been enormous. I believe I will heal from the horrific experience. Just seeing this video though. ✡
Fantastic lesson! Thank you for this. What happens when both people are angry people? What happens when your partner is even more ferocious than you and won't accept their issues then turns it all against you. I'm happy for Pastor Eno and I pray it remains peaceful, respectful and loving in her home in Jesus mighty name.
I'm glad this is coming from a woman. This ruined my relationship with the woman I love so much. Unfortunately I couldn't wait for change but I'm genuinely happy that the guy she married is a very good and patient person. I know she will get better with time.
I had an attitude problem.am saying I had coz am working on it & I trust God that he delivered me. I mistreated my fiance & harassed him with long messages,accused him of all sorts of things. I went in prayers (am.a Christian mind you,bit my ATTITUDE was so.EVIL). GOD revealed my heart & am working on it.. I have anger issues,unforgiveness,bitterness,rejection,all of it...and all these came by staying with my mom for 15 years,who was angry coz my Dad left her & put the blame on me.that resulted in that person I became. Pray for me brethren for GOD'S love to touch my heart.....What his lady is talking about is exactly what I went through. Got born again younger; attended true love wait meetings & marriage seminars & I told myself that I will not be like my mother, oh my,this is so true. I will buy her book,I hope it's on amazon
My Wife has the same challenges, she has left me, every time I try correcting her, she justifies her actions and behavior, her friends continue to validate her weaknesses, she has not recognized that she has a problem and it emanates from her past. I pray everyday that God opens her eyes to see the truth, because right now I am like an enemy to her, she has a lot of bitterness and unforgiveness, and she believes in vindicating herself and she is a Christian. I will be still and let God do His work, HE KNOWS THE END BEFORE THE BEGINNING OF ANYTHING, that He allows to come into existence, the end of it has already been determined. I'm praying for you my Sister that God heals you and continue to lead you for his purposes, and I am happy that you have seen the light and you are working on your issues, and I pray that your Fiancé be patient. I'll buy and courier this book to my Wife.
This is alot of women,Both married and single, But majority of married women are like this. Always Nagging and ready to disrespect her husband at the slightest opportunity, Once women have children, we tend to begin use the children also as a weapon against him. God help us all o. Make your home habitable and A safe haven.
I feel like give a huge hug to each of you women. Pastor Eno, thanks a lot for sharing your own experience. I truly can see myself in your story. And for the host, you truly know your job. You asked the right questions and you were able to navigate through the entire interview. May God bless you both. NSPPD all the way.
Wow! This is a timely healing for me, at the time I read this book it was a trying moment and mine was assumption but after reading this book I made a deliberate U-turn and that was it. Thank You Pastor Eno
Hi pastor please because if someone talk Orphanage’s children’s must not complying to to it that is not you were saying that this morning service please confirm sir for pay my seed sir or offering
Very needed interview, ma you have blessed me. I have same issues and I have lost a lot of friends and relationship. Am always sad and angry. Infact my current partner is already noticing my anger. I will definitely purchase your book. The interviewer did an amazing job
A message to the interviewer from a new viewer: I really love your dynamism and how invoved u are and all but please allow the guest to speak, please do not interrupt the guest and please please do not finish her sentences. I know ur trying to stay involved and its really great but its very disturbing for the listners. When u interupt the guest and finish their sentences, their thought process is interrupted and we see it in her speech. Sometimes she ends her sentence abruptly. I see that a lot of people mentioned this in the comment section. We're not trying to bash u or anything. On the contrary i really like youu and ur energy . Im just not able to enjoy the convo as much if theres constant interruptions. So please take note for ur future interviews That aside: this was a greatt discussion. Really love and learned a lot. Im neww to the chanel and im already liking it.
But I didn't notice it. In fact, I love the two women. Both are knowledgeable. I actually think the interviewer is good at her job. Unlike one that I watched, the interviewer practically asked and answered all questions herself, without giving the guest the least opportunity to say something. It was so disgusting. You could read every comments talking about it there?
@@adaobianazodo3730 hi Adaobi, am sure all these people mean well. The content is good. Like you said both the host & guest are great knowledgeable it’s just that at times positive criticism makes one get better. Have a good one
Beautiful message. I definitely used to have anger issues and my family and people that loved me knew about me and kept trying to help me but the anger won't just let me. By the Grace of God, I am at a better place and getting and progressing and I am really proud of the woman I'm becoming. Please how do we purchase the book? God bless you.
This is very helpful and relatable. I am trying to download the book. Welldone to both of you. It's shocking we have these issues despite being born again. Don't give up on changing yourself for good. Thank you for sharing ✅ 😊
I really agree with the fact that your relationship with God gets improved upon when your spouse is always putting you through tough periods. If you know how to use the period
GOD bless you but not just for women alone, some men have hot temper too. My fiance have a hot temper and his parents know, i control myself more than my fiance, he is too quick to anger even with common plate and opening a fridge. You always year him talking and getting angry maybe he mistakenly take a spoon instead of a plate.
One thing you said that caught my attention is : pride, anger comes to your mind immediately you sense someone taking down on you, knowing how much you think he should have treated you well and spoken to you nicely. And you said let it come to your mind that they can talk to you anyhow, and you will not be disturbed I tell you that is the height of which we should behave, no amount of bouncing back on that person can make us wonderful We should really control our anger and pride
I love the great work being done through Chapters. God bless the team. I'm also glad to have met with Mrs Eno Jerry through this. I love how she speaks and I'm delighted that this book resulted from the experience. God bless you all
Wow , this is just on point God bless you pastor ENO . You are all welcome to NSPPD Monday to Friday 7AM Nigeria Time what God can not do doesn’t exist.
Indeed what God can not do does not exist. The devil knew the deliverance God is bringing forth through NSPPD that's why he wanted to cause this hitch. But he came too late. God bless you mama Eno Jerry
Wow! Such an awesome time...was worth listening to. God bless you Pst Eno for not holding back so that we all can look inwards and work on our faults without using spirituality to cover up our inadequacies and character flaws. I love you Ma'am. God bless the host too. More grace Ma'am.
The way I overcame was that when the Holy Spirit revealed to me that my anger issues could destroy my life and I didn't know how to get rid of it or work on it, I surrendered the anger. I surrendered it and kept asking the Holy Spirit about why I was getting angry and I allowed God show me those things without being defensive. One of the things God showed me was that I wanted things to go my way... I spent time in prayer whenever I remember the issues. One day, I woke up and I felt very light and free and then I realised God had taken something away from my subconscious and that thing was PAIN. So many of us are carrying pain in our hearts and we're wounded and that's affecting the way we're reacting to people and to situations but God wants to heal us if we will spend time with him in conversation.
This is just as if you're talking about my present marriage.I will follow all what you did to conquer your anger, may the Lord give me victory in the end.
Beautiful thank you for your transparency and honesty. It takes a strong person to admit their flaws and their faults then put them down in a book. Thank you for sharing and allowing us to learn. Im Buying your book now; Im not married yet: but, it is a few things you mention I could change. May God continue to bless you 😘 🇺🇸
You have just spoken about me and probably the reason I am not married yet. God help me .Pastor Eno is even lucky Pastor Jerry Married her me i need this change ASAP. Thank you so very much Pastor Eno for sharing your experience grow old with your husband in Jesus Mighty name 🙏
I had watched a clipse of this episode a while ago but my sister sent this to me this morning . I decided to watch the full episode! Waow! What a blessing this conversation was to me. Thank you Pastor Eno Jerry for your transparency and giving hope to me. Thank you Pastor Toyin for sourcing this book and author. I am truly blessed.
Please forgive her 🙏🏽..i do the same in real life (trying to finish people sentence 😬)...and seing it on screen now, just made me realize that it’s such a bad habit 😬😰
Pastor Eno, everything about you is so sincere. I love how comfortable you are in sharing your past mistakes and how God has transformed you. Intentional pursuit to save your marriage is commendable. Your vulnerability is amazing. Great lessons God bless you
To think I've been missing alot not clicking the watch button for the past few months I've been seeing this video pop up is amazing to me, I enjoyed every bit of this interview and I can't wait to read the book itself. God bless you women of God 🙌
Wow! This is exactly me right now. I never knew I was like this, until my home was on the verge of collapsing. Pastor Eno, you are so right about the anger issues which leads to bitterness. In fact I see myself as a perfect wife, and ignoring my weaknesses and focusing on my husband's weakness. I thank God for this eye opening and thank you pastor Eno, for coming out to tell the truth. Right now I am on a journey of making things right.
My name is Roxanne i am married a me an my husband are believers of Christ and i must say paster eno i am doing all are most of what you did .and my husband is a humble man i must say thank you once again for sharing this book cause this is an big impact in my relationship with my family i must say all this stop right now . may god continues to bless you as you send messages to bless other families love you
Jesus, Pastor Eno, youre just a BLESSING.. God has kept you and your relationship for such a time like this. When so many homes are going through issues, I have posted your video to a few people to also be blessed as I have been blessed by this revelation.. And for you Chapters,.. That word. It's not a just about what we know. But what we do with what we know. You're a gift to the world. God bless you richly. And bless our homes with more wisdom, revelations and purpose in Jesus mighty name.
Wow! This message was very timely for me. I've had one or two issues with hubby basically on attitudinal issues, and I bless God for making me see this message. Thanks Pastor Eno for being so real and allowing God use your past weakness to strengthen so many of us. God bless you!
This title got my attention after I woke up. I didn’t even realize it was Pastor Jerry. Thank you for this video and I will get this book for myself. Maybe it was God wanted me to see this. I am a recent divorce wife of 17yrs of marriage, God had to bring me to a place also to take a deep inner look at myself. I never had the right counseling but it is the Holy Spirit counseling me.
Thank you, Pastor Eno.... Such an honest, brave and bare it all conversation that our society hates hearing.... I thank you for obeying God.... Im really blessed. May the Lord continue to strengthen your home and grant you grace all the way in Jesus name. Amen
Wow...I need to read this book! But what happens when both couples are hot headed and the woman is seriously struggling to step low to make the marriage work?
I cannot explain how it is good to hear your testimony. Because marriage can be hard and hurtful when you don't know what you are doing is wrong. And it's more hurtful when your spouse corrects you without a solution because they don't understand or maybe they are going through a change process as well. But don't give up you have to pray and do the research as if your life depended on it. Find out what are you doing wrong and change it. The change process is challenging but stay focused on being a excellent wife and to maintain the change. She is right it comes with understanding and knowing God. If you allow yourself to grow spiritually during the change and research of it the growth will be so powerful. Pray , fast , research. And you will find that not only are you a excellent wife now , you are also closer to God and spiritually mature. You might not understand at the time but God knows you and loves you. It might be painful but your end result will be joyful. Im sharing this testimony with you because God has been so good to me and I myself also had to overcome this challenge. But we made it and my marriage is better than it has ever been. God did not give up on me and I did not give up on my husband. Praise God. May God bless you and your marriage for sharing a part of your life and testimony with us @Enojerry.
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This lady is describing me,I have been doing things like that. But 2 days ago,GOD revealed to me that I have an attitude problem I need to deal with. I will buy that book .GOD BLESS YOU MA'AM
This is very educative.
You are describing me. My anger has made me very disrespectful to my husband. I was good to my ex while he treated me badly, but I’m now horrible to the most wonderful man on earth. I must always find fault with everything he does. I’m too critical and loud. I want to change. I’m also tired of my behaviour. God help me! 🙏🏾. I need this book 😢
You can check her Website enojerry.com or go to the description to order from Amazon. It is well with you. Thank you for watching.
Real issues
Simply me, but thanks to God, he is now making me appreciate the good man he gave me
Keep praying sis, its great that you see how you are... so if you are unable to get rid of the luggage you came to the marriage with by yourself then seek help... you maybe need inner healing and deliverance... God bless you sis
Takes a lot of courage and brokeness to admit to this. I pray for you sister. You will helped
I think the most amazing thing in ministry is when pastors bare their scars. Jesus doesn't call perfect folks. He calls us the way we are and it's for just ONE reason- so we can bring people to Him by showing them how He changed our lives. Any book, I repeat ANY BOOK that contains scars borne open will go a long way; and I sincerely think one of the books to be the most successful in ministry has just been written! Thank you Pas. Eno Jerry for baring your scars. You will always have audience and I'm not praying. It's the result of doing what you have so graciously done!
You are right. Another good author is Joyce Meyer
TRUTH!!! Well said Bro.
I totally agree with you
This is so good
Well said
God is on a mission to heal and save marriages through this book. God bless you Pastor Eno
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This was so me! It wasn't what I saw growing up necessarily, but the many failed relationships I had where I got used, and was taken advantage of, and I felt worthless. My husband is a very calm and patient, passionate person...and I really tried him. But I saw a problem when he stopped smiling, and I was bringing tears to his eyes. I knew that I had to change and so my journey has begun. It is better now, but it is ongoing. I thank Yah for His guidance and correction. I thank Yah for my Husband.
Failed relationships i was devoted to and got hurt, ruined my temper too😥
Born again is the first work of Grace, the second work of Grace is cleansing of the adamic nature or inherited sin which is called Sanctification. This is where many Christians fails. So we need to pray hard until we are cleansed or sanctified. Note that Born again is like cutting the trunk of a tree while Sanctification is like uprooting the tap root of the tree.
"The fact that society validates your weakness doesn't mean your weakness is right"
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
She’s amazing. Anger can be controlled and this can be helpful for single persons as well.
Great interview. I had an issue with the way the present kept interrupting and completing the sentences of the lady she was interviewing. I think it best to just let them speak
I'm not even married but this is totally me 😭😭 and I make excuses for my attitude. Lord I'm making a you turn TODAY! Please help me because I now see how terrible this is.
Trust me, I think it's more me than any one else. Even to the point of slamming doors, bitterness and refusing to back down. Choi! I just realized I have serious attitude problem. Lord break me, heal me, help me please I beg of you
I’m so glad I came across this video... The description of how Eno’s marriage started and the anger/bitterness issues is an exact replica of what was going on in my own marriage... but the interesting thing is my wife brought the video to my attention and I believe for doing so, change has started in our home in Jesus name!! I have ordered the book on Amazon.
Amennn
I’m very happy this has brought positive change to your home. Thank God for the grace for her to share this . We don’t know who what God asked us to share can help.
My fiance really need this book but the problem is that he doesn't read in English, had it been they have it in Spanish language. He is so quick to anger and disrespectful.
Oh and
I kept on ignoring this video clip that was popping up on TH-cam partly because of the duration until I decided to listen to it and I was blown away! We need to get this video to have more views and somehow get it into the TH-cam algorithm stream. Storyteller Media, try and make 3 mins clips on the several high points on this video along with captivating captions and a link to the full video. Good one here!
Honestly...I was ignoring it too.. until this morning...I was on Nsppd live and they both said it was their Wedding Anniversary and Pastor Jerry recommended it... that's when I remembered that this video had been popping up... really so grateful to God that I've seen it at last... and I'm really so blessed and comforted by it! Thankyou Pastor Eno for bringing out your realness and sincerity to see and learn from...greater grace and fresher oil for you on every side! Amen 🙏 🙏🙏
I did this too 🥴 and I have some attitudes I need to work on 😑
@@chiomaobinna9878 me too oo
@@chiomaobinna9878 me too o
I love her honesty and openness. She speaks like a woman that has been broken before God with so much humility. Father Lord, break me , rid of myself, fill me with more of you. Teach me patience and humility. God Bless you for talking about this !
I agree
Amen to this prayer sis. I am praying same too for myself
Yes she is
Amen to your prayers
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Vulnerability is always attractive. Thanks for sharing this and being open,Pastor Eno
This is really good, I wonder if during marriage counselling couples can be made to undergo personality tests. Churches should be able to do those things to help us better understand who we are before marriage
You can change yourself I don't thing church can change you because lady have in build spirit on them, only God can change that, and men have the same spirit too but we men think we all and all, you no in marriage one of us is hot and one is cold you need to understand that.
My husband and I had personality tests during our marriage counselling before marriage and we were on opposite sides of the spectrum 😄
Kudos to Pastor Eno! Thank you for showing your weaknesses ❤
The word of God is the perfect "personality test". The book of James says the word of God is a mirror..showing us who we are. The word of God says we should mortify the works of the flesh. All these bad characters are the works of the flesh That we all need to deal with. God help us.
Personality tests are worldly constructs made by man that put you in a box and barely give any room for growth. We should seek to define ourselves and a holy institution such as marriage by God Himself not my manmade designs.
Yeah very truth, but then they need to go deeper in to studying n prayer to help telling them the truth
I've been praying to God for a change in my attitude since the day I accepted that my attitude was bad. The man im currently in a relationship with was the person who detected my bad attitude. I've been praying and taking conscious steps asking God for help. Today I prayed more on this topic and just this afternoon God answered me with this session....I've been shouting Jesus since because mama Eno you acted exactly like me, if my man sees this interview he will say this is my woman😭😭😭😭😭 I'm rushing to get this book and I believe by getting to see this interview, God has started the journey of changing me. Thank you mama for been the instrument for my change.
Thank God for you Blessing Bill. If I may ask, how has the journey been?
I hope you can say that a lot has changed with you between then and now?
Just asking from a place of concern.
God is with us and He makes all things work together for our good
This was an interesting discuss, so open, honest and vulnerable. Shows there's hope when theres genuine repentance. No one is a lost cause as long as there's genuine contrition. Blessed. God bless you women of God.
Very enlightening. Thanks you Pastor Eno for sharing this. I was truly blessed.
This video should be played in every marriage counselling class. I love Pastor Eno for her honesty
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Hello ma, I'd love to make a plea sorta, if we could have a session with Pastor Jerry Eze.....to help those on the receiving end in their marriages and how he was able to deal with this for so long....so we can have a rounded session that helps both the doer and the one recieving..
This will in turn help someone somewhere to be as patient because their trying times will be over sometime soon...
We would also like to know how he dealt with hurt, pain etc
Hello, your comment has been noted. Thank you.
This is really necessary. Please make it happen please!!👏🏼 thank you.
Yes ooo! I first read her book several years ago. I heard her about that same time too. My respect for her husband went sky-high, coupled with the fact that he was a pastor, successful in ministry. I mean he was a very bright light in the east on international assignments, and having to deal with this! We urgently, desperately, need to hear Pst Jerry's side- how did he process all of it? how did he deal with it? how did he stay on despite??
From a concerned spouse.
This is very true, because this patient waiting we are talking about may take as long as over 40 years. Yes
A friend passed me Pastor Jerry's message as a guest speaker at The Elevation Church ( i don't attend TEC anyway) He scratched the surface to confirm what Ps Eno is saying, and spoke about his own side, which is what is being requested here. You can ask and get the message at the Elevation church.
In my opinion, I believe a lot of our relationships need professional counseling for both individuals and couples not just church counseling alone. Also, this should be done before and after marriage.
I completely agree with you. My fiance and I are currently in counseling. We started prior to the engagement and we will continue after the marriage. What counseling has taught us are truly deep. Root issues in our courtship, that can easily transfer into the marriage and eventually lead to divorce. I implore singles and engaged couples to go to therapy before saying "I Do". We need to fight for FOREVER again. There are too many divorces out here and we're in the place to stop divorce. Premarital counseling at church is not enough. That's the prescription. Therapy calls out your flaws and behaviors that may potentially harm the marriage in the future and it focuses you to change for you and also for the marriage
Totally agree with this. Church counseling is not enough at all, relationships also need professional counseling even during marriage.
This conversation is very raw, and comes from a place of sincerity, maturity and understanding. This is really what marriages actually need. I wouldn’t mind working with you, ma. We share a lot in common.
Women should also research PREMENSTRUAL SYNDROME. The level of hormones in your body before your period can negatively affect your mood, anger management etc.
I control mine through prayer (spiritual) and multivitamins with B vitamins (practical). I take these about 1 week leading to my period (well woman multivitamin) and during the duration of my period.
yes Vit B12
This is me, it bothers me so much that I’m thinking of seeing a doctor. My PMS is something else. I’ll try the vitamins. I noticed exercising helps.
God bless you, you are very correct
As a teenager who is just coming into puberty, PMS and the attendant anger cum bad attitude can be excused but as for someone who has been experiencing this for a while, you must master the act of controlling anger/bad attitude resulting from PMS.
Personally, as a teenager, the first thing i worked on when i came into puberty was the mood swings. I became very intentional about it and after a few months practice, i perfected it and i have gotten to the point where i don't have to even try. My body already knows not to go into any foul mood when i am expecting or on my period.
In summary, what i am saying is this, self awareness is key. When we are self aware, we can train our bodies and hormones to whatever we want them to be. If it becomes difficult, the Holy Spirit is available to help.
@@adedolapo_sun my husband said it helps
Hmm, "The fact that society validates your weakness doesn't mean your weakness is right" #word.
Apt👌
Yessss! It struck me too. I jotted it down!
Listening to this just made me realize that all these issues are what I have. Hence forth I will continuously take a drastic steps to change in the place of prayer and practically live right. Thank you PAstor Eno
@@prophetjeremiahomotofufeyi5214 Scammer stop scamming people
The interview is very interesting, but please stop interrupting the guest speaker every now and then; allow the speaker to finish expressing his or her speech. At times it seems as if you are putting words in the guest mouth
I said the same think 🤔so anoying
Yeah! It was soooooo annoying, I screamed “LET HER TALK!!!”😂😂😂😂
Pastor Eno, you really nailed it. You said the truth and nothing but the truth. Please, how can I get some copies for my children and other children that I know.
I see no problem with that though. I loved the interview. Toyin P was perfect.
🤔Yes I observed that too. I also felt some of her remarks were a bit condescending like the way she interjected here and the comment she made 22:57
The host is okay but she can be much better if she improves on that 😊
Pst Eno, this is very bold of you opening up like this. No one is a saint but the way this came across was like you were the villain in the movie. I also know Pst Jerry is human like he rightly admitted so there might have been some things which transpired that triggered you. Maybe we should hear his side of the tale. Would love a book about your marriage from his perspective 😊
The marriage survived and was restored because there was one party who was mature, rock solid despite being on the receiving end and interceding ie the husband (Pastor Jerry) without him seeking the face of God during those difficult moments I bet it would have gone wrong because he too is human and no one has an endless reservoir of patience and endurance. At some time we all reach our breaking point because you cannot really change anybody. Thank you so much Pastor Jerry for standing your ground and you did the right thing in a very uncomfortable situation and thank you too Pastor Eno for sharing your life experience and being this open and honest. When you admire people's happiness and heaven in their marriages, please check their journey and listen to their stories... 👀.. 👀.. 👀
if bad attitudes can tear, then the good ones can build.' 🤔
Such a sweet lady btw.. her smiles r so heartwarming.
Love, regards & best wishes💕💟
Thanks for hosting her
Honestly I've always admired her smiles. She practically glows! Thot all was heavenly in her marriage and now this...! Great discovery for me...the story behind the glory... Pastor Jerry and Pastor Eno, I appreciate you both even more.. thankyou so much!
The interviewer should let her say what's in her heart and stop putting words in her mouth.
Thank you o..very distracting and annoying
I noticed that too.
This was so me. By Gods grace I'm a better person. Anger, bitterness, lack of forgiveness and pride got the better of me. One day I will tell my story to change lives
pls share your story ooo your testimony is. needed
Haha I love this woman even more! Thank you for your transparency! God bless you. I myself, needed to work on my anger before entering ministry. It’s a silence sin, we can easily ignore. God bless you for opening many eyes. God bless you. 🙏🏽❤️
pls Pastor Eno needs to tour with the book, am begging, just listening to this interview, hmmm, I'm sure she knows stuff. I'm really begggggggin and crying, pls ma.
Look at the Fraudsters giving thumbs up to their fake and scammed prophecy. You thieves and imposters. You refuse to change,and God will continue to expose you
My thots exactly...!
But hey..as the Spirit leads her...it was God's idea in the first place.
No matter how worst you think you are, you can still change and be a better person.
By the help of God and and willingness to change.
As an nsppd fan, I immediately jumped on this!
Dis is just my husband everytin gets him angry, I try my best helping Sha most times I divert his attention wen he is angry I pray he changes soon I trust God
Pastor Eno, your book should be read by all! This topic no be for marriage alone o...every kind relationship!
Absolutely mind blowing, I am unlearning, relearning and applying what I have learned into how i relate in general. Thank you pastor Eno
Exactly my opinion
True💯
Yes, I agree 💯 % .. I’m currently reading the book and see multiple applications of her insights and points shared.
Amazing. So real. Satan is already defeated. When we have the Holy Spirit, we make the choice to listen🙌🏾
Wow! This has been coming up on my timeline and I’ve been ignoring it. Thank God I decided to watch. I’m single, but have desire for marriage, and this has really opened my eyes for when the time comes. Praise God for this interview
we tend to ignore the things we need....I'm the same, but thank God we are here.
Me too!!😭😭
Me too -a friend sent it to me then it came on my timeline- God is working on me
The interviewer is managing time pls understand, you can't get it all here...its a preview of a book...so do the effort to get it. The 67 people who dislike... Ur the problems in ur relationships
Exactly! I didn't see any faith with the interviewer. I actually think she did a great job. I love the two women.
I recently realize d I find it difficult to forgive. I really need help
Interesting..quite frankly it is during this post lockdown I "discovered" this wonderful woman of God and Pastor Jerry Eze and their ministries..It's a wonder how the Lord is "introducing" new faces in our generation ( at least to some of us in other parts of Nigeria). From this conversation, it seems this book can also apply to those who are about to get married and singles ..even relationship with close friends and siblings that live together in the same space..
Yes. I’m really using this for my relationship with my sister
Premarital counseling may not be enough to solidify a marriage. My fiance and I are currently in therapy. We started prior to the engagement and we will continue after the marriage. What therapy has taught us are truly deep. Root issues in our courtship that can easily transfer into the marriage and eventually lead to divorce. I implore singles and engaged couples to go to therapy before saying "I Do". We need to fight for FOREVER again. There are too many divorces out here and we're in the place to stop divorce. Premarital counseling at church is not enough. That's the prescription. Therapy calls out your flaws and behaviors that may potentially harm the marriage in the future and it forces you to change for you and also for the marriage
I have same anger issues,but my fiancee is just God sent and by the grace of God I have been able to work on it. God bless you, Pastor Eno and your beloved husband, Pastor Jerry
What a testimony. Thanks for sharing Ps Eno. You look so beautiful, anger doesn't befit your face. Thank God for the work of restoration in your life. To God be the Glory!
Yah, I can’t even imagine her being angry. Truly God can change people
Exactly my experience so far in marriage.
The mental abuse has been enormous.
I believe I will heal from the horrific experience.
Just seeing this video though. ✡
Fantastic lesson! Thank you for this. What happens when both people are angry people? What happens when your partner is even more ferocious than you and won't accept their issues then turns it all against you. I'm happy for Pastor Eno and I pray it remains peaceful, respectful and loving in her home in Jesus mighty name.
I'm glad this is coming from a woman. This ruined my relationship with the woman I love so much. Unfortunately I couldn't wait for change but I'm genuinely happy that the guy she married is a very good and patient person. I know she will get better with time.
I will like to get the book, every woman needs to hear this woman's testimony she has really encountered Christ.
Thank God for her husband
Every human not just women.
Behaviour change begins with acceptance of character weakness and wrong doing. Knowledge is indeed power, thank you Pastor Eno for sharing this.
What a humble woman of God. Transparency & vulnerability is beautiful once you're healed from the situation. God bless you First Lady 💯🕊️💐🥰❤️
Sorry works for me if it’s genuine. And you can always tell when it’s genuine
😀😀😀, very interesting. Pastor was really a patient man of God.
Anyone can say what they like about me. Anger and bitterness shall no longer be my resolve. My ego just calm down.🤲 #thank you
Hi how are you
Indeed his grace is sufficient in our weaknesses. He is a merciful God, And a God that is willing to help
I had an attitude problem.am saying I had coz am working on it & I trust God that he delivered me. I mistreated my fiance & harassed him with long messages,accused him of all sorts of things. I went in prayers (am.a Christian mind you,bit my ATTITUDE was so.EVIL). GOD revealed my heart & am working on it.. I have anger issues,unforgiveness,bitterness,rejection,all of it...and all these came by staying with my mom for 15 years,who was angry coz my Dad left her & put the blame on me.that resulted in that person I became. Pray for me brethren for GOD'S love to touch my heart.....What his lady is talking about is exactly what I went through. Got born again younger; attended true love wait meetings & marriage seminars & I told myself that I will not be like my mother, oh my,this is so true. I will buy her book,I hope it's on amazon
GOD will help you sis!
We are all not perfect!
God can do it for you and deliver you from all these things. Please continue to listen to the voice of the Holy Spirit. The Word purifies
My Wife has the same challenges, she has left me, every time I try correcting her, she justifies her actions and behavior, her friends continue to validate her weaknesses, she has not recognized that she has a problem and it emanates from her past. I pray everyday that God opens her eyes to see the truth, because right now I am like an enemy to her, she has a lot of bitterness and unforgiveness, and she believes in vindicating herself and she is a Christian. I will be still and let God do His work, HE KNOWS THE END BEFORE THE BEGINNING OF ANYTHING, that He allows to come into existence, the end of it has already been determined. I'm praying for you my Sister that God heals you and continue to lead you for his purposes, and I am happy that you have seen the light and you are working on your issues, and I pray that your Fiancé be patient. I'll buy and courier this book to my Wife.
This is alot of women,Both married and single, But majority of married women are like this. Always Nagging and ready to disrespect her husband at the slightest opportunity, Once women have children, we tend to begin use the children also as a weapon against him. God help us all o. Make your home habitable and A safe haven.
This is sad.
Amen ooh
I feel like give a huge hug to each of you women. Pastor Eno, thanks a lot for sharing your own experience. I truly can see myself in your story. And for the host, you truly know your job. You asked the right questions and you were able to navigate through the entire interview. May God bless you both. NSPPD all the way.
Keep listening to your inner mind. You will overcome it.
Thank you for watching and for your kind words.
Wow! This is a timely healing for me, at the time I read this book it was a trying moment and mine was assumption but after reading this book I made a deliberate U-turn and that was it. Thank You Pastor Eno
Ok
Glory to Jesus! Praise God for you dear.
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@@christineetaduovie9318 how many times will they tell you they are scammers na? 🙄. Don't pay any money into any orphanage. THEY ARE SCAMMERS!!!
So much light here, thank you Jesus for your word. I receive grace to be a wise woman Amen 🙏
Very needed interview, ma you have blessed me. I have same issues and I have lost a lot of friends and relationship. Am always sad and angry. Infact my current partner is already noticing my anger. I will definitely purchase your book. The interviewer did an amazing job
@@graceforpurposeprayer4885 You see that prayers you are given out ...you need it ...Fraudster 🙄🙄🙄
I just ordered the book and I will be writing my own opinion after reading. Thank you so much for sharing Pastor Eno
How did it go?
This is the most powerful book have ever read, its the story of my life, pastor Eno you should allow me to write part 2
God's transformational power I real...
No matter how shattered and battered a man's life is, God can use that person for His purpose
A message to the interviewer from a new viewer:
I really love your dynamism and how invoved u are and all but please allow the guest to speak, please do not interrupt the guest and please please do not finish her sentences. I know ur trying to stay involved and its really great but its very disturbing for the listners. When u interupt the guest and finish their sentences, their thought process is interrupted and we see it in her speech. Sometimes she ends her sentence abruptly. I see that a lot of people mentioned this in the comment section. We're not trying to bash u or anything. On the contrary i really like youu and ur energy . Im just not able to enjoy the convo as much if theres constant interruptions. So please take note for ur future interviews
That aside: this was a greatt discussion. Really love and learned a lot. Im neww to the chanel and im already liking it.
The interviewer talks too much!!!
@@David-iv4vu forgive her..she’s not a journalist 🙂
Yeah, I noticed too
But I didn't notice it. In fact, I love the two women. Both are knowledgeable. I actually think the interviewer is good at her job.
Unlike one that I watched, the interviewer practically asked and answered all questions herself, without giving the guest the least opportunity to say something. It was so disgusting. You could read every comments talking about it there?
@@adaobianazodo3730 hi Adaobi, am sure all these people mean well. The content is good. Like you said both the host & guest are great knowledgeable it’s just that at times positive criticism makes one get better. Have a good one
A pastor with no scars is the worst kind of pastor there is ..im glad u wrote this book ma
Beautiful message. I definitely used to have anger issues and my family and people that loved me knew about me and kept trying to help me but the anger won't just let me. By the Grace of God, I am at a better place and getting and progressing and I am really proud of the woman I'm becoming. Please how do we purchase the book? God bless you.
There is a link in the bio to purchase the book from Amazon or you can visit her website enojerry.com. Thank you
Great insight. Effective listening, squashing pride, checking little foxes that spoil the vine are just some take home points. Thank you Pastor Eno
This is very helpful and relatable. I am trying to download the book. Welldone to both of you. It's shocking we have these issues despite being born again.
Don't give up on changing yourself for good.
Thank you for sharing ✅ 😊
My God!!! This was impactful!!!! Thank you so much Mamas!! I've been blessed by this.
I really agree with the fact that your relationship with God gets improved upon when your spouse is always putting you through tough periods. If you know how to use the period
When did your eyes begins to open? The 7th year of misery. Thanks to Master JESUS for Divine Intervention
This has imparted as a single lady.... I have a similar attitude!!! God am changing from to day for good .. in Jesus name....Amen
GOD bless you but not just for women alone, some men have hot temper too.
My fiance have a hot temper and his parents know, i control myself more than my fiance, he is too quick to anger even with common plate and opening a fridge. You always year him talking and getting angry maybe he mistakenly take a spoon instead of a plate.
Same here, we shall change because our husband must enjoy peace
Dis was really Educating to watch...she started praying at 16 for a husband and met her husband at 19 got married 5years later! Waoooo
One thing you said that caught my attention is : pride, anger comes to your mind immediately you sense someone taking down on you, knowing how much you think he should have treated you well and spoken to you nicely.
And you said let it come to your mind that they can talk to you anyhow, and you will not be disturbed
I tell you that is the height of which we should behave, no amount of bouncing back on that person can make us wonderful
We should really control our anger and pride
This is my take out too. Not letting things get to me or defining me
The interviewer should just do her job (ask questions) and stop Putting words in the other lady’s mouth.... so unprofessional and annoying
Exactly my point..... mtcheeeew
Thank you..so annoying and distracting😂😂I kept shouting shut up please
Heal ❤️
I love the great work being done through Chapters. God bless the team. I'm also glad to have met with Mrs Eno Jerry through this. I love how she speaks and I'm delighted that this book resulted from the experience. God bless you all
Wow , this is just on point God bless you pastor ENO . You are all welcome to NSPPD Monday to Friday 7AM Nigeria Time what God can not do doesn’t exist.
Indeed what God can not do does not exist. The devil knew the deliverance God is bringing forth through NSPPD that's why he wanted to cause this hitch. But he came too late. God bless you mama Eno Jerry
Absolutely! You said it right @Helen Evans.
Very inspiring Interview both for the married and single. I just got a copy of the book on okadabooks
@@graceforpurposeprayer4885 olee,ole, you better go and find job to do.
Wow! Such an awesome time...was worth listening to.
God bless you Pst Eno for not holding back so that we all can look inwards and work on our faults without using spirituality to cover up our inadequacies and character flaws. I love you Ma'am.
God bless the host too. More grace Ma'am.
The way I overcame was that when the Holy Spirit revealed to me that my anger issues could destroy my life and I didn't know how to get rid of it or work on it, I surrendered the anger. I surrendered it and kept asking the Holy Spirit about why I was getting angry and I allowed God show me those things without being defensive. One of the things God showed me was that I wanted things to go my way...
I spent time in prayer whenever I remember the issues. One day, I woke up and I felt very light and free and then I realised God had taken something away from my subconscious and that thing was PAIN.
So many of us are carrying pain in our hearts and we're wounded and that's affecting the way we're reacting to people and to situations but God wants to heal us if we will spend time with him in conversation.
This is just as if you're talking about my present marriage.I will follow all what you did to conquer your anger, may the Lord give me victory in the end.
Amen
Beautiful thank you for your transparency and honesty. It takes a strong person to admit their flaws and their faults then put them down in a book. Thank you for sharing and allowing us to learn.
Im Buying your book now; Im not married yet: but, it is a few things you mention I could change.
May God continue to bless you 😘
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You have just spoken about me and probably the reason I am not married yet. God help me .Pastor Eno is even lucky Pastor Jerry Married her me i need this change ASAP.
Thank you so very much Pastor Eno for sharing your experience grow old with your husband in Jesus Mighty name 🙏
So glad I watched this, I’m making a new turn by the grace of God🙏
We say Amen for you. Thank you for watching
I had watched a clipse of this episode a while ago but my sister sent this to me this morning . I decided to watch the full episode! Waow! What a blessing this conversation was to me. Thank you Pastor Eno Jerry for your transparency and giving hope to me. Thank you Pastor Toyin for sourcing this book and author. I am truly blessed.
I love pastor Eno. She is indeed an inspiration. God bless you ma'am.
The interviewer is interrupting too much and trying to finish hee sentence.
True she does not give enough time for her to gather her thoughts and complete her sentences.
Kind of annoying.
very annoying. she cuts her off before she prepares her thoughts
Please forgive her 🙏🏽..i do the same in real life (trying to finish people sentence 😬)...and seing it on screen now, just made me realize that it’s such a bad habit 😬😰
The interviewer should let her say what's in her heart and stop putting words in her mouth.
This story is life changing, I see loads of inspirations imbedded in this story. God bless you sister.
Pastor Eno, everything about you is so sincere. I love how comfortable you are in sharing your past mistakes and how God has transformed you. Intentional pursuit to save your marriage is commendable. Your vulnerability is amazing. Great lessons God bless you
To think I've been missing alot not clicking the watch button for the past few months I've been seeing this video pop up is amazing to me, I enjoyed every bit of this interview and I can't wait to read the book itself. God bless you women of God 🙌
Me too
Hmmmm this is so me, Thank you Ma. My journey to change has started.Thank you so much Ma for been open and truthful.
God richly bless you, pastor Eno
God's Spirit truly dwells inhoj.Stay Blessed.
Me too. Mercy Lord
Me 2 😭😭😭😭😭
Me too
Wow! This is exactly me right now. I never knew I was like this, until my home was on the verge of collapsing.
Pastor Eno, you are so right about the anger issues which leads to bitterness. In fact I see myself as a perfect wife, and ignoring my weaknesses and focusing on my husband's weakness.
I thank God for this eye opening and thank you pastor Eno, for coming out to tell the truth. Right now I am on a journey of making things right.
My name is Roxanne i am married a me an my husband are believers of Christ and i must say paster eno i am doing all are most of what you did .and my husband is a humble man i must say thank you once again for sharing this book cause this is an big impact in my relationship with my family i must say all this stop right now . may god continues to bless you as you send messages to bless other families love you
Jesus, Pastor Eno, youre just a BLESSING..
God has kept you and your relationship for such a time like this. When so many homes are going through issues, I have posted your video to a few people to also be blessed as I have been blessed by this revelation..
And for you Chapters,.. That word. It's not a just about what we know. But what we do with what we know. You're a gift to the world. God bless you richly. And bless our homes with more wisdom, revelations and purpose in Jesus mighty name.
Thank you for watching.
Wow! This message was very timely for me. I've had one or two issues with hubby basically on attitudinal issues, and I bless God for making me see this message. Thanks Pastor Eno for being so real and allowing God use your past weakness to strengthen so many of us. God bless you!
This title got my attention after I woke up. I didn’t even realize it was Pastor Jerry. Thank you for this video and I will get this book for myself. Maybe it was God wanted me to see this. I am a recent divorce wife of 17yrs of marriage, God had to bring me to a place also to take a deep inner look at myself. I never had the right counseling but it is the Holy Spirit counseling me.
God bless you Ma
We as believers are helped when we are true to our experiences
Thank you, Pastor Eno.... Such an honest, brave and bare it all conversation that our society hates hearing.... I thank you for obeying God.... Im really blessed. May the Lord continue to strengthen your home and grant you grace all the way in Jesus name. Amen
Very honest conversation
Wow...I need to read this book! But what happens when both couples are hot headed and the woman is seriously struggling to step low to make the marriage work?
I cannot explain how it is good to hear your testimony. Because marriage can be hard and hurtful when you don't know what you are doing is wrong. And it's more hurtful when your spouse corrects you without a solution because they don't understand or maybe they are going through a change process as well. But don't give up you have to pray and do the research as if your life depended on it. Find out what are you doing wrong and change it. The change process is challenging but stay focused on being a excellent wife and to maintain the change. She is right it comes with understanding and knowing God. If you allow yourself to grow spiritually during the change and research of it the growth will be so powerful. Pray , fast , research. And you will find that not only are you a excellent wife now , you are also closer to God and spiritually mature. You might not understand at the time but God knows you and loves you. It might be painful but your end result will be joyful. Im sharing this testimony with you because God has been so good to me and I myself also had to overcome this challenge. But we made it and my marriage is better than it has ever been. God did not give up on me and I did not give up on my husband. Praise God. May God bless you and your marriage for sharing a part of your life and testimony with us @Enojerry.
Amazing!! I’m so glad I came across this before going to bed. It’s just what I needed. Thank you Pastors. God bless you both.