Kennie: "They're actually turning six years old" my immediate thought: "I've been listening to Raycon ads for six years?" All the same, thank you for the hour-and-a-half blessing! Immaculate as always.
Uche would leave one of those fake $20 bills that when you open it up it's just promotion for his "real talk" podcast with some corny-ass phrase like "The real wealth is knowledge"
I immediately knew he was a cheater when he started to berate her. Some people cheat, regret it, and never do it again. Not Uche. He's the type of guy who cheats on his wife constantly, then gaslights her when she discovers his betrayal.
Yeah. There's "wow, I can't see myself trusting someone who I know has been unfaithful before" and then there's "I would NEVER do such a thing, well I DID but it DIDN'T COUNT"
unche can dish it out but he can't take it. Something tells me he doesn't like what he sees in the mirror and when confronted with someone who is guilty of the same thing hes guilty of, it reminded him of himself and he did not appreciate that. Not aliyah's fault tho.
At the very least, it gives a vibe that he wants to feel morally superior or something. Like if someone told me they'd cheated, I don't know if I could get over that, so I get if that would be a dealbreaker. But she already expressed it was something she didn't feel good about, so why get on a high horse and lecture her?
when JP actually said that he wished taylor hadn't worn makeup and he wasn't attracted to her because of that............ my jaw effing DROPPED like he's so textbook misogynist
The man was wearing an American flag polo shirt, who tf wants to take personal appearance “advice? From him? Also can we call out the fact his ass is lying, just say you don’t like the girl and let her get a good man, damn.
Especially because like damn nigga she must’ve been so nervous and a lot of people feel more confident with makeup on like you’re supposed to marry this person who never seen you before in a couple weeks so of course you wanna look what you think is your best damn, no consideration for her SMH
@@daniellecowan459 Also, she is ON TV and they pretty much coat you in makeup anyway because the bright lighting does not do much for a face without it.
Daily reminder that the phrase "love is blind" means that love prevents you from seeing someone as a flawed individual, which is hilarious to me because these no amount of love could make me ignore how messy these people are
The thing I am stuck on is the amount of American flag apparel JP has. Shorts, shirts, handkerchiefs.. that told me enough that he was going to be a problem.
I had a coworker who moved to the U.S. from England and he made a remark about how obsessed some people are when it comes to the flag. It was something like, "Do you people forget what country you're in?" That's always made me laugh, and JP made me think of that question instantly.
I think it's interesting that you don't see Izzy's toxicity by episode 7. The way he asked Johnny to choose him and then dumped her after she did choose him. Needing further validation from Lydia so he dumped her again in person in Mexico. The way he lied to Stacey about his finances until the day before the wedding. The way he attacked Johnny 2 weeks after he dumped her for something that had nothing to do with him. He's every bit as toxic as Uche
@user-je6io6cv5d facts, I give anyone who tells me they're emotionally stable side eye. Because emotionally stable, open and available people don't normally have to say it lol
@@SEOshogunfacts also like the reason emotionally stable people are stable is because they know they are flawed and they are comfortable with the work they have to do and just living in the process.
The difference with how I view Lydia & Aaliyah. Aaliyah: I want you to have therapy because I'm worried about you cuz clearly this whole show fucked you up emotionally. Lydia: Girl, go to therapy because you're getting annoying and messy
Honestly I think Aaliyah needed therapy before the show unfortunately. Seems like there's still some unresolved issues that stemmed from her last relationship where she cheated. Honestly everyone should get therapy before going on this show because it's clear they all need it 😭.
Exactly. Aaliyah needs some self esteem help and some reality help with what to expect from relationships, from positives to boundaries. Lydia… needs to grow up and at least acknowledge how weird she was to Aaliyah.
I watched the interview she did with Cameron and she stated that she did therapy when her previous relationship ended. Watching that interview made me look at her differently.
Yeah, Lydia definitely needs some therapy!! She needs healing!! And self love. She's looking for love outside of herself, when she needs to look within, first.
I've been in an abusive relationship before, and the way Uche speaks is exactly the way my ex used to speak to me. RED FLAGS! If anyone ever speaks to you this way, run!
I have never watched a single episode of this show a day in my life...will I still sit and watch an hour and a half of kennie talking about it? Absolutely.
Same! I haven't watched any episodes of Love is Blind or The Ultimatum, but I love watching Kennie talk about the steaming hot dumpster fires that are these shows.
I genuinely think men are so entitled and easily resentful that him proposing to her and her not immediately being up to his standards “ruined” the whole relationship for him. Str8 women are in the trenches truly
When I watch Love is Blind and the Ultimatum, I’m like “Wow, I think these people need some good therapy.” Then I watched this season and I was like “Now, I really need some good therapy.” Because, What the actual f*ck?
I'm so confused as to why people like Izzy. He's immature to me and gives off 'F**kboi' vibes. And *spoilers for anyone who hasn't watched up till this point* Johnie really didn't deserve to be chewed out by him. He couldn't have been more of an asshole. Him and Stacy gave off 'meangirl' vibes. They have nothing better to do than shit talk her because they're both miserable together when left without a common enemy to bond over. Wishing Chris the best and if it's with or without Johnie. Izzy may care about Chris but it sounds like he was more butthurt that Johnie was happy without him and moved on fast. I may be alone here but this is my opinion.
You're not alone! I like the way that Izzy handled some conflicts with Stacy ... but I'd be out the door after seeing him grin and brag about how he "lit into" Johnnie. And then how he doubled down and said he was actually turned on when Stacy lit into Johnnie. Insecure bully vibes.
I know people will disagree but I think Johnie was actually the most self-aware. The fact that she so openly discussed her shortcomings in her previous relationships and was able to detect that she fell back into a pattern (albeit, a little too late) makes me think she has actually done work on herself. She has faults and she’s aware of her faults, maybe even too much so, where she self sabotages. I also don’t think she lied to Chris and Izzy and what she said to them made sense to me. Anyways I was happy to see someone who is messy, who has relationship trauma work through those issues in real time. Aware this could be a hot take.
No I felt the same way. As someone who tends to say stuff in the heat of the moment and then take a step back, and realize I totally worded it wrong, I related to her mix up. I truly think she said it wrong, took a step back, realized the opposite, and went through. The way izzy kept trying to attack her and get into her bfs ear. Hated Izzy. Johnie wasn’t perfect but I feel like she was way better then a lot of the other people this season (particularly Stacy. Stacy seemed like such a pick me ngl and it was triggering to see how she disguised it as just being “chill”)
Nah, I agree. People calling her vile are really quick to judge, if anything Chris was pretty subdued in his interest of her that I could see why she was surprised when he was upset she broke it off. I don't think she'ss perfect, but Izzy twisted her words and seemed to enjoy sabotaging her chances with Chris. If anything, she was almost too honest and probably should've given Chris more time before breaking it off. But again, she genuinely seemed taken aback that he cared for her that much.
i didn't like johnie at first but she grew and admitted her faults i felt bad when stacy & izzy were basically bullying even though she held herself accountable for her actions
JP seems like a guy who thinks he needs to try and put in effort to get the girl but once he gets her, he feels like he doesn’t have to do anything anymore
I love how you highlighted the fact that some people need to re-evaluate what makes them fall in love with someone. What are we chasing? Why someone who is stable, loving and kind - deemed as the boring option? I struggled with thoughts like this for the longest time, I even told my therapist that I would not be able to fall in love with a healthy and caring man, that my brain was wired in a way that only problematic and abusive relationships attracted me, gave me that rollercoaster high I was chasing. It was the worst thing I ever had to verbalize about myself. I thought there was something wrong with me, something unfixable. I'm glad I was wrong and I hope that more people are able to appreciate partners like Chris and just get out of their own way in order to be happy.
Uche is a whole trash bag floating off into the ocean. He CUT HIMSELF OFF when he was saying he hope's SHE forgives him. He cobbled together a story from the things that Aaliyah said previously to make him look better on paper for the next person.
Yooo, the makeup thing wtf. I feel like misogyny aside, it also comes from men just not paying attention to women/not caring enough to pay attention. They can't tell the difference between someone who's insecure about their looks, someone who just likes being complimented, and someone who just wears makeup cause they like it/it's fun. To those types of men, the ONLY reason girls wear makeup is to either please men, disguise their lack of personality, or deep insecurity. Side note, I had a guy try to "nooo you shouldn't wear makeup, you're already so pretty" WHILE i was putting on makeup and i said yeah i know? Im gorgeous without makeup what r u on about and he got SO mad like oh you're so arrogant. Ok so what did u want then, a little shy demure little girl "no... stop it... im not THAT pretty oh my god stopppp" UGH they don't want u to be confident so THEY can 'empower' you with man-given confidence, it doesn't work if you're already satisfied or confident
uche is a guy to pursue a woman that has no interest in him. Get her to fall for him just to turn around and try to humble her like she chased him. he's so manipulative.
Oh yeah and you should look up this article the Netflix producers told Lydia and Uche not to mention that they dated each other in the past. It was only when Uche ask the producers Could he tell Aaliyah because they were getting so serious , that he was allowed to share that information so they really wasn’t being shady they was just under contract.
in izzy’s case with the “lost and found” thing. i feel like it’s a frat boy thing to have. he has a specific space for it, he knows it’s from former partners. to me as a bi woman who has dated men, reads to me as yeah a frat boy. the paper plates thing might be like american thing? In my culture it is seen as disrespectful for a dinner date to server paper plates (they are here meant only for like picnic dinners, camping or like party supplies.) so it could be like that type?
The “lost and found” gave off massive fuckboy vibes especially with his overall demeanor, I love kennie but I definitely get Stacy’s issue with it. It almost came off like he was trying to flex or show off
The producers told Uche and Lydia not to discuss their past relationship, so they really couldn’t divulge that info earlier, which is trash, but Lydia becoming SO adoring of Aaliyah and talking to her like she was trying to jump inside her skin was SO weird and creepy. She legit came on the show because she knew Uche would be on it and she tried to get him back in the pods, he said no and then she desperately tried to find ANYONE that would marry her, strictly to make Uche jealous. Lydia isn’t mature or genuine, she’s an unstable stalker.
When JP said that Taylor doesn’t need makeup, I was so triggered! I had an ex like that at school. He blamed me when any guy talked to me or looked my way, because he believed that I was seeking attention. Good riddance 😅
Thank you for commenting on the repair situation regarding Stacy's house which I believe is super expensive which then comes with super expensive repair bills. Izzy had no input on the purchase of that house and if nobody chose her, she'd still be responsible for the repair bills so even getting someone to agree to pay for half of it seems like a pretty fair deal to me. If Izzy does move in after getting married, I would assume they would talk about how much he can afford to pay for the mortgage and repairs, but he can't pay more than he currently has in the bank account regardless of how she feels about it.
The makeup thing is definitely because he got rejected by or didn’t dare approach women who like to wear makeup and it was his thing to talk badly about ‘those type of women’ to his friends. And now he didn’t know how he would explain himself to his friends when he would show up with a girl that was the type of girl he would usually make fun of. Just a very insecure guy
23:00 I feel like the "if you're a good person- tell them" is NOT a universal advice and personally I would like to never know. If you've managed to hide it from me, whether we break up or stay together- I better never find that shit out. Cuz that RUINS a person, a relationship. I've been cheated on and told about it and I told myself and the person (because they begged for forgiveness, told me it was not gonna happen again, they would do anything to fix it) that we would work through it, it's fine, our "love" is strong enough. It wasn't though, not only because they lied out of their ass and continued the affair, but also because I was never able to trust them again, and now I don't know it I can trust ANYONE because of how big my feeling and my trust in that person were. And let's be real- if you cheated that's a you problem not a me problem. People like him always say "my conscience wouldn't let me"- ye, because you're a weak shrivel of a human who would rather unload his issue on another person and walk away clean as a babe while the other person has to clean up his shit. They never ask themselves what consequences them telling vs not telling would be, I understand some people would like to know regardless, but I would just rather have the person break up with me for "no reason" than wreck my confidence in myself and others further.
24:56 he freakin did crap behind Lydia’s back by sleepin with other girls& sexting etc. oooo that man infuriates me because ya he comes off as so condescending& rude. Idk- maybe you touch on the stuff he did to Lydia later.
The paper plate thing is crazy, i prefer disposable because im usually the only one made to do the dishes, also, i keep stuff people leave because it just feels weird to throw stuff like that away, but i was raised in a line of hoarders so...
Y'all remember when BheBhe rexa's (don't know if that's how you spell her name) ex husband wrote her that long as paragraph with essentially nothing but people were praising him because it'd the fact that a man wrote a whole book and that was just so "caring". That's the exact same message I get from Uche. He uses heavy therapy language, heavy self care language, and very big bog words, and he is also very confrontational than avoidantant, and because that is not so typical of men, he looks like a star when he is actually shit. I didn't understand why he went after Lydia nor why he wanted Milton to drop her too. You didn't like Lydia? Cool let someone else like and love her abeg.
See as someone who is married I made it clear. We were two completely different and seperate entities before our marriage and I think its absurd to expect that person to start making 50/50 payments on a house they had absolutely no thoughts on purchasing.
I have been waiting for this. So excited. Edit: Damn. Lydia and Uche both bulldozed Aaliyah, but Uche really dug a hole of lies. I'm glad Aaliyah left and I wish she didn't succumb to Uche's weird domineering defense. He wanted her to chase and she did, just so he could lie some more and break up with her. I've only watched this show via your channel and Psychology In Seattle, so I'm still curious to see where it goes from here.
So Izzy talks to Johnie and tells her that everyone thinks she is sketchy… Izzy then goes to Stacy and claims Johnie said everyone is sketchy… then later Izzy tells Chris that Johnie called izzy sketchy…. Izzy is sketchy.
Cameron Hamilton just dropped an interview with Aaliyah today! I really hope it's included in the next video on this season. Uche somehow comes across worse and it's so clear that a lot of his shitty behavior towards Aaliyah is because she's not his "type"
uche did confirm on IG that production told them to keep the fact that they knew each other a secret until they had stable connections with one person and then they could tell them. he also said that he did include that information when telling aaliyah but it was edited out
I gave Lydia a little bit of a pass once I found out that the producer's told her that she'd be kicked off the show if she told anyone about Uche and was pressured to talk about Uche once they allowed them to share their secret to their partners. I do wish she had stayed away from Aliyah once it was clear she was into Uche.
Aaliyah also concerns me. Like she was letting Lydia talk about Uche until she finally popped and made a passive aggressive comment to her. Then she was still chasing after Uche after he was so dismissive of her feelings. I can tell she wasn’t ready for a relationship because she couldn’t see when people (especially those closest to her) were being disrespectful and inconsiderate.
Uche has incel energy and I cannot fucking stand him. I just know it had to be a producer pushing them because when she left that one time I’m surprised she came back to see him again. He feels like the kind of guy that when you break up with him you have to do it through like a phone call because if he gets you in front of him he’ll berate you until you agree to take him back or take all of the blame for it so he can feel superior Edit: JP has incel energy too with the makeup comment tbh
Lydia doesn't talk about Uche outside of the pods, in fact, he is the one who talks about her more than he speaks of Aaliyah tbh, additionally, he goes and talks to Lydia's fiance to get him to break up with her I guess, at a party he doesn't have to be at because not everyone from the pods was there, like Aaliyah, JP, Taylor etc. Seems like he went for the sole purpose of confronting Lydia and telling everyone there that she is crazy, but Lydia is the one that's obsessed? Why not let her get married and off your back then?
JP's weird freakout about makeup is definitely an incel talking point, so that makes me think that he's just helplessly uncomfortable around women in general and he was hoping that the format of the show would somehow fix that for him. I mean, he's a little old to be an incel, but that's the energy he's giving off.
thinking he's too old to be an incel is predicated on the idea that inceldom is a phase you eventually grow out of when you get to a certain age. I got bad news for you.
I was watching a pair of dudes explain this one - one guy was writing like a madman on a whiteboard, explaining it to the other one and the one listening was like "oh, does JP give vibes like, where were you on January 6th?" and I just love we all agree on that
This is also in contrast to Izzy and Stacy meeting where she was like, "don't touch my legs, I didn't shave," and he said he noticed that but it didn't bother him at all, and they both made a joke about him braiding her leg hair (gross but also kinda cute lol). That is how you do it!! And also showed that he really did genuinely care for her and didn't give a shit about her appearance. Then JP's musty ass stonewalled her for wearing fuckin fake eyelashes. I agree with Kennie, Taylor is waaaaay nicer than I would've been. The second he said, "just don't wear makeup," I would've been pelting him with my fuckin brushes.
Yeah I like natural women, but they have to be completely hairless from their eyelashes down! Oh and it's cool if she dyed her hair too because when I say "natural" I don't actually mean I wanna see grey hair 😂
If you watch her interview, she says that their lunch was a week after she left the pods. They just edited it to make it look like more time had passed.
He did say that he was never in a committed relationship with Lydia, and she ONLY said he cheated on her after gushing about what a wonderful person he was and telling Aaliyah that he would treat her well. Why would she say that AND on top of that try to get back with him as soon as they were in the pods together? It doesn’t make any sense.
@@Peanut_taco_muffin Honestly I think they're both liars, but moreso Uche. He seems very manipulative whereas Lydia just seems to lie to fit in wherever she can. Both are weird😂
After watching the interview Aaliyah did yesterday, it’s even more wild how he responded to her about the cheating convo. Aaliyah said things were cut out in the convo and the full story wasn’t even explained, the dude she cheated on was cheating on her for years from her account so it was a toxic relationship. She said more context was given. Knowing there was a lot more context told to him and he reacted that way is just wild
That makes it wild that she claimed to still love him. Like girl! You gave him all the context and he STILL responded that way?! I would’ve never spoken to him again
@@LastSithUnicorn and if what he is saying from his account is correct, they apparently both agreed in the pods to leave and date outside the show, idk it also looks like production was trying to spin stuff a certain way and left a lot of scenes out, even the extra stuff Lydia was saying to her, she said on the show that Lydia told her they both talked about how going on the show would benefit him and his business and how they discussed going on the show beforehand.
some men really be taking a woman cheating on one man as her cheating on ALL men. Why he need led to throw someone she did in a relationship that has nothing to do with him is giving me trying to "put her in her place/taking her down a peg".
@@momo-vu1wrnope. Having standards for the type of people you associate with has nothing to do with whether you are dating them or not. If you’re willing to be friends or in a romantic relationship with shit people, you probably are a shit person. They’re both a type of intimate partner and a reflection on your true values
my boyfriend was like "jp knows she's too pretty for him" I was like YUP HE KNOWS HE CAN'T HANDLE HER so he's self sabotaging. we clapped when she was like ok I'm done 😂🎉🎉🎉
That's a nonsensical take, totally unsupported by any actions or words. We have no reason to believe he's lying. It's possible to just not be attracted to someone when they so drastically change their appearance with make-up/eye lash extensions/hair dye and product, from what can naturally occur. People can have preferences. And he even said, she could do what she wanted, but he just wasn't attracted to that look. If he thought she was out of his league, why would he not have jumped at the opportunity to have sex with her as it is pretty obvious she would have been receptive? Did you see the way he kissed her? He is just not attracted to her.
The way Uche tore into her was super unsettling to me. I'll be honest, I don't date people with any history of infidelity but deciding you want to stop a potential connection and going on some condescending ramble while you're on some imagined high horse is completely uncalled for. Smh I'm glad Aaliyah walked out on him, wish she would have maintained that energy and not tried to meet with him. Man is an ass.
@@freedomm You don't get the hate for a guy that asked for honesty, then got judgy and condescending when he got that honesty, and then turned out to be a manipulative liar?
I didn't necessarily disagree with some of the stuff he was saying but Jeeeesus you don't talk like that to someone you apparently like or any human for that matter. You must have some deep issues if you don't just leave that situation. He was really scary.
It was so obvious, lol Before they left the pods, I was like, Lydia has the energy of a woman who was cheated on/led on, and if we had to guess who did this to her........... the answer would be right there
So when Johnnie says she has a history of both picking the unsafe AND safe guy -- I don't think she is actually being untruthful. - Her first and only love (as she describes) was an emotionally unavailable and volatile addict. - Then, she married the "safe choice", but was never in love with him. - So she has BOTH a history of choosing the bad guy (for LOVE) AND a history of running to the safe guy after (for SECURITY) I think that SHE just doesn't realize how those two things come across. And I don't think she has done the healing necessary yet for her to be on this show or getting into a marriage.
This is the take. This also might be why I felt bad for her because I am...similar to her in a lot of ways. (It's def a trauma thing and therapy has definitely helped me with that. Hopefully she goes into therapy if she doesn't already have one. It could help her break that cycle.)
She was clearly trying to be manipulative so that Chris would take her back. She couldn’t bear to leave alone. She also showed her true colors by trash talking Izzy and Stacy for no reason.
Im so sick of them picking the most awful and annoying people. Like I miss season 1 of the show, where we had a better balance of cute couples and messy
I got the feeling that production told Lydia and Uche not to mention knowing each other, since both of them referenced it "messing with the experiment".
Yea the chris dude(producer) said that’d he did tell them not to mention that they had known each other prior, so that the experiment would be fair for everyone, and then at a certain point during the experiment the producers said they can tell other people however they chose to
You're absolutely right! Uche mentioned that he was told to keep quiet about it. But Aaliyah went on a podcast and stated that she is aware that production told Uche and Lydia to keep quiet but if it was her, she wouldn't told it anyway b
The producerd decided to cast them together knowing full well that they were exes. They must've known about their messy history and decided that it would make for good tv.
So it turned out there were actually five couples this season. One couple broke up after Mexico and the other made it all the way to the alter but no one knows for sure why they were edited out of the show. The woman from the couple that made it to the wedding - Renee - was shown at the event in season 7 and at the bridal fitting but they edited it to make it seem like she was just there as one of the other girls' guests. Renee said in an interview that she thinks she knows why her story was cut from the show and kind of alluded to the idea that her fiance was kind of abusive. There's also a rumor that the fiance threatened production with sue of side if they air their story. Renee is also married now which people also think is the real reason her relationship was edited out. It's believed that she was married before the show aired but she said she met her now-husband a couple of months after filming and they got married a couple of months after that. The other couple from Mexico was edited out because there's currently a lawsuit against the production team for not protecting one of the people in the couple when she was SA'd by the fiance. This whole season is a huge mess.
All I can say is I hope Aaliyah stays far away from both Lydia and Uche tbh cause how weird is it that Lydia befriended Aaliyah after knowing she had a connection with Uche??? Like she just comes off as manipulative to me and Uche’s a presumptuous judgemental ass. They’re both weird bye💀
It's like if the whole events of Uche & Lydia's relationship really played out the way it did (Uche cheating on Lydia) as she says....why the HELL was Lydia gassing Aaliyah up to stay with him XD??? Like That's some messy "Friend behavior". It honestly feels like she just wanted to set Aaliyah up to fuck with Uche (if he did cheat on him) but also I might have forgotten but like...when the heck did they break up? Cuz if it was far in the past, that meant those 2 hooked up after their broke up those 2 months ago which is like....MY GOD. I would NEVER have a one-night with my ex who cheated on me (which is why either Lydia made up the thing about Uche cheating on her or she.....has some SUPER low-ball standards for getting some dick). Like if they were still a couple back then (2 months ago) I wouldn't be bragging about shagging up with a guy who cheated on me XD. Like neither of them want to give the full story tbh.
Yes, she said they became close before.. that every relationship there forms very fast. I'm curious to why both of them only said nice things about each other when Aliyah finally find out..
Yes I was literally speaking aloud to myself in disbelief because all that was wild. I’m glad she did not end up with him and hope upon reflection she sees where these people where crazy and manipulative cuz she’s too sweet to have crazy people like that around herself . 😮💨 Lydia and uche truly deserve each other 😮💨
@@krismarshall3803this whole saga is making wonder what the truth is bc there’s inkling of truth in both their viewpoints, like the truth lies in the middle and I hope we find out at the reunion. Cause either uche I a weirdo who got back with his “stalker” out of guilt, or Lydia got back with a dude who “cheated” on her ATLEAST 2 more times? they’re both so strange 😭
If you want a drama cleanse I HIGHLY recommend the Golden Bachelor. We’re a couple episodes in but there’s absolutely no drama so far, it’s crazy. Just older folks looking for another chance at love after their first love passed away. It’s so sad but so sweet.
Aww! I have never watched The Bachelorette or The Bachelor, but this sounds nice! My shitty coworkers were talking about it before it premiered and saying how gross it is to see old people kiss. We're all in our 30s-50s, so it was embarrassing to hear that kind of talk. I love love, especially second chances, so it warms my heart to hear it's going well.
Production confirmed that they told Uche and Lydia not to tell the other contestants that they dated before. Apparently production found out on day 1 in the pods and then they pulled them into separate meetings and discussed how to move forward. Also another couple got engaged and they went to meexico but something happened so they were cut out, except for the dress shopping were they awkwardly acknowledge Renee being there.
As a Nigerian woman, I would implore Netflix producers to no longer cast Nigerian men. We were just getting over the SK drama, then this guy?! We are good, please.
No oh i like the chaos our men bring🤣🤣🤣i wish they added more Nigerian women to the mix. I wonder if they would ever bring a show like love is blind to Nigeria
The entire time I thought JP has never dated a baddie and he doesn’t know what to do with her. So instead of admitting that, he decided to make her feel small. Because look at her! She’s gorgeous and the body is BOD-Y-ING and she seemed genuinely kind.
The audacity of JP, who has the head shape of someone's left nut, saying it was her fault that he lost attraction for her because she wore makeup... it seemed like a test to control her. She was SO sweet and she was SUCH a bad babe. I hope she finds someone nice fr.
it’s the way JP said “99% of girls would love their boyfriend to say they look prettier without makeup” but like that’s not what he said??? he said she was fake for wearing a strip lash 🙄🙄
It wasn’t even that JP was saying he liked how Taylor looked without makeup, it was that that the subtext was him saying she looked ugly with makeup and it was her fault that they weren’t connecting which is just shows he’s a shallow person if how a woman looks ONE DAY can change his whole view of her.
The producers confirmed they told Lydia and Uche NOT to tell anyone they dated before until they were committed to who they wanted to marry. Uche told Aaliyah in that convo but it was edited out. That’s why Aaliyah seems so forgiving. She knew they weren’t allowed to tell her.
I was thinking exactly that. Like if someone can tell others what that person look like, how wealthy they are, etc then that kind of ruins the purpose of the entire show.
Izzy’s Lost and Found bin felt weirdly like a collection of trophies that serial killers would keep from their victims lol THAT would’ve been my initial reaction, high key. Edit: People suspected that Izzy’s apartment was probably an AirBnB which is why the decor was so…mom-ish and why he had a lot of paper goods.
Izzy probably lives in his mom’s basement. Everything was phony about him, even the four guys at the wedding who were posing as his friends. They were likely paid actors. That decor on the Airbnb was terrible. There’s no way a misogynistic guy like Izzy would’ve had that hideous fake flower arrangement on the wall. It was obviously an Airbnb and his bin of women’s bobby pins, earrings, rings etc. had serial killer vibes. If I were Stacy, my first thought would have been to be afraid of him. Lastly, Stacy calling “exotic” was mildly racist and had a white supremacist vibe. That’s my two cents.
The producers are so manipulative. There ain’t NO way any of this was an accident. You are telling me out of all the people who applied, they chose two people who dated 3 months prior? Nope. Uh uh.
Nah the whole reason JP had such an issue by seeing her with makeup was because he realized that she's not a push over who he can emotionally use and abuse. His first lines were immediate emotional abuse saying "he's afraid she'll leave him". He knew she'd be too confident to fall for it, tested the water if she'd fall for it, and then went full emotional neglect ghosting in a last attempt for control
@@JenniferBrigitteOpticalVortex Me too! I was really worried that she'd be forced to go through with it for production sake. I'm glad she left and took care of herself first
@daydream5120 It's totally worth it! Know that you will probably, most likely cry. It's heart-rending but soooo eye-opening about parents and how you were treated as well as the lasting effects on your own behavior (if yours are/were emotionally immature).
37:37 People tend to look for partners that loved us the way our parents did. Given what Johnnie has said about her mother. How she's judgmental of her and emotionally unavailable, that's what love feels like to Johnnie. It's supposed to hurt. It's supposed to be unobtainable. You're supposed to come second to drugs or other women. But intellectually she knows that's insane, so she tries to get with good guys because that's what she's supposed to do, but that doesn't feel right to her. That doesn't feel like love. She gets bored. She needs the drama, the chaos, the pain. It's what she believes she deserves. People think she was playing a game and contradicting herself about her patterns. But she wasn't. Both patterns hold true. Izzy is her new crackhead ex and Chris is her ex-husband, the guy she's supposed to be with, but can't love because he doesn't abuse her. And the reason she's so good at off the cuff pick me speeches is because she pursues her own rejection. The less a guy is willing to invest in her, the more she's gonna want him.
I did not know this about human psychology, and now that I do I can't say that knowledge has made me any happier. I presume there's ways to like... circumvent or move onto other mindsets because of all the times I've heard of people from abusive households moving onto to more caring and fulfilling partners, but does that happen through some special kind of training or psychological counseling or is it just a crapshoot if you beat the patterns or not?
@@goranisacson2502 Therapy helps. Like Johnnie can recognize her pattern, but there is a difference between knowing something intellectually and feeling differently about it. She needs to view herself as worthy before she can be comfortable with someone like Chris. As long as she thinks she's not good enough, anyone treating her with respect is gonna feel off to her. But once she does the work and loves herself, someone who acts like Izzy will disgust her as much as it does Stacy. Stacy is a mean girl, but she values herself and because she does, Izzy's antics literally disgusts her. I will be shocked if she agrees to marry him.
@@MissKashira even if you reach a place of self love, your vision of love which is mechanically conditioned by your parents will always seek out something similar, imo. just how the human brain in development works. and I'm not sure there's a way to change that, even with therapy. your conscious mind can constructively pick a healthier partner, but your inner child must always crave what is familiar no?
@@sainttheresetaylor2054 People can change. It's not easy, but it is possible. And knowing why we do the things we do is great start to changing bad habits. So no, I don't believe anyone is trapped forever drawing in chaos and pain due to their childhood.
I am not Nigerian but I noticed how much they glorify "doctors, lawyers, engineers, well paid IT ppl" like other immigrant groups (fyi, I am the son of Turkish immigrants and in my culture, they deify doctors and lawyers as well XD ). And if there is one thing I know.... if the guy is the son of immigrants AND a lawyer but goes to a dating show to get married.... thats a HUGE red flag on its own! Like, wouldn't there be dozens of aunties trying to link him up with their daughters or something?
I'm Nigerian and even though this is true they still allow their sons to have like a choice to date whoever they want depending on how progressive they are in allowing that. If it were a girl though most Nigerian parents would be against coming on a show like love is blind because they can't do as much damage control to the reputation of daughters if shit hits the fan like they do for sons.
I was curious to see if Kennie was right about JP actually being a republican so I checked his insta and it's so obviously been scrubbed of anything outright offensive so most of the posts still up are of him wearing the american flag in some hideous way. His latest post is literally him at his america themed birthday party. Also the comments are off lmao.
Lol that dude has full on incel mentality. He's a Republican for suuure, they're the only one's that feel the need to wake the flag, like they don't know what country they're in!😂😂😂
Yeah in 2023 someone treating the American flag like a kid does with their favourite cartoon character to the point of having a themed birthday party is a ginormous red flag. He's probably got some hoods of a certain hue in his closet as well, glad Taylor saw the warning as it was and took it
Idgaf about the American flag but I always think it’s funny that the MAGA weirdos are violating flag code by wearing it on their clothes. Like I’ll bet you my entire checking account JP got pissed at Colin Kapernick kneeling during the national anthem, yet he literally used the flag to blow his nose in the pods. Anyone who feels a sense of pride in American nationalism gets a side eye from me 💀
Another ‘icky’ fact there’s a sa claim rn by one of the female cast tran, she said one of the pod guys sa’d her and production didnt really support her at all
I heard that too, and that Renee (another couple who madeit out thepods) had a bf back home and her "fiancee" threatened to unalienable himself if they showed her rejectinghim. Idk about the second part of that, but Renee had a man at home. Awful to heat production and Netflix still don't treat their casts and contestants with decency and protection.
Men and makeup (unless the man is wearing makeup of course then yesssssss) always pisses me off. Because you can’t win with them. Your either fake and “tricking” them or you don’t wear makeup and “you don’t put in effort” and are called tired/sick. Not to mention the delusional side of makeup and men were if a bombshell is wearing a full beat suddenly their makeup is “natural”…..sir her cheeks are reflecting the lights. Ain’t nobody born with glittery shiny cheeks 😅
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Please watch love is blind japan
Please where is this wig from🙏
Kennie: "They're actually turning six years old"
my immediate thought: "I've been listening to Raycon ads for six years?"
All the same, thank you for the hour-and-a-half blessing! Immaculate as always.
@ThatGreatnessyou’re a nobody please relax
Uche has the vibe of someone who would not leave a tip for a waitress, but instead would leave a note that says "you should smile more :) "
YES lol. And JP is the type to get a female waitress that wears makeup and “jokingly” say “wow, I hope I don't a fake eyelash in my food 🤪”
Both of these comments made me react violently- great job 🤝
I'm gagging 💀😭😂
Uche would leave one of those fake $20 bills that when you open it up it's just promotion for his "real talk" podcast with some corny-ass phrase like "The real wealth is knowledge"
the visceral scream i just let out..
As soon as Uche started degrading Aliya for cheating it was IMMEDIATELY giving projection
I immediately knew he was a cheater when he started to berate her. Some people cheat, regret it, and never do it again. Not Uche. He's the type of guy who cheats on his wife constantly, then gaslights her when she discovers his betrayal.
Yeah. There's "wow, I can't see myself trusting someone who I know has been unfaithful before" and then there's "I would NEVER do such a thing, well I DID but it DIDN'T COUNT"
unche can dish it out but he can't take it. Something tells me he doesn't like what he sees in the mirror and when confronted with someone who is guilty of the same thing hes guilty of, it reminded him of himself and he did not appreciate that. Not aliyah's fault tho.
At the very least, it gives a vibe that he wants to feel morally superior or something.
Like if someone told me they'd cheated, I don't know if I could get over that, so I get if that would be a dealbreaker. But she already expressed it was something she didn't feel good about, so why get on a high horse and lecture her?
ikr, that was so weird i was like wait a minute.
when JP actually said that he wished taylor hadn't worn makeup and he wasn't attracted to her because of that............ my jaw effing DROPPED like he's so textbook misogynist
The man was wearing an American flag polo shirt, who tf wants to take personal appearance “advice? From him? Also can we call out the fact his ass is lying, just say you don’t like the girl and let her get a good man, damn.
Also he was so hypocritical that man wanted her BAD when she came out and she was more hesitant
Especially because like damn nigga she must’ve been so nervous and a lot of people feel more confident with makeup on like you’re supposed to marry this person who never seen you before in a couple weeks so of course you wanna look what you think is your best damn, no consideration for her SMH
@@daniellecowan459 Also, she is ON TV and they pretty much coat you in makeup anyway because the bright lighting does not do much for a face without it.
I was fuckin yellin at the screen "I FUCKIN KNEW IT"
Daily reminder that the phrase "love is blind" means that love prevents you from seeing someone as a flawed individual, which is hilarious to me because these no amount of love could make me ignore how messy these people are
I guess a camera can
Anytime a man assigns a negative moral value to makeup, there's no way it's not rooted in misogyny and you need to Run
That was expressed so well. You’re 100% right.
Facts
RIGHT
IM SO GLAD SHE LEFT HIM!!!
I don't think he liked that Taylor had vocal cords either, so there's that too.
The thing I am stuck on is the amount of American flag apparel JP has. Shorts, shirts, handkerchiefs.. that told me enough that he was going to be a problem.
Yes it was almost concerning. Like why do you have a flag everything 😂😂😂
Another youtuber just went "where was he on january 6th" and I scream laughed
I had a coworker who moved to the U.S. from England and he made a remark about how obsessed some people are when it comes to the flag. It was something like, "Do you people forget what country you're in?" That's always made me laugh, and JP made me think of that question instantly.
Was def one of those roaches supporting his brethren on jan 6
@@Aster_Riskthere are some people they don’t know Hawaii is part of the USA so…yes?
can we talk about kennie's red hair?? it looks so good! 😩
Literally!! It suits her skin tone so well 😍😍
It’s like her perfect color!! It just goes with her ❤❤❤
she's literally so stunning 😍
Was just about to say 😍
Right???she looks so so pretty
I think it's interesting that you don't see Izzy's toxicity by episode 7. The way he asked Johnny to choose him and then dumped her after she did choose him. Needing further validation from Lydia so he dumped her again in person in Mexico. The way he lied to Stacey about his finances until the day before the wedding. The way he attacked Johnny 2 weeks after he dumped her for something that had nothing to do with him. He's every bit as toxic as Uche
Exactly 💯
I found the guy icky since day 1
@user-je6io6cv5d facts, I give anyone who tells me they're emotionally stable side eye. Because emotionally stable, open and available people don't normally have to say it lol
@@SEOshogunfacts also like the reason emotionally stable people are stable is because they know they are flawed and they are comfortable with the work they have to do and just living in the process.
We refuse to wear drunk goggles this season, everyone is on thin ice and "goodguys" don't exist
The difference with how I view Lydia & Aaliyah.
Aaliyah: I want you to have therapy because I'm worried about you cuz clearly this whole show fucked you up emotionally.
Lydia: Girl, go to therapy because you're getting annoying and messy
Honestly I think Aaliyah needed therapy before the show unfortunately. Seems like there's still some unresolved issues that stemmed from her last relationship where she cheated. Honestly everyone should get therapy before going on this show because it's clear they all need it 😭.
Exactly. Aaliyah needs some self esteem help and some reality help with what to expect from relationships, from positives to boundaries. Lydia… needs to grow up and at least acknowledge how weird she was to Aaliyah.
I watched the interview she did with Cameron and she stated that she did therapy when her previous relationship ended. Watching that interview made me look at her differently.
@@cowmooves4057it’s like she allows herself to be trampled on in retrospect to make up for how she hasn’t forgiven herself and moved on.
Yeah, Lydia definitely needs some therapy!! She needs healing!! And self love. She's looking for love outside of herself, when she needs to look within, first.
I've been in an abusive relationship before, and the way Uche speaks is exactly the way my ex used to speak to me. RED FLAGS! If anyone ever speaks to you this way, run!
Hope u are safe now ❤️
I have never watched a single episode of this show a day in my life...will I still sit and watch an hour and a half of kennie talking about it? Absolutely.
Everytime 23:44
Same! I haven't watched any episodes of Love is Blind or The Ultimatum, but I love watching Kennie talk about the steaming hot dumpster fires that are these shows.
Me either, we let Queen Kennie watch and we pay her bills while we watch her vent about these train wrecks 😅❤
Same here. I've never seen an episode of either show but I am here for big sis Kennie giving us the hilarious debrief. 😊
One of my favorite ways to enjoy TH-cam. Kennie going ham on a reality dating series.
I genuinely think men are so entitled and easily resentful that him proposing to her and her not immediately being up to his standards “ruined” the whole relationship for him. Str8 women are in the trenches truly
1:03:54 😂😂😭
“She’s better than me cuz I would’ve came out there lookin’ like pennywise 🤡 PAINTED UP. ”
☠️
😂⚰️😂⚰️😂⚰️😂
When I watch Love is Blind and the Ultimatum, I’m like “Wow, I think these people need some good therapy.”
Then I watched this season and I was like “Now, I really need some good therapy.”
Because,
What the actual f*ck?
I'm so confused as to why people like Izzy. He's immature to me and gives off 'F**kboi' vibes. And *spoilers for anyone who hasn't watched up till this point*
Johnie really didn't deserve to be chewed out by him. He couldn't have been more of an asshole. Him and Stacy gave off 'meangirl' vibes. They have nothing better to do than shit talk her because they're both miserable together when left without a common enemy to bond over. Wishing Chris the best and if it's with or without Johnie. Izzy may care about Chris but it sounds like he was more butthurt that Johnie was happy without him and moved on fast. I may be alone here but this is my opinion.
You're not alone! I like the way that Izzy handled some conflicts with Stacy ... but I'd be out the door after seeing him grin and brag about how he "lit into" Johnnie. And then how he doubled down and said he was actually turned on when Stacy lit into Johnnie. Insecure bully vibes.
Izzy lit into Johnnie as soon as she became unavailable as a rebound if things didn't work out with Stacey. I can't believe this works on women.
They were a bit silly but I think he was really drunk too
I know people will disagree but I think Johnie was actually the most self-aware. The fact that she so openly discussed her shortcomings in her previous relationships and was able to detect that she fell back into a pattern (albeit, a little too late) makes me think she has actually done work on herself. She has faults and she’s aware of her faults, maybe even too much so, where she self sabotages.
I also don’t think she lied to Chris and Izzy and what she said to them made sense to me. Anyways I was happy to see someone who is messy, who has relationship trauma work through those issues in real time.
Aware this could be a hot take.
No I felt the same way. As someone who tends to say stuff in the heat of the moment and then take a step back, and realize I totally worded it wrong, I related to her mix up. I truly think she said it wrong, took a step back, realized the opposite, and went through. The way izzy kept trying to attack her and get into her bfs ear. Hated Izzy. Johnie wasn’t perfect but I feel like she was way better then a lot of the other people this season (particularly Stacy. Stacy seemed like such a pick me ngl and it was triggering to see how she disguised it as just being “chill”)
I thought so too! I feel like Johnie is just misunderstood. She's not perfect of course, but not that bad either
Nah, I agree. People calling her vile are really quick to judge, if anything Chris was pretty subdued in his interest of her that I could see why she was surprised when he was upset she broke it off. I don't think she'ss perfect, but Izzy twisted her words and seemed to enjoy sabotaging her chances with Chris. If anything, she was almost too honest and probably should've given Chris more time before breaking it off. But again, she genuinely seemed taken aback that he cared for her that much.
i didn't like johnie at first but she grew and admitted her faults i felt bad when stacy & izzy were basically bullying even though she held herself accountable for her actions
100% agree
JP seems like a guy who thinks he needs to try and put in effort to get the girl but once he gets her, he feels like he doesn’t have to do anything anymore
14:37 "Where were you? were you scaling the walls like a roach" took me TF OUT😭
I love how you highlighted the fact that some people need to re-evaluate what makes them fall in love with someone. What are we chasing? Why someone who is stable, loving and kind - deemed as the boring option? I struggled with thoughts like this for the longest time, I even told my therapist that I would not be able to fall in love with a healthy and caring man, that my brain was wired in a way that only problematic and abusive relationships attracted me, gave me that rollercoaster high I was chasing. It was the worst thing I ever had to verbalize about myself. I thought there was something wrong with me, something unfixable. I'm glad I was wrong and I hope that more people are able to appreciate partners like Chris and just get out of their own way in order to be happy.
I hope JP is haunted by ghosts with a full face on for the rest of his life. So glad Taylor dodged this NUKE of a man.
I appreciate you for yelling at production because I ALSO SAID “why would they air this after he said he’s never told anyone this”
Insane
Uche is a whole trash bag floating off into the ocean.
He CUT HIMSELF OFF when he was saying he hope's SHE forgives him.
He cobbled together a story from the things that Aaliyah said previously to make him look better on paper for the next person.
I just don’t understand what ANYBODY under 30 is doing on this show!
And the over-30s, I wonder why they have the energy for this high school shit...
Basically, why would anyone submit themselves to this? 😂
Kendal talks about long term relationships with the same energy as whoopi goldburg saying “I don't want somebody living in my house”
"I know I'm probably later than other people covering love is blind" I don't even care, yours is the #1 opinion I'm looking forward to!!
Same!
Yooo, the makeup thing wtf. I feel like misogyny aside, it also comes from men just not paying attention to women/not caring enough to pay attention. They can't tell the difference between someone who's insecure about their looks, someone who just likes being complimented, and someone who just wears makeup cause they like it/it's fun. To those types of men, the ONLY reason girls wear makeup is to either please men, disguise their lack of personality, or deep insecurity. Side note, I had a guy try to "nooo you shouldn't wear makeup, you're already so pretty" WHILE i was putting on makeup and i said yeah i know? Im gorgeous without makeup what r u on about and he got SO mad like oh you're so arrogant. Ok so what did u want then, a little shy demure little girl "no... stop it... im not THAT pretty oh my god stopppp" UGH they don't want u to be confident so THEY can 'empower' you with man-given confidence, it doesn't work if you're already satisfied or confident
Facts
Uche definitely listens to those men podcasts…
Uche's ChatGPT voice😂😂. I finally have a way of describing every interaction ‼️
And yes, his story about Lydia is INSANE‼️‼️‼️
"'Not enough people were asking, 'Where were you on January 6th?'"
the way I CACKLED dear god my neighbour's dog started barking
uche is a guy to pursue a woman that has no interest in him. Get her to fall for him just to turn around and try to humble her like she chased him. he's so manipulative.
Oh yeah and you should look up this article the Netflix producers told Lydia and Uche not to mention that they dated each other in the past. It was only when Uche ask the producers Could he tell Aaliyah because they were getting so serious , that he was allowed to share that information so they really wasn’t being shady they was just under contract.
In all 6 seasons the OnLY time I cried was when Chris spoke of being abused. Beyond heartbreaking. I agree with everything you said about this issue.
that dark red wig oh my lord kennie is STUNNING
in izzy’s case with the “lost and found” thing. i feel like it’s a frat boy thing to have. he has a specific space for it, he knows it’s from former partners. to me as a bi woman who has dated men, reads to me as yeah a frat boy. the paper plates thing might be like american thing? In my culture it is seen as disrespectful for a dinner date to server paper plates (they are here meant only for like picnic dinners, camping or like party supplies.) so it could be like that type?
The “lost and found” gave off massive fuckboy vibes especially with his overall demeanor, I love kennie but I definitely get Stacy’s issue with it. It almost came off like he was trying to flex or show off
The producers told Uche and Lydia not to discuss their past relationship, so they really couldn’t divulge that info earlier, which is trash, but Lydia becoming SO adoring of Aaliyah and talking to her like she was trying to jump inside her skin was SO weird and creepy. She legit came on the show because she knew Uche would be on it and she tried to get him back in the pods, he said no and then she desperately tried to find ANYONE that would marry her, strictly to make Uche jealous.
Lydia isn’t mature or genuine, she’s an unstable stalker.
When JP said that Taylor doesn’t need makeup, I was so triggered! I had an ex like that at school. He blamed me when any guy talked to me or looked my way, because he believed that I was seeking attention. Good riddance 😅
adding 'if you desire a relationship' to the little pep talk at 21:20 made me so happy as an aromantic person. :)
1:13:54 No, you aren't crazy. You are psychic. The amount of stuff you're intuiting before it comes out is scaring me.
32:01 wait but....... a video essay about the connection between No Nut November and FASCISM (???) could and should be a thing
Someone's probably already making it, lol
@The Kavernacle made a good video on it :3
Yeah, I don't want fascist to reproduce either. I just don't know that what the connection is...
" uche coming off like the authority figure " ( rubs hands with glee) 😂
Thank you for commenting on the repair situation regarding Stacy's house which I believe is super expensive which then comes with super expensive repair bills. Izzy had no input on the purchase of that house and if nobody chose her, she'd still be responsible for the repair bills so even getting someone to agree to pay for half of it seems like a pretty fair deal to me.
If Izzy does move in after getting married, I would assume they would talk about how much he can afford to pay for the mortgage and repairs, but he can't pay more than he currently has in the bank account regardless of how she feels about it.
The makeup thing is definitely because he got rejected by or didn’t dare approach women who like to wear makeup and it was his thing to talk badly about ‘those type of women’ to his friends. And now he didn’t know how he would explain himself to his friends when he would show up with a girl that was the type of girl he would usually make fun of. Just a very insecure guy
23:00 I feel like the "if you're a good person- tell them" is NOT a universal advice and personally I would like to never know. If you've managed to hide it from me, whether we break up or stay together- I better never find that shit out.
Cuz that RUINS a person, a relationship.
I've been cheated on and told about it and I told myself and the person (because they begged for forgiveness, told me it was not gonna happen again, they would do anything to fix it) that we would work through it, it's fine, our "love" is strong enough. It wasn't though, not only because they lied out of their ass and continued the affair, but also because I was never able to trust them again, and now I don't know it I can trust ANYONE because of how big my feeling and my trust in that person were.
And let's be real- if you cheated that's a you problem not a me problem. People like him always say "my conscience wouldn't let me"- ye, because you're a weak shrivel of a human who would rather unload his issue on another person and walk away clean as a babe while the other person has to clean up his shit. They never ask themselves what consequences them telling vs not telling would be, I understand some people would like to know regardless, but I would just rather have the person break up with me for "no reason" than wreck my confidence in myself and others further.
24:56 he freakin did crap behind Lydia’s back by sleepin with other girls& sexting etc. oooo that man infuriates me because ya he comes off as so condescending& rude. Idk- maybe you touch on the stuff he did to Lydia later.
Izzy and Stacy got off on picking on someone like mean girls I'm over them
The paper plate thing is crazy, i prefer disposable because im usually the only one made to do the dishes, also, i keep stuff people leave because it just feels weird to throw stuff like that away, but i was raised in a line of hoarders so...
Y'all remember when BheBhe rexa's (don't know if that's how you spell her name) ex husband wrote her that long as paragraph with essentially nothing but people were praising him because it'd the fact that a man wrote a whole book and that was just so "caring". That's the exact same message I get from Uche. He uses heavy therapy language, heavy self care language, and very big bog words, and he is also very confrontational than avoidantant, and because that is not so typical of men, he looks like a star when he is actually shit. I didn't understand why he went after Lydia nor why he wanted Milton to drop her too. You didn't like Lydia? Cool let someone else like and love her abeg.
Stacy’s stronger than I, I would’ve left Izzy at the house tour. There’s plenty of fish in the sea and some of them own dishes.
Uche is deffs omitting something about him and Lydia like that man cheated
See as someone who is married I made it clear. We were two completely different and seperate entities before our marriage and I think its absurd to expect that person to start making 50/50 payments on a house they had absolutely no thoughts on purchasing.
1:04:12 I am PISSED the audacity of this man. look at this woman she is so beautiful
I have been waiting for this. So excited. Edit: Damn. Lydia and Uche both bulldozed Aaliyah, but Uche really dug a hole of lies. I'm glad Aaliyah left and I wish she didn't succumb to Uche's weird domineering defense. He wanted her to chase and she did, just so he could lie some more and break up with her. I've only watched this show via your channel and Psychology In Seattle, so I'm still curious to see where it goes from here.
So Izzy talks to Johnie and tells her that everyone thinks she is sketchy… Izzy then goes to Stacy and claims Johnie said everyone is sketchy… then later Izzy tells Chris that Johnie called izzy sketchy….
Izzy is sketchy.
Cameron Hamilton just dropped an interview with Aaliyah today! I really hope it's included in the next video on this season. Uche somehow comes across worse and it's so clear that a lot of his shitty behavior towards Aaliyah is because she's not his "type"
She is the perfect victim for narc cuz she blames herself...
Yikes, poor Aaliyah 😢Uche is trash. I feel sorry for anyone who ends up in a relationship with him.
uche did confirm on IG that production told them to keep the fact that they knew each other a secret until they had stable connections with one person and then they could tell them. he also said that he did include that information when telling aaliyah but it was edited out
I gave Lydia a little bit of a pass once I found out that the producer's told her that she'd be kicked off the show if she told anyone about Uche and was pressured to talk about Uche once they allowed them to share their secret to their partners. I do wish she had stayed away from Aliyah once it was clear she was into Uche.
“What does beating your meat have to do with the Jews???” 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
so obsessed with the photos of the cast at the beginning where all the girls are dressed UP and the guys are in like business casual old navy
Aaliyah also concerns me. Like she was letting Lydia talk about Uche until she finally popped and made a passive aggressive comment to her. Then she was still chasing after Uche after he was so dismissive of her feelings. I can tell she wasn’t ready for a relationship because she couldn’t see when people (especially those closest to her) were being disrespectful and inconsiderate.
13:33 ya know, that comment from her mother uhhh says a lot probably about why she may have some relationship and self issues
Uche has incel energy and I cannot fucking stand him. I just know it had to be a producer pushing them because when she left that one time I’m surprised she came back to see him again. He feels like the kind of guy that when you break up with him you have to do it through like a phone call because if he gets you in front of him he’ll berate you until you agree to take him back or take all of the blame for it so he can feel superior
Edit: JP has incel energy too with the makeup comment tbh
Lydia doesn't talk about Uche outside of the pods, in fact, he is the one who talks about her more than he speaks of Aaliyah tbh, additionally, he goes and talks to Lydia's fiance to get him to break up with her I guess, at a party he doesn't have to be at because not everyone from the pods was there, like Aaliyah, JP, Taylor etc. Seems like he went for the sole purpose of confronting Lydia and telling everyone there that she is crazy, but Lydia is the one that's obsessed? Why not let her get married and off your back then?
JP's weird freakout about makeup is definitely an incel talking point, so that makes me think that he's just helplessly uncomfortable around women in general and he was hoping that the format of the show would somehow fix that for him. I mean, he's a little old to be an incel, but that's the energy he's giving off.
He's not old to be an incel.
I don't think being an incel has an age limit unfortunately.
thinking he's too old to be an incel is predicated on the idea that inceldom is a phase you eventually grow out of when you get to a certain age.
I got bad news for you.
I think he’s into men, not girls. Down low.
Yes
Kennie referring to Jan 6 had me in stitches
"Where were you? Were you scaling the walls like a roach??" ☠️☠️😂
I was watching a pair of dudes explain this one - one guy was writing like a madman on a whiteboard, explaining it to the other one and the one listening was like "oh, does JP give vibes like, where were you on January 6th?" and I just love we all agree on that
The same men that get offended by women wearing makeup also think it’s gross for a woman to not shave. 🙄
Ikr the double standard 🙄
Yeah they say "all natural" but really it's they prefer the no makeup look with minimal makeup.
Guys who think Kendall Jenner is the embodiment of natural beauty
This is also in contrast to Izzy and Stacy meeting where she was like, "don't touch my legs, I didn't shave," and he said he noticed that but it didn't bother him at all, and they both made a joke about him braiding her leg hair (gross but also kinda cute lol). That is how you do it!! And also showed that he really did genuinely care for her and didn't give a shit about her appearance. Then JP's musty ass stonewalled her for wearing fuckin fake eyelashes. I agree with Kennie, Taylor is waaaaay nicer than I would've been. The second he said, "just don't wear makeup," I would've been pelting him with my fuckin brushes.
Yeah I like natural women, but they have to be completely hairless from their eyelashes down!
Oh and it's cool if she dyed her hair too because when I say "natural" I don't actually mean I wanna see grey hair 😂
I don't think Aaliyah is forgiving, I think she has no sense of self. she accepts whatever she thinks she deserves. baby stand up for yourself.
I wish I could like this comment a million times.
If you watch her interview, she says that their lunch was a week after she left the pods. They just edited it to make it look like more time had passed.
I felt SO MUCH relief when he cut things off with her. SO MUCH.
The fact that she wanted to stay with Uche, after the way he treated her. Come on, Aaliyah you deserved better.
That’s a very kind way to view it- she just came off hopelessly dumb to me
Reparations for the ways Kennie suffers for our entertainment
Let’s start a reparations thread
Is the A in currency like for AUD? The Australian dollar or something else?
@@smome777yeah, Australian dollars
Does TH-cam allow tips now?
7.99? Why not just make it 8.00 at that point 😂
Uche: Oh you're a recent cheater, I would never do that to someone else
Also Uche: *cheated on Lydia*
Not even a year ago😂 The math just doesn't back up his boldfaced lie
He did say that he was never in a committed relationship with Lydia, and she ONLY said he cheated on her after gushing about what a wonderful person he was and telling Aaliyah that he would treat her well.
Why would she say that AND on top of that try to get back with him as soon as they were in the pods together? It doesn’t make any sense.
Trusting what Lydia says is the equivalent of believing "Trust me bro"
@@Peanut_taco_muffin Honestly I think they're both liars, but moreso Uche. He seems very manipulative whereas Lydia just seems to lie to fit in wherever she can. Both are weird😂
@@Peanut_taco_muffin didn't he also say good things about Lydia before saying terrible things about her?
After watching the interview Aaliyah did yesterday, it’s even more wild how he responded to her about the cheating convo. Aaliyah said things were cut out in the convo and the full story wasn’t even explained, the dude she cheated on was cheating on her for years from her account so it was a toxic relationship. She said more context was given. Knowing there was a lot more context told to him and he reacted that way is just wild
Oh so he felt she was the type to get her lick back? As a cheater and a hypocrite he wanted to break her
That makes it wild that she claimed to still love him. Like girl! You gave him all the context and he STILL responded that way?! I would’ve never spoken to him again
@@LastSithUnicorn and if what he is saying from his account is correct, they apparently both agreed in the pods to leave and date outside the show, idk it also looks like production was trying to spin stuff a certain way and left a lot of scenes out, even the extra stuff Lydia was saying to her, she said on the show that Lydia told her they both talked about how going on the show would benefit him and his business and how they discussed going on the show beforehand.
"he has a very republican face" .......why do i understand what you mean
Teeth, jaw and those half closed eyes (the "What race are you?" squint)
tiny pursed lips set in a permanent sneer
@@pixiestxNyomouf😂😂😂😂😂
It’s in the lips
BECAUSE HE DOES!
the way i could bet he would NEVER berate a male friend about cheating like that smh
Fr. Definitely would say some sht about it not being the right response BUT “emotional and physical needs not being met.”
some men really be taking a woman cheating on one man as her cheating on ALL men. Why he need led to throw someone she did in a relationship that has nothing to do with him is giving me trying to "put her in her place/taking her down a peg".
@@elleofhearts8471right, like "imma go ahead and degrade her so she won't cheat on me"
i think its different unless he was looking to date that specific guy. its 2 different things, dating someone and being their friend
@@momo-vu1wrnope. Having standards for the type of people you associate with has nothing to do with whether you are dating them or not. If you’re willing to be friends or in a romantic relationship with shit people, you probably are a shit person. They’re both a type of intimate partner and a reflection on your true values
my boyfriend was like "jp knows she's too pretty for him" I was like YUP HE KNOWS HE CAN'T HANDLE HER so he's self sabotaging. we clapped when she was like ok I'm done 😂🎉🎉🎉
For sure. That is what his insane take on makeup was about. He couldn't handle her being so clearly out of his league.
My thoughts exactly, I was clapping too🎉
That's a nonsensical take, totally unsupported by any actions or words. We have no reason to believe he's lying. It's possible to just not be attracted to someone when they so drastically change their appearance with make-up/eye lash extensions/hair dye and product, from what can naturally occur. People can have preferences. And he even said, she could do what she wanted, but he just wasn't attracted to that look.
If he thought she was out of his league, why would he not have jumped at the opportunity to have sex with her as it is pretty obvious she would have been receptive? Did you see the way he kissed her? He is just not attracted to her.
The way Uche tore into her was super unsettling to me. I'll be honest, I don't date people with any history of infidelity but deciding you want to stop a potential connection and going on some condescending ramble while you're on some imagined high horse is completely uncalled for. Smh I'm glad Aaliyah walked out on him, wish she would have maintained that energy and not tried to meet with him. Man is an ass.
THIS!!! Like you can just walk away from something you see as a red flag, you don't have to berate someone.
every nerve in my body was screaming lmao. aaliyah deserves so much better! i wish she would've maintained the boundary too
Another way of looking at it is he must've have cared if it really bothered him that much. Honestly I don't get the Uche hate.
@@freedomm You don't get the hate for a guy that asked for honesty, then got judgy and condescending when he got that honesty, and then turned out to be a manipulative liar?
I didn't necessarily disagree with some of the stuff he was saying but Jeeeesus you don't talk like that to someone you apparently like or any human for that matter. You must have some deep issues if you don't just leave that situation. He was really scary.
the uche cheating reveal was perhaps the least surprising piece of reality television i've ever seen
It was so obvious, lol
Before they left the pods, I was like, Lydia has the energy of a woman who was cheated on/led on, and if we had to guess who did this to her........... the answer would be right there
Him berating Aaliyah screamed projection
They werent even together, Lydia is just crazy 😂
"I Got With My Stalker For Her Mental Health" starring Lydia & Uche, now streaming on Tubi
😭😭😭💀
Yes, they are definitely a tubi movie 🎬
Not the plot I was expecting 😂 Jesus, she absolutely terrified me.
So when Johnnie says she has a history of both picking the unsafe AND safe guy -- I don't think she is actually being untruthful.
- Her first and only love (as she describes) was an emotionally unavailable and volatile addict.
- Then, she married the "safe choice", but was never in love with him.
- So she has BOTH a history of choosing the bad guy (for LOVE) AND a history of running to the safe guy after (for SECURITY)
I think that SHE just doesn't realize how those two things come across. And I don't think she has done the healing necessary yet for her to be on this show or getting into a marriage.
This is the take. This also might be why I felt bad for her because I am...similar to her in a lot of ways. (It's def a trauma thing and therapy has definitely helped me with that. Hopefully she goes into therapy if she doesn't already have one. It could help her break that cycle.)
This makes a lot of sense, probably just not to Johnie so she didn't articulate it well.
@@EvolianTigeragree. I feel her lack of articulation is why it got so blown out of the water by Izzy, which made him look really bad to me as viewer
She was clearly trying to be manipulative so that Chris would take her back. She couldn’t bear to leave alone. She also showed her true colors by trash talking Izzy and Stacy for no reason.
I think Jonnie is insecure overall
“not enough people was asking where you were on january 6th” a very valid point for this man lmao i’m still not convinced
literally yelled out “WOOO THERE IT IS” i’ve been WAITING ALL DAY i’m way too excited lmao
Same 😂 i was like “here we gooo”
Ditto!!!
minji
SAMMMMEEEE! I literally spilled my soda.
BRUH SAME. ive been checking all day. I was hoping to listen to it at the gym but here we are!
Im so sick of them picking the most awful and annoying people. Like I miss season 1 of the show, where we had a better balance of cute couples and messy
Lauren and Cameron are still the cutest thing ever. I was glad to witness that whole romance go down.
I got the feeling that production told Lydia and Uche not to mention knowing each other, since both of them referenced it "messing with the experiment".
Yeah, Uche said production told then not to say anything on his ig.
Yea the chris dude(producer) said that’d he did tell them not to mention that they had known each other prior, so that the experiment would be fair for everyone, and then at a certain point during the experiment the producers said they can tell other people however they chose to
I mean of course. Everything in this show is scripted.
You're absolutely right! Uche mentioned that he was told to keep quiet about it. But Aaliyah went on a podcast and stated that she is aware that production told Uche and Lydia to keep quiet but if it was her, she wouldn't told it anyway b
The producerd decided to cast them together knowing full well that they were exes. They must've known about their messy history and decided that it would make for good tv.
So it turned out there were actually five couples this season. One couple broke up after Mexico and the other made it all the way to the alter but no one knows for sure why they were edited out of the show. The woman from the couple that made it to the wedding - Renee - was shown at the event in season 7 and at the bridal fitting but they edited it to make it seem like she was just there as one of the other girls' guests.
Renee said in an interview that she thinks she knows why her story was cut from the show and kind of alluded to the idea that her fiance was kind of abusive. There's also a rumor that the fiance threatened production with sue of side if they air their story. Renee is also married now which people also think is the real reason her relationship was edited out. It's believed that she was married before the show aired but she said she met her now-husband a couple of months after filming and they got married a couple of months after that.
The other couple from Mexico was edited out because there's currently a lawsuit against the production team for not protecting one of the people in the couple when she was SA'd by the fiance. This whole season is a huge mess.
Damn
Oh wow that’s insanely dark. Glad I only watch this show thru kennie, cuz it truly seems like SUCH an evil idea. Just so so ripe for abuse
WHAT THE FUCK
What the fuck
What the actual fucking hell.
All I can say is I hope Aaliyah stays far away from both Lydia and Uche tbh cause how weird is it that Lydia befriended Aaliyah after knowing she had a connection with Uche??? Like she just comes off as manipulative to me and Uche’s a presumptuous judgemental ass. They’re both weird bye💀
It's like if the whole events of Uche & Lydia's relationship really played out the way it did (Uche cheating on Lydia) as she says....why the HELL was Lydia gassing Aaliyah up to stay with him XD??? Like That's some messy "Friend behavior". It honestly feels like she just wanted to set Aaliyah up to fuck with Uche (if he did cheat on him) but also I might have forgotten but like...when the heck did they break up? Cuz if it was far in the past, that meant those 2 hooked up after their broke up those 2 months ago which is like....MY GOD. I would NEVER have a one-night with my ex who cheated on me (which is why either Lydia made up the thing about Uche cheating on her or she.....has some SUPER low-ball standards for getting some dick).
Like if they were still a couple back then (2 months ago) I wouldn't be bragging about shagging up with a guy who cheated on me XD. Like neither of them want to give the full story tbh.
I think Aaliyah said that they were close even before Aaliyah and Uche started to be intrested in each other
Yes, she said they became close before.. that every relationship there forms very fast. I'm curious to why both of them only said nice things about each other when Aliyah finally find out..
Yes I was literally speaking aloud to myself in disbelief because all that was wild. I’m glad she did not end up with him and hope upon reflection she sees where these people where crazy and manipulative cuz she’s too sweet to have crazy people like that around herself . 😮💨 Lydia and uche truly deserve each other 😮💨
@@krismarshall3803this whole saga is making wonder what the truth is bc there’s inkling of truth in both their viewpoints, like the truth lies in the middle and I hope we find out at the reunion. Cause either uche I a weirdo who got back with his “stalker” out of guilt, or Lydia got back with a dude who “cheated” on her ATLEAST 2 more times? they’re both so strange 😭
If you want a drama cleanse I HIGHLY recommend the Golden Bachelor. We’re a couple episodes in but there’s absolutely no drama so far, it’s crazy. Just older folks looking for another chance at love after their first love passed away. It’s so sad but so sweet.
Aww! I have never watched The Bachelorette or The Bachelor, but this sounds nice! My shitty coworkers were talking about it before it premiered and saying how gross it is to see old people kiss. We're all in our 30s-50s, so it was embarrassing to hear that kind of talk. I love love, especially second chances, so it warms my heart to hear it's going well.
Awww 🥺
Production confirmed that they told Uche and Lydia not to tell the other contestants that they dated before. Apparently production found out on day 1 in the pods and then they pulled them into separate meetings and discussed how to move forward.
Also another couple got engaged and they went to meexico but something happened so they were cut out, except for the dress shopping were they awkwardly acknowledge Renee being there.
Where did u learn this from?
As a Nigerian woman, I would implore Netflix producers to no longer cast Nigerian men. We were just getting over the SK drama, then this guy?! We are good, please.
No oh i like the chaos our men bring🤣🤣🤣i wish they added more Nigerian women to the mix. I wonder if they would ever bring a show like love is blind to Nigeria
I’m still not over sk cheating man
@@user-je6io6cv5d Still feel bad for Mama SK 😂
@@ayomidedareabel5525 I don’t know how far you’ve watched, but Miriam made me proud 💪🏽
Frr! I'm Igbo and I need the casting director to stop bringing in Nigerian men 😭 we've had ENOUGH
The entire time I thought JP has never dated a baddie and he doesn’t know what to do with her. So instead of admitting that, he decided to make her feel small. Because look at her! She’s gorgeous and the body is BOD-Y-ING and she seemed genuinely kind.
The audacity of JP, who has the head shape of someone's left nut, saying it was her fault that he lost attraction for her because she wore makeup... it seemed like a test to control her. She was SO sweet and she was SUCH a bad babe. I hope she finds someone nice fr.
Agreed! He tried to shake her confidence and didn't know how to communicate because it seemed he was overwhelmed by her beauty.
@@MsKwesi😂
it’s the way JP said “99% of girls would love their boyfriend to say they look prettier without makeup” but like that’s not what he said??? he said she was fake for wearing a strip lash 🙄🙄
It wasn’t even that JP was saying he liked how Taylor looked without makeup, it was that that the subtext was him saying she looked ugly with makeup and it was her fault that they weren’t connecting which is just shows he’s a shallow person if how a woman looks ONE DAY can change his whole view of her.
Sis we are seated and ready for your takes 😭😭😭 the people on this season are unhinged
Forget jumping the shark, they landed on its back and riding back to shore!
@@asarishepard8171😂😂😂 no truer words have been typed about this cast it’s crazy 🤦🏾♀️
The producers confirmed they told Lydia and Uche NOT to tell anyone they dated before until they were committed to who they wanted to marry. Uche told Aaliyah in that convo but it was edited out. That’s why Aaliyah seems so forgiving. She knew they weren’t allowed to tell her.
I was thinking exactly that. Like if someone can tell others what that person look like, how wealthy they are, etc then that kind of ruins the purpose of the entire show.
Ah okay
Izzy’s Lost and Found bin felt weirdly like a collection of trophies that serial killers would keep from their victims lol
THAT would’ve been my initial reaction, high key.
Edit: People suspected that Izzy’s apartment was probably an AirBnB which is why the decor was so…mom-ish and why he had a lot of paper goods.
Nah fr I was thinkin the same! As soon as I saw that I was like Joe Goldberg that you? 😂
@@00s.v.n.s00I Snorted at this
@@00s.v.n.s00 oh my god this almost made me do a spit take 🤣
Izzy probably lives in his mom’s basement. Everything was phony about him, even the four guys at the wedding who were posing as his friends. They were likely paid actors. That decor on the Airbnb was terrible. There’s no way a misogynistic guy like Izzy would’ve had that hideous fake flower arrangement on the wall. It was obviously an Airbnb and his bin of women’s bobby pins, earrings, rings etc. had serial killer vibes. If I were Stacy, my first thought would have been to be afraid of him. Lastly, Stacy calling “exotic” was mildly racist and had a white supremacist vibe. That’s my two cents.
The producers are so manipulative. There ain’t NO way any of this was an accident. You are telling me out of all the people who applied, they chose two people who dated 3 months prior? Nope. Uh uh.
Nah the whole reason JP had such an issue by seeing her with makeup was because he realized that she's not a push over who he can emotionally use and abuse. His first lines were immediate emotional abuse saying "he's afraid she'll leave him". He knew she'd be too confident to fall for it, tested the water if she'd fall for it, and then went full emotional neglect ghosting in a last attempt for control
I'm so proud of her staying in her ground. She's really beautiful and deserves the world.
@@JenniferBrigitteOpticalVortex Me too! I was really worried that she'd be forced to go through with it for production sake. I'm glad she left and took care of herself first
came here just to say this!!! lol
such an amazing take!!
And she wore makeup ONE TIME. Clearly grasping at straws.
Girl, Johnie needs to read “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents”, and then get a therapist to start working on her trauma.
Such a good book recommendation!
Well, I have a new book to read
@daydream5120 It's totally worth it! Know that you will probably, most likely cry. It's heart-rending but soooo eye-opening about parents and how you were treated as well as the lasting effects on your own behavior (if yours are/were emotionally immature).
@@daydream5120 @ you because my comment didn't highlight it lol
@@shiny_cheyenne Oh yeah, thanks! I’m not going into details but I went to Amazon and read some of the highlights and was like “this book is for me”
37:37 People tend to look for partners that loved us the way our parents did. Given what Johnnie has said about her mother. How she's judgmental of her and emotionally unavailable, that's what love feels like to Johnnie. It's supposed to hurt. It's supposed to be unobtainable. You're supposed to come second to drugs or other women. But intellectually she knows that's insane, so she tries to get with good guys because that's what she's supposed to do, but that doesn't feel right to her. That doesn't feel like love. She gets bored. She needs the drama, the chaos, the pain. It's what she believes she deserves.
People think she was playing a game and contradicting herself about her patterns. But she wasn't. Both patterns hold true. Izzy is her new crackhead ex and Chris is her ex-husband, the guy she's supposed to be with, but can't love because he doesn't abuse her. And the reason she's so good at off the cuff pick me speeches is because she pursues her own rejection. The less a guy is willing to invest in her, the more she's gonna want him.
I did not know this about human psychology, and now that I do I can't say that knowledge has made me any happier. I presume there's ways to like... circumvent or move onto other mindsets because of all the times I've heard of people from abusive households moving onto to more caring and fulfilling partners, but does that happen through some special kind of training or psychological counseling or is it just a crapshoot if you beat the patterns or not?
@@goranisacson2502 Therapy helps. Like Johnnie can recognize her pattern, but there is a difference between knowing something intellectually and feeling differently about it. She needs to view herself as worthy before she can be comfortable with someone like Chris. As long as she thinks she's not good enough, anyone treating her with respect is gonna feel off to her. But once she does the work and loves herself, someone who acts like Izzy will disgust her as much as it does Stacy. Stacy is a mean girl, but she values herself and because she does, Izzy's antics literally disgusts her. I will be shocked if she agrees to marry him.
@@MissKashira even if you reach a place of self love, your vision of love which is mechanically conditioned by your parents will always seek out something similar, imo. just how the human brain in development works. and I'm not sure there's a way to change that, even with therapy. your conscious mind can constructively pick a healthier partner, but your inner child must always crave what is familiar no?
@@sainttheresetaylor2054 People can change. It's not easy, but it is possible. And knowing why we do the things we do is great start to changing bad habits. So no, I don't believe anyone is trapped forever drawing in chaos and pain due to their childhood.
Beautifully said
I am not Nigerian but I noticed how much they glorify "doctors, lawyers, engineers, well paid IT ppl" like other immigrant groups (fyi, I am the son of Turkish immigrants and in my culture, they deify doctors and lawyers as well XD ). And if there is one thing I know.... if the guy is the son of immigrants AND a lawyer but goes to a dating show to get married.... thats a HUGE red flag on its own! Like, wouldn't there be dozens of aunties trying to link him up with their daughters or something?
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼factisms! He wud be big big eligible bachelor in tht community
I'm Nigerian and even though this is true they still allow their sons to have like a choice to date whoever they want depending on how progressive they are in allowing that. If it were a girl though most Nigerian parents would be against coming on a show like love is blind because they can't do as much damage control to the reputation of daughters if shit hits the fan like they do for sons.
He’s there to promote his new legal bot start up trash, he posts a lot about it on Instagram and LinkedIn
Yo that is such a good point!! That makes me think that they’ve burned through all the girls people have introduced them to.
@@Electra9797I mean,him and Lydia were hooking up on and off for years, if I recall
I was curious to see if Kennie was right about JP actually being a republican so I checked his insta and it's so obviously been scrubbed of anything outright offensive so most of the posts still up are of him wearing the american flag in some hideous way. His latest post is literally him at his america themed birthday party. Also the comments are off lmao.
Lol that dude has full on incel mentality. He's a Republican for suuure, they're the only one's that feel the need to wake the flag, like they don't know what country they're in!😂😂😂
that man is a fascist for sure lmao
Yeah in 2023 someone treating the American flag like a kid does with their favourite cartoon character to the point of having a themed birthday party is a ginormous red flag. He's probably got some hoods of a certain hue in his closet as well, glad Taylor saw the warning as it was and took it
Idgaf about the American flag but I always think it’s funny that the MAGA weirdos are violating flag code by wearing it on their clothes.
Like I’ll bet you my entire checking account JP got pissed at Colin Kapernick kneeling during the national anthem, yet he literally used the flag to blow his nose in the pods.
Anyone who feels a sense of pride in American nationalism gets a side eye from me 💀
Small signs are still signs
Another ‘icky’ fact there’s a sa claim rn by one of the female cast tran, she said one of the pod guys sa’d her and production didnt really support her at all
Wtf, what did he do to her
I heard that too, and that Renee (another couple who madeit out thepods) had a bf back home and her "fiancee" threatened to unalienable himself if they showed her rejectinghim. Idk about the second part of that, but Renee had a man at home. Awful to heat production and Netflix still don't treat their casts and contestants with decency and protection.
Good god...this show is a fucking mess.
Lol now it makes sense why they have included so many scenes of the cast "having fun"
@@G-LukeJA Sexually assaulted her... Why do you need details?
Men and makeup (unless the man is wearing makeup of course then yesssssss) always pisses me off. Because you can’t win with them. Your either fake and “tricking” them or you don’t wear makeup and “you don’t put in effort” and are called tired/sick. Not to mention the delusional side of makeup and men were if a bombshell is wearing a full beat suddenly their makeup is “natural”…..sir her cheeks are reflecting the lights. Ain’t nobody born with glittery shiny cheeks 😅
9 straight men out of 10 couldn't tell if a woman is wearing makeup or not to save their lives.
this is such a lie, and I'm a feminist. most people who call women sick when they don't wear makeup are other women.
@@sainttheresetaylor2054 that’s your experience. Definitely not mine.