The Melancholy - Temperaments and Relationships.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ส.ค. 2022
- In this series, we are dealing with the four Basic Temperaments: Sanguine, Choleric, Phlegmatic and Melancholy. Temperaments are not what we choose, but rather who we are. We were born this way. More so, no temperament is good and none is bad. We are simply meant to know them so we can navigate both their weak sides and strong sides when dealing with others we are in relationship with.
Join me today on this journey as we look at THE MELANCHOLY. Let's go!
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I am a melancholic as well, but i have to say that i don't have an organized house, in fact it's a mess more often than not. i believe that this is the case for lots of melancholics as they are more prone to depression and simply lack the energy to do chores.
It is possible that your house could be untidy, but other areas of your life are properly organized. More so, you could also have a blend of another temperament that tampers with the organized side of your life a bit. I recommend you take a temperament test. It could reveal the other temperament blend that you have.
@@DavidkingEtienam I've taken a temperament test and i know that my secondary temperament is phlegmatic, so i guess that explains why. and yes, it's true i like to have my routines and i know for a fact that people perceive me as organized and even rigid. only people who are close to me know that i also have a rather lazy and even childish side to myself.
I use to be organized but due to pressure I had to become more flexible however is everything is unorganized my mood become depressive. Being organized bring control and calmness however we can't control people that share these environments with us, so I try to be flexible.
@@ernestinemeyer4555 wow. i also feel so depressed in a untidy environment. i get it so hard to reason in a dirty environment. i found myself conflicting with a colleague because they were not putting the patients files in the dower neatly. when i realized that is who they are,i started trying to adopt to understand them
When i did not know the temparaments i felt emotionally and psychological torture. I felt controlled by people's words and actions. When i got to know my temparament and those of others, i learned to manage my emotions better, knowing where certain behaviour was coming from. I watch reality tv to identify various temparements. I watched the real housewives of the wineyards in South Africa and there was a dr on that was a melancholic. She struggled to expressed her emotions, got overwhelmed when the ladies complained and become negative, fighting. She felt like an outcast because they treated her like that. They critised her temparament and she could not defend herself for two reasons, 1 being she does not understand her temparament or not aware of it. They did not fully listen to her stories, put her to the side and said they can not trust her because she has various moods and they dont know what mood she will be in on a daily basis. The emotionaĺ punches she took was so severe, hope she will be fine. I understood her because i am the same temparament. I just wish i could school all of them.
If you could perhaps do something on how melancholics can address their weaknesses e.g assertiveness and melancholic, expressing emotions for a melancholic etc
Thank you for taking out the time to express your thoughts.
Your contribution is greatly appreciated.
On your suggestion, I will definitely do a video on your suggestion.
Thank you so much for your insight. 👍👍👍
Interesting
This is great information
Thank you. 🙏
What awsome informations you gave us through this video. Thank you sir David and God bless you!
Thank you. I deeply appreciate your feedback. 🤗🙏
I'm a melancholy too!!! 😇
I know. It's written all over you. 🤣
Interesting, I'm melancholic but clearly not a typical one.
You definitely have a blend of another secondary temperament. It's good to identify it so you can be in control of that secondary side as well.
Thank you for your feedback. 🤗🙏
Melancholic dare sacrificial sir as they have a martyr attitude. Thank You
Thank you for your feedback. 🤗🙏
Hello sir God bless you for this. Video its very enlightening
Im primarily melancholic but very closely choleric
Im suffering from what the Doctors call meniers disease as well as burning under the feet
recently I read an article about the pathologies of the black bile interestingly both the problems are mentioned
I dont know how to pursue this type of treatment which balances all the humors of the body
Living has become difficult
Good morning.
I think it's best to first of all see the doctors for their professional advice and recommended treatment.
I am a choleric sanguine 🙂.
Awesome to know. When you know it, it puts you in control. 🤗👏
I am a melancholy too 😚
Beautiful. The purpose of this discovery will help you master your strengths and improve on your weakness.
Meaning you will be IN CONTROL of your every actions.
God bless.
I am one too and we are the best lol
Thank you very much for your videos...there are very interesting...but just to know..some people may have the 4 temperaments but at different percentual...and they will exibit according to their environnement...Sanguine speak a lot because they are human library they almost always have multiples degrees...flegmatique are for sure stubborn people simply because they may be people pleaser but they do as they want always....so there is more to say...
Absolutely.
It is normal for different people to have different blends of the four basic temperaments.
It is very possible to even have all four basic temperaments.
However, there will always be the ONE DOMINANT TEMPERAMENT that stands out above the rest.
@@DavidkingEtienam I like how thorough your videos are, with very relatable examples... I would be interested in a video on the melancholic/choleric blend (which is what I am!)
@@rachels.9602 I will try to do a video on that mix in future. Thank you for your feedback.
any chance to change from melancholic to some kind of extrovert? I think that as a melancholic I am useless in today's world. Mainly in social life and personal life. thank you for answer
No! You aren't useless at all.
And no temperament is better than another.
We all have strengths and weaknesses. All you need to do is to improve on your strengths and drastically reduce or eliminate the weaknesses.
So, talking about today's world, the world needs thinkers, the world needs analysts who see what others don't see. The world needs people who verify stuff before they leap so they don't start a w*r like we see in some countries today.
However, identify the traits that impact you or the people around you negatively, and work towards modifying those traits for good.
You can also embrace some traces in extroverted temperaments, but they will not happen naturally around you. You've got to intentionally work on these traits through routine and practice until they become a second nature to you.
But NEVER despise your personality and temperament. You are unique.
Simply identify what you want to modify and do so.
I prefer we use the word "MODIFY" rather than the word "CHANGE".
God bless you. 🙏🤗
And by the way, I am a melancholy.
We are special and unique.
😁😁😁
Thank you. I will try to modify myself!@@DavidkingEtienam
hi sir would you please give me the link for temperament test?
Take the quiz to know your temperament. It should confirm your assumptions. Just be objective when answering the quizzes.
Use the link below:
www.temperamentquiz.com/home
Can you helpp!
What sort of help are you requesting for?
By essence men are choleric by nature and women are melancholic by nature because the first are naturally vision and goal oriented and the second are detailed oriented...so there is more to say...
Thank you for your feedback. However, men are not necessarily Cholerics by nature. A lot of men are kind of laid back when it comes to decision making or even being visionary.
We expect them to be. But not all are. And that could be stemmed from the fact that they aren't Cholerics by nature.
😂 boring.
I've been called that.
Hahaha 😂
They'll call you that because they're looking at your weaknesses and not your strengths.
Please, enjoy you. You can modify a little bit for the sake of relationship and socializing, which are great elements of life. But don't do it at the expense of tampering with your unique personality.
@@DavidkingEtienam I let my work or action speak for me.
Absolutely. 🤗🙏