dude i thought this same exact thing lol why would you bring him to an event centered around the one thing he’s clearly demonstrated he doesn’t like lol….
SO TRUE!! i physically cannot force myself to eat certain stuff and it does get really difficult, however unlike the guy in the story, i would never be disrespectful to someone’s cooking or culture of food
10:12 my mom has been a vegetarian for 10+ years and has never forced me & my sibling to change to satisfy her own diet. She’s happy and we’re happy. soooo…. no he’s not the asshole
my mom converted to vegetarian about that long ago, when i visit she'll still buy me eggs and stuff to eat if I want it though its her house so im usually fine going without for a week.
my aunt's been a vegetarian (?) for quite some time now, and I do heavily agree with you. she doesn't come over and judge us nor' does she push it onto people. she simply reminds us, and even makes her own dishes for when she comes over on holidays, even bringing around her own oat milk for us to keep when she has coffees with her sister (our mom)
It annoys me when ppl just assume “picky eaters” are choosing not to be adventurous with their food choices, majority of the time it’s not even a choice
I genuinely burst out crying at some points when eating foods unfamiliar or unusual. I try but sometimes it just doesn’t work. Not because I want to eat whatever I want but because I can’t EAT. It’s gotten so bad that even eating foods I can eat I sometimes become nauseous when consuming and I just can’t finish eating.
Fr like it definitely comes to preferences and textures like I WILL GAG and possibly yak if I try to choke down pudding. And if something has too much black pepper I would rather actually crawl into a hole nd die than touch my tongue to that evil thing. But I will definitely try new things and enjoy them if my body allows me to 😂😂😂
I completely agree that picky eating is from some sort of issue, I’m autistic so for some foods it’s the texture or smell, I had a fear of choking at one point which made me physically unable to swallow certain foods, I also simply just don’t like the taste of some things. I could be diagnosed with ARFID but it’s not a priority atm, I wish I could eat more food☹️
I have arfid and honestly if its gonna cost you money dont bother getting diagnosed. its linked with autism and adhd so you prob have it if you have the symptoms. ive been diagnosed since i was 6 and for me at least there are not many "recovery" methods. there are types of therapy but its expensive and they basically just ask you to try something you dont like and you prob know that it doesnt work like that. obviously if you wanna get diagnosed for some sort of clarity then i would reccomend it but otherwise there isnt much point
someone like jake i understand, i have autism and its EXTREMELY hard for me to eat. i wont eat meats, try sauces or anything im not used to, its hard to NOT make faces because you are physically disgusted but you cant help it maybe he was just weird but i get it and its really frustrating 😭😭
autism often times corrilates with food intake disorders, im afraid to eat things and its really hard to eat and im not TRYING to be picky, i dont think shes the asshole but i think she needs to understand that some people genuinely are afraid of eating things they arent used to
OK but she KNOWS he's a picky eater and she brings him to a BUFFET?????? you can share other interests, food is not everything, and you can also let him eat plain while you enjoy and just share the moment...
I don’t think the huge issue is that he’s just picky, but he’s rude about it. Many picky people will order or get what they want and be kind about it, but he was being rude about other people’s food from other cultures literally in front of them
A buffet is kinda ideal for a picky eater, no? He gets to pick only the foods that he likes, rather than having a set menu. Even better: it's a potluck. The man could've brought his own meal (as long as he brought enough to share) and nobody would've batted an eye! Instead, he'd rather go and complain that nobody is catering to him. OP is totally right for dumping him. She would've ended up being responsible for his every persnickety meal, I guarantee it.
My brother's a picky eater but he doesn't act that way though (mind u he's 13). A grown adult throwing insults left and right, then leaving his date to get his own dinner instead was extremely disrespectful, especially when the op stated that this was a huge thing for her too. There could've been so many other ways he should've handled that instead of doing what he did
Omg yes! As a picky eater I want to eat everything so badly but I just can’t. My family think I choose what I like and can just magically change my tastebuds to enjoy everything they like.
Partly the asshole on the second one. She knew that he was this way about food and she kept going on dates to dinner and to an entire potluck full of food she knew he would not like. I don’t know why she expected him to change when it was a consistent pattern. Finding a balance between food and other activities probably would’ve been the best idea. But she kept getting mad at him for being picky. His comments were unnecessary though.
Literally like girl... You knew how he was still decided to talk to him and then decided it would be a good idea to invite him to a potluck also assuming he didn't have Arfid is crazy because that's literally what she described.....while his comments were unnecessary I doubt he was trying to be rude
i still think we should consider that he wasn’t just simply eating plain stuff but making rude and disrespectful comments about the food other people ate. i do still think she probably would’ve had the same opinion if he hadn’t so your point still kinda stands but i‘d argue he was also a little bit of an asshole considering his rude comments.
@@lancelotandmerlin nobody's saying he's right for making those comments but she's most certainly an asshole for purposefully inviting him somewhere knowing he was picky and then getting upset about it..... You don't invite someone somewhere knowing they're not going to enjoy it and then get mad when they don't enjoy it
don't mean to get all sappy on an Italian Bach video and honestly didn't think I would but thanks for being understanding about ARFID bc honestly I hate that I have it and try so hard to eat foods that are 'scary' to me but like literally cannot my body just wants me to throw them up rather than eat them.....yeah its weird I know but thanks for being nice about it
stop omg when i heard him even mention arfid i almost cried. ive had it since i was 2 and its so happy to see someone i watch actually understand it and not just be ignorant
Hi, I'm the guy from the final story. Now that you've put it like that Bach, I appreciate it is me that's the problem. I've decided as an apology to my mum, to complete 40 days and 40 nights of force feeding my kids olives and feta
6:20 why would you invite someone yk is a picky eater to a potluck knowing they're going to be uncomfortable or just not want to eat the food...... Matter of fact why did she even continue going out with him if she didnt like the fact he was a pickt eater it's also weird she assumed he didn't have arfid...im saying yeah shes an asshole
With the way she describes him, it sounds like he had something more than just being a picky eater. Maybe ARFID or emetophobia. Why keep pushing him when you clearly see he is very uncomfortable? Such an ahole for pushing him so much
as much as I could agree with you on some things, there could've been other ways for him to be less.. disrespectful towards everyone there, even if he was uncomfortable with the setting. Maybe he should've declined the invitation, or he could've made a meal of his own that he knew he liked to share with everyone else? I just don't think ditching your date for fries was the smartest choice *after* complaining about foods from different cultures But yes, the way she described him did make him sound like an 8 year old sooking over having to eat veggies ngl
@@mossbee01 girl.... He probably didn't want to be rude and he probably liked her it doesn't matter if he accepted the invitation or he didn't it is still disrespectful as hell to come on there and try and shame somebody after continuously engaging with him knowing you did not like the fact he was picky..... Like I said you don't invite someone somewhere knowing they're going to be uncomfortable whether they declined the invitation or accept it
@@EarthLover-p2c well maybe she wanted to invite him because she wanted to share something she's obviously very passionate about as one would with their partner. She's not an asshole for doing that, it wasn't like it was a trap that he 'just so happened' to walk into. He acted like a man-child. Insulting her friend's (and college's) dishes wasn't necessary, clearly there was food there he could at least eat (from memory on him being able to grab a plate for himself) and he still stomped his foot on the ground and demanded something else. Clearly, she feels a little bad since she's asking if she was the bad guy, but imo neither of them are but that guy could at least learn some respect for both himself and everyone.
I have ARFID because I’m autistic and it’s absolutely horrific I physically vomit over textures and sometimes the thoughts and smells of food make me vomit, but I’m trying a lot more foods sinse I’m studying to be a chef! Weird turn of advents😅
Picky eater here! I’m a 24 y/o female and I’ve struggled with an eating disorder for years and it doesn’t help at all that I’m a picky eater either. It is not by choice at all, I’m not opposed to trying some new foods, but I do have a weird sensory issue where if the food smells gross my mind automatically thinks it will taste that way too. I don’t struggle to eat fruit or vegetables because I grew up in a household eating all organic food/ no sugar allowed in the house but my dad was a fisherman and I’ve always hated seafood in any form. I used to literally wish I liked sushi as a teen because my friends were always going out for sushi dates and I’d get left out. But i am very much a meat, cheese and bun person when I order a burger or if it’s a new restaurant I usually just order chicken strips because I know it’s hard to mess that up. And I only like fettuccini Alfredo for pasta lmfao. Not a fan of spaghetti because the one vegetable I cannot stand is tomatoes. I’ll eat Brussels sprouts, love broccoli, regularly bake cauliflower in the oven as a lil snack but it’s actually super embarrassing for me to be 24 and still eat like a child. I refuse to go out to dinners for a first date because of it. Luckily my last boyfriend ate just like me minus eating vegetables lol so it wasn’t an issue then but now I’m a single lady and I’m struggling
Picky eating can be a mental block and becomes a disorder once it starts effecting your quality of life and your ability to function. But even the treatment for ARFID is (typically) exposure therapy and CBT to help work through the stuck points. (Which I can imagine is rough, I had to go through both for ocd and it wasn’t a fun time.) There’s a lot of research that says that the development of picky eating begins in childhood from not only watching your parents habits but also how they choose to punish or reward their kids eating habits, even in children that have sensory issues, and will only get worse if left unattended. So I’m very curious about what exactly happened for this guy to distrust everything food related to such an extent
ive had arfid since i was 2 and tried exposure therapy at many places and i can confirm it is very rough and almost always ends in a mental breakdown and possibly a panic attack😭
@ felt lol I have ocd pretty bad so I put my sock on in the wrong order the other day and then spent the rest of the day thinking my life was in mortal danger
5:49 my close friend is an incredibly picky eater as well like she mainly eats four foods and it has to do with her autism maybe she missed other signs or he was potentially undiagnosed?
prob undiagnosed but him being rude about other types of foods wouldve made her think he is just choosing to not try things. i would say he is just an undiagnosed asshole
5:36 I’m practically bawling as someone with ARFID who is constantly seeing stuff like this in media and people just don’t get it. thank you for researching it before assuming 💓
6:40 If you know someone clearly has an issue with food, why would you keep bringing them out to eat lolol. You can try to push them to try new things, but if you're doing that every time you hang out it is obvious that they'd get overwhelmed and uncomfortable. I don't understand this story because like... if food is that important, he wasn't right to begin with, but if you like him, then compromise and slowly introduce new things. Edit: Watched to the end and I think she is the AH. I think telling him the real reason was respectable, but the fact that something like that was worth losing a relationship with someone that she clearly liked is dumb. I hate when people can't put themselves in other people's shoes. I'm sure picky eaters could expand their taste in the right environment with support. A potluck with his date's coworker is insane when she knew that he only eats his comfort foods. He did try, and instead of giving grace and speaking about it, she cut him off. YTA
The picky eater story reminds me of a story of my own. I used to have a friend who was an extremely picky eater. Throughout our friendship I had only seen her eat a selection of foods so she could have possibly had ARFID. I am someone who personally really likes their food and food means a lot to me, but I am a little picky when it comes to certain things so it never bothered me very much what she ate as it was none of business after all. However, there is a fine line between being a picky eater and just being rude. Not only was she an extremely picky eater, she would also romanticise anorexia, bragging to everyone how little she ate and that she never got hungry, which was a lie because when she was hungry she would make it everyone's problem. Like when the last time I hung out with her, for example. We had gone over another friend's house to hang out for the day and from the very beginning she was already complaining that she was tired and hungry because she had decided to stay up all night and not eat. We decided to ignore her since she always did that and told her that she'll eat soon when we get to the house. Despite whining about it constantly, she refused every offer we gave her even though we were like, "we'll order whatever you want to the house or we can go and get food from a nearby shop, whatever you feel like", but she even refused to eat the stuff we knew she liked to the point where she gave an annoyed huff and told my friend's parents, "you don't have anything I like anyway, I'll just wait to go home and eat." After that we all fell silent about it (she didn't), but we all thought that she was so rude that everyone dropped her as a friend basically overnight. So, moral of the story, it's completely ok to be a picky eater, but if you are being rude then you are an asshole. Feeding yourself is your responsibility, no one else's. No one should make you feel bad about being picky, but please be kind and understanding.
3:50 dawg I got autism I can’t stand foods with the sauces because of my digestive issues I’m sensitive to textures and I lose my appetite when I take just a bite of something im not used to
As someone with arfid, the potluck thing is very real. I HATE buffets or dinners at other people's houses because I can never eat anything. For new years I was brought to a three course dinner away from home and ended up cooking meatballs in their kitchen 💀
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Girl why would you invite him to that potluck in the first place?? 😭
EXACTLY! I thought that
i didnt even think about that.. WHY DID SHE?? 😭
I mean it's natural to want to go out to events with your partner
dude i thought this same exact thing lol why would you bring him to an event centered around the one thing he’s clearly demonstrated he doesn’t like lol….
RIGHT??!!
i totally agree that picky eating is stemmed from some type of issue, I am extremely picky and cautious about food due to my emetophobia i hate it
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SO TRUE!! i physically cannot force myself to eat certain stuff and it does get really difficult, however unlike the guy in the story, i would never be disrespectful to someone’s cooking or culture of food
idk if i have something like that but there's a lot of foods i physically cannot eat without gagging
What kind of fuckass emoji is that
@@elsaa.112 soo real
I have arfid thank u for googling arfid and learning what it actually is most ppl just assume its anorexia
10:12 my mom has been a vegetarian for 10+ years and has never forced me & my sibling to change to satisfy her own diet. She’s happy and we’re happy. soooo…. no he’s not the asshole
my mom converted to vegetarian about that long ago, when i visit she'll still buy me eggs and stuff to eat if I want it though its her house so im usually fine going without for a week.
my aunt's been a vegetarian (?) for quite some time now, and I do heavily agree with you. she doesn't come over and judge us nor' does she push it onto people. she simply reminds us, and even makes her own dishes for when she comes over on holidays, even bringing around her own oat milk for us to keep when she has coffees with her sister (our mom)
Cheers mate
@@alanbudde8560can’t vegetarians eat eggs though? it’s vegans that don’t eat animal products, vegetarians just don’t eat animal meat
@aharrypotterfan5951 depends many do but it's not really defined some don't eat eggs or eat dairy
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It annoys me when ppl just assume “picky eaters” are choosing not to be adventurous with their food choices, majority of the time it’s not even a choice
sometimes i wish i could eat like a normal person but I have physical reactions when I try eating something new I do not trust
I genuinely burst out crying at some points when eating foods unfamiliar or unusual. I try but sometimes it just doesn’t work. Not because I want to eat whatever I want but because I can’t EAT. It’s gotten so bad that even eating foods I can eat I sometimes become nauseous when consuming and I just can’t finish eating.
Fr like it definitely comes to preferences and textures like I WILL GAG and possibly yak if I try to choke down pudding. And if something has too much black pepper I would rather actually crawl into a hole nd die than touch my tongue to that evil thing. But I will definitely try new things and enjoy them if my body allows me to 😂😂😂
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I know it’s probably a British things but the way he says yogurt gets me everytime 😂
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Yes as a picky eater i absolutely hate it but i just CANT with some foods.
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I completely agree that picky eating is from some sort of issue, I’m autistic so for some foods it’s the texture or smell, I had a fear of choking at one point which made me physically unable to swallow certain foods, I also simply just don’t like the taste of some things. I could be diagnosed with ARFID but it’s not a priority atm, I wish I could eat more food☹️
I have arfid and honestly if its gonna cost you money dont bother getting diagnosed. its linked with autism and adhd so you prob have it if you have the symptoms. ive been diagnosed since i was 6 and for me at least there are not many "recovery" methods. there are types of therapy but its expensive and they basically just ask you to try something you dont like and you prob know that it doesnt work like that. obviously if you wanna get diagnosed for some sort of clarity then i would reccomend it but otherwise there isnt much point
someone like jake i understand, i have autism and its EXTREMELY hard for me to eat. i wont eat meats, try sauces or anything im not used to, its hard to NOT make faces because you are physically disgusted but you cant help it
maybe he was just weird but i get it and its really frustrating 😭😭
autism often times corrilates with food intake disorders, im afraid to eat things and its really hard to eat and im not TRYING to be picky, i dont think shes the asshole but i think she needs to understand that some people genuinely are afraid of eating things they arent used to
OK but she KNOWS he's a picky eater and she brings him to a BUFFET?????? you can share other interests, food is not everything, and you can also let him eat plain while you enjoy and just share the moment...
I don’t think the huge issue is that he’s just picky, but he’s rude about it. Many picky people will order or get what they want and be kind about it, but he was being rude about other people’s food from other cultures literally in front of them
It’s a big part of her life and if it’s in her values and dating goals to share that with someone I think she’s well within her right :)
A buffet is kinda ideal for a picky eater, no? He gets to pick only the foods that he likes, rather than having a set menu.
Even better: it's a potluck. The man could've brought his own meal (as long as he brought enough to share) and nobody would've batted an eye! Instead, he'd rather go and complain that nobody is catering to him.
OP is totally right for dumping him. She would've ended up being responsible for his every persnickety meal, I guarantee it.
My brother's a picky eater but he doesn't act that way though (mind u he's 13). A grown adult throwing insults left and right, then leaving his date to get his own dinner instead was extremely disrespectful, especially when the op stated that this was a huge thing for her too. There could've been so many other ways he should've handled that instead of doing what he did
As a super picky eater, I think buffets are ideal because I don’t have to worry about not liking what I ordered and having nothing to eat.
Omg yes! As a picky eater I want to eat everything so badly but I just can’t. My family think I choose what I like and can just magically change my tastebuds to enjoy everything they like.
Partly the asshole on the second one. She knew that he was this way about food and she kept going on dates to dinner and to an entire potluck full of food she knew he would not like. I don’t know why she expected him to change when it was a consistent pattern. Finding a balance between food and other activities probably would’ve been the best idea. But she kept getting mad at him for being picky. His comments were unnecessary though.
Literally like girl... You knew how he was still decided to talk to him and then decided it would be a good idea to invite him to a potluck also assuming he didn't have Arfid is crazy because that's literally what she described.....while his comments were unnecessary I doubt he was trying to be rude
i still think we should consider that he wasn’t just simply eating plain stuff but making rude and disrespectful comments about the food other people ate. i do still think she probably would’ve had the same opinion if he hadn’t so your point still kinda stands but i‘d argue he was also a little bit of an asshole considering his rude comments.
@@lancelotandmerlin nobody's saying he's right for making those comments but she's most certainly an asshole for purposefully inviting him somewhere knowing he was picky and then getting upset about it..... You don't invite someone somewhere knowing they're not going to enjoy it and then get mad when they don't enjoy it
Op said in the comments he kinda invited himself
don't mean to get all sappy on an Italian Bach video and honestly didn't think I would but thanks for being understanding about ARFID bc honestly I hate that I have it and try so hard to eat foods that are 'scary' to me but like literally cannot my body just wants me to throw them up rather than eat them.....yeah its weird I know but thanks for being nice about it
stop omg when i heard him even mention arfid i almost cried. ive had it since i was 2 and its so happy to see someone i watch actually understand it and not just be ignorant
Hi, I'm the guy from the final story. Now that you've put it like that Bach, I appreciate it is me that's the problem.
I've decided as an apology to my mum, to complete 40 days and 40 nights of force feeding my kids olives and feta
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If you're picky, it's not because you want to be. you have no control over the foods you like and dislike
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6:20 why would you invite someone yk is a picky eater to a potluck knowing they're going to be uncomfortable or just not want to eat the food...... Matter of fact why did she even continue going out with him if she didnt like the fact he was a pickt eater it's also weird she assumed he didn't have arfid...im saying yeah shes an asshole
With the way she describes him, it sounds like he had something more than just being a picky eater. Maybe ARFID or emetophobia.
Why keep pushing him when you clearly see he is very uncomfortable?
Such an ahole for pushing him so much
as much as I could agree with you on some things, there could've been other ways for him to be less.. disrespectful towards everyone there, even if he was uncomfortable with the setting. Maybe he should've declined the invitation, or he could've made a meal of his own that he knew he liked to share with everyone else?
I just don't think ditching your date for fries was the smartest choice *after* complaining about foods from different cultures
But yes, the way she described him did make him sound like an 8 year old sooking over having to eat veggies ngl
@@mossbee01 girl.... He probably didn't want to be rude and he probably liked her it doesn't matter if he accepted the invitation or he didn't it is still disrespectful as hell to come on there and try and shame somebody after continuously engaging with him knowing you did not like the fact he was picky..... Like I said you don't invite someone somewhere knowing they're going to be uncomfortable whether they declined the invitation or accept it
@@EarthLover-p2c well maybe she wanted to invite him because she wanted to share something she's obviously very passionate about as one would with their partner. She's not an asshole for doing that, it wasn't like it was a trap that he 'just so happened' to walk into. He acted like a man-child. Insulting her friend's (and college's) dishes wasn't necessary, clearly there was food there he could at least eat (from memory on him being able to grab a plate for himself) and he still stomped his foot on the ground and demanded something else.
Clearly, she feels a little bad since she's asking if she was the bad guy, but imo neither of them are but that guy could at least learn some respect for both himself and everyone.
She didn’t invite him, he invited himself
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I have ARFID because I’m autistic and it’s absolutely horrific I physically vomit over textures and sometimes the thoughts and smells of food make me vomit, but I’m trying a lot more foods sinse I’m studying to be a chef! Weird turn of advents😅
Never seen this guy before. Chilled out British humour though? This is an instant subscribe. And I'm picky.
Okay but the picky eater guy just sounds like he might be on the spectrum 🤷🏻♀️
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Parent mad at grandparent is the AH in more ways than one.
Vegan mother is an AH.
The way he says yogurt is so strange
"iogot" 😭😭
Very normal for us British people 😂
Ok... to be fair I do have an ED, but pasta and butter does hit different I gotta say
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Picky eater here! I’m a 24 y/o female and I’ve struggled with an eating disorder for years and it doesn’t help at all that I’m a picky eater either. It is not by choice at all, I’m not opposed to trying some new foods, but I do have a weird sensory issue where if the food smells gross my mind automatically thinks it will taste that way too. I don’t struggle to eat fruit or vegetables because I grew up in a household eating all organic food/ no sugar allowed in the house but my dad was a fisherman and I’ve always hated seafood in any form. I used to literally wish I liked sushi as a teen because my friends were always going out for sushi dates and I’d get left out. But i am very much a meat, cheese and bun person when I order a burger or if it’s a new restaurant I usually just order chicken strips because I know it’s hard to mess that up. And I only like fettuccini Alfredo for pasta lmfao. Not a fan of spaghetti because the one vegetable I cannot stand is tomatoes. I’ll eat Brussels sprouts, love broccoli, regularly bake cauliflower in the oven as a lil snack but it’s actually super embarrassing for me to be 24 and still eat like a child. I refuse to go out to dinners for a first date because of it. Luckily my last boyfriend ate just like me minus eating vegetables lol so it wasn’t an issue then but now I’m a single lady and I’m struggling
'Thank you Bach' I say as I slurp down my buttery pasta noodles.
The vegan one is kinda weird. People dont just convert to new religions out of the blue, I feel like some important information is missing.
wait a minute no mention of periods? WHO IS THIS IMPOSTER PRETENDING TO BE BACH?!?!
i don’t trust anyone who chooses to eat pasta with butter
Picky eating can be a mental block and becomes a disorder once it starts effecting your quality of life and your ability to function. But even the treatment for ARFID is (typically) exposure therapy and CBT to help work through the stuck points. (Which I can imagine is rough, I had to go through both for ocd and it wasn’t a fun time.) There’s a lot of research that says that the development of picky eating begins in childhood from not only watching your parents habits but also how they choose to punish or reward their kids eating habits, even in children that have sensory issues, and will only get worse if left unattended. So I’m very curious about what exactly happened for this guy to distrust everything food related to such an extent
ive had arfid since i was 2 and tried exposure therapy at many places and i can confirm it is very rough and almost always ends in a mental breakdown and possibly a panic attack😭
@ felt lol I have ocd pretty bad so I put my sock on in the wrong order the other day and then spent the rest of the day thinking my life was in mortal danger
Bach is in his healthy relationship era!!
“Thank you my fellow Bach for this upload” we all say in unison
been insulted 10 seconds into the video thanks
if we don't say thank you, I'm afraid we'll be sacrificed....
my boyfriend is a pretty extreme picky eater because he has major sensory issues, especially with food textures
posing philosophical questions in the title i see
a little treat for back to school season
You’re starting school right now?
im sueing italianbach, i was eating cereal and started laughing and i choked
5:49 my close friend is an incredibly picky eater as well like she mainly eats four foods and it has to do with her autism maybe she missed other signs or he was potentially undiagnosed?
prob undiagnosed but him being rude about other types of foods wouldve made her think he is just choosing to not try things. i would say he is just an undiagnosed asshole
5:36 I’m practically bawling as someone with ARFID who is constantly seeing stuff like this in media and people just don’t get it. thank you for researching it before assuming 💓
I love the way bach says yogurt
The most serious Italian bach video ever 😢
thank you bach i was just starting my dinner
6:40 If you know someone clearly has an issue with food, why would you keep bringing them out to eat lolol. You can try to push them to try new things, but if you're doing that every time you hang out it is obvious that they'd get overwhelmed and uncomfortable. I don't understand this story because like... if food is that important, he wasn't right to begin with, but if you like him, then compromise and slowly introduce new things.
Edit: Watched to the end and I think she is the AH. I think telling him the real reason was respectable, but the fact that something like that was worth losing a relationship with someone that she clearly liked is dumb. I hate when people can't put themselves in other people's shoes. I'm sure picky eaters could expand their taste in the right environment with support. A potluck with his date's coworker is insane when she knew that he only eats his comfort foods. He did try, and instead of giving grace and speaking about it, she cut him off. YTA
4:40 he has the same diet as my 10yo sister
The picky eater story reminds me of a story of my own. I used to have a friend who was an extremely picky eater. Throughout our friendship I had only seen her eat a selection of foods so she could have possibly had ARFID. I am someone who personally really likes their food and food means a lot to me, but I am a little picky when it comes to certain things so it never bothered me very much what she ate as it was none of business after all. However, there is a fine line between being a picky eater and just being rude. Not only was she an extremely picky eater, she would also romanticise anorexia, bragging to everyone how little she ate and that she never got hungry, which was a lie because when she was hungry she would make it everyone's problem. Like when the last time I hung out with her, for example. We had gone over another friend's house to hang out for the day and from the very beginning she was already complaining that she was tired and hungry because she had decided to stay up all night and not eat. We decided to ignore her since she always did that and told her that she'll eat soon when we get to the house. Despite whining about it constantly, she refused every offer we gave her even though we were like, "we'll order whatever you want to the house or we can go and get food from a nearby shop, whatever you feel like", but she even refused to eat the stuff we knew she liked to the point where she gave an annoyed huff and told my friend's parents, "you don't have anything I like anyway, I'll just wait to go home and eat." After that we all fell silent about it (she didn't), but we all thought that she was so rude that everyone dropped her as a friend basically overnight.
So, moral of the story, it's completely ok to be a picky eater, but if you are being rude then you are an asshole. Feeding yourself is your responsibility, no one else's. No one should make you feel bad about being picky, but please be kind and understanding.
Bach in his agony uncle era✊🏻😅
nooo no no noodles with butter is god tier
my favourite time of the day is when bach posts
apart from all the ass jokes, that was deep man
I love how you say yogurt. Being from the USA it's amazing.
“ Thank for for the new upload crazywearwolf888!” We all say in unison
I FR DANCED WHEN I SAW THIZ
4:00 through 4:11 was the most british shit I've ever heard
Beautiful cabin crew
9:20 I laughed out loud at this
yes i am a bad person thank you for asking bach
“The Germans aren’t coming “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣
THE BACHTERIA HAVE BEEN FED
3:50 dawg I got autism I can’t stand foods with the sauces because of my digestive issues I’m sensitive to textures and I lose my appetite when I take just a bite of something im not used to
My grandma called him a strapping young man ☺️
I bet bro can hear his own heartbeat with them ears..
Bach keeping us on our toes with random additions to the stories
‘first thing that comes to head’ 😂
that into has made me chronically depressed 😔😔
beautiful cabin crew
8:06 wow needed to hear this , thank u ❤
As someone with arfid, the potluck thing is very real. I HATE buffets or dinners at other people's houses because I can never eat anything. For new years I was brought to a three course dinner away from home and ended up cooking meatballs in their kitchen 💀
i have a unhinged addiction to this man
Bach discovers AITA
The 1st story definitely isn't an ahole, she just got what was coming to her. He just stated a fact about her.
i came back to watch after making some food only to find out i was infact eating buttered spaghetti as you began talking about how strange it is
“We say in unison” we all say in unison