this is probably useless advice but it worked for me so I tried to "pretend" to be a confident cool person that I saw in my head and as much as I did it I actually Became that person..
planzed HAHAHA THIS is exactly what i did too! i shifted my mindset and told myself "HEY!! nina you're a confident person, so make it look like so in front of ppl, they'll never know!"
im literally struggling with my shyness and sometimes it seems like im the only one in this world who is so shy and this video made me feel less alone and a little bit more confident so thank you so much !!
Pretty helpful advice! A year ago I was a small ball of shyness and sadness that was afraid of what people may think of me if I put myself out there.What I found helped me was keeping a "Dont think just do" mindset and found myself auditioning for an advanced choir class and joining an art club. I found a lot of people with the same interests and it made people seem less scary. I wouldnt say Im no longer a shy person but seeing my progress from last year to now makes me so very happy! Anyone out there having struggles know that theres nothing wrong about being shy. But if you see that it stops you from doing things you love, Challenge yourself! life's short have fun! Its hard at first but it progressively gets easier along the way. :)) Good luck!
When I do stuff like talk Loud or do things I say in my head "Wow that was stupid of what I just did. " I hate people calling me a freak. I am socially awkward. I wonder in my head "How do people talk so loud, or be confident? "
MysticalWolfGirl how i look at it is by looking at myself thru another point of view. i imagine what i look like if i'm talking quietly or if i'm talking louder and i'd prefer to be heard than be asked "wait what?" ya know ? it just takes lots of time, practice, and acceptance
I just stumbled across your channel today and I'm blown away by how genuine you are ?? I wish I could be chill when it comes to TH-cam, I want to make videos but I struggle so much with how I should deliver them and how I should act. It's so refreshing to see how laid back and authentic you are on your channel. Thanks for inspiring and reminding me to just be myself :)
i think that a lot of my social anxiety comes from not knowing how i'm presenting myself. i ask myself questions like "i think i'm smiling.. does it look dumb, or does it look fake?" or "is my body language off?" all the time. i really connected with the advice about filming yourself to see how you look/act and i'm confident that it would help me tremendously. i just can't get over the fear of cringing at myself? i don't think i'd watch any of my videos back because i'd be too scared
kind of coincidental but i'm currently taking a public speaking class after dodging it for however long and i can honestly say that it has been one of the most rewarding classes i have ever taken. i'm more confident and as you mentioned, have more trust in people. i can relate with a lot of your points! keep up the good work :) ♥
Thank youuuu most of the videos i have watched is how to not be shy but they havent gone through what i have so its nice to watch a person who has gone through the same thing as me ☺️
I can totally relate to being labelled as the "shy girl" my whole childhood and teen years. I still am shy but have improved a lot since I was a kid and still have a long way to go! This vid was v inspiring, now I just gotta take action 💪🏼
This was super helpful. I’ve been bashing myself since I’m feeling like a lonely little unsociable alienic freshman. Took a sob before seeing this and im feeling healed
yes please i want the public speaking class video,i always panic so much before giving speeches/presentations or simply answering in class so itd really help 💘
So I took a public speaking course last year as a freshman, but I feel like it only made me worse.. Like, it brought it reality how horrible I am at speaking in clear sentences or even thinking correctly when faced with other people. I didn't even get much practice since we only did three speeches, two of which were recorded and uploaded remotely. I often feel as though there's no hope for me 'cause I've had this problem for many years now and nothing seems to change no matter how hard I try.
I feel the exact same:( and whenever I do take a step forward and speak something everybody gets so shocked and is like woah the quiet kid spoke it's kinda annoying . Even one of my closest friends has put my name as the shy kid on a messaging app:(
@@hope1782 Oof, I felt that :/ That's really sucky, but those kinds of people really have no right to knock you down because they can't see how hard you're trying. Keep it up, and I know you'll get to your goals someday :D You've got this stranger here rooting for you \('u')/
I took a public speaking class and it didn't help all that much. It only made me realize how bad my anxiety had gotten over the years. Few years later, I'm doing clerical work and I'm forced to talk every day. That helped me. I actually had to do my own homework on how to improve my social skills. What motivated me was seeing myself in a prestigious career and the type of skills that I need to achieve that.
Thank you for this video! I WISH there was a video like this around when I was younger. I was very shy for many years. It took time but I slowly gained confidence in myself. Accepting yourself and not caring what others think of you is key. Life is short, love yourself and get out in the world and have fun.
Not totally relying on a public speaking class to solve all my problems but I heard from my friends that it helps with shyness and I signed up to take it next school year and I'm glad more people have benefited from it!
Hey Nina IM SO GLAD YOUR CHANNEL is growing steadily and quickly!!Actually thank you for making this video! Also, congrats on the uni stuff I can't wait to see u blossom even more
So when you made public speeches in the class, how did you prepare them? Did you have your speeches written on the word document and read them in front of the class, or did you just write a few main points on your notes and talk through, or did you pretty much memorise the whole contents? And how much time do you think you spent on average for the preparation of the weekly speech? How long did your speech last on average? How nervous were you in your first speech? It’s difficult to believe that you were terrified of speaking in front of people as you speak confidently for 16 minutes in this video alone. Your answers would be very much appreciated.
You are hella attractive sharing these tips, your personality is very magnetic. I dont know you personally but I just admire everything. I never watched a youtube video that touched my soul. Thank you for sharing this❤❤😭😢
Nina's face at 12:36 ahaha I love her so much also I took her advice and decided to take a theatre class hopefully it goes alright, this video was very much needed and helpful so ty!!
Everyone always tells me that I’m so shy and that I should talk more so I decided I wanted to challenge myself to do things I’m afraid and jump all in and major in communications lol. I have been learning so much and little by little I’ve been getting better and better at public speaking and communication in general. And I starting to notice my confidence and believing in myself and my abilities more. I also started to go to therapy and have been working on myself and my mental health and I think that’s been helping too!
Hi Nina. I'm a sophomore in university and I really appreciate this video. I get so worried about messing up in front of people that I just retract into my shell, and I know I need to be more open and forgive myself. This video really soothes me and gives me hope for myself.
I've been subscribed to you for a while and I really love your aesthetic and personality. But I happened to stumble upon this video and I LOVE IT!! Thank you so much for this :))
Im taking professional communication this year and it changed me so much i used to get red and nervous and now I really like that class and can actually do a speech and also this helps me with my other major projects i do after school. I was bullied in my childhood and closed my self off and becames reserved and less social and when i moved i had confidence in myself and knowing this district doesnt judge people if they are wierd so I really am opening myself up more
thank you for this video i think it'll help me a lot, and i've realised that you're exactly the type of friend i'd like to "have" you're just spiritually attractive and so open minded!! thank you for being you love you hope i'll get an answer lol have a good day✨💛❤
I loved this video!! I feel like over time I've distanced myself from others but also myself? If that makes sense. I took a public speaking class and was super out there with myself in high school. Yet, lately I just don't feel like I'm putting myself out there in the same way. I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing but I am super unapproachable, but I'd love to make new friends! So, I'm going to work on being more aware of myself, so I can reach out to others, and love me. Thanks Nina
yesss be patient with yourself and when ur ready, go out there and be your lovely self :^) otherwise, be your own best friend like i have and love alone time ! lol
Hello Nina! I would be really happy if you'd make a video about public speaking, this is like my major concern i'm getting into university this year and I know I'm gonna have to speak infront of people and I'm reaaaalllyyyy scared and we dont have public speaking classes here so PLEASE!! 😭😭 loved this video by the way you got a new subscriber!! 💜💜
I deal mostly with being natural with others, like being me, being faithful to my personality, my jokes. Sometimes I don't know why, it's hard to be just myself
Genuinely SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad I found your challenge I feel like I'm literally a British version of you haha! Anyways I absolutely loved this video it was a useful 16 minutes of my life wooo I CANT WAIT FOR EVERY TUESDAY!!
I want more on positivity! I'd LOVE some pointors or just anything, on the topic of how you look at things in a more positive light. Thank you soo much, really needed this vid 😘 I really want to push myself to join a club or something; life just doesn't hand things in my lap 😣 I gotta put myself out there
Really appreciate this video. I can relate to a lot of what you said and it’s really good to hear something from someone who is coming from a similar place.
I relate everyone is always like you need to speak louder and stuff and I seriously try but it's like I have something on my throat and I can't lol I'm just gonna think I'm confident until I really am and embrace my weird personality This made me remember when I had this school project where I had to act and one of my friends forgot a line and I had to improvise like half of the play since I was one of the main characters and I was like "fuck it" and I embraced myself and I was confident with myself since it was a sarcastic character (not a lot of ppl know that side of me bcs I just "open up" to some close friends) and surprisingly everyone from my class and even my teacher loved it and it made me realize I don't have to be so cautious about myself and actually let it all go lol Sorry for the big ass comment and I love your videos :^)
Spent a good home binging bc I needed background noise while painting my final. Definitely fell in love tho wow. Something I need to remind myself more often is it's okay being alone. Much love from Seattle!!
I love this so much!! Really good points girl I can tell you’ve put a lot of care in working on yourself and you seem like a confident yet comfortable person. Now I’m going to binge watch more of your videos☺️😂 ha love ya
I love this video. and I want to thank you for this 😊 bc I'm having trouble whenever I talk to other people that I don't know and I want to change that attitude.. from now on I will try to improve myself. thank you Nina! 😘 btw I love all your videos. keep on recording yourself haha. u give good vibes haha ily!
Can relate!!!! I'm a business major and I have been told to take a public speaking class forever!!!! I'm finally doing it this semester, I GREW THE 🏀 ⚾️ 🏈 TO DO IT
Thank you Nina for this video ☺️☺️ It made me think about my let’s say shyness a little bit more. I think the problem for me is that I made a first bad impression and I didn’t even try to fix it in any way. I made myself believe that the people from my class would never like me. Also, I don’t want it to sound weird or sth but my friends have this attitude to other people like “I don’t want to talk to them. I hate people” so when I’m talking to somebody I know and saying just “hi” they are like “wow, you’re so sociable. So strange”. I think that this discouraged me from talking to other people even more. Jeez it’s so messed up 😅😅 I don’t know if I’m even shy in general but when I’m in front of people from my class I’m so afraid of them and can only think of them judging me ugh. When I meet people randomly like when I’m on holidays or sth I can say that at the beginning I’m a little bit shy but immediately I feel like some kind of button is switched and then I’m a completely different person. Shit, this comment is so long 😂😂 hope you have a nice day 💞
Commenting to this video which was uploaded two years ago just because I wanted to tell you that I love your videos! I somehow found your channel a few days ago and I’m really into it ✌️❤️ Love from Japan🙋♀️
thank you for this, it was quite helpful I really needed it,like I'm a confident enough person I just don't know how to actually conversate with people so thank you, again 💖
EVERYTHING THAT YOU SAID PEOPLE NAMED YOU IS EXACTLY WHAT PEOPLE HAVE CALLED ME AND I'M ALSO ASIAN AND EVERYTHING YOU SAID REMINDS ME OF ME AND I FEEL LIKE UR ME YOOOO LET'S BE FRIENDS
Yeah talking to a camera really helps and it is kind of fun! anyways I just found your channel and I'm sooooo happy I did, your are awesome and very creative :) Love !!
this did kind of help. i guess i could try recording myself, i've done it before and it definitely boosted my confidence a little, but not for too long. i ended up being even more shy after some time when i was confident. i don't have any clubs at my school though, and i have no place to go to join a speech class or something similar. i do get very awkward sometimes around other people and i've went through depression before so it's kind of hard to open up to others. i know there are other ways to improve my mental health, mood and the way i act around others, but i don't really know about them. i don't want to go to a therapist though, because i feel like she/he would only be fake so i can feel better, and i don't want that. i've told my parents about how i'm feeling, but they don't understand me. i love them a lot and they're just trying to help, and i know it sounds corny, but they really don't understand me. i really liked this video, so please, if you can, do more sit down talk videos soon, they help a lot. i love you.
I used to be an friendly outgoing kid back then, but since Ive been bullied in my school, it makes me insecure and start hating myself. I miss those childhood times when i was still innocence kid and don't care what other thinks. But since teenager always think no one wanna be friend with me as I'm boring and weird, I dont know how to deal with that:(((( Im always trying to be more confident and friendly person but my messy mind full of negativity and I'm tired of acted fake to people (giving smile, small talk, etc) I once went to speech club at my college, but seems like people laughing at my speech, voice and my body language, so I'm quited, I don't wanna keep embarrassed myself, but I don't wanna be like this in my entire life, im scared bcsmy of my shyness it prevent me to achieve my goals and all. (Sorry for my sucks English)
I used to be a pretty confident person and I never felt socially anxious. I also had a lot of friends before. Recently tho I started feeling this way! I constantly think people might not want to be friends with me! (Also here there is not much diversity so I always feel lonely as an asian girl) I get nervous when I’m the only asian person in a group. 😭
the part where you mentioned that you have to ask yourself first if you’re ok was an important point. growing up as a person who’s extremely shy, people around me have constantly told me that i need to start talking with others more or pressure me into forming part of social situations, not forgetting about the questions saying “why are you so shy?” which can be tiring. people tend to forget that it can be hard to socialize for a person struggling with personal problems, and i had never heard someone mention this point until your video. thank you from the bottom of my heart for such great advice. it definitely helped to understand the whole process of putting yourself out there without forgetting to not beat yourself up.
I was sort of normal until I hit 13 years old. I got anxiety and a depressive episode. I still go to a therapist and I'm getting better. I'm still super nervous around people though, I wish I could get rid of it completely
this is probably useless advice but it worked for me so
I tried to "pretend" to be a confident cool person that I saw in my head and as much as I did it I actually Became that person..
planzed HAHAHA THIS is exactly what i did too! i shifted my mindset and told myself "HEY!! nina you're a confident person, so make it look like so in front of ppl, they'll never know!"
planzed sameee, i try to act confident but lol nah ahah ha h a h
@@sunnynacia this is true tbh
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You immediately reminded me of this Ted Talk!
The advice about being more approachable was very useful bc i usually just surround myself with a shroud of darkness kinda like Severus Rogue
AHAHAHA me
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that character growth though
this smol bean grew into a beautiful bean stalk
im literally struggling with my shyness and sometimes it seems like im the only one in this world who is so shy
and this video made me feel less alone and a little bit more confident so thank you so much !!
u r never alone my friend !! :^)
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I’m awkward at school but I’m really talkative outside school. Is it just me?
Kyutie_nct18 that’s like selective mutism. Look it up
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i’m so outgoing outside of school and have little stress but soon as i sit in my seat i can’t be normal my whole personality changes
Same and making mistakes makes it worst my worst period it PE it make me more nerves
Lime 52Owo me too I'm starting pe next year and I know I'm gonna be so bad
I always feel like my personality is weird so people won't like it. :(❤️
Pretty helpful advice! A year ago I was a small ball of shyness and sadness that was afraid of what people may think of me if I put myself out there.What I found helped me was keeping a "Dont think just do" mindset and found myself auditioning for an advanced choir class and joining an art club. I found a lot of people with the same interests and it made people seem less scary. I wouldnt say Im no longer a shy person but seeing my progress from last year to now makes me so very happy! Anyone out there having struggles know that theres nothing wrong about being shy. But if you see that it stops you from doing things you love, Challenge yourself! life's short have fun! Its hard at first but it progressively gets easier along the way. :)) Good luck!
Fluffy Bonneh thank you so much. you are so sweet ♡
Thx this makes me feel like I can help myself
why did nina upload at 10pm on a MONDAY u ask ? bc nina sucks and didn't want to wait til tuesday :::)))
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nina it's very helpful. thank you 💖💕 and your voice is very attractive 👏👏 -from seoul
HAHAHA my voice thanks youu LOL
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When I do stuff like talk Loud or do things I say in my head "Wow that was stupid of what I just did. " I hate people calling me a freak. I am socially awkward. I wonder in my head "How do people talk so loud, or be confident? "
MysticalWolfGirl how i look at it is by looking at myself thru another point of view. i imagine what i look like if i'm talking quietly or if i'm talking louder and i'd prefer to be heard than be asked "wait what?" ya know ? it just takes lots of time, practice, and acceptance
I just stumbled across your channel today and I'm blown away by how genuine you are ?? I wish I could be chill when it comes to TH-cam, I want to make videos but I struggle so much with how I should deliver them and how I should act. It's so refreshing to see how laid back and authentic you are on your channel. Thanks for inspiring and reminding me to just be myself :)
i think that a lot of my social anxiety comes from not knowing how i'm presenting myself. i ask myself questions like "i think i'm smiling.. does it look dumb, or does it look fake?" or "is my body language off?" all the time. i really connected with the advice about filming yourself to see how you look/act and i'm confident that it would help me tremendously. i just can't get over the fear of cringing at myself? i don't think i'd watch any of my videos back because i'd be too scared
kind of coincidental but i'm currently taking a public speaking class after dodging it for however long and i can honestly say that it has been one of the most rewarding classes i have ever taken. i'm more confident and as you mentioned, have more trust in people. i can relate with a lot of your points! keep up the good work :) ♥
yay for public speaking !! i was afraid of it for the longest time but one day i was like whatever imma just do it and i actually learned so much :)
Thank youuuu most of the videos i have watched is how to not be shy but they havent gone through what i have so its nice to watch a person who has gone through the same thing as me ☺️
lol ur actually the most relatable youtuber i’ve seen
I can totally relate to being labelled as the "shy girl" my whole childhood and teen years. I still am shy but have improved a lot since I was a kid and still have a long way to go! This vid was v inspiring, now I just gotta take action 💪🏼
ahhhh thank u for this
"We're all just people trying to get by."
Girl what hello I remember always having fun in core class in middle school with you!! So cool where you're at now, glad you are doing well 😘
Megan Szeto OMG megan !!! wow time flew by ahaha it's nice to hear from u again :)
This was super helpful. I’ve been bashing myself since I’m feeling like a lonely little unsociable alienic freshman. Took a sob before seeing this and im feeling healed
yes please i want the public speaking class video,i always panic so much before giving speeches/presentations or simply answering in class so itd really help 💘
So I took a public speaking course last year as a freshman, but I feel like it only made me worse.. Like, it brought it reality how horrible I am at speaking in clear sentences or even thinking correctly when faced with other people. I didn't even get much practice since we only did three speeches, two of which were recorded and uploaded remotely. I often feel as though there's no hope for me 'cause I've had this problem for many years now and nothing seems to change no matter how hard I try.
I feel the exact same:( and whenever I do take a step forward and speak something everybody gets so shocked and is like woah the quiet kid spoke it's kinda annoying . Even one of my closest friends has put my name as the shy kid on a messaging app:(
@@hope1782 Oof, I felt that :/ That's really sucky, but those kinds of people really have no right to knock you down because they can't see how hard you're trying. Keep it up, and I know you'll get to your goals someday :D You've got this stranger here rooting for you \('u')/
@@scarletrosev2988 ohh thankyou soo much!! I hope you are also able to reach your goals 😆
Your drawings are really cool by the way!! Are you into art?
@@hope1782 Thank you! I am, actually, though it's more of a hobby since I can't afford to go full time with it.
You became my personal "idol" or a person who I look up to a bit... thats crazy.. but I like you and your opinions.
aww you´re like a wise big sister who just always knows the right things to say 💕💕
I took a public speaking class and it didn't help all that much. It only made me realize how bad my anxiety had gotten over the years.
Few years later, I'm doing clerical work and I'm forced to talk every day. That helped me. I actually had to do my own homework on how to improve my social skills. What motivated me was seeing myself in a prestigious career and the type of skills that I need to achieve that.
Thank you for this video! I WISH there was a video like this around when I was younger. I was very shy for many years. It took time but I slowly gained confidence in myself. Accepting yourself and not caring what others think of you is key. Life is short, love yourself and get out in the world and have fun.
i know this video came out three years ago but thank u for sharing with us your advices!! I'm gonna try them, hopefully they're gonna work!
Not totally relying on a public speaking class to solve all my problems but I heard from my friends that it helps with shyness and I signed up to take it next school year and I'm glad more people have benefited from it!
Hey Nina IM SO GLAD YOUR CHANNEL is growing steadily and quickly!!Actually thank you for making this video! Also, congrats on the uni stuff I can't wait to see u blossom even more
thaaaaank yoooouuuuu
So when you made public speeches in the class, how did you prepare them? Did you have your speeches written on the word document and read them in front of the class, or did you just write a few main points on your notes and talk through, or did you pretty much memorise the whole contents? And how much time do you think you spent on average for the preparation of the weekly speech? How long did your speech last on average? How nervous were you in your first speech? It’s difficult to believe that you were terrified of speaking in front of people as you speak confidently for 16 minutes in this video alone. Your answers would be very much appreciated.
You are hella attractive sharing these tips, your personality is very magnetic. I dont know you personally but I just admire everything. I never watched a youtube video that touched my soul. Thank you for sharing this❤❤😭😢
Nina's face at 12:36 ahaha I love her so much also I took her advice and decided to take a theatre class hopefully it goes alright, this video was very much needed and helpful so ty!!
I ADMIRE UR EYE MAKEUP OMG
Literally this was me!! But I still talk like everyone can hear me when sometimes they can't
hahaha ME w friends
Everyone always tells me that I’m so shy and that I should talk more so I decided I wanted to challenge myself to do things I’m afraid and jump all in and major in communications lol. I have been learning so much and little by little I’ve been getting better and better at public speaking and communication in general. And I starting to notice my confidence and believing in myself and my abilities more.
I also started to go to therapy and have been working on myself and my mental health and I think that’s been helping too!
nina's words of wisdom were very much needed at a time like this 🙏🏼
Hi Nina. I'm a sophomore in university and I really appreciate this video. I get so worried about messing up in front of people that I just retract into my shell, and I know I need to be more open and forgive myself. This video really soothes me and gives me hope for myself.
I've been subscribed to you for a while and I really love your aesthetic and personality. But I happened to stumble upon this video and I LOVE IT!! Thank you so much for this :))
Im taking professional communication this year and it changed me so much i used to get red and nervous and now I really like that class and can actually do a speech and also this helps me with my other major projects i do after school. I was bullied in my childhood and closed my self off and becames reserved and less social and when i moved i had confidence in myself and knowing this district doesnt judge people if they are wierd so I really am opening myself up more
thank you for this video i think it'll help me a lot, and i've realised that you're exactly the type of friend i'd like to "have" you're just spiritually attractive and so open minded!! thank you for being you love you hope i'll get an answer lol have a good day✨💛❤
It helps! And all your tips correspond to my personal experiences and feelings as well, thank you !!❤️
this is honestly the most helpful video ive seen so far on this topic. thank you xx
I loved this video!! I feel like over time I've distanced myself from others but also myself? If that makes sense. I took a public speaking class and was super out there with myself in high school. Yet, lately I just don't feel like I'm putting myself out there in the same way. I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing but I am super unapproachable, but I'd love to make new friends! So, I'm going to work on being more aware of myself, so I can reach out to others, and love me. Thanks Nina
yesss be patient with yourself and when ur ready, go out there and be your lovely self :^) otherwise, be your own best friend like i have and love alone time ! lol
Hello Nina! I would be really happy if you'd make a video about public speaking, this is like my major concern i'm getting into university this year and I know I'm gonna have to speak infront of people and I'm reaaaalllyyyy scared and we dont have public speaking classes here so PLEASE!! 😭😭 loved this video by the way you got a new subscriber!! 💜💜
Jasmine Buble yesyesyes i shall !! 🌟
i just found your channel, and i am so obsessed with it
I deal mostly with being natural with others, like being me, being faithful to my personality, my jokes. Sometimes I don't know why, it's hard to be just myself
Genuinely SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad I found your challenge I feel like I'm literally a British version of you haha! Anyways I absolutely loved this video it was a useful 16 minutes of my life wooo I CANT WAIT FOR EVERY TUESDAY!!
Also good luck with the university decision I just have a feeling you will get the next two!
slams like before video has a chance to start. Public speaking classes weren't something I considered, thanks Nina
Jordyn :^))
I want more on positivity! I'd LOVE some pointors or just anything, on the topic of how you look at things in a more positive light. Thank you soo much, really needed this vid 😘 I really want to push myself to join a club or something; life just doesn't hand things in my lap 😣 I gotta put myself out there
Really appreciate this video. I can relate to a lot of what you said and it’s really good to hear something from someone who is coming from a similar place.
I relate everyone is always like you need to speak louder and stuff and I seriously try but it's like I have something on my throat and I can't lol
I'm just gonna think I'm confident until I really am and embrace my weird personality
This made me remember when I had this school project where I had to act and one of my friends forgot a line and I had to improvise like half of the play since I was one of the main characters and I was like "fuck it" and I embraced myself and I was confident with myself since it was a sarcastic character (not a lot of ppl know that side of me bcs I just "open up" to some close friends) and surprisingly everyone from my class and even my teacher loved it and it made me realize I don't have to be so cautious about myself and actually let it all go lol
Sorry for the big ass comment and I love your videos :^)
uu talk so clearly and fluently, ur voice is like a soft waterfall ♡
b y t h e w a y , i a m 2 y e a r s l a t e-
so proud of you
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Spent a good home binging bc I needed background noise while painting my final. Definitely fell in love tho wow. Something I need to remind myself more often is it's okay being alone. Much love from Seattle!!
I love this so much!! Really good points girl I can tell you’ve put a lot of care in working on yourself and you seem like a confident yet comfortable person. Now I’m going to binge watch more of your videos☺️😂 ha love ya
I love this video. and I want to thank you for this 😊 bc I'm having trouble whenever I talk to other people that I don't know and I want to change that attitude.. from now on I will try to improve myself. thank you Nina! 😘 btw I love all your videos. keep on recording yourself haha. u give good vibes haha ily!
Can relate!!!! I'm a business major and I have been told to take a public speaking class forever!!!! I'm finally doing it this semester, I GREW THE 🏀 ⚾️ 🏈 TO DO IT
Thank you Nina for this video ☺️☺️ It made me think about my let’s say shyness a little bit more. I think the problem for me is that I made a first bad impression and I didn’t even try to fix it in any way. I made myself believe that the people from my class would never like me. Also, I don’t want it to sound weird or sth but my friends have this attitude to other people like “I don’t want to talk to them. I hate people” so when I’m talking to somebody I know and saying just “hi” they are like “wow, you’re so sociable. So strange”. I think that this discouraged me from talking to other people even more. Jeez it’s so messed up 😅😅 I don’t know if I’m even shy in general but when I’m in front of people from my class I’m so afraid of them and can only think of them judging me ugh. When I meet people randomly like when I’m on holidays or sth I can say that at the beginning I’m a little bit shy but immediately I feel like some kind of button is switched and then I’m a completely different person. Shit, this comment is so long 😂😂 hope you have a nice day 💞
this helped me so much, honestly, thank u very very much
thank u for uploading this!!!!!! i really needed this at the moment. also, GOOD LUCK W UNI DECISIONS 💖
yay im glad u liked it !! and omg thanks im so stressed out about it i cant wAIT FOR THE WAIT TO BE OVER
Commenting to this video which was uploaded two years ago just because I wanted to tell you that I love your videos! I somehow found your channel a few days ago and I’m really into it ✌️❤️ Love from Japan🙋♀️
BRUH i was like why tf is her quilt moving 😂
I don't think that's a quilt lol
I'm like, the opposite of shy, and I don't know if thats a good thing or a bad thing, but it sure is easy to make friends when you're loud and bubbly😁
thank you for this, it was quite helpful I really needed it,like I'm a confident enough person I just don't know how to actually conversate with people so thank you, again 💖
EVERYTHING THAT YOU SAID PEOPLE NAMED YOU IS EXACTLY WHAT PEOPLE HAVE CALLED ME AND I'M ALSO ASIAN AND EVERYTHING YOU SAID REMINDS ME OF ME AND I FEEL LIKE UR ME YOOOO LET'S BE FRIENDS
Yeah talking to a camera really helps and it is kind of fun! anyways I just found your channel and I'm sooooo happy I did, your are awesome and very creative :) Love !!
I love your strategy nina ❤ thank you so much
love your voice and energy!!!
omggg nina looks so different here :ooo she looks so fierce AAAAA
well I almost cried but I am okay. I loved this video, thank you so much for this
WHEN YOU LITERALLY DROP EVERYTHING CUZ NINA POSTED !!!
AHAHAHA
my motto is "fake it till you make it"
This video is a life changer for me! Thank you so much.
Being less shy is exactly what I am aiming for!!! It's definitely my goal in college. I seriously think that you can be a counselorXD
this did kind of help. i guess i could try recording myself, i've done it before and it definitely boosted my confidence a little, but not for too long. i ended up being even more shy after some time when i was confident. i don't have any clubs at my school though, and i have no place to go to join a speech class or something similar. i do get very awkward sometimes around other people and i've went through depression before so it's kind of hard to open up to others. i know there are other ways to improve my mental health, mood and the way i act around others, but i don't really know about them. i don't want to go to a therapist though, because i feel like she/he would only be fake so i can feel better, and i don't want that. i've told my parents about how i'm feeling, but they don't understand me. i love them a lot and they're just trying to help, and i know it sounds corny, but they really don't understand me. i really liked this video, so please, if you can, do more sit down talk videos soon, they help a lot. i love you.
this video is soo helpful and you are so cool! lyyy💗💗
Love this video and love your channel hehe :)
I used to be an friendly outgoing kid back then, but since Ive been bullied in my school, it makes me insecure and start hating myself. I miss those childhood times when i was still innocence kid and don't care what other thinks. But since teenager always think no one wanna be friend with me as I'm boring and weird, I dont know how to deal with that:(((( Im always trying to be more confident and friendly person but my messy mind full of negativity and I'm tired of acted fake to people (giving smile, small talk, etc) I once went to speech club at my college, but seems like people laughing at my speech, voice and my body language, so I'm quited, I don't wanna keep embarrassed myself, but I don't wanna be like this in my entire life, im scared bcsmy of my shyness it prevent me to achieve my goals and all. (Sorry for my sucks English)
never related do much
I used to be a pretty confident person and I never felt socially anxious. I also had a lot of friends before.
Recently tho I started feeling this way! I constantly think people might not want to be friends with me! (Also here there is not much diversity so I always feel lonely as an asian girl) I get nervous when I’m the only asian person in a group. 😭
congrats on 10k omgggg
heehee tanks :')
Love how genuine you are❤️❤️❤️❤️
Very interesting technique with camera! Public speaking class is also great idea! Thanks a million!
nina, i can relate on so many levels huhu love you
pls make a video about positivity and building confidence!! btw this video was just great 10/10!
can i please have your nose? 😭😭😭😭😭 It's so cute!!
you know what bothers me? everytime i am confident to talk or say hi to (new) people, i am always the one who takes the initiative or says it first
the part where you mentioned that you have to ask yourself first if you’re ok was an important point. growing up as a person who’s extremely shy, people around me have constantly told me that i need to start talking with others more or pressure me into forming part of social situations, not forgetting about the questions saying “why are you so shy?” which can be tiring. people tend to forget that it can be hard to socialize for a person struggling with personal problems, and i had never heard someone mention this point until your video. thank you from the bottom of my heart for such great advice. it definitely helped to understand the whole process of putting yourself out there without forgetting to not beat yourself up.
i forced myself out of my comfort zone and tried not so be so awkward. but i still am too shy to ask the teacher to move the paper becAuse we cAnt see
Nina is always beautiful but this type of make-up is extremely good on her
so warm and helpful!💓 I will try it. Your sharing really helps me👍
thank u!! i want to be a college youtuber like u but im hella nrvous and dont want people to think im lame. i think ur so cool!
Thank you, nina!! I'm very motivated!!
I was sort of normal until I hit 13 years old. I got anxiety and a depressive episode. I still go to a therapist and I'm getting better. I'm still super nervous around people though, I wish I could get rid of it completely
I can relate to you on a spiritual level😆 when i was a child, I also am the quiet and shy girl who just draws at the corner.😆
Ninaaa, i would love another video like thiiiss♥️♥️
a video about public speaking sounds great c:
go go nina! never thought you would be this positive lol
Needed to hear this 💕
Love your eyeliner btw
queen uploaded on a monday damn