How Will Jae Raise His Kids | HDIGH Ep. #14 Highlight
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- Happy Tuesday! The question of the day is “what is attachment theory?” Jae explores this topic and explains how the way you're treated growing up could affect your life in the long-run. Let’s analyze ourselves and figure out our attachment styles!
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Dear pd nim, next time please invite mark got7 to this jae’s podcast🥺❤️👉🏻👈🏻 i really waiting for it!
jae: *is a singer*
also jae: "hmm, not sure if i want my kid to be a singer"
But like... he doesn't want his kid to be pressured to do something and maybe that's hard if they choose the same career path ... at least that's what I'd think ^^
I figured it was more like, I know what it's like to be a singer, I don't want that for you kinda vibe
my mum works is the music industry and she always tells me not to go into it lmao
i actually think its probably not uncommon for singers/idols not to want their kids to become singers/idols, taeyeon has said something similar before. it's probably because they know what it's like and they don't want their kids to go through it as well
lay also said in a chinese interview that he didn’t want his children to become idols, especially if he had a daughter
I feel like Jae is gonna be that one really chill and intellectual dad that's lowkey embarrassing :)
like tablo kind of? 😂
lowkey?!
But in the past radio interview, he said he def won't be the friend-like kind parent. Otherwise it would be hard to discipline them.
his soulmate is so lucky :(
Sounds like my dad😂😂
Jae last week: “Imma just let my kids sleep outside”
lol that's what I was thinking
Trueeeeee
Where he said that?
@@nasyamiranda last week podcast i think.. You can search dive studios clip
@@elfpetalsforever6696 ohh,, ok thanks
Jae : I want you to be happy, my future child
Also jae: I don't want to waste my money
Good dad ever
(╥﹏╥)
Also Jae: Imma make my kids sleep outside
loll best dad
@@Someday_Maybe-pn3th BAHAHAH
He's better than my imaginary dad :(
*edit: PLEASE WEAR A MASK GUYS FOR THE HEALTH OF EVERYONE*
Jae's kid(s): "I wanna do _____!"
Jae: no
Jae's kid(s): **shows Jae this video**
Jae:
I wonder what Jae will do🤔
lol
hahaha jae's speechless
Jae: 👁👄👁
Oh my
I agree with you jae, let's raise a kids together
Lmfao
LMAOOO
HAHAHHAHA
I am completely shook by your pfp. You look exactly like me and my brain can't process that
UNDERRATED COMMENT
“i don’t wanna waste my money” preach
"Lose enough to let me go to sleepovers but tight enough that I'm not going to tell them where I'm really going"
really felt that, my parents were the same :D
that part got me cracking up xD
I did not. I can't even visit my friends house for an hour WITH my parents there
Saaame
Me too!!@@
haha... I can relate a lot to Diane PD-nim. 🤣 🤣 😂
can we just take a moment to appreciate producer diane?
I really like her hahhaha
is she korean?
@@qarirahizzah yes, she is.
Diane Kang
kari imnida aaa thankyou!
I love her and she is really pretty 😍
take a shot everytime jae says *interestingggg*
whylime I’ll visit u in hospital if u visit me, too
whylime I don‘t think i could handle that XD
And y'know
Guy have the Paul McCartney's thing
I don't have any alcohol... Does apple juice count if I put it in a shot glass??
and when Diane says "like" 🥴
Imagine if Jae was a lawyer/doctor/accountant/Businessman/millionaire
We would have never gotten this.
Tru
That is so wattpad
he was once, at least in that wattpad i guess
if he was ever a doctor he would be like *bReAtHe iN aNd oUt oUt oF cOnTrOl*
Well, he did say he was gonna let them sleep outside in the yard or smt-
I completely relate to Diane, I had a very lose chain growing up but I was very introverted so going out didn't interest me as much as it did other kids. So when I went to college I didn't have such a wild time as other kids did cause that lose chain teaches you that yes you have freedom but freedom takes responsibility
I just found my story in you :)
SAME!
I’m the same too
I'm completely curious, who is gonna be your wife😂
Dude Jae is the wife
Hilda larsson omg so true 😂
Saaaameee
Ofc me.
Whoever she is, she is very lucky to have Jae as her husband 😅
Everyone SHHHHHH he’s discussing how he’s going to raise our child
I am so much telling jimin about this 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈
@@elsastarck nooooooo dont T_T
Pffft- wow lmao
Some things to ponder:
It's a fact: Not only for Asian-American parents but also even for native Asian parents to "guide" you what kind of career you "have" to take. And I believe what Jae said. You can't really reach "that" goal if you know that you are not interested with it.
And also, looks like PD Diane and I share a lot in common. Cheers to you!
Oh, eaJ, your future child is lucky to have you as dad.
I really really really hope Jae can be a dad, but I’m so worried for him if he does become one... I think Day6 has a lot more international fans that are more open minded, but remember they are a Kpop band. Koreans are their target audience and I just don’t want another Chen situation...
I hope someday they'll realize that idols are humans too 😞
Honestly Day6’s fans are more mature and they’ve been in kpop for the longest I don’t think it would be an issue in korea. And if they don’t accept it we international fans are GOING TO MAKE THEM ACCEPT IT WHETHER THEY LIKE IT OR NOT ☺️
I hope because chen situation will slowly change kfans mindset
I'm pretty sure MyDay won't be like that. MyDay is a bit different. I mean the reason we are stanning Day6 is because of their music, personalities, and "that connection" between them and MyDay. Not that kind of affection of having them to be like forever ours, I mean like those possessive actions? Well but Ikr what u're afraid of.. Let's hope that's not gonna happen!✌
For real I don't really think they should be held accountable for wanting to be happy, it's sad that it needs to be spelled out that the fans should adjust to it and be mature enough to realize they can't control someone they claim to admire ? There is no pleasing everybody so idols should just do what they want.
YUP WE GOT A NEW “INTERESTING” HERE
I swear I'm gonna cut all the parts where Jae's saying 'interesting', make a sort of ringtone and play it every time I'm talking to myself out loud.
It's been more than a month since the real quarantine in my region began and I live alone, my family and friends are in another city. Except for texting, skyping (for work) and sometimes phoning I don't have other human interactions. So, myself has been a huge comfort. Also, podcasts create a feeling of not being alone.
Usually talking to yourself is considered as a sign of mental illness, but I found an article that said it may be 'a sign of higher intelligence'. It's actually also a great topic to cover in the podcast.
Anyway, I'm off to listen to the whole episode...
yo, that's actually really interesting... i'm sorry that you haven't had people IRL to talk to, i wish you the best during quarantine!
Well, during our entire life the only person that is sure to stay with us is ourselves, so I don't see why talking to ourselves should be bad xD
Anyway, stay strong during this difficult period :) !
Jae's kids gonna be like him, for sure
1:19 All of us Asian kids feeling it on a spiritual level🤣
so apparently jae's indirectly saying that he doesn't want his child to be a singer? hmmmm interesting,,,never thought of that before to be honest hahahh
Imagine that Jae's future child is someone who like idols or band like Day6, and want to buy the albums/merch
But Jae just said : *I don't wanna waste my money*
No he meant it as "I don't wanna waste my money to make you study harder and become a genius that you are not" way
Still,I got the pun n it was good XD
I started to imagine jae as a father and I'm crying I just want him to have a family and be happy :C
- when an asian kid graduates high school -
parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, random elders you haven't even seen before:
WHAT YOU GONNA BE NEXT TIME???
DOCTOR IS GOOD CHOICE!
LAWYER IS GOOD CHOICE!
ENGINEER IS GOOD CHOICE!
ACCOUNTANT IS GOOD CHOICE!
HAHHH?!?! YOU NO WANT BE THOSE? YOU WANT BE TEACHER/ARTIST/WRITER/SINGER!!!!
HAIYAAAAA THAT JOB NO MONEY! NO GOOD NO GOOD! DOCTOR IS THE BEST JOB!
crazyrandomme ikr 😞 im getting closer to college and i still havent found a way to escape medicine school that my parnets want me to go to
@@kated.5005 😨 do you want to go to med school though? if you know that you won't enjoy/do well in med school, i think you really should tell ur parents!! maybe lay out all your reasons and tell them honestly that you won't feel happy in med school, and that even if you do graduate, your heart and abilities aren't in there, so there's no benefit there to you or anyone. they might not listen, but at least you can try, and it might help that you present a plan B or a compromise that is acceptable to both you and your parents and will reassure them that you know what to do with your future 😊
all the best, i hope you can work it out with your parents!
crazyrandomme thanks, I’ll somehow work it out and convince them that i really want to do what i want
main cause of my anxiety
Going into med out of your own volition is maddening enough as it is. And forcing people into it just down straight 🤬🤬🤬
'What in the sane world did I get myself into?' is like a mantra every now and then.
So, wish you best luck about coming in terms w/ ur family
So.. it’s more like how did WE get here with Jae of day6 ft. Diane, the smart co-host! Hahahahahhaaha i love both of u🔥
"interesting" saga continues
i love jae's mindset about parenting thing. we are so proud of you.
Jae talking about his future child makes me soft
1:40 Dear Jae's future child, you must be proud seeing your dad right here giving you a message.
Okay, I feel so emo. I'm curious as to what the future will unfold. Haaa. When Jae gets married one day and has one or more kids, I'll think back about this podcast for sure.
jae in 2015 : yelling at his kermits for not doing their homework
lol my mom always tell me i can do what i want for my future job
but the thing is in her list only
doctor
lawyer
is the future job.
i have a cousin who is a nail artist and one day i asked my mom, ''if it was me, would you let me be a nail artist?'' and she said no lol
Lol I can't even be a normal student.
(I mean I never had a birthday party, sleepover, dressed up for Halloween, went to a friend's house. And then they wanna ask why I'm so shy, and dont wanna do things 😂)
Edit: They thought it was "too dangerous" cause of people these days. I agree but like ??? A birthday party can atleast be with family lol
he keep saying "interesting" and it's so interesting for me
I RELATE SO MUCH WITH DIANE, LIKE LITERALLY EVERYTHING SHE SAID!!! Loose enough to do fun stuff but know the limitation (or sometimes lie hsmdgdkaha). AHHH GOOD TO KNOW I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE 😭 Mom and Dad, i think u raised me well (except to the expectation u set to me tho 🤪)
“loose enough to go to sleepovers but tight enough to not tell them where i’m going” producer diane is the funniest person on earth😂😂
Imagine Jae's future child just looking at his dad's photos when he was a kpop star
👀👄👀
Jae to his kids: "you can be a musician, actor, artist, whatever you want to be."
Jae's future kids: "Dad I want to be a data analyst. "
Jae: .......?
watching this made me realize that jae is almost 30 (mind you that jae didnt act like his age thats why smtimes I forget how old he is) like hes at the perfect age to starts his own family... I will always pray for the best for him and for his future family💜
"my parents trying to mold me into this lawyer/doctor/accountant..."
i felt that on a personal level
I think mr. eaJ still confuse how to raise his future child cause he still a baby. But well said eaJ be a good father. :)
but when he said he wants to his child to be happy, i was like "aww" and went to "😶" when he said he doesnt want to waste his money. #asianparentscheck
From 4:17 to 4:25, Jae's "Mmm" is so satisfying. Diane must like talking with Jae because he's so attentive and responsive.
I also see how Diane is very talkative when doing a podcast with Jae like she's not even on screen but she talks a lot. It shows how comfortable Jae is as a podcaster.
Diane saying "But tight enough that I'm not going to tell them where I'm really going" is me when I'm in college bc i live far from my family at that time. 😂😂😂
my parents are like not that strict, they don’t expect my futures to be one way or another as long as it’s not staying at home past the age of 18. idk why but i still ended up being a sneaky ass kid like escaping out the window, coming home late, not listening but then again my parents didn’t mind cuz i got high marks 😂😂😂
tbh they probably thought i cheated
Save this clip for Jae's future children
제형오빠 ‘interesting’ 넘 귀여운거 아닌가욤,,,ㅠㅠ
I feel like Jae is going to be a great dad ; u ; like really understanding and open-minded but also really wise and protective ❤️
interesting because I really want to know from Jae's perspective about raising a child
I'm gonna raise my kid like Jae, my mom mold me A LOT and yeah I have no choice even I'm really bad at school, so I pretend to be a perfect kid but I'm not at all. PLS PARENTS, RAISE YOUR CHILD CORRECTLYYYYYY
we would need full episode of HDIGH.. seeing Jae is completely different from only listening hahahaha his face expression and everything
It's okay jae. You can be friendly father and I'm gonna be the strict mom 😹😹 BTW, my parent's parenting style is almost the same like Diane's parents 😹
I WANT JAE TO BE MY DAD. FINALLY I CAN HAVE FREAKING FREEDOM
Don't worry Jae. You can still become a millionaire. This comeback will get you one step closer 💖 (If you don't spend it on questionable headbands and mountains of lobster that is 😂🤞)
Producer Diane's voice is so soothing and her laugh is kinda unique
P.S i'm not in love with her I'm just in love with her voice
Praise DIVE Studios for giving Producer Diane a mic! Her thoughts are so interesting!
Jae said : it's so hard to raise a kids especially if they're like me. Bruh.
You know yourself better Jae. 🤣
Do you know what I realised Diane is such a cool person. She reminds me so much of my aunt which lives really far away from us. And the way she laughs is just such a beautiful sound in my ears idk why. Literally like my lovely aunt😂😂 love ya Diane
my weak heart is so soft when he is really looking like a grown up man rn cs talking about a future child. i'm gonna wait for those days to come.
i want to see Jae (n all Day6 members) to be happily married someday :'))
i just love it when Jae start to talk about his future child...^^ i can't help myself to think that his children (well at least one of them) will might be similar to him from the way of thinking, habits, fashion styles, allergies and many more. i can't help myself to smile when i think of it. just imagine "little Jae".....he will be so cute..^^
when it comes to parenting, i think the key element is communication. i grew up telling my mum everything without getting judgement in return, only understanding and (when needed) lecturing. talk to your kid about everything from their interests to yours, to what's right and wrong, problems, dilemmas, curiosities, even daily nothings. that way you develop both healthy authoritative boundaries that they're aware of and understand, as well as a tight friendship where you can actually share personal things with your parents.
Feels like something in my womb nodding when he says "i want you to be happy, my future child" 🙏
I love how Jae includes Diane I’m his podcast. She always has such cool things to say and her laugh is adorable. I love and appreciate you Diane 💕
You're not Asian if your parents did not want you to be lawyer/doctor/ etc etc. Hahahah
0:41 is the reason why i am always up for Jae's podcasts😂😂❤
And the *interesting* saga continues
‘I want you to be happy , my future child’
can i be your child then ?
i just cringed when he said "my future child"
daddy jae! omg
this clip really reflects on my current situation, like what jae said. My parents are really pushing me to study to become a doctor and im only a high school sophomore going to this prestigious selective enrollment school but so far i cant see myself striving for it, like im not interested but im scared ill bring shame if i dont pursue it. I really want Dianas situation where she tells herself how to do better without parents remarks because my mom hurts me with her comments about my school work
oh, man. im not even allowed to go to people’s houses. my chain is tight around my neck with a lock on it. my mom has followed me around in a car the first time i went to a mall with people from school. she said it was the first and the last. i never had a choice. i’ve never been allowed to have sleepovers. i’m not even allowed to text friends without my parents, especially my dad, investigating me about who they are. i wish o had it as free as any of you. the only place i stay in at the house is my room because it’s the only place i find comfort.
Is his kid going to be called chicken little little or chicken little junior or what?
Okay my mom found that balance between friend and parents so I'm thankful that I'm able to tell her anything. But also even though I was a straight A student if I said I think I failed an exam she would be say "As long as you know you tried your best its okay". That's the parent I wanna be to my children.
these always brighten up my day😂♥️
I hope oneday, my children have a dad like jae. The way his think about it so cool,
I suddenly remember Fresh Off The Boat
A challenge where in you drink a glass of water everytime jae says “interesting”
Let us all be hydrated :))
Jae is close enough to be a father, and I wonder How does Jae Junior look like 😅
strict parents think they're kids will be good.
my parents raised me, a sneaky 12-year-old girl who knows how to disable her home security system just so I can go to the nearby 24/7 Walmart at 2AM. the sneakiest thing I've ever done is sneak a mini stove, a cooler, and a rice cooker into my room because of K-CON 2020.
that's called being a *genius*
woah
A total husband material. Stop messing with my heart Jae 😍😂🤣😭
아기가 어떻게 아기를 키우는데요.... 그의 미래에 대해 궁금하지 않습니다... 상처 받습니다....... 이런 질문 자제해주실수있나요? 상상하고 저, 울었어요...
Jae's "innteresttinggg......" tho haha😆
A dollar for every time Jae says ‘interesting!’
hahaha it's so cute seeing jae talk about his child in future 💕
ikr jae is really gonna be a good father to our future kids ily baby ❤️
someone tell me how i can be reborn as jae's child PLEASE
Me : dear my future husband, YES
bat ngayon ko lang to pinapanood 😭 handa na ako jae ikaw nalang kulang 👉😔👈
Chicken little gonna have a little chicken
0:42 omg this is too funny lol..... Jae being an awsmmm father figure
Jae explaining how he is gonna be when a he's a dad is exactly how my dad is lol
"Tight enough that I’m not gonna tell them where I’m really going " 100% agree with that 🤣🤣🤣
just imagine chicken little jae is your dad? like wtf it would be inTeResTiNG
Y'all Jae is going to be a good dad so I am ready to be adopted.
AND JONGDAES GIRL WAS JUST BORN
Jae last week: I will let them sleep outside.
This week: I just want them to be happy.
What a duality, future wife of park jaehyung and future kids of park jaehyung: trust nobody, everyone is an enemy
Jae, 2020
I feel like jae is gonna be the kind of dad that tells his kids' classmates that he was a famous kpop star back in the day
Imagine Jae at a kindergarten show and tell showing his dance skills!