I'm so proud of you sweetie for sharing about this we need more people raising awareness in our community Sadly.....this is bigg problem that we need to awaren
This is so on point….. they are very scary. It surprises me that he actually let you go, narcissists don’t usually let go easily coz their supply of attention wil stop and they don’t like losing control!
I don’t think he let go. Maybe the other lady is with him or she is making him busy. Once he is done with the other lady he will come back for Afnan to either woo her or revenge (God forbid). Cuz these characters can’t easily move on and mind their business.
وَلَا تَهِنُوا وَلَا تَحْزَنُوا وَأَنْتُمُ الْأَعْلَوْنَ إِنْ كُنْتُمْ مُؤْمِنِينَ. Do not be weak, neither sorrow while you are the upper ones, if you are believers. Ilaahay oo kaliya isku xir guushu waa dhankaaga🏆👈
Sis- I only caught this part of the story but Ma sha Allah I am happy to see you making awareness about this in Somali. I too experienced this, it is a long healing journey. The scary part is you notice that some family members are like this too. May Allah protect us.
10 signs you are married to or with person with narcissistic persons 1. Lies 2. You will feel walking on eggshells that means one minute happiness next minute sadness 3. Self centered meaning they care only dantooda or selfishness 4. They downgrade you or bring you down 5. They make you question your self worth by gaslighting you or put you in confusion 6. They play victim 7.they love bomb you at the beginning of the marriage/ relationship 8.they have no feelings for others 9. They are always charming or kind outside the house ( Dibada) 10.they try to kill your image by spreading false rumours about you Once you are married to narcissistic person its really difficult to get out. The first time I encountered narcissistic person was 2016 and it was my coworker he was Algerian I really wondered what was wrong he used insult every one and then apologise minutes later. That Time I was trainee and it was very difficult Time for me. Second time was when I started seeing this Somali guy that's when I realised most Somali people are narcissist but because we Don't have word for this we don't talk about ama kumaba baraarugsanin. There is also another disorder called Sociopath. They are many but thanks for speaking about this waayo dadkeena luuqad uma yaqaanan ama wadankeena lagama yaqaano ciladaha noocan ah
Omg! Siz you said it all and well Walahi. They’re most terrible to deal or live with. Once dated this sort of lady and it was so hell. They can’t move on with their life and accept reality.
Unfortunately our people don’t know this “monster personality” and they don’t have a name for it. They are the ones who are causing domestic problems and leave single mothers struggling with kids
@@Ahmed-nw1sq its hell on earth to deal with them and worse if you marry one of them. they are also obsessive and don't have boundaries if break up/ divorce them, they are very dangerous humanbeings they stalk you every where.
@@queentanya3787 Indeed very true. Thanks God I didn’t marry her otherwise it would have been worse. She tried to own me with her terms even b4 we get married. She stalked me with all sort of fake names until I dropped all my social media for her sake. They don’t have empathy, shame or dignified boundaries
They are worst manipulative and terrible people. They don’t have empathy, dignified boundary and shame. If you end relationship with them they can’t move on and mind their business. They stalk you as if you are their kids and own you. I experienced hell than relationship. Cut ties with them as early as you can otherwise you might go to a stage you will never come back or recover. As a man I’m disheartened to hear such a young girl is manipulated. But positively, you came out stronger
1.they think they are special that the others. 2.the have fantasy of money,love and success. 3.they are picky and they want to be different. 4.they have the need to be the star in the society always. 5.they have a unique theory about their rights,the think the world circles around them. 6.nothing you do for them is ever enough. 7.they don't have mercy,they dont consider other people's emotions. 8.they are jealous from every one in their live. 9.they are snobbish and ungrateful.
Masha allah sis Smart girl because the main point is this section that I have been following the whole story, and it is true when you absorb the essence of your story!.😥❣💯
Dabeecadan waa maskaxda. The part in their brain that is supposed to have empathy is turned off. I studied neuroscience and this topic always intrigued me. Their brain pattern is not the same as neurotypicals like us. Their brain has been through childhood trauma, maybe their mom raised them while she was stressed and going through problems with the father. So because of this the mom couldn't be emotionally present. The baby becomes shocked at the moms emotional unavailability... that it turns them into a narcissist. Since they grew up in a house where they felt they had to manipulate situations to get what they want. They can never care deeply, or love others truly because they lack remorse, guilt, and empathy. They can't change because it's a brain deficiency. The only way they can change is if they go through something so BIG that forces them to learn about themselves, and why they behave that way. Even then it's almost impossible. I truly believe the only thing that will help them is this deen, if they get closer to Allah... and they gain TAQWA.
That's the thing abayo the narcissist have a hard time being religious too as they believe they are above everyone and everything the pride Allah hates and talked about saying these type of people will enter hell it's that type of pride they have a hard time submitting to Allah and will use the religion to manipulate others and get their way
I met Guy in 2019 that time I never knew what's narcissist now I know he was narcissist, I learnt a lot From Your story 🙏 to be honest most of Somali Men are narcissist
walalhi abaayo waxaan aad uga xumaheey in dadka qaar kugu dhaleeceeyan sababta aad ninkan u guursateey...guurka waa calaf qofkastana qofkuu guursanaayo ama ilmo u dhalaayo ma oga waxkasta awooda Allah ayeey ku dhacdaa... tankale qofkuu Allah jecel yahay ayaa aduunkaan lagu imtaxaana... Allah abaayo badal kheyr qabo kuugu badalo Ameen.
Hada iney saan wiilkan uga sii faalooto wax uma so kordhineyso nimanka Somalidane waxan kadaran ayey sameeyan gabadhan shekooyinkan ayada lee dhawac kunoqoneysaa
It literally took me months of researching about narcissistic people cos my stepmom is one of them and I immediately knew your ex is narcissistic. I’m glad you realized it, don’t let a narcissistic to control your life guys cut ties with them.
What Is a Psychopath? The term "psychopath" is used to describe someone who is callous, unemotional, and morally depraved. While the term isn’t an official mental health diagnosis, it is often used in clinical and legal settingsWhile psychopathy is not a diagnosis in and of itself, many of the characteristics of psychopathy overlap with symptoms of antisocial personality disorder, a broader mental health condition that is used to describe people who chronically act out and break rules. But only a small number of individuals with antisocial personality disorder are considered to be psychopaths.1 This article discusses psychopath characteristics, the history of the term, and how to recognize if someone might be a psychopath. It also covers available treatments and things you can do to cope.
Theirs so many narcissist in the Somali community I'm so glade your exposing this issue. I work with parents and somali students who are narcissistic I feel bad for their families. A lot of somali woman stay married to narcissist. you should talk about how someone becomes a narrassitic.
Mashaallah afnan quruxley, ilahay ayaa kas ku dhafiyay danbiga wayan ku dhacay ee gaalo wax karadiyay, qumayada oo guursaday adiga ayaa ka quruxbadan kana caqli badan kana wangsan xidhiidhka alle inshaallah waxad hili doonta mid kujecel oo ku qalma hure usoco hbbti dadkas qodhonka ah dib haw fiirin markan arkay way u eekayad inay nin aan qabin hoosta kaga jiri jirtay bilaa akhlaqado
The only way to win narcissist is not to play their behavior. And the only way is guaranteed to win against narcissistic person is to cut off totally and if you cut off totally they will often do ANYTHING to get your attention back. At the end if you can't cut off or like their are part of your family or you are connected with any kind of reason now make line and border One more time don't play their behavior because it's not yours and you can't win. Socod aadan leheen lix talaabo madhaafo🤠
Thanks to Allah we have young lady that explain what Narcissistic is wallahi if you guys pay attention your parents brothers sisters ant uncle and husbands wife’s you will see what this young lady talking bout we don’t understand who we are dealing with because they confused us
Toddobadan astaamood haddaad isku aragto, ogoow waxaa ku haya xanuunka naarsiisimka. 1- in aad is cajabiso si xad dhaaf ah adoo dadka kalena u arka kuwo liidan oo kaa hooseeya. 2- in aad mar walba is ammaanto dadka dhexdiisa, guulo nololeedna aad sheegato. 3- in aad ruuxa kale horumarkiisa ka naxdo. 4- in aad cuqdad u qaaddo qof kula saaxiiba ama kula fasal ah oo wanaag iyo wacnaan lagu sheego. 5- in aad ku faraxdo dhibka qofka kale. 6- in aad in yar oo shucuur naxariiseed u muujin weydo qof kuu sheegtay in ay murug ama mushkilo haysato. 7- in aad xamili weydo dhaliisha laguu soo jeediyo kolka khalad kaa dhaco, taa baddalkeedna aad si cadho/caro ama dagaal ah u wajahdo qofkii ku dhaliilay. Astaamuhu intan way ka badnaan karaan balse intan ayaa ugu muhiimsan.
Woow you soo good. May Allah bless you . You have open my eyes and I will forever be grateful to u. And I always pray for you that Allah bless u with more and more In life ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🤲🏾
Girls please please never tell a man ‘what you look in a man’ cos they will act to be that man you’re looking for to fool you. Please never answer that question. Gabdhow hadi nin idin dhaho ‘nin noocma ah ba rabta’ haka jawabin wayo hadad sharaxdo ninka aad rabto wey iska dhigayan ninkad sharaxday si ad u aaminto fadlan nina hawshegin ninkad rabto noocu yahay.
Idinka mudan hablahayga 🥰🥰🥰 markay idin weydiyan suasha just waxa dhahdan nin isku kalson o dabecadihisa runta ah i tusa o wuxu hayo miiska keenan raba. Nin dacad ah iyo nin xushmad leh iyo nin kana iyo kidhish ba maxa ku gashay war waxad hayso miiska keen dhe.
Mansha allah abyo waxa ilah SWCT ka ga guleysi yey waxad tahay qof ku xiran alle waxad na kaga guley satay salada iyo sabarka hore u soco Alle ha ku sahlo nin ahlu din diin iyo aqlal leh allahuma amin
Walhi nin dabeecadahaan leh aniga ayuu I qabaa markii ay tiri waa qof aan naxariis lahayn waxan soo xasuustay ninka I qabo in uu hada ka hor igu sameeyey wax aan la yaabay oo ahayd in uu ii diiday in aan shito marwaxada oo aan isku qaboojiyo markaan waxan ahaa xaamilo canugii 3xaad sagaalkaygane waan dhameestay kuleel ayaa idilaayey walhi hurdada waanka kakacaayey habeenkii oo dhan kuleel dartiis waxaana lagu jiray bisha afaraad ee April waana nin lacg leh oo aan faqiir ahayn waxuu igu dhahay hadaarin marwaxada wax kuleel ahna ma jiro markan xasuusto walhi waxan la yaabaa naxariista daradiisa dabeecadahaanne kuli wanku arkaa ilmo badan ayan udhalay waana iskaga samraa madama aan aniga ahay gabar aan hooyo laheen ilmo badanne dhashay iso duceeya abaayayaal
Abayo thank you 🙏 so much ina ka hadshay topic loo bahnaa runtii waa naga buxan dadkan anaga hada somalii nahay kama hadalano sababta ma ahaysano dad somali ku hadlo oo bartay cilmiii nafsiga waxa intaa badan kahadlo dadka ajanabiga ah qof kiii yaqano English ka wuxuu ka buxa TH-cam calamadaha lagu garto waxa kamid ah Waxay radsadan dadka naxarista badan madaama ay yuhiin dad aa naxaris lahayn Waxay raban ayaga bas ah in la dhagaysto Waxay jecelyihin inay ku control ama ay ma mamulan nolashada Waxay ka jarayan saxabida iyo ehelkada Waxay kala dagalamayan ina hesho farxad ku qas waxay aminsanyihin inay ayaga laga marmin
My ex husban baa sas ahaa anigba wlhi waxa kayabe maba qaldamayo marwlba adigaa qaldan marna lagama yaabo inuu kuraali geliyo odhaho sorry ana ka qaldan been hadana ana sameyn ama oran igashegayey waxas watiri caml ano og inaana oran waxaas waxyalaha kukala tagnay waye subxnaalh wan yabana ilaa hada wlhi ways waydiyaa qof marwlba xumaynayo qof ila hada kala tagnay xuman idaba wadaaa
Abayo waxa samaysaa hada English taqano TH-cam aya kujira qabka la isaga difaco marka kala tagtan aniga waxaa la nolaa 11years ilaa hada waa lanolahay 5cunug aya haysta hadaa ohaday dhibkan waa dad aa naxaris lahayn qaladkoda qiran waa kufaraxsanahay ina kala tagten lakiin kama harayo inu ku dhibateyo ayu isku dayayaa wajiga dhabta ah ayu kutusaya hadaa asaga xirirka ujarto wuxu adegsanaya dadka kugu dhow oo isku kiin yaqano labadina plz dadka ka fagow way kula shekaysanayan adaga so dirsaday war ay ka qadan ayey radinayan asaga sugayo inay war ukenan xumanta ayu radinaya plz hormarkaga ka shaqe haa fiiriin gadal horay firiii ilahay isku xir hada ilmo haysato inta ka fogayn karto ka foge ilmaha wa dad aa naxarisan oo shayadiin ah runtii xumantoda kuma soo kobiii karo qorall
Waxay kunolyihin control ka ay kugu hayan oo ay ayaga kumamulayan aya cunto u ah haday ka wayan oo ad kaso horjesato oo ad waxa ay kudhahan maya dhahdo way kula dagalamayan waxad noqonaysa cadowgoda kobad ma firinayan inaa wanag idinka dhaxeyey ama atahay ilmihisa hoyadod Waxay kunolyihin nolal qiyalii ah oo isdaba marin badan oo ben badan subxanallah in laga fogado oo mel walbo laga xiro ma ogiye sikale loogama badbadii karoo
Afnan ayadava gabdhada yar ee 14 jirka ah ee ninkeeda kufsaday meysan u heelin. Afnan waxay door biday in ee dumar kale u hiiliso. Ayada oo ug oo in uu kufsaday 14 ayee raali ku aheyd in uu xabsi galo. Ee sugto inta uu waqtigiisa ka soo dameysanasyo. Away naxariistii dumar nimo?
Ninkan hduba sidaa ugalay sidey ugu nafisaysa inay ka sheekayso damiir xuma haysa wana naag masayrsan oo doqon ah anu marki hore wan tageer sana lkn hda waka baxay
@@barwaqobilan8574 mar walbo naag Somali naag Somali kale beey ku dhagantahay. Car arag nin Somali oo ku dhagan nin Somali sida eey haweenka isku dhagan yihiin oo kale 😢😢😢
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve
Maasha Allah sis u r me talking our society has no idea about this disease and it's a lot of NBD in our community hopefully they get some clues about it.
Qof dabeecdaaas leh ayaa iso maray noloshayda mudadaaas nolol qomamo iyo ciil ah ayaaa u dhexsay hadaan hal daqiiqo faraxsanaado hal daqiiqo ee kale waan muqursanan jiray 😭😭
Wlh ma masheegin shaqada nag igala shaqeeso waxay inacsiisay shaqadayda waxay jeceshahay in ayada la aamano waxkasto adi qabatayne ayada logu mahad celiyo 😭 war bal iso duqeeya sheydamada shaqada inuu madaxa dhiig uga furto 😡
بالضبطططط النرجسي إنسان يحب نفسه وكل الناس غلطانه إلا هو الصح في كل شي، مايحس بعذاب ضمير مهما يضرّ ويغلط. معروف بالأنانية ، بإختصار شخصية سيّة جدا جدا جدا . والله يعينهم
Ah afnan qurux🥰🥰 u took more than a week hehhehe I watch every evening if you put a new video really i am impatient oh and finally u are here before7 minute😂😂 somali waar jeclaa👋
Wlhi abaayo shekadada aniga ine igu socota umalenaya coz ex kada cml anigu I qaba naxaris laheeen dil I dheryahay naag shukansi ha sheegin raja iyo agon ayan ahay walid aan is dhihi karo ninkan ka tag walidka u tag ma lihi lacag ma lihi nolashisa inaan ku samro danta igu qasbeyso one day anigo lai jar jaray ine somali maqli donaan umalenaya coz saas u socda un lkn ilahay tala sarana asaga un baaa wax I qaban karo 😭😭😭😭
Abaayo hadalkaaga wuu itaabtay, Allah bari adiguna dambiyadada katoobad keen si Allah marxalada kaaga badalo, teeda kale ma ilma udhashay mise, dadka lasoo xariir dadka kuugu dhaw abaayo waayo wanku cabsanaya. Ha amusin bulshada lawadag
Naagaha qiirada latagan mesha naayada damiir xumidina mesha kala taga ninka aad u qiiresan thn soomaha ninki ayado uur leh guriga ka xertay o u diday tikit inuu u jaro ayado xalad adag ku jirto dhibayo Afnan gabdha badan o masakina ayaa indhaha u kala furtay abayo gesiyad ayad tahay inta badan gabdhaha somalida maskaxda Laga qabsaday wxn ceb waye haka hadlin xishoo gabadhada abahed waye o ayada gabadhiisa hoyaded ma ahan miyaa Afnan hooray u soco sis
Omg that’s so my husband and soon to be my ex.From putting me down in public and moody and unpredictable and can’t tell what mood he’ll wake up with.My kids and I were walking on eggshells and so sick with worry.He was the biggest liar and let me not forget paranoid.If I clean the house someone came over.He would Say he has cameras in the house and he sees what we do.So thanks for sharing this and hopefully it helps someone.
Whoa girl! Camera in the house without your knowledge? That’s a red flag, you better run for your life before he hurts you. He’s probably sociopath. Ilahay haku xafido.
@@rushdaa1840 He was mentally unstable.There was no camera but he used that line as a scare tactic.Wallah I was mentally exhausted and depressed.I moved out with my kids and getting my divorce.I feel so much better since moving out and the kids are so much happier.Better late than never.
@@ummaryam1 You know we always say we stay because of kids but I realized that it’s not worth it.I’m in a better place Alhamdulillah.Slowly I’m gaining confidence and feel better about myself
Waan la kulmay qofkaas lkn alxamdulilah hada wan farujiyy noloshiiisa🥺🤲 Wlhi afnan wxee ka Hadley dhan arkay Screen shot ka ex yadiisa io dadka xarirka uso bandhigana Hadiyadaha Is amanista🤭 Balayo kugu dhacday Wlle dadkaas cashir bey nodhigen😁
Ayy afnanteday cashaqa waiga cabsinosa wayo Somali Dena mayaqanan wax doho n,,,,. Plz ka so hadal normal person iyo n,,,,,. person se lagu fahma ✌️💋 ilahay haku barakeyo ❤️😘 sweetheart
You are helping a lot of people who are going through this kind of abusive relationships .
Dabeecada wanaagsan iyo naxariista aad dadka kula dhaqmaysaa waxay noqon doontaa midho aad adigu dheefsato oo aad hortaada kahesho.💯🙏
Waxa la hadla dadaka hadalada xun Afnan u sooo qoraaayo, AFNAN waaa gawar nolol adag sooo martay, ninkasna asga xumeyay. Wuxu yahay leee ka sheegtay. Dadaaa dhahayo cunugtada Abahed. Abaha soo ma ahan Afnan ooo uur leh bananka soo dhigay, waliba furaha guriga ka qatay, Abaha aaad hada la jirtin soo ma ahn kan bahdilay Hooyaded. Ayma Afnan bes aaa Leh iyo Ilahy, please hdl wngsn adoo dhihi karo ha af lagadeynin. Aman siiyaaa. Abaaayo Afnan hoooyo adag aaa thy Masha allah, I’m sooo proud of you. Guuuleyso. Hooyo yar oooo aaad u wngsn aaa thy. Ilahy ha idin xafido😻❤️❤️❤️❤️
Exactly wll gbdhani hdl xun uma qalnto run ahaanti guulyso bn leenhy Afnan qurux iyo inanteeda yr 👍🙏
Marwlba way ogane gbdheda marka wax laqariyo mahan qof xun marwlba wa xunyahy ilamahedana ayadaa dhashey ninkas ilmahisa calosha kujiraa unaxarisan wayey hoyaded just way ogane qof aan wangsanyn marna ma wanajin kartid. Afnaan adbey usaxsantahy nolosha aduunka kajirta ayey inoshegty dadka xunxun kabuuxa ogbdhaha xumaynyaa kuwa saas leh wakuwa la abuse oshegi karin noloshodaa
Masha allaah
Somali runta ayaa dhibto dadka dhiban ayey afka qabtaan waxa laga sheekaynaa ayaga ayaaba wada ah
Walal maskax badan o dhiragalin fiican horay usoco wll
Being a narcissist is it’s own punishment,they have to live their pretty,empty,unhappy,insecure,loveless lives the rest of us are free
Reading the comments makes me so proud so many intelligent Somali woman who are educated. I’m so proud of my fellow educated free minded sisters
Wlhi Gabar aan saxiib aaan Ahaan jirnay ayaa saas ahan jirtay lkn ayada ma jeclan jirin in aad ka hormarto hadii aad wax kaga fiican thyna waxay isku dayi jirtay inay waxaas kaa baa bi.iso Alhamdulilah hada Saxiib lama ahi🤲🏻
Qof ka nuucaaa ah so cadow mahn iyo xasid xasidka wax wangsan mhn subaxnllah
Acuudubillah ilaahow adigaan kamagan galnay ragoodo iyo dumarkodaba
Walahi way buuxaan ilaho namnso
Way jiraan abyo anba wa agulmy dadkas
@@queenali9475 cadow xun waaye wlhi allaha naga qabto dhamanteen🤲🏻
Afnaan you doing well, and saving many people’s live may allah protect you sister
I'm proud of you for talking about this sis we need more people raising awareness in af somali narcissists are very common in our community sadly
I'm so proud of you sweetie for sharing about this we need more people raising awareness in our community
Sadly.....this is bigg problem that we need to awaren
Very common aa weey ku badan yihiin qaali
This is so on point….. they are very scary. It surprises me that he actually let you go, narcissists don’t usually let go easily coz their supply of attention wil stop and they don’t like losing control!
She was aware of her situation very well
I don’t think he let go. Maybe the other lady is with him or she is making him busy. Once he is done with the other lady he will come back for Afnan to either woo her or revenge (God forbid). Cuz these characters can’t easily move on and mind their business.
He’s got someone else to burden now. She probably strokes his ego
Mine didn’t let me go even when I left after almost 8 years ago.
وَلَا تَهِنُوا وَلَا تَحْزَنُوا وَأَنْتُمُ الْأَعْلَوْنَ إِنْ كُنْتُمْ مُؤْمِنِينَ.
Do not be weak, neither sorrow while you are the upper ones, if you are believers.
Ilaahay oo kaliya isku xir
guushu waa dhankaaga🏆👈
As a licensed clinical social worker, I think you did a great job explaining the traits of narcissistic personality disorder. Great story!!!
Sis- I only caught this part of the story but Ma sha Allah I am happy to see you making awareness about this in Somali. I too experienced this, it is a long healing journey. The scary part is you notice that some family members are like this too. May Allah protect us.
I think you should talk about it as well
She lies. Wa tuugo. She delete all real comments
Gabar karti leh ayaa tahay masha allah ilaah haku jeclaado xaqaadana ala haka jaro kuwii ku dhibay quruxeeey🥰🙏🏻
10 signs you are married to or with person with narcissistic persons
1. Lies
2. You will feel walking on eggshells that means one minute happiness next minute sadness
3. Self centered meaning they care only dantooda or selfishness
4. They downgrade you or bring you down
5. They make you question your self worth by gaslighting you or put you in confusion
6. They play victim
7.they love bomb you at the beginning of the marriage/ relationship
8.they have no feelings for others
9. They are always charming or kind outside the house ( Dibada)
10.they try to kill your image by spreading false rumours about you
Once you are married to narcissistic person its really difficult to get out.
The first time I encountered narcissistic person was 2016 and it was my coworker he was Algerian I really wondered what was wrong he used insult every one and then apologise minutes later. That Time I was trainee and it was very difficult Time for me. Second time was when I started seeing this Somali guy that's when I realised most Somali people are narcissist but because we Don't have word for this we don't talk about ama kumaba baraarugsanin. There is also another disorder called Sociopath. They are many but thanks for speaking about this waayo dadkeena luuqad uma yaqaanan ama wadankeena lagama yaqaano ciladaha noocan ah
Omg! Siz you said it all and well Walahi. They’re most terrible to deal or live with. Once dated this sort of lady and it was so hell. They can’t move on with their life and accept reality.
Unfortunately our people don’t know this “monster personality” and they don’t have a name for it. They are the ones who are causing domestic problems and leave single mothers struggling with kids
@@Ahmed-nw1sq its hell on earth to deal with them and worse if you marry one of them. they are also obsessive and don't have boundaries if break up/ divorce them, they are very dangerous humanbeings they stalk you every where.
@@queentanya3787 Indeed very true. Thanks God I didn’t marry her otherwise it would have been worse. She tried to own me with her terms even b4 we get married. She stalked me with all sort of fake names until I dropped all my social media for her sake. They don’t have empathy, shame or dignified boundaries
Narcissist somali waxaa lagu dhahaa WALAALO "ANAANI"
They are worst manipulative and terrible people. They don’t have empathy, dignified boundary and shame. If you end relationship with them they can’t move on and mind their business. They stalk you as if you are their kids and own you. I experienced hell than relationship. Cut ties with them as early as you can otherwise you might go to a stage you will never come back or recover. As a man I’m disheartened to hear such a young girl is manipulated. But positively, you came out stronger
1.they think they are special that the others.
2.the have fantasy of money,love and success.
3.they are picky and they want to be different.
4.they have the need to be the star in the society always.
5.they have a unique theory about their rights,the think the world circles around them.
6.nothing you do for them is ever enough.
7.they don't have mercy,they dont consider other people's emotions.
8.they are jealous from every one in their live.
9.they are snobbish and ungrateful.
True wlh my ex husband was like that all that behaviours he had them i got divorce because he was narcisst
She lies. Wa tuugo. Wa beenteda. Maseer hayo
Masha allah sis
Smart girl because the main point is this section that I have been following the whole story, and it is true when you absorb the essence of your story!.😥❣💯
She lies. Wa tuugo. Wa beenteda. Maseer hayo
Dabeecadan waa maskaxda. The part in their brain that is supposed to have empathy is turned off. I studied neuroscience and this topic always intrigued me. Their brain pattern is not the same as neurotypicals like us. Their brain has been through childhood trauma, maybe their mom raised them while she was stressed and going through problems with the father. So because of this the mom couldn't be emotionally present. The baby becomes shocked at the moms emotional unavailability... that it turns them into a narcissist. Since they grew up in a house where they felt they had to manipulate situations to get what they want. They can never care deeply, or love others truly because they lack remorse, guilt, and empathy. They can't change because it's a brain deficiency. The only way they can change is if they go through something so BIG that forces them to learn about themselves, and why they behave that way. Even then it's almost impossible. I truly believe the only thing that will help them is this deen, if they get closer to Allah... and they gain TAQWA.
Most of our people are narcissistic
Absolutley I agree with you 💯
That's the thing abayo the narcissist have a hard time being religious too as they believe they are above everyone and everything the pride Allah hates and talked about saying these type of people will enter hell it's that type of pride they have a hard time submitting to Allah and will use the religion to manipulate others and get their way
Masha allah wllo afnaan wlhy qisooyinkaaga waan la ooya talaphono badana subicbis badana waan kuusaaray hore comentic kuuguma sooqorin oo telkayga comontickaa ka xidhna wlhy inantada iyo inantayduna way isleegyiin curadada iyo curadaydu guulayso wlshy
Maasha alah Waan sugi lahaa part 11 habo mcn ilaahay ha idin xifdiyo adiga iyo gabadhaas ayeeyada u ahaa farxad ku noolaada for ever ❤️
I met Guy in 2019 that time I never knew what's narcissist now I know he was narcissist, I learnt a lot From Your story 🙏 to be honest most of Somali Men are narcissist
Well said sister that’s my thoughts as well
@@fardosa1236 Yesss sis 🙏
I agree with you 💯 👍
Yes you're right
Not most of them. Majority seems to look that way because they had bad or unstable loveless upbringing.
I'm so proud of you. Talking about this topic key. Keep going rooting for you.
walalhi abaayo waxaan aad uga xumaheey in dadka qaar kugu dhaleeceeyan sababta aad ninkan u guursateey...guurka waa calaf qofkastana qofkuu guursanaayo ama ilmo u dhalaayo ma oga waxkasta awooda Allah ayeey ku dhacdaa... tankale qofkuu Allah jecel yahay ayaa aduunkaan lagu imtaxaana... Allah abaayo badal kheyr qabo kuugu badalo Ameen.
Sax
Hada iney saan wiilkan uga sii faalooto wax uma so kordhineyso nimanka Somalidane waxan kadaran ayey sameeyan gabadhan shekooyinkan ayada lee dhawac kunoqoneysaa
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wiilkee naa adugu maxaa kaa galay ma kuwa nimanka udooda xumaantoodana qariyaa tahay
@@sanaa8367 naa shaqa yeelo warjecel lee kuhaya naa wa ilmeheda yar aabihis ya ubadalaayo maxaasa kujaban qof muslina ceebtiisa hada asturto
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Ilma yar abihii gabadh yar oo 14 jira buu kufsi wadareed ku sameeyay bal ilaah baa kugu dhaarshaye ninka saqiirka sidaa yeelay baad hadad udoodi miyaa.?
Waxaa tahay nagaha dulmiga iyo kufsiga caruurta qarsha oo dhaha waa ceeb.
Kufsigu ceeb ma ahan waa dambi ama crime nyaa fagaaro baa lagu jeedalaa dunida dambana markay xabsiga ka soo baxaa xafadaha ay dagaan dadka waa la ogaysiiyaa oo ladhahaa sex offender baa soo dagay ee caruurta ilaashada.
You go girl am glad you come up with This topic
Yaa iguraacsan badanaa nimanka soomaliyeed in ay badi qabaan xanuunkaas ay ka hadashay afnaan
Me☝️
Nimanka somalida saas u badan yihiin wa run meeqa gabadhoda dhahday nin sas iso maray
Aniguuba isoo maray abaayo ilaa hada wuu idaba socdaa dadka noocaasa kuuma ogala inad ka tagtid xitaa
Mar walba iyagoo ku dhaawacaya hadana ma garanayaan sababta iyo waxay saas kugu sameynayaan
@@hiba_hurrin ooh
I’m so glad more people are talking about mental health and personality disorders
Masha allh illhy ha ku barakeeyo qof caaqlibadan baa thy wan arkay dad dabicadan haan leh
It literally took me months of researching about narcissistic people cos my stepmom is one of them and I immediately knew your ex is narcissistic. I’m glad you realized it, don’t let a narcissistic to control your life guys cut ties with them.
And whn your mum are one of thm that’s worst walahai
@@marwo_8031 😭 i swear
@@marwo_8031 😭😭😭
Inan yar oo caqli iyo xikmad alle siiyey Afnan thank you sis wacyi gelin ayaan nasiisay walahi hore u soco sister ilhay haku siiyo wax walboo wanaagsan ❤️🙏🏾
I love you Afnan sister keep going Mashallah you’re a strong women.. screw your ex and his hunqaaac side chick.
🤣🤣🤣
What Is a Psychopath? The term "psychopath" is used to describe someone who is callous, unemotional, and morally depraved. While the term isn’t an official mental health diagnosis, it is often used in clinical and legal settingsWhile psychopathy is not a diagnosis in and of itself, many of the characteristics of psychopathy overlap with symptoms of antisocial personality disorder, a broader mental health condition that is used to describe people who chronically act out and break rules. But only a small number of individuals with antisocial personality disorder are considered to be psychopaths.1
This article discusses psychopath characteristics, the history of the term, and how to recognize if someone might be a psychopath. It also covers available treatments and things you can do to cope.
Waan iska ooyay qisadaada abaayo allah ku xafido wall isoo booqo hadaad qisooyinka familka iyo maseyrka Aan ilaalino familadeena welcome hadaad qiso heyso ila soo wadaag thanks
Mashlh codkada sifican lomaqla awal wohooseeye
Oh my god I know exactly what you’re talking about sis because I used to have a friend like that thanks 😊💞🙏
HALKAN KA DAAWO WAXA SAXDA AH
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Basically your so gorgeous sisti Never give up keep moving....
Theirs so many narcissist in the Somali community I'm so glade your exposing this issue. I work with parents and somali students who are narcissistic I feel bad for their families. A lot of somali woman stay married to narcissist. you should talk about how someone becomes a narrassitic.
Yp wllh yuh are sooo trueeee I saw many students like that who are narcissistic
I think you have to a little cautious about labeling ppl because there are other disorders that mimick narcissism.
Mashaallah afnan quruxley, ilahay ayaa kas ku dhafiyay danbiga wayan ku dhacay ee gaalo wax karadiyay, qumayada oo guursaday adiga ayaa ka quruxbadan kana caqli badan kana wangsan xidhiidhka alle inshaallah waxad hili doonta mid kujecel oo ku qalma hure usoco hbbti dadkas qodhonka ah dib haw fiirin markan arkay way u eekayad inay nin aan qabin hoosta kaga jiri jirtay bilaa akhlaqado
The only way to win narcissist is not to play their behavior.
And the only way is guaranteed to win against narcissistic person is to cut off totally and if you cut off totally they will often do ANYTHING to get your attention back.
At the end if you can't cut off or like their are part of your family or you are connected with any kind of reason now make line and border
One more time don't play their behavior because it's not yours and you can't win.
Socod aadan leheen lix talaabo madhaafo🤠
great mahmaah
Thanks to Allah we have young lady that explain what Narcissistic is wallahi if you guys pay attention your parents brothers sisters ant uncle and husbands wife’s you will see what this young lady talking bout we don’t understand who we are dealing with because they confused us
Toddobadan astaamood haddaad isku aragto, ogoow waxaa ku haya xanuunka naarsiisimka. 1- in aad is cajabiso si xad dhaaf ah adoo dadka kalena u arka kuwo liidan oo kaa hooseeya. 2- in aad mar walba is ammaanto dadka dhexdiisa, guulo nololeedna aad sheegato. 3- in aad ruuxa kale horumarkiisa ka naxdo. 4- in aad cuqdad u qaaddo qof kula saaxiiba ama kula fasal ah oo wanaag iyo wacnaan lagu sheego. 5- in aad ku faraxdo dhibka qofka kale. 6- in aad in yar oo shucuur naxariiseed u muujin weydo qof kuu sheegtay in ay murug ama mushkilo haysato. 7- in aad xamili weydo dhaliisha laguu soo jeediyo kolka khalad kaa dhaco, taa baddalkeedna aad si cadho/caro ama dagaal ah u wajahdo qofkii ku dhaliilay. Astaamuhu intan way ka badnaan karaan balse intan ayaa ugu muhiimsan.
Narcissistic.
1. vain ::
waxtarla'aan
2. self-loving ::
is-jecel
3. self-admiring ::
is-maxfalka
4. self-absorbed ::
is-nuugo
5. self-obsessed ::
is-waalneyn
6. conceited ::
iskibrin
7. self-centered ::
is-xuddun
8. self-regarding ::
is-saabsan
12. full of oneself ::
buuxa baxo uuna ka mid ah
Qofka saa camal ha waa inaats
Darling what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 keep going love ❤️ may you find peace every where you go and complete happiness ❤️❤️
She lies. Wa tuugo. She delete all real comments
run ahaantii qof dhiiri galiya ah laku daydo❤😥
always strong girl ❤👑💪
Sheekadaan aad caaway ka hadashay oo kale qof ah, anigu isoo maray balse si faah faahsan ayan oga dhargay thnks abaayo mcn
Ur ex husband 🤣 aha
@@sadiakhalifmohamud3728 hhhhhhh
Subhanalah kaas asag wax is yelaayh adi wxb kma qaadyoh wlshey wayo nabsigg ku maqan
The queen is back afnan give big hugs and kisses to ayma❤️🥰😍
Yaa la aamina marka qof la fahmi karin xumana kugu damacsan illahow wax kheyr leh 🤲
Whoever wants to watch a lot about narcissistic traits and in-depth go watch dr Romani she talks about it in great detail.
Dr ramani love it 👊🏽❤️😂
HALKAN KA DAAWO WAXA SAXDA AH
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@@ilyaaskamadage9886 maxaaad wax topic ku saaabseneen noo share gareenee uff🖕
Dr romani shes a gem
Learned a lot from Dr Romani Durvasula
Woow you soo good. May Allah bless you . You have open my eyes and I will forever be grateful to u. And I always pray for you that Allah bless u with more and more In life ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🤲🏾
Afnaan aden waxaan chanalkeeda kusoo baarey 11month ka hor mantana 117k mareysaa mashalah ❤️❤️❤️
Inbadan waad soo samirtay lakin waa guulesatay oogu dambayn ilaahyna wuu kaa abaal mariyaay sabarkaaga abayo😭❤
Stay strong boo so proud of you sis ❤️
افنان انت فتاة قوية واتمنى لك التوفيق🥰❤
Mansha Allah keep going sister🙏
Masha allah bayo guleayso ilahay ba kula jira waxad thy gabar yar oo caqli badan♥️♥️
Girls please please never tell a man ‘what you look in a man’ cos they will act to be that man you’re looking for to fool you. Please never answer that question.
Gabdhow hadi nin idin dhaho ‘nin noocma ah ba rabta’ haka jawabin wayo hadad sharaxdo ninka aad rabto wey iska dhigayan ninkad sharaxday si ad u aaminto fadlan nina hawshegin ninkad rabto noocu yahay.
Abaa waa mahadsanthy ani waa iska shegi jiray hada kadib iska shegi maa😂
🤣🤣😅 shukansigaba waxe ka bilawan nin noce ah aya rabta ina nolasha la wadagtid war ba ma ada hayo ilahow shartoda na dhafi oo wanagoda naso adi
@@sophaasthtsh8130 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for letting us know sis alle ajar haka siiyo
Idinka mudan hablahayga 🥰🥰🥰 markay idin weydiyan suasha just waxa dhahdan nin isku kalson o dabecadihisa runta ah i tusa o wuxu hayo miiska keenan raba. Nin dacad ah iyo nin xushmad leh iyo nin kana iyo kidhish ba maxa ku gashay war waxad hayso miiska keen dhe.
Masha Allah sister we have a lot people in this kind personalities walahay good job Iam so proud of u sis keep going
Amazing you are saving a lot of people’s lives, you are doing great work!
Mansha allah abyo waxa ilah SWCT ka ga guleysi yey waxad tahay qof ku xiran alle waxad na kaga guley satay salada iyo sabarka hore u soco Alle ha ku sahlo nin ahlu din diin iyo aqlal leh allahuma amin
Strong women 💪❤ proud of you 👏 🥰
masha Allah byo xaqiiq wllhi waxa tahy qofta kaliya ee markan kudaawado aan waxka faa iido illah haku xafido 🥰🥰
Asc walaasheey afnan adan waan ku salaamay mahadsanid video yaasha quruxda badan ee marwalba aad Nala qeebsato alle haku xafido Amin Amin Amin ilaah ha kaa siiyo ajir iyo xasanaad Amin Amin Amin keep going my sister shaqo fiican ayaad heysaa guulayso waligaa mahadsanid markale walaasheey afnan
Maansha Allaah.thanks
Waaw Mashaa Allah wakhti badan ayaan ku sugeyne
Mnzhllh abyo mcn allaha ku dhawro waxa tahay hooyo soo samirtay
Walhi nin dabeecadahaan leh aniga ayuu I qabaa markii ay tiri waa qof aan naxariis lahayn waxan soo xasuustay ninka I qabo in uu hada ka hor igu sameeyey wax aan la yaabay oo ahayd in uu ii diiday in aan shito marwaxada oo aan isku qaboojiyo markaan waxan ahaa xaamilo canugii 3xaad sagaalkaygane waan dhameestay kuleel ayaa idilaayey walhi hurdada waanka kakacaayey habeenkii oo dhan kuleel dartiis waxaana lagu jiray bisha afaraad ee April waana nin lacg leh oo aan faqiir ahayn waxuu igu dhahay hadaarin marwaxada wax kuleel ahna ma jiro markan xasuusto walhi waxan la yaabaa naxariista daradiisa dabeecadahaanne kuli wanku arkaa ilmo badan ayan udhalay waana iskaga samraa madama aan aniga ahay gabar aan hooyo laheen ilmo badanne dhashay iso duceeya abaayayaal
ilmo in la dhalo nin ma badasho haddii adoo caloosha ku sida ilmihiisa uu marawaxada kaa xidhay maxaad wax kale ugu sii dhashay maskiin
@@sanaa8367 dantaa igu qasbeso abaaayo
😭😭😭 Illahay badal kheer Qabo ha ku siiyo abayo macaan waan kula murugooday wallahi
@@artafardowsaartan605 thanks xabiibti aduunk waa iska imtixaan abaayo🥰🙏
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Ilahay ha kuu gargaaro wllo walahi wan waa naxay 😔
Kumhdsnthy sidaad noola wadaagtay Dadka badankoodu way qabaan xanuunadan Lkn waankuu baqayaa Afnaan Qof xun shekadan waysii xanuninasaa Armuu kudilaa,is ilaali Allah haku ilaaliyee❤
Abayo thank you 🙏 so much ina ka hadshay topic loo bahnaa runtii waa naga buxan dadkan anaga hada somalii nahay kama hadalano sababta ma ahaysano dad somali ku hadlo oo bartay cilmiii nafsiga waxa intaa badan kahadlo dadka ajanabiga ah qof kiii yaqano English ka wuxuu ka buxa TH-cam calamadaha lagu garto waxa kamid ah
Waxay radsadan dadka naxarista badan madaama ay yuhiin dad aa naxaris lahayn
Waxay raban ayaga bas ah in la dhagaysto
Waxay jecelyihin inay ku control ama ay ma mamulan nolashada
Waxay ka jarayan saxabida iyo ehelkada
Waxay kala dagalamayan ina hesho farxad ku qas waxay aminsanyihin inay ayaga laga marmin
My ex husban baa sas ahaa anigba wlhi waxa kayabe maba qaldamayo marwlba adigaa qaldan marna lagama yaabo inuu kuraali geliyo odhaho sorry ana ka qaldan been hadana ana sameyn ama oran igashegayey waxas watiri caml ano og inaana oran waxaas waxyalaha kukala tagnay waye subxnaalh wan yabana ilaa hada wlhi ways waydiyaa qof marwlba xumaynayo qof ila hada kala tagnay xuman idaba wadaaa
Abayo waxa samaysaa hada English taqano TH-cam aya kujira qabka la isaga difaco marka kala tagtan aniga waxaa la nolaa 11years ilaa hada waa lanolahay 5cunug aya haysta hadaa ohaday dhibkan waa dad aa naxaris lahayn qaladkoda qiran waa kufaraxsanahay ina kala tagten lakiin kama harayo inu ku dhibateyo ayu isku dayayaa wajiga dhabta ah ayu kutusaya hadaa asaga xirirka ujarto wuxu adegsanaya dadka kugu dhow oo isku kiin yaqano labadina plz dadka ka fagow way kula shekaysanayan adaga so dirsaday war ay ka qadan ayey radinayan asaga sugayo inay war ukenan xumanta ayu radinaya plz hormarkaga ka shaqe haa fiiriin gadal horay firiii ilahay isku xir hada ilmo haysato inta ka fogayn karto ka foge ilmaha wa dad aa naxarisan oo shayadiin ah runtii xumantoda kuma soo kobiii karo qorall
Waxay kunolyihin control ka ay kugu hayan oo ay ayaga kumamulayan aya cunto u ah haday ka wayan oo ad kaso horjesato oo ad waxa ay kudhahan maya dhahdo way kula dagalamayan waxad noqonaysa cadowgoda kobad ma firinayan inaa wanag idinka dhaxeyey ama atahay ilmihisa hoyadod
Waxay kunolyihin nolal qiyalii ah oo isdaba marin badan oo ben badan subxanallah in laga fogado oo mel walbo laga xiro ma ogiye sikale loogama badbadii karoo
Narcissists are usually raised by a narcissistic parent.
Yup!!!!!👏👏👏👏🔥🔥🔥🔥♥️
Subhanallah 😳 this is so true.
الناس ديل بيستغلوا الناس البتحبهم وتعيش معاهم نعوذ بالله منهم
Naagahn caacda gabadha yar laso aadaya bn ka yaabnhy oo nin wxaso dhibaato ah uso gysty uga hiilinya gbdha naagti an rabin storyga cidi kugu khasbimyse iskabx oo caacdn aad so qorysn kadaaya meesha ninka ad u nacmlynysn miyusn ahyn kii iydo uur leh guriga kso tuury oo ka qafishy kii iyadoo gaajysn horteda wx ku cunayey oo dhaafayey kii iydo raaliyo u ah oo guriga u joogta naagaha bananka kula baashalayey kii hben iyo mlin ka oohinayey ee an hal mlin xtl fahmin kna farxin mrkd leedihin wa gabadhada aabeheed Aaabe nooce ah bn ku tirin karnaa qofka wxn oo dhibaato ah kuso sameeyay xaaskisi xalaasha u ahyd somaliyey runta ma jeclidin ee gabadha yar ka dhamaada Afnan hooyo yar oo caqli iyo maskax illhy siiyay ba thy qof adg ba thy wn u jeedna gbdhada sida quruxda bdn ad u korinysid hory usoco Gabadhadana adiga oo kliya dhaly wxn hubaa nolosha inta ka dhimn ind sida iyo si ka qurux bdn u korin doontid guulyso
Afnan ayadava gabdhada yar ee 14 jirka ah ee ninkeeda kufsaday meysan u heelin. Afnan waxay door biday in ee dumar kale u hiiliso. Ayada oo ug oo in uu kufsaday 14 ayee raali ku aheyd in uu xabsi galo. Ee sugto inta uu waqtigiisa ka soo dameysanasyo.
Away naxariistii dumar nimo?
Inta badan nagaha Somaliyeed nimanka eey ka daba nac nacleyaan, nin nin ku dhagan ma arkeeysid
Ninkan hduba sidaa ugalay sidey ugu nafisaysa inay ka sheekayso damiir xuma haysa wana naag masayrsan oo doqon ah anu marki hore wan tageer sana lkn hda waka baxay
@@barwaqobilan8574 mar walbo naag Somali naag Somali kale beey ku dhagantahay. Car arag nin Somali oo ku dhagan nin Somali sida eey haweenka isku dhagan yihiin oo kale 😢😢😢
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve
Mashalah Qatar tahay lkn afsomali wax kusooqor.
Oh wallahi so Many people ar narcissistic 😤 allaH protect with you sister you are pest power and strong women and mother ❤️❤️❤️
Queen on her own Empire👑💃🌸❤️🤝
masha allah abayo dadkas camal wa buxan shartooda allaha na mootiyo amen
Imika eegay inyar ka hor waxba maadsoo dhigin hada uun TH-cam ku soo noqday waan kugu arkay abaayou love you so much 🥰🥰😍
Maasha Allah sis u r me talking our society has no idea about this disease and it's a lot of NBD in our community hopefully they get some clues about it.
She lies. Wa tuugo. Wa beenteda. Maseer hayo
team dhafar waa idin salamy dhafarka maba dhaafeyn almiino aan yareyno waa idin jeclhy all people 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💋💋💋💋💋💋💋❤❤❤❤❤🧡🧡💛💚💙🤎💢🖤🖤
We love you too sis cadey😘
12:56 itahy wlhi team dhafar ahay marwlbaa hhhhhh
@@ayaanyusuf1921 ani 10:00 marka abaayo ma dhafre mise anaa moodo😂
1:24😂😂😂😂😂
@@najmahassan6694 😂
Nin uu Nin xun yahay wijigiisa wey kanuuqataa alx ilaaheey baa ku dhaafiyaay🥰🥰🥰
Abaayo maalin dhaaf uso gaali hadi kale dadka way ka xiiso dhacaayan sheekda😌
Marka sheekada kuluul ay bilaabtay bay nagu goysay meesha. Carrrr aan soo noqdo😂
@@missyoutubefreek3048 😂😂
Afnaan wxd thy gabar samir badan oo qalbi wanagsan ugu dabayntiina waad gulaystay ishooda alle hakaa xijaabo gulayso abidkaa xbbti
Qof dabeecdaaas leh ayaa iso maray noloshayda mudadaaas nolol qomamo iyo ciil ah ayaaa u dhexsay hadaan hal daqiiqo faraxsanaado hal daqiiqo ee kale waan muqursanan jiray 😭😭
Kula mid baan ahay xppt alhamdulilah hada waynu baranay waxay yihiin afnaan wey noo faaidaysay masha allah
Haa daqiiqado gudahood bey isku bedelayan dadkas wax yar hadad faraxsanaydeen isla markii wuu is bedelaya mana garnaysid sababta
Wlh ma masheegin shaqada nag igala shaqeeso waxay inacsiisay shaqadayda waxay jeceshahay in ayada la aamano waxkasto adi qabatayne ayada logu mahad celiyo 😭 war bal iso duqeeya sheydamada shaqada inuu madaxa dhiig uga furto 😡
Saan usugaayebwaan daalay yaa ila mid ah
بالضبطططط النرجسي إنسان يحب نفسه وكل الناس غلطانه إلا هو الصح في كل شي، مايحس بعذاب ضمير مهما يضرّ ويغلط. معروف بالأنانية ، بإختصار شخصية سيّة جدا جدا جدا . والله يعينهم
صح لسانك اختي
walashey macan se ithy boqoradaada waa idin salamy ilah hanii xifdhiyo mcn badan 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Ah afnan qurux🥰🥰 u took more than a week hehhehe I watch every evening if you put a new video really i am impatient oh and finally u are here before7 minute😂😂 somali waar jeclaa👋
😁same to you we are tired waiting her really 😢😂
Learn to be patient sabr is the key for everything
She takes long cause she is making ready something good to watch
Yaabay intuu idinka aaday af kii hooyo af soomaliga
@@mohafxmohafx9755 😂😂walahi wa run Afkiiba way ka qashafayaan
Wlhi abaayo shekadada aniga ine igu socota umalenaya coz ex kada cml anigu I qaba naxaris laheeen dil I dheryahay naag shukansi ha sheegin raja iyo agon ayan ahay walid aan is dhihi karo ninkan ka tag walidka u tag ma lihi lacag ma lihi nolashisa inaan ku samro danta igu qasbeyso one day anigo lai jar jaray ine somali maqli donaan umalenaya coz saas u socda un lkn ilahay tala sarana asaga un baaa wax I qaban karo 😭😭😭😭
Habiibti ilhy uga dacwood hadadan lahn Walid ad uga dacwotid dikriga na badso siiba saliga nabiga 🥰
Abaayo hadalkaaga wuu itaabtay, Allah bari adiguna dambiyadada katoobad keen si Allah marxalada kaaga badalo, teeda kale ma ilma udhashay mise, dadka lasoo xariir dadka kuugu dhaw abaayo waayo wanku cabsanaya. Ha amusin bulshada lawadag
Ninkaan shekadiisa intaa ku jooji abayo aad baad ugu dheeratay
Naagaha qiirada latagan mesha naayada damiir xumidina mesha kala taga ninka aad u qiiresan thn soomaha ninki ayado uur leh guriga ka xertay o u diday tikit inuu u jaro ayado xalad adag ku jirto dhibayo Afnan gabdha badan o masakina ayaa indhaha u kala furtay abayo gesiyad ayad tahay inta badan gabdhaha somalida maskaxda Laga qabsaday wxn ceb waye haka hadlin xishoo gabadhada abahed waye o ayada gabadhiisa hoyaded ma ahan miyaa Afnan hooray u soco sis
Exactly, badankood naagaha soomalida aqliga ayaa ka maqan.Sida dameerkii ayeey u soo nacleynayaan.Gabdhaan AFnaan qalad ma laha!. Dulliyaal, aqoonla'aanta waa qurun!. Hadduu qof qalad lee yhy waa ninka afnaan xumeeye oo gabar yar kufsadey.!
girl i just realized i need to work on myself cus you were describing me lol
HALKAN KA DAAWO WAXA SAXDA AH
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At least you admit it that is the first step.
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Omg that’s so my husband and soon to be my ex.From putting me down in public and moody and unpredictable and can’t tell what mood he’ll wake up with.My kids and I were walking on eggshells and so sick with worry.He was the biggest liar and let me not forget paranoid.If I clean the house someone came over.He would Say he has cameras in the house and he sees what we do.So thanks for sharing this and hopefully it helps someone.
Whoa girl! Camera in the house without your knowledge? That’s a red flag, you better run for your life before he hurts you. He’s probably sociopath. Ilahay haku xafido.
That is so scary subxana’allah. May Allah protect you
@@rushdaa1840 He was mentally unstable.There was no camera but he used that line as a scare tactic.Wallah I was mentally exhausted and depressed.I moved out with my kids and getting my divorce.I feel so much better since moving out and the kids are so much happier.Better late than never.
@@ummaryam1 You know we always say we stay because of kids but I realized that it’s not worth it.I’m in a better place Alhamdulillah.Slowly I’m gaining confidence and feel better about myself
@@hj4614 mcnto ilahay haku xafido wallahi that’s scary but I’m glad you left him 🙌🏾
Waan la kulmay qofkaas lkn alxamdulilah hada wan farujiyy noloshiiisa🥺🤲
Wlhi afnan wxee ka Hadley dhan arkay
Screen shot ka ex yadiisa io dadka xarirka uso bandhigana
Hadiyadaha
Is amanista🤭
Balayo kugu dhacday
Wlle dadkaas cashir bey nodhigen😁
I love you afnan you just amazing ❤️❤️❤️
Manshaa Afnaan waxaad tahay gabadh qurux badan aqlibadan horay usoco syster ❤️❤️
Mashllah sister afnaan waliga harajo dhigin dholocade markasta waayoh dholacadayn taadu ayaga waxay u thy murugadoda 🥰👸🥰
Ayy afnanteday cashaqa waiga cabsinosa wayo Somali Dena mayaqanan wax doho n,,,,. Plz ka so hadal normal person iyo n,,,,,. person se lagu fahma ✌️💋 ilahay haku barakeyo ❤️😘 sweetheart
Asc Somalia plz and plz shaqo la aan ayan ahy wlhi iso duceyo ducadiina ii muhiim😭🤲😭
Allah hakusahlo bro
Shaqa khayr qabta illahay haku siiyo wallo dadaal adigu illahay dadaalkaga kugu qadin maayo wallo
Ilahy baa idty ka jaren ka jaraya insha all iyada waliged raaxo mahelayso I.a