You all know who you are, pain is part of the process. You will see your self in a the upcoming time and once again you will be proud of you, of how you lifted up your self. I have faith in you because I know you have faith in yourself. This comment assures it.
Just coming out of it myself man. 13 yrs with a covert narcissist who apparently despises men and wants to just control and abuse them for their own sick false sense of self superiority complex. March 10th it was dropped on me, April 23rd is when they walked out the door. Left Hugh and dry, no washer and dryer, no fridge, no shower curtain and took the family car.. 7 days later was the anniversary of the date our son was to be born but we lost him in 2015 was a Mc. It's like she timed it JUST right calculated to ALLL of it would hit me like a truck full of tons of bricks It's just the falsehood of it all for over 13 yrs.. I'm so.Sorry you went thriugh what u did as well man. Everything did feel hopeless, the future all of it pointless and in dispair of it all. I just have to restart my life completly and just move on without them ever seeing or hearing from them ever again. That's also the hard part.
"I can't make you unstoppable because it doesn't exist. But I can make you harder to stop." -Evy From now on, I am going to save money to buy that book.
One of best book I have ever bought!! Every time I feel demotivated.. I open Evy’s Becoming Bulletproof, and my mind becomes bulletproof! It has changed my outlook towards every situation and every person. Huge gratitude to beautiful Evy💕
The mindset of taking responsibility also takes so much stress away! I had a horrible situation with a housemate recently where they said "I never liked you" very out of nowhere (during a fight with her closest friend in the house) after it felt like we'd had a reasonable friendship. I sat down, took accountability, and realised I wouldn't have changed anything about how I behaved - meaning her problem with me was her problem. It also really helps you cut the social fat! Thank you Evy, you're a gift!
Love how Evy talks about noticing our patterns of reaction, tracking it, and using that info to reign ourselves in to make choices to practice self control.
Wow, the U.S. got such a treasure when Evy's parents decided to choose the American Dream :) 🇺🇸 Your story and work is deeply inspiring can't wait to get your book!
She said in other interviews that her parents disagreed at first, and wouldn't talk to her for a little while, but they eventually came around. I'm happy she stuck to going after her dreams because I find her so inspirational plus she gives great advice.
Jami: Although I myself am not sure it is intelligent that she is, but rather practised in self-disciplined schooling of her potential and learning also human functioning, natural laws and to use them efficiently and optimally. That is so hopeful really: We don't have to be that intelligent to be good at (self) defense etc, just use our assets and god's energy. Sorry I stepped into your view. Hope it's OK.Empowering myself.
She really is. I was initially drawn to the subject/title's of her talks & of course it's tough to ignore her striking beauty. There may have been a twinge of pseudo envy at some point during the perception phase but ultimately (she won me over). She'd make a good interviewer. 😉 Brains + Beauty & she's Beast? I guess if you're into that type of junk, lol. Jkjk #Admirer #FriendGoals
Your a hero! My hubs 30yr. retired Sr Navy Chief and maryland state trooper of 20 yrs. I would love to talk with you. You could help me deal with the crap I deal with with him. OMG! He was Intel. Cop friends in New York.. Your a tough Cookie! Love your wisdom. Thank You for your service 💖
Always stop to watch her videos! If only all cops were like her!!! I will def get her book very soon too. Thank you Evy. What a pretty name too . Bless you.
I constantly had to check my initial reactions towards evil intentions and actions of other people, to the point where fear sends me to react to them with an overloaded thoughts of violence. Then it would become a different level of danger!!! Its the self perseverance thing.🤔 Fortunately intelligence takes over and things tend to work out positively on my part. It takes hard work to become mindful, resilient and in control. Experiences teaches you how to navigate our reality, that for sure. The part where we have to except other people's reality is where my arguments against it kicks in. Especially when logic tells you that they're wrong. I stand with my convictions, because I evaluate everything at play. I'm always aware.
Resilience shows the power we have in hopeless situations. Even when you are in the worst of situations you have power to change situations. There are so many layers and facets of becoming a bulletproof person (you don't have to go thro years of police academy like she did). 1) we are always becoming fearless and brave. We are not done becoming brave.
Being in law enforcement especially elite unit like presidential protection unit is tough (lotsof strong personalities and egos). It is tougher for a woman. I can tell she’s naturally rational and logical. That’s how she can survive in her line of work. For those who lead by emotion, the learning curve is steep. It takes a lot to override natural instinct.
Our Fed Officers in BC Canada must go through a psychological exam and polygraph before employment , impulsivity is a massive negative as well as poor credit , which increases the risk of being manipulated
I think a lot of people do evolve with the times, they'll moan and complain about it but a particular age group particularly when they hit 65 and up they are very set in their ways and they don't want to change with the times, they think certain things are bad, women who dress provocatively they think is wrong because they are not behaving like a lady so they have diffrent values and particularly in this age group they remember what is was like in the good old days in a simpler time but this is what I love about the elder generations you learn about the wars, and history. Never mind school you learn the real history from people who have lived through hard times like world War 2, husbands being sent away from them months at a time not knowing if they will return so when you say you've had a tough time recently with your anxiety a lot of these elder people in their 80s plus will tell you "what are you talking about? Anxiety? We were anxious waking up everyday not knowing if we were going to live or die." So because of their past they are less sensitised to younger people's anxieties. And suddenly depending on the person now its become a contest about who had it bad.
Being in security (and a blonde) = approaching people who are not compliant in wearing a mask 😷 I have my own way of dealing with them as they have this ‘I’m going to cause trouble and shout out my rights’ the way I handle it they will either comply / or present a certificate. It’s all in customer service and years of being a flight attendant
Inforcing mask wearing is something a Nazi would do. There is no virus killing people. If you are too stupid to read the science at least leave those who do alone.
You have no legal right to confront anyone about wearing or not wearing anything on their faces, I’m not sure what sort of security you’re in but your classes should have covered the legality of harassment.
Tsk tsk.... I hate the mask & won’t wear one bc I was tortured, raped, & have severe CPTSD. I would not approach others about the mask. It’s a great way to end up in court, jail, the hospital, or dead. You don’t know what others have gone through.
I love love love Evy but the intro to this video was over 1:50 and I’m sorry but I didn’t tune in to listen to the host ramble. I was just about to share this video with a friend but I am doubtful she will be patient enough to make it past the intro either.
Just wanted to have a look if someone has such opinion, among all the gushing, and here it is! ) I find it hard to listen to how the host formulates the sentences or searches for the proper words with visible difficulty...
I know this is quarantine times, but could we at least brush our hair and put on an interview-type outfit? It's a little embarrassing when the interviewee is dressed more appropriately than the interviewer...
You just asked a question and that’s okay... :) If she does her own makeup, I’m guessing about an half hour to and hour. It really depends on the individual. Some people can do their makeup in like 15 mins. As for job wise, who knows, probably more basic with some concealer and mascara. I’m guessing.
@@DeadwoodSD1876 thst‘s exactly what she said in another interview. Pple underestimate beautiful women and she used it to her advantage. Very intelligent.
Schools are enveloped in the abundance of what needs to be taught. Over time, these “shoulds” have resulted in the dropping of really important subjects that within these forgotten subjects lie discrete details that contain thought provoking decision making plans. Solutions would be for a parent/caregiver to seek out after school activities that address these issues and develop the necessary emotional intelligence to add to intellectual intelligence.
I agree with her 1000% .. I had a tough childhood and never fell victim to substance abuse or severe depression. As I got older I had lots of stress and I saw friends who had a little stress like a boyfriend break up with them and they’d be on anti depressants and practically suicidal. The ppl who were deeply depressed grew up in a two parent home with grandparents and all that. When I broke up with a guy in most cases I just went on with my life and I had a broken home and my mom died when I was 2 of an overdose and my dad was a severe alcoholic. I always noticed I was different and more resilient to adversity than many others and I embraced that strength.
@@SusanaXpeace2u I think your right. I lost both parents very young and I have a strong sense of self. I sometime wonder about kids with toxic parents if they would be be better off with out them
@drac 464 What you wrote was SO GOOD I had to re-read it several times. YOU'RE AMAZING not to have gotten caught up in drugs or depression. That's remarkable.
That’s what I thought too until it all came out in my early 30’s. Emotions and everything suppressed I had to deal with. In my teens and all throughout my 20’s, I thought I was good, I was ok. I was working and doing well for myself and didn’t follow in my parents footsteps, but the pain came out in different ways and you don’t realize that until later on. I’m not saying that is your case, but for a lot of us, these issues do come up later in life to deal with and that’s ok. It really makes you even more stronger than before 💜
She got through a military drill, dealt with criminals, protected Presidents. And here I am, getting mad at my 5 year old daughter calling me stupid mom. There's a looong way to go
Absolutely one of the best talks on TH-cam!! Evy is intelligent, powerful, and wise. I wish she's one of the 5 closest people in my life. Thank you Hannah & Evy for this pleasant and informative conversation!
She's done other appearances. TH-cam search her. I'm a mom to a cute, mischievous, bunch of very young children, living in strict lockdown almost a year and we're in a self quarantine after an exposure, so, the people I spend the most time with are toddlers. I don't want to think like them but by the end of each day, it can break me down almost that much, so I wear a blutooth earbud while doing dishes, making lunches, folding laundry, and sweeping up. I listen to teachers like Evy, audiobooks about the field of business I plan to move into once my littles are in school, or other motivational or informational grown-ups. I find just seeing a great lesson like this once sort of hits me and then passes, but if I make an effort to keep wise voices like this in my ear a little bit throughout the day, it can feel more balanced, and the repetition helps a passing lesson become an actual habit.
Thank you for teaching us how to recognize when we aren't recognizing or utilizing the power we have over our own life and how to turn it around so that we can be closer to living the quality of life that we welcome :) This reflects the "respond vs. react" lesson. Take stock of what exists in our life - determine what we like/want vs. what we don't like or want - then figure out a plan or strategy for how to achieve the best possible situation for our selves and then work to make it happen. We can only control our own actions, feelings, decisions, and choices that we make for our selves. We must be prepared to walk away from people and things that aren't good for us - things we cannot change - if those situations really aren't good for us.
Great Interview. What a wonderful and knowledgeable speaker. I honestly had no idea how important it is to "stay in control and not surrender to the chaos"(as she articulated so well).
Wow she is incredibly poised, and so articulate, powerful and beautiful. Thank you - finally someone "real" that women like me can relate to! I will be buying her book!
Very nice interview with Evy former secret service agent and about her new book becoming Bullet proof. Paperback book. And her work experiences. I enjoyed your program. Learned some insight about society and people .
Ok, I've seen a whole like 30 seconds of this - came up in my feed from liking this guest on other appearances - and I'm loving this host! Her greeting seems filled with genuine warmth, excitement, and love. I feel so welcome on this channel. 🙇 Thanks. Don't mind if I do...
fear might help to plan in more thoughtful way. She talks about body's reaction in challenging situations - that's where most of us feel defeated because self-protection can be turned against that very person who needs help most. It may become very ambiguous in hands of those who want to defeat us. Has to be teached as early as possible, otherwise body and mind always will be in an inner conflict. She is a hero
This is an awesome video. Thank you. Incidentally, if you eat a lot of sugar, your reactionary time can be very short. Sugar makes impulse control harder due to how it impacts your brain chemistry.
Every one needs a back bone to survive, without being cruel. She’s truly top notch. She’s truly a blessing, pray many truly listen and hear her words. She’s a blessing to us.
Absolutely love,” how can I help other people “, very awesome. A couple of my granddaughters, they are so strong, so resilient, and I’ll make sure they continue this empowering journey. They do not deserve to be a victim, they deserve to face up and they are such empowering ladies!! I believe in them so much,. Ones 20, her sis is 11, these girls are going to truly make a difference, they already are. Shared this video also with them, they love empowerment.
Evy should write a full disclosure book about ALL the Presidents she worked for. NOW is the time, because disclosure has just begun over here in the US! I love Evy, she is pure badassed-ness!! 💗
Her advice are very helpful. I am working on my emotions. Balance is very hard to maintain. What she say is very true. Being empowered is knowing how to adjust. Truth is always the key to adjust. Denial is a problem.
Rigid people aren't just rigid, They have a history that has shaped them, just as you do.She makes it simple for herself, saying "you don't want to be rigid". instead of providing some really useful advice for them how to go about change. She is oblivious that one needs the information, support or assistence of others of what possibilities there are. When having experienced total powerlessness,there is learned helplessness and lack of habitude, energy,health and skills..
As an empowerment teacher Im in awe of you. Thank you for speaking my language to me! For being a tide for thoughtful protection for ourselves, not reactive.
One day i was leaving the gym and a girl was walking towards me and then passed me, something in my gut made me feel uneasy. it was a sunny day and i realised i saw her shadow turn around and circle back. the sun was low so even though she was maybe 8 metres away i could see her shadow. i reached my car and quickly got in locking the doors. she stopped at my passenger door and i turned and looked her right in the face and didn't break eye contact. she got the fright of her life and walked away. always trust you gut feeling about someone.
extra elaboration on this story. I left the parking lot and realised she was standing next to the bus stop so as i drove past her i slowed right down and caught her gaze again and made sure she knew that i knew what she was up to. she was trying to hide within the bus stop behind a bin. she looked dead scared after that.
Such an inspirational, strong and beautiful woman! Thank you for your great sharing. I feel so blessed to have listened to your logic, wisdom and experiences. Lovely work xxx
I love this lady, she's intelligent and speaks very well. The NYPD and emotional intelligence, though? Nah, not anymore. Back in Evy's day the NYPD recruiting process was different, because nowadays they'll hire anyone. You want to join law enforcement? Get the fuck in here and finish your "training". Done? Here are your badge and gun, now go out there and protect and serve the shit out of citizens.
This keeps being suggested to me but I just don’t care. We’re gonna die. Life’s not fun or nice. Just pointless. And pointless. I keep downvoting but it shows up again.
Evy Poumpouras didnt need the name drop. This interviewer hasnt done her homework on her, and you can tell by the way she holds and looks at the book that she didnt read. Evy you got out your truth very well
This woman is reminding me of who and what I am but lost sight of when I fell into crushing despair. Bless you!
i hear ya man!
I've been there and trying to remember who the F I am!!
You all know who you are, pain is part of the process. You will see your self in a the upcoming time and once again you will be proud of you, of how you lifted up your self. I have faith in you because I know you have faith in yourself. This comment assures it.
Just coming out of it myself man. 13 yrs with a covert narcissist who apparently despises men and wants to just control and abuse them for their own sick false sense of self superiority complex.
March 10th it was dropped on me, April 23rd is when they walked out the door. Left Hugh and dry, no washer and dryer, no fridge, no shower curtain and took the family car..
7 days later was the anniversary of the date our son was to be born but we lost him in 2015 was a Mc.
It's like she timed it JUST right calculated to ALLL of it would hit me like a truck full of tons of bricks
It's just the falsehood of it all for over 13 yrs..
I'm so.Sorry you went thriugh what u did as well man. Everything did feel hopeless, the future all of it pointless and in dispair of it all.
I just have to restart my life completly and just move on without them ever seeing or hearing from them ever again. That's also the hard part.
@@electrayakamozi9386 🙏🏾
"I can't make you unstoppable because it doesn't exist. But I can make you harder to stop." -Evy
From now on, I am going to save money to buy that book.
on kindle its only 1 pound
@@evka24 thank you for the Info.
It’s in the public library:)
One of best book I have ever bought!! Every time I feel demotivated.. I open Evy’s Becoming Bulletproof, and my mind becomes bulletproof! It has changed my outlook towards every situation and every person. Huge gratitude to beautiful Evy💕
I LOVE the authenticity of that statement! Also just ordered her book. :)
The mindset of taking responsibility also takes so much stress away! I had a horrible situation with a housemate recently where they said "I never liked you" very out of nowhere (during a fight with her closest friend in the house) after it felt like we'd had a reasonable friendship. I sat down, took accountability, and realised I wouldn't have changed anything about how I behaved - meaning her problem with me was her problem. It also really helps you cut the social fat! Thank you Evy, you're a gift!
“Cut the social fat”. That’s the perfect way to describe cutting toxic people from your life. I’m borrowing it.
This is hy I'll never have roommates ever again.
Love how Evy talks about noticing our patterns of reaction, tracking it, and using that info to reign ourselves in to make choices to practice self control.
Wow, the U.S. got such a treasure when Evy's parents decided to choose the American Dream :) 🇺🇸 Your story and work is deeply inspiring can't wait to get your book!
The book is great...reading it now🙌🏽
There is no american dream. Come to canada instead
She said in other interviews that her parents disagreed at first, and wouldn't talk to her for a little while, but they eventually came around. I'm happy she stuck to going after her dreams because I find her so inspirational plus she gives great advice.
She is so intelligent! I can’t act as though I don’t see how gorgeous she is . Just beautiful and strong
Is it possible that we are more willing to listen to "gorgeous" people?
Rightttt???
Jami: Although I myself am not sure it is intelligent that she is, but rather practised in self-disciplined schooling of her potential and learning also human functioning, natural laws and to use them efficiently and optimally. That is so hopeful really: We don't have to be that intelligent to be good at (self) defense etc, just use our assets and god's energy. Sorry I stepped into your view. Hope it's OK.Empowering myself.
She really is. I was initially drawn to the subject/title's of her talks & of course it's tough to ignore her striking beauty. There may have been a twinge of pseudo envy at some point during the perception phase but ultimately (she won me over). She'd make a good interviewer. 😉
Brains + Beauty & she's Beast? I guess if you're into that type of junk, lol. Jkjk
#Admirer
#FriendGoals
@Rheann Roman You clearly didn't understand what I was getting at, yet you took time to poke at me, you brat!
She is so authentic and inspiring. Thank you for sharing your wisdom
Evy is SUCH an inspiration.
'We usually raise the first obstacle, due to a self defeating narrative'. WOW. That's really got me.
Great interview. Buying the book!! And another one for my granddaughter.
I thought I was straight until I found Evy.. I finally found my girl crush.. omg she’s gorgeous and articulate .. those eyes
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Seriously....when a man doesn’t hear a woman and only pervs on about her looks we are out for blood I don’t know how you got away with this comment
Lmao she's pretty but this comment is rather creepy af
@@acedcoffee6934 I find this comment rather meek lol, I’ve seen worse comments out there
@@shelby3755 ahah agree
I Love "take what you learn and help other people". Thank you so much!
She is AMAZING! Love her
I’m learning a lot from Evy in this and other videos. Her book has been in my wish list for quite awhile. I’m looking forward to listening to it soon.
Your a hero! My hubs 30yr. retired Sr Navy Chief and maryland state trooper of 20 yrs. I would love to talk with you. You could help me deal with the crap I deal with with him. OMG!
He was Intel. Cop friends in New York..
Your a tough Cookie! Love your wisdom. Thank You for your service 💖
I love her attitude thank you
Always stop to watch her videos! If only all cops were like her!!! I will def get her book very soon too. Thank you Evy. What a pretty name too . Bless you.
This lady and Robert Greene need to connect and write a book together. So powerful!!!!💪🏻
Amen on her answer regarding working for President Trump. That’s patriotism at its finest.
All Women need life advise like this.
I constantly had to check my initial reactions towards evil intentions and actions of other people, to the point where fear sends me to react to them with an overloaded thoughts of violence.
Then it would become a different level of danger!!!
Its the self perseverance thing.🤔
Fortunately intelligence takes over and things tend to work out positively on my part.
It takes hard work to become mindful, resilient and in control.
Experiences teaches you how to navigate our reality, that for sure.
The part where we have to except other people's reality is where my arguments against it kicks in.
Especially when logic tells you that they're wrong.
I stand with my convictions, because I evaluate everything at play.
I'm always aware.
Resilience shows the power we have in hopeless situations. Even when you are in the worst of situations you have power to change situations. There are so many layers and facets of becoming a bulletproof person (you don't have to go thro years of police academy like she did).
1) we are always becoming fearless and brave. We are not done becoming brave.
Amazing video ✨✨✨
I know way too many narcissistic officers... men and women. So that test is no bueno.
I think re-testing would be good to do. I know you change while in LE, esp. if you let it.
She said that not all departments do the same things, so NYPD used the test but not necessarily other departments.
Being in law enforcement especially elite unit like presidential protection unit is tough (lotsof strong personalities and egos). It is tougher for a woman. I can tell she’s naturally rational and logical. That’s how she can survive in her line of work. For those who lead by emotion, the learning curve is steep. It takes a lot to override natural instinct.
Thanks, wheres the link to the book?
Check Amazon, if you haven"t already.
Our Fed Officers in BC Canada must go through a psychological exam and polygraph before employment , impulsivity is a massive negative as well as poor credit , which increases the risk of being manipulated
She is a different kind ,
if she didn't say she was a secret service agent you'd think she was just ranting.
I didn't get the thing she said about the slider thing....can someone please explain?
People can hack cameras. So buy a slider so when your not using your camera you can block it from viewing you.
I think a lot of people do evolve with the times, they'll moan and complain about it but a particular age group particularly when they hit 65 and up they are very set in their ways and they don't want to change with the times, they think certain things are bad, women who dress provocatively they think is wrong because they are not behaving like a lady so they have diffrent values and particularly in this age group they remember what is was like in the good old days in a simpler time but this is what I love about the elder generations you learn about the wars, and history. Never mind school you learn the real history from people who have lived through hard times like world War 2, husbands being sent away from them months at a time not knowing if they will return so when you say you've had a tough time recently with your anxiety a lot of these elder people in their 80s plus will tell you "what are you talking about? Anxiety? We were anxious waking up everyday not knowing if we were going to live or die." So because of their past they are less sensitised to younger people's anxieties. And suddenly depending on the person now its become a contest about who had it bad.
Her eyes 😍
Being in security (and a blonde) = approaching people who are not compliant in wearing a mask 😷 I have my own way of dealing with them as they have this ‘I’m going to cause trouble and shout out my rights’ the way I handle it they will either comply / or present a certificate. It’s all in customer service and years of being a flight attendant
Inforcing mask wearing is something a Nazi would do. There is no virus killing people. If you are too stupid to read the science at least leave those who do alone.
You have no legal right to confront anyone about wearing or not wearing anything on their faces, I’m not sure what sort of security you’re in but your classes should have covered the legality of harassment.
Tsk tsk.... I hate the mask & won’t wear one bc I was tortured, raped, & have severe CPTSD. I would not approach others about the mask. It’s a great way to end up in court, jail, the hospital, or dead. You don’t know what others have gone through.
@@HealingIndigoMoon I love your insight and understanding in spite of your experience. 💜🧡💜
I love love love Evy but the intro to this video was over 1:50 and I’m sorry but I didn’t tune in to listen to the host ramble. I was just about to share this video with a friend but I am doubtful she will be patient enough to make it past the intro either.
Just wanted to have a look if someone has such opinion, among all the gushing, and here it is! )
I find it hard to listen to how the host formulates the sentences or searches for the proper words with visible difficulty...
Grant Cardone Too
Johnson Maria Thompson Richard Garcia Paul
Moore Jessica Rodriguez Ronald Hernandez Frank
Young Ruth Walker Kevin Lewis Elizabeth
Evy is Badass, the interview was weak, leading and this lady did no research on the institutions she's inquiring of. Her agenda fucked it up.
White Lisa Harris Brenda Robinson Michael
I know this is quarantine times, but could we at least brush our hair and put on an interview-type outfit? It's a little embarrassing when the interviewee is dressed more appropriately than the interviewer...
Is that really all you got out of this? Lol
How long does it take for her to put on all of that make-up everyday? And did she look like this on the job?
You just asked a question and that’s okay... :)
If she does her own makeup, I’m guessing about an half hour to and hour. It really depends on the individual. Some people can do their makeup in like 15 mins. As for job wise, who knows, probably more basic with some concealer and mascara. I’m guessing.
She was an ex secret service so I am sure she qualified just fine for the job. Doesn’t matter how many hours she spent looking beautiful.
I can get ready, shower , hair and full makeup in 30 min.
@@DeadwoodSD1876 thst‘s exactly what she said in another interview. Pple underestimate beautiful women and she used it to her advantage. Very intelligent.
ffs who giv a hoot
🤢🤮🤢
Rule 1: Don't be secret.
Hannah is such a good interviewer. No interruptions x
I could listen to this lady for hours
He who walks with the wise grows wise
We are never done becoming....I LOVE THAT. SO MOTIVATED . You are a gem.
I love the intelligence here! So strong and level headed.
This should be taught in schools ☺️
Schools are enveloped in the abundance of what needs to be taught. Over time, these “shoulds” have resulted in the dropping of really important subjects that within these forgotten subjects lie discrete details that contain thought provoking decision making plans.
Solutions would be for a parent/caregiver to seek out after school activities that address these issues and develop the necessary emotional intelligence to add to intellectual intelligence.
@@julietterogers6887 right. I stop saying a long time ago.
They won’t teach it because she teaches reality and common sense.
@@SugarcubeCali you are right. What a silly society we live in.
I agree with her 1000% .. I had a tough childhood and never fell victim to substance abuse or severe depression. As I got older I had lots of stress and I saw friends who had a little stress like a boyfriend break up with them and they’d be on anti depressants and practically suicidal. The ppl who were deeply depressed grew up in a two parent home with grandparents and all that. When I broke up with a guy in most cases I just went on with my life and I had a broken home and my mom died when I was 2 of an overdose and my dad was a severe alcoholic. I always noticed I was different and more resilient to adversity than many others and I embraced that strength.
@@SusanaXpeace2u I think your right. I lost both parents very young and I have a strong sense of self. I sometime wonder about kids with toxic parents if they would be be better off with out them
I can relate and couldn't agree with you more!! My superpower "is not afraid to fail" I love that
Yeah but there are worlds apart between when you break up with someone and when someone breaks up with you. Bad example.
@drac 464 What you wrote was SO GOOD I had to re-read it several times. YOU'RE AMAZING not to have gotten caught up in drugs or depression. That's remarkable.
That’s what I thought too until it all came out in my early 30’s. Emotions and everything suppressed I had to deal with. In my teens and all throughout my 20’s, I thought I was good, I was ok. I was working and doing well for myself and didn’t follow in my parents footsteps, but the pain came out in different ways and you don’t realize that until later on.
I’m not saying that is your case, but for a lot of us, these issues do come up later in life to deal with and that’s ok. It really makes you even more stronger than before 💜
She got through a military drill, dealt with criminals, protected Presidents. And here I am, getting mad at my 5 year old daughter calling me stupid mom. There's a looong way to go
😂😂😂😂😂
She would probably tell you that being a mom is the hardest job in the world.
Absolutely one of the best talks on TH-cam!! Evy is intelligent, powerful, and wise. I wish she's one of the 5 closest people in my life. Thank you Hannah & Evy for this pleasant and informative conversation!
She's done other appearances. TH-cam search her.
I'm a mom to a cute, mischievous, bunch of very young children, living in strict lockdown almost a year and we're in a self quarantine after an exposure, so, the people I spend the most time with are toddlers. I don't want to think like them but by the end of each day, it can break me down almost that much, so I wear a blutooth earbud while doing dishes, making lunches, folding laundry, and sweeping up. I listen to teachers like Evy, audiobooks about the field of business I plan to move into once my littles are in school, or other motivational or informational grown-ups. I find just seeing a great lesson like this once sort of hits me and then passes, but if I make an effort to keep wise voices like this in my ear a little bit throughout the day, it can feel more balanced, and the repetition helps a passing lesson become an actual habit.
"We don't need to be the mere RECIPIENT to what people do to us!" Evy P. you are so amazing
Stunning mind! I’ve been watching a bunch of videos on her! She is so grounded! A true inspiration in thought processes! 🤍
Know Thyself is actually a ancient Kemetic saying 😊
Thank you for teaching us how to recognize when we aren't recognizing or utilizing the power we have over our own life and how to turn it around so that we can be closer to living the quality of life that we welcome :) This reflects the "respond vs. react" lesson. Take stock of what exists in our life - determine what we like/want vs. what we don't like or want - then figure out a plan or strategy for how to achieve the best possible situation for our selves and then work to make it happen. We can only control our own actions, feelings, decisions, and choices that we make for our selves. We must be prepared to walk away from people and things that aren't good for us - things we cannot change - if those situations really aren't good for us.
Wow! She sounds completely different from the Interview I saw before. She really adjusts her personality according to the audience 😲
Really you think so? In what way? Her body language seems a little different maybe but idk
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Night & Day difference th-cam.com/video/FmMTb2lF7jM/w-d-xo.html
@@natpolkabunny mostly her soft voice, a lot of pauses, everything more quiet and less intense...
That’s an Air sign specialty hunny!
This is how a badass look like!
Great Interview. What a wonderful and knowledgeable speaker. I honestly had no idea how important it is to "stay in control and not surrender to the chaos"(as she articulated so well).
Wow she is incredibly poised, and so articulate, powerful and beautiful. Thank you - finally someone "real" that women like me can relate to! I will be buying her book!
How do the fake women relate to her?
Very nice interview with Evy former secret service agent and about her new book becoming Bullet proof. Paperback book. And her work experiences. I enjoyed your program. Learned some insight about society and people .
Ok, I've seen a whole like 30 seconds of this - came up in my feed from liking this guest on other appearances - and I'm loving this host! Her greeting seems filled with genuine warmth, excitement, and love. I feel so welcome on this channel. 🙇 Thanks. Don't mind if I do...
Love your smile! Thanks for the "warm welcome". Evy has become my new hero in life. I stop for any interview I come across with her!
It's always worhwhile listening to Evy
wow so educational have practiced some of these 100% we are influenced by the people around us whoo whoo,
fear might help to plan in more thoughtful way. She talks about body's reaction in challenging situations - that's where most of us feel defeated because self-protection can be turned against that very person who needs help most. It may become very ambiguous in hands of those who want to defeat us. Has to be teached as early as possible, otherwise body and mind always will be in an inner conflict. She is a hero
This is an awesome video. Thank you. Incidentally, if you eat a lot of sugar, your reactionary time can be very short. Sugar makes impulse control harder due to how it impacts your brain chemistry.
Thank you Evy for really simple and work able advice and all of best with your new career in television🙏🏽
I love her. I want to take her class
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Every one needs a back bone to survive, without being cruel. She’s truly top notch. She’s truly a blessing, pray many truly listen and hear her words. She’s a blessing to us.
Absolutely love,” how can I help other people “, very awesome. A couple of my granddaughters, they are so strong, so resilient, and I’ll make sure they continue this empowering journey. They do not deserve to be a victim, they deserve to face up and they are such empowering ladies!! I believe in them so much,. Ones 20, her sis is 11, these girls are going to truly make a difference, they already are. Shared this video also with them, they love empowerment.
Me and my mind, I grew up with brothers , and I’m
Going to be stronger, because I’m the oldest!! 😁 Plus, they are / will learn from me.
So glad you said backbone rather than balls 🙂
Evy should write a full disclosure book about ALL the Presidents she worked for. NOW is the time, because disclosure has just begun over here in the US! I love Evy, she is pure badassed-ness!! 💗
Her advice are very helpful.
I am working on my emotions.
Balance is very hard to maintain.
What she say is very true. Being empowered is knowing how to adjust.
Truth is always the key to adjust.
Denial is a problem.
Rigid people aren't just rigid, They have a history that has shaped them, just as you do.She makes it simple for herself, saying "you don't want to be rigid". instead of providing some really useful advice for them how to go about change. She is oblivious that one needs the information, support or assistence of others of what possibilities there are. When having experienced total powerlessness,there is learned helplessness and lack of habitude, energy,health and skills..
enjoyed this very much
As an empowerment teacher Im in awe of you. Thank you for speaking my language to me! For being a tide for thoughtful protection for ourselves, not reactive.
One day i was leaving the gym and a girl was walking towards me and then passed me, something in my gut made me feel uneasy. it was a sunny day and i realised i saw her shadow turn around and circle back. the sun was low so even though she was maybe 8 metres away i could see her shadow. i reached my car and quickly got in locking the doors. she stopped at my passenger door and i turned and looked her right in the face and didn't break eye contact. she got the fright of her life and walked away. always trust you gut feeling about someone.
extra elaboration on this story. I left the parking lot and realised she was standing next to the bus stop so as i drove past her i slowed right down and caught her gaze again and made sure she knew that i knew what she was up to. she was trying to hide within the bus stop behind a bin. she looked dead scared after that.
Inspiring, helpful and so interesting, thanks for sharing!
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Just bought her book on Kindle. This is going to be a good read.
Amazing interview. Finally found someone that thinks just like me.
Hi emotional IQ comes in to play here.
She’s brilliant 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
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I LOVE HER OMG HER WORDS
Such an inspirational, strong and beautiful woman! Thank you for your great sharing. I feel so blessed to have listened to your logic, wisdom and experiences. Lovely work xxx
I love this lady, she's intelligent and speaks very well. The NYPD and emotional intelligence, though? Nah, not anymore. Back in Evy's day the NYPD recruiting process was different, because nowadays they'll hire anyone. You want to join law enforcement? Get the fuck in here and finish your "training". Done? Here are your badge and gun, now go out there and protect and serve the shit out of citizens.
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This was phenomenal!!
Thought provoking. Clearly, this lady is very intelligent and has the wisdom of experience. I will be buying her book.
I bought it few hours i saw her in an Interview i ran to the book store🙂
@@naimadelafeunte9165 I've downloaded it to my kindle. Reading it now.
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This keeps being suggested to me but I just don’t care. We’re gonna die. Life’s not fun or nice. Just pointless. And pointless. I keep downvoting but it shows up again.
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Amazing lady!!!
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Evy Poumpouras didnt need the name drop. This interviewer hasnt done her homework on her, and you can tell by the way she holds and looks at the book that she didnt read. Evy you got out your truth very well
WOW, she is not only Strong, Smart, Beautiful but incredibly Articulate! What an Amazing person and woman!
So true. The second that you, anyone, thinks that they are invincible or know everything that is when you need to check yourself.
Super high value woman, SUPER HIGH
they jump from the tower because that's your body fighting the heat..