The way some of y’all are comparing Tyler’s kid to your own upbringing-whether broke or middle class (like TP grew up)-is basically the whole point of the conversation Bondy is having with us. That child didn’t grow up like yall (or his father) why force it on him🤔. Balance.
Because parents get to choose how they raise their children. He could try to raise a son like TI’s or like Simone’s ungrateful kids…or he can choose to raise his kids in a way where they have values,morals, appreciation and a work ethic. And let’s be clear…growing up with a parent who has HOMES, takes you on international vacations, can introduce you to anything is not like Tyler’s upbringing. But does he need to go the extra mile on Christmas (one day) to prove to anybody that he can get them anything…no
That Tyler segment was so performative 🤨 and you notice at first Sherry was shocked but all of sudden she also puts her son in coach? SMH so scared to challenge the argument and be on the wrong side of Tyler that she possibly lied on her own parenting.
The reason I started watching your videos before you retired your TV station job a went full time content creator. ❤Musical Melodies❤. Your voice is so beautiful. 48:40, 50:49, 51:22 and so on!
I agree with you on TP and other folks on this forced poverty mindset, like its some badge of honor. Having been poor at some point doesn't make you better or inherently more grateful or virtuous. It simply means at some point you were poor. Your children can ve privileged and have whatever values you feel are important. That part is about what you take the time to model and teach them. How do you move in your home, with the people you see on a daily, within your community. Do YOU have a generosity of spirit that your children see? Do you love them generously (your words, affection)? You can give your children the world, and as long as you underscore it with the values that mean the most to your family, they will be fine. P.S. If they WANT to be a-holes when they grow up, there is nothing you can do about it.
Some people think they know it all! 19:54 Well, now that she left a heart emoji and money tongued-emoji under a basketball players photo, are they still wrong, weird? She said he was not her type.........He learned quickly.
Yes Bondy! They are bullying Travis and his girl at this point. Even I do think they are too young. They want him to leave a "gold digger" to get multiple women who would be there for gold. Make it make sense!
Speaking of music back in the day.. I’m a 95’ baby and my pawpaw made sure I knew good music. Love me some Betty Wright but Mr. Charlie wasn’t shit😮💨. The Temptations “papa was a rolling stone” ass dead beat. 🙄My mom born in 77’ did her job so I know all the 80s and 90s hits. With that being said Mokenstef he was for everybody talking bout “He’s Mine”.😒 Donnell Jones “Where I Wanna Be”.. Fabulous “ Can’t Let You Go” .. TOXIC all of them 🤣🤣🤣
I agree with you .. Joc too old for Kendra, doing what I feel was mostly for tv, constantly yelling threats and screaming in his face, LMAO. It looks like Joc wants to show a calmer side of their relationship, but Kendra feel like the drama will keep them on the show and interesting. I feel like you could see the annoyance on his face in recent seasons.. but I'm glad he filed, as a couple, they got on my nerves!
Because as long as women were suffering in that song it was FINE!!!! Most men got mad at 'aint nothing gone on but the rent" that song pissed them off.... But unbreak my heart is Jam 🙄
People would have been mad no matter what with Travis’ girlfriend, if she would have gotten up and hugged him before his mother they would have said something but she waited until he hugged his mom and coach then her .
I’m sure his son will never complain about first class ever again. Tyler did the right thing. Certain things in life we need to experience to know we never want to go through it again (flying coach being one of those things) It’s not about being sadistic towards your child or whatever you’re insinuating, it’s about creating a decent human being that won’t be a spoiled menace to society. THANK YOU TYLER PERRY!
Being poor around other poor people is cool being poor around rich people sucks. Trust me. I went straight from the Bronx to an Ivy league college in upstate NY. My classmates had private drivers, credit cards etc. I'm waiting on the city bus to take a greyhound home to go to the projects for vacation 😂 They got a private drive to Martha's Vineyard.
You can creat humble human beings by using words. He can explain to his son how, why they are able to fly 1st class. All children complain and are impatient. I sensed the attitude when he spoke about the Legos, coach: so coach is punishment. Well, we see where the little one gets the entitlement and uppity mentality from. Coach, business, first class, we're on the same plane. Talk to the child, show the child, be an example. Now the son thinks coach is punishment and will judge everyone who sits in coach (beneath his father). Yes, way to go!
The Tyler Perry thing with his kid is not a black issue. A lot of celebrities are like this with their kids and they grow up well. ie Gordan Ramsey, he also doesn’t allow his children in first class. He also states they haven’t worked and earned it.
It actually seems like an imside job if you think about it. Hes BEEEN with that girl. And all of a sudden around his last game they we start getting random short (unfavorable) clips of his FIANCEE’ I know some patriarchal, marketing PR steering when I see it. They prob like “get that girl away from him.” Bc when do we ever pay attention to women with an athlete that isnt even drafted yet, especially if shes not his bm, AND not black. Yea… he needs to peep his team.
Coach is a punishment? Why not explain to the 10 year old the importance, the steps to working hard and having your hearts' desires. Who doesn't want to be able to give their children what they want as long as it is earned. I agree, TP sounds angry at his child, has an attitude with his child when it's a reflection of his and her's teachings, example for their son. He's only 10, not 18. Let him visit the studio, see the process, the work that led to the success, first class, private jets, vacations, Legos. He freely gives to strangers, but his son..........
41:33 Sad to hear the interviewer ask Miki Howard this question. I couldn't tell if the interviewer was asking because she seriously doesn't know when popular rap changed from mostly positive to mostly negative, or if she was just asking Miki Howard's opinion. BTW.... The correct answer is 1993. Even though Eazy E. with N.W.A., Uncle Luke with the 2 Live Crew and others existed before 1993, It was the December 1992 Death Row Records release of "The Chronic" album that cemented the change of black music forever. R&B (Through Keith Sweat and Silk) changed around the same time.
The Mikki Howard conversation is tiresome. Not only is there a dbl standard when women talk about sex or their own body parts, there is also one when it's about black women vs white women. For example, people call Chloe Bailey all kind of mean names and she gets slut shamed for the way she dress and stuff...meanwhile Sabrina Carpenter can simulate sucking dck and different sexual positions during her concerts and everyone is excited and saying oh she's grown into a sex kitten and it's fun and flirty! And I love both of them, love Sabrina down..but people got mad at Chloe for singing about her vibrator.. It's ridiculous.
Its funny to me that so many people was save trvis from his relationship with his woman, but could care less sbout the messed up relationship mariah jas with thug. Its all this what if he was your son in regards to him, ok what if she was your daughter dating s man in jail who proud about playing her cause she gonna stay loyal?
Secret Lovers - Atlantic Starr Just Be Good to Me - SOS BAND Almost every Prince song: I wanna be your lover, Head, Darling Nikki, Irresistible B*tch, DMSR, Private Joy, Do me, Dirty Mind...
Part time lover:Stevie wonder,Secret lover's:Atlantic Starr, Saving all my love for you:Whitney Houston, She's got papers on me. Chile and the list goes on
Paying your own bills ASSUMES you pay them with your money. And I’m sure Tyler’s child lives in a home, goes to a school and has support that WE can only imagine. So Leggos ( which can be expensive) and books are not a mean gift. Your kids don’t need to be driving mini luxury cars and walking around in designer clothes because he can afford them
Say you don't actively listen without saying you don't actively listen. That's not why the statement about being mean was made. And nor do you know the child's life behind the scenes.
@@amandaemi4822Legos are not synonymous with intelligence. I have an IQ of 130 and read on a middle school level in kindergarten and at 44 can't build more than a skyscraper with Legos and I don't mean an intricate one either. So to assume that is ignorant. And books don't foster a love of reading either.
That's sad... only books & Legos. Really... I'm sure that child receives more throughout the year.l that makes up for that. I grew up in a low-middle income, 2 parents 3 siblings family & got more than that. If Tyler believes doing that will humble his children, so be it. I disagree. Some people say mine are spoiled when they discover the material things they receive (by way of being nosey). However, they are not. They are blessed & highly favored, exhibit excellent manners, & live by the golden rule: don't start no 💩 won't be no 💩 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
You are really good at examining men and how they feel about women. But have you ever considered to way do you examine me I believe it's something from your past
Ur that lady's "HUSBAND "...ShirleyM...TillUComeBack...StevieW. 1MoG in...D'Angelo...I'll take yo Man...Salt/Pepa..OPP/ NBNature... 1MoreChance...Biggie..Rolling Stone. SoManyJams/Classics
Not in every way no but in the way of working out their issues thru their work yes. Most ppl do and they like to recreate womens pain over and over. Its literally the same as why did i get married except they dont like each other in real life.
I would like to make an honorable mention to the R&B songs that is good but when you listen to the lyrics, it’s an eyebrow raise 🤨. Just recently I was listening to Dionne Warwick’s song Walk on by . I’ve heard the lyrics before, but I never took it to consideration that she was talking about a dude that broke her heart and tell him every time y’all walking down the street and you see me cry just walk on by. Like why do I have to keep seeing you every day as a reminder that you broke my heart you get one good cry out of me and the next day I’m moving on like the relationship even didn’t exist😂😂😂
Girl, you hit the nail on the MF head You are so right about those records I thought It was just me who was thanking of that stuff 😂 girl, I have friends that say I was crazy. I’m glad you put it out there and I still hope they listening and paying attention. Good job.👏👏👏👏🫶🏽
I love your personality! Your hair! Your glasses! Your swag! Everything!!❤❤
The way some of y’all are comparing Tyler’s kid to your own upbringing-whether broke or middle class (like TP grew up)-is basically the whole point of the conversation Bondy is having with us.
That child didn’t grow up like yall (or his father) why force it on him🤔. Balance.
Because parents get to choose how they raise their children. He could try to raise a son like TI’s or like Simone’s ungrateful kids…or he can choose to raise his kids in a way where they have values,morals, appreciation and a work ethic.
And let’s be clear…growing up with a parent who has HOMES, takes you on international vacations, can introduce you to anything is not like Tyler’s upbringing. But does he need to go the extra mile on Christmas (one day) to prove to anybody that he can get them anything…no
I’ll just leave it at this: reading, writing, comprehension, and proper sentence structure are fundamental tools we all need.
Now singing that Marvin Gaye "its too late to turn back now!"❤❤❤❤ lol yess Bondy its a 80s baby thang!!!
Wow…beautiful voice!!!
I use to watch Mommie Dearest growing up
Body you get on my nerves!!!!😂😂 Ya Toni Braxton has me in tears💙💙🫶🏼💙💙
Bondy Blue That’s Travis Hunter Mistake He Should Never Talk About His Personal Business On The Internet!
3:56 same! I just told my parents I’m tired of watching movies with them calling black people the hard ER and we “overcome”.
SPARKLE!!!!!😂😂😂I know that movie word for word!!!!
That Tyler segment was so performative 🤨 and you notice at first Sherry was shocked but all of sudden she also puts her son in coach? SMH so scared to challenge the argument and be on the wrong side of Tyler that she possibly lied on her own parenting.
"Voyage to Atlantis" is diabolically... but a jam.
Candi Staton sang about the real!!! LMAO One of my favorite old school songs!!
Girl you LOOK GOODT ❤❤❤
50:05-50:35 Marvin,
Please believe it!¡👏🏾👏🏾
You crooned that!🙌🏾
I just finished listening to a poem by Sunni Patterson, and her words after just 😭... And then Bondy comes on right after. NoLa women ❤
Playback crew💙💙💙
Me regarding Kendra and Joc: oh, oh so you doing the filing???? 😂😂😂😂
I like when you sing Marvin Gaye...Sounds pretty. Record that.
Replay gang!
The reason I started watching your videos before you retired your TV station job a went full time content creator. ❤Musical Melodies❤. Your voice is so beautiful. 48:40, 50:49, 51:22 and so on!
Wow!! I had the same reaction to Tyler Perry's interview regarding his son.
Right she said Rat said you keep calling with no hair
I agree with you on TP and other folks on this forced poverty mindset, like its some badge of honor.
Having been poor at some point doesn't make you better or inherently more grateful or virtuous. It simply means at some point you were poor.
Your children can ve privileged and have whatever values you feel are important. That part is about what you take the time to model and teach them. How do you move in your home, with the people you see on a daily, within your community.
Do YOU have a generosity of spirit that your children see? Do you love them generously (your words, affection)? You can give your children the world, and as long as you underscore it with the values that mean the most to your family, they will be fine.
P.S. If they WANT to be a-holes when they grow up, there is nothing you can do about it.
Some people think they know it all! 19:54 Well, now that she left a heart emoji and money tongued-emoji under a basketball players photo, are they still wrong, weird? She said he was not her type.........He learned quickly.
Yes Bondy! They are bullying Travis and his girl at this point. Even I do think they are too young. They want him to leave a "gold digger" to get multiple women who would be there for gold. Make it make sense!
Arion seems like she’s annoys the shit outta Martell😂
He should have chose better.😂
🤣😂
Speaking of music back in the day.. I’m a 95’ baby and my pawpaw made sure I knew good music. Love me some Betty Wright but Mr. Charlie wasn’t shit😮💨. The Temptations “papa was a rolling stone” ass dead beat. 🙄My mom born in 77’ did her job so I know all the 80s and 90s hits. With that being said Mokenstef he was for everybody talking bout “He’s Mine”.😒 Donnell Jones “Where I Wanna Be”.. Fabulous “ Can’t Let You Go” .. TOXIC all of them 🤣🤣🤣
Nah jock drove that women crazy karlie redd tried to warn her tho
I agree with you .. Joc too old for Kendra, doing what I feel was mostly for tv, constantly yelling threats and screaming in his face, LMAO. It looks like Joc wants to show a calmer side of their relationship, but Kendra feel like the drama will keep them on the show and interesting. I feel like you could see the annoyance on his face in recent seasons.. but I'm glad he filed, as a couple, they got on my nerves!
Because as long as women were suffering in that song it was FINE!!!! Most men got mad at 'aint nothing gone on but the rent" that song pissed them off.... But unbreak my heart is Jam 🙄
People would have been mad no matter what with Travis’ girlfriend, if she would have gotten up and hugged him before his mother they would have said something but she waited until he hugged his mom and coach then her .
I’m sure his son will never complain about first class ever again. Tyler did the right thing. Certain things in life we need to experience to know we never want to go through it again (flying coach being one of those things)
It’s not about being sadistic towards your child or whatever you’re insinuating, it’s about creating a decent human being that won’t be a spoiled menace to society. THANK YOU TYLER PERRY!
You didnt actually listen to what i said. I said i didnt disagree with that part of what he said.
Being poor around other poor people is cool being poor around rich people sucks. Trust me. I went straight from the Bronx to an Ivy league college in upstate NY. My classmates had private drivers, credit cards etc. I'm waiting on the city bus to take a greyhound home to go to the projects for vacation 😂 They got a private drive to Martha's Vineyard.
You can creat humble human beings by using words. He can explain to his son how, why they are able to fly 1st class. All children complain and are impatient. I sensed the attitude when he spoke about the Legos, coach: so coach is punishment. Well, we see where the little one gets the entitlement and uppity mentality from. Coach, business, first class, we're on the same plane. Talk to the child, show the child, be an example. Now the son thinks coach is punishment and will judge everyone who sits in coach (beneath his father). Yes, way to go!
The Tyler Perry thing with his kid is not a black issue. A lot of celebrities are like this with their kids and they grow up well. ie Gordan Ramsey, he also doesn’t allow his children in first class. He also states they haven’t worked and earned it.
It actually seems like an imside job if you think about it. Hes BEEEN with that girl. And all of a sudden around his last game they we start getting random short (unfavorable) clips of his FIANCEE’ I know some patriarchal, marketing PR steering when I see it. They prob like “get that girl away from him.” Bc when do we ever pay attention to women with an athlete that isnt even drafted yet, especially if shes not his bm, AND not black. Yea… he needs to peep his team.
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Coach is a punishment? Why not explain to the 10 year old the importance, the steps to working hard and having your hearts' desires. Who doesn't want to be able to give their children what they want as long as it is earned. I agree, TP sounds angry at his child, has an attitude with his child when it's a reflection of his and her's teachings, example for their son. He's only 10, not 18. Let him visit the studio, see the process, the work that led to the success, first class, private jets, vacations, Legos. He freely gives to strangers, but his son..........
41:33 Sad to hear the interviewer ask Miki Howard this question. I couldn't tell if the interviewer was asking because she seriously doesn't know when popular rap changed from mostly positive to mostly negative, or if she was just asking Miki Howard's opinion. BTW.... The correct answer is 1993. Even though Eazy E. with N.W.A., Uncle Luke with the 2 Live Crew and others existed before 1993, It was the December 1992 Death Row Records release of "The Chronic" album that cemented the change of black music forever. R&B (Through Keith Sweat and Silk) changed around the same time.
You better sang Bondy! 👏🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾
The Mikki Howard conversation is tiresome. Not only is there a dbl standard when women talk about sex or their own body parts, there is also one when it's about black women vs white women. For example, people call Chloe Bailey all kind of mean names and she gets slut shamed for the way she dress and stuff...meanwhile Sabrina Carpenter can simulate sucking dck and different sexual positions during her concerts and everyone is excited and saying oh she's grown into a sex kitten and it's fun and flirty! And I love both of them, love Sabrina down..but people got mad at Chloe for singing about her vibrator.. It's ridiculous.
Girl again, you definitely ain’t no girl a New Orleans girl if they were see I’m one TOO😂😂😂
What!?
Its funny to me that so many people was save trvis from his relationship with his woman, but could care less sbout the messed up relationship mariah jas with thug. Its all this what if he was your son in regards to him, ok what if she was your daughter dating s man in jail who proud about playing her cause she gonna stay loyal?
Ironically… “the proposal” is one of Blake Livelys Husbands films. 😑
Secret Lovers - Atlantic Starr
Just Be Good to Me - SOS BAND
Almost every Prince song: I wanna be your lover, Head, Darling Nikki, Irresistible B*tch, DMSR, Private Joy, Do me, Dirty Mind...
Part time lover:Stevie wonder,Secret lover's:Atlantic Starr, Saving all my love for you:Whitney Houston, She's got papers on me. Chile and the list goes on
People don’t stay wealthy by overspending
Who said anything about overspending
I don’t like princess either since she was bullying TT on love and hip hop.
Paying your own bills ASSUMES you pay them with your money. And I’m sure Tyler’s child lives in a home, goes to a school and has support that WE can only imagine. So Leggos ( which can be expensive) and books are not a mean gift. Your kids don’t need to be driving mini luxury cars and walking around in designer clothes because he can afford them
What.
@@cyoohoos yes!!! Legos are expensive and a great gift. His child will be smart
I bought my Legos for $100+
Say you don't actively listen without saying you don't actively listen. That's not why the statement about being mean was made. And nor do you know the child's life behind the scenes.
@@amandaemi4822Legos are not synonymous with intelligence. I have an IQ of 130 and read on a middle school level in kindergarten and at 44 can't build more than a skyscraper with Legos and I don't mean an intricate one either. So to assume that is ignorant. And books don't foster a love of reading either.
That's sad... only books & Legos. Really... I'm sure that child receives more throughout the year.l that makes up for that. I grew up in a low-middle income, 2 parents 3 siblings family & got more than that. If Tyler believes doing that will humble his children, so be it. I disagree. Some people say mine are spoiled when they discover the material things they receive (by way of being nosey). However, they are not. They are blessed & highly favored, exhibit excellent manners, & live by the golden rule: don't start no 💩 won't be no 💩
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Most of yall did the same things to robin givens Linda McCartney Jada picket Tameka foster etc these men chose THEM
You are really good at examining men and how they feel about women. But have you ever considered to way do you examine me I believe it's something from your past
Ur that lady's "HUSBAND "...ShirleyM...TillUComeBack...StevieW.
1MoG in...D'Angelo...I'll take yo Man...Salt/Pepa..OPP/ NBNature... 1MoreChance...Biggie..Rolling Stone. SoManyJams/Classics
Tyler Perry is nothing like Carlos King. Coming on stop it!!
Not in every way no but in the way of working out their issues thru their work yes. Most ppl do and they like to recreate womens pain over and over. Its literally the same as why did i get married except they dont like each other in real life.
I would like to make an honorable mention to the R&B songs that is good but when you listen to the lyrics, it’s an eyebrow raise 🤨. Just recently I was listening to Dionne Warwick’s song Walk on by . I’ve heard the lyrics before, but I never took it to consideration that she was talking about a dude that broke her heart and tell him every time y’all walking down the street and you see me cry just walk on by. Like why do I have to keep seeing you every day as a reminder that you broke my heart you get one good cry out of me and the next day I’m moving on like the relationship even didn’t exist😂😂😂
Yea i love issac hayes version
@@iamBondyBlue me too his voice is more sultry and smoother where Dionne is more vibrato
Girl, you hit the nail on the MF head You are so right about those records I thought It was just me who was thanking of that stuff 😂 girl, I have friends that say I was crazy. I’m glad you put it out there and I still hope they listening and paying attention. Good job.👏👏👏👏🫶🏽