What a Mom. She claims to have been doing everything for her daughter, but it sure feels like she was after the money and stability that marriage would have offered, not her daughter’s happiness.
Parents like the FL’s mother , infuriate me! She threatens her own child with being disowned, and even after her own husband tells her she went too far, she has them audacity to be mad at the FL for moving out!?- you disowned her!?- did you expect he to stay loving eit( you?, (no- obviously she expected the FL to be repentant ) And to say all that stuff about how she paid for the FL’s ducatuon and fed her when she was growing up!- well of COURSE you did! That’s your bloody job as a parent- you decided to have children% it’s your bare minimum responsibility to house and feed that child! They don’t automatically owe you anything for that!
What a Mom. She claims to have been doing everything for her daughter, but it sure feels like she was after the money and stability that marriage would have offered, not her daughter’s happiness.
妳最大的錯就是....妳不知道妳自己錯在哪裡。
That's a best friend right there!!!
每個人 都得自重和尊重，
子女成年後 父母子女就得彼此放手和學習各自獨立生活。
懷胎十月 為母則剛 是 很偉大，
但不是強勢掌控 子女人生路的理由，
每個人的羅馬大路 都得自己走自己去品嚐酸甜苦辣，
本人之外 皆為外人 別太妄自尊大了，
既是局外人 就得自重尊重 人與人之間相處的安全舒適距離。
親友 這身分最多只能 建言協助 而已，
別越界找不自在。
麥爸 say 麥媽這脾氣 總得讓著點 不然家會吵翻天？
特不贊同其鄉愿的觀點和做法，
當媽懷胎十月 為母則剛 後，
如果先生作為不夠 會越來越剛，
人如果越事事放縱 會越來越嬌，
久而久之 就強勢掌控 多少會形成 強迫型人格，
正常 應該是 就事論事 頂多小事可偶爾讓點 原則性的/大事/要事得理性就事論事 不能怕麻煩怕吵翻天的讓 讓久了為成就出蘇肆無忌憚的魔鬼。
Parents like the FL’s mother , infuriate me!
She threatens her own child with being disowned, and even after her own husband tells her she went too far, she has them audacity to be mad at the FL for moving out!?- you disowned her!?- did you expect he to stay loving eit( you?, (no- obviously she expected the FL to be repentant )
And to say all that stuff about how she paid for the FL’s ducatuon and fed her when she was growing up!- well of COURSE you did! That’s your bloody job as a parent- you decided to have children% it’s your bare minimum responsibility to house and feed that child! They don’t automatically owe you anything for that!
這對父子軟弱無能
後面有一段媽媽坐在床上說著自己哪做錯了，結果兒子的回應竟然是：「媽媽別自責了」，我當下真的無言，到底哪裡看出他自責了？他根本意識不到自己的問題呀！🫠🙄🙄🙄
🙄🙄🙄
媽媽從頭到尾講的是：「給我面子」，有為女兒著想過？
看來.. 承歡的弟弟也不能嫁。誰嫁了誰可憐
When you can't have freedom move out
有病喔9歲還是一個小孩，要什麼自由！而且也是這個媽媽做事先太超過的
無能的父親