Thank you for this video, I been doing hair for 11 years and I just feel so burnout. I work a part time now and still I want nothing to do with hair. I work for Aveda most of my career and it’s a good company but this career is hard and people think is so easy. You deal with dramas with coworkers, rude clients and people who think they can get a free service from you but willing to pay other people. I started college this year and praying to God for direction but the industry is not that great and people don’t respect your profession…
I am an INFJ stylist. I am almost 30 years in the profession. I work in my own space.😁 For anyone reading my comment, I also have dealt with entitled and rude clients...especially since 2020. Keep the faith and thank you for sharing your journey.❤
Im an INFJ stylist too!! 😄10yrs in the bizo, its so interesting meeting all sorts of ppl and doing ppl studies. Ive slowed down alot because my health and being exhausted. But cool to see theirs others like me out there!
I’m feeling like this now. I was a popular stylist for 6/7 years and then I just started to hate it and it’s mentally draining and dealing with others including employees and salon bosses are so stressful. My back has started to go bad too so now it’s extra worse. I’m thinking of quitting completely and I’m sooo okay with it.
That’s why U need your own clientele & to be your own boss.. it’s different when you have your OWN.. u can pick your own hours & it’s more freedom.. this isn’t a business where you want to work for someone .. you WILL get burnt out .. you have to have your own
I have my own clientele and space it’s still just a dead end career at the end of the day. I’m shutting down in time for the new year to start fresh. This career is not worth it.
@@kenny2173 same :( i wanna look into some cosmetology school and hair is what i’m looking towards because i find doing it fun but now reading all these comments makes me hesitant :’)
Thank God for all the hair stylists. I'm 44 and the policy I grew up with is buyer beware. If you don't like the haircut, too bad! Your stylist isn't your fairy godmother. People pick shit that's impossible to do for their hair type, or the damage is too great or they aren't Beyonce. The owners of chain salons need to protect the stylists that work in their salons as they control clientele. It's a very physical job. Standing all day, twisting and turning, your arms and shoulders and hands in constant motion. And the beauty shop or barber shop has always been a place to gossip. It takes a huge toll on your mental health. The girls are young, they want to be friends, y'all go to the clubs together, someone's boyfriend texted that bitch Jen who we all know will sleep with anyone! And Katie saw Jen buying a drink for Tyrone so ya know they're not just texting! It's stuff with the stylists but then it's stuff with the customers cause your friends or family might come there and you have personal stuff going on and sometimes you're in a mood but people just give you attitude. There's no being at your desk being miserable and still working. You have to put on a happy face to cut some screaming kid's hair that wet his pants and is sitting in your chair and the mom tips you the change from a $10 for a $9 haircut +tax and you know damn well you want to give it back because she must need it more than you. My best friend is a my stylist. She did the chain salon for 7 years and was miserable. She has her own salon and I don't expect her to do my hair for free. And if she does that don't tip me crap, I'm still putting it in her purse. I'm a lawyer, everyone has a question for me whether im at a bar, kid's party, funeral or in a bathroom stall. You get 1 free question because that's conversation, then I'm on the clock because that's legal advice. Pay and TIP your hair stylists. It would be a very ugly world without them.
Finding a job we enjoy for long-term is difficult, I think. I see it as a relationship. At the beginning it’s very romantic and exciting and then it becomes habitual, not so exciting. I think most jobs are tiring, in some areas more than others. Maybe we just need to do a job and get creative when things get challenging, like change the setting as you did. I am looking into becoming a hairstylist. Im a mom of three children in grade school and I want a flexible job. We’l see 😊 Thanks for sharing!
I recently left hair school , but this is something I still want to continue my journey and a diffirent path , I had a very bad experience people in my school aren’t helpful including teachers , students are backstabbing one another , it’s a fake toxic environment to be in , you can be the nicest person there and people will still talk bad about you . It was a lot of judging and competition. This place has drain tf outta me , even dealing with rude clients . It had took a toll of my mental health . I believe this place wasn’t making me happy , but this is something I want to do and still carry on to continue.
Awww I'm sorry you've had a hard time and a negative experience so far. Unfortunately it seems to be a common thing in the beauty industry 😔 but I strongly encourage you to keep going! If you still feel like this is a passion of yours that you want to continue, it's worth it! Just because it's tough now doesn't mean it always will be. There are amazing people in the beauty industry as well, you just have to find them ❤️❤️
I have done hair dressing for almost a year now and just quit a booth rental. I’ve been miserable… my mental health was going down the drain. I was so unhappy. I felt I wasted my time in school. Not an easy job. I really needed to hear these things from a formal hair dresser.
Iv been doing hair for 10 years and Im burnt out. 2020 was pretty much the final breaking point. Everyone was begging for us to open only to treat us like crap after we opened. I just don't know what to do as my next career but I'm giving myself until the first of the year to figure it out. All I know is I'm ready to have nights and weekends off so i can actually spend time with my husband and daughter.
It’s in incredibly challenging job. I think only those who’ve done it can really understand, and even I struggle to imagine what it must be like to do it for 31 years! You are amazing! Lots of love to you Lisa ❤️
@@stylebyariel it has been very hard on my body. I am 5’9 and my back and neck have taken a beating. I don’t think I really understood why I love being alone on my downtime from work. It is mentally draining sometimes. I think I understand more why I like my alone time. I have to regroup. I love serving others, making them feel so good about themselves with color /highlights or a nice haircut. That is the joys and reward of the job. As you know:-) I thank God for the talent he has given. Thank you so very much for making this video. You learn a lot being a stylist. I think my path is changing to a new direction. I cut part of my knuckle off about 2 weeks ago and did not go get stitches because I had 3 more colors I had booked that day. I should have canceled them and went to get stitches. (New shears) I have learned now that I am supposed to take care of myself, it is not selfish to care about you. I am learning:-) love to you 😘 and thank you!
Wow. You worded all of that so perfectly, I couldn’t agree more. It’s also crazy that you cut off a chunk of your finger... I did the same thing!!! But I DID get the stitches! It’s so true though, what you said. We spend all day taking care of others, making sure they look and feel their best, but at the end of the day we have nothing left for ourselves. Luckily it’s never too late to learn and change that. Thank you so much for sharing some of your story with me Lisa! I’m so grateful to be able to connect with you and other stylists here on TH-cam. Truly makes my heart smile 🥰❤️❤️ take care of yourself friend!!
I’m ready to leave. It’s taken a tole on my body taking care of others over materialistic things that to be honest, doesn’t really matter. Plus clients act like they lost their arm over some hair do or makeup you didn’t like on them. I’m tired of losing my damn arms and wrists how about that lol.
I've been a hairdresser for 34 years and love the atmosphere and I've had some clients for that whole period. I've had my own salon for 25 years which is much better as when I had my children I could do the hours that suited me. But, it can be a hassle with staff issues and awkward clients etc, so totally get where you are coming from. Now, I'm 50 and struggling with my neck, shoulders and back and been diagnosed with repetitive strain . I'm considering giving it up before I'm in constant pain, so this is something to think about if your considering a career in hairdressing. I think we go into this thinking its glamorous and fun but soon realise its extremely hard physical work. Goodluck x
Thank you so much for sharing, I enjoyed hearing your story and perspective. You’re a hairdressing vet! Wishing you healing from your physical pain; more stress-free days from here on out! 💛
I really enjoyed this video. I’m in a similar situation right now and this video was right on time for me. I’m also an introvert so I definitely felt that part! 💗 Good luck on your life journey
needed this today, thank you so much for making me feel normal. when you have this thought you feel like a failure and hearing all that you said in this video helped me so so much, thank you.
got my license in 2008 after attending a 30k aveda institute. hair salon jobs are not easy and not fun. the often toxic work environments can make it all even worse. every one is just done..
I gave up my career after 22yrs! I just got so tired of seeing stylists backstabbing each other and when you work in a commission based salon their are certain ones that take take take! Very vicious career and tiring!
Yes! I couldn’t agree more. It’s exhausting and disheartening. But good for you for leaving when you knew it was time for you to move on, even after 22 years! That takes courage ❤️🦋
Kudos to you...I have been a hairstylist for about 40 years....I owned a salon for 17 years. I have always loved actually doing hair, but it is brutal on the body. I suffered with terrible back pain and ended up with a hip replacement 6 years ago. I now need a knee replacement. I truly think that we become so accustomed to being in pain that we push through it and then we find ourselves in the position of..."This is all I have ever done. This is my skill set". In hindsight, even though I loved doing hair, I wish that I had gotten out and gone back to school about 30 years ago,
Me right now! Been working at Great Clips for about a month and I absolutely HATE it because the clients aren't necessarily rude to your face, but if they do not like the haircut, they get it for free. Here's the messed up part: they call into the store and complain that a certain stylist doesn't really know what they are doing and need training. Management doesn't care if you don't have training, they will put you through this until you are actually struggling. Then management steps in and takes action. This has happened to me but the client has changed their mind midway through the service or at times they would agree to what I was saying just so at the end they can complain. Personally I can't do it anymore because people are so mean and training hasn't taught me anything. I don't learn in groups, or through "e-books", I learn through one-on-one training..
😔 that's so unfair, and frustrating not having anyone to turn to because management is part of the problem. I hope you can explore other options and find somewhere that appreciates you so you can move on. You deserve so much better ❤️
Manager is SUPPOSED to train you in the beginning when you get hired as a new stylist, If not then they are unprofessional. I'm sorry to hear about your terrible experience, that has to be just that particular Great Clips because whenever I first started my career, they understood that I was fresh out of Cosmetology school so they trained me for 2 days...I picked up on it quick so then i immediately went on the floor. I would have my station set up right next to the manager and she would come help out whenever I needed it. In the beginning I remember I needed help with men's haircuts especially with the blending part because I did not get taught in school about it. So whenever I would cut the sides and the top, the manager will come over and show me how to blend. Over time I got the hang of it but it all takes practice and repetition.
I do hair extensions from home part time aslong side other part time job. Even doing hair part time it’s still super draining . More mentally as if I’m not doing a clients hair I’m on my phone replying to them. It’s a lot more work than people think it Is. And that’s not even mentioning when you have a difficult client. I’d love to just work my other job as my life would be a lot less stressful but the pay for hair is way better
Thank you for making this video. I am currently feeling the exact emotions as you, and am taking the steps to figure out what type of job/career I can get into. I'm sure this wasn't an easy decision for you to make (having the same thoughts), but thank you so much for sharing this because it helped me feel like I wasn't alone. Wishing you the best!!
Thank you! 🥺 I’m glad the video resonated with you and sorry you’re going through a similar thing right now. Trust that you’ll make the right decision for you, and just know it will all work out how it’s supposed to! ❤️
I'm so glad I found this. I'm not a person who would needlessly allow myself to get discouraged, so I evaluate everyone's input carefully. But I am an introvert, and I wasn't sure whether I should start Cos school or not. I am already in a draining service career (legal assistant) that I despise. It is super catty & exhausting with the other female assistants that I work around, and work overload. I had been having thoughts that Cos industry would be different than that. But if my motivation is to run from cattiness and an exhaustion, I feel I should look elsewhere. Thank you so much for your honest words. Again - pls don't feel as if you've discouraged me in any way, I am old enough to choose for myself but the things I was running from were cattiness and exhaustion, they are my dealbreakers. So I just ain't going straight from the frying pan into the fire, no ma'am.
Thank you so much for this video I am a year into hair and I’m already so mentally exhausted. I am starting to hate doing hair, and I have no desire to learn new things. think I really underestimated how hard this job can really be. I think I’m ready to move on.
i understand i am a hair stylist and i been doing it all my life and just quit and i loved the salon and doing hair its just some walk in people i dont know are so mean and disrespectful they have no patience and want everything and dont want to pay but mmost people are very nice but i get it i feel the same way
Exactly! Some people are so kind and make the job fun, but others are so mean and dealing with them takes so much out of you in more ways that one. There’s pros and cons to the job but the cons are definitely very heavy 😔 thanks for watching girl, I’m happy this video resonated with you. Wishing you so much luck and happiness in your journey from here ❤️❤️
I have always been a sensitive person. Over the years I have developed anxiety and depression. Clients have never been a problem. I enjoy clients. I don't do well with the mean and hurtful things that stylists say about each other. I have learned to look coworkers in the face and say, "I don't care, and I don't want to know about her personal life. I'm here to pay my bills and go home." I have a stylist friend that I visit, and we talk things over, and how to cope with problems. I burned out and now I am becoming stronger by hanging kin there 25 year veteran
This is exactly how i feel 😭 i've only been doing hair for a year, but i just can't keep doing it. Im currently transitioning out of hairdressing and it's SO much more emotional than i thought it'd be... its kind of sad to leave because i fear disappointing my clients but its just not the right fit and i have other passions :/
I already have back pain when standing for too long especially around my period, so this won’t work for me then. Plus I hate hearing about people’s stuff that’ll drain my energy. And weekends are very important to me and my family!
I relate to this so much , 8 years in and I hate it at this point. I have my own suite own clientele and it’s still so much . My body aches daily. The expectations these days are crazy . Everyone one comes in with a picture and wants exactly that. There is no longer any passion or creativity in this career for me. It makes me so anxious instead of happy like before. Mentally I know I need the break 😢 thanks for your video ❤
From my perspective being a hairdresser is a life. My partner has been a hairdresser for over 50 years yes I said 50 years. He is currently in the hospital with a heart issue and can barely breathe but what did he do, he called me to make sure that that his clients were happy and they were rebooking. He's been a hairdresser since the 70s and he absolutely enjoys the creativity. I come in this young woman for stepping away before becoming a hairdresser for 30 years and being very bitter about it
I’m in the industry now, haven’t actually had consistent clients yet, working as an assistant. The Salon industry is so toxic, if it’s not the stylists it’s the other assistants. I make nothing, some salons I was basically a glorified Janitor. Clinging to the hope that this industry will be more rewarding but I’m considering moving back home from LA and switching careers.
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Loved this video & glad you explained it. Its like you still love it but sometimes life happens and you gotta figure out what will be best and having that commute is a lot , I use to commute like that but I would have to leave 2hrs early because the traffic to the bay is so ridiculous. I've also heard that salons can get "messy" i mean it is a lot of women that work at salons lol but I definitely feel your client's just knew that you were gonna end up leaving. But obviously hair is a passion of your because now you are able to help millions of ppl out through the internet with Video so thats really amazing.🖤🖤🖤
Thanks for sharing.. just wondering what did you end up doing instead? Or what would you want to do? I've always been feeling this way too but have no idea what else I could do..
Honestly girl, I’m still trying to figure that out... for the time being I’m going to continue working pretty much full time on growing my TH-cam channel but that’s all I got for now. I’ve thought about going back just because I know I’m good at it (ngl lol) and I can make good money doing it but at the same time, I know I wouldn’t be happy. It’s confusing; to say the least. I truly wish you the best of luck in finding your next passion. What I CAN say is that ultimately I’m glad I left because I know if I stayed I would still be miserable, and life’s just too short for that. Follow your heart and your gut... we’ll never know what else we might enjoy doing if we never try! Best of luck to you on your journey ❤️
Hi Tiffany! I hope cosmetology school is going great for you so far! I definitely don't regret going. I learned a lot, and most of it I wouldn't have been able to learn otherwise. I didn't even go to the best school, but I found it to be an incredibly valuable experience. I also wouldn't have been able to become a hairstylist without the proper training and even though I no longer work in a salon I wouldn't take back those years and that experience for anything. If it's something you're even slightly interested in, I completely recommend going!! I hope you enjoy it ❤️ (I also think I might make a video on this so thank you for asking!)
do not waste your money and your time sister..hair ...style is the last that you want to do ,,.. no weekend off including working on sunday,,, i have working for 25 years . there too many hair salon in the neighbor then before , you will make no money even if you are good hair style . you have no medical benefit , no vacation ,,, ,, just like you working in the flee market...hair school only taking your money and teaching only very basic haircut ,,, after you finish school ,,u, no have no experience. nobody will let you cut their hair ..ok... you will working a hair salon as a shampoo girl .. maybe lucky a couple year learning ,.some senior customer will let you cut their hair ,,, so you going to have a long way to go ,,,,also too much competition in this business now ,, working in a company is much better ,, will give you a peace mind and have medical benefit and vacation ,, so i not recommend to be hair style for you ...
Girl! I feeeeellll youuuu! As someone who is an artist, I love the creativity, products, and transforming vibes of hair dressing... and on the same hand I am also very internal and introverted by choice. I went back to doing hair about 8 months now. I hated the corporate job I was at and wanted more creativity in my life. I have done hair for the last 14 years on and off, and this was my last go. ENERGY TRANSFERS, and people will suck your energy out of you! I can really see it now... for me it's not worth it anymore. I am greatful that I decided to try it out at a salon once more... but NOW have solidified that it is the wrong path for me. I am looking at other jobs now so I can leave ASAP! THANKS FOR YOUR WORD!
Yes Some folks can drain the lifeforse out of you , it can be a lot of fun too but at the same time some clients love you then a month later they drop u I had cancer and I came back and some clients dropped me and saw the girl 2 feet away it’s a false friendship they really don’t care and always want a deal plus this industry doesn’t pay holidays vacations sick leave or health care
Ok this is the video I wanted and was wondering if you'd do it!!! 💕💕You mentioned maybe explaining your journey as a hairdresser in another video so I was hoping you would follow through 😊🙌 Girl, thanks for sharing your story. You are so brave and bold! 💪Kudos for recognizing something that no longer made you happy and trying something that does! Being a PT groomer, I know the mental and physical burnout you experienced. I too quit a kennel I worked at because I felt like it was becoming more of a production line... my body and brain were breaking down.. just cutting cutting cutting..I would come home after straight 10 hour days on my feet sooooo physically tired, FULL of dog hair.. I couldn't even cry if I wanted to.. I lost my passion for it but am slowing getting it back but on my terms. I groom a few clients from my home so I get the thrill again of turning hot messes into butterflies but I no longer burn out. You never know what the future holds for you. Take one day at a time. Your hairdresser experience has touched so many people especially during covid so I for one am ecstatic you decided to put your experience into tutorials on TH-cam. I commend you and look forward to any other journeys that you would like to share❣
😭😭😭 thank you so much for this comment. I felt a little emotional to share this tbh but hearing your words made me feel so much better. Kudos to you too for putting yourself first and finding a way to love what you do again!! We deserve to be happy, no matter what, but it truly takes courage to recognize and act on that ❤️❤️❤️ lots of love to you girl!!!
Didn't you wanna open your own hair salon?be your on boss:)..etc Sorry just heard the end of the vid..:) yeah maybe in the future! I'm debating myself to do the training or not ?? Many Thanks!
Yes! It's still something I think about sometimes. There's just a lot that has to go into it so I personally feel like it would have to be the right time and right place but I think it would be so cool to be able to make it happen! If you're even a little bit interested in taking the training, I'd say it's worth it. The amount of time it takes to get licensed is really reasonable and maybe unlike me you'll be able to stick with it for more than 5 years haha. I know a lot of hairdressers that are really happy in their careers even after 20+ years. Good luck with whatever you decide ❤️
@@stylebyariel Yeah! I agree! About the timing and the place..for opening your own salon..If you have talent and you have the experience definitely look in to it when you feel ready.. I'm thinking about doing the training it's 2 days a week training so I could work part time.. it's a 8 month course..its pretty costly..though!..but not as costly as some other training places..You get certified at the end.. I specifically asked if I could open a salon with this license certification? they said yes but get a great insurance! :) I would have to gain alot of experience etc.. I was thinking to open a salon in the sun in another country☀️. Later down the line..an easy going business with bright colors, with my favorite music blaring..😁 Near the beach.. Also a mobile hairdresser is cool if you have a car.. Hairdressing is a job you can do for life.. come to it when you want.. people always need hair cuts and colors👌 I also have many other passions for work that I could probably still do on the side..Thanks for the advise🌟💜 Deciding soon!:)Good luck with everything you decide too👌🌟
I am sorry but your video its really bad for starting hairstylist, I am currently on my 2 1/2 year as an assistant. Its challenging and hard but I done many other jobs before, and I can tell you everything is not easy. I am still sucking it up, but your mentality is weak and good for you for quitting, just dont quit on your other jobs.
Congrats, you’re 2 1/2 years into it as an assistant. You still have a long, long, long way to go before you reach the point where many others stylists in these comments got to before they finally quit. After years of selflessly serving others and putting up with the toxic industry. 30 years in some cases. Not every job is the same, yes. And every career has its challenges, but come back to this video in 15 years and then tell us how you feel. I’m sure you’ll find your perspective has shifted.
Thank you for this video, I been doing hair for 11 years and I just feel so burnout. I work a part time now and still I want nothing to do with hair. I work for Aveda most of my career and it’s a good company but this career is hard and people think is so easy. You deal with dramas with coworkers, rude clients and people who think they can get a free service from you but willing to pay other people. I started college this year and praying to God for direction but the industry is not that great and people don’t respect your profession…
I hear you girl. It is an exhausting profession. Praying for you as you prepare to change directions. I wish you so much happiness and success ❤️
I am an INFJ stylist. I am almost 30 years in the profession. I work in my own space.😁 For anyone reading my comment, I also have dealt with entitled and rude clients...especially since 2020. Keep the faith and thank you for sharing your journey.❤
Im an INFJ stylist too!! 😄10yrs in the bizo, its so interesting meeting all sorts of ppl and doing ppl studies. Ive slowed down alot because my health and being exhausted. But cool to see theirs others like me out there!
Where you live is not the customer’s business.
Sometimes you got to keep up fighting for your goals, career, and dreams don’t let others dictate you to stop or to give up. Thank you for sharing ❤
I’m feeling like this now. I was a popular stylist for 6/7 years and then I just started to hate it and it’s mentally draining and dealing with others including employees and salon bosses are so stressful. My back has started to go bad too so now it’s extra worse. I’m thinking of quitting completely and I’m sooo okay with it.
I hear you! Do what you feel is right for you ❤️ all the best to you in your journey!
I feel the exact same way. 5 years and im already so sick of it. Im really so close to quit.
I feel this way
That’s why U need your own clientele & to be your own boss.. it’s different when you have your OWN.. u can pick your own hours & it’s more freedom.. this isn’t a business where you want to work for someone .. you WILL get burnt out .. you have to have your own
I have my own clientele and space it’s still just a dead end career at the end of the day. I’m shutting down in time for the new year to start fresh. This career is not worth it.
@@Janaysdomain I absolutely agree it’s worse when you are on your own In my opinion
@@Janaysdomain I was thinking about going to hair school but i feel like its not worth it.. but reading these comments is making me reconsider. ...
@@kenny2173 same :( i wanna look into some cosmetology school and hair is what i’m looking towards because i find doing it fun but now reading all these comments makes me hesitant :’)
Thank God for all the hair stylists. I'm 44 and the policy I grew up with is buyer beware. If you don't like the haircut, too bad! Your stylist isn't your fairy godmother. People pick shit that's impossible to do for their hair type, or the damage is too great or they aren't Beyonce. The owners of chain salons need to protect the stylists that work in their salons as they control clientele.
It's a very physical job. Standing all day, twisting and turning, your arms and shoulders and hands in constant motion. And the beauty shop or barber shop has always been a place to gossip. It takes a huge toll on your mental health. The girls are young, they want to be friends, y'all go to the clubs together, someone's boyfriend texted that bitch Jen who we all know will sleep with anyone! And Katie saw Jen buying a drink for Tyrone so ya know they're not just texting!
It's stuff with the stylists but then it's stuff with the customers cause your friends or family might come there and you have personal stuff going on and sometimes you're in a mood but people just give you attitude. There's no being at your desk being miserable and still working. You have to put on a happy face to cut some screaming kid's hair that wet his pants and is sitting in your chair and the mom tips you the change from a $10 for a $9 haircut +tax and you know damn well you want to give it back because she must need it more than you.
My best friend is a my stylist. She did the chain salon for 7 years and was miserable. She has her own salon and I don't expect her to do my hair for free. And if she does that don't tip me crap, I'm still putting it in her purse. I'm a lawyer, everyone has a question for me whether im at a bar, kid's party, funeral or in a bathroom stall. You get 1 free question because that's conversation, then I'm on the clock because that's legal advice.
Pay and TIP your hair stylists. It would be a very ugly world without them.
Finding a job we enjoy for long-term is difficult, I think. I see it as a relationship. At the beginning it’s very romantic and exciting and then it becomes habitual, not so exciting.
I think most jobs are tiring, in some areas more than others.
Maybe we just need to do a job and get creative when things get challenging, like change the setting as you did.
I am looking into becoming a hairstylist. Im a mom of three children in grade school and I want a flexible job. We’l see 😊
Thanks for sharing!
I recently left hair school , but this is something I still want to continue my journey and a diffirent path , I had a very bad experience people in my school aren’t helpful including teachers , students are backstabbing one another , it’s a fake toxic environment to be in , you can be the nicest person there and people will still talk bad about you . It was a lot of judging and competition. This place has drain tf outta me , even dealing with rude clients . It had took a toll of my mental health . I believe this place wasn’t making me happy , but this is something I want to do and still carry on to continue.
Awww I'm sorry you've had a hard time and a negative experience so far. Unfortunately it seems to be a common thing in the beauty industry 😔 but I strongly encourage you to keep going! If you still feel like this is a passion of yours that you want to continue, it's worth it! Just because it's tough now doesn't mean it always will be. There are amazing people in the beauty industry as well, you just have to find them ❤️❤️
I have done hair dressing for almost a year now and just quit a booth rental. I’ve been miserable… my mental health was going down the drain. I was so unhappy. I felt I wasted my time in school. Not an easy job. I really needed to hear these things from a formal hair dresser.
Iv been doing hair for 10 years and Im burnt out. 2020 was pretty much the final breaking point. Everyone was begging for us to open only to treat us like crap after we opened. I just don't know what to do as my next career but I'm giving myself until the first of the year to figure it out. All I know is I'm ready to have nights and weekends off so i can actually spend time with my husband and daughter.
I'm sorry you're going through that! Wishing you so much luck and success in choosing your next career path ❤️
Work for yourself
It's the best!
What did you decide on?
I needed to hear this!! Thank you so much! It is very hard on the body both physically and mentally. 31 years of my life. Serving others.
It’s in incredibly challenging job. I think only those who’ve done it can really understand, and even I struggle to imagine what it must be like to do it for 31 years! You are amazing! Lots of love to you Lisa ❤️
@@stylebyariel it has been very hard on my body. I am 5’9 and my back and neck have taken a beating. I don’t think I really understood why I love being alone on my downtime from work. It is mentally draining sometimes. I think I understand more why I like my alone time. I have to regroup. I love serving others, making them feel so good about themselves with color /highlights or a nice haircut. That is the joys and reward of the job. As you know:-) I thank God for the talent he has given. Thank you so very much for making this video. You learn a lot being a stylist. I think my path is changing to a new direction. I cut part of my knuckle off about 2 weeks ago and did not go get stitches because I had 3 more colors I had booked that day. I should have canceled them and went to get stitches. (New shears) I have learned now that I am supposed to take care of myself, it is not selfish to care about you. I am learning:-) love to you 😘 and thank you!
Wow. You worded all of that so perfectly, I couldn’t agree more. It’s also crazy that you cut off a chunk of your finger... I did the same thing!!! But I DID get the stitches! It’s so true though, what you said. We spend all day taking care of others, making sure they look and feel their best, but at the end of the day we have nothing left for ourselves. Luckily it’s never too late to learn and change that. Thank you so much for sharing some of your story with me Lisa! I’m so grateful to be able to connect with you and other stylists here on TH-cam. Truly makes my heart smile 🥰❤️❤️ take care of yourself friend!!
I’m ready to leave. It’s taken a tole on my body taking care of others over materialistic things that to be honest, doesn’t really matter. Plus clients act like they lost their arm over some hair do or makeup you didn’t like on them. I’m tired of losing my damn arms and wrists how about that lol.
Same here,i quit 6 months ago!I feel validated by your comment!
I've been a hairdresser for 34 years and love the atmosphere and I've had some clients for that whole period. I've had my own salon for 25 years which is much better as when I had my children I could do the hours that suited me. But, it can be a hassle with staff issues and awkward clients etc, so totally get where you are coming from. Now, I'm 50 and struggling with my neck, shoulders and back and been diagnosed with repetitive strain . I'm considering giving it up before I'm in constant pain, so this is something to think about if your considering a career in hairdressing. I think we go into this thinking its glamorous and fun but soon realise its extremely hard physical work. Goodluck x
Thank you so much for sharing, I enjoyed hearing your story and perspective. You’re a hairdressing vet! Wishing you healing from your physical pain; more stress-free days from here on out! 💛
I worked as a hairdresser for 12 years, hated it after 5 years and kept going , finally left to attend business schools and I wish I did it sooner.
Better late than never my friend, good for you 🧡🧡
I really enjoyed this video. I’m in a similar situation right now and this video was right on time for me. I’m also an introvert so I definitely felt that part! 💗 Good luck on your life journey
So happy this resonated with you! Thank you so much and good luck to you as well. You can do anything you set your mind to 💓✨
You are SO PRETTY!!! I’ve been doing hair for 28 years and girl, I’m just now ready to quit!!!
Thank you so much! Good for you girl, better late than never. Go get what you deserve ❤️❤️
needed this today, thank you so much for making me feel normal. when you have this thought you feel like a failure and hearing all that you said in this video helped me so so much, thank you.
🥺🥺 happy to help babe. Wishing you love and light on your journey ❤️
I did hair for 16 yrs I just got sick of doing it lol....and I hate dealing with rude people lol....alot of drama like you said
It’s a tough gig! Lots of bs lol. Nobody has time for the drama!!
@@stylebyariel exactly lol
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Can totally relate. Also an introvert and feeling so burnt out from hairdressing
You deserve better. I hope you find something you love that loves you back ❤️
Same I get burnout multiple times a month. Over and over never ending cycle.
Not me looking up videos, searching for new career ideas after being burnt working in soul sucking office jobs. 😅 i don’t know what else to do 😩😩
Same😅
Same
got my license in 2008 after attending a 30k aveda institute. hair salon jobs are not easy and not fun. the often toxic work environments can make it all even worse. every one is just done..
I gave up my career after 22yrs! I just got so tired of seeing stylists backstabbing each other and when you work in a commission based salon their are certain ones that take take take! Very vicious career and tiring!
Yes! I couldn’t agree more. It’s exhausting and disheartening. But good for you for leaving when you knew it was time for you to move on, even after 22 years! That takes courage ❤️🦋
Kudos to you...I have been a hairstylist for about 40 years....I owned a salon for 17 years. I have always loved actually doing hair, but it is brutal on the body. I suffered with terrible back pain and ended up with a hip replacement 6 years ago. I now need a knee replacement. I truly think that we become so accustomed to being in pain that we push through it and then we find ourselves in the position of..."This is all I have ever done. This is my skill set". In hindsight, even though I loved doing hair, I wish that I had gotten out and gone back to school about 30 years ago,
Me right now! Been working at Great Clips for about a month and I absolutely HATE it because the clients aren't necessarily rude to your face, but if they do not like the haircut, they get it for free. Here's the messed up part: they call into the store and complain that a certain stylist doesn't really know what they are doing and need training. Management doesn't care if you don't have training, they will put you through this until you are actually struggling. Then management steps in and takes action. This has happened to me but the client has changed their mind midway through the service or at times they would agree to what I was saying just so at the end they can complain. Personally I can't do it anymore because people are so mean and training hasn't taught me anything. I don't learn in groups, or through "e-books", I learn through one-on-one training..
😔 that's so unfair, and frustrating not having anyone to turn to because management is part of the problem. I hope you can explore other options and find somewhere that appreciates you so you can move on. You deserve so much better ❤️
Yes this is why I’m quoting, same experience
Manager is SUPPOSED to train you in the beginning when you get hired as a new stylist, If not then they are unprofessional. I'm sorry to hear about your terrible experience, that has to be just that particular Great Clips because whenever I first started my career, they understood that I was fresh out of Cosmetology school so they trained me for 2 days...I picked up on it quick so then i immediately went on the floor. I would have my station set up right next to the manager and she would come help out whenever I needed it. In the beginning I remember I needed help with men's haircuts especially with the blending part because I did not get taught in school about it. So whenever I would cut the sides and the top, the manager will come over and show me how to blend. Over time I got the hang of it but it all takes practice and repetition.
Been doing hair over 10 years, I have found the key is to not push yourself and to not let clients push you around either
I do hair extensions from home part time aslong side other part time job.
Even doing hair part time it’s still super draining . More mentally as if I’m not doing a clients hair I’m on my phone replying to them. It’s a lot more work than people think it Is. And that’s not even mentioning when you have a difficult client.
I’d love to just work my other job as my life would be a lot less stressful but the pay for hair is way better
Idk why I didn’t look for TH-cam videos sooner to find people going thru the same thing 😭 I resonate so much im 10 years in and trying to find my out
Thank you for this video !
Glad it resonated! Best of luck to you in finding your next path ❤️
Same here!30 years!
this year im quitting hair. I'm done. I love hair but I can't do it anymore. Plus I'm an introvert. I should never have done this 😢
I hear you girl. Best of luck and blessings to you as you move on to the next chapter ❤️
Thank you for making this video. I am currently feeling the exact emotions as you, and am taking the steps to figure out what type of job/career I can get into. I'm sure this wasn't an easy decision for you to make (having the same thoughts), but thank you so much for sharing this because it helped me feel like I wasn't alone. Wishing you the best!!
Thank you! 🥺 I’m glad the video resonated with you and sorry you’re going through a similar thing right now. Trust that you’ll make the right decision for you, and just know it will all work out how it’s supposed to! ❤️
I'm so glad I found this. I'm not a person who would needlessly allow myself to get discouraged, so I evaluate everyone's input carefully. But I am an introvert, and I wasn't sure whether I should start Cos school or not. I am already in a draining service career (legal assistant) that I despise. It is super catty & exhausting with the other female assistants that I work around, and work overload. I had been having thoughts that Cos industry would be different than that. But if my motivation is to run from cattiness and an exhaustion, I feel I should look elsewhere. Thank you so much for your honest words. Again - pls don't feel as if you've discouraged me in any way, I am old enough to choose for myself but the things I was running from were cattiness and exhaustion, they are my dealbreakers. So I just ain't going straight from the frying pan into the fire, no ma'am.
Thank you so much for this video I am a year into hair and I’m already so mentally exhausted. I am starting to hate doing hair, and I have no desire to learn new things. think I really underestimated how hard this job can really be. I think I’m ready to move on.
i understand i am a hair stylist and i been doing it all my life and just quit and i loved the salon and doing hair its just some walk in people i dont know are so mean and disrespectful they have no patience and want everything and dont want to pay but mmost people are very nice but i get it i feel the same way
Exactly! Some people are so kind and make the job fun, but others are so mean and dealing with them takes so much out of you in more ways that one. There’s pros and cons to the job but the cons are definitely very heavy 😔 thanks for watching girl, I’m happy this video resonated with you. Wishing you so much luck and happiness in your journey from here ❤️❤️
I have always been a sensitive person. Over the years I have developed anxiety and depression. Clients have never been a problem. I enjoy clients. I don't do well with the mean and hurtful things that stylists say about each other. I have learned to look coworkers in the face and say, "I don't care, and I don't want to know about her personal life. I'm here to pay my bills and go home." I have a stylist friend that I visit, and we talk things over, and how to cope with problems. I burned out and now I am becoming stronger by hanging kin there
25 year veteran
❤️❤️❤️ thank you for sharing. Stay strong!
This is exactly how i feel 😭 i've only been doing hair for a year, but i just can't keep doing it. Im currently transitioning out of hairdressing and it's SO much more emotional than i thought it'd be... its kind of sad to leave because i fear disappointing my clients but its just not the right fit and i have other passions :/
Definitely relate to your story so much I’m actually creating my video today in this same thing, you just gained a new subscriber as well ❤❤❤
The industry is terrible. If you don't fit in it's a good thing.
People were maybe draining you
Especially u being also very sweet like me
Don’t allow people suck the goodness out of u ♥️♥️♥️🇦🇺♥️
I already have back pain when standing for too long especially around my period, so this won’t work for me then. Plus I hate hearing about people’s stuff that’ll drain my energy. And weekends are very important to me and my family!
Yea same I’m 33 been doing hair since highschool , I stay taking breaks . It’s seriously mentally draining job
Sending you love ❤️
I relate to this so much , 8 years in and I hate it at this point. I have my own suite own clientele and it’s still so much . My body aches daily. The expectations these days are crazy . Everyone one comes in with a picture and wants exactly that. There is no longer any passion or creativity in this career for me. It makes me so anxious instead of happy like before. Mentally I know I need the break 😢 thanks for your video ❤
Best of luck to you on your journey 😢❤️
From my perspective being a hairdresser is a life. My partner has been a hairdresser for over 50 years yes I said 50 years. He is currently in the hospital with a heart issue and can barely breathe but what did he do, he called me to make sure that that his clients were happy and they were rebooking. He's been a hairdresser since the 70s and he absolutely enjoys the creativity. I come in this young woman for stepping away before becoming a hairdresser for 30 years and being very bitter about it
I’m in the industry now, haven’t actually had consistent clients yet, working as an assistant. The Salon industry is so toxic, if it’s not the stylists it’s the other assistants. I make nothing, some salons I was basically a glorified Janitor. Clinging to the hope that this industry will be more rewarding but I’m considering moving back home from LA and switching careers.
Loved this video & glad you explained it. Its like you still love it but sometimes life happens and you gotta figure out what will be best and having that commute is a lot , I use to commute like that but I would have to leave 2hrs early because the traffic to the bay is so ridiculous. I've also heard that salons can get "messy" i mean it is a lot of women that work at salons lol but I definitely feel your client's just knew that you were gonna end up leaving. But obviously hair is a passion of your because now you are able to help millions of ppl out through the internet with Video so thats really amazing.🖤🖤🖤
YEP lol so much drama and I just did not want to deal with it. and commuting is no joke!! Thank you so much girl I really appreciate your comment ❤️
Thanks for sharing.. just wondering what did you end up doing instead? Or what would you want to do? I've always been feeling this way too but have no idea what else I could do..
Honestly girl, I’m still trying to figure that out...
for the time being I’m going to continue working pretty much full time on growing my TH-cam channel but that’s all I got for now. I’ve thought about going back just because I know I’m good at it (ngl lol) and I can make good money doing it but at the same time, I know I wouldn’t be happy. It’s confusing; to say the least. I truly wish you the best of luck in finding your next passion. What I CAN say is that ultimately I’m glad I left because I know if I stayed I would still be miserable, and life’s just too short for that. Follow your heart and your gut... we’ll never know what else we might enjoy doing if we never try! Best of luck to you on your journey ❤️
I start cosmetology school tomorrow, did you regret going? Would you recommend it?
Hi Tiffany! I hope cosmetology school is going great for you so far! I definitely don't regret going. I learned a lot, and most of it I wouldn't have been able to learn otherwise. I didn't even go to the best school, but I found it to be an incredibly valuable experience. I also wouldn't have been able to become a hairstylist without the proper training and even though I no longer work in a salon I wouldn't take back those years and that experience for anything. If it's something you're even slightly interested in, I completely recommend going!! I hope you enjoy it ❤️ (I also think I might make a video on this so thank you for asking!)
do not waste your money and your time sister..hair ...style is the last that you want to do ,,.. no weekend off including working on sunday,,, i have working for 25 years . there too many hair salon in the neighbor then before , you will make no money even if you are good hair style . you have no medical benefit , no vacation ,,, ,, just like you working in the flee market...hair school only taking your money and teaching only very basic haircut ,,, after you finish school ,,u, no have no experience. nobody will let you cut their hair ..ok... you will working a hair salon as a shampoo girl .. maybe lucky a couple year learning ,.some senior customer will let you cut their hair ,,, so you going to have a long way to go ,,,,also too much competition in this business now ,, working in a company is much better ,, will give you a peace mind and have medical benefit and vacation ,, so i not recommend to be hair style for you ...
Hey ! I'm going in a couple months... How did it go for you? Please let me know !!! ❤❤❤❤
Glad to hear you are taking care of yourself...and you are a great hair person so hope you get back into it when you are ready ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much ❤️
Girl!
I feeeeellll youuuu!
As someone who is an artist, I love the creativity, products, and transforming vibes of hair dressing... and on the same hand I am also very internal and introverted by choice.
I went back to doing hair about 8 months now. I hated the corporate job I was at and wanted more creativity in my life.
I have done hair for the last 14 years on and off, and this was my last go.
ENERGY TRANSFERS, and people will suck your energy out of you! I can really see it now... for me it's not worth it anymore.
I am greatful that I decided to try it out at a salon once more... but NOW have solidified that it is the wrong path for me. I am looking at other jobs now so I can leave ASAP!
THANKS FOR YOUR WORD!
Yes Some folks can drain the lifeforse out of you , it can be a lot of fun too but at the same time some clients love you then a month later they drop u I had cancer and I came back and some clients dropped me and saw the girl 2 feet away it’s a false friendship they really don’t care and always want a deal plus this industry doesn’t pay holidays vacations sick leave or health care
I love ur hair style & hair cuts too ... I also done hair cut of mine by watching ur videos ... So plsss go on ... Dnt quit
Aww thank you so much! I love that! Don’t worry, I will keep posting many more videos ❤️ definitely not planning on stopping any time soon
Thank you very much for sharing this sincerely ❤you are so beautiful
yes this video is helpful to newcomers in the beauty salon industry.
I've been doing hair over 30 years in fact 33 to be exact and I want out
I work solo and absolutely love it no drama
I love that for you!
Ok this is the video I wanted and was wondering if you'd do it!!! 💕💕You mentioned maybe explaining your journey as a hairdresser in another video so I was hoping you would follow through 😊🙌 Girl, thanks for sharing your story. You are so brave and bold! 💪Kudos for recognizing something that no longer made you happy and trying something that does! Being a PT groomer, I know the mental and physical burnout you experienced. I too quit a kennel I worked at because I felt like it was becoming more of a production line... my body and brain were breaking down.. just cutting cutting cutting..I would come home after straight 10 hour days on my feet sooooo physically tired, FULL of dog hair.. I couldn't even cry if I wanted to.. I lost my passion for it but am slowing getting it back but on my terms. I groom a few clients from my home so I get the thrill again of turning hot messes into butterflies but I no longer burn out. You never know what the future holds for you. Take one day at a time. Your hairdresser experience has touched so many people especially during covid so I for one am ecstatic you decided to put your experience into tutorials on TH-cam. I commend you and look forward to any other journeys that you would like to share❣
😭😭😭 thank you so much for this comment. I felt a little emotional to share this tbh but hearing your words made me feel so much better. Kudos to you too for putting yourself first and finding a way to love what you do again!! We deserve to be happy, no matter what, but it truly takes courage to recognize and act on that ❤️❤️❤️ lots of love to you girl!!!
@@stylebyariel Lots and lots of love to you too!!! Like one of my friends always says, "choose happy not crappy" LOL 😘❌⭕
This is how I’m feeling right now,
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Update ??
Didn't you wanna open your own hair salon?be your on boss:)..etc
Sorry just heard the end of the vid..:) yeah maybe in the future!
I'm debating myself to do the training or not ?? Many Thanks!
Yes! It's still something I think about sometimes. There's just a lot that has to go into it so I personally feel like it would have to be the right time and right place but I think it would be so cool to be able to make it happen!
If you're even a little bit interested in taking the training, I'd say it's worth it. The amount of time it takes to get licensed is really reasonable and maybe unlike me you'll be able to stick with it for more than 5 years haha. I know a lot of hairdressers that are really happy in their careers even after 20+ years. Good luck with whatever you decide ❤️
@@stylebyariel Yeah! I agree! About the timing and the place..for opening your own salon..If you have talent and you have the experience definitely look in to it when you feel ready.. I'm thinking about doing the training it's 2 days a week training so I could work part time.. it's a 8 month course..its pretty costly..though!..but not as costly as some other training places..You get certified at the end.. I specifically asked if I could open a salon with this license certification? they said yes but get a great insurance! :) I would have to gain alot of experience etc.. I was thinking to open a salon in the sun in another country☀️. Later down the line..an easy going business with bright colors, with my favorite music blaring..😁 Near the beach..
Also a mobile hairdresser is cool if you have a car..
Hairdressing is a job you can do for life.. come to it when you want.. people always need hair cuts and colors👌 I also have many other passions for work that I could probably still do on the side..Thanks for the advise🌟💜 Deciding soon!:)Good luck with everything you decide too👌🌟
I resonate with this video so much!
That makes me so happy! Wishing you the best on your journey! 💖
i just started and honestly i can relate
You did the right thing good luck
Thank you for sharing
Get your clients to come to you.
Great video. Thank you for sharing
Couldn't you get a job near you??
theres like a price you pay to be hair stylist is ridiculous
I can relate
You literallly look like Janet Jackson 😍
Thought I was the only one that notice
You could teach hairdressing instead
Why u don’t just sell cosmetics lol but it’s ur choice ❤
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Casting agents. This woman is a Janet Jackson doppelgänger. Cast her!!!!!
I am sorry but your video its really bad for starting hairstylist, I am currently on my 2 1/2 year as an assistant. Its challenging and hard but I done many other jobs before, and I can tell you everything is not easy. I am still sucking it up, but your mentality is weak and good for you for quitting, just dont quit on your other jobs.
Congrats, you’re 2 1/2 years into it as an assistant. You still have a long, long, long way to go before you reach the point where many others stylists in these comments got to before they finally quit. After years of selflessly serving others and putting up with the toxic industry. 30 years in some cases. Not every job is the same, yes. And every career has its challenges, but come back to this video in 15 years and then tell us how you feel. I’m sure you’ll find your perspective has shifted.
An assistant is no way in shape or form a cosmetologist, relax