Resolved to stay.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2024
- I can’t leave my chickens or cats. I will endure and do what I do. Garden, housekeeping tending to the animals. Xxx. Please bear with me. I ♥️ Ya’ll!! #backyardchickens #kalmbachfeeds #raisingchickens #firstsaturdaylime #hosstoolsseeds
Always wish the best for you. Make sure you have a plan in place for YOU. Saying this from experience. I understand what you are going through 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻. Hope you and all the critters have a great day.
@@paula...sister1of12 sadly, my plan is just keep my head down, take care of my babies and roll the dice.
It's great to hear you are continuing to have chickens and cats. Keep your health up. We got rain today.
@@shelleyknowles9773 we were supposed to to get rain. Last night through this evening. Nothing…I’m sad 😢
Hope everything settles down. It doesn't seem like it is a coincidence that this came up after the stroke. I understand wanting to stay and continue the life you have put 15 years into and your precious pets. He is lucky to have you and I hope he will come to his senses and appreciate you and realize he has made a mess and makes some changes. It sounds like he is being taken advantage of but doesn't see it. He needs to realize the grass isn't greener elsewhere--it's just different grass--it comes with the same troubles and complications life brings. I would likely do the same thing and stay and try to work through it. Just be sure to take care of yourself. Whatever you decide is best for you, I understand and respect.
A fall garden will be a good distraction. The garden and chickens help me with depression. Having something to plan and look forward to is helpful for me. Thinking of you and praying for better days ahead. Take care, friend!
one day at a time Be yourself best friend, it is helpful to me. It will work out❤
@@DawnShares thank you! ☺️
@@katesgardenchickencatrambl7680 welcome I know how it feels, I am heeling myself and it is not easy but do not lose hope.
It sounds like Paul's stroke triggered a mid life crisis, he's an old fool, especially for not seeing how damn blessed he is to have you in his life, hopefully as time goes on he will see his blessings and get over himself. Just keep listening to your heart and your gut instinct, they wont ever steer you wrong. Keep your head up high and do not for one second let Paul think he has power over you, even in your own private thoughts know without a doubt that you are a million times better than him in every way and because you do still want to get out of there some day I truly believe an opportunity will show up for you to leave when the timing is perfect for you. In the meantime have a back up plan in case you're blindsided by certain events like if Paul moves a mail order bride into the house or something just as ridiculous and you have to leave asap, it'll make you feel less anxious knowing you have a plan. If I ever come into a tonne of money I'll be sending you a load of it so you can get the mobile home and anything else you need to travel about and do whatever makes you happy : ) If Paul ever gets around to cleaning out one of the rooms, you could use one for your own private space for whatever, art and craft or a little library or a plant nursery for indoor plants , whatever you like! : ) But for now keep focusing on the things that make you happy and know its ok to have a good old cry every now and then , it'll keep your emotions balanced and help you feel refreshed, bottling up any stress and upset can lead to physical health problems so be sure to let it all out. You could use one of the cleared out rooms as a paul is being an A -hole room where you just smash plates and stuff to vent your frustration 😃it would be very cathartic lol I'm not making light of the situation, just trying to make you laugh 🙂 Keep on talking to your dear mum and God, they will help you through this, and i'm always here if you ever want to chat or vent about stuff, you have my email if you ever need it and you always have my friendship and support whatever you decide to do, now and in the future 🙂 Remember what the fox said in the book I sent... 💗 " You know, sometimes your mind plays tricks on you. It can tell you you're no good; that it's all hopeless. But I've discovered this: you are loved and important and you bring things to this world that no one else can. So, hold on. " 💗 Stay positive and Keep on keeping on!! better times are coming! 😘💖💖💖💖 P.s Laddie is so cute, I really want to kiss his beaky little face but I'm scared he'd peck me in the eye or something lol 😄🐓